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October 22, 2024 13 mins

Have you ever been stuck between two options, only to find a better option is the third option?

And of course, you’ve found the truth in between two very different renditions of the same event.

That space in between or unseen just beyond two options is the space of integration – and it can only be found if you are looking for it.

Executive Coach and Organization Development Consultant, Asli Aker is a master at being aware of and identifying the integrative space between two seemingly opposite things. Some refer to this as polarity management, but that sounds like a technique. For Asli, it’s a way of life. A way of being.

***True Snacks is a bite-sized learning excerpt from the full What Do You Know To Be True? podcast episode. To watch the full episode with Asli, go to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuFN-bxrXO8&list=PLbWfh34FP_dUcAaCrI31z00_fLdphi6b7&index=10 ***

Asli gracefully moves in the spaces between opposites to help her clients find the integration space that’s right for them.

It even shows up in how she talks about awareness. She eloquently weaves the warp and woof of polarities into a tapestry of integration – a space that feels holistic, safe, and true.

In this conversation, you will find out the true meaning of her name, “authentic,” and that she was born into this superhero power of finding that integrative space between two opposites.

In this episode, Asli answers the following questions:
• What do we mean by awareness?
• What is the real meaning of awareness?
• What is polarity management?
• What is the role of energy in polarity management?

My favorite quote from the episode: “Imagine what you can accomplish when you’re more alive.”

What I know to be true about the episode: I am in awe of how smoothly and effortlessly Asli weaves polarities into the conversation, into sentence after sentence. Not as a way of calling attention to the opposites, but instead to occupy the space in between them.

What I learned from the episode: A lot about polarity management, including that it’s a misnomer. Perhaps it should be called “integration management,” since that’s the end goal

Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at the episode website:
- Asli’s company, Niches Coaching and Consulting

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#PolarityManagement, #Awareness, #AchievingMore

Music in this episode by Ian Kastner.

"What Do You Know To Be True?" is a series of conversations where I speak with interesting people about their special talent or superhero power and the meaningful impact it has on others. The intention is to learn more about their experience with their superhero power, so that we can learn something about the special talent in each of us which allows us to connect more deeply with our purpose and achieve our potential.

For more info, go to:  https://whatdoyouknowtobetrue.com

"What Do You Know To Be True?" is hosted by Roger Kastner, is a production of Three Blue Pens, and is recorded on the ancestral lands of the Duwamish and Suquamish people. To discover the ancestral lands of the indigenous people whose land you may be on, go to: https://native-land.ca/ 

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