August 24, 2023 • 15 mins
Eeee!! And the juicy shenanigans continue on the podcast today.
On today's episode of the Wake Up & Be Wealthy show, Nellie talks about the power of emotional connection to money.
She touches on:
- The importance of getting emotional about money in a powerful way to change the narrative of the relationship with money.
- The importance of prioritizing your goals.
- The importance of taking teeny tiny tiny steps.
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Unknown (00:08):
Good morning mama. It is time to wake up and be
wealthy. It is time for you tobecome rich a week it is time
for more ease, flow and fun foryou. It is time to build a life
and business, you are madly inlove with it, it's time to
unlock the wealth codes neededto build your business with your
(00:32):
dedicated host, me, Nellie CorvoMellie Corvo. I am the CEO and
founder of the wealthy mamamovement. And I want to
officially welcome you to thewake up and be wealthy show. I
am the master at sales andsocial media with over 17 years
of experience, building brandsin multiple industries,
(00:54):
resulting in millions of dollarsnight as mentored countless
women from starting theirbusinesses all the way up to
multi millionaires. I am here tobe your go to mama to help you
build an iconic brand that youare proud of to create a massive
passion and impact in the world.
Without further ado, let'sunlock today's episode. Enjoy.
(01:23):
Welcome back to the show thebirthday shenanigans helping you
make more money with ease flowand fun. We are going to be
getting in our fields today inthe best way possible. And I
think it's just so importantwhen we are working on the
energetics of money. Andhopefully you are in that super
(01:45):
juicy a want energy around moneyand we're working through it,
the best way to do that is totruly start to make money moves
teeny tiny money moves thataligned with one energy and
before you know it, it willbecome so second nature and so
(02:06):
embodied in you that it willfeel amazing. And he'll just
keep doing it more and more andmore. So we do want to get
emotional about our money in areally powerful way. Because
when money is just an object, itcan feel so weird as where we
(02:27):
are emotional creatures aswomen, and we're emotional
buyers, right. And so when wecan really emotionally connect
to money, and really get closeto it and become best friends
with it just as much as anygirlfriend, it can start to
really change the narrative ofthe relationship, right? Like,
(02:48):
think about a best friend thatyou either have or had. And like
that relationship does requireeffort, right communication,
quality time, and so many otherthings for that relationship to
thrive and money is nodifferent. And we're always
(03:09):
going to be going deeper. Andthe deeper you go, I really do
believe one, money feels better.
And also, I also think my coffeewas just built by my German
Shepherd on the floor. That'sThat's lovely morning to start.
Oh, it's always interesting. Sowe can always go deeper. And
(03:32):
when we go deeper, it feelsbetter. And I truly do believe
you make more because moneywants to be in the hands of
powerful women. And a lot oftimes since we aren't choosing
to get in our emotions and goingdeeper, then it like it's it's
really a repellent for money.
(03:56):
And we've been told so muchmoney is evil, right? You must
work really, really hard to makereally good money. And a lot of
women either have kids, and wedon't want to give up, you know,
extra time to make more money,right? If we have to work really
(04:18):
hard, that it's not reallyexciting to be able to be like,
You know what I want to workreally hard like, and here's
here's the interesting partabout working really hard.
There's, there's different typesof hard that I think people get
a little confused by becausethey're like, Well, surely I
(04:38):
have to put in some effort. Wellof course, like, again, just
like a relationship. There'stime and energy being dedicated
to help the relationship thrive.
And also when it's arelationship that you truly
desire to flourish. It's a wholedifferent vibe. Right verse
says, Have you ever like gone tolike a family function around
(05:01):
the holidays where you're like,oh, I don't want to go, I know I
should go, I need to go rightthat need energy again, it's a
whole different fucking vibe.
And so I really do like toexplain that because people were
like, We, I can just like, clickmy heels and money's gonna, like
(05:22):
magically appear? Well, itactually can. The more you work
on this, and also there's stilleffort, like, I am actively, you
know, working on raising myfrequency every single day and,
and doing aligned action anddoing my part and that I think
that is a really big thing tohear, like the universe wants
(05:43):
you to win. It is our, it is ourjob to do our part. And we have
a huge part to do just like bestfriends, it can't be one sided,
right? Like, maybe you've had afriend where you put in so much
time and energy and likethoughtfulness and it wasn't or
cippic reciprocated. Andeventually, you kind of want to
(06:06):
move on, right. And so money isvery similar to that of like, it
is truly a giving and receiving,giving and receiving type of
vibe. And that's why we get todo our part. So I want you to
get emotional today, I reallywant you to tap into what do I
(06:27):
really, really desire to do thatis going to require money,
right? And you can go as far asyour whole life, you if that's
too overwhelming, and you wantto like look at the next couple
years, or the next year, or eventhe next six months to nine days
you can decide what timeline youpick, but like, what is going?
