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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello, good morning. Who's this.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Hi? This is Caroline.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Hi Caroline, what can we do for you this morning?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Yes, you were asking about how to keep a relationship,
a long term relationship happy. I guess so to speak, right, Yes, Okay.
What I've learned to do with him is if we've
got into an argument, the best thing to do is
to walk away, let things cool down, and then come
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back in five minutes and then act like as if
nothing happened and talk about other things. Then maybe a
few days later, bringing it back up, you know, and say, okay,
let's talk about this, and I'll listen to you, and
then I'll just sit there quietly listen to his point,
and then I do my point. And that that helps
a lot because it lets things spoil over, you know,
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and then you can come back and talk about it
reasonably instead of in the heat of the moment.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
That's a really, really mature way to go about it.
Unfortunately for me, I don't know if that tactic would
work for me, because I'm and I know this is
a problem and my relationship and in my life, like
when somebody is upset with me, or if I'm fighting
with somebody, like I cannot stop until it's resolved. And
it's a problem because I know I probably should walk away, but.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
I'm like, no, talk to me.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Why are you mad at me?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Like I can't sleep.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
At night as somebody I know like is upset with me.
So as amazing and mature it is, I don't think
i'm there yet.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
That's sure you're not mature.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
Yeah. For me, every day I waited, it would like
start festering, and then I would get more mad at.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
That's what I'm saying, Like, like, I just and I
know it's a problem.
Speaker 7 (01:32):
Well you know what they were saying, I thought you
were going this way is like you're supposed to. I
read somewhere that you take a break, like you walk
away or you start kissing. If you if you start
you got a passionate kissing for a few minutes or
a minute or something like that, supposed to stop doing.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
It as well.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Every time, I'm like, get off for me.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah, I would have worked for you there.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I know.
Speaker 7 (01:53):
I think it's for non it's for non intimate relationships
for coworkers.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
You totally think about it about what you're mad about.
My aunt Todd and uncle Joe were married for over
sixty years. And my aunt said what she would do
when they have these big fights, as she would say,
excuse me for a minute, I'm gonna go pray for
our family, and when I come back, I hope you
do the right thing. And she said I won every
single fight.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Gymnastics you make them?
Speaker 7 (02:22):
Do you ever say? She goes, well, what, well, I
killed the family. I killed everyone. While you're all watching you.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
He's like, what are you gonna do? Is she just
praying that we're gonna do the right thing.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
I bet I did right thing?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
About me?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
All right, Caroline, thanks for calling in.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
All right, thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
It's John Jaye Rich.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Ever since I was a kid, I was times.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
John Jane ch we're gonna play a game. We contested.
Speaker 7 (02:48):
You get tickets are rolling loud, so call us at
eight seven seven nine three seven, one oh four seven.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Meantime. You saw Kyle's social media, she was out and
about the game.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I took my kids out of school early yesterday because
why not?
Speaker 6 (03:02):
Spring training's here and school schmool sometimes, right, I mean,
I know it's important, but at the same time, experiences
like this are just you'll never.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Get them back.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
So I got them out of school because my kids
have also been like obsessed with the Diamondbacks, like to
the point where they have learned all the players' names,
not just the last names on their jerseys, like their
first names.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
And it was.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
Really it was really adorable to see their reactions, Like,
you know, baseball games they're really long, right, they could
be really long. And on the way to the spring
training game, we're watching the d bas versus the Giants.
We're in the car and they're like, Mom, can we
stay for the whole game? And I was like the
whole game? And they're like, yeah, can we stay the
whole game? And I was like why not, knowing they're
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not gonna last the whole game.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
There's no way, right.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
So we get there and first inning, right, it's the
first inning. There's a lot of innings to go. You
would die how emotional and passionate my kids were about
every single play.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
So it was like the way the Giants were rubbed
about first and like each.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Time someone got on base, they're like no, Like the
people around us are looking at them like, oh, what
do you want to do?
Speaker 4 (04:12):
They're fans. I don't know, right, Like I'm not gonna
crush their little joy. They're getting right now.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
So then the Diamondbacks get up to the plate and
they score five runs, and so like my kids are
losing it. Like Jake McCarthy goes up to bat and
they're like, well's go Jack. Those people are like all right, McCarthy,
like whatever, like let's go, let's go Jack, like every
single play, and I'm like just kind of laughing because
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we got like eighty we're innings, and I'm like, in
my own head, I'm singing, is the passion gonna stick?
