June 20, 2025 • 33 mins
You keep telling yourself it’s “fine.”
But deep down, you know you’ve settled—and it’s costing you everything.
This episode is your wake-up call.
You keep saying “good enough”… but your soul knows it’s not.
In this no-BS solo episode, Kellan Fluckiger exposes the hidden cost of settling and why mediocrity is quietly destroying your dreams, income, joy, and purpose. This is not about motivation—it’s about radical truth and transformation.
If you’re done tolerating mediocrity, and you’re ready to reclaim your fire, this episode is your spark.
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You have infinite power.
Hey there.
Welcome to your ultimate life.
Your ultimate life.
You know, in this podcast, Iam dedicated to one thing.
Helping you create a life you love.
Like, absolutely love.
And, you know, some peoplewould say, well, then give me a trillion
dollars and then I would lovemy life.
Not true.
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Not true.
You see wealthy people all thetime who hate their lives and you
think, I'd be different.
No, you wouldn't.
No, you wouldn't.
Your ultimate life issomething we earn.
It's something we deserve.
It's something we can have.
But we have to do certainthings because happiness doesn't
come in an Amazon box.
It doesn't happen in thelength of a TV sitcom.
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You know, proposing to yourintended and them saying yes is momentary.
Achieving a CEO position andmaking a lot of money is momentary.
You see that story told overand over again.
Well, I thought it would beall good when I achieved that.
And the answer is, not so much.
Why not?
Ultimate life is an internal state.
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It is a choice.
You can create purpose,prosperity and joy.
Let me repeat that.
You create purpose, prosperityand joy if you want it.
The good news is no one cankeep you from being happy.
No one can keep you from being in.
In love with your life.
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No one can keep you from beinga beacon of light, a vessel of love,
a conduit of power.
No one can prevent that.
No one.
I don't care what they say or do.
You know, we live in a worldright now where there's tons of shaming
and people calling each othernames and, you know, really bad things,
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inciting violence.
I just saw a news report.
It'll be a month or so old nowwhen you get this, because we're
a month or two ahead, but sawa news report this morning of somebody
that went to a church and shota couple people because they hate
the church.
I think it was someone who issupporting the Palestinian cause.
Shot a couple of Jewish peoplewho were visiting in the United States
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from Israel.
Now I live in Canada, but thatnews just got me to thinking.
It's like, what's going on?
That now it becomes the thingto do to kill people we don't agree
with, like, take away their lives.
What is wrong with us?
Right?
So we live in that kind of adivisive world.
And my speaking about it isn'tgoing to change it like that.
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But you and I, we each havethe power to change it, even if it's
a little.
You'd be surprised at how muchyou can do.
I don't know what you are doing.
You may be doing everythingyou possibly can.
I had the beautifulopportunity to speak just before
I'm recording this with awoman who is writing a series of
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books for kids.
Not kid kids, but young adults.
Adult adults, 18 to 29.
Right?
When you're leaving, you know,high school and going into creating
your life fully on your ownand encouraging having the protagonist
and the people that are inthere use love, logic and reasoning
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to help solve problems and tomanage the vicissitudes of life instead
of violence and anger and murder.
And I thought, oh, suchgratitude swelled up in me when I
heard that.
I couldn't wait to figure outhow to help her.
Why?
Because I can't wait for thoseto be.
Imagine if that becameextremely popular and people looked
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at those protagonists.
It's a.
A girl that she's writingabout, a young, young woman, or,
you know, I guess an adult.
But because I'm nearly 70,someone who's 20 feels like a kid
still.
I got kids that are in their 40s.
But anyway, imagine if thatkind of role model were a protagonist
and were admired and we mademovies about them instead of violence
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and anger and all the restthat we seem to have.
So much of.
Your ultimate life's withinyour grasp.
Your ultimate life is withinyour grasp.
Nobody's going to stretch yourhand out.
Nobody's going to close it for you.
We've become infected with theidea that everything has to be easier.
It's, I just can't have it.
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That's not true.
You may have to work hard andyou might have to wait a time, a
day, a week, a month, a year,a decade to have something.
But it's all available to us.
And that is so true.
And the fact that we give upso easily is heartbreaking.
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So today's episode is right there.
The hidden.
It's on this thing behind me.
The hidden cost of settling.
Why good enough is holding you back.
The hidden cost of settling.
Now you can define that anyway you want.
I think about.
I'm a coach.
I'm an ultra high performance coach.
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I work with people who arecommitted to end addiction to mediocrity,
to stand out in their field.
Not because they wantadulation and cash, maybe that's
a byproduct, but becausethat's just who they've Decided.
They are.
They've just decided I'm goingto be the best I can be because I
can.
I'm going to be radicallyexcellent because I can't.
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One of the diseases we have isthis w I t o t wittot.
I've talked about it before,what I think others think, and it's
a flipping disease because weget infected with what I think others
think matters.
It doesn't.
It doesn't.
And you think, well, if Iwrite a book and nobody likes it,
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then what other people thinkmatters a lot.
It does.
And people will love what you say.
The right audience.
We have this.
We have this.
I'm leading a group of peopleright now through a six month process
to write a book, get itedited, get it published, get it
on Amazon, get a coursecreated, all that kind of stuff.
And one of them said to me theother day about fear.
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And I said, what are youworried about?
Well, I'm afraid thatsomebody, you know, there'll be people
that don't like it.
And I, I laughed a little bitand I said, I understand that and
let's solve that right now.
There are, and there will,there'll be people who don't read
it, who don't care who read itand think it sucks.
So let's just understand thatand get it off the table.
Because you're not writing tothem, you're not creating a product
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for them, you're not livingyour life for them.
There will also be people wholove your story, who love you, who
want to get to know you, whowant to understand you better, who
your story and your journeyand your experiences and your willingness
to share matters a lot.
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I used to have the samefeelings, you know, when I started
podcasting, I thought, well,you know, nobody will like it and
whatever.
And I certainly don't have thereach of large ones, Joe Rogan and
some others.
I don't have that reach yet,but I will.
