The Third Way

In this transformative episode of the "Your Relationshift" podcast, Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik dive deep into one of their most nuanced principles: "The Third Way." This groundbreaking approach to conflict resolution offers a unique alternative to the common dynamic of compromise by encouraging couples to create space for both perspectives, honor each other's values, and discover a solution that transcends both individual desires. Drawing from Torah teachings, the co-hosts unpack the components of respect—space and value—while sharing practical insights on how to open up conversations, break down defensiveness, and embrace curiosity and trust in relationships. Through role-playing exercises and relatable anecdotes, Hindi and Chayale vividly illustrate how shifting your perspective can lead to a deeper connection and the "birth" of something new and greater than either party originally imagined.

Listeners will gain powerful insights into how respect and honoring oneself work hand in hand to create harmony, even in seemingly irreconcilable situations. The episode features a powerful example from Sara Gita Soble’s workshops, highlighting how a wife learned to value her husband's suggestions, only to discover a creative solution that neither had initially considered. Hindi and Chayale challenge listeners to reflect on their own communication dynamics and invite them to share personal "third way" wins and challenges for discussion in future episodes. Whether you're navigating marital disagreements or looking to strengthen your ability to see and honor the best in others, this episode is packed with wisdom, practical advice, and inspiration to deepen your relationships.