October 30, 2024 • 39 mins
Yay for making it to 25 episodes. The podcast is almost half a year old! In all seriousness, thank YOU for being in my world as a listener. It still blows my mind that, of all the things you could consume, you choose to spend some of your day with me. For that, I am super grateful.
Today I want to share a topic that I lovingly call “get mentored by the Universe.” Getting mentored by people is great and something I highly recommend, as (the right) people help you see your blind spots so you can grow. However, I also want you to grow when you’re not in front of those people. That’s where The Universe comes in.
The Universe is always leading you to something great, and always showing you how to get there. Only it can see into the future and know what that is for you. Learning how to follow that guidance has been incredibly life changing for me. I wouldn’t be as far as I am without people mentors… and if I only had people mentors, I wouldn’t be as far as I am without learning how to teach myself.
I share juicy nuggets like:
- What I understand the difference to be between your Soul and Higher Self.
- Why everything is truly happening for you, not to you.
- The difference between a victim and an empowered mindset.
- Why telling someone “they made you mad” is a disempowering thing to do.
- Why the Universe intentionally puts people and circumstances in our way to trigger us.
Linked Mentioned:
- Get Mentored email series. https://andreaandree.ck.page/products/mentor
- Learn more about Private Coaching: https://andreaandree.com/private-coaching/
- Power versus Force by Dr. David Hawkins: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Force-David-Hawkins-M-D/dp/1401945074
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-andree-5338248/
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People mentors are great. I would not be as far as I am without them. And had I
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only relied on people mentors, I wouldn't be nearly as far as I am now in
terms of my personal growth and moving to the highest version of me. And that is
because I have learned how to get mentored by the universe. That's what I
call it. The universe. What do I mean by the universe? Your soul, your higher
self, your spirit guides. There are entities in the non-physical that are
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lining up to help you become a better version of you. They are always talking
to you. And if you know how to listen, your personal growth can just accelerate
dramatically. I've worked with coaches and I've made really wonderful progress in
those coaching sessions. And I have notebooks upon notebooks of lessons
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that I have been able to learn myself outside of those coaching lessons.
Because I have learned how to tune in, how to pay attention to the lessons so
that way I know what I'm being asked to move beyond, what I'm being asked to
step into. And so that's what I want to introduce today is this concept of
getting mentored by the universe. Because the universe is always talking to us.
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Are you listening? Let's find out.
Welcome to Your Business is Your Spiritual Path, the podcast for business
owners who are ready to make more money and have more fun without doing more
work. After all, you didn't zip on this skimsuit to hustle and grind. It's okay
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to have fun along the way. I'm your host Andrea Andree. On this show I share
spiritual concepts, universal principles, and energy alignment techniques that will
help you embody your next best self so you can thrive in your life and in your
business. All right, before I get into the meat of the episode, I do want to
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celebrate that this is 25 episodes of the podcast. I am a quarter of a century
year old in the podcast terms. So I'm really excited about that. I keep missing
the numbers and I was going to celebrate a 10 and then celebrate a 20. So now I'm
saying, you know what? I'm celebrating at 25. Thank you, my listeners, for
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continuing to give me feedback because that is what keeps me going. As I
mentioned in the very first episode, I have no idea where this podcast is going
to take me. I just knew intuitively that this was the avenue that I was being
led to because I was getting mentored by the universe. I did not intend to like
make that little link in there, but I know how to be guided and I know how to
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trust my guidance and this is a place that I've been guided to do. I have no
idea where it's gonna lead. If it will lead to business, if it will lead to
anything, all I knew it was that I had to do it. So thank you. Thank you for being
out there, being in my listening audience, for giving me all the feedback of
anything I've ever done. This is the feedback that I get most readily from
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the people that I meet, the people online. So thank you for being out in my
audience because I can talk all I want, but it only goes so far if no one is
out there listening. So my celebration is your celebration. Alright, getting into
the content. Someone once asked me, how do I know who I am and what I'm good at
without feedback? And she was talking about people feedback. She was talking
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about getting mentors and people feedback is great. And again, I have hired
coaches, but the thing with mentors that I just want everyone to remember, even
coaches, even good coaches. This is why I like to go more from the spiritual
coaches because they know better about how to get themselves out of the way and
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just channel higher guidance for me, where most everyone in the world is
coming from their own lens, their own perspective, their own biases. And if they
don't know how to get those out of the way, then that is what feedback they are
giving you. They're possibly giving you all the places they were triggered, all
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their limiting beliefs. A lot of people do not know how to sift through those. I
just want to keep that in perspective that I don't have to always take all the
advice. Everyone has a limited point of view. Everyone has a bunch of
experience that makes up their perception of the world. Everyone has
their own unique soul blueprint, what they're good at, who they're here to
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serve. And so people who don't quite know or they're not self-aware enough to
understand those things, a lot of times they're just projecting them on to you
in a mentorship relationship. And so that's why for me, anyone that I choose to
work with, choose to hire, my goal with them is I really want them to ask me
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questions versus give me advice. I rarely want anybody's advice. And if they give me
advice, I just smile and nod and I say thank you. But I'm so tapped into myself,
what I want, what I need, that often I'm able to sift through what's helpful,
what's not helpful. But remember that when you're working with people, people
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typically have a limited vantage point and again they're limited by what they
know and what they've experienced. And so that's why for me, it has been so
helpful to learn how to tap in to the universe, to something much bigger, to
know exactly where I'm being led, exactly what I need to let go of in order to get
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there. And we'll talk about what that means this week and then next week I
have another special episode on reprogramming your meat computer because
that is part of this too. One of the goals is reprogramming our meat computer
so that way we can get to those elevated places because we can't outmanifest
our unconscious. We cannot out-create the beliefs and the emotions that are
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stored in our unconscious. And so if we want to go somewhere better, if we want
to make more money, we want to elevate our status in life, our work titles, our
leadership opportunities, our business, whatever it is, that was all kind of
money related. But if we want better relationships, we need to elevate our
unconscious because that puts us at an invisible glass ceiling and if you don't
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know how to reprogram your unconscious, your meat computer as I call it sometimes,
you can't out-create that. But the universe wants to partner with you and
show you what it is it's hiding in your unconscious so that way you can create
better for yourself. And so a couple fundamental beliefs that I hold on to
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around this. One, the universe, your soul, your higher self, your spirit guides, your
guardian angels, whatever you want to call them, whatever non-physical guidance
system that you have is always leading you to something great. Every single
person, every single one of us, the trajectory is up. The trajectory is more
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happiness, more health, more wealth, more purpose, more fulfillment. The path
looks different for everybody and the end result will look different for
everybody. For me, happiness and purpose looks like teaching and coaching and
transforming lives. For other people, it might look like putting art in their house
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so that way they've got more color and more fun and more vibrancy. For other
people, it might look like tinctures and botanicals and teas to help put good
nature back into your body. So the end result looks different for everybody. The
