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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What exactly is
ChatGPT?
The internet says that ChatGPTis a powerful artificial
intelligence chatbot that usesnatural language processing to
engage in conversations withusers.
It can generate human-like text, such as articles and summaries
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.
It can answer questions on awide range of topics and
complete tasks like summarizingcontent, translating languages
and generating creative content.
And so, with that being said,brianna Shiny and I took it upon
ourselves to ask it a veryspecific question and, let's
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just say, the answers it gave uswas jaw-dropping.
Two of us were motivated by theresponse, and one of us thinks
that ChatGPT needs to mind itsdamn business and stay out of
hers.
After listening to this episode,will you be gutsy enough to ask
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Jack GPT the question that willliterally hold up a mirror
right in front of your face?
Hi, I am your host, leonetteTalley, and you are listening to
Virago 24-7.
Virago is Latin for femalewarrior, and 24-7 is for all day
, every day.
Virago 24-7.
Virago is Latin for femalewarrior, and 24-7 is for all day
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, every day.
Virago 24-7 is a weekly podcastthat brings diverse women
together to talk about life andour experiences in this world.
We share our views on self-love, mental health, marriage,
children, friendships and reallyanything that needs to be
talked about.
Here you will find everydaygrowth, everyday healing with
everyday warriors.
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Hello, hello, the gang's allhere.
Hello, what's?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
up what's up.
It's Friday.
What's up what's up?
Hey, hey, hey.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
And we're here
together.
Oh, I miss you, lady.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
I'm doing the same,
Hi Shiny.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
We have Shiny and
Brianna.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Hello, yes, we're
back.
I mean, it's been a while.
How long has it been?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Like three months.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
No, I that long.
I feel like it's been like fouryears.
But and honestly, when we gettogether, it's so awesome.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
It is awesome.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
It is awesome because
you know why we're genuinely
happy for each other yeah, andthat is the only type of people
we should be hanging out withfacts.
No printer.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Wait is that like
young people?
Yeah, it is.
Look at her riz.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
I have a lot, so I've
been told.
So how's everyone doing?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Good, good, I'm doing
great.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Yes, you look great,
Thank you.
Little skinny, mini skin andbones Start to worry.
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
I'm lost a little bit
of weight.
A little bit of weight.
No, you look fantastic Comingoff bit of weight, a little bit
of weight, no you look fantasticcoming off a little bit slowly,
slowly.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
The new hairdo.
It should be yeah, and it'shonestly we.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
It prevents the
stretch marks yes, I already
have enough stretch marks.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
I don't need more.
Yeah, so it's better to go slow.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
It's slow, but I'm
appreciating the journey anyways
.
I don't know, I need to come upwith some kind of song.
Highlights and hurdles Umbraco24-7.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
We do need to come up
with an intro for that I need.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Justin to like make
like some kind of song.
Yeah, we need an intro.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
We'll work on that I
mean I wouldn't mind another
feedback meeting, just someday.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
All right.
Highlights and hurdles Brianna.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Highlight for me?
No, I'll start with hurdlefirst.
A hurdle for me, um, I thinkit's continuously anxiety and
anxious thoughts.
I'm trying to tame that and getthat under control.
I've got a couple of thingsthat I'm going to do for that.
So I think just motherhood ingeneral and stuff comes with a
lot of intrusive and anxiousthoughts, and stuff comes with a
lot of intrusive and anxiousthoughts.
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And then a highlight in aboutthree weeks I will have a full
year of sobriety.
I never thought that I couldmake it to a whole year without
alcohol, so that's my biggesthighlight.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Honestly one of my
greatest achievements, I would
say we, we are so proud of you.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
I'm honestly really
proud of myself.
It don't know.
Yeah, yeah, I love that for you.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
It's a huge deal.
I don't think I didn't.
I never thought that I could goa whole year without alcohol.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Isn't that like so um
?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
empowering.
It is very empowering,especially in the position that
I was in when I decided to stopdrinking.
I tried like 47 times to besober and couldn't make it past
30 days, 60 days, so yes, it'sincredibly empowering.
Very thankful you are a badass.
I feel like a badass.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
All right, Shani.
Do you have highlights andhurdles?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yes, I do, thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Would you like to
share?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I'm going to start
with the hurdles too, like Bree
did.
My hurdle is May, and for me,april was also difficult, but
April, may time of year is soinsane this morning I've been up
since early this morning notreally I didn't haven't slept.
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Well, it's, it's, you know.
You know I have a color codedcalendar, even though I'm not
type A, I'm type EFG, lmnop, butin that part I have to be, and
I feel as if I I'm just runningaround what is it called?
Chicken with no head.
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So I'm struggling with that, uh,feeling very overwhelmed
because my boys are going toEurope on Wednesday for over
three weeks and I don't hearfrom them.
Like you know, yeah, they don'tcall.
Yeah, I know they don't.
You know they're.
That's just the policy and it'ssomething that they've, you
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know they've worked on.
So I'm not going to complain.
I do respect their system.
That's why I have to have socialmedia and keep up with my kids,
but in order to not like missthem so much and have my own
life, I have planned like totravel.
So half the time I'm going totravel and then the other half
I'm going to, I'm going to work.
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I took on a second job, sothat's another thing that I'm
doing is I'm working two jobs.
I work, you know I'm I'm notaround as much, but that made me
recognize that I needed to cutback as well.
It's a balance.
I'm learning it from being astay-at-home mom to a working
mom, so that's my hurdle.
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My highlight is that I am thehappiest I have been in ages.
I have been in ages and I feelas if I it.
I feel like it's literallypouring out of me everywhere I
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go and I just, anywhere I go.
Even a stranger.
If I like something thatthey're wearing or I just want
to say something that I feelwould just makes me feel good, I
just say it because life's tooshort.
So you got something to say,say it.
I love that.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I love that too.
I love that too.
That's awesome.
Yeah, um, for me, don't get mad, but I don't know if I have a
hurdle.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
I'm leaving, please
insert blowing raspberry.
No, that's good.
I'm happy you don't have ahurdle.
