February 26, 2025 • 34 mins
Ever surprised yourself with a hidden talent or unexpected skill? Listeners call in with their stories! 🤯 Plus, Amanda in DC shares a wild injury story involving her daughter. 🏥😅 Then, we dive into why Gen Z is saying “no thanks” to promotions for the sake of work-life balance. 📉➡️⚖️ And finally, we take calls on the ultimate post-breakup survival guide—what not to do after a split (yes, beyond the usual social media stalking 👀). Don't miss it! 🎧🔥
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Toby and Chili Mornings on demand on ninety seven point
one Wash Up out.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
If you can't feel good about starting a brand new day,
what can you feel good about? Toby and Chilly in
the morning. Eight sixty six nine two seven forty three
sixty one is the number here at ninety seven point
one wash Chef m I've got to tell you, you
don't realize what someone else is going through until you
go through it themselves. So today I'm feeling good about
the fact that I get to take a nice, long,
(00:25):
hot shower without these things on my leg because they
disrupt my shower flow.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
The little compression casts we'll call them.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yeah, they are. They're like compression casts, and they've like
they've I've been wearing them now for what three weeks,
and it is just a nightmare to take a shower
wearing like the cast protectors with them on. It's just cumbersome.
And today I get to take them off after the
show and go take a nice hot shower for about
(00:56):
probably forty five minutes. Don't anybody bother me. I'm looking
forward to it. I need this time and I'm looking
forward to the time. Why are you feeling good this morning?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
There is a new family member. My first cousin had
a baby, aw and he came home yesterday, the little one,
and I'm looking forward to hopefully meeting little guy in
the next few days.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Oh that is awesome.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah, that is cool.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
New babies are just you know, everything about new babies
is cool.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
As long as there's somebody else's new babies, they're very cool. Oh,
welcome on now, No, I look, I'm gonna I've talked
about this many times. It was a very rough period
of our lives, the baby time. Some people are better
with the babies than toddlers. Not I right, not I
I mean, I know, it was just it was really
really challenging. So they're adorable, they're wonderful, But they give
(01:50):
me a little PTSD because it was a very dark
period in our lives.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
To find some joy in the y baby. Yeah, innocent.
There's just something about the look of course little babies
doing what little babies do.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
I will enjoy this baby way more than the stress
of having your own. That's the beauty of it. It's
my cousin's baby. Like, yes, course they'll take him, give
him to me, and then.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
They start to get older, then they turn twenty one.
That's when you start to miss those little days when
things you thought were hard weren't so hard. But you
know you'll have these things. Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Hopefully you're feeling well this morning. Eight sixty six, nine
two seven forty three sixty one. If there's something you
want to share with the class, we're always happy to listen.
(02:39):
In the meantime. Top Stories at the top of the
hour on the way the news, what can we expect?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
The House has passed the GOP's budget resolution. We'll tell
you what cuts are in there in just a few
Top Stories.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Top Stories presented by Celsius Energy Drinks Well. The House
passed the GOP's budget resolution. A handful of Republicans expressed
concern with the bill's spending cuts and how it will
affect social programs like Medicaid, but they still voted for it.
The Senate has already adopted a different budget resolution that's
focused more on border security and national defense. President Trump
(03:17):
announced a new pathway to citizenship for wealthy investors. He
says the US will sell what's called the Gold Card
for around five million dollars. A Southwest flight had a
near collision with a smaller jet at Chicago's Midway Airport yesterday.
The passenger plane aborted its landing just as the business
jet entered the runway without authorization. Well The Fairfax County
(03:41):
School System says despite a nationwide teacher shortage, the district
has very few open positions for educators. A recent survey
of FCPS employees found that ninety six percent they planned
to return to their jobs next academic year. A hardware
store that's been opened in Falls Church for more than
one hundred and forty years will soon be closing permanently.
(04:04):
The owner of Brown's Hardware says the family accepted an
offer to buy the property after receiving an offer that
was too good to refuse. And A new report from
wallet hub ranks the hardest working cities in the entire
country based on things like the number of workers with
multiple jobs and also the employment rate. Coming in at
number one, Anchorage, Alaska the hardest working city, DC a
(04:27):
close second. Forecast Today another beautiful day, lots of sun
sixty seven, the high right now thirty five in Stafford.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Don't forget to get the news. Top stories at the
top of the hour, all morning when you wake up
with ninety seven point one wash Chef M, Toby and
Chilly in the morning. Coming up next you and your mindset.
We hope maybe we can help you turn your day
around if you haven't gotten it started already, or maybe
if you're facing something that you think is unbearable, give
us a few for that coming up time now for
(04:57):
your morning mindset with ninety seven point one wash Chef M.