path looks different for everybody, but the goal is the same. The highest version
of you. And for me, the highest version of you is how can you live as your
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spiritual higher self? So I probably need to define that a little bit. The way I
understand higher self soul, I use those interchangeably, but for me those are a
little bit different. So I think of highest level being the universe, God
source, all that is, whatever the divine, whatever word you want to use for the
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energy that encompasses everything. And then from that energy, we've pinched off
individuated aspects of the energy. So it's still God, but it's like an
individual version of God. So for me, that's my higher self. And so it's like if
you take the ocean water and you take scoop a cup of water, you've got a cup,
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now you've got the ocean water separated from the ocean, but the contents are
still ocean water, I think of the same way as God and higher self. And so our
higher self for me, and different people describe this differently, but this is how
I've used it so far, is the closest to God, the closest individuated element of
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God that I can be without being actually all that is. And so I've got God within
me, but there's still, if we think about hierarchy, there's still an entity above
me that I can get guidance from. And so for me, higher self, it knows it's seen
our future, it sees our past, it knows the people that we're here to work with,
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to connect with, and it knows how to guide us to those. So do this thing, say
that thing, go to that coffee shop, right? Our higher self knows those
connections and is able to make those connections. And our higher self knows
who we are, it's aligned to abundance, it's aligned to our purpose. And then an
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individuated aspect of that is our soul. And so there's like, I think of our soul
as the personality that our higher self wanted to play in this lifetime. And so
our higher self always sort of steady up here, where our soul could be different
in different lifetimes. So there could be some lifetimes where my soul wants to
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play out being poor, there could be some lifetimes where my soul wants to play out
being a murderer, hate to say it, we've all been all the things, we've all been
all the colors. And so our soul wants to play out. And so we need different sort
of ingredients from our higher self in order for our soul to play out that
particular personality in its life. And so right now we have a soul. And our soul
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is here to play out a particular personality to fulfill a particular
purpose. And we have our higher self as our guidance system sort of leading us
along the way. So where did I even start with that? So yes, getting mentored. And so
learning how to tap in. So I want to live as my soul, right? I want to live as the
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individuated personality aspect of me that came to this lifetime that wants to
live as fully as possible. And my higher self is the guide for that. And so it's
all me, but it's different aspects of me. And I know some people they throw in
these ideas of like monads and other separations. I don't know about those
other separations, maybe they're there. But this is what works for me for now. I'm
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all about what makes sense and what's simple. So source, higher self, soul. And so
for me, in this lifetime and all of us, we're all here to live according to our
soul, our soul blueprint. Like what did we come here to do? What did we come here
to accomplish? What did we come here to offer? But then we get shoved into these
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human bodies. And these human bodies are like meat computers. And they are
programmed much differently than our soul. So if our soul is programmed for
purpose and service and happiness and health and abundance, our meat computers
historically up until now have been programmed for scarcity, not enoughness,
not good enoughness, fear, manipulation, separation. And so when I say the universe
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is always leading you to something great, it's always leading you to the best
version of yourself, it's trying to show you how you can live in alignment with
your soul and overcome the programming in your meat computer to do that. So it's
always trying to show you where to go and what to let go of. Where to go, what to
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let go of. So how can you live as your soul? I remember this was a big aha moment
for me because growing up going to Christian church, right? I grew up Greek
Orthodox and I always thought the soul was just something we needed to care
about after we died. It goes somewhere after we die, we need to take care of that.
But then within the last 10 years I've learned, nay, we actually became undead,
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quote unquote, undead to experience being alive, to experience being a soul in a
human body, to experience a physical reality that you can't experience as a
soul. But the earth game is that we forget all of that and then we think
we're human, but we're not human, we're divine in a human body. And so our higher
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self, the universe, kind of using those interchangeably in this one particular
moment, but there is a non-physical entity that is always leading us back to
the truth of who we are, which is we're a soul, which we have power over our own
lives, we have power over creation through our vibration, we create the
experiences and attract experiences to us. That is the truth and we are always
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being led back to that truth. So that is one of my fundamental beliefs in this
concept, getting mentored by the universe, is that we are always being led to
something great, which for me that something great is who we are, the truth
of who we are, who we came here to be, ourselves are always being led to ourselves.
The second fundamental belief that I have in this concept is that everything
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happens for you, not to you. Everything happens for you, not to you. So for this
I'm going to pull out my trusty book, Power vs. Force by Dr. David Hawkins. So I
haven't studied much about him. He has an MD and a PhD, so that's interesting. So
he's very well studied and he's got a medical doctor and he's obviously a
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PhD and something else too. But I have, as you can tell, by the tabs on this book,
looked at this book once or twice. So this Power vs. Force, this is the, if you've
heard of the scale of consciousness, if you've ever googled scale of
consciousness by Dr. David Hawkins, you'll probably see a bunch of rainbow
pretty graphs and charts online. Well the actual chart looks a lot like this. So
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it's just like a table, black and white table. But what the intention of the scale
of consciousness is, is consciousness in this case is like a perspective or a
viewpoint that you take on your life on the world. And so at the bottom there's
very disempowering perspectives. So at the bottom he calls them levels. So the
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levels you've got like shame, guilt, apathy, grief, fear, desire, anger, pride.
And then we'll talk about courage in a second. But those are more of his, his
lower level consciousness levels. And the idea is that if you live and see the
world as that, then you're vibrating low, you're not feeling very good, and you're
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also susceptible to manipulation and fear from the outside world and being
like living in a state of fear and being driven and guided in your life by fear.
We're the top going top down. So enlightenment, peace, joy, love, reason,
acceptance, willingness, neutrality, and then we get to courage. And so those are
the levels at the top. So the whole just, this isn't what I wanted to get into, but
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power versus force. The whole idea of power versus force is, I think a lot of
people, they don't like the word power because they think of power over. Like,
ooh, I'm, you know, like Hitler being in power and obviously doing terrible things
to a lot of people. But Dr. Hawkins actually calls that force because for
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him, force is fear, force is manipulation, where power is like you're tapping
into the truth of who you are, your soul. And the more you do that, the more you
live from an enjoyable place, a love based place, which is basically the
energy of your soul, then you actually have a higher vibration. That means those
lower vibrations can't touch you. And so he's shown over and over and over again
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that where there are situations where leadership or perspectives or whatever,
they come from a place of power, they quote unquote, win over force every time.
I don't know why I went down there. I would hope, but that's, that's a little, the
little summary of power versus force. And so I won't get too much more into that.
But what I did want to say was he talks about two critical fulcrums for major
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advancement. So one of the things he says in the book is you can climb the scale.
You can certainly elevate your consciousness and the way you view your life.
But most people don't. Most people just stay where they are for their whole lives.