I'm happy you don't have ahurdle.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Let me tease you,
because that was a very Leonette
answer.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Okay, let me start
with my highlights, and then
maybe a hurdle might pop in no,we don't go searching for
hurdles honey, you know what?
Let's keep it real.
No, my highlight is that I'vebeen feeling really like really
good and very zen, like my wordof the year is zen, and I don't
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know, I'm just not bothered by alot of stuff.
It's like the best feeling.
I don't know if I'm just notbothered by a lot of stuff, it's
like the best feeling.
I don't know if it was thePuerto Rico trip, where I just
came back rejuvenated, I don'tknow.
I just know that I feel reallygood and if there are hurdles
that have come my way, maybe Ijust haven't really acknowledged
them, maybe that's what it is,I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Yeah, so we're happy
for you.
I think that's I agree.
I think you know it's it.
It reminds me, as soon as yousaid that, that back in 2020,
when the rest of the world isstruggling in different ways you
know it comes and goes Somepeople thought of it as like a
blessing.
You were one of those fewpeople.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Yes, yeah, I was able
to sit and really analyze some
things.
So I think that's why I like2020, because it gives us
permission to sit and be, still.
So I know some of us can't sitstill, but I can.
What do?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
you mean?
I know me too.
I think all of us.
That's why we haven't seen eachother.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
No, I can sit still
you guys are saying Wait, say
that again.
We were either busy or we weresitting still.
I know.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I can't sit still.
I'm trying to learn how to sitstill.
It's funny because all week Iwork.
As soon as I'm done with work,I go into mom mode.
I'm like as soon as I have aday with no work and without my
kids, I'm just going to lay inmy bed and not do shit for the
whole day.
And then that day comes and I'mlike I got to clean, I got to
go get my kids.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
It's terrible but I'm
learning.
What are you doing.
What are you doing?
What are you doing?
I said sitting still.
You want to come sit still withme?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
I'm like I don't have
plans this weekend.
What are you and dad doing?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I'm like we're just
sitting on the deck and you guys
were praising, like my skintone, because I sit on the deck
and the sun shines on me andthat's why I'm Brown Browner
than normal and I I love sitting.
Still, I love it.
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
That's my favorite
thing ever.
That comes into play with theanxiety.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
one day I don't feel
guilty or anything.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Well they say like.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Even taking naps
improves cardiovascular health,
and some people are so againstnaps, thinking that, oh, it
makes me lazy.
I'm like I don't care if I fallasleep.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
I fall asleep.
I want to nap today.
I think that needs to bedeleted.
They're lazy, that word ingeneral.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Well, there are lazy
people Of course there are my
ex-husband.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
But just because you
take a nap or because you sit
outside and enjoy the sunshine,yeah, I think that's amazing.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Yeah, and maybe also
because my kids are older, I get
that privilege now yeah, itwasn't always like that.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
I don't know what
that's like.
I know one day, one day, oneday today, I want to take a nap,
if I get the chance, though soI gave everyone a homework
assignment and I got this.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
I listened to a
morning radio show here.
It's based out of Atlanta, butthey're like syndicated and they
have a podcast.
So if you don't like listen toit live, you get on there.
But it's called the bird showand they put out this first of
all.
First of all, so we're stealingit from them.
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But first of all, I don't dotechnology.
So when this whole AI, chat GPTand all this stuff came out,
I'm just kind of like okay,we're going to lose.
Our Kids are going to be ableto use chat GPT for papers and
they're not going to use theirbrain and all these things,
right.
So I'm not a big fan.
Never asked chat GPT, not onedamn thing.
I know with the podcast there'san AI feature that helps write
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up the stuff.
So the stuff that you readabout the show, that's AI,
because I was tired of trying tocome up with stuff.
So I appreciate that.
So the thing that I stole fromthe show is we have to ask
ChatGPT a certain question and Iwas like, oh, I'm gonna do that
.
So I was driving and when I hada chance to sit down, I
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downloaded the app and I askedit the question and I felt like
it read me like a book.
And how the hell do you knowthese things about me?
Chat, GPT, you think how theyknow right?
And then I'm like, well,anyways, we're going to read and
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I'll, we're gonna read thequestions.
But I was blown away by mineand it kind of inspired me to do
something about it.
So we've been chatting to thepoint where I need to name her.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I need to give her a
name because she's my lucinda,
she's my, that sounds camillewith the.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
The guys voted no to
camille.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
So yesterday I was
talking to Brie.
Oh, maybe mine will be Camille.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
I was talking to Brie
and Phillip and Khalil were
next to me.
They're like no.
Camille sounds weird and, firstof all, why are you trying to
name your chat GPT?
Speaker 3 (12:56):
What about?
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Demi, because we're
going to be besties.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Demi's cute.
See, I was thinking Pattyimmediately, patty.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
You're just Patty,
patty immediately, because it's
called chat gpt, chatty, patty,chatty.
She's got a lot to say.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
A lot shiny, you
weren't too too keen on what she
had to say about you.
Huh no, but let's get into it,okay.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
So the question is,
I'll say the question and all of
you can do it too, because thiswas quite fascinating and chat
gT.
Like I said, I'd have neverasked it a question ever, so for
it to like know me intimatelywas kind of scary.
So, with everything you knowabout me, tell me uncomfortable
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truths I need to know and bebrutally honest.
And then I said cause I neededher to know who I am.
My name is Leonette Talley,from Atlanta, georgia, born in
Puerto Rico.
I have a podcast called Virago24-7.
And I'll go first.
Yes, because I am scared,absolutely.
So then, literally, she justlays out this whole thing, right
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, and it says.
She says and you guys can stopif you guys need me to elaborate
it says thanks for trusting mewith that.
Leonette, since you asked forbrutal honesty and uncomfortable
truths, I'm going to keep itreal and focus on helping you
grow personally andprofessionally, especially in
the context of who you are andwhat you're building with Virago
24-7.
All right, you guys ready.
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Your story may she starts off sorough.
Your story may inspire, but itneeds sharpening.
