Untoxicify Your Relationship

Betrayal cuts deep—but what if it’s part of God’s plan to get you to your next level? In this episode, I unpack the story of Judas betraying Jesus and reveal how betrayal can be prophetic, strategic, and purposeful.

You’ll learn how:

• Prophecy is fulfilled through the pain
• The enemy’s plan can’t override God’s purpose
• Betrayal might be the bridge to your kingdom partner

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Not every church is led by the Spirit of God—and just because a place has “church” on the sign doesn’t mean it’s safe for your soul. In this episode, we’re calling out the red flags of toxic church culture: when leadership is corrupt, when bigotry is disguised as righteousness, and when Scripture is twisted to fit man-made agendas. We’ll look at the example of King Saul and break down why you can’t get healthy teaching from a corru...

Toxic work environments can drain your energy, shake your confidence, and challenge your peace. But what if God is calling you to shake the dust off your feet and break free—mentally, emotionally, and even physically? In this episode, we’re diving into how to untangle yourself from toxic bosses, coworkers, and unhealthy workplace dynamics while staying true to your faith. We’ll explore biblical wisdom on authority, boundaries, and ...

In this episode, we explore what it truly means to honor a parent who has been toxic. Does honoring always mean obedience? How do you set boundaries while still respecting God’s command? We’ll break down biblical principles, practical steps, and emotional healing strategies to help you navigate a complex parent-child relationship with wisdom, grace, and strength.

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You can’t control your co-parent, but you can control you—and that’s where the real change happens. In this episode, we’re shifting the focus away from trying to fix a difficult co-parent and instead working on the one relationship that truly matters: your relationship with yourself and your child.

I’ll share five powerful ways to create a healthy, stable environment for your child—even if the other home isn’t as healthy as you’d li...

Healthy relationships don’t just happen—they’re built on a strong foundation. In this episode, we’re kicking off the Untoxicify Your (Blank) Relationship series by breaking down the 5 key pillars that every thriving relationship needs. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or already committed, these pillars will help you strengthen your connection, set healthier boundaries, and build a love that lasts. 

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Let’s be real—most of us have seen a red flag (or five) and tried to convince ourselves it wasn’t that bad. 🙃 But ignoring the warning signs can lead to way more heartache down the road. In this episode, we’re diving into some of the biggest red flags people overlook in relationships—like how they treat people, lack of accountability, and those sneaky manipulation tactics. I’ll break down why we tend to brush them off and how to s...

Have you ever found yourself side-eyeing someone else's relationship, wishing you had what they have? Or maybe you've felt a quiet tension with a friend because their success made you question your own? Jealousy, envy, and coveting often creep into our relationships, not because we truly lack something, but because comparison distorts how we see ourselves and others. In this episode, we’re unpacking the root of these emot...

Crazy faith is more than just believing—it’s choosing to do things God’s way, even when it doesn’t make sense to others. In this episode, I dive into what it really means to have crazy faith, how obedience, faith, and hope work together, and what might be holding you back from fully trusting God. I also share my personal journey of preparing for my husband—yes, even before he arrives—and how walking in faith can sometimes look craz...

Infidelity doesn’t just happen—it starts long before the betrayal. In this episode, we take a deep dive into the story of David and Bathsheba, uncovering how being out of alignment with God can open the door to temptation, deception, and destruction.

If you’ve ever wondered why people cheat—or how to guard yourself and your relationships—this episode is for you. Tune in now and learn how to stay aligned and avoid the pitfalls of unf...

In this episode, we’re diving into a conversation that many Christians wrestle with—how do you know if God actually told you something or if it’s just your emotions talking? I’ll break down the difference between God’s voice and emotional desire, how to recognize bad fruit in relationships, and what true spiritual discernment looks like. If you've ever been told, “God said you’re my person”—or maybe you’ve thought that about s...

Today, I'm a guest on The Beautiful Living Show with Keisa Campbell, and I had the privilege of discussing what it means to date 'The Kingdom Way.' We explored how to approach relationships with faith at the center, standing firm in God’s principles rather than conforming to societal norms. From understanding your purpose to honoring God in your choices, this conversation highlights the beauty and intentionality behi...

What’s the difference between authentic love and counterfeit love? In this episode, we uncover how to recognize relationships that align with God’s design versus those that may look good on the surface but fail to bear good fruit. Through biblical examples like Delilah, Jezebel, and Judas, contrasted with authentic relationships like Abigail and Jesus, we explore the traits of true love and how to discern God’s will in your connect...

In this episode, we explore how your relationship with God influences the way you connect with others. From the foundations of faith to the transformative power of therapy, discover how spiritual growth and emotional healing go hand in hand. Learn how building a stronger relationship with God can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections and why seeking therapy is a vital step in overcoming past wounds and creating thriving re...

Happy New Year! As we step into 2025, there’s only one resolution you truly need: aligning with God and His will. In this episode, I’ll share four practical ways to align with God and explain how obedience can unlock the blessings He has in store for your life. Let’s start this year with purpose and faith!

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In this milestone episode, I reflect on the first 50 episodes of the podcast, celebrating the lessons learned along the way. Join me as I explore the importance of following God and how His strength empowers us to remain consistent, even in tough times. Whether you’re a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode offers inspiration and encouragement to deepen your faith and commitment. Tune in for a powerful reminder of the ...

In this episode, Melissa unravels the mystery of forgiveness and its hidden power to reshape relationships. What if letting go of past hurts is the key to unlocking deeper connections? Discover the surprising benefits of embracing forgiveness and learn practical strategies to release grudges and foster harmony. Tune in to find out how this essential skill can be your secret weapon for thriving relationships!

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In this empowering podcast, Melissa explores the transformative journey from heartbreak to healing. Join Melissa as she dives into personal stories and biblical insights that reveal how to rediscover your identity in Christ after a breakup. Tune in and embark on a journey of redemption and self-discovery!

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In a world filled with dating dilemmas and relationship red flags, how do you know when you're on the right track? Join Melissa in this enlightening episode as she dives into the often-overlooked signs of a healthy partnership—those shimmering green flags that signal emotional safety, mutual respect, and genuine connection.

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