Season 08 Episode 04: Nipple Tweaks & Bottom Taps: The border between play and predatory assault
WARNING: This episode includes discussion on sexual harassment - we advise listener discretion.
Ever wondered when ‘just joking’ becomes sexual harassment? In this eye-opening episode, we unpack real stories of workplace encounters that cross the line—like unwanted bottom taps or nipple tweaks (Are these ever really okay?!) . Alan, Trajce, and Sara discuss why dismissing these actions as both banter and play lets disrespect thrive. Sara says, “We need to normalise calling out these moments, not laugh them off.” Trajce adds, “People think it’s harmless fun until someone finally speaks up—or leaves the job. Then everyone asks, ‘How did we miss the signs?’”
The podcasters break down how micro-assaults affect safety, culture, and performance, while exploring what leaders and colleagues can do when playful turns predatory. Join us as we unpack why micro-assaults like these matter, what the law says about sexual harassment, and how organisations can build cultures that stop them before they start. Alan reflects: “These aren’t grey areas. When someone’s uncomfortable, that’s the line. If you’re not sure, ask—or just don’t do it.”
Expect honest chat, expert insights, and a few laughs as we explore the sticky realities of personal space and respect at work.
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