And for most people, that's in a state of victim consciousness and they don't
choose to elevate themselves. They said on the scale of consciousness, and now
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I'm reading page 258, there are two critical fulcrums that allow for major
advancement. The first is at level 200, what he calls the initial level of
empowerment. Here arises the willingness to stop blaming and accept
responsibility for one's own actions, feelings, and beliefs. So long as cause
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and responsibility are projected outside of oneself, one must remain in the
powerless mode of victimhood. So I'm going to say that again. At the level of
200, the initial level of empowerment, here arises the willingness to stop
blaming and accept responsibility for one owns actions, feelings, and beliefs. So
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long as cause and responsibility are projected outside of oneself, one must
remain in the powerless mode of victimhood. So this is a really fundamental
concept of my teaching and my coaching. And that statement right there is
actually why I initially called myself an empowerment coach and why my
business is called the empowered living space, even though I don't really talk
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that talk about the business name very much, because I feel like I've grown
away from that a little bit more as a spiritual coach. But that concept
resonated so deeply with me when I started. And here for me, here's how I
applied it when I started it. When I first learned about it, I applied it in my
life as a mother. Because at that time, all I did was motherhood and work. And
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work was pretty good, right? I would go, I worked with good people, no one was
really pissing me off a whole lot at work, because we're all adults here. But at
home, if you're a parent, you know just how triggering kids can be. And so most
parents go to that state of victimhood and they blame their kids, you made me
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mad, you did this to me, how dare you, right? But what I chose to do was say, no,
I'm not blaming my kids for my own feelings, I'm taking responsibility. And so
shifting my language from you did this to me, to what is this revealing within
me? Because in reality, all of us are just slurries of trauma. We're slurries of
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disempowering belief systems, unfelt emotions, all the guilt, all the fear,
all the shame, all the anger, all the embarrassment that we were taught to feel
as kids, the places where we didn't feel loved, the places where we didn't feel
safe. And even growing up in a supportive household, we have this stuff. And so it's
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not blaming the parents, it's really this crazy messed up reality that we live in
where kids make these really logical conclusions about the world. I see it in
my own kids right now. My own son and my own daughter, like they'll do something
and I'll just correct them nicely and they'll say I'm the worst kid in the
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world. I'm a bad kid. It's like I never even said those words but somehow that is
the conclusion that they're making. So this is not about blaming our parents.
This is about just understanding this is the state of the reality and if you want
to get out of their reality you need to take responsibility for it. So not only
that but we're slurries of trauma from our ancestors. Up to 14 generations and
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again that comes from a study on roundworms and so I don't know if roundworms
are exactly the same as humans but even half of that let's say. Because I always
like to be conservative. I never think science is black or right but let's say
even you carry up to seven generations of trauma. Like what did those people go
through? And I've cleared it from my body and so I know for a fact that we do carry
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things that do not come from this lifetime because I have had a relatively
good safe trauma-free lifetime in terms of like physical abuse and safety and all
that but I have still cleared some really big shit from my body. And so all of us
we're slurries of trauma and when I break down trauma at its most basic level I
think there's for me there's an unfelt emotion and then there's a belief over
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top of that emotion that is trying to make sense of that emotion and trying to
protect you from feeling that emotion. So very very very basic I'm sure there's
more to it than that but that's just again I like to keep things basic and
approachable. So most of the outside world is triggering those. So when my kids
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would make me mad it wasn't my kid that was making me mad it was my kid
triggering an old pain from when I didn't feel like I was heard as a kid or
before maybe one of my ancestors didn't feel like they were heard. I mean how
many of our ancestors especially women were silenced. So how many of us carry
that still so many of us still carry that. And so that was the choice that I made
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with my kids was I'm going to take responsibility. I don't like what a heavy
fucking burden to put on your kids that they are responsible for your feelings.
Like that's really shitty I'm sorry I'm feeling I'm feeling on fire today but
what a heavy burden to change make them change who they are so you don't feel
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bad about yourself. Like moms we got to stop that. That is not who you want to
be as a mom is to put that on your kids because then that stifles their
creativity their authenticity then they're worried about what am I gonna do
that makes mom mad instead of how can I love myself and be who I am. So it's time
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to start taking some responsibility for getting pissed off getting triggered and
know that those are simply old remnants of the past. And so what I have done get
mentored by the universe I now understand that every time I get triggered
so fight, flight, freeze, spawn. So when I get triggered for me when I feel anxious
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when I feel embarrassed when I feel upset when I want to start crying when I
want to go away hide away from the world freeze, fawn as people pleasing. So those
things I've learned to pay attention to my triggers. When I want to yell when I
want to hit something right we get pressure that comes in our hand so we
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just want to hit we get pressure in our chest that we just want to yell it out.
All of that is old trauma old emotions that were not allowed to be felt so
emotions energy and motion energy wants to flow remember energy cannot be
created or destroyed it just changes form and so if any motion is not felt
fully at the time when it is initially started then it gets stuck in our system.
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And so the way I think when we get triggered it hits that emotion and then
the emotion like flers up a little bit and that's what we're reacting to we're
not reacting to the kid and the thing that they say but we're reacting to the
feeling inside of us. So again what I've paid attention to when I get that
pressure in my chest or in my throat then I want to yell I'm trying to release
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the pressure when I get the pressure in my hands that's when I want to hit
something sometimes I get into my legs and then I want to kick something those
are all unfelt emotions that is what we're responding to and that is what the
universe is trying to show us get this out of there I can't take you higher if
this is still in there because most of us 90 to 95 percent of our day we're
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simply reacting to this feeling inside of us and so if you're constantly
feeling agitated then what you're doing you're reacting to that instead of
being the higher version of you that is in control. So if you want to be in
control what I've learned to do is to look at those things because they're
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unconscious for a reason right. In theory everything makes sense we program our
meat computer when we're kids around what keeps us safe and what gets us love
and back on the Serengeti it made sense to just automatically program in there
when you see something with orange and black stripes coming at you you run
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right you don't want to stop and think every time you see that hmm is that
dangerous should I do something about that what should I do about it no you
program that you run and so at some point when safety was of high priority on
this planet our meat computers made a whole lot of sense but our meat
computers have not upgraded very highly but life has and so it's still as a kid
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looking for what what is unsafe what makes us feel unloved how do we fit in to
society and then our meat computer gets programmed with all those things about
the ages of zero to seven right and so most of us are just seven-year-olds in
a grown-up body reacting to the world but at some point when you hit that point
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in your life and you're like you know I want better for myself I want better for
my life then you need to change what's written in your meat computer and you're
unconscious because you cannot out-create your meat computer your unconscious your
meat computer it has it sets an invisible glass ceiling for you you cannot
out-create that you cannot out-manifest that until you see what's in there and
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you shift it the only way to see what's in there because it's unconscious unable
to be seen it is inside your eyes are pointed outside one hire a coach one
and I'll do my own horn but I'm really good at helping people see what's in
there because I've learned to listen for the cues and to learn how to do this for
yourself when people hire me my goal is always for them to eventually not need to
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work with me because I want them to learn how to do this stuff for themselves
and again there's always new levels and you know I think it makes sense to have
coaches if you're trying to get yourself to another level that is new for you but
if you're a sort of steady state for a period of time which is totally possible
then you can get the messages from the universe and learn how to do this for
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yourself so when you get to a point in your life you're like I want to elevate
my life I want to do better for myself then the universe is like great totally
supporting that obviously because that is what I want for you to I want you to
live your purpose I want you to feel fulfilled but your meat computer has all
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of these beliefs and unfelt emotions that if you don't see them learn from them
release them hold space for them you are not going to get those things that you
want so the universe will put tricky things on your path to highlight to show
you what is in there so you can move beyond it so what are some examples
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yesterday I was on a mastermind call and one of the other girls was talking
she's getting coached by the coach and I was putting some words of support in
the comments in the text we're on Google meet and right after the coach said you
know please hold off on the comments it's distracting and I started crying and
I wasn't crying because of what he said I was crying because what he said