And here's the reach I want.
Not just because I want numbers.
I want to reach the people whoare done settling, who have said
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of their own accord becausemaybe something's happened to them
or whatever, that they're donewith a life based on good enough.
Ah, it's good enough.
You know, your soul, thedivine soul in you is never going
to flip and be satisfied with,ah, that's good enough.
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It's not happy.
So let's talk about why goodenough's holding you back now in
coaching and personal development.
Holding you back, standing inyour own way.
Those are all cute Phrases weuse to represent an idea.
The idea is, you know thatthere is excellence, power, money,
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influence available to youhave an intuitive sense that you
could matter a lot more thanyou do, make a lot more money than
you do.
You have that intuitive senseand you want it.
And then the fear comes.
We have, and that shows up inall kinds of ways.
I don't have time.
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I don't know what to do.
You know what?
If you were going to die, ifyou didn't get out of a building,
you'd figure out how to getout of it and you'd keep trying different
things until it worked.
So when you tell me, I don'tknow how, I don't have time, all
that means is you don't wantit very bad.
And that might piss you offthat I say that, but I don't really
care because it's time thatyou heard the truth.
If you want something, you'llfigure out a way.
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Often the way involves getting help.
Sure did for me when I changedmy life in 2007.
Now, 18 years ago, I didn'thave any idea how to stop being who
I was.
Depressed and struggling andaddicted and broken in so many ways.
And I had to get tons of helpand I did, and I persevered and I
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got there.
And I'm not magic.
It's a set of steps.
So one of the steps is not onthat list is settling for good enough.
Giving up.
Settling is a disease.
It is really rooted in fear.
And here's why.
Well, I'm just going to decidethat I'm going to settle.
And the secret under text isbecause I'm afraid if I try harder,
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I'll get slapped down.
It won't work.
I'll be disappointed, and thenI'll feel bad.
That's the tail end of settling.
I want you to think about howtrue that is and decide in your own
heart if that's who you wantto be.
This is an invitation to askyourself, where are you settling?
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Where are you saying, ah, good enough?
When in your heart you don'tbelieve it.
When in your heart you knowthere is so much unrealized, untapped
potential, opportunity, growth available.
Where are you settling?
List a couple of things.
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Maybe it is in your personal development.
I did that forever.
I don't anymore.
Every single day.
My daily preparation rituals,hours long.
You know that I've talkedabout that before and if you want
to know all the details aboutit, it's in a book about how.
What I do and about how to doyour Own in a way that creates you
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powerfully every day.
This is the book Living withpurpose and Power.
Get it?
It's the best book in theworld about that.
It's not the only book.
There's a million of them, butit's the best one.
It's got 18 years of work andresearch in it.
And I know what I've writtenin their work.
So anyway, preparing yourselfpowerfully every day is one step
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toward not settling.
Why?
Because you've preparedyourself for excellence.
You know, I have this visionof most of the world lives in a swamp.
And the swamp, the labelsaround the swamp are an addiction
to mediocrity, which issettling business.
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Learned helplessness, which isthe lie that I can't do it anyway.
You know, somebody else got tohelp me.
I'm helpless and a victimmindset, which is kind of like everything
happens to me.
I mean, you've heard thisstuff before and then there's a path,
and the path is steep andsometimes thorny and it's like a
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rainbow and it leads to a potof gold.
And the pot of gold, thecharacteristics of that is fierce
life, ownership, right?
Radical excellence and ayearning and a commitment to serve.
When I say radical excellence,this is where the disease comes.
Because someone's radicalexcellence may be your half baked
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effort.
Okay, I learned that I took afour day grand prix racing school
class at the BondurantSpeedway in Phoenix.
And Bob Bondurant was anotable racer back in the day.
And so he has a speedway andthe drivers there are flipping good.
And we got to drive speciallyprepared Corvettes for four days
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and drive them hard and fastwith people in the cockpit with us
teaching us how to do things,how to find the apex of the corner,
when to break, when to gas,when to do both, all of that stuff.
And so my point in saying thatis my absolute balls to the wall
excellence would be prettymediocre for one of those guys.
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Why?
Because they've developed it.
So I'm not saying.
And this is a disease thatcomes in, we think our excellence
has to be as good as everybody else's.
That's nonsense.
Your excellence, the thingswhere you're better than anybody
in the universe is differentfor you and me.
And you have one of thoseareas where or more you have one,
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maybe you don't know what itis, maybe you haven't gone to find
it yet.
And maybe you've settled forthe truth, for the lie.
Actually in your mind you'vecreated a truth that you don't really
have.
It, it doesn't matter anywayand who cares?
Well, you're free to settle.
This is a wake up call to stop.
This is a wake up call and aninvitation to let you know that you
have infinite capability.
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You're a divine being.
Your capability is thereforeenormous because you have divine
DNA and your possibility is infinite.
So, like, what are yousettling for?
Half assed income, half assedhappiness, half assed relationships,
half assed in loving yourself.
What a painful place to live.
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Holding you back, good enoughis a disease because the way we do
one thing is the way we do everything.
And so if you decide you'regoing to be excellent, it's going
to take a new bunch of habits,it's going to take a bunch of decisions
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and a bunch of work.
Especially if you've beenliving a life of settling for a long
time like I did.
So let's think about what.
When I say the hidden cost ofsettling, why good enough is holding
you back.
Holding you back from what?
Your ultimate potential, yourultimate life, your peace, your prosperity,
your joy, your ability toinfluence and add good to the world.
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It's absolutely keeping youfrom that.
We're trading, when we dothis, we're trading our potential
for comfort, for routine, forthe illusion of safety.
And I say the illusion becauseeven if you think you're safe economically,
physically, something canhappen, right?
I saw in the news thismorning, and again, this will be
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old news by the time you hearthis, but it'll happen again and
again and again.
A small plane crashed into, Ithink, five houses in San Diego in
a nice neighborhood.
Then when I saw the report,nobody knew why or what had happened
or how many people are on theplane or anything's too soon.
