September 14, 2023 • 21 mins
On this episode of the Wake Up & Be Wealthy show, Nellie is talking about how you can pour from an empty cup, but why would you want to? Let's dive in and talk about how to do this in a better way with a better mindset and of course with ease, flow and fun!
We will touch on:
- The importance of being in alignment with yourself and your business.
- How do we create the overflow?
- The biggest act of self care.
- How to make room for the overflow.
We hope you've enjoyed this episode, and are ready to take action and make any necessary shifts to creating overflow for yourself and your business!
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Unknown (00:01):
Truth be told, anytime I say the saying, you can't pour
from an empty cup, I like alwayscringe. And I say like, I know
it's so cheesy, but it's sotrue, which means I don't feel
in alignment fully with thatsaying, and it hit me so hard,
so deeply of this mindset shiftaround pouring from an empty
(00:25):
cup. so hear me out, because Ithink it's really going to help
you so much. So I've been doingwhat I call CEO alignment week,
this is actually one of my VIPdays that I do with VIP clients.
And you don't feel like you needCEO alignment. But it is
everything, it is everything. Ifit wasn't needed, then every
(00:49):
single CEO, aka business owner,would be a bazillionaire and be
super happy. If we didn't needSEO alignment, then that would
be our reality. So there's somuch more than just creating
offers right? So much more thanthe money making marketing, it
is truly making sure we havepure alignment, through you, for
(01:15):
you, with your business, just asif your business is an actual
human, right. So it's like firstalignment with yourself, then
alignment with your business. Soeverything can work together. So
I want to talk about this sayingyou, you can actually pour from
an empty cup. But do you want towrite so that like I said, That
(01:40):
thing has never like felt goodto me, because I'm like, I just
cringe every time I'm like, Iknow it's cheesy, but here's
why. Okay, we actually do pourfrom empty cups all the damn
time. Like, think about it, whenyour kids nice needs something.
If your kids need something andyou you're empty, you're
depleted, you're exhausted.
Typically, especially if,especially if it's something
(02:06):
that your kids need, like theyneed food, or they need bathed
or they need, you know, helpwith their homework, even if you
are empty, even if you aretired, you are going to do it,
which means you are pouring froman empty cup. Right? It doesn't
feel good, right? You'reexhausted, they can feel that
right? All of the things, butyou still do pour from an empty
(02:28):
cup, right? So here is a newmindset shift for you. Okay, we
pour from an empty cup foreveryone else. Now, when it
comes to doing something forourselves. So let's say you
wanted to go for a run, or youwanted to do the dishes because
they were bothering you, or youwanted to like work on your
(02:53):
marketing or you wanted to. Um,that's another thing that
doesn't get completed.
Typically. If you wanted to,like hang out with your
significant other or do somehousework, something that would
be just normally for you. Right?
That typically does not happenwhen we have an empty cup. Okay,
(03:18):
so here's how we fix it. Wecreate this overflow, okay?
Because when you create thatoverflow, every one, including
you, wins, right? So how do wecreate that overflow is going to
(03:38):
look different for each andevery human. But think of what
lights you up Think of whatgives you joy? Equally, think of
what drains you. Because when wepour into your cup with things
that feel good things that giveyou joy, things that energize
you, if we still have thingsthat are draining, you almost
(04:01):
think of the things that aredraining you as they're going to
subtract by 10. Every time youput 555 points in have the joy,
the fun, the excitement. Soyou're always going to be at a
deficit, right? When we areconstantly continuing to do
things that drain you, right?
(04:24):
Being around people that drainyou things that drain you
overwhelmed, right? So thefastest way to start creating
overflow is truly releasingslowly, everything that is
weighing you down, because thatalone is going to make room for
(04:47):
so much overflow, more overflowthan you even may know that can
happen right now in this moment.