The more Toby and Chili in the morning.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
This is where we share a quote to get you
into a good headspace to set the tone for the
rest of your day.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
On this Wednesday, the twenty sixth, William Ellery Channing says,
the human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. The
human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. If you're
expecting everything to be nice, easy and smooth with whatever
you're doing, living life, doing family stuff, maybe at work,
(05:27):
think again, because the human spirit grows stronger by conflict,
so embrace it today, know that it will help you
to grow. William Ellery Channing with some words to remember
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Speaker 3 (06:03):
I don't know if you saw the story about a
guy in franz who just found out at the age
of forty four that he's been living all this time
with just half a brain.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Which is in itself quite an accomplishment. Yeah, if you
think of all you've had to overcome, skills you didn't
know you've had. Yes, what are some that maybe you have?
We'll talk more about this coming up in minutes. Stay close.
Good morning, Toby and Chilly in the morning at eight
six six ninet two seven forty three sixty one. Have
you ever surprised yourself with your own skills or abilities?
(06:33):
This guy was kind of shocked to find that he
had lived a normal life with half of a brain. Yeah,
how one lives with half a brain is beyond me,
But apparently he was pretty surprised with his skills and
his abilities to be able to do so, that's right, Chilli.
Do you have anything that you've been shocked to find
that you're pretty good at when it comes to skills
(06:54):
or ability?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
During the pandemic, I started painting just the past time
while my son was doing virtual school, and I was
surprised at how well I could follow along with YouTube
and create art on a canvas. Actually, I mean, I
was like, dang, I can't draw, but apparently I can paint.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
YouTube's a thing, man. I learned how to install a
air conditioning like units. What is that, like a thermostat
or something one of those Nest air conditioning things or whatever. Yeah,
in my house with the help of YouTube. Now, I
would never have tried that.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Ever, who knew you were so handy.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I had no idea that I could actually pull that
off eight six six ninety two seven forty three sixty
one to Vienna, Mike, is there some kind of skill
that you were shocked to learn that you had some
kind of ability?
Speaker 1 (07:40):
When I was in high school, I tried doing pull
ups for the first time.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I was absolutely shocked at how many I could do.
It was super weird. I wasn't getting tired at all.
I was even doing them one handed.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Mike the Presidential Fitness Test Superstar.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
I bet you he still has his certificates. Leslie, good
morning and care in zincton what about You?
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Once I picked up a guitar, just a mess around,
and then within a few weeks I was already.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Playing basic cords and he was strumming along this song.
I didn't think I'd pick it up so fast.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Definitely surprised myself.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I'm impressed if you could play anything beyond mister Bojangles
on that thing?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Can I hear some free bird?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
There you go?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Ninety seven point one? Watch FM? What skill have you
surprised yourself with? What ability? Eight sixty six nine seven
forty three sixty one is the number if you want
to jump in and stay there. We've got the news
Top Stories at the top of the hour. It is
just minutes away.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
The House has nearly passed the GOP's budget resolution. A
handful of Republicans did express concern with the bills spending
cuts and how it's going to affect social programs like Medicaid,
but they still voted for it. Nearly two dozen DOSEE
workers resigning out of protest. In a letter to the
White House Chief of Staff, the worker said, quote, we
(09:01):
will not use our skills as technologists to compromise core
government systems, jeopardize American's sensitive data, or dismantle critical public services.
The FAA investigating a near collision between a Southwest Airlines
airplane and a smaller jet at Chicago's Midway Airport yesterday.
(09:22):
The business jet reportedly entered the runway without authorization just
as the Southwest plane was landing. Meanwhile, locally, the FAA
says an American Airlines pilot called off landing at Reagan
National Airport yesterday morning after spotting another plane on the
runway at the same time. The Washington commanders are permitting
(09:44):
defensive tackle Jonathan Allen to seek a trade to another team.
He spent the last eight seasons with the team and
was selected to the Pro Bowl two times. And another
group that hoped to perform at the Kennedy Center during
World Pride now has been forced to change their plane.
The International Pride Orchestra says its Pride Celebration concert will
(10:05):
now be held June fifth in Bethesda. Forecast forward today
it's going to be really nice and mild, sunny, sixty
seven the high right now thirty four in Silver Spring.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Just a few minutes, we're going to circle back on
a conversation we were having here with Toby and Chilly
in the morning on ninety seven point one. Wasch FM
about your kids and how they accidentally inadvertently physically injured you.
Amanda has a few things she wants to add to
the conversation, so we'll get back into it coming up
in minutes. Stay right there. Yesterday with Toby and Chilly
(10:36):
in the morning, we were talking about ways your kids
have hurt you, and Amanda's got some thoughts eight sixty
six ninety two seven forty three sixty one.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
So go ahead and tell us how did your child
accidentally cause harm?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
When my daughter was four years old, we were living
in Florida at the time, and she ran over to
a palm tree to you know, smile for a photo op,
and she stuck in a fire ant. Now, so right away,
all these fire ants when running up her legs, so
I dropped everything, picked her up, started swiping them off.
Then I got bit and it ended up. I didn't
(11:10):
realize I had a severe allergy to fire ants, and
I started going into anaphylactic shock.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Oh lord, oh damn, because your kid got into the ants.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
What'd you do? I?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Well, it took me a while to realize what was
going on, because I've never had that happen to me before.
