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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You've come for the John Jay and Ridge, but let's
be honest, you stay for Kyle and Peyton.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's John Jay and Ridge.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
For the last couple days, we're talking about Kim Kardashian,
how she said that she went and used psychic said
decide whether she would give her advice if she was
going to pass the bar, and she didn't. She had
four psychics that said no, that said she was going
to pass, and she didn't. So he wanted to hear
from you about psychic stuff, whether it worked it didn't work, right, Chris,
thanks for holding what's your psychic story?

Speaker 4 (00:31):
Hi?

Speaker 5 (00:31):
How are you doing good?

Speaker 3 (00:32):
How are you Chris?

Speaker 5 (00:34):
I'm all right. So my sister this was when we
were younger. My sister, I guess she was like eighteen nineteen.
She decided she wanted to go try out a psychics. Well,
the psychic told her she was a good guy. When
by the time she was twenty five. Well, now she's
forty five and she's still alive.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
So are you bummed?

Speaker 5 (00:55):
No?

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Exactly, He's like, psychic, why are you still here?

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Thanksgivving pretty bold prediction.

Speaker 5 (01:05):
Yeah, I mean no, I don't want to say that either,
because I wouldn't be bummed. I mean, I'm happy she's
still alive, but I kind of wanted psychic, you know,
to be truthful you know, and acting you know, and
it actually worked, but it didn't. So I'm a little
bummed out at that part.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
You should have your sister go back there. She should
go back that psychic kick up with the nard goll ha. Yeah,
what a dark like prediction.

Speaker 6 (01:27):
And also if I was like I would be looking
over my shoulder every second of every day because if
it's not twenty five, what if it's twenty six?

Speaker 7 (01:32):
Okay, but maybe that's why she survived the warnings.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
Have I told you, guys, if I told you that
a story about the psychic that I talked to in
nineteen ninety seven. No, I talked to psychic in nineteen
ninety seven, and they said I was going to die
this year. Oh, this is the year they said I
was gonna die. Like that, I know it back, I know.

Speaker 5 (01:49):
Terry, but I'm happy she's still alive.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
So well, in case something happens to me, play this audio.

Speaker 8 (01:56):
That's why I have life insurance. I know that psychic
in nineteen ninety.

Speaker 7 (01:58):
Seven, you're gonna make it. Hey, you're doing far too
many things to think.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
If a bus hits me, it's jerk. Good morning, way,
what's your psychic experience?

Speaker 9 (02:09):
So not a psychic exactly, but my family's from New
Orleans and my mom and grandmother are very open to
different energy spirits, things like that. My aunt lives in
a hundred and something year old house that's like three
houses away from a cemetery and also has a church
right behind it that's very old. She started having weird

(02:30):
things go on, like a solid wood door that was
losing stuff out of the door and sheld clean it
off and it would come back, uh, stuff gripping out
of the bottom of a wooden chair. And then the
last saw was they were working on the house. They
had a door leaned up against the wall and it
fell over from the top, didn't slide down like opposite

(02:51):
in the way that it was leaning. So my mom
did some research and got something called ghould be gone
I spray And there was a candle that they also
burned that I'm laughing thinking, you got off for ghosts
and off for ghosts.

Speaker 8 (03:07):
Of begun?

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Did it work?

Speaker 4 (03:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (03:12):
And it's not googled it and it's a it's on
an Academy of Energy website or whatever, and yeah they
burned the candle and did the spray and never had
any other issues.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
Well check, wow, someone find it.

Speaker 9 (03:27):
Imagine being in the house and a door leaned up
against the wall and it gets tipped over away from
the wall.

Speaker 10 (03:33):
I would freak out.

Speaker 8 (03:34):
That's door from oozing. That's pretty that's pretty good stuff.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
The wall oozing would freak me out the door.

Speaker 9 (03:40):
But then there's a door that got knocked over. The
oozing is weird. But to have something to get pushed
away from the wall, yeah, that was scary.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
Yeah, but the oozing they put that in scary movies
like the like Emyville. Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't say there either.
All right, man, so we've got to get some Google begun.

Speaker 7 (03:55):
You can for just forty three dollars.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
Found it. I'll pay for it. You get it the ingredients.

Speaker 7 (04:03):
Wow, it comes in a nice silver bottles.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Sufficient Yeah all right, Derek, thanks for the tip man,
Thank you. Rich. You got to say that for stacks
and hacks around Halloween.

Speaker 8 (04:16):
I guess the fact that it works like a charm
that's pretty big.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
Jessica, you got a psychic story, Yeah, I.

Speaker 4 (04:23):
Do so my psychic. I was going like the doctors left,
everybody kept saying nothing was wrong with me. And she
is out of state, and she told me that I
needed to go to a university hospital and she told
me what test to act for and everything, and she
turned out to be right.

Speaker 11 (04:43):
And I just.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
Had my surgery and just got diagnosed with stage four
and domitriosis about a month ago.

Speaker 8 (04:49):
Oh my god, WHOA.

Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yeah, yeah, it was crazy. And then this same lady
actually met her on TikTok. I referred her to my
best friend, my best friend, and she got a reading
as well, like maybe five years ago, and she asked her.
She was like, you know, my husband wants to start
his own company this and that, and she's like, go
ahead and do it. And she's like, believe it or not,

(05:13):
the company is going to take off and then you
guys will be making more money than you've ever seen before.
And yeah, they are close to being a millionaires. So
it's crazy.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
Hey, let me tell you something about the indometriosis. Are
you in pain? Do you feel pain?

Speaker 4 (05:27):
A lot, really bad pain. It's like labor pain.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Okay, So get this. A friend of mine's wife had
it for a long time. And I was telling now,
I'm not a doctor, Jessic, I'm just gonna throw this
out there for you. I kept saying to them, I go,
you need to take her down to Mexico and get
these stem cells. And he went with me. She came
with us one time and she was too scared to
do it. Finally she did it, and guess what gone,

(05:51):
Because indometriosis is yes, yes, I'm telling you now, I'm
not a doctor, but I'm just telling you what happened.
So you'd have to call the clinic in talk town.
But I'm telling you. And told another friend of mine
that and she still hasn't done it yet. But the
one friend did it because the stem cells help with inflammation,
and inflammation is the cause of most disease, and in
your matriosis is inflammation of the uterine lining. And so

(06:12):
it went away. So check the call up. Look up
the place called rehealth rehealth on Instagram or rehealth, Yeah,
and they have these stem cells. I get nothing from this.
I'm just telling you, you, shure say with the necklace
I was talking about yesterday, I get nothing from it.

Speaker 8 (06:27):
And we also were not pid by googy gone Google.

Speaker 3 (06:30):
Google Begune we are not all right, Jessica, thanks for
calling in, Thank you, thank you. All right, we are
going to shift gears to get to side hustles because
there's a lot of people that got side hustles. But
first I have to play something for you. I get
to stop with this that I can't wait and I
think it's going to completely be contagious. What you know
those you've got the AI places like Google, Gemini, Gemini

(06:53):
and then gronk wrong, what's the other one?

Speaker 12 (06:56):
Chat GPT?

Speaker 3 (06:57):
What is it?

Speaker 7 (06:58):
Chat?

Speaker 10 (06:58):
Gpt?

Speaker 3 (07:00):
Okay, there was an interview done with the former Prime
Minister of the of the U K Boris Johnson, and
this video is going viral and I love it. Listen
to the way he says, chatchup T I love it.

Speaker 13 (07:13):
Do you use absolutely use curtipit?

Speaker 3 (07:17):
I love.

Speaker 14 (07:20):
Spriankly fantastic.

Speaker 7 (07:26):
Let me just pop that into.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
I used five times yesterday. I'm not kidding you.

Speaker 15 (07:34):
Do you use absolutely use curtipity?

Speaker 3 (07:38):
I love.

Speaker 14 (07:41):
Is spriankly fantastic?

Speaker 8 (07:45):
Kyle take that like Kyle's version the best to again, dummy.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
If you get three roses, it's a trap.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Four of the roses starts right now on John Jay
and Ridge.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
With his time for War of the Roses. Rachel thinks
so much cheating on her. We're going to find out
who it is and why she thinks that. Good morning, Rachel, Hey,
good morning Morny. What's your story.

Speaker 12 (08:10):
So my boyfriend and I we've been together for three years,
and lately he's just been acting really really weird. They
completely out a.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
Character for him, Okay, out a character, like what's he doing?
The typical putting the phone down, face down, talking in
the other room you walk in, and his pants at
his ankles, what I.

Speaker 12 (08:32):
Mean even more than that?

Speaker 3 (08:33):
More than that?