Like they did say they wanted to stay the whole game?
How many innings could this possibly last?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
This energy?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Right?
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Second inning comes and Addie turns to me and she's like,
I'm kind of taling, and I'm like, okay.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
All right. And then and then the bottom.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
Of the second comes and she's like, can we go
to the team shop?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
And so I'm like okay.
Speaker 6 (05:06):
So third inning we go to the team shop and like,
I'm thinking that'll refresh their vibe, and we go and
we sit back down and then Easton, who the one is,
He's he's the most into it because at first he
was cheering really loudly, and Addie goes, mom, I'm so
embarrassed right now, and then she decided to just jump in.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
I was like, that's what people do. They cheer at
sporting events. No big deal.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
So we get back to our seats after we go
to the team shop. It's like the top of the
fourth inning and Easton turns over and he goes, Mom,
I want to leave during the fifth inning.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I was like, so after you want to watch the
whole inning?
Speaker 6 (05:38):
No, I want to leave at the fifth like we
only have like one part of the inning left.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
And I was like, okay, no problem.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
But for me, I was like, I knew they wouldn't last,
but I didn't think they would want to leave this early.
Speaker 7 (05:51):
My kids when we go to the games. All three
of my boys would go to the Bank Baseball games.
I told him it was over at the third inning,
But these are different the pros. Will they do it
to the third inning?
Speaker 5 (06:07):
Too bad?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
They know they know all the rules and everything, so
I don't think I could get away with that. But
I did just leave it up to them because I'm like,
if we stay for the whole game and they're this excited,
I'm not taking that away from them.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
It's too fun for me to see this.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
But as we were leaving, and I was like kind
of grateful because we had.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
A great time.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
Everything like went pretty smoothly, which doesn't always happen when
you bring kids two events and I'm walking to the car,
I'm like, you, guys, this would be great. We're not
even gonna deal with traffic on the way out of here.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
This is like the ideal day.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
Yeah, it's good, it's a good It's John Jay's little
method of leaving really beneficial on the way out here.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And I used to read to them.
Speaker 7 (06:41):
I would skip pages because it was all it was
all about the inflection of when you were reading. You'd
be like, and then this happened, and then this person
with this, and then the tree and the giant peach
did this, and then I'd skipped two or three pages
and keep going and see if they noticed.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
And they didn't notice. And now you can finish the
book a lot faster.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
You know.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
I actually have done that in one book. And it's
the the.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
The Circus one, the uh oh my gosh, it's the
guy that does cat in the hat doctor Doctor Seuss book.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
And it's like something about if I own the circus. Yeah,
And it's the longest book ever a long Yeah, but
that one I feel like is just ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
So then I'm like, you know what, they'll they won't
notice twenty other things happening in the.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Circus because the next page is gonna be fifty.
Speaker 6 (07:21):
Other things happening at the circus at the times I have.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
To get it.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
You should hear John Jay read the place as you'll go.
He's like, don't go there, it's crowdy.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Together. I did that same thing.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
The book I picked was too long, but it was
still kind of fun with fifty shades of gray.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Good Vanessa, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
All right, we're gonna play a game. You are contestant.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
It's time for pop, okay, Vanessa. In this game, it
is so crazy how many points that you can get.
It's all in your imagination and how quickly you can think.
Because I want to give you a leg up on
the competition. I'm gonna have John Jay, Rich and Payton
go before you so can get a feel for it.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Game.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
You are playing for Rolling Loud Tickets. Are you excited?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Very excited?
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Okay? He scared me for a second, say anything like that. Excited? Okay,
John Jay.
Speaker 6 (08:12):
International Women's Day is this weekend. So you've got ten
seconds on the clock to name is many women who
have made history that you can go.