But can you imagine people wholive in that house, even if they
didn't die instantly, theirroutine is interrupted, house destroyed,
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the illusion of safety shattered.
So the idea that you havesafety is nonsense.
The idea that you are safe inyour routine and comfort is nonsense.
We all know that growthhappens outside the comfort zone.
Go to the gym, hire a personal trainer.
They'll tell you the Last repor 2 is when the muscle breaks down
and you get, you know, theopportunity to build muscle.
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So outside the comfort zone iswhere all the fun is.
Inside the comfort zone isJack, routine, nothing settling.
That's not you or you wouldn'tbe listening to a podcast on your
ultimate life.
So here's the seductive lie.
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Good enough.
Mediocrity sometimes feelssafer than greatness.
So I'm inviting you to stepinto some version of Greatness.
Now, I don't care to try totell you, or could I imagine to tell
you what your area ofgreatness is, but one of the things
I love is the.
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The book challenges that I create.
Www.dreambuildrite it.com it'shere on the screen.
Go there.
The one that's coming up willbe over by the time this one's posted,
but there's another one comingup a couple of months after that.
Three months after that, I think.
So in that place, that's a challenge.
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And I invite you to discoveryour area of greatness, what you
truly have that's great.
Not half ass, not half baked,great, because you have it.
But if you've been settlingmediocrity, it's safer.
You know why?
At least for me, I'll sharethat with you.
I don't know that this is truefor you, but it was for me.
I was afraid to go forgreatness in area any area because
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I was afraid I'd fail.
And that would prove beyondany doubt that I sucked.
So I carried this thought inmy head that I sucked.
I wasn't good enough and Inever would be.
And that came from wherever itcame in my life.
And that kept me from doing alot of things.
It kept me.
It held me back, as it were,because I was afraid.
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I was afraid that if I failed,it would prove that the I'm not good
enough was actually the truthof my life.
When that's nonsense.
Failing at something justmeans that didn't work.
It doesn't mean anything about you.
It's not an indictment.
So let's talk about how comewe start settling.
We start settling, it sort ofseeps in unnoticed.
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It seeps in without you even knowing.
Routine.
You get in the habit.
Snooze, buttons.
I'll do it later.
I don't really have time.
I'm too tired.
I don't have the energy.
You're not built to be that way.
You're built for greatness.
So when you start seeing ashrug, the emotion of shrug show
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up in your life.
You're settling.
Wake up.
Don't dismiss it.
Pay attention.
Whack.
There's the slap.
You're giving up your life.
Nobody's gonna remember, notyou or anybody else, all the days
that were half assed and the same.
Nobody's gonna remember that, right?
Nobody's gonna remember.
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What you're going to rememberare the times you pushed, the times
you dared more greatlyexperienced more deeply and leaned
in more joyously.
Those are the things you'regoing to remember, those are the
things that are going to markthe turning points in your life,
even if you failed miserably.
When I was learning to ski,you know, I'm a.
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I'm a push the limits guy.
So I was on a hill and I waswith someone that was quite a bit
better than I was, and theyskied down the hill and the agreement
was they were going to tell meat the bottom if they thought it
was okay for me to just letloose and rip it up and try to, you
know, do good.
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And I misunderstood and theysaid no because of the obstacles
and some of the things that had.
And I thought they said go.
So I just let it rip.
And I got about halfway downthere and ran into some of the concerns
that they had and fell andblasted myself miserably.
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And, you know, laying thereall in a heap and didn't move for
a while.
And they came, you know,walking back quite a ways, several
hundred meters and to scrapeme up.
And because I hadn't moved, Ihad some of my kids with me.
And they said, man, we thoughtyou were dead.
The spectacularness of the crash.
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We thought you were dead.
Now, you know what?
I remember that.
I remember the details.
I remember the feeling.
I remember how bad it hurt.
I didn't break any bones.
That was good.
And the crash and I thoughtyou were dead and everything.
You know what?
I don't remember the 250million other runs that I made where
I just ripped it up.
I remember them, but they'relumped together.
That one that sticks out andit was a crash and burn.
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So when you start feelingsafe, you're settling.
When you start feeling theshrug, you're settling.
It sucks.
Step it up.
Another thing is when youstart settling, there is an emotional
decay.
You start giving up on yourself.
You start feeling like youdon't matter, like you really do
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suck, like who cares?
I'm one little piss ant personin the whole world.
And so what?
Well, you're free to live like that.
But I want you to think abouthow one person has changed the world
for good or bad.
We have bad examples,dictators and, you know, the Hitlers
of the world.
We have good examples,religious leaders and, you know,
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Christ and others.
And he comes to mind becausehe was obviously the central figure
in human history.
But others too, have a huge impact.
People today, really wealthypeople who have decided to do good
with their accumulated energy,their wealth.
We have boatloads of wealthypeople that we really don't know
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about.
Because they're busysatisfying their own needs.
But those that do add good tothe world, we know them, we hear
their names, we know whatthey're doing, who they are.
And we say, wow, how cool.
That's a good use of thoseresources when we honor them.
You have the power.
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And you can argue with me andmake all the friggin excuses you
want, but you still have it.
What you're telling me isyou're too scared to use it.
You're telling me that youdon't have the courage to explore.
That's what you're telling me.
And when you live like that,then bitterness, resentment, depression
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starts creeping in.
Because then you, then you getto, I could have been a contender,
I could have done, you knowwhat I could have done.
And then you relive past glories.
Someone said on some podcastor YouTube video, Shining Trophies
from the past.
So whatever the trophies areyou had before, you busy shining
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those instead of living yourlife today.
And that creates bitterness,resentment, negativity.
Now let's talk about anotherthing that has to do with settling.
High achievers who go and theyachieve something good and then they
plateau, they settle there.
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I'm in a particular group,it's not a mastermind, I don't know
what to call it.
It's an alliance that isextremely powerful and they full
of really capable and powerfulpeople that are adding all kinds
of good to the world.
One of the things they talkabout is this plateau.
You get to a certain amount ofmoney and influence and you're just
like, yeah, yeah, you know,good enough.