So I popped the benadryl, and I saw other kids
to take care of. So I waited for a our
babysitter so I could go to the er.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
And when you get to the er and you explain
what happened, what do you say?
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Well, I was helping my daughter and I ended up
getting injured myself, but she was fine.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
And from that point on, no more photos by a
tree exactly, and.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
No more living in Florida.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
We moved to DC. Right on your ants.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
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Perhaps maybe uggs half a billion?
Speaker 4 (13:07):
I'm actually wearing oug slippers right now.
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So you're part of the people who would spend that
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Stay there the news Top stories at the top of
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Top Stories top of the hour.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
A new Trump administration policy will require undocumented immigrants to
register with the government or possibly face fines or imprisonment.
The plan calls for undocumented immigrants over fourteen to get
fingerprinted and create an online account with Citizenship and Immigration Services.
The US and Ukraine are reportedly in agreement on a
(14:12):
framework for a minerals deal. It's a way for Ukraine
to pay back the US for aid provided during the
war with Russia. Police are investigating a shooting that caused
an evacuation at the Waterfront metro station last night. Investigators
say a woman was hit by a stray bullet when
a group of juvenile males tried to rob someone else.
(14:34):
The Wyse High School boys basketball team in Prince George's
County has to forfeit all of its wins this season
for allegedly using an ineligible player. However, district officials say
Wise is still eligible for the state playoffs, which will
start Friday. New data from the Department of Transportation reveals
the cheapest US airport to fly out of, and its
(14:55):
Florida's Fort Lauderdale Hollywood Airport. The average outbound flight camp
two hundred and fifty two dollars. Meanwhile, Dell's Airport here
in the DC area is the priciest in the country,
where departures cost an average of four hundred and seventy
three dollars. And according to a new survey, sixty percent
of Americans say that having your partner chatting with an
(15:17):
X could potentially end a relationship. Also, forty one percent
say they would call their partner out for casually flirting
with someone, and thirty seven percent say that hiding a
password is not okay. Forecast today sunny Sky's sixty seven.
The high right now thirty four in Woodbridge.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Do you see this? There's a new study out that
says gen z would say no to a promotion why
work life balance? They would reject the promotion on the job.
What do you think about this eight sixty six, ninety two,
seven forty three sixty one talkbacks wide open too. If
you're listening on your iheartapp and you're signed in, we'll
(15:55):
talk about it and why coming up in just minutes.
Want to hear what you have to say about it too,
so feel free to jump in. Coming up, Toby and
Chilly in the morning year at ninety seven twenty one.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
Wash up then with what seems like a catch point
two question. There's a study out that says that gen
Z would say no to a promotion at work. They
would reject it in it they would reject it over
work life balance. Right, so if it compromised their work
life balance, they would see a job is just income,
(16:28):
and they would see anything that wasn't is being stressed.
That would cause some sort of upset in that balance.
Thirty nine percent of workers not interested in promotions, forty
two percent of gen Z willing to just say no
to it all together. What do you think at eight
sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty one work
life balance?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Would you say no? Now? Chiley?
Speaker 3 (16:50):
What do you think at this point in my life? Yes,
I would say no to a promotion but gen Z,
they're in their twenties, and so in my twenties, I
would say yes to all the promotions. I would say
as to all the opportunities in the career because at
that point in my life I didn't have as many
responsibilities as I do now, and so yeah, I would
say yes then and know now.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
I would still say yes because that would help me
to have a better work life balance. I think, wait, yes,
yes saying yes to a promotion, because then I would
have the money to be able to go and do
the things I want to do that would help me
to clear my head, that would help me to get away.
So many times these days, I see people that are
our colleagues getting promotions in different jobs, not just here.
(17:34):
But they're empty promotions, right. They just give them a
title and they hand them a bunch more responsibility without money.
And that's not okay to me. So if you were
willing to come to me and give me, you know,
X percent more or whatever, I would take on additional
responsibilities because I know that it would pay off for me.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
It's interesting you say that, because friends of mine who
have taken promotions with or without that money, they have
even less time to try and do all those things
because the responsibilities are so great they can't quote unquote
unplug as much.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I think now they would be the great test for
me to see if that is the case, you know
what I mean? Now, if I were to take a promotion,
and I were to take a little extra money, now
I would like to see if I could actually hold
fast to saying notice certain things in order to achieve
the work life balance, which means taking time off and
(18:28):
really taking time off, because how can you be the
best employee you can be if you're not rested, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Either way, gen Z's very different than those of us
who are the gen X. Where we live work work, work, work, work, all.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Live to work and not work to live. It's very European.
Like the Europeans, they don't have some of this stress
because they work so that they can live right. They
can take their cestas during the day for three four
hours and then go back to the job. Here in
a fortress America, we don't do that for whatever reason.