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triggered a program in my meat computer that I need to be perfect and old
memories of feeling like I was punished for not doing something right and so I
cried I felt it I started shaking as that emotion released itself I actually
let it be felt when whenever it went in there again I don't know if it's from my
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childhood or ancestors but at some point someone felt like they it was
unsafe if they didn't follow all the rules and do the thing right and so that
got locked in it was in my meat computer it got triggered yesterday and so
instead of blaming the coach and saying how dare you say that to me how dare you
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I was just trying to help I actually told him you know what you triggered this
within me and then he actually went deeper and allowed me to feel it even
more and go back to the point where maybe I felt like I was being punished for
not doing something right and actually what came up for me in a roundabout way
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was that as a kid I was awkward like I'm still awkward right I was studious I
didn't know how to be funny but I tried and at some point I felt like I wasn't
allowed to be me for whatever reason like I was and so I don't even know if
these are two separate things but this is sort of the rabbit trail where this
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led me and so that's the other thing the universe it'll give you sort of the in
the window in but then you never really know where it's gonna lead you it
could be very similar it could be different for me it was slightly
different it was it ended up feeling like and I saw this little girl in front
of me who just felt awkward and was made to feel like she couldn't be herself she
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was made to feel like she was not loved in her awkwardness and again I don't know
if that was me I don't know if it was someone else like all I know for me I
some some people will say go back to the main core energy and belief system and
rewrite it and that's helpful for me it's just like oh that just paints a
little context around around the situation that's interesting I don't
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have to know was it for me was it actually true did it actually happen but
that just helped me release the emotion that was in there so I cried for
probably a good 10 minutes over that one now it's a big one for me felt like I
was being punished for not doing something right another one this goes
back to my kids and trying to not blame them for things and sometimes I still
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go unconscious and I do but this is something that I'm really working on so
a couple years ago I got a box of chocolates that I was gonna give as a
gift to a teacher or something and one of my kids ate one I got so fucking mad and
I tuned in later I sat with it I'm like why like when you look at it from an
objective lens like the box of chocolates it was nice chocolates it was
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probably like $10 or $15 chocolates like it was not break the bank box chocolates
but I was acting as if that was like our final dollar and he just ate the
chocolate and I couldn't give the gift and so I sat with it and again this
definitely was not me in this lifetime but I saw an image of a little girl and
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it was like they were on a cobblestone street or like brick streets and she had
a teddy bear and it was the the feeling I got was like she had saved up
everything for that teddy bear and I don't even know who she wanted to give
it to but it was so important that she give it to someone but then she like
dropped it in a puddle and was so sad like she didn't have the money to buy
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another one and just that image and I'm tearing up again as I tell it because
it's like yeah that would be fucking sad and if that happened to a little girl
and especially like even if they were comforted in their feelings but we know
how rigid people were back in the day she wasn't comforted in those feelings
then she bottled that up like how shitty to have this money you spend it you want
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to do something amazing for someone and show them how much you love them and
then you drop it and it's ruined and you don't have the money to do it again
that's what came out when my kid ate the chocolate so it wasn't about the chocolate
it was about this old memory that was locked in my body and for some reason
the universe used the chocolate the universe will use people it will tap
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people on the shoulder to do things say things for you so that way these
unconscious things become conscious and you can move beyond them you can release
that energy trapped in your body and so that is what I mean the universe is not
doing things to you it's doing things for you and if you're getting mad
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triggered all the time that is why it's because you're trying to go somewhere
better and higher and you've probably said I want different the universe is
saying okay well if you want different these are all the things that you need
to see in your unconscious rewrite release hold space or whatever it is so
that way I can get you there because the only way to get there is through your
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vibration if you want better for yourself you need to elevate your
vibration first and you can't do that if you're holding on to the guilt the shame
the sadness all these other places in your body so yes the universe is always
working for you it is always talking to you with the major lesson being how can
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I learn what's in there how can I learn the patterns that maybe are keeping me
sad holding me back keeping me in reaction and how can I move beyond them
reprogram my meat computer for better and that's what I'll get into next week so
getting mentored by the universe stop blaming other people I once heard I got
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quantum human design certified by Karen Curry Parker and one of the quotes she
had I won't have it exactly which is like everything in your life is really
just an avatar or a situation to show you where you're not loving yourself
enough so all those people that say hurtful things do hurtful things do
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things that trigger you like those are places where you've got unconscious
energy in your body that you're trying to shove down that you're trying to hide
from that you're trying to hold on to because it's painful instead of release
it instead of love on it instead of hold space for it so this is one of the
main tenets of my coaching people that come to I can kind of tell are you kind
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of in victim are you kind of blaming the world if so you're not ready for my
coaching because those who coach with me they're already at a place where
they're willing to take responsibility and we go deep with this stuff we're
willing to take responsibility so that way they can elevate even higher so all
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that said get mentored by the universe why should you because it knows where
you're going it knows how to get there it knows what you need to release to do
that that's why I love doing these episodes I had no idea all that stuff
was gonna come out that was just blowing right through me baby so these are
pseudo channeled episodes on what I feel like you need to know what is helpful
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what has worked for me so a couple things one if you heard private coaching
like this is one of the things I really really help with is that self-awareness
is learning how to get the lessons from the universe learning how all that thing
my kid did all this thing that I yelled about all this thing that happened at
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work let's get the lesson let's get the lesson and so if you're highly self-aware
and you want even higher self-awareness and you've been interested in coaching
for a while my rates are going up mid-november so like November 14th 15th so
now is a great time to talk to me if you've been thinking about it we will
get you in we'll get you moving you'll start to feel better even before the
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new year and you will have me in as your team on your team as your team on your
team you will have me will be a team to help move you to that next place
especially if you've been bumping up against an invisible ceiling then this
is how you move past it you can't move past it with action you move past it
through inner work if you're not ready for coaching then I also have a get
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mentored by the universe email series it's about 29 and 30 weeks where every
week once a week you'll get an email that'll show you how to read everyday
situations things like when you get triggered when you're jealous passion
passion is another one so a lot of it is how to read the things the universe
wants you to let go of but some of it is also how to figure out where the
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universe is guiding you next so that is only five dollars and fifty five cents
and I priced it that way because 555 is pure positive transformation the fives
are about transformations and so this is a transformative DIY if you aren't
ready for coaching but you're really into personal growth then I promise
learning how to read your life in this way is really going to pay dividends for
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you and this isn't to exclude people mentors this is to supplement people
mentors and grow even faster and grow deeper and grow in partnership with
something that's bigger than you so if you're interested in either of those I'll
leave my private coaching page below you go there you book a connection call with
me we can talk about it I don't do high-pressure sales because I really want
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to make sure you be a good fit and I'll talk through my coaching and all of that
see if you're interested and then to get mentored by the universe email series
straight to your email you don't have to log into anything I will leave the link
for that below so as always comment like share if this was helpful if you follow
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leave a comment on what your biggest takeaway was I always love hearing it
helps me digest what people are hearing from my episodes maybe any questions
what they want to hear more of so come back I love to hear from you you can
also reach out my DMs Andrea Andrew for LinkedIn and at mom's gone quantum on
Instagram so thank you and I'll be back next week
People mentors are great. I would not be as far as I am without them. And had I
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only relied on people mentors, I wouldn't be nearly as far as I am now in
terms of my personal growth and moving to the highest version of me. And that is
because I have learned how to get mentored by the universe. That's what I
call it. The universe. What do I mean by the universe? Your soul, your higher
self, your spirit guides. There are entities in the non-physical that are
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lining up to help you become a better version of you. They are always talking
to you. And if you know how to listen, your personal growth can just accelerate
dramatically. I've worked with coaches and I've made really wonderful progress in
those coaching sessions. And I have notebooks upon notebooks of lessons
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that I have been able to learn myself outside of those coaching lessons.
