September 6, 2023 • 24 mins
Eeeek!! For the next 5 days, we will be talking all things Money Making Marketing! This money making marketing series is to take the overwhelm away.
Are you ready? Let's gooo!!!
On this episode of the Wake Up & Be Wealthy Show, Nellie will be talking about the mindset piece of marketing and it's importance.
We will touch on:
- How to deal with financial pressure.
- First recommendation for people who are feeling financial and time pressure
- How she wants to normalize and neutralize all of this.
- All about alignment, recalibration and taking your power back
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Unknown (00:08):
Good morning mama. It is time to wake up and be
wealthy. It is time for you tobecome rich a week it is time
for more ease, flow and fun foryou. It is time to build a life
and business. You are madly inlove with it. It's time to
unlock the wealth codes neededto build your business with your
(00:32):
dedicated host, me NellieCorriveau, Nellie Corriveau. I
am the CEO and founder of thewealthy mama movement, and I
want to officially welcome youto the wake up and be wealthy
show. I am the master at salesand social media with over 17
years of experience buildingbrands in multiple industries,
(00:55):
resulting in millions of dollarsnight as mentored countless
women from starting theirbusinesses all the way up to
multi millionaires. I am here tobe your go to mama to help you
build an iconic brand that youare proud of to create a massive
passion and impact in the world.
Without further ado, let'sunlock today's episode. Enjoy.
(01:22):
Welcome back to the show. I hopeyour coffee is strong. today. We
are starting a new series todaywhich I'm super duper excited
about you're getting. You'regetting on the go Nellie here as
my jeep is beeping becausesomebody is behind me. Okay, no
one is behind me. Let's go aheadand rock and roll. My VIP
(01:45):
clients get a lot of behind thescenes of On the Go Nellie
because we have a privatemessaging app that we chat in.
And it just makes it fun becauseit's like real life like we are
all women building businesses,while most likely raising babies
even if your babies are older. Ithink that just based on some of
(02:09):
my friends that have older kidslike they're still always your
babies right? So we've got a lotgoing on and I love just to like
be on the go with you and coachand support you and cheer you
on. So this is a my back toschool money making marketing
series I say that a bazilliontimes fast. So why why are we
(02:32):
talking about this? Well, it isthe biggest pain point that I am
hearing from everyone that I'mworking with, they feel so
freaking overwhelmed withmarketing, although they do know
how freaking important it is.
And so there are a lot of timesforcing themselves in a box of
marketing and feeling won, likelost and confused and
(02:55):
overwhelmed in the box. Andalso, like I don't even know if
I'm doing like what I should bedoing or I am doing things and
I'm not making the money that Idesire, things are taking longer
things feel forced, they don'tfeel good, all other things. And
so I felt like I've got a lot tosay on this. And I actually love
(03:19):
marketing. And it is definitelysomething that I've noticed
about myself. Because over theyears when people have truly
like they've been expressingthis to me for so many years,
and old Nellie was just soconfused, because I truly love
it. And it comes so easy to me.
(03:41):
And like I've always made moneyon social media and doing social
media marketing. And no matterwhat I've sold not just in
coaching, which I think is likehuge to know to like from
nonprofit to actual physicalgoods to services to elearning
digital products to coaching andmentoring to then also my
(04:04):
clients in different industriesand guiding them and supporting
them and breaking down theselike barriers. And so I've got
so much to say. And that is whyit's going to be a series so
that way one podcast episode isnot a bazillion hours long. So
come on this ride as back toschool is coming or it's already
(04:28):
here depending on when your kidsgo back to school. But back to
school season in general, nomatter like when your kids
actually go back to school ormaybe you're like I really liked
you Nellie but I don't even havekids. That's that's okay too,
like I think just in general,the back to school season
(04:50):
regardless where you're at, inyour journey is quite magical.
