The crushing weight of depression isn't just sadness – it's an overwhelming force that makes even getting out of bed feel like scaling Mount Everest. When every day becomes a battle against invisible chains, how do you find the strength to keep going?
We dive deep into the paradox of depression: feeling hopelessly stuck in a cycle where every attempt to improve seems futile. This isn't about lacking willpower. It's about being fundamentally disconnected from hope and purpose. For those in the depths of depression, suicide often seems like the only escape from relentless mental exhaustion. Yet there are pathways forward, even when they're difficult to see.
The journey to recovery isn't linear, but it begins with manageable steps. Breaking down overwhelming challenges into five-minute tasks creates small victories that gradually rebuild hope. We explore how self-compassion counteracts the harsh inner critic that constantly questions your worth, and why finding purpose beyond yourself – becoming someone else's beacon of hope – provides powerful motivation when you can't find it within.
Cognitive distortions reinforce negative thought patterns, making mindset work essential. Our 14 Days to Mental Health Wellness course offers practical tools to develop positive habits, track progress, and find daily inspiration. The course includes a free coaching session to help you implement these strategies effectively.
Remember that setbacks aren't failures – they're setups for comebacks. Your darkness has a deadline, even when you can't see the light. By sharing your journey, celebrating minor victories, and practicing consistent self-compassion, you can gradually transform depression's narrative from hopelessness to resilience. What small step will you take today?
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Episode Transcript
Hello and welcome.
To Win Over Depression, yourbeacon of hope in the realm of
mental health.
I am your host, tamara Trotter.
I am your companion on thejourney to reclaiming joy and
resilience, and this podcastwill unravel the vital
importance of managing yourwell-being amidst life's
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challenges.
From practical strategies touplifting stories and expert
advice, each episode is aroadmap to cultivating mental
wellness and overcoming the gripof depression.
Whether you are seeking solacefor yourself or supporting a
friend, here you will find thetools and inspiration to
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navigate the complexities ofemotional health.
Join me as we embark on atransformative quest to
prioritize self-care, resilienceand the triumph of the human
spirit.
Let's together redefine thenarrative of depression and
embrace a life of purpose andfulfillment.
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Today we'll be talking aboutwhy it is so hard to keep going.
You know the struggle withdepression that is so prevalent
and is ongoing from day to dayis very difficult to deal with.
Depression can feel like aninvisible weight pressing down
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on every aspect of your life.
It's not just about feeling sad.
It's an overwhelming sense ofhopelessness that clouds
judgment and zaps energy.
When someone is struggling withdepression, even the smallest
task can seem monumental themotivation to get out of bed,
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engage with others or pursuepersonal goals, can feel
completely out of reach.
This pervasive heaviness canmake the idea of just giving up
seem like a form of relief, away to escape from the constant
emotional and mental exhaustion.
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I can really understand whysomeone would just want to give
in, because mental exhaustion isa very, very difficult state of
being.
One of the most frustratingaspects of depression is the
paradox of feeling stuck.
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People often describe a senseof being trapped in a cycle
where every attempt to improvetheir situation feels futile.
This cycle reinforces itself,creating a feedback loop of
despair.
It's not a lack of willpower ora simple matter of snapping out
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of it.
It is a profound disconnectionfrom hope and purpose.
Understanding this paradox canhelp explain why it is so
challenging for those affectedto see any light at the end of
the tunnel.
It just seems like on some daysyou can make it a little bit,
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and on other days you feel likeyou just cannot put one foot in
front of the other, and so youdo not.
It is during these times whensuicide and feelings of not
being here tend to surface.
So what do we do in the middleof the night or in the thick of
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the day when the sun is shining,when we just don't feel like
continuing to go on, what we cando is think about those who
love us and those who want us tocontinue on, just for them.
I know that it seems as if thatmay be very difficult to do,
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but oftentimes, when we can'tseem to live for ourselves,
living for other people seemslike the best next possibility.