Because I have learned how to tune in, how to pay attention to the lessons so
that way I know what I'm being asked to move beyond, what I'm being asked to
step into. And so that's what I want to introduce today is this concept of
getting mentored by the universe. Because the universe is always talking to us.
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Are you listening? Let's find out.
Welcome to Your Business is Your Spiritual Path, the podcast for business
owners who are ready to make more money and have more fun without doing more
work. After all, you didn't zip on this skimsuit to hustle and grind. It's okay
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to have fun along the way. I'm your host Andrea Andree. On this show I share
spiritual concepts, universal principles, and energy alignment techniques that will
help you embody your next best self so you can thrive in your life and in your
business. All right, before I get into the meat of the episode, I do want to
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celebrate that this is 25 episodes of the podcast. I am a quarter of a century
year old in the podcast terms. So I'm really excited about that. I keep missing
the numbers and I was going to celebrate a 10 and then celebrate a 20. So now I'm
saying, you know what? I'm celebrating at 25. Thank you, my listeners, for
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continuing to give me feedback because that is what keeps me going. As I
mentioned in the very first episode, I have no idea where this podcast is going
to take me. I just knew intuitively that this was the avenue that I was being
led to because I was getting mentored by the universe. I did not intend to like
make that little link in there, but I know how to be guided and I know how to
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trust my guidance and this is a place that I've been guided to do. I have no
idea where it's gonna lead. If it will lead to business, if it will lead to
anything, all I knew it was that I had to do it. So thank you. Thank you for being
out there, being in my listening audience, for giving me all the feedback of
anything I've ever done. This is the feedback that I get most readily from
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the people that I meet, the people online. So thank you for being out in my
audience because I can talk all I want, but it only goes so far if no one is
out there listening. So my celebration is your celebration. Alright, getting into
the content. Someone once asked me, how do I know who I am and what I'm good at
without feedback? And she was talking about people feedback. She was talking
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about getting mentors and people feedback is great. And again, I have hired
coaches, but the thing with mentors that I just want everyone to remember, even
coaches, even good coaches. This is why I like to go more from the spiritual
coaches because they know better about how to get themselves out of the way and
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just channel higher guidance for me, where most everyone in the world is
coming from their own lens, their own perspective, their own biases. And if they
don't know how to get those out of the way, then that is what feedback they are
giving you. They're possibly giving you all the places they were triggered, all
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their limiting beliefs. A lot of people do not know how to sift through those. I
just want to keep that in perspective that I don't have to always take all the
advice. Everyone has a limited point of view. Everyone has a bunch of
experience that makes up their perception of the world. Everyone has
their own unique soul blueprint, what they're good at, who they're here to
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serve. And so people who don't quite know or they're not self-aware enough to
understand those things, a lot of times they're just projecting them on to you
in a mentorship relationship. And so that's why for me, anyone that I choose to
work with, choose to hire, my goal with them is I really want them to ask me
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questions versus give me advice. I rarely want anybody's advice. And if they give me
advice, I just smile and nod and I say thank you. But I'm so tapped into myself,
what I want, what I need, that often I'm able to sift through what's helpful,
what's not helpful. But remember that when you're working with people, people
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typically have a limited vantage point and again they're limited by what they
know and what they've experienced. And so that's why for me, it has been so
helpful to learn how to tap in to the universe, to something much bigger, to
know exactly where I'm being led, exactly what I need to let go of in order to get
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there. And we'll talk about what that means this week and then next week I
have another special episode on reprogramming your meat computer because
that is part of this too. One of the goals is reprogramming our meat computer
so that way we can get to those elevated places because we can't outmanifest
our unconscious. We cannot out-create the beliefs and the emotions that are
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stored in our unconscious. And so if we want to go somewhere better, if we want
to make more money, we want to elevate our status in life, our work titles, our
leadership opportunities, our business, whatever it is, that was all kind of
money related. But if we want better relationships, we need to elevate our
unconscious because that puts us at an invisible glass ceiling and if you don't
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know how to reprogram your unconscious, your meat computer as I call it sometimes,
you can't out-create that. But the universe wants to partner with you and
show you what it is it's hiding in your unconscious so that way you can create
better for yourself. And so a couple fundamental beliefs that I hold on to
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around this. One, the universe, your soul, your higher self, your spirit guides, your
guardian angels, whatever you want to call them, whatever non-physical guidance
system that you have is always leading you to something great. Every single
person, every single one of us, the trajectory is up. The trajectory is more
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happiness, more health, more wealth, more purpose, more fulfillment. The path
looks different for everybody and the end result will look different for
everybody. For me, happiness and purpose looks like teaching and coaching and
transforming lives. For other people, it might look like putting art in their house
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so that way they've got more color and more fun and more vibrancy. For other
people, it might look like tinctures and botanicals and teas to help put good
nature back into your body. So the end result looks different for everybody. The
path looks different for everybody, but the goal is the same. The highest version
of you. And for me, the highest version of you is how can you live as your
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spiritual higher self? So I probably need to define that a little bit. The way I
understand higher self soul, I use those interchangeably, but for me those are a
little bit different. So I think of highest level being the universe, God
source, all that is, whatever the divine, whatever word you want to use for the
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energy that encompasses everything. And then from that energy, we've pinched off
individuated aspects of the energy. So it's still God, but it's like an
individual version of God. So for me, that's my higher self. And so it's like if
you take the ocean water and you take scoop a cup of water, you've got a cup,
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now you've got the ocean water separated from the ocean, but the contents are
still ocean water, I think of the same way as God and higher self. And so our
higher self for me, and different people describe this differently, but this is how
I've used it so far, is the closest to God, the closest individuated element of
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God that I can be without being actually all that is. And so I've got God within
me, but there's still, if we think about hierarchy, there's still an entity above
me that I can get guidance from. And so for me, higher self, it knows it's seen
our future, it sees our past, it knows the people that we're here to work with,
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to connect with, and it knows how to guide us to those. So do this thing, say
that thing, go to that coffee shop, right? Our higher self knows those
connections and is able to make those connections. And our higher self knows
who we are, it's aligned to abundance, it's aligned to our purpose. And then an
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individuated aspect of that is our soul. And so there's like, I think of our soul
as the personality that our higher self wanted to play in this lifetime. And so
our higher self always sort of steady up here, where our soul could be different
in different lifetimes. So there could be some lifetimes where my soul wants to
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play out being poor, there could be some lifetimes where my soul wants to play out
being a murderer, hate to say it, we've all been all the things, we've all been
all the colors. And so our soul wants to play out. And so we need different sort
of ingredients from our higher self in order for our soul to play out that
particular personality in its life. And so right now we have a soul. And our soul
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is here to play out a particular personality to fulfill a particular
purpose. And we have our higher self as our guidance system sort of leading us
along the way. So where did I even start with that? So yes, getting mentored. And so
learning how to tap in. So I want to live as my soul, right? I want to live as the