Like, it almost feels like amany new year. And I know we
always decide, you know, ourvibe in regards to, you know,
the first of the year is always,you know, a big deal. And so my
take on all of that is, if itfeels good, like, let it be
(05:13):
right, like there is a sparklearound the New Year, let's
maximize that there is asparkle. When it comes to back
to school time, like your innerroutine, again, the seasons are
changing, Starbucks has yourfavorite drink, right? Like, if
you love the holidays, they'requickly approaching like, My
(05:36):
take is, if it makes you feelgood, let's roll with it. And so
hopefully you are feeling thattype of energy. If not, we get
to get you there. And so my goalover this money making marketing
series is to take the overwhelmaway, and really get you feeling
amazing, because if nothingdrastic changes around your
(05:59):
relationship with money, andalso marketing, because they do
go hand in hand. Imagine that.
But if nothing drastic changes,nothing drastic is going to
change, right. So if we keepstaying in the story, and the
energy and the broken record ofmarketing is overwhelming, I
don't know how to make money orthings aren't working like
(06:22):
whatever it is, if it's a ifit's not serving you, and we're
not shifting it, nothing massiveis going to change. And like I
really do believe the longer westay there, the more challenging
it is to break free. And so whenwe are feeling that way, it's
just such a good opportunity asquickly as possible be as
(06:46):
possible to be like, Oh, okay,I'm going to be curious because
this doesn't feel good. And thenI always love like taking the
responsibility back. Becausewhen we take the responsibility
back, you hold all the power,which means you can literally
create a different reality veryquickly, when you hold all the
(07:09):
power, it's so liberating, andso exciting. So if you've been
feeling overwhelmed, orfrustrated, or burnt out, any
feeling that is not serving youaround marketing, and you really
want to make more money, thisseries is going to be so, so
beneficial for you. And I'm justso excited. And of course open
(07:32):
invitation to become one of ourVIP clients where we do your
marketing for you. Besides like,obviously, like you getting on
video, but we take away so muchof the stress, so much of the
strategy, the decision makingthe execution of it, it really
is quite magical to have thistype of support. So I'll be
(07:55):
talking about that throughoutthe series, but genuinely just
here and excited to serve youand hopefully get you some
relief, because you do deserveit. And it is possible. And it's
possible when you say it'spossible, right? So like that is
the first step here is do youwant to make money online and
(08:18):
maximize social media marketing?
Yes or no? And that is not arhetorical question. And it's
not a trick question. It's liketruly, like, it's important to
give yourself that consent oflike, yes, Sally, I do. I want
to shift. I want to make money.
I want it to feel good. I wantto use and maximize and leverage
(08:41):
social media marketing to helpme make more money. So that's
like first step right out of thegates. Once you've said yes,
obviously keep coming back andlistening to this whole series
in real time and implementing inreal time. I love hearing from
you as well. So please don'tfeel like you can't reach out
(09:05):
because I would love to hearfrom you. So today is really
like the mindset piece ofmarketing. Because regardless if
you have us helping you or not,your mindset is important
because things take time, right?
You can't expect me and my teamto be in your marketing for a
(09:28):
week. I'd be like Nellie, whyhave you not made me a million
dollars yet? Like you suck Ilike I quit. You're fired. Like
all the things or if you'redoing it on your own and you do
one Facebook Live, and you'relike, I didn't I didn't make any
money like no one commented or Ionly got one sale or whatever it
(09:51):
may be when we're onlymarketing. This is like the
slippery slope that I work onwith a lot of clients If we're
only marketing to make money, itstarts to become very
contingent. And therefore, weare constantly measuring our
success only on the validationof a quick sale. And like some
(10:13):
of my dream is clients did notpay me for years, right. But I
was continuing to show up onsocial media, I was continuing
to reach out to them holding thebelief, holding the hope,
trusting the process, knowingthat the time would be right.
And I would be ready, right. Andso you've got to be in this
(10:36):
money making marketing game forlong term growth. Okay. So if
that means you, you've got to goget a day job, or work at
Starbucks and get some freecoffee, or take on, you know,
some clients in your skill set.
But it's not like where you wantto be long term, but you're
like, I still am good at it, Ienjoy it. Like, you've got to
(10:59):
take some pressure away fromthis process. Because if you're
like, oh my gosh, Nelly, if Idon't make sales today, I cannot
pay my water bill. It is justnot fair to your nervous system.
It is not fair to your audience,it is not fair to your future
self. That pressure is sosuffocating. And you really do
(11:22):
need to take the pressure away.