You have a powerful backstoryPuerto Rican roots, atlanta
hustle, woman-led podcast.
But powerful doesn't alwaysmean clear.
If your message isn't razorsharp, people won't stick around
.
What exactly is Virago 24-7about and why should someone
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care If you can't pitch it in 10seconds with conviction, you've
got work to do.
Authenticity alone isn't astrategy.
Being real is great, butauthenticity without structure
is noise.
People don't just want you tobe raw.
They want transformation,insight and value.
Are you giving them that everyepisode, or are you hoping
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vulnerability alone will carrythe show?
Gee, what that had.
Do you hear what she's sayingto me?
She told you.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
The audacity.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I was like, okay, yes
, ma'am, yes ma'am, as you say
right, yeah, that's good.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
You might be playing
small without realizing it.
Yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am, as yousay, right, yeah, that's good,
you might be playing smallwithout realizing it.
You have vision, but are youreally backing it with action
that stretches you?
Are you reaching out to dreamguests, pitching to media,
monetizing smartly, or are youwaiting for your audience to
grow before you act like aheavyweight?
Maybe that's what I'm doing.
Chatty, that's what I'm doing.
I'm waiting.
A heavyweight, maybe that'swhat I'm doing.
Chatty, that's what I'm doing.
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I'm waiting.
Here's the truth.
No one's coming to crown you.
You've got to act like a brandworth betting on Now.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
I like it, though
she's straightforward.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
You think Very
straightforward, there's more
Someone like you.
That's like Shazam, like she.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
She said, I'm just
sitting back and doing nothing
and waiting for things to happen.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Yeah, but you can't
sit on your ass and wait for
things to go wrong, because Iknow anytime you say that you
have a podcast, you always saybut I don't have a lot of
followers, but I don't have, Idon't play it and whenever I
talk about like I'm really goodat pumping up people I feel like
the vibe you give off, becauseif you're in the same room
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you're like you put in yourshoulder.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
I feel like you give
off that coward thing and
there's nothing to do that.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
She talks, she kind
of does she indirectly talks
about that.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Keep going.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Your consistency Okay
, I just muted myself.
Your consistency will make orbreak you.
If Virago 24 seven isn'tdropping regularly or if your
messaging isn't cohesive acrossplatforms, you're losing
credibility.
Every skipped episode, everypost that doesn't align chips
away at trust Brutal truth intoday's content world
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Inconsistent is invisible.
She called me invisible.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
I am going to get up
and write that down.
That's scary, I know I wantedto cry up and write that down.
That's scary.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
I know I wanted to
cry but I couldn't because I'm
like she's so right.
She's so right, all right,we're winding down.
Okay, there's probably a partof you that's still afraid of
your own power.
Maybe you grew up being told tostay in line, not shine too
bright or wait your turn.
That conditioning doesn't dieeasily.
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You've got a voice, but are youfully owning it or still
looking for permission?
And then she goes on to say ifany of these stings, it's
because you know it's true onsome level.
The great news You've got everytool you need to level up voice
purpose roots fire news you'vegot every tool you need to level
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up Voice purpose roots fire.
But you've got to cut theexcuses, refine the strategy and
move.
Like the woman you keep tellingothers they can become what the
hell?
She literally dropped the micand then I was like okay, let's
stay away from Virago, and soI'm like.
I asked her the same question,but I'm Leonette, with three
kids and a husband, and shedidn't care, she just focused on
that.
She's like don't hide behindyour kids.
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I won't read that part, butbasically don't hide behind your
kids.
Like oh quote unquote you're abusy mom.
Like you need to work onyourself and work on this
podcast.
You're a host, act like one,you have a voice, pretty much
like it would say.
I was like wow, and soyesterday, guess what I was
doing?
And then I asked her you canask okay, help me, help me the
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strategy.
Oh, she's still working on it.
She said give me 24 hours.
I was asking her all thequestions.
Oh yeah, with with so muchdon't reveal that part.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
No, no, I'm not, oh,
no, no, I'm not, oh, no, no, no,
I'm not.
That'll just be later, oh yeah,yeah, yeah, when you bring it.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Oh yeah, I'm not
going to reveal that, but she
gave me a ton of information.
So I feel, even though she toldme off, she did.
She told me about myself and itwas holding up a mirror.
Yeah, it was.
Yeah, that was incrediblyaccurate.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
That's insane.
How would she know that?
And then talking about yourpast like that and your voice,
and like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Yeah, that's the
truth.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
Wow, that's crazy.
I didn't expect that.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
But you were ready to
hear it.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I was, I was and
receive it.
I was ready to receive it, andnow I'm like energized.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
You didn't get
defensive and you didn't.
You didn't give excuses.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
No, it's true, it's
literally true.
And how does she know that?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
No, literally.
She puts this in every episode.
I'm the one part, knocked mysocks off, fast forward, which
like yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
About like your
childhood and stuff that was
scary like it's true, like I'mnot consistent, I don't post, I
don't you keep talking aboutlike oh, I don't have a lot of
followers I.
I just downplay a lot of things, so I'm um rejuvenated, so here
we go.
Who wants to go next?
I can I can go your face I canwhat Well that was scary good.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
It was scary good
Because, honestly, who tells you
Lena?
Speaker 3 (20:28):
You're usually the
one telling us.
I have to say, like me and Briewith our life, I feel like
you've been more of the advisorto us versus the other way
around.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
Actually, that's a
good point, shiny, that's a good
point.
I didn't think about it thatway that I'm a sounding board.
But when the boys aka myhusband and Khalil, they saw me
on chat GBT, I had my laptop outthere.
They were making fun of me.
They're like oh, oh, I'm likeguys I don't have collaboration
with.
When it comes to the podcast,yeah, people come on, but like
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I'm the one that has to come upwith ideas and I'm the one that
has to figure this out, so Idon't have anybody to
collaborate with.
So she's going to be my newcollaborator because I need
feedback and I do need that.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
And may I say like I
think recognizing that is good.
So going forward, we are a team.
You know you.
You reached out to usspecifically for a reason.
