In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman dive into the topic of men experiencing lower libido than their partners—an issue they note is more common than people might think. They discuss the emotional challenges men face, such as feelings of shame, fear of rejection, and worries about not living up to societal expectations regarding masculinity and sexual desire. The conversation covers various factors that can impact male libido, including stress, mental health, medications, sleep habits, and relationship dynamics.
Jose and Dr. Hinman also explore how comparison—whether through social media, friends, or unrealistic cultural narratives—can create added pressure and dissatisfaction. They tackle the misconception that men should always be ready for sex and highlight the importance of open communication between partners. The episode concludes with practical advice for men, emphasizing the value of emotional connection, taking personal responsibility for one’s sexual experiences, and seeking support when needed.
Whether you’ve found yourself questioning your own libido or are supporting a partner through this experience, this episode offers validation, insight, and actionable tips for navigating sexual desire and fostering healthier relationships.
Timestamps
00:00 Addressing Lower Male Libido
03:47 Male Compartmentalization Myth
07:33 "Stress, Sex, and Personal Relief"
11:17 Rejection Anxiety in Relationships
15:56 Newness vs. Monotony in Desire
19:08 Porn, Masturbation, and Sexual Desire
22:43 "Importance of Open Communication"
25:35 Enhancing Desire Through Connection
26:43 Owning Your Sexual Desire
31:51 Wet Dreams Podcast Disclaimer
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