So how we do that is up to you.
Because you know your situationthe best. But that is like
homework assignment number one,if you are in a space where you
are either paycheck to paycheck,client to client, invoice to
invoice, day to day, whatever itmay be, we've got we've got to
(11:45):
get some relief. And know thatit's only temporary and know
that it can still serve you andfeel good, right? Like I
recently had a client telegramme and she's like, Oh my gosh,
Natalie, I got a dream day job.
And it's gonna give so muchrelief to me and my business and
(12:08):
my family. And I'm like, soexcited about it. And I told
her, I am so proud of you.
Because this is how youskyrocket like I already know
what's waiting for her on theother side. And it's just so
hard because the world reallylike shames that like oh, well,
you're a full time entrepreneuror you. Maybe you're in a day
(12:30):
job right now. And you'refeeling shame around that or you
are a full time entrepreneur andyou're feeling shame around
like, Shit, I kind of need someextra money. And I shouldn't
have to get a job. But it'slike, Which one, which one is
worse, right? Like feelingstressed AF and feeling very
(12:53):
needy that you need to salestoday in order to survive,
right, which is honestly noteven a good energetic state or
mindset to be in for anyone,especially you. And so take the
shame away. I celebrated myclient when she told me that and
I told her, you can use yourgifts for this this day job and
(13:15):
treat it like the client like,Okay, I'm going to my client
today and I'm going to pour intothem and maximize my skills
maximize my time, right? Like,it's all about your mindset,
right? And the relief that sheis going to get is massive for
her business and her growth andher nervous system. And it's Oh,
(13:38):
hey, it's okay. It's more thanokay. And we get to celebrate
that. And you don't have to beshame full about it. You don't
have to hide it. I mean, you canchoose how you talk about it.
But no matter if you talk aboutit publicly or not, we get to
feel good about it right now.
(14:02):
And know that it's not yourforever. So if you are feeling
that pressure, financially,before we even talk marketing,
you've got to get the pressureaway, like and if that means
you're like, Well, I don't wantto get a day job or that doesn't
make sense for my lifestyle. Iget that too. So like you get to
(14:25):
explore Capitol funding, you canjust explore a 0% credit card,
you get to explore any otherfinancial options for you to get
some relief and you can alsodecide what that is right? Like,
if you had x amount in your bankaccount right now. Would that
take the pressure away andeveryone is so different? So if
(14:48):
you're feeling the financialpressure, that's my first
recommendation. If you'refeeling time pressure, where
you're like Nellie X usuallylike, don't have much financial
pressure. But now, I'm soinundated with client work that
I don't have the time to market,right, or your kids are taking
(15:11):
up so much of your time. On topof everything else that you're
like, I just don't know when tofit it in, I'm so overwhelmed
with even trying to even startto think about when I could fit
it in. And if you're likeNellie, I, I feel the financial
and time I'm witnessing you sodeeply. And I'm like, I just
(15:34):
want to normalize all of this,and neutralize all of it.
Because it's just so real. And Ilove talking about hot topics,
especially on the podcast,because everything in this world
is deemed good or bad bysociety. And then that's what we
start to believe. But like youcan also choose again, okay? So
(15:56):
we get to feel good about your,your current financial safety,
and also your time capacity. Soif you're feeling a little
pressured, or a lot pressured inyour time capacity, what's got
to give right? Like, can we geta little bit of childcare,
right? Or a lot of otherchildcare? Can we like swap days
(16:19):
with the girlfriend where youwatch their kids? And she
watches yours? And it's justlike an even trade? Can we get a
VA to help you and get some,like, of the client deliverables
off your plate? Is there anyautomation we can do? Is there
anything we can delete, right?
Like, there's always a way tochoose again, and feel better?