Right? And so when we canactually do this, then When your
kids need you, your significantother needs you, you need you,
you are going to fly throughthings more than you ever have
before, right? Like your kidsneed home Homework Help. Oh my
(05:10):
gosh, let's do this. Let's makeit fun, right? Because you have
filled up your cup, right nowthis overflow is happening. And
when you can continue to keepthat overflow happening, like,
almost think of like a fountainfountain, right, the fountain as
long as the fountain is liketurned on, if it's like an
electric fountain that you geton Amazon. It's just gonna keep
(05:32):
going. Now when you unplug it,it's gonna stop, right. So your
job as the CEO, yourresponsibility is to keep that
overflow flowing, meaning thatthe plug stays plugged in,
right. So we get to be thisforce field more than you ever
have before, to create so muchalignment for you. That is never
(05:54):
ending, right. And we can alwaysgo deeper, we can always align
more and more and more. And thereason why that is, is because
you are evolving every day. Myneeds for today are different
than yesterday, right? Andthere'll be different next week.
And so this is why this is anever growing process, just as
(06:16):
much as health and fitness islike, even when you lose the
weight you got to maintain,you've got to keep it off,
right, you want to build muscle,right. And it's so much more
than just losing weight. It'slike staying healthy. So we can
live as long as possible, right.
So this is not just like a oneand done or this is like we keep
doing it. But in the in thebeginning is when it typically
(06:39):
feels like the slowest, it feelslike it isn't happening, is it
not happening. But once wecreate this avalanche of the
overflow, you're not going towant to stop, right, which is
why this is one of my VIP daysfor clients. Because there's so
much that we can do here. Sothink of things that are
(07:01):
bothering you like this is sucha good, good place to start, you
could literally write downeverything that's bothering you
right now. It can be big, it canbe small, it can be anything,
and everything. Like literallyjust asking yourself, like
what's bothering me right now.
Like, what just doesn't feelgood. And you can say things
that are in and out of yourbusiness. But we want to get
(07:21):
that inventory, because that'sgoing to be such a great place
for you to start. So that way wecan move forward and get you in
such pure alignment that it likeinevitably creates that overflow
for yourself and for others. Andthis is the this is the biggest
act of self care. Like truly thebiggest act of self care. I'll
(07:44):
give you some examples from myown personal life, because
that's how I teach, okay. So Ihave no problem ever doing
something for my house doingsomething for my kids doing
something for my husband, doingthings for my clients, even if I
don't feel the greatest or I'mtired, I'm going to show up for
(08:05):
them because it's so easy for usto show up for other people. But
for so long. Of this year, I wasso tired from postpartum boo not
sleeping, right. So like I keptputting off working out, I kept
putting off like goals in my ownspecific my own specific
business like things that I wantto do. Things that I want to
(08:27):
create just systems, all thethings I just kept putting it
off and putting it off andputting off cuz because I was
pouring from pretty much anempty cup. Right? And again, you
can still do it. Does it feelthe greatest? Not necessarily,
right? Do we do what we have todo? Absolutely. But we can
choose again, right? Like,I don't ever want to let
(08:51):
somebody I love down or a clientdown. But it doesn't mean that I
can't choose again. Right? Andhere's the coolest part about
this. When you actually dochoose again, everyone wins
more. My clients are likequantum leaping more than I've
ever experienced them quantumleaping. Do I feel like I'm a
(09:11):
part of that? Absolutely. Right.
We are literally all in aforcefield together. And so what
actually when I rise, my clientsrise with me and vice versa,
right like that. forcefield isso strong. Even my marriage,
like we literally, like drovehome from the beach and just
(09:35):
talked the whole time in July.
Like that was like when theoverflow was starting. Right?
And so we can always, always,always, always, always choose
again, and that ultimate form ofself care is what you deserve.
Right? And so it can be so easyto feel like well, this is as
good as it's gonna get. Like Ihave to I have to live like
(09:58):
this, I have to operate it likethis. And I just want to be that
beacon of hope, beacon of light,light, that there's another way.
Another way, you don't have togive up what you desire, you
don't have to give up yourneeds. And once you can
literally pave your own way withease flow and fun, and truly do
it at a pace that feels good toyou to get to the results that
(10:23):
you desire, and it feels goodthe whole time. That is like,
the biggest thing that I wantyou to take away from this is it
gets to feel good the wholetime. And when you're pouring
from an empty cup, it doesn'tfeel good the whole time. Right?
