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February 28, 2025 21 mins

Are you exhausted from taking care of everyone else with nothing left for yourself? In this powerful debut episode of "Your Utmost: Unlocking Your Full Potential," discover the shocking truth about motherhood's invisible burden.

Drawing from a personal rock-bottom moment after relocating from Montana to Houston, this episode explores why the belief that "good moms sacrifice everything" is actually hurting you AND your loved ones. This eye-opening conversation tackles:

  • How constant self-sacrifice creates hidden resentment that damages your most important relationships
  • Why being the "invisible mom" teaches your children dangerous lessons about a woman's worth
  • The surprising connection between your disappearing identity and your family's struggles
  • Three practical strategies to break free from the sacrifice cycle without guilt

Through heartfelt storytelling and transformative insights, this episode challenges the cultural narrative that tells mothers they must disappear to be "good enough." You'll discover how reclaiming your visibility isn't selfish—it's essential for creating the family life you truly desire.

Whether you're feeling burned out, unappreciated, or simply wondering, "Who am I beyond being a mom?" this episode provides the perspective shift and practical tools to start reclaiming yourself without sacrificing your family's wellbeing.

What you'll learn:

  • Why the "virtue" of self-sacrifice is actually undermining your effectiveness as a mother and wife
  • How to recognize the warning signs of identity erosion before reaching crisis point
  • The concept of "Strategic Selfishness" and how it creates MORE positive impact than constant self-sacrifice
  • Simple, practical steps to start breaking the invisibility cycle today

Who this episode is for:

  • Mothers who feel overwhelmed, invisible, or disconnected from themselves
  • Women struggling with resentment despite "doing everything right"
  • Anyone questioning their worth beyond their caregiving roles
  • Those ready to break free from exhausting patterns without upending their family life

Download the free "Visibility Roadmap" guide mentioned in this episode by clicking the link below.

Don't miss next week's episode: "Breaking Free from the 'Used Up and Worthless' Story" where we explore how to challenge the limiting beliefs that keep you feeling like your best years are behind you.

Visiblity Roadmap Guide

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