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That's settling.
That sucks.
Stop it.
It will kill you emotionally, spiritually.
You're meant for infinite growth.
So get used to being in thediscomfort zone because hey, settling
the myth or the truth is whatwas it?
Why good enough is holding you back.
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That's what we named this, right?
So when you achieve a certainlevel of success, especially if you
worked hard, then it's like, Idon't want to mess this up.
It's good enough.
I'm going to just hang here,I'm making good dough, got a good
life, take good vacays, butyour soul isn't satisfied.
I can't tell you how manypeople I have met and I personally
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know who say I've achieved CEOofficer level stuff.
Even entrepreneurs make a lotof money.
I've got it all.
And you know what?
I'm just not satisfied.
They could have just said, I'mjust settling.
And the yearning in theirheart is do more, be more, make More
difference in the world.
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Add good to the world.
Show up like the being youmeant to be.
And this thing you've done sofar is wonderful.
And it's the first course ofthe meal.
Don't do that.
Don't let that be you.
Okay.
Now, there's another thing Iwant to talk about, and that is when
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you go down this road ofgrowth and you say, I'm not going
to settle, Helen.
I hear you.
I'm done settling.
There's a.
There's a word that is sopowerful and intimidating at the
same time, and that word is surrender.
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One of the things that you andI have to learn to do if we're really
going to reach our truepotential is to surrender.
Now, surrender is not settling.
Surrender is not passive.
When we think of surrender, wethink of an army capitulating and
waving the white flag.
I give up.
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You know, throw down yourarms, do whatever you're going to
do.
That's not what I'm talking about.
Surrender is a willingacknowledgment that you don't know
Jack, and I don't either.
That there are greater forces.
The Creator gave us theyearning to achieve, the yearning
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to serve, the yearning tolove, the learning to.
Yearning to add good to theworld, the yearning to not settle.
So surrender is not passivity.
It is not, you know, giving up.
It's not surrendering like awhite flag.
It is surrendering to the pathof growth.
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It is learning to love theprocess of waking up every day and
climbing a new mountain,sometimes over rocks, and once in
a while, really over broken glass.
It is surrendering to thetruth that the yearning inside of
you to grow and add good tothe world is divine.
When you surrender to thattruth, then you don't give up.
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Then you just go, well, I'm going.
You know, today was a suck day.
I crawled over a lot of brokenglass, had to stop a bunch and bandage
up the blood.
Okay.
And that can either be, then I quit.
It's not worth it, I'm not trying.
Or it can be, okay, that was tough.
Let's go tomorrow.
In the Navy SEAL training,there is a saying that the only easy
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day was yesterday.
And that obviously implies alot of things, but one of them is
you have to go all in, every day.
And every day is going to feelharder than the last.
I'm not asking myself for youto be a glutton for punishment, to
do stupid things or anything else.
I'm asking you to surrender tothe yearning in your heart to grow.
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Surrender to the yearningthat's divine in your heart to grow.
Settling is the antithesis of that.
The opposite, the destructive force.
Settling is holding you back.
Good enough.
That is holding you back.
Now, I say all this to you asan invitation to surrender to the
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yearning to grow.
You're free to just blow thisoff, hit, stop, ignore me, and never
listen to another episode,because this is the first of four
episodes we're going to do onthis path of growth, okay?
And so they're not going to bein a row.
There's a couple of guests in between.
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But that's what we're going todo because this path of growth is
so important.
And you're free at any time tosay, bs, I'm done.
I'm good enough.
Okay, then this show isn't for you.
This show is for those thatsay, I'm grateful for everything
that I've done and learnedeverything that I have, including
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the setbacks.
And I'm going.
I'm going to the next hill.
Personal development,leadership, the ability to lead and
inspire others.
That's all learnable.
It's habits and practice.
All right?
There's another couple ofthings that go to this settling business,
and that is the brain'saddiction to certainty and that you
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know the devil you know isbetter than the devil you don't.
The idea that you know what'scoming is a powerful opiate, a powerful
addictive force.
And so your brain is going toresist change because it feels scary,
it is unknown, and there'sgoing to be a chance of damage, injure,
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embarrassment or whatever.
And the answer is yes, thereis lean in and love it.
Dare more greatly, experiencedeeply, lean in more joyously.
That's what gives life juice.
Not settling.
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The last thing I want to talkis the cost of staying the same.
Nothing ever stays the same.
So the idea that you're justgoing to keep the status quo is crap.
You're either growing or decaying.
If you sit where you are, evenif you keep going to the same job,
making the same amount ofmoney, you're rotting at the core.
Your spirit is rotting, yourtalents are rotting.
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Your yearning is dwindling.
That desire you had and feltbefore is fading onto the back into
the background, yesterday's news.
And you know that's true whenI say it.
So the high cost of settling,why good enough's holding you back.
That's true.
And so here's your call to action.
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If you think I'm crazy, you'refree to do that.
If this has caused you to wakeup in any degree.
I want you to pick one arearight now in your own life, whether
it's your personal life,personal habits, personal fitness,
making money, your business,your growth, how you're treating
your relationship, yourrelationship with the divine, your
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ability to get and understandintuition and act on it, the courage
to step out of your comfortzone, whatever it is.
Pick one area right now whereyou know you are settling.
You want, you know you'resaying good enough and now you know
it's holding you back.
Pick just one and then bang onthe table in front of you or on your
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fist if you're not by a tableand say, I'm done.
I'm done settling.
I'm moving forward.
I'm going to start with thethings I know I could do and I've
always known that I could do,but I was too scared to start.
And if you need help, damn it,go get it.
Find a coach.
Reach out to me.
Let's talk.
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I have clients and I coach,but only people that are bleedingly
committed and ultra highperformance because I have long given
up the practice of trying toconvince people they need to do whatever
because you don't.
This is about the yearning.
So find the help you need.
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Don't quit.
Pick one area that you'recommitted to change right now and
I promise you it'll paymassive dividends.
It'll be fun, even if it's hard.
Hard doesn't mean unfun.