But in retrospect, it meansthat we are continuing to wear a
mask every single day and noone really knows exactly how
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we're feeling.
One of the keys to combating theurge to give up is focusing on
small, manageable steps,realizing that even the smallest
step is considered a win, andwe should celebrate each and
every one of those steps thathappen in our lives.
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When the big picture feelsoverwhelming, breaking down
goals into tiny, achievabletasks can help rebuild a sense
of control and accomplishment.
Once that happens, you'll beable to see that momentum is
picking up and you will begin tocomplete even more goals every
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single day, and that is exactlywhat we are looking for.
These small victories, thoughthey may seem insignificant at
the moment, can gradually shiftthe balance from despair to hope
, even if you can only dosomething for five minutes a day
.
If you didn't do something theprevious day for five minutes,
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that is definitely a goalaccomplished.
So you should be proud ofyourself and celebrate.
Proud of yourself and celebrate.
It is all about creating apathway to resilience, where
each step forward, no matter howsmall, contributes to a larger
journey toward healing andrecovery.
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And, even though it is sodifficult for us to realize and
to see that the light at the endof the tunnel is getting closer
, as long as we keep going anddon't stop, we will get to see
the victory that we have in mind, because hope is what we need
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to focus on, even in the midstof the struggle.
It is crucial to remember thathope can exist even in the
darkest moments.
While it may not always bevisible, it can be nurtured and
discovered through ongoingsupport, personal effort being
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proactive or throughprofessional guidance.
Depression may restore reality,making it hard to envision a
better future, but hope is foundin the perseverance to keep
moving forward, especially whenthe path ahead seems unclear.
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It's the hope, however fragile,that can be a powerful force in
the fight against depression.
So I'd like for you to analyzethe level of hope that you have
in your life If you were to lookat a scale of hope and the
scale said fair, good orexcellent, where would you lie
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on that hope meter?
It's hard to be probably on theexcellent side, but if your
hope is good, then you canalways move forward from there.
So hope is something that youmay not feel exists in your life
consistently, but when wemaintain hope and we believe
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that our circumstance, oursituation and what we're dealing
with can only get better, thenwe are able to continue to move
forward another day.
There are also cognitivedistortions when it comes to
depression, ways of thinkingthat reinforce negative feelings
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and beliefs.
I have always talked about howvery important your mindset is.
If, in your mind, you havenegative feelings towards your
healing, until you're able toreplace those feelings with
positive feelings on aconsistent basis, it'll continue
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to be very difficult for you tomove from where you are.
On that note, I want to remindyou that when Over, depression
has a TikTok page called 14 Daysto Wellness.
On this TikTok page there is acourse called the 14 Days to
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Mental Health Wellness.
This course was designed justfor you.
There are over 19 podcastepisodes, 19 daily affirmations.
There is a mood tracker whichgives you the opportunity to
track how you are feeling and totrack your progress.
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Whenever you track yourprogress, you can always look
back to see where you have madeimprovements and make a plan for
that next day or that nextmonth.
Also included in the 14 Days toMental Health Wellness are 30
activities to fight depressionand there are numerous
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inspirational videos just fromme to you to encourage you on
your journey.
If you would like to have moreinformation about this course,
please send me an email toTCT1867 at gmailcom.
Once again, tct1867 at gmailcom.
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This course is going to helpyou get back on track with your
mental health and help you todevelop the mindset that is
going to remind you howimportant it is to be hopeful,
how vital it is to surroundyourself with people who exude
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positivity, how important it isto accomplish and complete at
least two tasks every single day.
It takes 14 days to change ahabit, and that's why the 14
days to mental health wellnesscan completely renew and
rejuvenate your life.
If you want to get the coursedirectly, look in my bio and you
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will be able to see the actuallink, but grab a piece of paper
and a pen and I will give youthe address.
The address is pensightcom.
Backslash the letter X,backslash again when over
depression.
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If you get the 14 days tomental health wellness, over
depression, if you get the 14days to mental health wellness,
it also comes with a one hourfree coaching from me.
