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April 2, 2025 26 mins

Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.


This is the final episode of the Energetics of Winning series—and it might be the most important one yet.

Because we’re not talking about how to win. We’re talking about how to stop playing a game you were never meant to play: the game of not losing.

In this episode, I’m pulling the curtain back on the subtle, sneaky energy that keeps even the most successful women stuck. Not stuck in strategy. Not stuck in skills. Stuck in fear. Fear of failure, fear of disappointment, fear of being seen for what we really want—and possibly not getting it.

We’re breaking that all down today.


In this episode, we cover:

  • The hidden difference between playing to win and playing to not lose

  • How you can look wildly successful on the outside and still feel miserable inside

  • Why strategy doesn’t matter if your energy is misaligned

  • What it means to be a “10” in your life, and why most women are secretly choosing to live at a “6”


This episode isn’t just about mindset. It’s about identity. It’s about embodiment. It’s about walking through the world like a woman who knows who she is, what she wants, and what she’s here to create.


Watch now and learn how to:

  • Spot the energetic patterns that keep you performing instead of creating

  • Shift from survival mode to creator mode—without burning your life down

  • Take action from power, not panic, and stop gripping so tightly to control

  • Expand into the identity of a woman who wins because she plays full out—regardless of the outcome


If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “This looks like success… so why doesn’t it feel like it?”—this is your episode.

Because when you stop trying not to fail and start playing to win, your entire life changes. Not just your business. Not just your bank account. Your joy. Your relationships. Your health. Your you-ness.


And that’s why Business Therapy exists—because none of it matters if you’re miserable.


If this episode lit a fire in you, share it with someone who needs it, subscribe to the show, and get ready—because the best is yet to come.


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