Speaker 12 (08:34):
So like he's out running errands right, being super protective
of his phone, like you said, just like very weird.
It's just so not like him. I know something's going on.
I know something's off. He so he drives the Tesla,
and the other night he was sleeping, and so I

(08:56):
went through his phone and opened the app. They have
an app and you can kind of to see where
he's been. It's a history, and I saw that he's
been going consistently to some place that's not even.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Nearby a brothel.

Speaker 4 (09:11):
I know.

Speaker 7 (09:12):
Do you see what the place is or you just
see like an address, Like, did you google.

Speaker 12 (09:15):
It looks like he's going to a school around around
at lunchtime?

Speaker 8 (09:20):
Kind of Could he be taking classes somewhere getting a degree,
of course, not.

Speaker 12 (09:31):
That's he's done with that, But I mean it's like
an elementary school. And so I'm just starting to wonder,
you know, as I'm digging through, I'm going through the
rest of his phone, and there is a number in
there that doesn't have a name.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
Hold on a second. Could his father be very, very
wealthy and wants him to take over his company, but
he never finished school, so he's got to go back
and finish school.

Speaker 7 (09:59):
Happy Gilmore situation.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
Billy Madison is his name? Billy?

Speaker 12 (10:05):
No, No, it's an elementary school, Like at least that's
what it looks like. It's nearby wherever it's you know,
he's parking.

Speaker 8 (10:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (10:13):
And then like with the phone number that's in his
phone that he's like texting through. It doesn't have a name,
but I can like there's so many messages back and
forth asking like Splinter, you're going to be here, miss you?

Speaker 3 (10:27):
Okay, okay, that's all. What's his what's your boyfriend's name?

Speaker 12 (10:33):
His name is Andrew.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
Okay, here's how it works, Rachel. We're gonna get Andrew
on the phone. Kyle's gonna offer him a dozen red roses,
romantic red roses. Hopefully he says them to you. Okay,
so you got a lot of information there. You got
a lot of what's the word I'm looking for?

Speaker 7 (10:50):
I got damning evidence?

Speaker 3 (10:51):
No, it is evidence, but not damning super circumstantial circumcisions. Circumcisions. Okay,
all right, Well we'll do it or the Roses continues
next with John Jaye Rich.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
I'm so glad you're here as the person who currently
occupies your attention. I would like to thank you for
listening to John Jaye Rich.

Speaker 3 (11:11):
Rachel and Andrew have been together three years. She has
noticed him acting a little weird. Then she went to
his tesla and sawid he's been going to some place
that's far away. Right. How far away is it, Rachel?

Speaker 12 (11:22):
I mean like close to forty minutes, and.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
She thinks it to elementary school, but it could also
be something else. I remember one time I was at
at a sushi restaurant. My wife was like, why are
you at Pizza Hut. I'm like, I'm not at Pizza Hut.
I'm not a sushi restaurant. Turns out it used to
be a pizza hut. So maybe this used to be
an elementary school and now it's something else. It could
be a torture place or a dungeons.

Speaker 7 (11:43):
Always precise, but that's what I was going to bring up.
The text messages on the phone back and forth number
with them that isn't.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
Put in his foot. Well, it reminds me of episode
one of the Kim Kardashian Show on Hulu. Maybe it's
a dominic drift. Could be either way that would not
be good. So either way, we're gonna call it and
find out who he sends flowers to. Are you ready? Rachel?

Speaker 12 (12:06):
Yeah? Thank you?

Speaker 3 (12:07):
Okay, Kyle you ready?

Speaker 12 (12:08):
I'm ready?

Speaker 13 (12:25):
Hello?

Speaker 12 (12:26):
Hi?

Speaker 7 (12:26):
Is Andrew available?

Speaker 16 (12:29):
Speaking?

Speaker 17 (12:30):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Perfect?

Speaker 4 (12:31):
Hi?

Speaker 7 (12:31):
So my name is Cammy. I'm going to make this
quick and worth your while. I'm with a new company.
We're called jan Our Flowers. You've been chosen to be
part of our social media campaign. So basically, you get
sent our most romantic bouquet of roses anywhere you want
to whoever you want, and all we ask in return
is that you just share us on whichever platform you use.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
The most.

Speaker 16 (12:50):
Gotcha. So it's like I've had you on a post
no credit card, nothing like that, exactly.

Speaker 7 (12:54):
Yeah, I don't really need any personal information from you
other than how personal you want to get on the
car that we're going to send out, And really that's
kind of all I need to know. I've got that
card ready. We'll attach it to the dozen red roses.
If you let me know the message that you want
on there, we can get into like name and address
and the time it'll be delivered if if you'd like
to take advantage h sure, okay.

Speaker 16 (13:17):
Cool, would be read I love you, Thank you for
always being my favorite part of the day.

Speaker 3 (13:23):
That's very sweet, my favorite part of the day.

Speaker 7 (13:28):
Okay, And who do you want to address this to?

Speaker 16 (13:32):
Rachel?

Speaker 6 (13:33):
Rachel?

Speaker 3 (13:34):
She should be excited about this.

Speaker 12 (13:36):
Wait, hold on, I'm confused.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
Let me tell them what's going on. Andrew, your girlfriend
thought you were cheating on her, so she asked us
to call you. You're on the radio John Jay and
Rich radio program a segment called War of the Roses. Okay,
would you like to explain? Well, I mean Rachel has
to explained because you sent the flowers to Rachel, so
she's got a problem.

Speaker 4 (13:58):
With you.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
We don't know why.

Speaker 12 (14:00):
Yeah, Andrew, you you've been acting weird, like guarding your phone.

Speaker 18 (14:06):
I don't know.

Speaker 12 (14:06):
I just feel like there's something going on. So yeah,
I called the radio station.

Speaker 4 (14:11):
I know that they do this.

Speaker 12 (14:12):
They help me out, and I'm just really confused what's
going on.

Speaker 3 (14:16):
I would skip over the guarding your phone part and
get to where he's going.

Speaker 12 (14:22):
You've been going to this elementary school. I'm I'm seeing
where you're going and I saw the messages, So.

Speaker 5 (14:31):
My god, tell me what's going on?

Speaker 16 (14:32):
You went through my phone? Like what is I can't
even believe you? What's wrong with you? You can always
talk about this, like, what do you mean?

Speaker 19 (14:40):
What's wrong with me?

Speaker 16 (14:41):
You're out of your mind?

Speaker 8 (14:43):
Well, what's going on?

Speaker 12 (14:45):
I'm not out of my mind? You're I saw you're
going every single every time I look, like at your
destinations around lunchtime, you're going to the same place. And
it's really weird. You're going to elementary school. Like are
you are?

Speaker 16 (14:58):
You can't You're not can do this? Like you know anything?
What I've been going through?

Speaker 4 (15:03):
What do you mean?

Speaker 12 (15:04):
What have you been going through?

Speaker 3 (15:05):
Are you?

Speaker 12 (15:06):
Who are you seeing? When you go to the school?

Speaker 16 (15:09):
Yeah, all right, fine, you want to do this great.
I found out about five months ago that I have
a daughter. She's eleven, and and I didn't know about her,
and I did like the paternity test, and I've been
going through that entire process, and yeah, she's mine. Oh
and that's where I've been going. I've been meeting her
and her mom for lunch so we can try to

(15:30):
build a relationship and figure out like steps forward.

Speaker 8 (15:34):
Wow, that's a lot bigger than cheating. Actually, that's pretty big.

Speaker 12 (15:39):
Yeah, you have a you have an actual daughter, like
an eleven year old daughter. Eleven years old. Yeah, that's
still not okay to like keep something.

Speaker 20 (15:48):
Like this for me.

Speaker 16 (15:50):
I mean I had to write because of this, like
look at how you behave, how you react to things.
I jumped to conclusions and now we're on the radio
having super personal conversation front of millions of people. So yeah,
I wanted to ease you into it. I wanted to
make sure that the kid was mine. I wanted to
kind of figure out what the situation was going to

(16:12):
look like. I was kind of trying to build a foundation.

Speaker 12 (16:15):
I mean, I get what you're saying, but you have
to realize that you have been acting really weird and
I saw stuff and.

Speaker 16 (16:24):
It literally situation And all I ask from you is
like a little bit of trust. Hey, that was a given,
But instead you're making me look insane on the radio.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
I don't think you look insane. I think that's a
tough thing to go through, what you're going through. So
was it a one night stand? Or was it somebody
you were dating for.

Speaker 16 (16:40):
A while, somebody had dated way before I met Rachel?

Speaker 3 (16:44):
Right? No, I know because you've been dating. You've been
with Rachel three years and your daughter's eleven, So it
wasn't you weren't totally. I mean, I mean you must
be shocked, but I mean it's not like a one
night standing. You hear eleven years later your dad. So
somebody you were dating, why did she keep it from
you for eleven years?