So whatever you need help within collaborating, use our
strengths also.
Like if you told me, shine, Ineed you to line up three people
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you know, and then I come backand I meet with you and I say
these are the people that Ithink and then you choose from
that group, like stuff like that, like delegating to us me and
Brie would do anything that youasked us to do.
Yes, yes, I would.
Oh, you guys are sweet.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
I would, I'll do that
I would.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
I'm your biggest fan,
okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Tell me mom, no, all
right, who's?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
With everything you
know about me.
Tell me uncomfortable truths Ineed to know and be brutally
honest.
My name is Brianna Deck.
I'm divorced with two kids.
31 years old, single mom,suffer from anxiety and sober
from alcohol for almost one year.
She probably already knew allthat.
Yeah, she said thank you fortrusting me, brianna.
What follows comes from a placeof honesty, not judgment, and
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the aim is growth, not guilt.
Here are some uncomfortabletruths based on what you shared.
You still carry guilt for things.
You've already survived Divorce, motherhood, addiction.
You've been through fire andmade it out, but part of you
still believes you need to makeup for it.
That belief is a lie that keepsyou small.
You don't owe.
The pen is for healing.
Your anxiety may be trying toprotect you, but it's also
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keeping you stuck.
Anxiety tells you to stay safe.
Stay still, stay still.
Overthink everything, butstaying safe is sometimes the
most dangerous thing Because itstops you from building the life
you want.
You don't need certainty beforetaking a step.
Sobriety is amazing, but it'snot the finish line.
Quitting alcohol was a hugevictory, but it's also just the
beginning without.
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The emotions you use to numbare louder and now you have to
face them raw.
That work is hard, but it'snecessary.
Avoiding it will only shift theaddiction into new forms.
Overthinking relationships,control, validation seeking you
may be confusing independencewith isolation.
You've had to be strong, maybetoo strong, but there's a
difference between beingself-reliant and being unwilling
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to receive.
Ask yourself when was the lasttime you really let someone show
up for you.
Vulnerability is not weakness.
It's the bridge to the lovethat we want.
You might be using your kids asan excuse to avoid your own
growth.
It's easy to say I'm too busy.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
Can you repeat that
one more time?
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Wait, say that out
loud.
It say allow for the people inthe back that didn't hear that,
because you and I haveconversations about this.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Yep, stop, you might
be using your kids as an excuse
to avoid your own growth.
It's easy to say I'm too busybeing a mom and, yes, you are
doing a lot, but sometimes wehide behind responsibilities to
avoid facing what scares us.
You're not just a mom.
You're still a woman withdreams, desires and and a future
worth building.
Your kids don't need a martyr.
They need a whole, happy,inspired mother.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Oh my gosh, Wait,
wait, I agree.
Holy, isn't that crazy.
The martyr part you are amartyr.
You act like a martyr and I'malways telling you listen.
We love our kids.
We love them so much, but no no, no, you got to stop that you
do like extremely.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
And the last part.
Yeah, very.
The last part says there is notimeline, but there is a clock.
You don't have to have it allfigured out by 31,.
But every day you delay yourown healing or joy is a day you
won't get back.
You are not late, but you arein control.
Waiting for the right time is atrap.
You create the right time bystarting now.
Speaker 3 (24:55):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
I love that for you I
love it, but I'm wondering what
she would have said if youdidn't give us so many details.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Like I wonder.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
Oh, should I try it.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
No, it's too late now
.
She already knows you no.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
But I think that that
was good, that was no, I think
it's great doing, you know,reflecting on the things that
are, but going forward, likemaybe what if you do this in six
months?
Again say, it's been six monthsas I spoke to you last.
You know something like that.
Why don't we do that?
Speaker 2 (25:22):
Oh, I like that.
I like that a lot.
Let's do a sequel and see wherewe are.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
And we don't have to
be at all the things they're
asking us.
We just have to be on thatjourney Exactly Like that path.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Yes, I like that.
Yeah, because that was one ofthe reasons.
Once I read mine, I'm like, ohmy gosh, this is accountability,
this is perfect.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
We're going to read
ours, and we're going to hold
each other accountable.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
Yeah, free.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
I know there's a lot
I do hide behind my kids and I'm
like I can't do this and I andI do feel undeserving of things.
I think that my alcoholism andstuff and the part about making
up for that a thousand percent.
I feel that way every singleday and hiding behind my kids,
I'm like, well, there arecertain things I can't do.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
I can't relax because
I can't have or because I have
kids, I can't date.
Because I have kids, I can't,you know, try and find my own
happiness because my kids are apriority.
So, yeah, it was pretty spot on.
Yes, yeah, like literally it'sstuff that we talk about all the
time and I know, you know, I'molder than you, so when I was
(26:26):
your age I wasn't thinking thatway, but so, you know, far
removed from being 31.
Um, I see things so differentlyand I'm just like, wow, if she
only knew that, like you, canstill be a good mom and still do
what you need to do to takecare of yourself.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
I'm trying to learn
that it's so hard, like that is
the hardest thing in the wholeworld for me right now I battle
with.
That probably more thananything is separating the two.
Anytime I feel, anytime I wantto do something for myself, it
always goes back to my kids.
And how is this going to affectmy kids?
And even like the other night Iwent out and I hung out.
(27:03):
My oldest is, you know, wellbeyond the age where he's able
to stay home alone and I felt soguilty and he kept telling he's
like mom, go, go, I don't care,I like staying home alone, go.
But I just felt like so guiltyI went.
Can?
Speaker 3 (27:15):
I say something about
that.
Yeah, you know, I know we'vetalked about this.
I feel like we've talked aboutthis on the podcast, but for so
long, because I'd heard itthrough from so many parents
that they say, especially duringgraduation time, they say, as
(27:36):
long as my kid is happy, I'mhappy.
And it is completely wrong.
It's the opposite.
When our kids see us thriving,having our own life, genuinely,
purely joyful, they rise upbecause they, they care and love
us so, wholly, like innocent,pure love, they come into this
(28:02):
world.