(06:53):
What money is it going to taketo do the things that you want
to do? Right? And you don't haveto like number crunch or
anything like that. But you canget an inventory of like, oh,
yeah, I really have alwayswanted to go to Paris. Are you
okay? If you never go to Parisin your lifetime, right? Like,
(07:14):
life is so fucking precious. Andyou've got to make some really
big girl decisions in regards tolike, Am I willing to never go
to Paris? Like, is that okaywith me, or maybe you really
deeply desire to have a afterhigh school fund for your kids.
(07:36):
So they've got a little messymistake to either use for
college or trade school or toput a down payment on a house
like, or anything like that,like that's important to you,
right? So you can do alldifferent types of things, and
get really emotional today andreally think about it and see
(07:57):
this list stacked up. And if youwant to, you can even go from
most important to not asimportant, I don't want to say
least important but like, musthappen, like hands down, like
you absolutely deeply desirethis to happen. And then it
could be more of like, thiswould be nice to happen towards
the bottom of the list. Sothey're all important, but we're
(08:20):
like really prioritizing them.
And that can be helpful to toreally look at like, wow,
there's still a lot of things onthis list that like I would
absolutely be heartbroken if Ididn't make them happen, right?
Like I love the saying, if it'sto be it's up to me. And so I
really want you to look at thatlist, and really look at your
current reality. And are we ontrack? Are we getting there at a
(08:45):
pace that feels good to you. Andthis is not to judge or shame
ourselves. It's to be honest,open and honest. Because
I'll give you a quick example. Iwas talking to a client the
other day, and we were gettingemotional about her money in the
best way possible. And I waslike, I want to know, like I
(09:07):
want to know, like what'simportant to you financially.
And she goes, I would love topay for my daughter's private
school with a digital product.
She's like, that would just feelso empowering to me. And I loved
her voicing that. So the rest ofthe call, we used it to
strategize what that would looklike how she could get there.
And the interesting part is, shestarted with wanting to like
(09:32):
sell a low ticket offer. And themore I was like working with
her, I'm like it's going to takeso many low ticket offers to
make that dream happen. Are wemaking it harder than it needs
to be right? And so we startedto play with another offer. And
she would only need like 40sales to make this big goal
(09:54):
happen, right like and so thenit's like getting your brain on
board building the belief That'sabsolutely possible, because it
is absolutely possible. And herwhole vibe was changing during
that call, right? Like, wealways get to, like build more
belief, but like her vibealready was like shifting and
changing. So I'm really excitedfor you to make this list. And
(10:18):
the cool part is, I really wantyou to think of money, like a
ladder, like, this is somethingI've taught to my clients, as my
kiddo is up and awake, but Ireally want you to look at money
as a ladder, okay? So all ofyour, all of your wants and
(10:39):
desires, right and even yourneeds to because needs to take
money like in regards to likefood, water, shelter, etc, like
basic needs, right? They requiremoney, too. So you can look at
all of this as like a ladder,right? And right now your
current reality, you are on onestep of the ladder, right. And
(11:02):
you know where you're at on thatladder. And more likely than
not, everything that you listedbefore, is higher up on the
ladder, right. And so in orderto make it happen, we've got to
take some more steps, right? Andprobably tweak and modify
(11:23):
things. And more. More oftenthan not, it is so much mindset,
like we're not gonna really domuch different, which is
interesting, like, of course, wewant to try new strategies, but
like, I've been doing video foryears, I still do video, I just
make more money now, right?
(11:44):
Because I've been climbing theladder longer and longer and
longer and getting better andbetter and better. And even
thinking about the ladder inregards to like investing. It
used to terrify me to invest$100, right. And now I've
invested over $120,000 Besidescollege into my learning my
(12:07):
growth, my business, like pert,like getting coaches, mentors,
masterminds, etc. That's noteven including team. So there's
no way I would have done that,like years ago, right. And so
this is the beautiful part aboutdoing this with ease flow and
fun is we take these teeny, tinysteps. And knowing as we keep
progressing, you're gonna gethigher and up on the higher up
(12:30):
on the ladder. And all thesevisions and desires that you
wrote down, are somewhere upabove the ladder, and we're
gonna keep grabbing them, right,the more steps that we take and
climb the ladder, you're gonnakeep grabbing them and grabbing
them and grabbing them. So youcould even like draw a ladder
and be like, Okay, I'm here,kind of like a mall map. I'm
(12:53):
here. Here's like, all thesethings of like where they're at
from a reach standpoint, andthen could be like a really fun
visual aid. So my biggest desirefor you today is to really get
that inventory. And you mayalready have it, but I think
it's important to re connect,because something new may come
(13:15):
up or maybe you're like, Yeah, Ireally don't desire that
anymore. You are 1,000% able tochange your motherfucking mind.