Speaker 16 (17:00):
We dated for like two months? You know, it wasn't
that long of a relationship.

Speaker 3 (17:05):
And are you and the I don't want.

Speaker 16 (17:06):
To really dive into the details publicly, like they live
in the area too.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
Right, Okay, I mean let me ask you guys. Something
is that If it was you, is it better than cheating?
I think I think so, I think, like, oh, and
it sounds like when she was reading the text messages,
are the text messages with the mom or the daughter.

Speaker 12 (17:25):
I mean, I can't tell who they were too at all.

Speaker 3 (17:27):
Because if it's with a daughter, that's cute, love you,
miss you, miss you, can't wait to see you. If
it's with the mom, then we got yeah yeah, so
so Andrew, who are you texting? And she was reading
your text messages it's.

Speaker 16 (17:38):
To the mom, but it's not miss you. It's like
basically planning out where we're gonna meet, what we're gonna do.

Speaker 3 (17:43):
You know, well, Rachel said it was miss you, unless
it was like the missed you, like you were here
to We were here one and you got here two thirty.

Speaker 8 (17:48):
Excited to see you. Could be speaking for the daughter.

Speaker 6 (17:51):
I guess, or the daughter could be texting him too,
you know what I mean, you never know. I think
if like that was me, I think probably with Rachel
in this situation, my feelings be hurt that like there
wasn't the trust or the comfort to be able to
come to me regardless like yeah, you're going through it,
but I want to be here to help you through that.
I think the secretiveness in the not talking and you
saying that it's because she acts like this, like that.

Speaker 3 (18:13):
Would be what hurts my thing exactly. That's the betrayal.

Speaker 12 (18:16):
Yeah, let me just say this. I feel like he
if it really was that simple and it really is
just like his daughter from eleven years ago, Like why
wouldn't he just tell me, like is there something like
rekindling with your ex or something?

Speaker 8 (18:33):
They probably would have sent her the flowers. That's where
you want to answer. No, of course not, but you're
not saying anything.

Speaker 16 (18:41):
Of course not.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
But you know what, I don't know what I would
do if I find out my wife had an eleven
year old? What was I that distant? I didn't notice?

Speaker 8 (18:54):
You didn't recognize when she changes like all the couches.

Speaker 3 (18:59):
Okay, well that's an interesting situation. He sent the flowers
to you, Rachel. But you're so you find out your
boyfriend's got eleven year old, so you have a lot
to talk about it.

Speaker 8 (19:07):
Yeah, hearing some things in there that don't add up.

Speaker 3 (19:09):
Thank you both for going on the air with us.
Thank you, Thanks Andrew, Thanks Rachel. That's War of the Roses,
you guys. But John, Jay and.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
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Use the iHeartRadio app and talk back to us.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
Right now. It's John Jay and rich Justin.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
Good morning, Hey John Jay.

Speaker 17 (19:28):
How's it going, long time listener?

Speaker 8 (19:29):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (19:30):
Thanks, Dustin? How are you?

Speaker 13 (19:32):
I'm awesome, man, I mean mostly, you know, I just
really need some advice because I'm genuinely confused. And it's
it's at the point now where it's just starting to
hurt my feelings. Okay, it's about my boyfriend and I've
been with him for a little over a year now.
I think it's a significant amount of time. And I'm

(19:54):
saying this because he's the first guy I'm fully openly
dated commit into and I just really want this to work.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
Okay, So how can I help you?

Speaker 13 (20:07):
So it's just that lately I'm realizing, because I don't
want this to come off like a small thing, but
it's just I'm realizing, and it's been going on for
a bit, that he just doesn't remember things about me,
and it's it's it's things I feel like your partner
should know about you or recognize or remember. Like let

(20:28):
me just say like I brought him a gift back
from Europe, and when his friend asked where he got it,
he said someone else gave it to him.

Speaker 3 (20:38):
That for sure. What else?

Speaker 13 (20:44):
Yeah, And you know, normally, you know, I can just
let that stuff slide, you know, because we're in a
serious relationship. But then the other day I found out
he doesn't even know my middle name.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
After over a year of dating, a little over.

Speaker 13 (20:58):
A year, he still does not know my middle mate. Again,
that's just a I mean, that's an obvious words flagged.
But the top it off, we had a dinner reservation
and he stelled my last name wrong.

Speaker 3 (21:13):
We got a text here that was funny because I
was just a perfect timing. This text is, hey, my
son is two years old next week, and I had
to check how I spelled his name correctly for another
kid's birthday party card. This spell check. He thought he
spelled his son's name wrong. That's that happened.

Speaker 8 (21:29):
Some people are details. I mean, he might love you,
just kind of like have one are those brains that
doesn't operate that That's kind of what I was thinking.

Speaker 2 (21:37):
I was going to ask you.

Speaker 7 (21:38):
Is he like a big picture guy? Like, is he
like thinking ten years down the road and he's not
really normally into the details anyways, Because that what kind
of makes sense, I.

Speaker 13 (21:49):
Mean somewhat, but it's just like when you put these
pieces together and there's there's been more like smaller signs,
and these aren't like isolated incidents that if you're far between.
It's just it's just starting to make me after a year,
I mean a year, and I've tried bringing it up,

(22:09):
inching at it, but it takes me feel like I'm
not important or memory.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
Oh, Darren, I think you're just being emotional Dustin.

Speaker 8 (22:18):
Oh, maybe you don't even remember Justin's name.

Speaker 3 (22:22):
Maybe it's just you.

Speaker 2 (22:23):
Maybe maybe it's you.

Speaker 3 (22:26):
I think it's you, Dustin. I think it's your whole person.

Speaker 13 (22:30):
So is he gonna call me?

Speaker 3 (22:31):
Darren?

Speaker 13 (22:32):
Now?

Speaker 7 (22:35):
I think you got to talk to him about it
and just be like, are you doing this on purpose?
Or do you not realize you're doing this? Because these
details kind of matter to me. Maybe he doesn't realize
what he's doing.

Speaker 13 (22:44):
I don't want to be too sensitive about.

Speaker 7 (22:46):
It, but no, but I think you I mean, it's
not one thing, it's a it's several things at this point,
and I don't think you have to be confrontational about it.
Just be like, hey, do you do you know what's
kind of happening here. It's kind of like it's it's
it's something that I'm concerned about.

Speaker 8 (23:01):
You're like, out of my three names, you only kind
of have my first name.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
I don't. I don't think it's that big of a
deal just yet. That's just my opinion for sure. In fact,
we can just put this out real quick eight seven
seven ninety three seven one o four seven. Let's make
Dustin feel better. Call up and tell us about how
your boyfriend, girlfriend, significant other. I mean, even me as
a dad, I get all my kids' names, wrongs, wrongs wrong.

(23:27):
I'll say three or four names. You know, parents do
that all the time, right, So I could see him
not getting things right, and he probably mispelled your name
by mistake rushing, but I mean, you still bring it
up to him. But we'll just do a quick round.
Tell us about how your sitivated other completely messed up
something that was. Like every time my wife tells me
about her birthday, it takes a second for me. I can't.
It's just not I mean, she knows my social Security number. Yeah,

(23:49):
I don't forget.

Speaker 8 (23:51):
Some people are like that. Some people remember everything. Other
people a big picture. They don't think about it. So
I'm going to give him a pass.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
Yeah, so that's what I'm saying. But still we'll do
a round. So, uh, Darren, Dustin will hang up. You
turn up the radio, and you listen to what everyone
says to make you feel better.

Speaker 13 (24:05):
Okay, Hey, I appreciate that. Thank you for all your health.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
You got a hold on a second. Oh sorry, but
what were you saying? You just want to what?

Speaker 13 (24:11):
Sorry, just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm
happy I did.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
Okay, good hold on eight seven seven nine three seven
one four seven. Let's make him feel better. We'll talk
to you next, John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 2 (24:21):
We just want to hear from you, and I don't
think that's too much to ask. And it's really stressing
me out that you're not calling.

Speaker 1 (24:27):
Eight seven seven nine three seven one o four sevens
John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 3 (24:32):
Hi, Taylor.

Speaker 21 (24:34):
I was calling because I related Dustin's story. I did
not know how to pronounce my husband's last name until
probably about a year and a half until we were dating.
I just kept pronouncing it wrong. He never corrected me,
and I didn't know that's the way it was pronounced
until he stated his full name at.

Speaker 22 (24:52):
A group party and I was like, what are you
talking about?

Speaker 13 (24:55):
That?

Speaker 17 (24:57):
He had it?

Speaker 3 (24:59):
So how do you what is your how did you
say it? And what's the right way of saying it?

Speaker 21 (25:03):
Yeah, so he's Chinese.

Speaker 17 (25:05):
It's spout z h o u.

