157. Anti-Feminist Therapy? Dr. Hannah Spier on How Ideals of Independence Fail Women in Practice

Dr. Hannah Spier, a psychiatrist from Zurich, Switzerland, calls herself an "anti-feminist psychiatrist.” We delve into the complexities of women's mental health, particularly how feminist ideologies can lead to feelings of inadequacy and burnout. Hannah shares her insights from years of treating women who often find themselves stuck in therapy, grappling with anxiety and unfulfilled desires, particularly around relationships and motherhood.

We explore the concept of dating with intention, emphasizing the importance for women of knowing what we want while we still retain the advantages of youth. Hannah discusses the common patterns she sees in her patients, such as the pressure to achieve academically while neglecting emotional needs, which can lead to a cycle of anxiety and dissatisfaction. We also touch on the societal expectations placed on women and how these can create a disconnect between their true desires and their life choices.

Throughout our conversation, we challenge the notion of self-esteem and discuss the role of gratitude in overcoming resentment. Hannah argues that understanding the realities of both women's and men's experiences can help shift perspectives and foster healthier relationships. This episode aims to provoke thought about the choices women make and the societal narratives that shape those choices, ultimately encouraging listeners to reflect on their own paths and desires.

Hannah Spier is a Norwegian-born medical doctor trained in Psychiatry in Norway and Switzerland, with a degree in Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapy from the University of Zurich. Now based in Zurich with her husband and three children, she launched the Psychobabble publication and podcast in October 2022 to challenge postmodern influences and champion traditional values in the mental health field.

YouTube: @psychobabblewithspier

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[00:01:27] Anti-feminist psychiatrist explained.

[00:07:26] Biological clock and priorities shift.

[00:11:08] Success redefined for mothers.

[00:14:06] Choices and leverage for women.

[00:20:18] Biological realities of women's choices.

[00:25:46] Antidote to resentment is gratitude.

[00:30:00] Narcissism and self-perception.

[00:34:48] Resentment in motherhood and relationships.

[00:36:10] Women's relationship goals and challenges.

[00:43:34] Choosing the right partner.

[00:48:05] Evolutionary psychology and motherhood.

[00:52:17] Dating with intention.

[00:54:23] Postmodernism's impact on self-improvement.

[01:02:27] Expecting more from ourselves.

[01:03:21] Flaws in psychiatric treatment.

[01:10:06] Maternal instincts and self-care.

[01:15:36] Lies of feminism.

[01:16:43] Vulnerability and relationship dynamics.

[01:22:01] Confusion between love and passion.

[01:28:06] Healing from domestic violence.

[01:30:14] Maternal instincts and nurturing energy.

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