Another challenge in dealingwith depression is the role of
self-compassion, and that justmeans that oftentimes we are
critical and harsh and we areself-critical.
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So when someone is strugglingwith depression, they may be
their worst enemy, constantlyquestioning their worth and
capabilities.
Cultivating self-compassion canbe a crucial part of managing
depression, which means that wemust give ourselves grace.
This means treating oneselfwith the same kindness and
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understanding that one wouldoffer a friend in a similar
situation.
By learning to counteractself-criticism with
self-compassion, individuals cancreate a more supportive inner
environment that fostersresilience and hope.
In a recent conversation Italked about how we have to
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remember that people who sufferfrom depression meaning myself
and others.
Perhaps you do as well, orsomeone you know.
It is a sickness, and so whenyou are sick and you're not
feeling well, what happens?
You want to lay down, you don'twant to do anything, which
means that chores are not beingcompleted because you are not
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feeling well.
So when we criticize ourselves,we are not making our situation
any better.
The journey through depressionis rarely straightforward.
Treatment options includemedication, therapy, lifestyle
changes or a combination ofthese, but it can be complex and
it definitely requires patience.
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It often takes time to find theright approach and setbacks are
common.
However, we all experiencesetbacks in our life and because
of that, we have to know that asetback doesn't have to mean
that you cannot get to the nextlevel, because a setback is a
setup for a comeback.
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So, even though it can bediscouraging, making it tempting
to give up before seeingprogress, persistence is
definitely crucial.
Each person's path to recoveryis unique, and finding the right
treatment plan can make adifference in managing symptoms
and improving your quality oflife.
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Also, finding a meaningfulpurpose can be a powerful
motivator in overcomingdepression.
I've always said that you neverknow what you can offer someone
else, and oftentimes people arewaiting for you to get through
your trials and tribulations sothat you can be a testament to
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how you overcame yourcircumstances.
So don't make it about you.
Rather, make it about someoneelse, someone who you can uplift
, because when we uplift others,we certainly help our overall
functioning and our mentalhealth.
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Because when life feels devoidof meaning, it's easy to succumb
to the desire to give up, butexploring activities, passions
or relationships that provide asense of purpose can help
rekindle hope.
This doesn't mean find grand,life-changing answers right away
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, but rather start with small,meaningful activities that bring
a sense of fulfillment.
As these moments of meaningaccumulate, they can gradually
shift the perspective fromdespair to a more hopeful
outlook.
Talking about your depressioncan be a vital step in breaking
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through the isolation that oftenaccompanies the condition.
The stigma surrounding mentalissues can make it difficult for
people to share their struggles, but expressing their feelings
can lead to valuable support andunderstanding.
Encouraging open conversationsnot only helps those affected
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feel less alone, but alsopromotes a broader societal
acceptance and awareness ofmental health challenges.
By fostering an environmentwhere mental health is openly
discussed, we can create moresupport and resources for those
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in need.
We can create more support andresources for those in need.
In the face of depression, it'simportant to acknowledge and
celebrate small wins andincremental progress.
These moments of achievement,no matter how minor they may
seem, are steps forward in thejourney to recovery.
In the journey to recovery,recognizing and celebrating
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these small victories can buildmomentum and reinforce a sense
of accomplishment.
It is a way of countering thepervasive negativity of
depression and highlighting thepositive strides being made, no
matter how gradual they may be.
I never want to end my podcastwithout thanking you so very
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much for listening.
You have always been the bestpart of when over depression and
I appreciate each and every oneof you listening every single
Friday and every single week.
I encourage you to again getthe 14 days to mental health
wellness to get back on track.
I also remind you that you canfind us on Pinterest at TT
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Mental Health Expert.
You can also like and subscribeto our YouTube channel and also
find us on LinkedIn and Tumblr.
Remember, giving up is never anoption.
Stay in the game of life and Iwill see you next Friday on when
Over Depression.
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