If you pick one area and getto work on it, I can promise you
it'll move you closer to yourultimate life and it will feel like
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joy.
And joy, of course.
Purpose, prosperity and joy isone element of your ultimate life.
Right here, right now.
Your opportunity for massivegrowth is right in front of you.
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You have infinite power.
Hey there.
Welcome to your ultimate life.
Your ultimate life.
You know, in this podcast, Iam dedicated to one thing.
Helping you create a life you love.
Like, absolutely love.
And, you know, some peoplewould say, well, then give me a trillion
dollars and then I would lovemy life.
Not true.
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Not true.
You see wealthy people all thetime who hate their lives and you
think, I'd be different.
No, you wouldn't.
No, you wouldn't.
Your ultimate life issomething we earn.
It's something we deserve.
It's something we can have.
But we have to do certainthings because happiness doesn't
come in an Amazon box.
It doesn't happen in thelength of a TV sitcom.
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You know, proposing to yourintended and them saying yes is momentary.
Achieving a CEO position andmaking a lot of money is momentary.
You see that story told overand over again.
Well, I thought it would beall good when I achieved that.
And the answer is, not so much.
Why not?
Ultimate life is an internal state.
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It is a choice.
You can create purpose,prosperity and joy.
Let me repeat that.
You create purpose, prosperityand joy if you want it.
The good news is no one cankeep you from being happy.
No one can keep you from being in.
In love with your life.
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No one can keep you from beinga beacon of light, a vessel of love,
a conduit of power.
No one can prevent that.
No one.
I don't care what they say or do.
You know, we live in a worldright now where there's tons of shaming
and people calling each othernames and, you know, really bad things,
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inciting violence.
I just saw a news report.
It'll be a month or so old nowwhen you get this, because we're
a month or two ahead, but sawa news report this morning of somebody
that went to a church and shota couple people because they hate
the church.
I think it was someone who issupporting the Palestinian cause.
Shot a couple of Jewish peoplewho were visiting in the United States
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from Israel.
Now I live in Canada, but thatnews just got me to thinking.
It's like, what's going on?
That now it becomes the thingto do to kill people we don't agree
with, like, take away their lives.
What is wrong with us?
Right?
So we live in that kind of adivisive world.
And my speaking about it isn'tgoing to change it like that.
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But you and I, we each havethe power to change it, even if it's
a little.
You'd be surprised at how muchyou can do.
I don't know what you are doing.
You may be doing everythingyou possibly can.
I had the beautifulopportunity to speak just before
I'm recording this with awoman who is writing a series of
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books for kids.
Not kid kids, but young adults.
Adult adults, 18 to 29.
Right?
When you're leaving, you know,high school and going into creating
your life fully on your ownand encouraging having the protagonist
and the people that are inthere use love, logic and reasoning
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to help solve problems and tomanage the vicissitudes of life instead
of violence and anger and murder.
And I thought, oh, suchgratitude swelled up in me when I
heard that.
I couldn't wait to figure outhow to help her.
Why?
Because I can't wait for thoseto be.
Imagine if that becameextremely popular and people looked
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at those protagonists.
It's a.
A girl that she's writingabout, a young, young woman, or,
you know, I guess an adult.
But because I'm nearly 70,someone who's 20 feels like a kid
still.
I got kids that are in their 40s.
But anyway, imagine if thatkind of role model were a protagonist
and were admired and we mademovies about them instead of violence
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and anger and all the restthat we seem to have.
So much of.
Your ultimate life's withinyour grasp.
Your ultimate life is withinyour grasp.
Nobody's going to stretch yourhand out.
Nobody's going to close it for you.
We've become infected with theidea that everything has to be easier.
It's, I just can't have it.
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That's not true.
You may have to work hard andyou might have to wait a time, a
day, a week, a month, a year,a decade to have something.
But it's all available to us.
And that is so true.
And the fact that we give upso easily is heartbreaking.
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So today's episode is right there.
The hidden.
It's on this thing behind me.
The hidden cost of settling.
Why good enough is holding you back.
The hidden cost of settling.
Now you can define that anyway you want.
I think about.
I'm a coach.
I'm an ultra high performance coach.
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I work with people who arecommitted to end addiction to mediocrity,
to stand out in their field.
Not because they wantadulation and cash, maybe that's
a byproduct, but becausethat's just who they've Decided.
They are.
They've just decided I'm goingto be the best I can be because I
can.
I'm going to be radicallyexcellent because I can't.
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One of the diseases we have isthis w I t o t wittot.
I've talked about it before,what I think others think, and it's
a flipping disease because weget infected with what I think others
think matters.
It doesn't.
It doesn't.
And you think, well, if Iwrite a book and nobody likes it,
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then what other people thinkmatters a lot.
It does.
And people will love what you say.
The right audience.
We have this.
We have this.
I'm leading a group of peopleright now through a six month process
to write a book, get itedited, get it published, get it
on Amazon, get a coursecreated, all that kind of stuff.
And one of them said to me theother day about fear.
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And I said, what are youworried about?
Well, I'm afraid thatsomebody, you know, there'll be people
that don't like it.
And I, I laughed a little bitand I said, I understand that and
let's solve that right now.
There are, and there will,there'll be people who don't read
it, who don't care who read itand think it sucks.
So let's just understand thatand get it off the table.
Because you're not writing tothem, you're not creating a product
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for them, you're not livingyour life for them.
There will also be people wholove your story, who love you, who
want to get to know you, whowant to understand you better, who
your story and your journeyand your experiences and your willingness
to share matters a lot.
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I used to have the samefeelings, you know, when I started
podcasting, I thought, well,you know, nobody will like it and
whatever.
And I certainly don't have thereach of large ones, Joe Rogan and
some others.
I don't have that reach yet,but I will.
And here's the reach I want.
Not just because I want numbers.
I want to reach the people whoare done settling, who have said
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of their own accord becausemaybe something's happened to them
or whatever, that they're donewith a life based on good enough.
Ah, it's good enough.
You know, your soul, thedivine soul in you is never going
to flip and be satisfied with,ah, that's good enough.
