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October 24, 2025 22 mins

In this powerful episode, we sit down with inspirational speaker and "Possibility Hacker" Shelli Varela to discuss the life-altering power of asking, "Why not me?" 


Shelli shares her incredible story of becoming her city's first female firefighter against all odds and reveals how watching her own mother build an empire from nothing shaped her belief in what's possible. 


This conversation is for any mom feeling stuck or dreaming of more, offering a practical path to rebuilding your confidence and modeling a life of courage for your children.


TLFMTR (Too Long For Mom To Read):


  • The Power of "Why Not Me?": Learn how asking this simple question can dismantle self-imposed limitations and open up a world of possibility.

  • Mothers as Models: Discover why your children learn more from watching you try, fail, and persevere than from anything you say.

  • Follow Your Curiosity: Understand how tapping into small moments of interest builds the muscle of bravery and leads to unexpected personal growth.

  • The Synergistic Effect: Following your gut and trying new things creates a powerful internal shift, boosting confidence, self-worth, and your sense of adventure.

  • Your Kids Treat You How You Treat Yourself: A loving reminder that modeling self-compassion and courage is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children.


What is one small spark of curiosity you've been dismissing or putting off?


What would it look like to give yourself just 15 minutes this week to explore it, simply for the joy of trying?


Remember, your body never lies, and the answer to your curiosity is always yes. 


Join us for the More For Mom Summit, the official summit kick off is November 12th BUT… there’s lots of fun activities and a moms only community buzzing right now.  


Get your free ticket here: https://moreformomsummit.com/ and start connecting with other moms trying to do something for themselves before the holiday overwhelm kicks in this year.


Connect with Shelli:

  • Instagram: @shellivarela

  • Youtube: Shelli Varela

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