Okay, so maybe you don't wantsome you don't want something
anymore. Okay? Take it away,does it? It's more than okay.
And then really thinking aboutthis ladder of like, we want to
continue to expand your comfortzone. And how we do that is
(13:38):
teeny tiny steps that arealigned for your wealthiest
self, my favorite way to makedecisions is what would
wealthiest Nellie do. Right?
Just like I can always go deeperwith my energetics of money. Our
bank accounts can always godeeper, right, our wealth can
always go deeper. And so this isabsolutely a journey, not a
(14:00):
destination. And it's one of themost life changing powerful
journeys. So I love you so muchif you're feeling called to
apply to become a VIP clients soI can get way more hands on with
these steps with you and holdyou accountable and really look
for the gaps and opportunitieswith what you're doing, how
(14:22):
you're making money. I am fullystepping into devoting my time
energy and knowledge andexpertise with VIP clients only.
And so I just invite you toapply and let's start the
conversation. Have a great dayand more importantly make it a
(14:42):
great dayis your head spinning? I hope
you took so many notes and youfeel so inspired. Time truly
flies when you're learning aboutbecoming so wealthy a ask. I
hope you loved today's episode.
(15:03):
That does it for us on the show.
Don't forget every weekday weunlocked a another juicy money
making episode. So be sure tosubscribe or follow where you're
listening to this. And also,don't forget if you haven't
already, to leave us a five starreview on your podcast platform
so we can take over the worldtogether and share a takeaway on
(15:23):
social media and tag me at thewealthy mama. We love doing
spontaneous prize prizegiveaways. So don't forget to
tag us with a takeaway, so wecan reward you as being one of
our biggest fans and listeners.
Until next time, don't forgetyou are worthy of being wealthy
(15:46):
and from everyone at the wealthymama movement. We love you make
it a great day.
Good morning mama. It is time to wake up and be
wealthy. It is time for you tobecome rich a week it is time
for more ease, flow and fun foryou. It is time to build a life
and business, you are madly inlove with it, it's time to
unlock the wealth codes neededto build your business with your
(00:32):
dedicated host, me, Nellie CorvoMellie Corvo. I am the CEO and
founder of the wealthy mamamovement. And I want to
officially welcome you to thewake up and be wealthy show. I
am the master at sales andsocial media with over 17 years
of experience, building brandsin multiple industries,
(00:54):
resulting in millions of dollarsnight as mentored countless
women from starting theirbusinesses all the way up to
multi millionaires. I am here tobe your go to mama to help you
build an iconic brand that youare proud of to create a massive
passion and impact in the world.
Without further ado, let'sunlock today's episode. Enjoy.
(01:23):
Welcome back to the show thebirthday shenanigans helping you
make more money with ease flowand fun. We are going to be
getting in our fields today inthe best way possible. And I
think it's just so importantwhen we are working on the
energetics of money. Andhopefully you are in that super
(01:45):
juicy a want energy around moneyand we're working through it,
the best way to do that is totruly start to make money moves
teeny tiny money moves thataligned with one energy and
before you know it, it willbecome so second nature and so
(02:06):
embodied in you that it willfeel amazing. And he'll just
keep doing it more and more andmore. So we do want to get
emotional about our money in areally powerful way. Because
when money is just an object, itcan feel so weird as where we
(02:27):
are emotional creatures aswomen, and we're emotional
buyers, right. And so when wecan really emotionally connect
to money, and really get closeto it and become best friends
with it just as much as anygirlfriend, it can start to
really change the narrative ofthe relationship, right? Like,
(02:48):
think about a best friend thatyou either have or had. And like
that relationship does requireeffort, right communication,
quality time, and so many otherthings for that relationship to
thrive and money is nodifferent. And we're always
(03:09):
going to be going deeper. Andthe deeper you go, I really do
believe one, money feels better.