(16:42):
physically, financially,emotionally, time, again, we
hold all the power, all thepower, so we can rewrite this
future and current realityreally, very, very quickly, very
quickly, which is so freakingexciting, which is why we like,
like, one of the main reasonswhy we became our own boss,
(17:04):
right? And then we like, kind ofget awkward and forget that. And
then, like, we're feeling sotrapped, and in that box that I
talked about, but like that'snot the only way and that's not
how it's supposed to be. Okay,so I'm just here for a new
perspective, or maybe aperspective that you know, and
(17:27):
you're like, Okay, Nellie,you're right. You're right. I
know. I know. I know. I know,right? It's just so easy to get
into people pleasing mode andbusy mode, and then you start to
feel funky and you're like, Whydo I feel so funky, I don't even
love my business. So it's justlike, today's session is all
(17:50):
about alignment recalibration,taking your power back. And it's
going to make this money makingmarketing so much fucking
easier. Like, regardless if youhave my support or not like,
it's going to make it feel sogood. And that is the missing
piece for so many women businessowners. I can't tell you how
(18:13):
many times in the past that Iforced myself to do reels or I
must be on Tik Tok, or I mustsend this many emails or go live
this many times. And it justfelt so shitty. And I was so
overwhelmed. Now, like, I wantyou to see like the grass is
greener on the other side. I doreels more than I ever had
(18:36):
before. They get so muchconversion, and so much
traction, and they actuallyfucking feel good. None of my
content is forced. All of itfeels so freakin fun and
exciting, like, and it's makingmore and more money and less and
less time. And so I just knowthat this is so possible, okay,
(18:58):
and I want this so, so deeplyfor you, like so deeply. And so
this series, I'm going to pourmy heart into you as much as I
can. As much as you allow me Ijust want you flow in and
feeling so good and having somuch fun. Because truly like one
of my favorite is affirmationsis the more money I the more fun
(19:21):
I have, I should say the morefun I have, the more money I
make. Okay, say it with me. Themore fun I have, the more money
I make. We're gonna say one moretime together. The more fun I
have, the more money I make.
It's so true. I can't wait tohelp build more and more
(19:44):
evidence of that for you andwith you. If you're not there
yet. You and it's going to be sogood. So let's get aligned,
let's take some of the pressureor a lot of pressure away.
Because this gets to feel good,it's safe for you to feel good,
it's possible for it to feelgood. And you hold all the
(20:06):
power. So I will see you back onthe next money making marketing
session of all about gettingback to school, and feeling so
good about your money. And it'sall up to you. And you don't
have to do it alone. But you dohold all the power, I cannot say
that enough. And this can allchange so quickly. So quickly,
(20:30):
you can feel so much better, youcan attract more money than you
even know what to do with moremoney than you've maybe even
ever thought was possible. Like,I'll never forget years ago,
when I had my first $10,000 daylike I had very little child
care at the time. And I rememberjust standing at my kitchen
(20:53):
island, looking at my pay pal.
And I even remember, likesending a photo to my husband
like holy shit, like it'sworking like it is working. And
I can't tell you how manysimilar moments I've had. But
that was like one of thebiggest, most pivotal one, when
Emma was teeny tiny. And I justremember that feeling. And it
(21:15):
was so juicy and delicious andamazing. And it's just happened
more and more and more anythingis possible when you believe it
is possible. And you can believeit more and more and more. And
I'm hoping by the end of thisseries, you're just blown away,
you're feeling so good. Maybejust maybe you're like, Okay,
(21:39):
Nellie, I want to have your yoursupport. I don't want to do this
alone, I deserve support.
Together, we can be like thisdream team. At any point, you
don't have to wait. You can justreach out to me or grab the
application process of becominga money making marketing VIP
(22:02):
client. The beautiful part ofwhat we do and how we do it is
you don't just get done for youresources. Like you still get
coaching and mentoring and anexclusive community around you
like we're doing thingsdifferently here. And it feels
so incredibly good. Becausemarketing is just one piece of
(22:25):
the equation. And I don't wantto leave you stranded or having
to feel like you have to goinvest in other coaches and
mentors, because that justcreates more time more
confusion, more investing. Andit's just so much easier when
you can be like together andcohesive and be a team. So I
(22:46):
really like some of my clients,my high level VIP clients have
started to like invite me totheir like, team bonding
experiences. And it just likewarms my heart so much because
I'm like, I really do feel likeI'm on your team. And as much as
I can come to them I liketotally want to come. Which is
(23:09):
why I made like the big shiftrecently to be very hands on and
exclusive with a small group ofwomen and support them in a
customized way for each each ofthem. So yeah, this is like so
good. So I will see you back onthe next session. Let's get
things feeling so good. Take thepressure away, and have an
(23:32):
amazing day. Make it an amazingday. Love you.
