In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman discuss STEP 3 of their eight-step recovery model for addressing out-of-control sexual behavior—"Progression." Building on previous steps (creating distance from the behavior and examining sexual history), they dive into understanding the ups and downs of sexual behavior over time. They explore why it's crucial to identify periods of high and low use, examine what circumstances contributed to those patterns, and discuss the importance of recognizing escalation or tolerance in behavior. The conversation highlights the value of looking beyond surface-level triggers to understand the underlying reasons and needs driving the behavior, while also emphasizing the importance of focusing on healthy coping mechanisms and not falling into shame. The episode is practical, encouraging listeners to reflect deeply on their own patterns and to recognize hope and personal agency in their recovery process.
Eight Step Model viewable PDF
https://shorturl.at/MDJUC
Timestamps
00:00 Behavioral Reset and History Analysis
03:58 Addiction: Understanding Progression
08:20 "Internal vs. External Influences"
10:18 "Coping with Life's Challenges"
13:59 Empowering Control Over Life Choices
16:58 "Building Emotional Depth"
19:39 Reflect on Internet Usage Patterns
23:04 Extracurricular Sexual Activity's Impact
27:12 Escalation of Content Tolerance
29:19 Assessing Progression in Relationships
32:28 Cycle of Addiction Explained
35:54 Finding Lessons in Life's Challenges
39:22 Revisiting Past Efforts for Success
44:02 "Client Empowerment in Next Steps"
46:27 Wet Dreams Podcast Disclaimer
LinkTree
Facebook
TikTok
Music from #Uppbeat free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-lifeLicense code: 0SWIN8YAF7EIY6YI
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Cardiac Cowboys
The heart was always off-limits to surgeons. Cutting into it spelled instant death for the patient. That is, until a ragtag group of doctors scattered across the Midwest and Texas decided to throw out the rule book. Working in makeshift laboratories and home garages, using medical devices made from scavenged machine parts and beer tubes, these men and women invented the field of open heart surgery. Odds are, someone you know is alive because of them. So why has history left them behind? Presented by Chris Pine, CARDIAC COWBOYS tells the gripping true story behind the birth of heart surgery, and the young, Greatest Generation doctors who made it happen. For years, they competed and feuded, racing to be the first, the best, and the most prolific. Some appeared on the cover of Time Magazine, operated on kings and advised presidents. Others ended up disgraced, penniless, and convicted of felonies. Together, they ignited a revolution in medicine, and changed the world.
The Joe Rogan Experience
The official podcast of comedian Joe Rogan.