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individuated personality aspect of me that came to this lifetime that wants to
live as fully as possible. And my higher self is the guide for that. And so it's
all me, but it's different aspects of me. And I know some people they throw in
these ideas of like monads and other separations. I don't know about those
other separations, maybe they're there. But this is what works for me for now. I'm
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all about what makes sense and what's simple. So source, higher self, soul. And so
for me, in this lifetime and all of us, we're all here to live according to our
soul, our soul blueprint. Like what did we come here to do? What did we come here
to accomplish? What did we come here to offer? But then we get shoved into these
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human bodies. And these human bodies are like meat computers. And they are
programmed much differently than our soul. So if our soul is programmed for
purpose and service and happiness and health and abundance, our meat computers
historically up until now have been programmed for scarcity, not enoughness,
not good enoughness, fear, manipulation, separation. And so when I say the universe
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is always leading you to something great, it's always leading you to the best
version of yourself, it's trying to show you how you can live in alignment with
your soul and overcome the programming in your meat computer to do that. So it's
always trying to show you where to go and what to let go of. Where to go, what to
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let go of. So how can you live as your soul? I remember this was a big aha moment
for me because growing up going to Christian church, right? I grew up Greek
Orthodox and I always thought the soul was just something we needed to care
about after we died. It goes somewhere after we die, we need to take care of that.
But then within the last 10 years I've learned, nay, we actually became undead,
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quote unquote, undead to experience being alive, to experience being a soul in a
human body, to experience a physical reality that you can't experience as a
soul. But the earth game is that we forget all of that and then we think
we're human, but we're not human, we're divine in a human body. And so our higher
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self, the universe, kind of using those interchangeably in this one particular
moment, but there is a non-physical entity that is always leading us back to
the truth of who we are, which is we're a soul, which we have power over our own
lives, we have power over creation through our vibration, we create the
experiences and attract experiences to us. That is the truth and we are always
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being led back to that truth. So that is one of my fundamental beliefs in this
concept, getting mentored by the universe, is that we are always being led to
something great, which for me that something great is who we are, the truth
of who we are, who we came here to be, ourselves are always being led to ourselves.
The second fundamental belief that I have in this concept is that everything
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happens for you, not to you. Everything happens for you, not to you. So for this
I'm going to pull out my trusty book, Power vs. Force by Dr. David Hawkins. So I
haven't studied much about him. He has an MD and a PhD, so that's interesting. So
he's very well studied and he's got a medical doctor and he's obviously a
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PhD and something else too. But I have, as you can tell, by the tabs on this book,
looked at this book once or twice. So this Power vs. Force, this is the, if you've
heard of the scale of consciousness, if you've ever googled scale of
consciousness by Dr. David Hawkins, you'll probably see a bunch of rainbow
pretty graphs and charts online. Well the actual chart looks a lot like this. So
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it's just like a table, black and white table. But what the intention of the scale
of consciousness is, is consciousness in this case is like a perspective or a
viewpoint that you take on your life on the world. And so at the bottom there's
very disempowering perspectives. So at the bottom he calls them levels. So the
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levels you've got like shame, guilt, apathy, grief, fear, desire, anger, pride.
And then we'll talk about courage in a second. But those are more of his, his
lower level consciousness levels. And the idea is that if you live and see the
world as that, then you're vibrating low, you're not feeling very good, and you're
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also susceptible to manipulation and fear from the outside world and being
like living in a state of fear and being driven and guided in your life by fear.
We're the top going top down. So enlightenment, peace, joy, love, reason,
acceptance, willingness, neutrality, and then we get to courage. And so those are
the levels at the top. So the whole just, this isn't what I wanted to get into, but
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power versus force. The whole idea of power versus force is, I think a lot of
people, they don't like the word power because they think of power over. Like,
ooh, I'm, you know, like Hitler being in power and obviously doing terrible things
to a lot of people. But Dr. Hawkins actually calls that force because for
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him, force is fear, force is manipulation, where power is like you're tapping
into the truth of who you are, your soul. And the more you do that, the more you
live from an enjoyable place, a love based place, which is basically the
energy of your soul, then you actually have a higher vibration. That means those
lower vibrations can't touch you. And so he's shown over and over and over again
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that where there are situations where leadership or perspectives or whatever,
they come from a place of power, they quote unquote, win over force every time.
I don't know why I went down there. I would hope, but that's, that's a little, the
little summary of power versus force. And so I won't get too much more into that.
But what I did want to say was he talks about two critical fulcrums for major
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advancement. So one of the things he says in the book is you can climb the scale.
You can certainly elevate your consciousness and the way you view your life.
But most people don't. Most people just stay where they are for their whole lives.
And for most people, that's in a state of victim consciousness and they don't
choose to elevate themselves. They said on the scale of consciousness, and now
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I'm reading page 258, there are two critical fulcrums that allow for major
advancement. The first is at level 200, what he calls the initial level of
empowerment. Here arises the willingness to stop blaming and accept
responsibility for one's own actions, feelings, and beliefs. So long as cause
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and responsibility are projected outside of oneself, one must remain in the
powerless mode of victimhood. So I'm going to say that again. At the level of
200, the initial level of empowerment, here arises the willingness to stop
blaming and accept responsibility for one owns actions, feelings, and beliefs. So
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long as cause and responsibility are projected outside of oneself, one must
remain in the powerless mode of victimhood. So this is a really fundamental
concept of my teaching and my coaching. And that statement right there is
actually why I initially called myself an empowerment coach and why my
business is called the empowered living space, even though I don't really talk
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that talk about the business name very much, because I feel like I've grown
away from that a little bit more as a spiritual coach. But that concept
resonated so deeply with me when I started. And here for me, here's how I
applied it when I started it. When I first learned about it, I applied it in my
life as a mother. Because at that time, all I did was motherhood and work. And
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work was pretty good, right? I would go, I worked with good people, no one was
really pissing me off a whole lot at work, because we're all adults here. But at
home, if you're a parent, you know just how triggering kids can be. And so most
parents go to that state of victimhood and they blame their kids, you made me
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mad, you did this to me, how dare you, right? But what I chose to do was say, no,
I'm not blaming my kids for my own feelings, I'm taking responsibility. And so
shifting my language from you did this to me, to what is this revealing within
me? Because in reality, all of us are just slurries of trauma. We're slurries of
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disempowering belief systems, unfelt emotions, all the guilt, all the fear,
all the shame, all the anger, all the embarrassment that we were taught to feel
as kids, the places where we didn't feel loved, the places where we didn't feel
safe. And even growing up in a supportive household, we have this stuff. And so it's
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not blaming the parents, it's really this crazy messed up reality that we live in
where kids make these really logical conclusions about the world. I see it in
my own kids right now. My own son and my own daughter, like they'll do something
and I'll just correct them nicely and they'll say I'm the worst kid in the
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world. I'm a bad kid. It's like I never even said those words but somehow that is
the conclusion that they're making. So this is not about blaming our parents.