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It's not happy.
So let's talk about why goodenough's holding you back now in
coaching and personal development.
Holding you back, standing inyour own way.
Those are all cute Phrases weuse to represent an idea.
The idea is, you know thatthere is excellence, power, money,
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influence available to youhave an intuitive sense that you
could matter a lot more thanyou do, make a lot more money than
you do.
You have that intuitive senseand you want it.
And then the fear comes.
We have, and that shows up inall kinds of ways.
I don't have time.
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I don't know what to do.
You know what?
If you were going to die, ifyou didn't get out of a building,
you'd figure out how to getout of it and you'd keep trying different
things until it worked.
So when you tell me, I don'tknow how, I don't have time, all
that means is you don't wantit very bad.
And that might piss you offthat I say that, but I don't really
care because it's time thatyou heard the truth.
If you want something, you'llfigure out a way.
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Often the way involves getting help.
Sure did for me when I changedmy life in 2007.
Now, 18 years ago, I didn'thave any idea how to stop being who
I was.
Depressed and struggling andaddicted and broken in so many ways.
And I had to get tons of helpand I did, and I persevered and I
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got there.
And I'm not magic.
It's a set of steps.
So one of the steps is not onthat list is settling for good enough.
Giving up.
Settling is a disease.
It is really rooted in fear.
And here's why.
Well, I'm just going to decidethat I'm going to settle.
And the secret under text isbecause I'm afraid if I try harder,
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I'll get slapped down.
It won't work.
I'll be disappointed, and thenI'll feel bad.
That's the tail end of settling.
I want you to think about howtrue that is and decide in your own
heart if that's who you wantto be.
This is an invitation to askyourself, where are you settling?
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Where are you saying, ah, good enough?
When in your heart you don'tbelieve it.
When in your heart you knowthere is so much unrealized, untapped
potential, opportunity, growth available.
Where are you settling?
List a couple of things.
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Maybe it is in your personal development.
I did that forever.
I don't anymore.
Every single day.
My daily preparation rituals,hours long.
You know that I've talkedabout that before and if you want
to know all the details aboutit, it's in a book about how.
What I do and about how to doyour Own in a way that creates you
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powerfully every day.
This is the book Living withpurpose and Power.
Get it?
It's the best book in theworld about that.
It's not the only book.
There's a million of them, butit's the best one.
It's got 18 years of work andresearch in it.
And I know what I've writtenin their work.
So anyway, preparing yourselfpowerfully every day is one step
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toward not settling.
Why?
Because you've preparedyourself for excellence.
You know, I have this visionof most of the world lives in a swamp.
And the swamp, the labelsaround the swamp are an addiction
to mediocrity, which issettling business.
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Learned helplessness, which isthe lie that I can't do it anyway.
You know, somebody else got tohelp me.
I'm helpless and a victimmindset, which is kind of like everything
happens to me.
I mean, you've heard thisstuff before and then there's a path,
and the path is steep andsometimes thorny and it's like a
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rainbow and it leads to a potof gold.
And the pot of gold, thecharacteristics of that is fierce
life, ownership, right?
Radical excellence and ayearning and a commitment to serve.
When I say radical excellence,this is where the disease comes.
Because someone's radicalexcellence may be your half baked
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effort.
Okay, I learned that I took afour day grand prix racing school
class at the BondurantSpeedway in Phoenix.
And Bob Bondurant was anotable racer back in the day.
And so he has a speedway andthe drivers there are flipping good.
And we got to drive speciallyprepared Corvettes for four days
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and drive them hard and fastwith people in the cockpit with us
teaching us how to do things,how to find the apex of the corner,
when to break, when to gas,when to do both, all of that stuff.
And so my point in saying thatis my absolute balls to the wall
excellence would be prettymediocre for one of those guys.
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Why?
Because they've developed it.
So I'm not saying.
And this is a disease thatcomes in, we think our excellence
has to be as good as everybody else's.
That's nonsense.
Your excellence, the thingswhere you're better than anybody
in the universe is differentfor you and me.
And you have one of thoseareas where or more you have one,
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maybe you don't know what itis, maybe you haven't gone to find
it yet.
And maybe you've settled forthe truth, for the lie.
Actually in your mind you'vecreated a truth that you don't really
have.
It, it doesn't matter anywayand who cares?
Well, you're free to settle.
This is a wake up call to stop.
This is a wake up call and aninvitation to let you know that you
have infinite capability.
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You're a divine being.
Your capability is thereforeenormous because you have divine
DNA and your possibility is infinite.
So, like, what are yousettling for?
Half assed income, half assedhappiness, half assed relationships,
half assed in loving yourself.
What a painful place to live.
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Holding you back, good enoughis a disease because the way we do
one thing is the way we do everything.
And so if you decide you'regoing to be excellent, it's going
to take a new bunch of habits,it's going to take a bunch of decisions
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and a bunch of work.
Especially if you've beenliving a life of settling for a long
time like I did.
So let's think about what.
When I say the hidden cost ofsettling, why good enough is holding
you back.
Holding you back from what?
Your ultimate potential, yourultimate life, your peace, your prosperity,
your joy, your ability toinfluence and add good to the world.
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It's absolutely keeping youfrom that.
We're trading, when we dothis, we're trading our potential
for comfort, for routine, forthe illusion of safety.
And I say the illusion becauseeven if you think you're safe economically,
physically, something canhappen, right?
I saw in the news thismorning, and again, this will be
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old news by the time you hearthis, but it'll happen again and
again and again.
A small plane crashed into, Ithink, five houses in San Diego in
a nice neighborhood.
Then when I saw the report,nobody knew why or what had happened
or how many people are on theplane or anything's too soon.
But can you imagine people wholive in that house, even if they
didn't die instantly, theirroutine is interrupted, house destroyed,
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the illusion of safety shattered.
So the idea that you havesafety is nonsense.
The idea that you are safe inyour routine and comfort is nonsense.
We all know that growthhappens outside the comfort zone.
Go to the gym, hire a personal trainer.