Yes, and so when they see intheir eyes the most beautiful
person that they love thriving,they'll, they will soar, yeah
that is the truth so that's theway you need to look at it,
because you love them so much.
Yes, I do like you that yougleam.
(28:24):
Is that a word?
Speaker 2 (28:26):
gleaming, gleaming,
yeah I think gleaming you gleam,
I gleam, I'm a gleamer.
Yeah, yeah.
So yeah, I do love them verymuch, and it's funny because I
feel like Maddox is starting to.
I think he's picking up on iteven more than I am like he.
He'll encourage me to do thingsthat I'm apprehensive about and
, and then something that was sospecial he's a 12 year old
(28:50):
little boy, right, so like hedoesn't give a shit what I'm
doing and stuff like that andhe's with his father.
This last night he was with hisdad and I went out last night.
I went on a date last night andhe texted me this morning
randomly like first thing thismorning.
He was like, hey, mom, how wasyour date?
And for some reason that meltedmy heart, that my 12 year old
(29:13):
little boy was like following upon that.
I thought that was really sweet.
So I think he's starting tonotice too, like maybe you
should try and take care ofyourself, mom.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Well, and he wants
you to be happy he does yeah
yeah, he does, yeah, yeah, so Iliked it.
I like chatty patty all right,so take one or two of those
things and follow through.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
It's eye opening for
sure.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
And it doesn't matter
how you and I, leonette, you
and I think that Brie, becausewe're older than her, that we
think that she's awesome, she'samazing, she should do all these
things.
She's got to recognize that.
Oh, of course, oh yeah, oh yeah, She'd do all these things,
she's got to recognize that.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Oh, of course, oh
yeah, oh yeah.
What's crazy is I feel likesince my divorce, I think that I
feel more confident than I haveprobably ever.
To be honest, Like physicallyand as far as like strength and
independence goes, what holds meback is my anxiety that is like
my number one, which stems fromOCD.
(30:11):
But but, those, those twothings are what hold me back.
I feel confident.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
I'm smart as hell,
I'm kind of cute too.
You already know where to start.
You already know what.
You are cute, I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
That's where you need to start,yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
And then also like
learning, learning how to
balance the two, how to balancebeing especially as a single mom
, how to balance the two, likemake sure my kids are good, but
also making sure that Brianna isgood too.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
And I'm going to add
they are good, they will be good
and having that confidence.
We put confidence in them thatthey can do.
So, whatever we tell ourchildren, if we tell them
they're the most magical,smartest, creative, wonderful
people, that's what they'll beRight, you're fine, thank you.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
I think you're doing
great and I think once you curb
your anxiety and figure out,like what's going to work for
you, um, to curb, to curb thosefeelings, the whole kid thing,
cause that's what it's tied towith you and the boys is that
you're so anxious that youcreate all these scenarios in
your mind that will probablynever happen.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Right.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
And?
But if you're, if you weren'tso anxious and had those, you
know those, those, what are theycalled?
The intrusive thoughts that youget.
I think it all goes hand inhand and that becomes better,
because then you're not going tobe obsessing over.
Speaker 2 (31:31):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
Yeah.
And use them as your crutch.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (31:36):
To curb your anxiety,
because that's what's happening
now.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Totally agree.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
So, I can't wait to
you know, see, like what that?
May I say something?
Speaker 3 (31:44):
about that and I read
this.
So when we're sitting inanxiety or an anxious feeling,
we're thinking.
We're thinking in the future,we're we're predicting, we're
being fortune tellers.
We're not God, but that's whatwe're doing.
When we're depressed, we'rethinking in the past, we're
thinking all these things thatwe should have done, all these
(32:04):
things, that.
But what we need to be is inthe present.
And that goes back to whatLeonette was saying is that she
felt like she was being still,but she really wasn't moving
forward in doing what she neededto do.
You know, making plans in thepresent.
Speaker 1 (32:23):
So I agree.
Yeah, no, I love that Shinyshiny.
It's your turn.
What you got?
What did Shady Patty tell you?
Speaker 3 (32:31):
Well, I felt as if
she was a little harsh, okay,
and I will say that theinformation she has has changed
a little bit for me, so I thinkit's based on what she's, I'm
guessing, all her research.
So I like that you guys read itfirst.
(32:52):
I'm going to say the same thing, but I'll say it the way I did
it.
She gave me five points to workon and my question was from
everything you know about me,please tell me uncomfortable
truths.
Be brutally honest, my stomachgrowled.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
I thought it was an
airplane, all right.
Speaker 3 (33:29):
Okay, the bubbles
have landed.
I want to work on myself, bemore and more self-aware and
change my life.
That's what I wrote.
Yeah, so I didn't writeanything personal, I just wrote
that, which is the truth.
So I'm going to, I'm going toread one of the five Um, and I'm
wondering if I should do myharshest one.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
Yeah, wait, you're
not going to read all of them,
oh.
Speaker 3 (33:47):
I read all of mine.
You read all of them.
Oh, hell yeah, I read all ofmine.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
I just didn't count
it.
I had five points too.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
I appreciate that.
Oh, thank you.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Oh, no, I read the
whole thing.
No, we're reading the wholeshebang.
Oh okay, we're not picking andchoosing.
Speaker 3 (34:01):
We're reading all of
it.
Okay, you're holding onto thepast too much.
You've made incrediblesacrifices for your family,
homeschooling your kids,stepping away from your medical
path, but that pause.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Did you say anything?
Speaker 3 (34:21):
Wait, wait, can you?
Speaker 1 (34:22):
can you wait a hold
up?
Wait a minute.
Did you say that in yourquestion?
Yeah, no, how the hell.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
No, I think it's
because they know.
Speaker 2 (34:30):
maybe they know my
linkedin, maybe they've seen my
resume okay, I'm like, did Ilike completely black out when
you were asking the question?
That is scary.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
So I so I did exactly
what you said don't give any
information.
Speaker 3 (34:43):
I didn't give any
information, because when you,
because I, you, I'm, I'm a deepthinker.