Speaker 21 (25:07):
So most people just called him zoo and I was like, yeah,
Jeff jets out, No, it's Joe Joe.

Speaker 12 (25:13):
I have to commit now.

Speaker 4 (25:15):
Yes. I was like, I thought this whole time.

Speaker 21 (25:17):
Like we're gonna get married, my last name's gonna be
Zou and then come to find out I'm going to
be Taylor Joe. I was like, oh my god, I
have written.

Speaker 8 (25:25):
That Taylor Joe is very Southern.

Speaker 20 (25:30):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 21 (25:30):
It doesn't sound Chinese at all.

Speaker 3 (25:32):
It does not.

Speaker 7 (25:33):
How did he not correct you though?

Speaker 15 (25:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 21 (25:37):
I guess he just because he's in the military, they
go by last names. That's what everybody else was calling
him too. I'm like, why did you never correct anyone?

Speaker 3 (25:45):
That's great, Taylor, thanks for calling you. So you are
married now and you are Taylor Taylor Joe. Yes, I
am well, thanks for calling in, thanks for listening. Ye
of course someday, Hi, Annah, what's going on?

Speaker 12 (25:56):
Hi?

Speaker 23 (25:57):
I was calling about my husband always called my daughter's birthday.
The dogs, he mixes it up with the dog's birthday.

Speaker 19 (26:06):
Twenty fourth.

Speaker 23 (26:07):
Every time he does his benefits and everything, he's like,
June twenty fifth. I'm like, that's the dog's birthday twenty one.

Speaker 22 (26:16):
At this point he still does it.

Speaker 3 (26:18):
That's awesome.

Speaker 8 (26:19):
Doesn't mean he doesn't love him.

Speaker 7 (26:21):
You definitely don't want to mess it up on Belle fits.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
I think that's good that he knows the dog's birthday.
I don't know any of my dog's birthdays. My wife's
got too many dogs to remember. Thanks Ann, I have
a great day. Thank you, Bye Kendall. Good morning.

Speaker 20 (26:34):
I was forgetting my wedding anniversary. I was on a
video call with an adoption and social worker for my
daughter for my current husband to adopt her legally, and
I messed up my wedding anniversary, like.

Speaker 8 (26:50):
How many years you were married, but the date that
you were married, No, the date we were married.

Speaker 20 (26:55):
I said the twenty seventh, and my husband just looked
at me funny, and he was like, we got married
on the twenty.

Speaker 7 (27:02):
There's a lot of pressure.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
That was a stressful day.

Speaker 4 (27:06):
What happened?

Speaker 3 (27:07):
Yeah, thanks Kendall, have a great day. Thanks for listening
you too, Hi, Lucy, Hi.

Speaker 7 (27:12):
You don't do it.

Speaker 19 (27:13):
Good morning everyone. I want to share something funny about
me and my husband. I met him like about twenty
years ago, and I didn't like the nickname he had
at the time, so I was like, you know what,
I'm gonna nickname you differently, So I name him Choco.

Speaker 17 (27:30):
Right.

Speaker 19 (27:31):
We even married, you know, we know the family. Everybody
knows him for like, you know, fifteen years or so. Anyways,
just up until a couple of years ago, my uncle
calls me from Mexico. Everybody calls him Choco, right, because
that's the nickname might take for him anyway, So my
uncle calls me and he's like, hey, what is Choco's name?

(27:52):
By the way, because you know, he's been in the
family forever and we have no clue what his actual
name is. I just wanted to say to that thing,
like it is important for him to talk to his
partner and let him know what bothers him. But it's okay,
have a little fun with it, you know, like it's
it's always you know, good.

Speaker 3 (28:13):
That's so funny because like my mom's Mexican, and all
my aunts and uncles they all have nicknames. And I
have an uncle, uncle Chemali. Chemali is his name Chimie right,
And I took the longest time where I said, my mom,
I go, eventually go Chimley. What does that mean? She's
His first name is Jesus. His last name is Maria.
He Ma Hemma, Emily, Emily Shemily. That's where wow.

Speaker 12 (28:38):
Oh.

Speaker 19 (28:39):
Sometimes like we have people that we know and we
only know them by the nickname, we just like become
fancy and just throw the last name bright like it
just grows like that forever. So that's that's part of
being Mexican.

Speaker 3 (28:51):
Right down it is Lucy, Okay, thanks for calling them, Lucy,
have a great day, have a great day. Justice, what's up?
Dog h?

Speaker 24 (29:00):
So I failed her? Dessin my husband, we've been together
for nine years and even to this day, he will
forget our anniversaries. He forgets my birthday. Even if he
knows them, he still forgets, or he'll get them wrong
and have to ask me and correct it.

Speaker 22 (29:20):
But I kind of think it's like a guy thing.

Speaker 24 (29:22):
Sometimes they just don't always remember.

Speaker 8 (29:24):
It's not that we don't love, it's not that we
don't care. It's just that probably our whole lives. Somebody
has been remembering that for us, so we don't have
to and it just doesn't stick.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
Sounds like me, I know, because like my husband, he
remembers more than I do.

Speaker 17 (29:40):
Like calendar.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
I have a little bit of a problem. I have
a little improblem my boy's birthday because one of them
was born on the fourth. One of them is born
on the fifth, you know, so he's get those two
screwed up. Then the youngest one was born, and I
now know it's July. But for the longest time, I
didn't know it was June or July teen or eighteen.
But I got it. Now it's July eighteen. I got it.

Speaker 22 (30:05):
Oh, I'm July too, July twentieth.

Speaker 3 (30:07):
Oh right now is that what is that? Cancer?

Speaker 4 (30:10):
No?

Speaker 3 (30:10):
I don't know.

Speaker 19 (30:11):
Yes, cancer yet.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
All right, Justice, thanks for driving and listening.

Speaker 19 (30:15):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (30:16):
You have a good day, Alyssa, good morning.

Speaker 25 (30:19):
Good morning. I was calling with the topic with Dustin,
and I get it. I mean, I've been with my
husband for twenty four years, and I think it is
a guy thing.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
You know.

Speaker 25 (30:31):
My husband does this often, even after twenty four years,
Like he'll ask me something and he even knows to
himself because I bring it up to him. Often he's like,
I know I already asked you this, but and then
he'll repeat the question. Very common thing, very common things. Yes,
you know theyd you love the door? And then maybe

(30:52):
an hour later, I know I asked you this, did
you lock the door? And then it will happen another time.
A lot of times I'll just tell him again, I
know you you're gonna ask me this.

Speaker 19 (31:03):
I just repeated.

Speaker 3 (31:04):
But you love him in a way, Melissa, thanks for
calling it you.

Speaker 2 (31:10):
Oh cool, your scanner stopped. It's John, Jay and Rich.

Speaker 3 (31:14):
I like to do things on the show or or
build games around things that involved the show, and there's
some of the very personal. I hope Kyle you don't
mind talking about it. But I built a game around
something you're going through.

Speaker 2 (31:26):
What's that.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
It's in honor of the Starbucks Bear Cup craze, a
game for you. You have yet been able to find
the bear cop and I know that's tough for you,
so thank you if you will indulge me with this game.
This dog Shot Collar trivia, So whoever gets the most
wrong has to get the dog shot collar treatment while
singing the song. In fact, maybe a bear song, Bear
necessities if you will, Ladies all right either way, if

(31:52):
you get them all right, and then I have to
get the dog shot caller Kyle. This bear is best
friends with Christopher Robin. That is, we need the Pooh Rich.
This bear wears a red hat and sports a blue
coat with a tag that reads please look after this bear,
thank you.

Speaker 8 (32:09):
That would be Yogi Bear.

Speaker 26 (32:11):
Wrong.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
No, anyone know the answer to that. Paddington Bear. Paddington Bear.

Speaker 6 (32:17):
They just did a like a live Broadway musical of
the Paddington Bear and it was actually really cool looking.

Speaker 3 (32:22):
Peyton, the taller Hannah Barbar bear who lives in Jellystone Park,
is looking for picnic baskets.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
The who and the who.

Speaker 6 (32:29):
I'm gonna go with Rich's guests, Yogi Bear, You're right?

Speaker 8 (32:32):
What about the ranger, Yogi Kyle.

Speaker 3 (32:35):
If you're asking someone to be patient with you, you
say bear with me, Yes, bear with me Rich. If
you're not wearing shoes and you are on unfunned feet,
on fun feet, you are not on fun If you
are not wearing shoes h and you are what barefoot?

Speaker 26 (32:56):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (32:57):
Peyton a footwear brand known for a sheepskin boots slippers,
casual footwear. Now think carefully because I think you know
where you're going to go with this answer, and that's
not right.

Speaker 6 (33:08):
Can you repeat the question?

Speaker 3 (33:09):
Footwear brand known for a sheepskin boots, slippers, and casual footwear,
and it's not ug okay? So I feel like.