What do you think would you reject a promotion in
(19:03):
exchange for work life balance? Yes or no? There's no
right or wrong answer. Just want to hear yours eight
sixty six, ninety two, seven forty three sixty one. Feel
free to call it anytime. Get involved. You can also
tap the talk back microphone. In fact, why don't you
do that? Now, let's talk about something you shouldn't do
after a breakup.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
An expert says, there's this one thing, a big mistake
you're making. If you're doing it.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And everybody's been through some sort of a breakup or
you would hope that you that you've been through something
and you've learned from it. So give us a call,
tap the talk back microphone. We'll talk about this coming up.
Stay we gon't talk about some breakups here at ninety
seven point one. Watch FM Toby and Chilly in the
Morning at eight sixty six ninet two, seven forty three
sixty one. There's a magazine article or an online article
(19:49):
that's floating around that's that's very very true and very
very telling. This woman says, I'm gonna give you some
big sisterly advice. Besides looking in on your X on
social media, there are some things things you shouldn't do
after you break up.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
And the worst thing you can do is to keep
tabs on that individual to see what they are up to. Nope, nope, nope.
Let it go.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
Unplug the social media. Unplug the Instagram. You don't need
to know Facebook, you don't need to go through Facebook.
So what is the one thing that you feel like
you shouldn't do when it comes to a breakup, because
everybody goes through unfortunately or unfortunately people go through breakups.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
I mean, if I were to add a personal thing,
I got a dog right after a really rough breakup
to fill the void. I don't think that was a
smart reason to get one, because that's a huge responsibility.
It's not just like a quick little thing like, it's
years of responsibility. But that's one thing I don't think
you should invest in something like that.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
What about you, I think you should not overthink you
in the process, and you should just keep it moving
and move on.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Like, don't look for a reason why.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
Yeah, don't overthink it too much. You know what, for you,
things just happen. Sometimes sometimes they happen for you feel
like it's bad at the time, then you dwell on it.
So don't dwell on it, keep it moving and don't
look back. I know I didn't say it was going
to be easy These are tough lessons days. They're why
they call them relationships, and you learn something from them
(21:17):
along the way. What is it that you would do
eight six, six, ninety two, seven forty three, sixty two
through sixty one. What is something you would not you
shouldn't do after your breakup? Right? You know there's a
lot of things you should do. We could talk about
those at another time, But what shouldn't you do when
it comes to a breakup that maybe you found yourself
doing from time to time. We're not going to judge,
(21:39):
just want to hear what you have to say, and
we will coming up here at ninety seven point one
washt them with Toby and Chile in the morning. God knows,
we're not relationship experts, but together we can find a
way forward. And if you need the news, we got
you cover Top Stories at the top of the hour.
That's on the way coming up right around eight o'clock
with Toby and Chilly in the morning. Stay close.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
A new Trump administration policy will require undocumented immigrants to
register with the government or possibly face fines or imprisonment.
The plan calls for undocumented immigrants over fourteen to get
fingerprinted and create an online account with citizenship and Immigration services.
The US and Ukraine a reportedly in agreement on a
(22:25):
framework for a minerals deal. It's a way for Ukraine
to pay back the US for aid provided during the
war with Russia. Police are investigating a shooting that caused
an evacuation at the Waterfront Metro station last night. Investigators
say a woman was hit by a stray bullet when
a group of juvenile males tried to rob someone else.
(22:47):
The Wyse High School boys basketball team in Prince George's
County has to forfeit all of its wins this season
for allegedly using an ineligible player. However, district officials say
Wise is still eligible for the state playoffs, which will
start Friday. New data from the Department of Transportation reveals
the cheapest US airport to fly out of, and it's
(23:08):
Florida's Fort Lauderdale Hollywood Airport. The average outbound flight costs
two hundred and fifty two dollars. Meanwhile, Dulles Airport here
in the DC area is the priciest in the country,
where departures cost an average of four hundred and seventy
three dollars, and according to a new survey, sixty percent
of Americans say that having your partner chatting with an
(23:30):
X could potentially end a relationship. Also, forty one percent
say they would call their partner out for casually flirting
with someone, and thirty seven percent say that hiding a
password is not okay. Forecast today sunny Sky's sixty seven
the high right now thirty four in Woodbridge.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Do you see this? There's a new study out that
says gen Z would say no to a promotion why
work life balance, They would reject the promotion on the job.
What do you think about this? Eight sixty six, ninety two,
seven forty three, sixty one talkbacks wide open too. If
you're listening on your iHeart app and you're signed in,
(24:08):
we'll talk about it and why coming up in just
a minute. Want to hear what you have to say
about it too, So feel free to jump in. Coming up,
Toby and Chilly in the morning year at ninety seven point.
Speaker 6 (24:18):
One wash up then with what seems like a catch
twenty two question. There's a study out that says that
gen Z would say no to a.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Promotion at work, they would reject it in it they
would reject it over work life balance. Right, So if
it compromised their work life balance, they would see a
job is just did come, and they would see anything
that wasn't is being stressed. It would cause some sort
of upset in that balance. Thirty nine percent of workers
(24:50):
not interested in promotions, forty two percent of gen Z
willing to just say no to it all together. What
do you think at eight sixty six ninet two seven
forty three sixty one work life balance? Would you say
no now? Chilly?