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Sandra Dale, O'Connor, Susan b Anthony, Whoopy Goldberg, Barbara Walters,
Kyle On, Thug kingk Whitmore, Kamala, Harris Clinton.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
I'll give you the last one that was a really
really solid start.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Schohn Jay Rich, I move over to you. There are all.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Kinds of national whatever days, right, and I thought it
was interesting. There are a couple that I'm going to
be using that are actually today. Today is National Slam
The scam day, So you Rich have ten seconds to
name is many types of scams that you can go.
Speaker 5 (08:54):
Well, it's IRS scam, there's the Dubai scam. There's the
grand falling in love a great mom falling in love
with somebody from Nigeria SCAMU.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Okay, not as solid at a start. I thought that
one would be easy for you.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
You know all the scams. That's okay, you have another
round to redeem yourself. Peyton, I was just talking about
going to spring training games, spring trainings in town.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
It's just like one of the best times of the year.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
So Peyton, you've got ten seconds to name as many
Major League Baseball teams that you can go.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
The Diamondbacks, Dodgers, the Guardians, the White Sox, the Red
Sox or not, the Who's the New York one? Dang it?
Speaker 4 (09:38):
The Yankees, Mets and Yankees.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
Okay, you're a second place right now. So Vanessa, Now
you've had a little feel for the game. You are
playing for rolling loud tickets. So, Vanessa, there's ten seconds
on the clock for you to name as many famous
festivals that you can doesn't necessarily.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Have to be music, but can be. That's just a hint.
And you're time starts now.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Throwing loud.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
The banana, Well, go for it.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Yeah, I'm sure there is a banana festival.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
There's Yeah, people do festivals for everything these days. Festival,
I mean there's so many. Okay, Vanessa, you and rich
are tied after round one.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
John Jay is in the league.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Like I said, you've got another round to sort of,
you know, bring your points back up so that you
can win these tickets.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
We move over to round two.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
John Jay, there's a bar in Nashville selling a drink
inspired by Morgan Wallan's chair throwing incident.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
It actually comes to the little chair in it. It's hilarious.
Speaker 6 (10:39):
So John Jay, you've got ten seconds to name any
other celebrity scandals. They should sell drinks inspired by Ready
Go justin Timberlake, do u? I?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
The Reese Witherspoon. Do you know who I am?
Speaker 7 (10:52):
The Kim Kardashian sex tape drink, the Kanye West racist
drink the Kanye West doesn't like?
Speaker 4 (10:59):
Right, Okay, I thought that was good.
Speaker 6 (11:03):
There to be some interesting answers from you of that one.
Richard Bearra from Cinderella to Gummy Bear's. Crocs announced those
new collaborations this week. You've got ten seconds to name
other collabse you think Crocs should do go.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
Uh, iron Man, they should do Marvel, they should do
DC comics, they should do rock ones. They should have
guitar Crocks, of course, they should Vinyl Crocs. They should
do a baseball crocks.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
Pretty good, pretty good round for you.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
Rich Peyton, Nick Jonas we heard earlier, had an unfortunate
wardrobe malfunction. So Peyton, with ten seconds on the clock,
please give us as many embarrassing moments you could think of.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Go your top falls off when you're dancing, Your hair
gets dumb stuck, in it. You ripped your pants. Um,
you went to the bathroom in your pants.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
All about the pants. Okay, Vanessa, we move over to you.
Speaker 6 (11:59):
I think this one should be easy for You'll give
you a real shot at coming back and beating John Jay,
who happens to be in the lead right now. I
told you there are all kinds of National whatever day
is today, and today is also National Oreo Cookie Day,
so everyone could just enjoy their Oreos today and know
that you're celebrating the National Oreo Cookie Day. So Vanessa,
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for you, I've got ten seconds on the clock for
you to name as many types of cookies that you
can't go.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Doaculan chip cookies, Oreo cookies, the Girl Scout cookies, open
meal cookies, Nico doodles.
Speaker 6 (12:37):
That was really, really a good round for you, But
John Jay is our pop ten game.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
I feel like I feel like Vanessa though like maybe
could have gone points for all the girls Scout cookies
because she did mention them.
Speaker 4 (12:50):
There's like twelve of them.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
She didn't win what she didn't win, but she could
have the ticket.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
Good caveat.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
But John Jay's gonna share the tickets with you, Vanessa,
so you're still going to Rolling Loud.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Won the game Vanessas to be clear, I won the game,
but you can have the take off. But that's it's
the hold on. You don't know. Hold on, we'll set it,
you know. I was just thinking. My wife text me
a couple of things. I told you part of it.