And also, I also think my coffeewas just built by my German
Shepherd on the floor. That'sThat's lovely morning to start.
Oh, it's always interesting. Sowe can always go deeper. And
(03:32):
when we go deeper, it feelsbetter. And I truly do believe
you make more because moneywants to be in the hands of
powerful women. And a lot oftimes since we aren't choosing
to get in our emotions and goingdeeper, then it like it's it's
really a repellent for money.
(03:56):
And we've been told so muchmoney is evil, right? You must
work really, really hard to makereally good money. And a lot of
women either have kids, and wedon't want to give up, you know,
extra time to make more money,right? If we have to work really
(04:18):
hard, that it's not reallyexciting to be able to be like,
You know what I want to workreally hard like, and here's
here's the interesting partabout working really hard.
There's, there's different typesof hard that I think people get
a little confused by becausethey're like, Well, surely I
(04:38):
have to put in some effort. Wellof course, like, again, just
like a relationship. There'stime and energy being dedicated
to help the relationship thrive.
And also when it's arelationship that you truly
desire to flourish. It's a wholedifferent vibe. Right verse
says, Have you ever like gone tolike a family function around
(05:01):
the holidays where you're like,oh, I don't want to go, I know I
should go, I need to go rightthat need energy again, it's a
whole different fucking vibe.
And so I really do like toexplain that because people were
like, We, I can just like, clickmy heels and money's gonna, like
(05:22):
magically appear? Well, itactually can. The more you work
on this, and also there's stilleffort, like, I am actively, you
know, working on raising myfrequency every single day and,
and doing aligned action anddoing my part and that I think
that is a really big thing tohear, like the universe wants
(05:43):
you to win. It is our, it is ourjob to do our part. And we have
a huge part to do just like bestfriends, it can't be one sided,
right? Like, maybe you've had afriend where you put in so much
time and energy and likethoughtfulness and it wasn't or
cippic reciprocated. Andeventually, you kind of want to
(06:06):
move on, right. And so money isvery similar to that of like, it
is truly a giving and receiving,giving and receiving type of
vibe. And that's why we get todo our part. So I want you to
get emotional today, I reallywant you to tap into what do I
(06:27):
really, really desire to do thatis going to require money,
right? And you can go as far asyour whole life, you if that's
too overwhelming, and you wantto like look at the next couple
years, or the next year, or eventhe next six months to nine days
you can decide what timeline youpick, but like, what is going?
(06:53):
What money is it going to taketo do the things that you want
to do? Right? And you don't haveto like number crunch or
anything like that. But you canget an inventory of like, oh,
yeah, I really have alwayswanted to go to Paris. Are you
okay? If you never go to Parisin your lifetime, right? Like,
(07:14):
life is so fucking precious. Andyou've got to make some really
big girl decisions in regards tolike, Am I willing to never go
to Paris? Like, is that okaywith me, or maybe you really
deeply desire to have a afterhigh school fund for your kids.
(07:36):
So they've got a little messymistake to either use for
college or trade school or toput a down payment on a house
like, or anything like that,like that's important to you,
right? So you can do alldifferent types of things, and
get really emotional today andreally think about it and see
(07:57):
this list stacked up. And if youwant to, you can even go from
most important to not asimportant, I don't want to say
least important but like, musthappen, like hands down, like
you absolutely deeply desirethis to happen. And then it
could be more of like, thiswould be nice to happen towards
the bottom of the list. Sothey're all important, but we're
(08:20):
like really prioritizing them.
And that can be helpful to toreally look at like, wow,
there's still a lot of things onthis list that like I would
absolutely be heartbroken if Ididn't make them happen, right?
Like I love the saying, if it'sto be it's up to me. And so I
really want you to look at thatlist, and really look at your
current reality. And are we ontrack? Are we getting there at a
(08:45):
pace that feels good to you. Andthis is not to judge or shame
ourselves. It's to be honest,open and honest. Because
I'll give you a quick example. Iwas talking to a client the
other day, and we were gettingemotional about her money in the
best way possible. And I waslike, I want to know, like I
(09:07):
want to know, like what'simportant to you financially.
And she goes, I would love topay for my daughter's private
school with a digital product.
She's like, that would just feelso empowering to me. And I loved
her voicing that. So the rest ofthe call, we used it to
strategize what that would looklike how she could get there.