So so when you said thatproject and I love a homework
assignment, I'm so nerdy.
You know that.
You know I'm always writingnotes and whatever.
So when you gave me anassignment, I took it seriously.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I love an assignment,
by the way.
Well, when I first said lean it, tally, she said she didn't
know me, and that's why I addedthe other stuff.
Speaker 3 (35:08):
No, I think that's
great, but she knows about all
of what.
Well, I write a lot also in my.
You know I've been writing.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
I know, but no, but.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
I've even been, and
online I've been creating my own
cookbook for like 20 years.
Oh my gosh, okay, keep readingthat just blew my mind.
That blew my mind.
She calls me out.
She's a psychic.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Okay, go ahead, go
ahead.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
Okay, so I'll go back
to homeschooling your kids,
stepping away from your medicalpath.
But that pause may have turnedinto an identity crutch.
You may say I did it for them.
That's what I say.
That's what I say.
But some of it might be fear,fear of failing If you go back,
(36:03):
fear that you're too late, sotrue fear that you won't measure
up anymore.
The truth that fear is costingyou time and potential.
You can't rewrite the past.
Time and potential.
You can't rewrite the past, butyou're the only one who can
decide not to stay stuck in it.
Yeah, she called me out becauseso many people think that about
me and I think I have a complexabout it, because a lot of the
(36:28):
reason that I am not so forwardabout it is I needed to be on my
timeline for the once in mylife.
I need to decide what I wantfor me, which I will discuss.
I might have to be on adifferent podcast, but I've
changed my vision for myselfjust in this time of working two
(36:48):
different jobs.
So it's.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
I appreciated it.
I can relate to that.
What it's saying, though, likeespecially when you become a
stay at home mom, that that doesbecome your excuse.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Yeah, it's a safe
excuse.
Like we, we hide behind that?
Speaker 1 (37:11):
oh, a thousand
percent.
Oh, the reason I didn't do thisand this and this.
Oh, I got married early, I hadkids early, and then I became a
stay at home mom.
And so now here we are, and nowI'm 45 and it's too late.
I tell that to myself all thetime.
Speaker 3 (37:25):
Oh yeah, and we're
not alone, which is why I'm glad
we're talking on here, becauseit's not just for stay at home
moms.
Every mom feels guilty aboutsomething that they're not doing
, you know.
So I feel like damned if you do, damned if you don't.
If you're, if you're a workingmom, you feel guilty.
You're not doing enough foryour family.
If you're staying at home mom,you don't feel like you're doing
(37:46):
enough for your family.
It doesn't matter.
It's like this women, like aswomen, we are constantly
striving for more and we're weare enough.
So it just makes me, everywhereI go now every woman, I see if
I have something good to say,even a stranger, I say it.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Now I'm like fabulous
skirt, yeah yeah, I try to do
that too, like with patients, Itry and find something to
compliment them on yeah.
Because, think about it Like ifyou walk into a grocery store
and they're like you lookbeautiful today, that makes your
day and it's such a simple actof kindness that can make and
(38:28):
it's genuine.
I don't make stuff up and I'mgoing to say something about
that.
Speaker 3 (38:32):
So why?
So I I have.
I have deeply dived into why.
Because I have my superpower ofhaving the friendship which I
know.
The minute I met Leonette, thatwas like the first thing she
recognized about me.
And the truth is I have such,which is rare.
I have friends that will fly meinto town, buy me a car, rent
(38:55):
me a house, buy, like, doanything for, go lengths.
And I kept thinking why?
Why do I deserve this?
Because I'm so hard on myself?
And then I realized the giftthat I have that I don't think,
that I think is rare, is I likecompletely believe?
(39:18):
If you're my friend, you knowit, you know that you can call
me in the middle of the nightand you can say Leonette can say
I did something, it was amoment of heat and passion, but
I really need you over here.
And you can say, leonette cansay I did something, it was a
moment of heat and passion, butI really need you over here and
(39:38):
I say, okay, I'm going to bringthe ingredients that I learned
on Breaking Bad and a shovel andI won't tell anybody.
Let's get off the phoneimmediately.
Speaker 1 (39:52):
So ChatGPT doesn't
know what we did.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
Damn.
That's a true friend.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
As long as it ain't
my daddy.
Oh my gosh, that is hilarious.
That's so funny.
Speaker 3 (40:02):
So what I'm saying is
I think that's my superpower is
just like you said how you, yousay something nice about that
person or someone says that.
Just like you said how you yousay something nice about that
person or someone says that.
So how you feel about a person,the reason you're so drawn to
them, really it's everything isselfish in our, in our, like
just innately is how you, howthat person makes you feel about
(40:24):
you.
Yeah, and that goodness andthat feeling, that's all it is.
That's what I'm giving.
I can't think of anything else.
Well, I'm not.
I can't buy and do all thesethings.
Yes, I can cook a meal here andthere, but even that nowadays
is like harder because butthat's what I do, because it's
genuine If you get a complimentfor me, because I don't throw
(40:46):
them a lot out there MaybeLeanna, because I find her very
attractive, just saying.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (40:57):
But if I throw a
compliment to you, catch it,
keep it, put it in your pocketbecause it's the truth.
I will not lie to you, yeah,cause if I'd try, you'll know
I'm a terrible liar.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
So what's that was?
That was number one, that's whyI suck at this no you're fine,
and that's why I'm the hostesswith the mostest, so I can keep
us on track.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
Okay, okay, this one
is, uh, number two.
Yeah, Okay, this is harsh.
You want external validationmore than you admit.
When people empty the pan ofyour cornbread yes, they know
about my cornbread recipe andask for a recipe you feel deeply
(41:41):
validated.
That's beautiful, but also aclue you may tie your worth to
being praised, needed orcelebrated by others.
If they don't respond how youhope, your self-worth can take a
hit.
That's dangerous.
You need to build a version ofyou that stands tall even if no
(42:06):
one claps.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
Yeah, that was hard,
Well you are too on the
Enneagram.