They'll tell you the Last repor 2 is when the muscle breaks down
and you get, you know, theopportunity to build muscle.
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So outside the comfort zone iswhere all the fun is.
Inside the comfort zone isJack, routine, nothing settling.
That's not you or you wouldn'tbe listening to a podcast on your
ultimate life.
So here's the seductive lie.
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Good enough.
Mediocrity sometimes feelssafer than greatness.
So I'm inviting you to stepinto some version of Greatness.
Now, I don't care to try totell you, or could I imagine to tell
you what your area ofgreatness is, but one of the things
I love is the.
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The book challenges that I create.
Www.dreambuildrite it.com it'shere on the screen.
Go there.
The one that's coming up willbe over by the time this one's posted,
but there's another one comingup a couple of months after that.
Three months after that, I think.
So in that place, that's a challenge.
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And I invite you to discoveryour area of greatness, what you
truly have that's great.
Not half ass, not half baked,great, because you have it.
But if you've been settlingmediocrity, it's safer.
You know why?
At least for me, I'll sharethat with you.
I don't know that this is truefor you, but it was for me.
I was afraid to go forgreatness in area any area because
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I was afraid I'd fail.
And that would prove beyondany doubt that I sucked.
So I carried this thought inmy head that I sucked.
I wasn't good enough and Inever would be.
And that came from wherever itcame in my life.
And that kept me from doing alot of things.
It kept me.
It held me back, as it were,because I was afraid.
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I was afraid that if I failed,it would prove that the I'm not good
enough was actually the truthof my life.
When that's nonsense.
Failing at something justmeans that didn't work.
It doesn't mean anything about you.
It's not an indictment.
So let's talk about how comewe start settling.
We start settling, it sort ofseeps in unnoticed.
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It seeps in without you even knowing.
Routine.
You get in the habit.
Snooze, buttons.
I'll do it later.
I don't really have time.
I'm too tired.
I don't have the energy.
You're not built to be that way.
You're built for greatness.
So when you start seeing ashrug, the emotion of shrug show
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up in your life.
You're settling.
Wake up.
Don't dismiss it.
Pay attention.
Whack.
There's the slap.
You're giving up your life.
Nobody's gonna remember, notyou or anybody else, all the days
that were half assed and the same.
Nobody's gonna remember that, right?
Nobody's gonna remember.
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What you're going to rememberare the times you pushed, the times
you dared more greatlyexperienced more deeply and leaned
in more joyously.
Those are the things you'regoing to remember, those are the
things that are going to markthe turning points in your life,
even if you failed miserably.
When I was learning to ski,you know, I'm a.
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I'm a push the limits guy.
So I was on a hill and I waswith someone that was quite a bit
better than I was, and theyskied down the hill and the agreement
was they were going to tell meat the bottom if they thought it
was okay for me to just letloose and rip it up and try to, you
know, do good.
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And I misunderstood and theysaid no because of the obstacles
and some of the things that had.
And I thought they said go.
So I just let it rip.
And I got about halfway downthere and ran into some of the concerns
that they had and fell andblasted myself miserably.
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And, you know, laying thereall in a heap and didn't move for
a while.
And they came, you know,walking back quite a ways, several
hundred meters and to scrapeme up.
And because I hadn't moved, Ihad some of my kids with me.
And they said, man, we thoughtyou were dead.
The spectacularness of the crash.
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We thought you were dead.
Now, you know what?
I remember that.
I remember the details.
I remember the feeling.
I remember how bad it hurt.
I didn't break any bones.
That was good.
And the crash and I thoughtyou were dead and everything.
You know what?
I don't remember the 250million other runs that I made where
I just ripped it up.
I remember them, but they'relumped together.
That one that sticks out andit was a crash and burn.
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So when you start feelingsafe, you're settling.
When you start feeling theshrug, you're settling.
It sucks.
Step it up.
Another thing is when youstart settling, there is an emotional
decay.
You start giving up on yourself.
You start feeling like youdon't matter, like you really do
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suck, like who cares?
I'm one little piss ant personin the whole world.
And so what?
Well, you're free to live like that.
But I want you to think abouthow one person has changed the world
for good or bad.
We have bad examples,dictators and, you know, the Hitlers
of the world.
We have good examples,religious leaders and, you know,
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Christ and others.
And he comes to mind becausehe was obviously the central figure
in human history.
But others too, have a huge impact.
People today, really wealthypeople who have decided to do good
with their accumulated energy,their wealth.
We have boatloads of wealthypeople that we really don't know
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about.
Because they're busysatisfying their own needs.
But those that do add good tothe world, we know them, we hear
their names, we know whatthey're doing, who they are.
And we say, wow, how cool.
That's a good use of thoseresources when we honor them.
You have the power.
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And you can argue with me andmake all the friggin excuses you
want, but you still have it.
What you're telling me isyou're too scared to use it.
You're telling me that youdon't have the courage to explore.
That's what you're telling me.
And when you live like that,then bitterness, resentment, depression
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starts creeping in.
Because then you, then you getto, I could have been a contender,
I could have done, you knowwhat I could have done.
And then you relive past glories.
Someone said on some podcastor YouTube video, Shining Trophies
from the past.
So whatever the trophies areyou had before, you busy shining
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those instead of living yourlife today.
And that creates bitterness,resentment, negativity.
Now let's talk about anotherthing that has to do with settling.
High achievers who go and theyachieve something good and then they
plateau, they settle there.
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I'm in a particular group,it's not a mastermind, I don't know
what to call it.
It's an alliance that isextremely powerful and they full
of really capable and powerfulpeople that are adding all kinds
of good to the world.
One of the things they talkabout is this plateau.
You get to a certain amount ofmoney and influence and you're just
like, yeah, yeah, you know,good enough.
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That's settling.
That sucks.
Stop it.
It will kill you emotionally, spiritually.
You're meant for infinite growth.
So get used to being in thediscomfort zone because hey, settling
the myth or the truth is whatwas it?
Why good enough is holding you back.
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That's what we named this, right?