This is about just understanding this is the state of the reality and if you want
to get out of their reality you need to take responsibility for it. So not only
that but we're slurries of trauma from our ancestors. Up to 14 generations and
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again that comes from a study on roundworms and so I don't know if roundworms
are exactly the same as humans but even half of that let's say. Because I always
like to be conservative. I never think science is black or right but let's say
even you carry up to seven generations of trauma. Like what did those people go
through? And I've cleared it from my body and so I know for a fact that we do carry
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things that do not come from this lifetime because I have had a relatively
good safe trauma-free lifetime in terms of like physical abuse and safety and all
that but I have still cleared some really big shit from my body. And so all of us
we're slurries of trauma and when I break down trauma at its most basic level I
think there's for me there's an unfelt emotion and then there's a belief over
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top of that emotion that is trying to make sense of that emotion and trying to
protect you from feeling that emotion. So very very very basic I'm sure there's
more to it than that but that's just again I like to keep things basic and
approachable. So most of the outside world is triggering those. So when my kids
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would make me mad it wasn't my kid that was making me mad it was my kid
triggering an old pain from when I didn't feel like I was heard as a kid or
before maybe one of my ancestors didn't feel like they were heard. I mean how
many of our ancestors especially women were silenced. So how many of us carry
that still so many of us still carry that. And so that was the choice that I made
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with my kids was I'm going to take responsibility. I don't like what a heavy
fucking burden to put on your kids that they are responsible for your feelings.
Like that's really shitty I'm sorry I'm feeling I'm feeling on fire today but
what a heavy burden to change make them change who they are so you don't feel
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bad about yourself. Like moms we got to stop that. That is not who you want to
be as a mom is to put that on your kids because then that stifles their
creativity their authenticity then they're worried about what am I gonna do
that makes mom mad instead of how can I love myself and be who I am. So it's time
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to start taking some responsibility for getting pissed off getting triggered and
know that those are simply old remnants of the past. And so what I have done get
mentored by the universe I now understand that every time I get triggered
so fight, flight, freeze, spawn. So when I get triggered for me when I feel anxious
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when I feel embarrassed when I feel upset when I want to start crying when I
want to go away hide away from the world freeze, fawn as people pleasing. So those
things I've learned to pay attention to my triggers. When I want to yell when I
want to hit something right we get pressure that comes in our hand so we
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just want to hit we get pressure in our chest that we just want to yell it out.
All of that is old trauma old emotions that were not allowed to be felt so
emotions energy and motion energy wants to flow remember energy cannot be
created or destroyed it just changes form and so if any motion is not felt
fully at the time when it is initially started then it gets stuck in our system.
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And so the way I think when we get triggered it hits that emotion and then
the emotion like flers up a little bit and that's what we're reacting to we're
not reacting to the kid and the thing that they say but we're reacting to the
feeling inside of us. So again what I've paid attention to when I get that
pressure in my chest or in my throat then I want to yell I'm trying to release
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the pressure when I get the pressure in my hands that's when I want to hit
something sometimes I get into my legs and then I want to kick something those
are all unfelt emotions that is what we're responding to and that is what the
universe is trying to show us get this out of there I can't take you higher if
this is still in there because most of us 90 to 95 percent of our day we're
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simply reacting to this feeling inside of us and so if you're constantly
feeling agitated then what you're doing you're reacting to that instead of
being the higher version of you that is in control. So if you want to be in
control what I've learned to do is to look at those things because they're
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unconscious for a reason right. In theory everything makes sense we program our
meat computer when we're kids around what keeps us safe and what gets us love
and back on the Serengeti it made sense to just automatically program in there
when you see something with orange and black stripes coming at you you run
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right you don't want to stop and think every time you see that hmm is that
dangerous should I do something about that what should I do about it no you
program that you run and so at some point when safety was of high priority on
this planet our meat computers made a whole lot of sense but our meat
computers have not upgraded very highly but life has and so it's still as a kid
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looking for what what is unsafe what makes us feel unloved how do we fit in to
society and then our meat computer gets programmed with all those things about
the ages of zero to seven right and so most of us are just seven-year-olds in
a grown-up body reacting to the world but at some point when you hit that point
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in your life and you're like you know I want better for myself I want better for
my life then you need to change what's written in your meat computer and you're
unconscious because you cannot out-create your meat computer your unconscious your
meat computer it has it sets an invisible glass ceiling for you you cannot
out-create that you cannot out-manifest that until you see what's in there and
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you shift it the only way to see what's in there because it's unconscious unable
to be seen it is inside your eyes are pointed outside one hire a coach one
and I'll do my own horn but I'm really good at helping people see what's in
there because I've learned to listen for the cues and to learn how to do this for
yourself when people hire me my goal is always for them to eventually not need to
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work with me because I want them to learn how to do this stuff for themselves
and again there's always new levels and you know I think it makes sense to have
coaches if you're trying to get yourself to another level that is new for you but
if you're a sort of steady state for a period of time which is totally possible
then you can get the messages from the universe and learn how to do this for
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yourself so when you get to a point in your life you're like I want to elevate
my life I want to do better for myself then the universe is like great totally
supporting that obviously because that is what I want for you to I want you to
live your purpose I want you to feel fulfilled but your meat computer has all
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of these beliefs and unfelt emotions that if you don't see them learn from them
release them hold space for them you are not going to get those things that you
want so the universe will put tricky things on your path to highlight to show
you what is in there so you can move beyond it so what are some examples
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yesterday I was on a mastermind call and one of the other girls was talking
she's getting coached by the coach and I was putting some words of support in
the comments in the text we're on Google meet and right after the coach said you
know please hold off on the comments it's distracting and I started crying and
I wasn't crying because of what he said I was crying because what he said
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triggered a program in my meat computer that I need to be perfect and old
memories of feeling like I was punished for not doing something right and so I
cried I felt it I started shaking as that emotion released itself I actually
let it be felt when whenever it went in there again I don't know if it's from my
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childhood or ancestors but at some point someone felt like they it was
unsafe if they didn't follow all the rules and do the thing right and so that
got locked in it was in my meat computer it got triggered yesterday and so
instead of blaming the coach and saying how dare you say that to me how dare you
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I was just trying to help I actually told him you know what you triggered this
within me and then he actually went deeper and allowed me to feel it even
more and go back to the point where maybe I felt like I was being punished for
not doing something right and actually what came up for me in a roundabout way
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was that as a kid I was awkward like I'm still awkward right I was studious I
didn't know how to be funny but I tried and at some point I felt like I wasn't
allowed to be me for whatever reason like I was and so I don't even know if