Speaker 3 (42:17):
Yeah, but I will say
that I have cut back and maybe
ChatGP doesn't know that I usedto do every meal train, do all
kinds of crazy stuff.
Speaker 1 (42:26):
But that's still
within you and you can't full
chat.
Gpt, it's still.
She's, that shiny version isstill in there, right, but
you're slowly, you're slowly Iwill say that the the.
Speaker 3 (42:37):
The thing I only have
to say back to that and I'm not
trying to be defensive is I dorecognize that this ultimate
people pleasing part of me, andI do, and I have actually
recognized that that was the.
So the problem is, when you'rea child and this is a common
thing and a great thing when youalways get only praised for the
things you do, not, just as youare, you then think that I need
(43:03):
to do an act in order to feel,get love back from you.
And that's not true, becausethe truth is all these people
that I said who will have myback and do anything for me, all
my friends, they do it for.
They do it for free.
I'm not doing anything,actually, it's so.
That's the way I need to think.
Speaker 1 (43:26):
Yeah, all right.
What's number three?
What's number three?
Speaker 3 (43:29):
Your optimism might
be a shield.
You're relentlessly positiveand it's inspiring.
But sometimes relentlessoptimism is a way to avoid hard
feelings.
Resentment, grief, loneliness,regret those emotions deserve
space too.
(43:49):
You can't heal what you won'tfeel.
I love that line.
When you gloss over pain, youdelay your evolution.
That's deep.
I like that.
She's dropping mics left andright.
Yeah, she is, and I, um, and Iwill say something to this too I
(44:13):
think there's no like barometeron how fast you need to like
move, but I, I will say thatfrom 2020, and maybe it's not,
you know, seen online but from2020, I've gone miles.
I really have.
(44:33):
So that's the problem.
I told you that I had all theselike feelings, like I'm like no
chatty.
I got something to say.
I'm trying.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
You should tell her
that Listen, chatty Patty, call
her chatty Patty.
I've been doing these thingsand see what she says.
Well, that's what you think,and this is why you're not quite
there.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
That's actually
probably a really good follow-up
question.
Speaker 1 (44:56):
Yeah, we need a
follow-up question.
Speaker 2 (44:58):
Because you may think
not saying that, I mean, I know
you've done a lot of work andthings like that, but they're oh
yeah, she called me out.
Speaker 1 (45:04):
Yeah, no, I'm curious
to say like, listen, I've been
to therapy and I've done thisand this and this and this.
I don't know anybody who's doneas much as therapy as I have,
so I yeah, and and the thing is,I get that question asked.
Speaker 3 (45:17):
You know, he was like
if they hear like one sad story
of my life that I'm willing toshare, they ask like but I don't
understand, why are you sohappy all the time If you had
some shitty things?
Speaker 1 (45:26):
happen to you.
Speaker 3 (45:27):
you are very
optimistic, so my saying and you
know this is I see the lightcause I've been in the dark.
Yeah, all right.
So my and um, this is thisone's really good.
This might be my favorite.
Number four you might be afraidof truly claiming your power.
You know you're smart, driven,passionate, but stepping into
(45:51):
leadership, writing that book,starting that company demands a
level of self ownership thatmight scare you.
Why?
Because deep down, you maystill be asking for permission,
permission to rise, permissionto not be just a mom, wife or
(46:12):
helper.
Stop waiting, no one's going tohand you your worth.
You have to take it.
Like I'm literally sitting herewith my mouth just open because,
oh my gosh, so I was going tosay out of the all three of us,
because I use I have been usingthis longer than you guys um,
because it helped me write my,my intro to the cornbread recipe
(46:36):
.
I entered into the magazine andit's helped me with um, you
know, resume, like I've done alot of that, uh, so I think it
and I learned about it from amom going through similar things
as me, I think a year ago, soit's helpful.
Okay, let me go.
Number five You're overthinkingand underacting.
(46:59):
You have incredible intentions,but intention without execution
is a silent killer.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
Oh dang.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
Yeah, she's a bitch.
Speaker 1 (47:15):
Shaddy Patty, you
bitch.
Yeah, she's a bitch.
That was good, that washilarious.
She's putting mirrors right infront of us.
That's what she's doing.
Speaker 3 (47:26):
It's so great.
So for, for the list starslistening to, we have to write
the title in some like way tograb people, because we we're
telling people like, hey, dothis like exercise, and and, and
then write us, write us likeand how do they write you,
leonette?
Speaker 1 (47:46):
Well, I have a
website that you can contact me
from there.
It's virago247.net, and then myemail is virago247podcast at
Gmail.
Can you repeat that?
Virago247podcast at Gmail?
(48:07):
And then the website iswwwvirago247.net.
Speaker 3 (48:15):
Awesome, I did.
We're apart.
Okay, you're likely spendingtoo much time oh gosh,
researching too much time ohgosh, researching, planning,
imagining the right way toreenter your career or start
your business.
But clarity comes from action,not thought.
(48:38):
You need to get messy, makemistakes and build momentum now,
not when feels perfect.
I'm telling you she calls meout, like she, my mama, yeah
yeah, and, and the thing is,she's not wrong yeah, she's not
wrong yeah and I don't know whywe're calling her she.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
I know my chat should
be jesus she mine's a mine's a
hot guy.
She's a spicy female.
Oh, yours is a hot guy.
Yeah, I don't want a hot guysaying these mine is a hot guy.
Speaker 2 (49:07):
Oh yeah, you might be
kind of right like a, like a,
like a.
Speaker 1 (49:10):
A woman with glasses
on, you know that looks
intelligent telling me aboutmyself mine's a hot smart guy
yeah I just is that it?
How does she end it though?
Speaker 2 (49:24):
um, he's like get on
it, damn it.
I know like and I so I wrote uh, wow thanks is that what you
said?
Speaker 3 (49:35):
wow, thanks, my
friend I really like my period.
Speaker 1 (49:40):
I wrote wow period
thanks, and what'd she say?
My bad she said you're welcome.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
That response, the
wow thanks, tells me that the
that you felt the truth in thosewords.
Oh damn.