Speaker 6 (33:18):
If you had didn't have ugs, then you had like
the bear claw boot, which was like not it is
that right, Kyle?

Speaker 3 (33:26):
Do you know the names looking for bear pa demerit
how a place where you create your own stuffed animals.
That would be build a bear. Yes, Rich, if you
take the worst of something, you bear it bear all,
bear the brunt. That's two demerits for Rich Barrow Peyton.

(33:52):
Since you were a criminal justice man, I'm trying to
help you win here, Peyton, Like you can tell I
saince you're a criminal justice major to testify or give
evidence you.

Speaker 6 (34:01):
To testify, you you don't have the right to bear arms.

Speaker 2 (34:06):
When you do that, you have.

Speaker 8 (34:09):
For a minus de merit, yes, right, bear witness.

Speaker 3 (34:12):
Witness You're right. Paint that's two. Now you have one
you were out of No, I think you have too.
You got bear pau and you missed the Yogi bear one.
You got the.

Speaker 8 (34:27):
I think we're both at minus one.

Speaker 3 (34:29):
Kyle his reasonable sidekick, This bears reasonable sidekick, Yogi bears
reasonable sidekick. Hey bear, that's right. Actually it's more technical,
but I'll take it's boo boo bear, but boo bear
is fine. Rich the state and animal of the most
southwestern state in the United States.

Speaker 8 (34:49):
The most southwestern, oh California. The bear at the Golden Bear,
looking for California bear.

Speaker 3 (34:54):
Both take Golden Bear too. Peyton to produce results.

Speaker 6 (35:01):
So produced to bear results.

Speaker 3 (35:07):
Nope, anyone for a steel like bear fruit bear fruits
is right, Kyle. The plus one right? Rich, Just bear
warns us about the hazards of forest fires.

Speaker 8 (35:16):
Smoky bear or smoky bear.

Speaker 3 (35:19):
Peyton. The Second Amendment covers the right to bear arms. Right,
I know that, Kyle. This is everyone's favorite bear from
Jungle Book. Yes, Rich, if you kind of look like
someone you bear. A shocking resemblance is Peyton, a Canadian
rock band literally nineteen nineties songs like Old Apartment in

(35:39):
one Week the Bear no even said their name and
beginning this game, okay wrong bear Naked ladies, Kyle. An
expression representing the stripped down version of a product bear
Naked looking for bear bones, con rich a carpet made
from a dead bear, often into the house of a
really old person and who hunts a bear rug. Yes, Kyle,

(36:05):
this is everyone's favorite bear family.

Speaker 7 (36:09):
The Bernstein Bear bestein depending on where you are.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
Peyton, I'm a Gartner's cooking Empire rich for the steal?

Speaker 8 (36:21):
Did you answer?

Speaker 12 (36:21):
No?

Speaker 8 (36:22):
The bear bare?

Speaker 3 (36:24):
Yes? I have so many more, but I just can't
do it. Kyle Seth mcfarloand's movie based on a talking
bear Ted, Yes, rich Chewi bear made of the same
time material that may resemble your.

Speaker 8 (36:36):
Edibles Gummy Bear.

Speaker 3 (36:38):
Yes, Peyton's smooth talking bear from Golden Crisp formally Sugar
Crisp Cereal The Golden Bear, Oh my god, Sugar Bear. Kyle.
This is the high kicking bear from Kung Fu Panda.

Speaker 12 (36:52):
Oh what is his name?

Speaker 3 (36:55):
It's played by Jack Black na Se Peyton, but Payne
still has four hundred demerits.

Speaker 2 (37:05):
I tried. I tried, not that hard because I know
Ted and I know Smoky the Bear.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
What are you gonna say for us? Peyton?

Speaker 6 (37:13):
Missing the bear necessities?

Speaker 3 (37:14):
Okay, you know the words? Yeah, there we go. Look, Clad.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
Get up.

Speaker 2 (37:26):
I mean, so mon nature that brings up.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
Oh my god, nice job, Peyton, Wedmar.

Speaker 18 (37:38):
John a game for you.

Speaker 27 (37:41):
The next segment we're going to do is called second
Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
get and that's what the bit is called Second Ate
Updates starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.

Speaker 3 (37:52):
It's time for Second Ate Update. You meet somebody either
a dating app or me the old school, at a
bar and club, or maybe your mom set you up.
You meet somebody going to date. We have a good time.
You expect there to be a second date that doesn't happen,
so you come to us. We will get answers for you.
Good morning, Ken.

Speaker 10 (38:07):
I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, and honestly,
I thought we had one of those just effortless instant
connection type of dates. Like we met on hinge and
after talking for a few days, we decided to you know,
meet up for drinks and we ended up stating there
for hours, just laughing, talking about really everything, family goals

(38:31):
or random childhood stories. I mean, it just felt supernatural.
And then after we grabed drinks, we were like, let's
continue this and we grab some late night tacos because
I mean, we didn't really want the night to end,
and we ended up back in my place, and I'm
not gonna lie, like things got a little like intense

(38:52):
and we hooked up and like you know, I left
the date. They ging, Okay, this could actually be something,
like I told my friends about her because she just
kind of felt different. But now she's barely responding and
she's not making plans to see me again, and I
really don't know what went wrong, Like I just I
kind of want to know what happened, because in my mind,
like that date was perfect.

Speaker 8 (39:14):
Barely responding means that what she's saying, had a good
time but not committing to a second date.

Speaker 10 (39:21):
I'm either getting ghosted or she's being avoidant, one of
the two. Sometimes she won't respond in the sometimes like
yeah I got busy, maybe another time.

Speaker 7 (39:29):
So she's blowing you off.

Speaker 8 (39:30):
Yeah, sounds like, yeah, what did you do?

Speaker 7 (39:33):
I know, it's like you're raving so much about it
that I can't even like, I don't even know what
could have gone wrong.

Speaker 10 (39:41):
I had a really good time.

Speaker 8 (39:43):
Well, I mean they went back and hooked up, right,
Maybe he's no offense. Ken a terrible lover.

Speaker 6 (39:49):
I mean I had a good time or maybe you
know sometimes like you do just want to hit it
and quit it. Sometimes one time is enough and you
don't need to see him ever again.

Speaker 10 (40:00):
Just like all the rest of the day just kind
of pointed to like that's just instantly hitting it off.
And that's why I'm like, yeah, maybe it wasn't that
because as intense as like the I guess i'll call
it an after party, as as as fun and intense
as that stuff was, like, it was really like the
date part that really got me like just thinking, yeah,

(40:22):
I know this, this girl feels different and this is
great and I'm really feeling a connection with this person.

Speaker 3 (40:28):
Do you have any stuff in your house? It's scary,
like if you have a painting of ed Gan or you.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
Would like very sad.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
Oh this is my favorite art piece and it's that
John Wayne Gacy clown or something like that, Like oh
my god, I'm no.

Speaker 10 (40:45):
I mean I've got like one, uh one miniature Star
Wars mask. But that's not it.

Speaker 3 (40:52):
Okay, I get on the phone, We'll find out.

Speaker 10 (40:56):
Kylo Wrinn mask miniature, Like it's not that big of
a deal.

Speaker 3 (40:59):
No, that's fine. What's her name. We'll get her on
the phone. Okay, we're gonna get Natty on the phone.
We're going to find out why she's blowing you off.
What happens? So I was like, it was a great night.
So second date update continues next with John Jaye Rich.
We're in the middle of second ate update. We got
Ken in Nadia.

Speaker 8 (41:15):
You know, cupping season is in full bloom, where star
crossed lovers everywhere look to find their mate. But Ken
thought he was a hero. Nadia thought he was a zero.
She barely tolerated as clumsy, drooling love making lunges, and
now she is soft ghosting him into dismissal. Let's find

(41:36):
out why.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
All right, Ken, you ready for us to call Nadia?

Speaker 10 (41:41):
Yeah, I don't know if I was drooling.

Speaker 3 (41:44):
Oh you heard that you went on a date, you
spent the night. You guys went all the way and
you haven't heard from her.

Speaker 10 (41:50):
Right, that's the short version, other than the drooling.

Speaker 3 (41:54):
Yes, okay, all right, let's get Naughty on the phone.

Speaker 6 (42:08):
Well, Hi, is this naught yet?

Speaker 4 (42:11):
Yes it is.

Speaker 12 (42:12):
Hey.

Speaker 6 (42:12):
My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jaye Rich and
we just wanted to talk to you about a few things.
On the radio.

Speaker 19 (42:16):
If you're okay with that, Yeah, that's okay.

Speaker 18 (42:21):
Sure, I guess sure.

