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October 14, 2025 • 41 mins

CONTROVERSIAL TRUTH BOMB: Joy isn't something that happens TO you. It's something you CREATE. And the brutal reality? Most people actively choose misery over joy every single day - then wonder why their lives suck.

In this no-holds-barred solo episode, Kellan destroys the victim mentality and reveals:

  • Why joy is a CHOICE, not a circumstance
  • How most people are addicted to their own suffering
  • The brutal truth about why you're choosing misery (and how to stop)
  • Why waiting for external conditions to change is the ultimate self-sabotage
  • The revolutionary mindset shift that creates instant joy

This will piss off everyone who loves their victim story. Good.

🎧READY TO CHOOSE JOY OVER VICTIM MENTALITY?

Join the Dream, Build, Write It Challenge - stop choosing misery and start creating joy: dreambuildwriteit.com

🎧STOP CHOOSING MISERY RESOURCES:

  • Joy creation blueprint
  • Victim mentality elimination guide
  • Daily joy practice system

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