Is your head spinning? I hopeyou took so many notes and you
feel so inspired. Time trulyflies when you're learning about
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(24:36):
it a great day.
Good morning mama. It is time to wake up and be
wealthy. It is time for you tobecome rich a week it is time
for more ease, flow and fun foryou. It is time to build a life
and business. You are madly inlove with it. It's time to
unlock the wealth codes neededto build your business with your
(00:32):
dedicated host, me NellieCorriveau, Nellie Corriveau. I
am the CEO and founder of thewealthy mama movement, and I
want to officially welcome youto the wake up and be wealthy
show. I am the master at salesand social media with over 17
years of experience buildingbrands in multiple industries,
(00:55):
resulting in millions of dollarsnight as mentored countless
women from starting theirbusinesses all the way up to
multi millionaires. I am here tobe your go to mama to help you
build an iconic brand that youare proud of to create a massive
passion and impact in the world.
Without further ado, let'sunlock today's episode. Enjoy.
(01:22):
Welcome back to the show. I hopeyour coffee is strong. today. We
are starting a new series todaywhich I'm super duper excited
about you're getting. You'regetting on the go Nellie here as
my jeep is beeping becausesomebody is behind me. Okay, no
one is behind me. Let's go aheadand rock and roll. My VIP
(01:45):
clients get a lot of behind thescenes of On the Go Nellie
because we have a privatemessaging app that we chat in.
And it just makes it fun becauseit's like real life like we are
all women building businesses,while most likely raising babies
even if your babies are older. Ithink that just based on some of
(02:09):
my friends that have older kidslike they're still always your
babies right? So we've got a lotgoing on and I love just to like
be on the go with you and coachand support you and cheer you
on. So this is a my back toschool money making marketing
series I say that a bazilliontimes fast. So why why are we
(02:32):
talking about this? Well, it isthe biggest pain point that I am
hearing from everyone that I'mworking with, they feel so
freaking overwhelmed withmarketing, although they do know
how freaking important it is.
And so there are a lot of timesforcing themselves in a box of
marketing and feeling won, likelost and confused and
(02:55):
overwhelmed in the box. Andalso, like I don't even know if
I'm doing like what I should bedoing or I am doing things and
I'm not making the money that Idesire, things are taking longer
things feel forced, they don'tfeel good, all other things. And
so I felt like I've got a lot tosay on this. And I actually love
(03:19):
marketing. And it is definitelysomething that I've noticed
about myself. Because over theyears when people have truly
like they've been expressingthis to me for so many years,
and old Nellie was just soconfused, because I truly love
it. And it comes so easy to me.
(03:41):
And like I've always made moneyon social media and doing social
media marketing. And no matterwhat I've sold not just in
coaching, which I think is likehuge to know to like from
nonprofit to actual physicalgoods to services to elearning
digital products to coaching andmentoring to then also my
(04:04):
clients in different industriesand guiding them and supporting
them and breaking down theselike barriers. And so I've got
so much to say. And that is whyit's going to be a series so
that way one podcast episode isnot a bazillion hours long. So
come on this ride as back toschool is coming or it's already
(04:28):
here depending on when your kidsgo back to school. But back to
school season in general, nomatter like when your kids
actually go back to school ormaybe you're like I really liked
you Nellie but I don't even havekids. That's that's okay too,
like I think just in general,the back to school season
(04:50):
regardless where you're at, inyour journey is quite magical.
Like, it almost feels like amany new year. And I know we
always decide, you know, ourvibe in regards to, you know,
the first of the year is always,you know, a big deal. And so my
take on all of that is, if itfeels good, like, let it be
(05:13):
right, like there is a sparklearound the New Year, let's
maximize that there is asparkle. When it comes to back
to school time, like your innerroutine, again, the seasons are
changing, Starbucks has yourfavorite drink, right? Like, if
you love the holidays, they'requickly approaching like, My
(05:36):
take is, if it makes you feelgood, let's roll with it. And so
hopefully you are feeling thattype of energy. If not, we get
to get you there. And so my goalover this money making marketing
series is to take the overwhelmaway, and really get you feeling
amazing, because if nothingdrastic changes around your
(05:59):
relationship with money, andalso marketing, because they do
go hand in hand. Imagine that.