Speaker 3 (42:23):
We're talking to a guy that went on a date
with you. He literally said, it seemed like one of
the best dates ever, and then you even spent the
night at his house, and now you're kind of blowing
him off. So we told him we'd find out why
talking about Ken.

Speaker 18 (42:37):
Oh yeah, yeah, I remember Ken.

Speaker 3 (42:42):
Well, it sounds like it would be a memorable night.
Everything he described, well it was, I.

Speaker 18 (42:51):
Got of him. But honestly, I'm I'm annoyed because we
did have a great night.

Speaker 16 (42:56):
It was great.

Speaker 18 (42:57):
I mean truly it was. It was really fun and
and we vibed the entire time. But the second we
hooked up, things got weird, really weird. Well, he started
asking me these random questions, Like he asked me like, uh,
how do you feel about being with someone who's in

(43:18):
a relationship and would you ever date somebody who has
a partner? And I was sitting there like, what are
we having? We having like a ted talk on open
relationships right now, Like you guys are in.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
The middle of being intimate, Like he's talking about this
while you're intimate.

Speaker 18 (43:34):
It was like the first thing he said after we finished,
and I was like so confused. It was giving, Honestly,
it was giving, like swinger recruitment, you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (43:42):
Yeah, And so then it.

Speaker 18 (43:44):
Would like to make it even worse. I was leaving
his place at like three o'clock in the morning, and
I'm walking downstairs and I see a framed photo by
the door of him with a woman and two kids.

Speaker 4 (43:58):
My jaw hit the floor.

Speaker 10 (44:00):
I gassed.

Speaker 18 (44:01):
I was absolutely I'm so stunned, and I got in
my car and set off like I was just gave
me a crime scene or something. So yeah, I mean
I ghosted him. That was weird because I'm not about
to be the side character in someone's bizarro family drama.
I don't want any of that.

Speaker 10 (44:17):
So hold on, that is what you're ghosting me.

Speaker 3 (44:22):
Because I have wife.

Speaker 14 (44:26):
Probably as well, right Ken, Why are you a what
is going on while you're on the phone right now?

Speaker 10 (44:34):
I mean, because I had to clear this up, like
you've got it all wrong.

Speaker 18 (44:38):
I probably like, oh my god, No, I most certainly
did not.

Speaker 22 (44:41):
I got it exactly right.

Speaker 18 (44:42):
You have a whole family, dude, This is weird.

Speaker 10 (44:45):
No, okay, let me explain. Yes, I'm married. Yes, I
have kids, but my wife and I are in a
very healthy, open relationship and we're actually looking for a
third partner.

Speaker 8 (44:57):
No, she didn't get it all wrong.

Speaker 7 (45:00):
It's something that you bring up before the hook up, right,
so someone is knowingly going into the situation like.

Speaker 18 (45:07):
This is what I'm talking about, Like, why wouldn't you
leave with that?

Speaker 10 (45:10):
I mean, I didn't want to freak you out on
the first date. And like, for the record, my wife
is the one who spotted you. She's the one that
was like, oh my god, she's perfect and so like
everything's like above bar, what does she have all wrong?

Speaker 18 (45:20):
Except with Nadia, I'm sorry your your wife scouted me
like I'm a like a draft pick or something.

Speaker 10 (45:30):
No, no, no, no, not like that. She just thought
you were beautiful and seemed amazing, and after I told
her how great our date was, like she really wanted
to get to know you.

Speaker 18 (45:39):
This is insane.

Speaker 5 (45:40):
I don't look.

Speaker 10 (45:43):
Look there was no cheating, there was no longing, there
was nothing shady, like we do everything with honesty and consent,
And I really like you, and my wife loved hearing
about you, and I mean that's kind of why I
wanted another date, you know, like with.

Speaker 3 (45:58):
All of us, may I may I ask you a
couple of questions real quick. So you said, when you
were on your date, Ken, you talked about a bunch
of stuff and you talked about family. You said, we
talked about family. It's funny because I rarely ever take notes,
and I happened to take notes for this, and you said,
we talked about family. So when you're talking about family,
I would think immediate family. How does that not come

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up with wife and kids can think about it?

Speaker 10 (46:21):
And I didn't want to scare off on the first date.

Speaker 12 (46:23):
Ye.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
Also, when when you are sleeping with her and she leaves,
where was your family?

Speaker 10 (46:31):
She went out? The kids are grown, they're they're already
out of the house. And yeah, no she my wife flept.

Speaker 3 (46:39):
Okay to go, you go have your date.

Speaker 8 (46:43):
I'm going to leave so you can have the house
to yourself to sleep with the stranger if it comes up.

Speaker 7 (46:48):
Oh interesting, And that's great if it works for you guys,
But also that that should be something that Nadia was
aware of beforehand.

Speaker 3 (46:56):
Well are they swears? They're swears? Then right? Legitimately I
just googled, we're.

Speaker 10 (47:00):
Not wingers, per se. It's polyamory. We believe that we
we don't look at if something makes our partner happy.
We try to encourage that, whether it be another partner
or something. But like being if I were to be
in a relationship with my wife like there wouldn't be
a hierarchy. If I was in a relationship with Nadia

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like Nadia, I would give the same attention, I would
give the same affection. I would treat her as an equal.

Speaker 3 (47:28):
We would.

Speaker 10 (47:29):
We don't believe that Nadia would be less band, you
know what I mean. It wouldn't just be a one
time hookup like I was looking for a relationship with Nadia.

Speaker 6 (47:38):
What's your opinion on it? Now, Nadia, are you still
like way?

Speaker 18 (47:44):
Well, I cannot believe I'm actually saying this, but I mean,
when you put it that way, I might be might
considering it?

Speaker 4 (47:59):
What what.

Speaker 26 (48:02):
She got?

Speaker 6 (48:03):
Really silent over there?

Speaker 2 (48:04):
I feel like the wheels are turning.

Speaker 18 (48:06):
I mean, I'm not promising anything, but I'm not necessarily
saying no, not hanging up.

Speaker 8 (48:14):
Okay, do we believe the ken's telling the truth? He's
not just making this all up? And now he shocks
She said, no, it doesn't sound like it.

Speaker 10 (48:20):
Does well, we'll all have coffee together. We'll see how
you feel.

Speaker 26 (48:26):
Like.

Speaker 10 (48:26):
I don't want you to be uncomfortable, but we'll all
have coffee together and we'll full transparency and we'll we'll
just see how you feel and take it at your pace.

Speaker 3 (48:33):
Okay, sounds great. Now all right, so now are you
down for that?

Speaker 26 (48:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (48:44):
Not your life?

Speaker 18 (48:46):
I think, well no, I think that they're so transparent
about it. And I had a good time. Yeah, I mean,
I'm open to chatting. I guess I'm not promising anything.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
You had a good time, but the heck yeah, all right,
all right then you guys, that's a successful second update
in a very bizarre world. So hold on the line.
Thank you both for jumping on the air with us.
That's second and update with John jay and Rich John
Jaye Rich Chris Jenner had her seventieth birthday party at
Jeff Bezo's house. Okay, we talked about it, but what's

(49:18):
really interesting is the cops were called twice to the party.
So we wanted to know why were the cops called
to your house? Eight seven, seven, nine, three seven one
four to seven high Dawn, Hi, why were the cops
called to your house?

Speaker 26 (49:32):
Well?

Speaker 11 (49:33):
For my roommate. Actually they came for him. He liked
to practice throwing fire and breathing fire out front, and
he purchased to do it mostly like late at night,
so it wasn't really normal for our neighborhood.

Speaker 8 (49:46):
I would think, not you see a fire breather out there,
you said, throwing fire and breathing fire.

Speaker 11 (49:52):
Yes, he would actually, I mean he wasn't really recommended
to do this, but he was a magician at the
Magic Castle, and he would actually regurgitate this fuel. So
we would perform the right yard late at night. I'm
just getting me wrong. It was great to see, but
the cops really weren't expecting to see what they were
called out for and ended up even just parking outside

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the street and kind of watching him doing his thing.

Speaker 3 (50:16):
Wow, so did your neighbors at some point already know
that's what he does, so after a while they were
just used.

Speaker 11 (50:21):
To it or no, we had trained our neighbors before
he ever moved in, so we weren't really like a
wild bunch, but we were a bunch of early twenties
later twenties roommates and where we lived, so they were
kind of familiar with us to be a little bit
of a wild bunch and have some late night.

Speaker 3 (50:36):
Is he still around or did he like burn himself
to death?

Speaker 12 (50:40):
No?

Speaker 11 (50:41):
Actually, you could probably google him. If you google Randall
Richmond and then search with Johnny Carson, you'll find his
performances online on YouTube.

Speaker 3 (50:50):
Randall Richmond.

Speaker 8 (50:52):
Yeah, yeah, master magician.

Speaker 4 (50:56):
Yep.