It does not feel good at all thewhole entire time. And even
after, right, sometimes kind oflike think of childbirth, like
(10:46):
it doesn't feel the greatest,but then you get like the reward
of the baby at the end. There'slike, not necessarily even that
at the end, right? It's just thecycle that continues. And the
deeper you go, the deeper yougo. And the harder it is to get
out of that cycle based on myexperience, right. So the same
is true about overflow. If anempty cup creates more of an
(11:06):
empty cup, and overflowed cupcreates more of an overflowing
cup, right, so flow creates moreflow, which creates more flow,
which creates more flow. Andthis is when you get to like
this universe, this reality thatis so different, that most
people don't get to experiencewhich breaks my freaking heart.
(11:29):
But you can create it right, nomatter what is in your bank
account right now, no matterwhat your workday looks like,
right now, you can and get youcreated in your mind first, and
then we get to create it in theactual physical realm. Second,
right. It is literally arequirement for it to happen.
(11:49):
Anything can happen when wecreate it in our mind. First, we
decide we take aligned action,right, and we do it with ease,
flow and fun, it feels good thewhole time. And you get there
and then that cycle repeats overand over and over and you go
deeper and deeper and deeper ina good way. Right. And that's
(12:11):
when you get to this whole newreality that you're like, Whoa,
I did not even know that thisexisted, right? And then like,
it just gets deeper and deeperand deeper and better and better
and better. And if you think I'mbananas, you can think I'm
bananas, but I'm just living.
(12:34):
I'm living in this world. And Iwant as many people in here
playing with me as possibledoesn't mean everything is
perfect. No, I had a emotionalmeltdown two days ago, right
before I started my period. Andthat's normal, right? Like, it's
how you choose to live in theworld, right? So it doesn't mean
everything's perfect. But Iacknowledged my emotions, I
(12:56):
released them, I honored them, Ididn't shame them. And that is
different than in the otherreality, right? So it's a whole
different world. Over here.
Maybe you're already in here, ifyou're already in here, let's
play together and create moreoverflow. And that's the beauty
of doing things together. And sothat alignment is so important.
And when you can look at a listof things that are bothering you
(13:20):
that don't feel good, that areoverwhelming you that are
draining you in your biz, inyour life, whatever it is, it
all matters, whether it's big orsmall, it all matters. And
slowly one by one by one, whenwe can start to release those
things, right, some are going tobe easier than others. And
that's normal. But when we canstart to release those things,
(13:42):
then the magic starts to happen.
Because you actually have roomfor overflow, think of a cup
that has a bunch of rocks in it,there's only going to be able to
be so many so much water in thecup, right versus an empty cup
that we can fill the water in,we're going to be able to get
(14:03):
more water in there. Okay. SoI'm super excited for you to
experience this. If you arewanting as VIP day where we can
do a huge deep dive into thisand so much more. Let me know as
soon as possible. I have a fewVIP days for the next quarter
coming and would just love to godeep with you support us through
(14:24):
this. And we do this in a verypractical way that actually gets
results right so this is notjust woowoo hype you up. This is
like Okay, let's get down tobusiness. Let's look at that
list. Let's start taking action.
Check in with you your nervoussystem, how you're feeling. And
then we take those teeny tinybaby steps towards where you're
wanting to go and it feels goodevery step of the way. And then
(14:48):
you start to get this likereally juicy momentum that you
don't want to stop. Like youdon't want to stop and that
that's my mission like gettingyou that momentum. It finally
clicks Same place, I'veexperienced this so many times
where it like, it's almost likethis on switch it like clicks in
place. And you're like, Oh, itis true, right? She wasn't just
blowing smoke up my butt like,this is true. And then you're
(15:12):
like, as soon as you have thatyour brain is like, so much more
on board. And then it's like,you feel like you go so fast.
And then people around you arekind of like, what is going on?
Right? Like you're so like,different. You're changing,
you're evolving. And it, itfeels fast to everyone else,
because you were doing so manythings before that moment. And
(15:33):
it's like, it's like, oh, mygosh, the rest is history. The
rest, like do I need to say anymore, right? And that's when
literally everything becomeseasier. I used to force myself
to do reels. I used to forcemyself to reach out to dream
clients, or anyone inparticular, right. I used to
(15:53):
force myself to go to networkingevents I used to force force and
force and force and force. Andit felt awful. And I was pouring
from such an empty cup. Andwondering why it all felt awful,
right? Well, it was because Iwas pouring from an empty cup.