But if nothing drastic changes,nothing drastic is going to
change, right. So if we keepstaying in the story, and the
energy and the broken record ofmarketing is overwhelming, I
don't know how to make money orthings aren't working like
(06:22):
whatever it is, if it's a ifit's not serving you, and we're
not shifting it, nothing massiveis going to change. And like I
really do believe the longer westay there, the more challenging
it is to break free. And so whenwe are feeling that way, it's
just such a good opportunity asquickly as possible be as
(06:46):
possible to be like, Oh, okay,I'm going to be curious because
this doesn't feel good. And thenI always love like taking the
responsibility back. Becausewhen we take the responsibility
back, you hold all the power,which means you can literally
create a different reality veryquickly, when you hold all the
(07:09):
power, it's so liberating, andso exciting. So if you've been
feeling overwhelmed, orfrustrated, or burnt out, any
feeling that is not serving youaround marketing, and you really
want to make more money, thisseries is going to be so, so
beneficial for you. And I'm justso excited. And of course open
(07:32):
invitation to become one of ourVIP clients where we do your
marketing for you. Besides like,obviously, like you getting on
video, but we take away so muchof the stress, so much of the
strategy, the decision makingthe execution of it, it really
is quite magical to have thistype of support. So I'll be
(07:55):
talking about that throughoutthe series, but genuinely just
here and excited to serve youand hopefully get you some
relief, because you do deserveit. And it is possible. And it's
possible when you say it'spossible, right? So like that is
the first step here is do youwant to make money online and
(08:18):
maximize social media marketing?
Yes or no? And that is not arhetorical question. And it's
not a trick question. It's liketruly, like, it's important to
give yourself that consent oflike, yes, Sally, I do. I want
to shift. I want to make money.
I want it to feel good. I wantto use and maximize and leverage
(08:41):
social media marketing to helpme make more money. So that's
like first step right out of thegates. Once you've said yes,
obviously keep coming back andlistening to this whole series
in real time and implementing inreal time. I love hearing from
you as well. So please don'tfeel like you can't reach out
(09:05):
because I would love to hearfrom you. So today is really
like the mindset piece ofmarketing. Because regardless if
you have us helping you or not,your mindset is important
because things take time, right?
You can't expect me and my teamto be in your marketing for a
(09:28):
week. I'd be like Nellie, whyhave you not made me a million
dollars yet? Like you suck Ilike I quit. You're fired. Like
all the things or if you'redoing it on your own and you do
one Facebook Live, and you'relike, I didn't I didn't make any
money like no one commented or Ionly got one sale or whatever it
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may be when we're onlymarketing. This is like the
slippery slope that I work onwith a lot of clients If we're
only marketing to make money, itstarts to become very
contingent. And therefore, weare constantly measuring our
success only on the validationof a quick sale. And like some
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of my dream is clients did notpay me for years, right. But I
was continuing to show up onsocial media, I was continuing
to reach out to them holding thebelief, holding the hope,
trusting the process, knowingthat the time would be right.
And I would be ready, right. Andso you've got to be in this
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money making marketing game forlong term growth. Okay. So if
that means you, you've got to goget a day job, or work at
Starbucks and get some freecoffee, or take on, you know,
some clients in your skill set.
But it's not like where you wantto be long term, but you're
like, I still am good at it, Ienjoy it. Like, you've got to
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take some pressure away fromthis process. Because if you're
like, oh my gosh, Nelly, if Idon't make sales today, I cannot
pay my water bill. It is justnot fair to your nervous system.
It is not fair to your audience,it is not fair to your future
self. That pressure is sosuffocating. And you really do
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need to take the pressure away.
So how we do that is up to you.
Because you know your situationthe best. But that is like
homework assignment number one,if you are in a space where you
are either paycheck to paycheck,client to client, invoice to
invoice, day to day, whatever itmay be, we've got we've got to
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get some relief. And know thatit's only temporary and know
that it can still serve you andfeel good, right? Like I
recently had a client telegramme and she's like, Oh my gosh,
Natalie, I got a dream day job.