Speaker 3 (25:03):
What do you think at this point in my life? Yes,
I would say no to a promotion. But gen Z,
they're in their twenties, and so in my twenties, I
would say yes to all the promotions. I would say
yes to all the opportunities in the career because at
that point in my life I didn't have as many
responsibilities as I do now, and so yeah, I would
say yes then and know now I.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Would still say yes because that would help me to
have a better work life balance. I think, wait, say
yes too, yes saying yes to a promotion, because then
I would have the money to be able to go
and do the things I want to do. That would
help me to clear my head. That would help me
to get away. So many times these days, I see
people that are our colleagues getting promotions in different jobs,
(25:46):
not just here. But they're empty promotions, right, They just
give them a title and they hand them a bunch
more responsibility without money. And that's not okay to me.
So if you were willing to come to me and
give me, you know, X percent more whatever, I would
take on additional responsibilities because I know that it would
pay off for me.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
It's interesting you say that because friends of mine who
have taken promotions with or without that money, they have
even less time to travel and do all those things
because the responsibilities are so great they can't quote unquote
unplug as much.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I think now that would be the great test for
me to see if that is the case. You know
what I mean. Now, if I were to take a
promotion and I were to take a little extra money,
now I would like to see if I could actually
hold fast to saying notice certain things in order to
achieve the work life balance, which means taking time off
(26:41):
and really taking time off, because how can you be
the best employee you can be if you're not rested?
You know what, I mean either way.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Gen Z's very different than those of us who are
the gen X, where yeah, live work, work, work, work, work, all.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Live to work and not work to live. It's very European.
Like the Europeans, they don't have some of the stress
because they work so that they can live. Right. They
can take their cestas during the day for three four
hours and then go back to the job. Here at
a fortress America, we don't do that for whatever reason.
What do you think would you reject a promotion in
(27:17):
exchange for work life balance? Yes or no, there's no
right or wrong answer. Just want to hear yours eight
sixty six ninety two, seven forty three sixty one. Feel
free to call it anytime. Get involved. You can also
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do that? Now? Let's talk about something you shouldn't do
after a breakup.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
An expert says, there's this one thing, a big mistake
you're making. If you're doing it.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
And everybody's been through some sort of a breakup or
you would hope that you that you've been through something
and you've learned from it. So give us a call.
Tap the talkback microphone, we'll talk about this coming up.
Stay we gon't talk about some breakups here at ninety
seven point one. Watch FM Toby and Chilly in the
Morning at eight sixty six ninet two, seven forty three
sixty one. There's a magazine article or an online article
(28:02):
that's floating around. It's very very true and very very telling.
This woman says, I'm going to give you some big
sisterly advice. Besides looking in on your X on social media,
there are some things you shouldn't do after you break up.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
And the worst thing you can do is to keep
tabs on that individual to see what they are up to. Nope, nope, nope,
let it go.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Unplug the social media, Unplug the Instagram. You don't need
to know Facebook, you don't need to go through Facebook.
So what is the one thing that you feel like
you shouldn't do when it comes to a breakup, Because
everybody goes through unfortunately or unfortunately people go through breakups.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I mean, if I were to add a personal thing,
I got a dog right after a really rough breakup
to fill the void. I don't think that was a
smart reason to get one, because that's a huge responsibility.
It's not just like a quick little thing, like it's
years of responsibility. But that's one thing I don't think
you should invest in something like that.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
I think you should not overthink you in the process
and you should just keep it moving and move on, like,
don't look reason why, Yeah, don't overthink it too much.
You know what, for you, things just happen sometimes sometimes
they happen for you feel like it's bad at the time,
then you dwell on it. So don't dwell on it,
keep it moving and don't look back. I know I
(29:23):
didn't say it was going to be easy. These are
tough lessons days. They're why they call them relationships, and
you learn something from them along the way. Yeah, what
is it that you would do eight sixty six, ninety two,
seven forty three, sixty two through sixty one. What is
something you would not you shouldn't do after your breakup? Right?
You know there's a lot of things you should do.
We could talk about those at another time. But what
(29:46):
shouldn't you do when it comes to a breakup that
maybe you found yourself doing from time to time. We're
not going to judge, just want to hear what you
have to say, and we will coming up here at
ninety seven point one. Wash at them with Toby and
Chile in the morning. God knows, we're not relationship experts,
but together we can find a way forward. And if
you need the news, we got you covered. Top stories
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at the top of the hour. That's on the way
coming up right around eight o'clock with Toby and Chilly
in the morning. Stay close.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (30:17):
Elon Musk will take part in President Trump's first cabinet
meeting later today. He'll provide an update on how all
of the cabinet secretaries are identifying waste and government fraud well.
