In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, Jose and Brad get real about divorce—how messy, confusing, and emotionally tough it can be, especially for guys. They talk about everything from couples using divorce as a threat, to the weird “should we/shouldn’t we?” dynamic around sex during and after splitting up. The hosts dive into how divorce can seriously mess with a guy's sexual confidence, self-worth, and even lead to things like erectile dysfunction, especially when jumping into new relationships too soon.
They also tackle the myth of staying together “for the kids” (spoiler: the kids almost always know what's up), and remind listeners that it’s way more important to work on yourself, figure out what went wrong, and give yourself time before diving into something new. There’s a lot of honesty here—about heartbreak, confusion, and healing—and the big message is: don’t go it alone. Therapy, reflection, and reaching out for support can make a massive difference when you’re picking up the pieces after a divorce. If you’re in the thick of it or just coming out the other side, this episode is a comforting, no-judgment look at how to move forward with a little more clarity and self-compassion.
Timestamps
00:00 "Divorce and Sexual Health"
06:18 Sex During Imminent Divorce
07:44 Confusing Intimacy and Relationship Status
13:03 Divorce: Men's Sexual Self-Esteem
16:14 Sex, Relationships, and Emotional Confusion
18:40 Misconceptions After Relationships End
20:53 Fear of Vulnerability and Intimacy
23:40 "Double Heartbreak Reflection"
28:49 "Relationships Complicated by Kids"
32:40 Kids Sense Troubled Relationships
34:56 Triggers in New Relationships
37:30 Post-Divorce Therapy Guidance
40:21 Divorce and Sexual Health Strategies
43:42 Self-Reflection for Personal Growth
47:53 "Growth Through Divorce Challenges"
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