Speaker 7 (13:14):
One she said that on our street somebody has gone
through and broken into all the mailboxes.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
That's so crazy, and put.
Speaker 7 (13:20):
Mail on top of everyone's mailbox. But then you don't
know what's missing. She's like, just magazine. She goes, there's
just a bunch of magazines. And I was like, I
don't even know we got magazines. I haven't seen a
magazine forever, but on our whole street. And then something
else happened last night. I could tell the story because
I know she's working out right now, so she can't
hear it. I'm noticing something happening with in my relationship.
Maybe it's other people's relationships. But like my wife doesn't
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seem to think that her phone is a mobile phone.
Like if I'm watching TV, she answers the phone she's
seeing next to me, she just talks on the phone.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
It's her cell phone.
Speaker 7 (13:53):
Get up and leave the room, like I got to
turn a pause the TV and I look at her.
Then last night she's talking to my son Kemp, like
I went to bed at seven last night.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I was so tired. Right, so at six fifty five.
Speaker 7 (14:05):
I'm like doing all my stuff, or I mean, I'm
in the procept of doing my stuff. She's upstairs, she's
gonna go in the sauna and do whatever she's gonna do.
And and she goes, oh, Kemp's calling. So she picks
up the phone and talk to Camp because he lives
in Hawaiian and she's talking to him, and I'm getting
ready on speakerphone, I say, what's up, what's up?
Speaker 1 (14:21):
What's up to?
Speaker 7 (14:22):
Now, I'm getting ready to go into the covers of
my bed, and she.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Goes, oh, are you going to sleep?
Speaker 7 (14:29):
And I go, yeah, I get up early, like sometimes
I have to remind her what I do for the me.
So she sits down and talks on the phone forever
to Camp, and I've said her, I go, you know,
you can walk around, like you can leave this room
and go And then she comes walking I mean bed
like I've got the covers up to my neck and
I'm waiting like it's like kind of like the lights
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are off and I'm just kind of waiting for to
leave before I put my seat pap on and she
walks over.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
She goes, do you want to say anything to Camp?
But she puts the phone for my gup. No, I don't.
Good night Camp, good night. And this is the mobile phone.
The phone doesn't have to stay in the vicinity of
where you answer it.
Speaker 4 (15:02):
She just wants to be around you.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I need to go to sleep.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
She also figures she's on the phone with your son.
Maybe you want to be a part of the count.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
I don't. I don't need to talk to my kids
every day. I don't.
Speaker 7 (15:14):
And then she talks to him like like if they're
old friends. Like she starts going over her whole day
with them, and I'm like, does he really.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Care about that stuff?
Speaker 7 (15:20):
Yeah, of course she does, because whatever she's doing, she's
doing right because I got three great kids.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Her.
Speaker 5 (15:28):
They respect their mama.
Speaker 7 (15:28):
But I'm still like, like the guy, the girl that
of campus dating right now, she put together like oh,
she with the Costco and bought all the stuff because
Dutch she's going to go visit there, and and she
he sent a picture and it's all organized right, like
like towels and socks and whatever, and lotions and everything,
and it's all set up nice and properly, just like
Blake would do.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
She's a mini I know, and that's very true. It's
like I feel like you do end up dating people
that do kind of act like your parents.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
I agree. I agree.
Speaker 7 (15:56):
That's why a lot of times also people get in
the toxic relationships because that's what they were raised with.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
I know, my dad and Khadem are so similar it
drives me up a wall really, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 7 (16:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
And like you guys get like the Showtime Showtime where
he's trying to act all.
Speaker 4 (16:10):
He's not like that at home all the time.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
You know, he's sometimes grumpy and doesn't want to talk
to you, and they're like what I do. He's like nothing,
I just want to be left alone.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
That's funny.
Speaker 7 (16:18):
That's how the girl Hilario Baldwin talks about Alec Baldwin.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
You guys only know this side of Alec Baldwin.
Speaker 7 (16:24):
I get him all these other sides, and they tried
to show that I'm not gonna lie to He's kind
of likable