The House narrowly passed the GOP's budget resolution. A handful
of Republicans had expressed concern with the bill's spending cuts
and how it will affect social programs like Medicaid, but
(30:40):
they still voted for it. The FAA is investigating a
near collision between a Southwest Airlines plane and a smaller
jet at Chicago's Midway Airport yesterday. The business jet reportedly
entered the runway without authorization just as the Southwest plane
was landing. Meanwhile, locally, the FAA says an American Era
Lines pilot called off a landing at Reagan National yesterday
(31:03):
morning after spotting another plane on the runway. Pepco has
announced its extending breaks for customers in DC and Maryland
who found their energy bills jumped dramatically this winter. So
under the plan, customers will not have to pay late
fees for January, February or March. And according to a
(31:24):
recent study, our shorter lifespans might have something to do
with the fact that we don't have as many friends
as people did in previous generations. Back in the nineties,
forty nine percent of high school grads had at least
six close friends. We'll fast forward to now and that
number has dropped to just seventeen percent. Forecasts for today
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Speaker 2 (31:48):
Coming up in just minutes. Your calls and your thoughts.
Things you should not do after a breakup eight six,
six ninety two seven forty three sixty one. If you
want to jump in right now does no matter what
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Morning continues. Things you Shouldn't do after a breakup Toby
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wash f M. A little bit earlier, I said, just
keep it moving, don't overthink the why it ended, don't
(32:29):
waste time on that, don't overthink you. That's just not productive,
at least not in my opinion. So change nothing. Keep
the course, that's right, Yeah, say the course. It didn't
work out, Okay, it happens. What about you?
Speaker 3 (32:42):
I had said that I got a dog to fill
the void at the emptiness around the house. Maybe that's
not the wisest thing you should do, getting a pet
right after a breakup.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Taking on that responsibility eight six six nine two seven
forty three sixty one Jason and Landover. When it comes
to a breakup, what should you do you not do
after the deed is done and it didn't work out.
Speaker 6 (33:04):
Oh, you shouldn't look at old stuff that reminds you
of your ex.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Either store it all the way or just get rid
of it. It's time to move on.
Speaker 3 (33:11):
That's great advice. I had my stuff in a box
and then I dumped it when I met my husband.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
I had a friend of mine who I encouraged to
bring their stuff down from their ex relationship and throw
it in a wood shipper. Ooh, I actually did that
on the side of the building here. Yes, a ton
of time, no kidding. Ninety seven point one. Watchef them
things you should not do after your breakup Karen and Gaithersburg.
What wouldn't you do or what shouldn't you do? You
(33:36):
shouldn't immediately jump into another relationship just to fill the void,
you know, just try being single for a bit. Ah
this to that too.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
You also shouldn't immediately hook up with another X that
you had in your life just for some sort of validation,
so to see.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
I completely agree with that. Stand on your own two
feet for a while. There's nothing wrong with you being you,
nor do you need to have a SI significant other
to be completed in life. You know. Maybe that's just
my two cents on it.
Speaker 3 (34:05):
In other words, don't be a j lo exactly?
Speaker 2 (34:08):
What more?
Speaker 1 (34:08):
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If you can't feel good about starting a brand new day,
what can you feel good about? Toby and Chilly in
the morning. Eight sixty six nine two seven forty three
sixty one is the number here at ninety seven point
one wash Chef m I've got to tell you, you
don't realize what someone else is going through until you
go through it themselves. So today I'm feeling good about
the fact that I get to take a nice, long,
(00:25):
hot shower without these things on my leg because they
disrupt my shower flow.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
The little compression casts we'll call them.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yeah, they are. They're like compression casts, and they've like
they've I've been wearing them now for what three weeks,
and it is just a nightmare to take a shower
wearing like the cast protectors with them on. It's just cumbersome.
And today I get to take them off after the
show and go take a nice hot shower for about
(00:56):
probably forty five minutes. Don't anybody bother me. I'm looking
forward to it. I need this time and I'm looking
forward to the time. Why are you feeling good this morning?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
There is a new family member. My first cousin had
a baby, aw and he came home yesterday, the little one,
and I'm looking forward to hopefully meeting little guy in
the next few days.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Oh that is awesome.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah, that is cool.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
New babies are just you know, everything about new babies
is cool.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
As long as there's somebody else's new babies, they're very cool. Oh,
welcome on now, No, I look, I'm gonna I've talked
about this many times. It was a very rough period
of our lives, the baby time. Some people are better
with the babies than toddlers. Not I right, not I
I mean, I know, it was just it was really
really challenging. So they're adorable, they're wonderful, But they give
(01:50):
me a little PTSD because it was a very dark
period in our lives.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
To find some joy in the y baby. Yeah, innocent.
There's just something about the look of course little babies
doing what little babies do.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
I will enjoy this baby way more than the stress
of having your own. That's the beauty of it. It's
my cousin's baby. Like, yes, course they'll take him, give
him to me, and then.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
They start to get older, then they turn twenty one.