And it's gonna give so muchrelief to me and my business and
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my family. And I'm like, soexcited about it. And I told
her, I am so proud of you.
Because this is how youskyrocket like I already know
what's waiting for her on theother side. And it's just so
hard because the world reallylike shames that like oh, well,
you're a full time entrepreneuror you. Maybe you're in a day
(12:30):
job right now. And you'refeeling shame around that or you
are a full time entrepreneur andyou're feeling shame around
like, Shit, I kind of need someextra money. And I shouldn't
have to get a job. But it'slike, Which one, which one is
worse, right? Like feelingstressed AF and feeling very
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needy that you need to salestoday in order to survive,
right, which is honestly noteven a good energetic state or
mindset to be in for anyone,especially you. And so take the
shame away. I celebrated myclient when she told me that and
I told her, you can use yourgifts for this this day job and
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treat it like the client like,Okay, I'm going to my client
today and I'm going to pour intothem and maximize my skills
maximize my time, right? Like,it's all about your mindset,
right? And the relief that sheis going to get is massive for
her business and her growth andher nervous system. And it's Oh,
(13:38):
hey, it's okay. It's more thanokay. And we get to celebrate
that. And you don't have to beshame full about it. You don't
have to hide it. I mean, you canchoose how you talk about it.
But no matter if you talk aboutit publicly or not, we get to
feel good about it right now.
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And know that it's not yourforever. So if you are feeling
that pressure, financially,before we even talk marketing,
you've got to get the pressureaway, like and if that means
you're like, Well, I don't wantto get a day job or that doesn't
make sense for my lifestyle. Iget that too. So like you get to
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explore Capitol funding, you canjust explore a 0% credit card,
you get to explore any otherfinancial options for you to get
some relief and you can alsodecide what that is right? Like,
if you had x amount in your bankaccount right now. Would that
take the pressure away andeveryone is so different? So if
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you're feeling the financialpressure, that's my first
recommendation. If you'refeeling time pressure, where
you're like Nellie X usuallylike, don't have much financial
pressure. But now, I'm soinundated with client work that
I don't have the time to market,right, or your kids are taking
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up so much of your time. On topof everything else that you're
like, I just don't know when tofit it in, I'm so overwhelmed
with even trying to even startto think about when I could fit
it in. And if you're likeNellie, I, I feel the financial
and time I'm witnessing you sodeeply. And I'm like, I just
(15:34):
want to normalize all of this,and neutralize all of it.
Because it's just so real. And Ilove talking about hot topics,
especially on the podcast,because everything in this world
is deemed good or bad bysociety. And then that's what we
start to believe. But like youcan also choose again, okay? So
(15:56):
we get to feel good about your,your current financial safety,
and also your time capacity. Soif you're feeling a little
pressured, or a lot pressured inyour time capacity, what's got
to give right? Like, can we geta little bit of childcare,
right? Or a lot of otherchildcare? Can we like swap days
(16:19):
with the girlfriend where youwatch their kids? And she
watches yours? And it's justlike an even trade? Can we get a
VA to help you and get some,like, of the client deliverables
off your plate? Is there anyautomation we can do? Is there
anything we can delete, right?
Like, there's always a way tochoose again, and feel better?