Speaker 8 (50:56):
I mean, if you're going to breathe fire, you really
should practice it because you don't want to just try
that once for the first time on stage.

Speaker 3 (51:03):
You can see how that might be nerve wracking.

Speaker 8 (51:07):
Yeah, there was a fire breathing man in front in
my front yard.

Speaker 11 (51:13):
Wow, we have good memories.

Speaker 3 (51:15):
What a hairstyle he has. If he's still alive, let's
get him in here, let's have him like spit some
fire around here.

Speaker 8 (51:21):
Yeah, could what could possibly go wrong?

Speaker 11 (51:24):
It's been years since I've had contact with him because
I left California about twenty years ago. But from my understanding,
he's still around and he's got some talents. You should
check out some of the things that he actually does online.

Speaker 3 (51:34):
Wow. Well, thanks for sharing that story with us.

Speaker 11 (51:37):
Absolutely thanks for having me.

Speaker 12 (51:38):
So.

Speaker 3 (51:39):
The cops never arrested him, They were just called and
they ended up watch him spit fire, and then they left.

Speaker 11 (51:43):
I think they were probably a little shocked at what
they were actually seeing and kind of wanted to see
it for themselves. But no, never any rest, never any drama,
just a couple of phone calls.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
Hyeah, thanks Don, Diana, good morning. Why were the cops
called to your house?

Speaker 4 (51:56):
So?

Speaker 14 (51:56):
The cops who were at my house because I had
a warrant for my dad. However, in my family, we
have like five of them with the same name. Unlet's
have a middle name, which I checked a warrant and
they didn't. So I'm like, which one are you looking for?
My dad, my uncle, or my cousins.

Speaker 3 (52:12):
Are the Mexican? Are they Mexican?

Speaker 4 (52:14):
Yep?

Speaker 14 (52:15):
Yeah, the name that's my dad name.

Speaker 4 (52:19):
They're all jose.

Speaker 3 (52:23):
So why was there a warrant for your dad? Though?

Speaker 14 (52:26):
He just missed court and it's just a small thing.
But unfortunately he has all his mail getting sent to
my house, so that's why the cops came to my house.
I'm like, sorry, he don't live here, he just has
his mail here.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
That's wild. Okay, Well thanks for sharing that, Diana. Thank
you Peynon where the cops called your house?

Speaker 6 (52:44):
Cops called to my house plenty of times have a
party for like New Year's Eve or and my dad
was stod outside and they called the cops on us.
We had like probably a line of a hundred people
wrapped around the corn oh case. Yeah, it was bizarre.
It was crazy.

Speaker 3 (53:02):
We had the cops called my house because my kids
were playing basketball and listening to hip hop on a
Friday night at seven pm, and Judith called the cops.

Speaker 6 (53:13):
Judith was a tripping Yeah.

Speaker 3 (53:14):
Yeah, Well, you want to know for me why the
cops came to your house? Eight seven seven nine four
seven police recalled the Chris Jenner's party. You want to
know why the police were called your house, Charman.

Speaker 26 (53:26):
My sister and I were under my mom's car working
and I decided that I was going to just go
take a shower. So it was in the shower and
the cops came right into the bathroom, looked at me
in the shower and said you need to come out,
And I said, what is this forgn My brother had
sold drugs to an undercover cop, and I was mortified

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when I had to when they came into the bathroom
to get me out, they had to search the whole house.
So they just said you need to get out and
get dressed and come out, you know, come out and
talk to it.

Speaker 8 (54:01):
They couldn't have waited until you were done done scrubbing
the job to do and when you come out.

Speaker 3 (54:07):
We need to talk to you.

Speaker 26 (54:08):
No, they wanted me out right in and there. I
mean I was scared for one and then like I
couldn't believe that they were in the bathroom instead of
like saying, just like you said, you know, we're gonna
give you a few minutes to get yourself dressed whatever.
I had to come out of there without. I had
to wear a cowel.

Speaker 23 (54:29):
So yeah, it was.

Speaker 26 (54:30):
It was very mortifying for me, but more so for
my mother because my brother sold drugs out out of
her house.

Speaker 4 (54:38):
It's like, Okay, if.

Speaker 26 (54:40):
You can sell drugs, go do it somewhere else.

Speaker 3 (54:42):
Don't be stupid.

Speaker 7 (54:43):
True, I mean they probably thought they don't. They wanted
you out of the shower because you could have probably
gotten rid of the drugs if they give you more time.

Speaker 3 (54:51):
I like your mom's advice. It wasn't don't tell drugs.
It wasn't do it somewhere else.

Speaker 26 (55:00):
Yeah, I'll tell your drugs somewhere else.

Speaker 3 (55:03):
All right, Charman. By the way, how much how much?

Speaker 26 (55:05):
How much?

Speaker 3 (55:05):
How much time did your brother do and what's he doing?

Speaker 4 (55:07):
Now?

Speaker 26 (55:08):
This was probably about, I don't know, fifteen years ago.
So he's out and he's taking care of his wife
who had a stroke. So but that's who he started,
you know, dealing with from his wife?

Speaker 28 (55:21):
Did he as?

Speaker 4 (55:22):
Now?

Speaker 3 (55:23):
Oh, thank you Charmon, thanks for calling Hi. Jennifer, thanks
for holding hi.

Speaker 22 (55:28):
How are you doing.

Speaker 3 (55:29):
Why were the police call to your house?

Speaker 11 (55:31):
I actually had called to my house. You had what
like the slat team?

Speaker 3 (55:37):
I said, simpos what I actually had simpox called my
house and I haven't heard of that before. You had, No.

Speaker 22 (55:44):
I actually had the swat team called my house and
it was in January, my sixteen year old at the
time at Schnuckle boy In and the people across the
street had called the police, and my now ex husband
was not on good terms with this is the city
police that we had been living in that city at
the time, So I think that has something to do

(56:06):
with swats coming to our house. But we had two helicopters,
dogs and probably about eleven cars and are called to
SAC and I wake up probably around like twelve o'clock
to the phone ring and the woman on the line
is like, you know, as this Jennifer's so and soon
and I'm like, yeah it is. And they're like, you know,
we need you to come outside immediately. And so I

(56:27):
walked to my front door and I'm kind of out
of it and I opened the front door and there
are like four lasers pointing at me. Yeah, like I'm
freaking out at that point, and I'm like, can I
put on a hoodie? And I'm in a tank top
in boy shorts and it is January and she is like,
absolutely not, we have you in sight. You need to
immediately come through your door. And she's like, where is

(56:48):
you know, your husband, And I'm like, hold on, he's
in the office, you know, sleeping in the office.

Speaker 18 (56:52):
So I go and I get him.

Speaker 22 (56:53):
I call him out, and they have the lasers on
me the whole time because the office is like right
behind where our front door was at, so they could
see me. And I'm like, he's literally right behind me,
like you guys can see me, hold on, And so
I walk in. I'm like, hey, you need to cut
up right now. So both of us are literally wearing
like pretty much next to nothing because you know, we
were asleep and we walk out and they had us

(57:14):
walk into the middle of our call to stack and
lay down in the call to stack, handcuffed us and
put us in the car, and they're like telling us,
you know, the whole story about how you know, oh
we you know have a report that someone you know
might be breaking to your home, Like why did you
remove the two adults and leave our four kids? And
they're with my two Dobermans by the way, and they're like, well,
We're going to go in there and secure the scene.
I'm like, oh no, you're not, Like you are not

(57:36):
going to shoot my dogs today. I'm like, I will
go in there with you. You're not going in there.
And at that point they were like, can we have
your teenage daughter's phone number? And they called her and
they're like do you have a boy in there? And
she's like no, and they're like, clean, your parents are
in the.

Speaker 10 (57:50):
Back of the car right now.

Speaker 22 (57:51):
You need to tell it truth. And so eventually she
was like yeah, and they brought the boy out and
say had long story short, no one broke into my house.
Neighbors need to mind their own business.

Speaker 3 (58:01):
I wonder what why like, was the boy maybe the
son of the chief of police, because it doesn't it's so.

Speaker 22 (58:06):
Weird from the veen, he wasn't even from the area.
He's driving his brand's car.

Speaker 8 (58:12):
Your husband was probably happy about the swat team busting
that holding up so extremely to lie.

Speaker 7 (58:17):
Why if you thought someone was bringing into your house,
why are you in handcuffs?

Speaker 4 (58:21):
Right?

Speaker 7 (58:22):
That makes no sense.

Speaker 22 (58:23):
Like the whole situation sucked, But it was because my
ex at that time was not in good terms with
the police, and I think as soon as they heard
our address and our name, they were like, you know what,
let's see how all right?

Speaker 3 (58:36):
Okay, So when you said your husband is sleeping in
the office, is that your ex? Is that what you're
talking about?