And the interesting part is, shestarted with wanting to like
(09:32):
sell a low ticket offer. And themore I was like working with
her, I'm like it's going to takeso many low ticket offers to
make that dream happen. Are wemaking it harder than it needs
to be right? And so we startedto play with another offer. And
she would only need like 40sales to make this big goal
(09:54):
happen, right like and so thenit's like getting your brain on
board building the belief That'sabsolutely possible, because it
is absolutely possible. And herwhole vibe was changing during
that call, right? Like, wealways get to, like build more
belief, but like her vibealready was like shifting and
changing. So I'm really excitedfor you to make this list. And
(10:18):
the cool part is, I really wantyou to think of money, like a
ladder, like, this is somethingI've taught to my clients, as my
kiddo is up and awake, but Ireally want you to look at money
as a ladder, okay? So all ofyour, all of your wants and
(10:39):
desires, right and even yourneeds to because needs to take
money like in regards to likefood, water, shelter, etc, like
basic needs, right? They requiremoney, too. So you can look at
all of this as like a ladder,right? And right now your
current reality, you are on onestep of the ladder, right. And
(11:02):
you know where you're at on thatladder. And more likely than
not, everything that you listedbefore, is higher up on the
ladder, right. And so in orderto make it happen, we've got to
take some more steps, right? Andprobably tweak and modify
(11:23):
things. And more. More oftenthan not, it is so much mindset,
like we're not gonna really domuch different, which is
interesting, like, of course, wewant to try new strategies, but
like, I've been doing video foryears, I still do video, I just
make more money now, right?
(11:44):
Because I've been climbing theladder longer and longer and
longer and getting better andbetter and better. And even
thinking about the ladder inregards to like investing. It
used to terrify me to invest$100, right. And now I've
invested over $120,000 Besidescollege into my learning my
(12:07):
growth, my business, like pert,like getting coaches, mentors,
masterminds, etc. That's noteven including team. So there's
no way I would have done that,like years ago, right. And so
this is the beautiful part aboutdoing this with ease flow and
fun is we take these teeny, tinysteps. And knowing as we keep
progressing, you're gonna gethigher and up on the higher up
(12:30):
on the ladder. And all thesevisions and desires that you
wrote down, are somewhere upabove the ladder, and we're
gonna keep grabbing them, right,the more steps that we take and
climb the ladder, you're gonnakeep grabbing them and grabbing
them and grabbing them. So youcould even like draw a ladder
and be like, Okay, I'm here,kind of like a mall map. I'm
(12:53):
here. Here's like, all thesethings of like where they're at
from a reach standpoint, andthen could be like a really fun
visual aid. So my biggest desirefor you today is to really get
that inventory. And you mayalready have it, but I think
it's important to re connect,because something new may come
(13:15):
up or maybe you're like, Yeah, Ireally don't desire that
anymore. You are 1,000% able tochange your motherfucking mind.
Okay, so maybe you don't wantsome you don't want something
anymore. Okay? Take it away,does it? It's more than okay.
And then really thinking aboutthis ladder of like, we want to
continue to expand your comfortzone. And how we do that is
(13:38):
teeny tiny steps that arealigned for your wealthiest
self, my favorite way to makedecisions is what would
wealthiest Nellie do. Right?
Just like I can always go deeperwith my energetics of money. Our
bank accounts can always godeeper, right, our wealth can
always go deeper. And so this isabsolutely a journey, not a
(14:00):
destination. And it's one of themost life changing powerful
journeys. So I love you so muchif you're feeling called to
apply to become a VIP clients soI can get way more hands on with
these steps with you and holdyou accountable and really look
for the gaps and opportunitieswith what you're doing, how
(14:22):
you're making money. I am fullystepping into devoting my time
energy and knowledge andexpertise with VIP clients only.
And so I just invite you toapply and let's start the
conversation. Have a great dayand more importantly make it a
(14:42):
great dayis your head spinning? I hope
you took so many notes and youfeel so inspired. Time truly
flies when you're learning aboutbecoming so wealthy a ask. I
hope you loved today's episode.
(15:03):
That does it for us on the show.
Don't forget every weekday weunlocked a another juicy money
making episode. So be sure tosubscribe or follow where you're
listening to this. And also,don't forget if you haven't
already, to leave us a five starreview on your podcast platform
so we can take over the worldtogether and share a takeaway on
(15:23):
social media and tag me at thewealthy mama. We love doing
spontaneous prize prizegiveaways. So don't forget to
tag us with a takeaway, so wecan reward you as being one of
our biggest fans and listeners.
Until next time, don't forgetyou are worthy of being wealthy
(15:46):
and from everyone at the wealthymama movement. We love you make
it a great day.
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