That's when you start to miss those little days when
things you thought were hard weren't so hard. But you
know you'll have these things. Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Hopefully you're feeling well this morning. Eight sixty six, nine
two seven forty three sixty one. If there's something you
want to share with the class, we're always happy to listen.
(02:39):
In the meantime. Top Stories at the top of the
hour on the way the news, what can we expect?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
The House has passed the GOP's budget resolution. We'll tell
you what cuts are in there in just a few
Top Stories.
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Top of the Hour.
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Top Stories presented by Celsius Energy Drinks Well. The House
passed the GOP's budget resolution. A handful of Republicans expressed
concern with the bill's spending cuts and how it will
affect social programs like Medicaid, but they still voted for it.
The Senate has already adopted a different budget resolution that's
focused more on border security and national defense. President Trump
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announced a new pathway to citizenship for wealthy investors. He
says the US will sell what's called the Gold Card
for around five million dollars. A Southwest flight had a
near collision with a smaller jet at Chicago's Midway Airport yesterday.
The passenger plane aborted its landing just as the business
jet entered the runway without authorization. Well The Fairfax County
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School System says despite a nationwide teacher shortage, the district
has very few open positions for educators. A recent survey
of FCPS employees found that ninety six percent they planned
to return to their jobs next academic year. A hardware
store that's been opened in Falls Church for more than
one hundred and forty years will soon be closing permanently.
(04:04):
The owner of Brown's Hardware says the family accepted an
offer to buy the property after receiving an offer that
was too good to refuse. And A new report from
wallet hub ranks the hardest working cities in the entire
country based on things like the number of workers with
multiple jobs and also the employment rate. Coming in at
number one, Anchorage, Alaska the hardest working city, DC a
(04:27):
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sixty seven, the high right now thirty five in Stafford.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Don't forget to get the news. Top stories at the
top of the hour, all morning when you wake up
with ninety seven point one wash Chef M, Toby and
Chilly in the morning. Coming up next you and your mindset.
We hope maybe we can help you turn your day
around if you haven't gotten it started already, or maybe
if you're facing something that you think is unbearable, give
us a few for that coming up time now for
(04:57):
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The more Toby and Chili in the morning.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
This is where we share a quote to get you
into a good headspace to set the tone for the
rest of your day.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
On this Wednesday, the twenty sixth, William Ellery Channing says,
the human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. The
human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. If you're
expecting everything to be nice, easy and smooth with whatever
you're doing, living life, doing family stuff, maybe at work,
(05:27):
think again, because the human spirit grows stronger by conflict,
so embrace it today, know that it will help you
to grow. William Ellery Channing with some words to remember
on this Wednesday morning, your morning mindset Toby and Chilly
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Speaker 3 (06:03):
I don't know if you saw the story about a
guy in franz who just found out at the age
of forty four that he's been living all this time
with just half a brain.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Which is in itself quite an accomplishment. Yeah, if you
think of all you've had to overcome, skills you didn't
know you've had. Yes, what are some that maybe you have?
We'll talk more about this coming up in minutes. Stay close.
Good morning, Toby and Chilly in the morning at eight
six six ninet two seven forty three sixty one. Have
you ever surprised yourself with your own skills or abilities?
(06:33):
This guy was kind of shocked to find that he
had lived a normal life with half of a brain. Yeah,
how one lives with half a brain is beyond me,
But apparently he was pretty surprised with his skills and
his abilities to be able to do so, that's right, Chilli.
Do you have anything that you've been shocked to find
that you're pretty good at when it comes to skills
(06:54):
or ability?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
During the pandemic, I started painting just the past time
while my son was doing virtual school, and I was
surprised at how well I could follow along with YouTube
and create art on a canvas. Actually, I mean, I
was like, dang, I can't draw, but apparently I can paint.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
YouTube's a thing, man. I learned how to install a
air conditioning like units. What is that, like a thermostat
or something one of those Nest air conditioning things or whatever. Yeah,
in my house with the help of YouTube. Now, I
would never have tried that.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Ever, who knew you were so handy.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I had no idea that I could actually pull that
off eight six six ninety two seven forty three sixty
one to Vienna, Mike, is there some kind of skill
that you were shocked to learn that you had some
kind of ability?
Speaker 1 (07:40):
When I was in high school, I tried doing pull
ups for the first time.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I was absolutely shocked at how many I could do.
It was super weird. I wasn't getting tired at all.
I was even doing them one handed.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Mike the Presidential Fitness Test Superstar.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
I bet you he still has his certificates. Leslie, good
morning and care in zincton what about You?
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Once I picked up a guitar, just a mess around,
and then within a few weeks I was already.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Playing basic cords and he was strumming along this song.