these are two separate things but this is sort of the rabbit trail where this
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led me and so that's the other thing the universe it'll give you sort of the in
the window in but then you never really know where it's gonna lead you it
could be very similar it could be different for me it was slightly
different it was it ended up feeling like and I saw this little girl in front
of me who just felt awkward and was made to feel like she couldn't be herself she
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was made to feel like she was not loved in her awkwardness and again I don't know
if that was me I don't know if it was someone else like all I know for me I
some some people will say go back to the main core energy and belief system and
rewrite it and that's helpful for me it's just like oh that just paints a
little context around around the situation that's interesting I don't
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have to know was it for me was it actually true did it actually happen but
that just helped me release the emotion that was in there so I cried for
probably a good 10 minutes over that one now it's a big one for me felt like I
was being punished for not doing something right another one this goes
back to my kids and trying to not blame them for things and sometimes I still
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go unconscious and I do but this is something that I'm really working on so
a couple years ago I got a box of chocolates that I was gonna give as a
gift to a teacher or something and one of my kids ate one I got so fucking mad and
I tuned in later I sat with it I'm like why like when you look at it from an
objective lens like the box of chocolates it was nice chocolates it was
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probably like $10 or $15 chocolates like it was not break the bank box chocolates
but I was acting as if that was like our final dollar and he just ate the
chocolate and I couldn't give the gift and so I sat with it and again this
definitely was not me in this lifetime but I saw an image of a little girl and
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it was like they were on a cobblestone street or like brick streets and she had
a teddy bear and it was the the feeling I got was like she had saved up
everything for that teddy bear and I don't even know who she wanted to give
it to but it was so important that she give it to someone but then she like
dropped it in a puddle and was so sad like she didn't have the money to buy
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another one and just that image and I'm tearing up again as I tell it because
it's like yeah that would be fucking sad and if that happened to a little girl
and especially like even if they were comforted in their feelings but we know
how rigid people were back in the day she wasn't comforted in those feelings
then she bottled that up like how shitty to have this money you spend it you want
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to do something amazing for someone and show them how much you love them and
then you drop it and it's ruined and you don't have the money to do it again
that's what came out when my kid ate the chocolate so it wasn't about the chocolate
it was about this old memory that was locked in my body and for some reason
the universe used the chocolate the universe will use people it will tap
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people on the shoulder to do things say things for you so that way these
unconscious things become conscious and you can move beyond them you can release
that energy trapped in your body and so that is what I mean the universe is not
doing things to you it's doing things for you and if you're getting mad
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triggered all the time that is why it's because you're trying to go somewhere
better and higher and you've probably said I want different the universe is
saying okay well if you want different these are all the things that you need
to see in your unconscious rewrite release hold space or whatever it is so
that way I can get you there because the only way to get there is through your
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vibration if you want better for yourself you need to elevate your
vibration first and you can't do that if you're holding on to the guilt the shame
the sadness all these other places in your body so yes the universe is always
working for you it is always talking to you with the major lesson being how can
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I learn what's in there how can I learn the patterns that maybe are keeping me
sad holding me back keeping me in reaction and how can I move beyond them
reprogram my meat computer for better and that's what I'll get into next week so
getting mentored by the universe stop blaming other people I once heard I got
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quantum human design certified by Karen Curry Parker and one of the quotes she
had I won't have it exactly which is like everything in your life is really
just an avatar or a situation to show you where you're not loving yourself
enough so all those people that say hurtful things do hurtful things do
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things that trigger you like those are places where you've got unconscious
energy in your body that you're trying to shove down that you're trying to hide
from that you're trying to hold on to because it's painful instead of release
it instead of love on it instead of hold space for it so this is one of the
main tenets of my coaching people that come to I can kind of tell are you kind
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of in victim are you kind of blaming the world if so you're not ready for my
coaching because those who coach with me they're already at a place where
they're willing to take responsibility and we go deep with this stuff we're
willing to take responsibility so that way they can elevate even higher so all
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that said get mentored by the universe why should you because it knows where
you're going it knows how to get there it knows what you need to release to do
that that's why I love doing these episodes I had no idea all that stuff
was gonna come out that was just blowing right through me baby so these are
pseudo channeled episodes on what I feel like you need to know what is helpful
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what has worked for me so a couple things one if you heard private coaching
like this is one of the things I really really help with is that self-awareness
is learning how to get the lessons from the universe learning how all that thing
my kid did all this thing that I yelled about all this thing that happened at
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work let's get the lesson let's get the lesson and so if you're highly self-aware
and you want even higher self-awareness and you've been interested in coaching
for a while my rates are going up mid-november so like November 14th 15th so
now is a great time to talk to me if you've been thinking about it we will
get you in we'll get you moving you'll start to feel better even before the
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new year and you will have me in as your team on your team as your team on your
team you will have me will be a team to help move you to that next place
especially if you've been bumping up against an invisible ceiling then this
is how you move past it you can't move past it with action you move past it
through inner work if you're not ready for coaching then I also have a get
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mentored by the universe email series it's about 29 and 30 weeks where every
week once a week you'll get an email that'll show you how to read everyday
situations things like when you get triggered when you're jealous passion
passion is another one so a lot of it is how to read the things the universe
wants you to let go of but some of it is also how to figure out where the
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universe is guiding you next so that is only five dollars and fifty five cents
and I priced it that way because 555 is pure positive transformation the fives
are about transformations and so this is a transformative DIY if you aren't
ready for coaching but you're really into personal growth then I promise
learning how to read your life in this way is really going to pay dividends for
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you and this isn't to exclude people mentors this is to supplement people
mentors and grow even faster and grow deeper and grow in partnership with
something that's bigger than you so if you're interested in either of those I'll
leave my private coaching page below you go there you book a connection call with
me we can talk about it I don't do high-pressure sales because I really want
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to make sure you be a good fit and I'll talk through my coaching and all of that
see if you're interested and then to get mentored by the universe email series
straight to your email you don't have to log into anything I will leave the link
for that below so as always comment like share if this was helpful if you follow
me on any socials I usually do a post when the episode comes out come back and
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leave a comment on what your biggest takeaway was I always love hearing it
helps me digest what people are hearing from my episodes maybe any questions
what they want to hear more of so come back I love to hear from you you can
also reach out my DMs Andrea Andrew for LinkedIn and at mom's gone quantum on
Instagram so thank you and I'll be back next week
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