And it felt awful. I was forcingthings I was resisting. And when
you can finally just have thattrue surrender and, and clear
(16:14):
the way make room for theoverflow. I do reels, multiple
times a day without even trying,right? Like, I reach out to
dream clients without like inthe light, like, in a way like
in my car, waiting in line atTarget, right? Like waiting in
line at Starbucks, like I just,it's just a part of me now. And
there's no resistance. And Ialways acknowledge what feels
(16:38):
good, whatever doesn't feelgood. I clear it as quickly as
possible. And this is creatingthat flow, that overflow that
just is not stopping. And it'sgetting stronger and stronger
and stronger. And it's creatingmore and more overflow. And
that's what I want to help youcreate. And I want you to feel
what this feels like. Becauseeven when the days aren't
(17:00):
perfect, when they're still likeI still have kids that, you
know, fight with me and I have aperiod and all the things like
life is still not perfect, butit still feels different. And I
navigate things differently,especially challenges. And
that's the most important partof all of this is CEO alignment.
When it feels good, it feelsfucking good. And when things
(17:22):
are challenging, you don't getemotionally derailed. You
just like, take a deep breathand like you boss up and you're
like, Okay, I know exactly whatI need to do. I've got the
tools, the resources, and wemove forward with ease flow and
fun. So it's like, it doesn'teven derail you. It's just like,
okay, cool. Let's go. Right,let's go. So I'm so excited for
(17:44):
you if you want to VIP day onSEO alignment. We also do VIP
days on offer creations. I offercreation and offer refinement
meaning like we tweak or modifyan offer with you. And then also
the money making marketing sidewhere it's like we take that
offer and we create the moneymaking marketing that's help
(18:05):
that's going to actually help itsell. So those are like our
three main VIP days that wefocus on. Obviously, if there's
more that you need, we can likecustomize it to you but those
are like the three main bucketsthat I love to go deep with in
VIP days and we can accomplish aleast one and a half of them if
not go like super deep and onedepending on you. So we do a
(18:28):
prep call for the VIP days wehave a clear game plan going
into it and then we have the VIPday and give you the like the
next steps at the end of thatVIP day. So I love you so much
all about overflow all aboutalignment. This is the stuff
that is going to help you get toevery single goal that you
desire without forcing anything.
Truly, it's huge. All right, Ilove you. Have a great day.
Truth be told, anytime I say the saying, you can't pour
from an empty cup, I like alwayscringe. And I say like, I know
it's so cheesy, but it's sotrue, which means I don't feel
in alignment fully with thatsaying, and it hit me so hard,
so deeply of this mindset shiftaround pouring from an empty
(00:25):
cup. so hear me out, because Ithink it's really going to help
you so much. So I've been doingwhat I call CEO alignment week,
this is actually one of my VIPdays that I do with VIP clients.
And you don't feel like you needCEO alignment. But it is
everything, it is everything. Ifit wasn't needed, then every
(00:49):
single CEO, aka business owner,would be a bazillionaire and be
super happy. If we didn't needSEO alignment, then that would
be our reality. So there's somuch more than just creating
offers right? So much more thanthe money making marketing, it
is truly making sure we havepure alignment, through you, for
(01:15):
you, with your business, just asif your business is an actual
human, right. So it's like firstalignment with yourself, then
alignment with your business. Soeverything can work together. So
I want to talk about this sayingyou, you can actually pour from
an empty cup. But do you want towrite so that like I said, That
(01:40):
thing has never like felt goodto me, because I'm like, I just
cringe every time I'm like, Iknow it's cheesy, but here's
why. Okay, we actually do pourfrom empty cups all the damn
time. Like, think about it, whenyour kids nice needs something.
If your kids need something andyou you're empty, you're
depleted, you're exhausted.