So when you achieve a certainlevel of success, especially if you
worked hard, then it's like, Idon't want to mess this up.
It's good enough.
I'm going to just hang here,I'm making good dough, got a good
life, take good vacays, butyour soul isn't satisfied.
I can't tell you how manypeople I have met and I personally
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know who say I've achieved CEOofficer level stuff.
Even entrepreneurs make a lotof money.
I've got it all.
And you know what?
I'm just not satisfied.
They could have just said, I'mjust settling.
And the yearning in theirheart is do more, be more, make More
difference in the world.
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Add good to the world.
Show up like the being youmeant to be.
And this thing you've done sofar is wonderful.
And it's the first course ofthe meal.
Don't do that.
Don't let that be you.
Okay.
Now, there's another thing Iwant to talk about, and that is when
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you go down this road ofgrowth and you say, I'm not going
to settle, Helen.
I hear you.
I'm done settling.
There's a.
There's a word that is sopowerful and intimidating at the
same time, and that word is surrender.
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One of the things that you andI have to learn to do if we're really
going to reach our truepotential is to surrender.
Now, surrender is not settling.
Surrender is not passive.
When we think of surrender, wethink of an army capitulating and
waving the white flag.
I give up.
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You know, throw down yourarms, do whatever you're going to
do.
That's not what I'm talking about.
Surrender is a willingacknowledgment that you don't know
Jack, and I don't either.
That there are greater forces.
The Creator gave us theyearning to achieve, the yearning
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to serve, the yearning tolove, the learning to.
Yearning to add good to theworld, the yearning to not settle.
So surrender is not passivity.
It is not, you know, giving up.
It's not surrendering like awhite flag.
It is surrendering to the pathof growth.
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It is learning to love theprocess of waking up every day and
climbing a new mountain,sometimes over rocks, and once in
a while, really over broken glass.
It is surrendering to thetruth that the yearning inside of
you to grow and add good tothe world is divine.
When you surrender to thattruth, then you don't give up.
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Then you just go, well, I'm going.
You know, today was a suck day.
I crawled over a lot of brokenglass, had to stop a bunch and bandage
up the blood.
Okay.
And that can either be, then I quit.
It's not worth it, I'm not trying.
Or it can be, okay, that was tough.
Let's go tomorrow.
In the Navy SEAL training,there is a saying that the only easy
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day was yesterday.
And that obviously implies alot of things, but one of them is
you have to go all in, every day.
And every day is going to feelharder than the last.
I'm not asking myself for youto be a glutton for punishment, to
do stupid things or anything else.
I'm asking you to surrender tothe yearning in your heart to grow.
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Surrender to the yearningthat's divine in your heart to grow.
Settling is the antithesis of that.
The opposite, the destructive force.
Settling is holding you back.
Good enough.
That is holding you back.
Now, I say all this to you asan invitation to surrender to the
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yearning to grow.
You're free to just blow thisoff, hit, stop, ignore me, and never
listen to another episode,because this is the first of four
episodes we're going to do onthis path of growth, okay?
And so they're not going to bein a row.
There's a couple of guests in between.
(28:21):
But that's what we're going todo because this path of growth is
so important.
And you're free at any time tosay, bs, I'm done.
I'm good enough.
Okay, then this show isn't for you.
This show is for those thatsay, I'm grateful for everything
that I've done and learnedeverything that I have, including
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the setbacks.
And I'm going.
I'm going to the next hill.
Personal development,leadership, the ability to lead and
inspire others.
That's all learnable.
It's habits and practice.
All right?
There's another couple ofthings that go to this settling business,
and that is the brain'saddiction to certainty and that you
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know the devil you know isbetter than the devil you don't.
The idea that you know what'scoming is a powerful opiate, a powerful
addictive force.
And so your brain is going toresist change because it feels scary,
it is unknown, and there'sgoing to be a chance of damage, injure,
(29:30):
embarrassment or whatever.
And the answer is yes, thereis lean in and love it.
Dare more greatly, experiencedeeply, lean in more joyously.
That's what gives life juice.
Not settling.
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The last thing I want to talkis the cost of staying the same.
Nothing ever stays the same.
So the idea that you're justgoing to keep the status quo is crap.
You're either growing or decaying.
If you sit where you are, evenif you keep going to the same job,
making the same amount ofmoney, you're rotting at the core.
Your spirit is rotting, yourtalents are rotting.
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Your yearning is dwindling.
That desire you had and feltbefore is fading onto the back into
the background, yesterday's news.
And you know that's true whenI say it.
So the high cost of settling,why good enough's holding you back.
That's true.
And so here's your call to action.
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If you think I'm crazy, you'refree to do that.
If this has caused you to wakeup in any degree.
I want you to pick one arearight now in your own life, whether
it's your personal life,personal habits, personal fitness,
making money, your business,your growth, how you're treating
your relationship, yourrelationship with the divine, your
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ability to get and understandintuition and act on it, the courage
to step out of your comfortzone, whatever it is.
Pick one area right now whereyou know you are settling.
You want, you know you'resaying good enough and now you know
it's holding you back.
Pick just one and then bang onthe table in front of you or on your
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fist if you're not by a tableand say, I'm done.
I'm done settling.
I'm moving forward.
I'm going to start with thethings I know I could do and I've
always known that I could do,but I was too scared to start.
And if you need help, damn it,go get it.
Find a coach.
Reach out to me.
Let's talk.
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I have clients and I coach,but only people that are bleedingly
committed and ultra highperformance because I have long given
up the practice of trying toconvince people they need to do whatever
because you don't.
This is about the yearning.
So find the help you need.
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Don't quit.
Pick one area that you'recommitted to change right now and
I promise you it'll paymassive dividends.
It'll be fun, even if it's hard.
Hard doesn't mean unfun.
If you pick one area and getto work on it, I can promise you
it'll move you closer to yourultimate life and it will feel like
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joy.
And joy, of course.
Purpose, prosperity and joy isone element of your ultimate life.
Right here, right now.
Your opportunity for massivegrowth is right in front of you.
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Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
will change everything.
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