Yes, bitch, I did, goodnessgracious, and you know what I
don't?
I don't have a potty mouth.
The fact that I'm even lettingit, let it show the emphasis in
how I feel she said that'spowerful.
(50:08):
Most people flinch fromuncomfortable truths.
You didn't.
That alone separates you fromthe crowd.
Speaker 1 (50:17):
So I appreciate it,
because you said wow, she's like
okay, she thinks it's wonderful, I'm like ouch, I feel like she
didn't read that part.
Speaker 2 (50:24):
Well, you were
flinching a little bit.
Yeah, I said ouch, I feel likeshe didn't read that part.
Well, you were flinching alittle bit.
Speaker 3 (50:27):
Yeah, I said ouch.
Speaker 1 (50:29):
So now we need to do
something with all this.
Ladies, I know I am.
I was conversing with mine.
Speaker 3 (50:34):
I'm like we need a
planner.
So mine already gave me a plan,oh no.
Speaker 2 (50:37):
Oh, I have a plan.
Speaker 1 (50:38):
Oh, I didn't get a
plan.
I have a whole going to have toask it after this brie and get
your plan and she literally orhe in your case will break it
down and a full-on plan like,not just like a little plan a
couple parts, I think this mightbe part one, because I think we
need to say you know, maybe wedo it, and then we go back and
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say what our plan like was andif we followed it and stuff like
I think it's great.
Yeah, I think so because Iwasn't expecting when I did it
it was just I heard it on theradio show something fun to do.
I wasn't, I was not expectingthis.
It just has fueled me becauseit's so honest and so true and,
if I'm going to be honest withmyself, yes, yes, a thousand
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percent.
You and I feel like, becauseyou shared it with us we all
committed to coming in so that'sprobably a sign that you, as
our leader, take me to yourleader.
Speaker 3 (51:33):
I can't.
Speaker 1 (51:34):
Take me to.
I wish we had a video.
Oh, I can do it with my lefthand, not my right hand.
I can do it with both.
The signal what?
Speaker 2 (51:40):
is the signal I come
in peace.
Wait, what movie is it from?
Star Trek?
Speaker 3 (51:43):
Star Trek.
Oh God, it's not Nanu Nanu, butthat's Mork and Mindy yeah Mork
and Mindy, but anyways.
Speaker 2 (51:51):
I can do it with my
left hand.
Dad's going to look out hereand be like what are they doing?
Speaker 3 (51:55):
So I think that that
might be something that you
because it worked, we made ithappen.
Yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (52:03):
Yes, yes, right yeah.
Speaker 3 (52:04):
Yeah, so maybe that's
what you need to do is give us
these assignments, because it'skind of fun.
Speaker 1 (52:09):
This was fun, maybe
like the summer is like school.
Virago school.
Oh summer, summer, except forus.
But we're in school.
Speaker 3 (52:18):
Except for us.
We're in summer school.
Speaker 2 (52:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (52:21):
Something yeah,
something yeah.
I like it.
Speaker 1 (52:23):
I completely love
that.
I think we need to stay on thispath.
We are going to follow what GPT, chat GPT is telling us, and I
know I am.
I'm putting a whole thingtogether.
I think because we are fatiguedfrom reading these results,
we're just going to skip.
I had a vault, a Virago vault.
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I had a question that wassubmitted, but we'll read that
next time.
Speaker 2 (52:49):
No.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
I want to hear it.
I think this is heavy.
Speaker 2 (52:53):
I'll read it next
time.
Speaker 3 (52:54):
It was a heavy no.
Shaina's exhausted.
Speaker 1 (52:59):
I'm excited, I
honestly felt so validated in
the things that I feel and thinkand say I love it, shaina's
reaction is like that bitch andour reaction is like yes, I love
you, chatty, we are motivated,we were gonna conquer the world.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
It's not that bitch
like you're wrong.
Speaker 1 (53:21):
It's that bitch like
okay, you cut me out, I will do
it fine put another to my faceand I didn't want to give me
clarity.
Yeah, it's good I mean you knowit's a lovingly bitch all right
shiny.
Okay, since, since you have aquote, we're gonna end with this
okay.
Speaker 3 (53:39):
So jane austin, who
we all love, she sends in
sensibilityibility, pride andprejudice all that.
So she says the distance isnothing when one has a motive.
So I thought it works for ustoday.
Speaker 2 (53:55):
Oh, I like that.
The distance is nothing whenone has a motive.
Speaker 1 (53:58):
Now, let's get
working.
Let's get working okay.
Speaker 2 (54:01):
You better work bitch
and that can be taken so many
million ways.
Speaker 1 (54:06):
We're going to put
our feelings aside and we're
gonna analyze what she told usand we're gonna make things
happen, yeah, and we're gonnareconvene.
That's what we're about hereabsolutely about, about making
sure about action satisfaction.
Speaker 3 (54:18):
We're not gonna be
content because that's another
question I asked her.
Speaker 1 (54:22):
I know we're wrapping
up, but I did ask her should I
just be content with my life theway it is, or should I keep
pursuing what I'm doing?
She gave me a whole thing tothat.
She's like you're foolingyourself if that's what you
think you want is to be content.
Speaker 2 (54:34):
Yeah, and you
wouldn't be asking that question
, I know.
Speaker 1 (54:36):
That's what she said.
She's like you wouldn't beasking the question if you
really didn't.
No, she told me the same thing,yeah are you chat gpt?
I know all right girls, it'sbeen so fun.
Speaker 3 (54:46):
I love you, ladies so
much, it's always so great
getting together.
Speaker 1 (54:50):
Um, yeah, go ask chat
gpt.
What the brutal honesty.
If you're willing to hear itand please, and please like.
Oh, we want to feel free toreach out, we want to know, oh
my gosh, we would love to readsome stuff because that, yeah,
yeah, and then we can cheer youon.
Yeah, put your goals togetherand your action plan and let's
make it happen.
Speaker 3 (55:10):
Let's do it All right
, love you, ladies, love you too
.
All right, bye, bye, viragos.
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