Typically, especially if,especially if it's something
(02:06):
that your kids need, like theyneed food, or they need bathed
or they need, you know, helpwith their homework, even if you
are empty, even if you aretired, you are going to do it,
which means you are pouring froman empty cup. Right? It doesn't
feel good, right? You'reexhausted, they can feel that
right? All of the things, butyou still do pour from an empty
(02:28):
cup, right? So here is a newmindset shift for you. Okay, we
pour from an empty cup foreveryone else. Now, when it
comes to doing something forourselves. So let's say you
wanted to go for a run, or youwanted to do the dishes because
they were bothering you, or youwanted to like work on your
(02:53):
marketing or you wanted to. Um,that's another thing that
doesn't get completed.
Typically. If you wanted to,like hang out with your
significant other or do somehousework, something that would
be just normally for you. Right?
That typically does not happenwhen we have an empty cup. Okay,
(03:18):
so here's how we fix it. Wecreate this overflow, okay?
Because when you create thatoverflow, every one, including
you, wins, right? So how do wecreate that overflow is going to
(03:38):
look different for each andevery human. But think of what
lights you up Think of whatgives you joy? Equally, think of
what drains you. Because when wepour into your cup with things
that feel good things that giveyou joy, things that energize
you, if we still have thingsthat are draining, you almost
(04:01):
think of the things that aredraining you as they're going to
subtract by 10. Every time youput 555 points in have the joy,
the fun, the excitement. Soyou're always going to be at a
deficit, right? When we areconstantly continuing to do
things that drain you, right?
(04:24):
Being around people that drainyou things that drain you
overwhelmed, right? So thefastest way to start creating
overflow is truly releasingslowly, everything that is
weighing you down, because thatalone is going to make room for
(04:47):
so much overflow, more overflowthan you even may know that can
happen right now in this moment.
Right? And so when we canactually do this, then When your
kids need you, your significantother needs you, you need you,
you are going to fly throughthings more than you ever have
before, right? Like your kidsneed home Homework Help. Oh my
(05:10):
gosh, let's do this. Let's makeit fun, right? Because you have
filled up your cup, right nowthis overflow is happening. And
when you can continue to keepthat overflow happening, like,
almost think of like a fountainfountain, right, the fountain as
long as the fountain is liketurned on, if it's like an
electric fountain that you geton Amazon. It's just gonna keep
(05:32):
going. Now when you unplug it,it's gonna stop, right. So your
job as the CEO, yourresponsibility is to keep that
overflow flowing, meaning thatthe plug stays plugged in,
right. So we get to be thisforce field more than you ever
have before, to create so muchalignment for you. That is never
(05:54):
ending, right. And we can alwaysgo deeper, we can always align
more and more and more. And thereason why that is, is because
you are evolving every day. Myneeds for today are different
than yesterday, right? Andthere'll be different next week.
And so this is why this is anever growing process, just as
(06:16):
much as health and fitness islike, even when you lose the
weight you got to maintain,you've got to keep it off,
right, you want to build muscle,right. And it's so much more
than just losing weight. It'slike staying healthy. So we can
live as long as possible, right.
So this is not just like a oneand done or this is like we keep
doing it. But in the in thebeginning is when it typically
(06:39):
feels like the slowest, it feelslike it isn't happening, is it
not happening. But once wecreate this avalanche of the
overflow, you're not going towant to stop, right, which is
why this is one of my VIP daysfor clients. Because there's so
much that we can do here. Sothink of things that are
(07:01):
bothering you like this is sucha good, good place to start, you
could literally write downeverything that's bothering you
right now. It can be big, it canbe small, it can be anything,
and everything. Like literallyjust asking yourself, like
what's bothering me right now.
Like, what just doesn't feelgood. And you can say things
that are in and out of yourbusiness. But we want to get
(07:21):
that inventory, because that'sgoing to be such a great place
for you to start. So that way wecan move forward and get you in
such pure alignment that it likeinevitably creates that overflow
for yourself and for others. Andthis is the this is the biggest
act of self care. Like truly thebiggest act of self care. I'll
(07:44):
give you some examples from myown personal life, because
that's how I teach, okay. So Ihave no problem ever doing
something for my house doingsomething for my kids doing
something for my husband, doingthings for my clients, even if I
don't feel the greatest or I'mtired, I'm going to show up for
(08:05):
them because it's so easy for usto show up for other people. But
for so long. Of this year, I wasso tired from postpartum boo not
sleeping, right. So like I keptputting off working out, I kept
putting off like goals in my ownspecific my own specific
business like things that I wantto do. Things that I want to
(08:27):
create just systems, all thethings I just kept putting it
off and putting it off andputting off cuz because I was
pouring from pretty much anempty cup. Right? And again, you
can still do it. Does it feelthe greatest? Not necessarily,
right? Do we do what we have todo? Absolutely. But we can
choose again, right? Like,I don't ever want to let
(08:51):
somebody I love down or a clientdown. But it doesn't mean that I
can't choose again. Right? Andhere's the coolest part about
this. When you actually dochoose again, everyone wins
more. My clients are likequantum leaping more than I've
ever experienced them quantumleaping. Do I feel like I'm a
(09:11):
part of that? Absolutely. Right.