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physically, financially,emotionally, time, again, we
hold all the power, all thepower, so we can rewrite this
future and current realityreally, very, very quickly, very
quickly, which is so freakingexciting, which is why we like,
like, one of the main reasonswhy we became our own boss,
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right? And then we like, kind ofget awkward and forget that. And
then, like, we're feeling sotrapped, and in that box that I
talked about, but like that'snot the only way and that's not
how it's supposed to be. Okay,so I'm just here for a new
perspective, or maybe aperspective that you know, and
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you're like, Okay, Nellie,you're right. You're right. I
know. I know. I know. I know,right? It's just so easy to get
into people pleasing mode andbusy mode, and then you start to
feel funky and you're like, Whydo I feel so funky, I don't even
love my business. So it's justlike, today's session is all
(17:50):
about alignment recalibration,taking your power back. And it's
going to make this money makingmarketing so much fucking
easier. Like, regardless if youhave my support or not like,
it's going to make it feel sogood. And that is the missing
piece for so many women businessowners. I can't tell you how
(18:13):
many times in the past that Iforced myself to do reels or I
must be on Tik Tok, or I mustsend this many emails or go live
this many times. And it justfelt so shitty. And I was so
overwhelmed. Now, like, I wantyou to see like the grass is
greener on the other side. I doreels more than I ever had
(18:36):
before. They get so muchconversion, and so much
traction, and they actuallyfucking feel good. None of my
content is forced. All of itfeels so freakin fun and
exciting, like, and it's makingmore and more money and less and
less time. And so I just knowthat this is so possible, okay,
(18:58):
and I want this so, so deeplyfor you, like so deeply. And so
this series, I'm going to pourmy heart into you as much as I
can. As much as you allow me Ijust want you flow in and
feeling so good and having somuch fun. Because truly like one
of my favorite is affirmationsis the more money I the more fun
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I have, I should say the morefun I have, the more money I
make. Okay, say it with me. Themore fun I have, the more money
I make. We're gonna say one moretime together. The more fun I
have, the more money I make.
It's so true. I can't wait tohelp build more and more
(19:44):
evidence of that for you andwith you. If you're not there
yet. You and it's going to be sogood. So let's get aligned,
let's take some of the pressureor a lot of pressure away.
Because this gets to feel good,it's safe for you to feel good,
it's possible for it to feelgood. And you hold all the
(20:06):
power. So I will see you back onthe next money making marketing
session of all about gettingback to school, and feeling so
good about your money. And it'sall up to you. And you don't
have to do it alone. But you dohold all the power, I cannot say
that enough. And this can allchange so quickly. So quickly,
(20:30):
you can feel so much better, youcan attract more money than you
even know what to do with moremoney than you've maybe even
ever thought was possible. Like,I'll never forget years ago,
when I had my first $10,000 daylike I had very little child
care at the time. And I rememberjust standing at my kitchen
(20:53):
island, looking at my pay pal.
And I even remember, likesending a photo to my husband
like holy shit, like it'sworking like it is working. And
I can't tell you how manysimilar moments I've had. But
that was like one of thebiggest, most pivotal one, when
Emma was teeny tiny. And I justremember that feeling. And it
(21:15):
was so juicy and delicious andamazing. And it's just happened
more and more and more anythingis possible when you believe it
is possible. And you can believeit more and more and more. And
I'm hoping by the end of thisseries, you're just blown away,
you're feeling so good. Maybejust maybe you're like, Okay,
(21:39):
Nellie, I want to have your yoursupport. I don't want to do this
alone, I deserve support.
Together, we can be like thisdream team. At any point, you
don't have to wait. You can justreach out to me or grab the
application process of becominga money making marketing VIP
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client. The beautiful part ofwhat we do and how we do it is
you don't just get done for youresources. Like you still get
coaching and mentoring and anexclusive community around you
like we're doing thingsdifferently here. And it feels
so incredibly good. Becausemarketing is just one piece of
(22:25):
the equation. And I don't wantto leave you stranded or having
to feel like you have to goinvest in other coaches and
mentors, because that justcreates more time more
confusion, more investing. Andit's just so much easier when
you can be like together andcohesive and be a team. So I
(22:46):
really like some of my clients,my high level VIP clients have
started to like invite me totheir like, team bonding
experiences. And it just likewarms my heart so much because
I'm like, I really do feel likeI'm on your team. And as much as
I can come to them I liketotally want to come. Which is
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why I made like the big shiftrecently to be very hands on and
exclusive with a small group ofwomen and support them in a
customized way for each each ofthem. So yeah, this is like so
good. So I will see you back onthe next session. Let's get
things feeling so good. Take thepressure away, and have an
(23:32):
amazing day. Make it an amazingday. Love you.
Is your head spinning? I hopeyou took so many notes and you
feel so inspired. Time trulyflies when you're learning about
becoming wealthy a app. I hopeyou loved today's episode. That
does it for us on the show.
Don't forget every weekday weunlock a another juicy money
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