Speaker 4 (58:40):
Now?

Speaker 3 (58:41):
That's your ex?

Speaker 22 (58:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (58:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (58:42):
Oh, is there a reason why he was sleeping in
the office, Like, were you guys already in bad terms?
We're already separated that point, okay, because I got it,
like the swap comes into parenting of marriage advice. We
noticed your husband sitting in the office, what's going on?

Speaker 18 (58:55):
Well, I'm already separated at that point, so that's.

Speaker 22 (58:59):
Why we were sleeping into her.

Speaker 3 (59:00):
That's crazy, Jennifer, That is a crazy story.

Speaker 22 (59:03):
That's so ye never expected to handcuffy in my own
cult to sack in the middle of the night.

Speaker 3 (59:08):
I liked your handcuff face down on the floor and
you were like, you are not going to my house,
and they're like, okay, we better let her go.

Speaker 12 (59:15):
I know, no, I know, I so worried about my dog, all.

Speaker 3 (59:19):
Right, Jennifer, thanks for sharing that story.

Speaker 22 (59:21):
You know, I figured it wasn't someone breaking into my house.
You know, I have like a million little kids at
that point, like, what are you going to take some
you know, legos?

Speaker 3 (59:31):
These are valuable, Jennifer. Thanks for calling in, Jennifer, Mike,
they came to your house.

Speaker 15 (59:38):
Oh yeah, they came to my house for me. I
hope this is a learning experience for everyone. I just
I drank too much. My girlfriend and her mom were
staying in my house. They were living in my house,
and I hadn't they She brought her a big flat
screen and put my old little it's like old from
the you know, late two thousands. It's the old flat
screen near my bed in my room. And I got

(01:00:00):
real drunk one night and I went in and I
kicked the TV just because they were harping at me,
and I kicked the TV and I went to sleep,
and I woke up with Phoenix s p ed over me,
taking me to jail. Because you know, you can't yell
or break anything in front of women. It's considered the
domestic violence for real. Yeah, so and that said I was.
I was like, it's my TV, it's my house, you know.

(01:00:20):
But so I wound up, you know, going to jail,
getting the you know, her mom and her picked me
up the next day. We all made amends. But while
I was in jail, I was in the holding cell
and L would be, you know, before you go to
Lower Buckeye and uh, there there's this what is this?
We're not the Russian the Ukrainian guy, and I was
he was a young guy, my age twenty five, was
asking him about the war and everything's real cool. And

(01:00:40):
then they get summoned back to court and they tell
me that I was I spit on that guy, and
they showed me a picture of it, and I was like, no,
I you know, I would never do anything like that.
And then the prosecutor was like, you know, it's best
to just plead guilty because it's up to two years
in jail and her and her mom were like, hey,
you were real drunk. You might as well just admit
to it, you know, And I said, no, it's not
my character. So I fought it. And it turns out

(01:01:02):
they just made a mistake. It was the It was
the guy in the cell next to me who spent
on the officer almost got charged with it. So when
they figured all that out, they dropped everything. They dropped
the DV for the TV and and everything, so the
whole whole arrest was just wiped off.

Speaker 8 (01:01:18):
But still, do not kick a TeV TV the TV. Yeah,
I'll never get to that TV ever.

Speaker 15 (01:01:22):
Do to you never break anything? Yeah, I hope that's
a learning experience for everyone. Don't break anything.

Speaker 3 (01:01:27):
You control your anger too, you know, go for a run.
All right, Yeah, thanks for calling in. Glad you're safe.
We were doing this because of Kris Kardashian because it
was their seventieth birthday and the police came to her
house for a birthday party twice. And it made me
feel like, you know, it's kind of funny hearing these
stories because it's like we're just like the Kardashians. It's
one of those few things where we can relate to

(01:01:48):
the Kardashians. The police come to our house too, Chris,
if you have any other ones, shoot us a call
eight seven seven nine four seven or DM John J. Vanes.
It's John Jay and Rich. I don't know how you found.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
Us, but I'm so thankful that you did. It's John
Jay and Rich Oakley.

Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
Good morning, Good morning. What's going on?

Speaker 19 (01:02:11):
Okay?

Speaker 17 (01:02:11):
So I was listening to your afterwards podcast and you
guys had a dream analysis on, and so I was like,
I have to call them and tell them about this
dream situation I've been dealing with this week.

Speaker 3 (01:02:21):
Yeah, she was really good. She was really good, but lovely.
Maybe maybe some of her expertise rubbed off on us.
So what's your dream?

Speaker 17 (01:02:28):
It's my boyfriend's dream. He woke up and looked at me,
just like casually and just goes like, I had this
sex dream about Sydney's swimming. Now in what world am
I going to laugh about that? Why would you tell
me that before I've even had my coffee.

Speaker 12 (01:02:44):
She thinks I'm.

Speaker 17 (01:02:45):
Crazy when I have a dream that he's cheated on
me and I get mad at him. But when he
has a dream that he cheated on me, I'm definitely
mad at him.

Speaker 8 (01:02:54):
Okay, so you aren't those people that have the you know,
the Desert Island list of Like if you could hook
up with Sidney Sweeney, I wouldn't be so mad because
it's Sidney Sweeney.

Speaker 17 (01:03:06):
No, I should be the only person on his Desert
Island lift. Okay, very much.

Speaker 3 (01:03:10):
I can't.

Speaker 7 (01:03:10):
I can relate to how you're feeling. But if we
learned anything while talking to you. I believe her name
was Teresa Chunk. She's a dream expert or dream analyzer.

Speaker 28 (01:03:18):
She would have said, this is beautiful. Oh my goodness,
you have no idea how lovely this is. Well, he's
hanging to you, is he misses your personal contact?

Speaker 7 (01:03:30):
So I feel like maybe there's so many of your
relationship he wants to spicings up in the bedroom, Like
what a great opportunity to open up that conversation for
you too.

Speaker 17 (01:03:39):
I just can't get like, I maybe he should have
listened to the podcast, because then he could be like, hey,
you know what, I think we should do this instead
of just being like, hey, here's my dream. Isn't that funny?
And you know he's like it's just a dream. It's
like not a big deal. But like I've seen multiople

(01:04:00):
like ads and like you know, previews of movies and
just shows that she's in on TV and like on
my laptop during this week, and every single time, I'm like,
I hate you. It's so mad.

Speaker 3 (01:04:14):
Okay, let me tell you we don't have access to
the dream lady we just had on, but we shouldn't
have her on again. But I just went to the
dream interpreter and said, what does it mean you have
a sex dream about a celebrity? It says since celebrities
hold such high status in our society, these types of
dreams can also symbolize that you desired if he feels special, important,

(01:04:34):
or noticed, so it seems like he's going through something
he wants you to notice it. It doesn't mean that
he wants someone with big boobs, blue eyes, and blonde hair.

Speaker 7 (01:04:43):
I mean, you could also ask him which Sydney sweety
is it euphoria or christy?

Speaker 3 (01:04:49):
But either way, either way, it's about his desire to
feel special, important, or notice. So maybe you need to
make him feel special, make him feel noticed, make me
feel important.

Speaker 6 (01:04:57):
I would make him regret it. It would be like, oh, babe,
what's for dinner? I don't know how Sydney.

Speaker 2 (01:05:02):
I would constantly remind him about that.

Speaker 6 (01:05:04):
He's not keeping his insight thoughts to himself.

Speaker 8 (01:05:06):
I got you. He is going through something. He's going
through being an idiot for telling you about that sexually vision.

Speaker 17 (01:05:13):
Going through something because he was going through something and
didn't deal with it.

Speaker 7 (01:05:17):
Why would he share that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:20):
I can tell you why he shared it. It feels
very comfortable with his relationship with Oakley where they can
share things like that. Now, maybe he should have that comfortable.

Speaker 8 (01:05:29):
You don't share that ever.

Speaker 7 (01:05:30):
Again, let's keep that one in there in the head.

Speaker 17 (01:05:32):
Yeah, there are some things who can keep to yourself
and that is one of them.

Speaker 3 (01:05:36):
Well, Oakley, thanks for sharing that. Next time we get
the dream Interpreter on we we will patch you through.

Speaker 5 (01:05:42):
Thank you.

Speaker 17 (01:05:42):
I appreciate that. I'm like, I'll write this one down,
not that I think I could ever forget it, but
just in case I block it out.

Speaker 3 (01:05:49):
Thanks Oakley, Thank you, And if you missed it, it's
on our Afterwards podcast. It's really cool to hear her
and you can get I think she gave us how
you can contact her, so it's our afterwards podcast. It's
wherever you get podcast. iHeartRadio everywhere. It's John Jay and
Rich Afterwards.

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Broadcasting live across the world right now. This is the
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