We are literally all in aforcefield together. And so what
actually when I rise, my clientsrise with me and vice versa,
right like that. forcefield isso strong. Even my marriage,
like we literally, like drovehome from the beach and just
(09:35):
talked the whole time in July.
Like that was like when theoverflow was starting. Right?
And so we can always, always,always, always, always choose
again, and that ultimate form ofself care is what you deserve.
Right? And so it can be so easyto feel like well, this is as
good as it's gonna get. Like Ihave to I have to live like
(09:58):
this, I have to operate it likethis. And I just want to be that
beacon of hope, beacon of light,light, that there's another way.
Another way, you don't have togive up what you desire, you
don't have to give up yourneeds. And once you can
literally pave your own way withease flow and fun, and truly do
it at a pace that feels good toyou to get to the results that
(10:23):
you desire, and it feels goodthe whole time. That is like,
the biggest thing that I wantyou to take away from this is it
gets to feel good the wholetime. And when you're pouring
from an empty cup, it doesn'tfeel good the whole time. Right?
It does not feel good at all thewhole entire time. And even
after, right, sometimes kind oflike think of childbirth, like
(10:46):
it doesn't feel the greatest,but then you get like the reward
of the baby at the end. There'slike, not necessarily even that
at the end, right? It's just thecycle that continues. And the
deeper you go, the deeper yougo. And the harder it is to get
out of that cycle based on myexperience, right. So the same
is true about overflow. If anempty cup creates more of an
(11:06):
empty cup, and overflowed cupcreates more of an overflowing
cup, right, so flow creates moreflow, which creates more flow,
which creates more flow. Andthis is when you get to like
this universe, this reality thatis so different, that most
people don't get to experiencewhich breaks my freaking heart.
(11:29):
But you can create it right, nomatter what is in your bank
account right now, no matterwhat your workday looks like,
right now, you can and get youcreated in your mind first, and
then we get to create it in theactual physical realm. Second,
right. It is literally arequirement for it to happen.
(11:49):
Anything can happen when wecreate it in our mind. First, we
decide we take aligned action,right, and we do it with ease,
flow and fun, it feels good thewhole time. And you get there
and then that cycle repeats overand over and over and you go
deeper and deeper and deeper ina good way. Right. And that's
(12:11):
when you get to this whole newreality that you're like, Whoa,
I did not even know that thisexisted, right? And then like,
it just gets deeper and deeperand deeper and better and better
and better. And if you think I'mbananas, you can think I'm
bananas, but I'm just living.
(12:34):
I'm living in this world. And Iwant as many people in here
playing with me as possibledoesn't mean everything is
perfect. No, I had a emotionalmeltdown two days ago, right
before I started my period. Andthat's normal, right? Like, it's
how you choose to live in theworld, right? So it doesn't mean
everything's perfect. But Iacknowledged my emotions, I
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released them, I honored them, Ididn't shame them. And that is
different than in the otherreality, right? So it's a whole
different world. Over here.
Maybe you're already in here, ifyou're already in here, let's
play together and create moreoverflow. And that's the beauty
of doing things together. And sothat alignment is so important.
And when you can look at a listof things that are bothering you
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that don't feel good, that areoverwhelming you that are
draining you in your biz, inyour life, whatever it is, it
all matters, whether it's big orsmall, it all matters. And
slowly one by one by one, whenwe can start to release those
things, right, some are going tobe easier than others. And
that's normal. But when we canstart to release those things,
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then the magic starts to happen.
Because you actually have roomfor overflow, think of a cup
that has a bunch of rocks in it,there's only going to be able to
be so many so much water in thecup, right versus an empty cup
that we can fill the water in,we're going to be able to get
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more water in there. Okay. SoI'm super excited for you to
experience this. If you arewanting as VIP day where we can
do a huge deep dive into thisand so much more. Let me know as
soon as possible. I have a fewVIP days for the next quarter
coming and would just love to godeep with you support us through
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this. And we do this in a verypractical way that actually gets
results right so this is notjust woowoo hype you up. This is
like Okay, let's get down tobusiness. Let's look at that
list. Let's start taking action.
Check in with you your nervoussystem, how you're feeling. And
then we take those teeny tinybaby steps towards where you're
wanting to go and it feels goodevery step of the way. And then
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you start to get this likereally juicy momentum that you
don't want to stop. Like youdon't want to stop and that
that's my mission like gettingyou that momentum. It finally
clicks Same place, I'veexperienced this so many times
where it like, it's almost likethis on switch it like clicks in
place. And you're like, Oh, itis true, right? She wasn't just
blowing smoke up my butt like,this is true. And then you're
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like, as soon as you have thatyour brain is like, so much more
on board. And then it's like,you feel like you go so fast.
And then people around you arekind of like, what is going on?
Right? Like you're so like,different. You're changing,
you're evolving. And it, itfeels fast to everyone else,
because you were doing so manythings before that moment. And
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it's like, it's like, oh, mygosh, the rest is history. The
rest, like do I need to say anymore, right? And that's when
literally everything becomeseasier. I used to force myself
to do reels. I used to forcemyself to reach out to dream
clients, or anyone inparticular, right. I used to
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force myself to go to networkingevents I used to force force and
force and force and force. Andit felt awful. And I was pouring
from such an empty cup. Andwondering why it all felt awful,
right? Well, it was because Iwas pouring from an empty cup.
And it felt awful. I was forcingthings I was resisting. And when
you can finally just have thattrue surrender and, and clear
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the way make room for theoverflow. I do reels, multiple
times a day without even trying,right? Like, I reach out to
dream clients without like inthe light, like, in a way like
in my car, waiting in line atTarget, right? Like waiting in
line at Starbucks, like I just,it's just a part of me now. And
there's no resistance. And Ialways acknowledge what feels
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good, whatever doesn't feelgood. I clear it as quickly as
possible. And this is creatingthat flow, that overflow that
just is not stopping. And it'sgetting stronger and stronger
and stronger. And it's creatingmore and more overflow. And
that's what I want to help youcreate. And I want you to feel
what this feels like. Becauseeven when the days aren't
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perfect, when they're still likeI still have kids that, you
know, fight with me and I have aperiod and all the things like
life is still not perfect, butit still feels different. And I
navigate things differently,especially challenges. And
that's the most important partof all of this is CEO alignment.
When it feels good, it feelsfucking good. And when things
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are challenging, you don't getemotionally derailed. You
just like, take a deep breathand like you boss up and you're
like, Okay, I know exactly whatI need to do. I've got the
tools, the resources, and wemove forward with ease flow and
fun. So it's like, it doesn'teven derail you. It's just like,
okay, cool. Let's go. Right,let's go. So I'm so excited for
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you if you want to VIP day onSEO alignment. We also do VIP
days on offer creations. I offercreation and offer refinement
meaning like we tweak or modifyan offer with you. And then also
the money making marketing sidewhere it's like we take that
offer and we create the moneymaking marketing that's help
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that's going to actually help itsell. So those are like our
three main VIP days that wefocus on. Obviously, if there's
more that you need, we can likecustomize it to you but those
are like the three main bucketsthat I love to go deep with in
VIP days and we can accomplish aleast one and a half of them if
not go like super deep and onedepending on you. So we do a
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prep call for the VIP days wehave a clear game plan going
into it and then we have the VIPday and give you the like the
next steps at the end of thatVIP day. So I love you so much
all about overflow all aboutalignment. This is the stuff
that is going to help you get toevery single goal that you
desire without forcing anything.
Truly, it's huge. All right, Ilove you. Have a great day.
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