I didn't think I'd pick it up so fast.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Definitely surprised myself.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I'm impressed if you could play anything beyond mister Bojangles
on that thing?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Can I hear some free bird?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
There you go?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
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Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
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The House has nearly passed the GOP's budget resolution. A
handful of Republicans did express concern with the bills spending
cuts and how it's going to affect social programs like Medicaid,
but they still voted for it. Nearly two dozen DOSEE
workers resigning out of protest. In a letter to the
White House Chief of Staff, the worker said, quote, we
(09:01):
will not use our skills as technologists to compromise core
government systems, jeopardize American's sensitive data, or dismantle critical public services.
The FAA investigating a near collision between a Southwest Airlines
airplane and a smaller jet at Chicago's Midway Airport yesterday.
(09:22):
The business jet reportedly entered the runway without authorization just
as the Southwest plane was landing. Meanwhile, locally, the FAA
says an American Airlines pilot called off landing at Reagan
National Airport yesterday morning after spotting another plane on the
runway at the same time. The Washington commanders are permitting
(09:44):
defensive tackle Jonathan Allen to seek a trade to another team.
He spent the last eight seasons with the team and
was selected to the Pro Bowl two times. And another
group that hoped to perform at the Kennedy Center during
World Pride now has been forced to change their plane.
The International Pride Orchestra says its Pride Celebration concert will
(10:05):
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it's going to be really nice and mild, sunny, sixty
seven the high right now thirty four in Silver Spring.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Just a few minutes, we're going to circle back on
a conversation we were having here with Toby and Chilly
in the morning on ninety seven point one. Wasch FM
about your kids and how they accidentally inadvertently physically injured you.
Amanda has a few things she wants to add to
the conversation, so we'll get back into it coming up
in minutes. Stay right there. Yesterday with Toby and Chilly
(10:36):
in the morning, we were talking about ways your kids
have hurt you, and Amanda's got some thoughts eight sixty
six ninety two seven forty three sixty one.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
So go ahead and tell us how did your child
accidentally cause harm?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
When my daughter was four years old, we were living
in Florida at the time, and she ran over to
a palm tree to you know, smile for a photo op,
and she stuck in a fire ant. Now, so right away,
all these fire ants when running up her legs, so
I dropped everything, picked her up, started swiping them off.
Then I got bit and it ended up. I didn't
(11:10):
realize I had a severe allergy to fire ants, and
I started going into anaphylactic shock.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Oh lord, oh damn, because your kid got into the ants.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
What'd you do? I?
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Well, it took me a while to realize what was
going on, because I've never had that happen to me before.
So I popped the benadryl, and I saw other kids
to take care of. So I waited for a our
babysitter so I could go to the er.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
And when you get to the er and you explain
what happened, what do you say?
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Well, I was helping my daughter and I ended up
getting injured myself, but she was fine.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
And from that point on, no more photos by a
tree exactly, and.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
No more living in Florida.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
We moved to DC. Right on your ants.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
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Perhaps maybe uggs half a billion?
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I'm actually wearing oug slippers right now.
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A new Trump administration policy will require undocumented immigrants to
register with the government or possibly face fines or imprisonment.
The plan calls for undocumented immigrants over fourteen to get
fingerprinted and create an online account with Citizenship and Immigration Services.
The US and Ukraine are reportedly in agreement on a
(14:12):
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to pay back the US for aid provided during the
war with Russia. Police are investigating a shooting that caused
an evacuation at the Waterfront metro station last night. Investigators
say a woman was hit by a stray bullet when
a group of juvenile males tried to rob someone else.
(14:34):
The Wyse High School boys basketball team in Prince George's
County has to forfeit all of its wins this season
for allegedly using an ineligible player. However, district officials say
Wise is still eligible for the state playoffs, which will
start Friday. New data from the Department of Transportation reveals
the cheapest US airport to fly out of, and its
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in the DC area is the priciest in the country,
where departures cost an average of four hundred and seventy
three dollars. And according to a new survey, sixty percent
of Americans say that having your partner chatting with an
(15:17):
X could potentially end a relationship. Also, forty one percent
say they would call their partner out for casually flirting
with someone, and thirty seven percent say that hiding a
password is not okay. Forecast today sunny Sky's sixty seven.
The high right now thirty four in Woodbridge.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Do you see this? There's a new study out that
says gen z would say no to a promotion why
work life balance? They would reject the promotion on the job.
What do you think about this eight sixty six, ninety two,
seven forty three sixty one talkbacks wide open too. If
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so feel free to jump in. Coming up, Toby and
Chilly in the morning year at ninety seven twenty one.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
Wash up then with what seems like a catch point
two question. There's a study out that says that gen
Z would say no to a promotion at work. They
would reject it in it they would reject it over
work life balance. Right, so if it compromised their work
life balance, they would see a job is just income,
(16:28):
and they would see anything that wasn't is being stressed.
That would cause some sort of upset in that balance.
Thirty nine percent of workers not interested in promotions, forty
two percent of gen Z willing to just say no
to it all together. What do you think at eight
sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty one work
life balance?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Would you say no? Now? Chiley?
Speaker 3 (16:50):
What do you think at this point in my life? Yes,
I would say no to a promotion but gen Z,
they're in their twenties, and so in my twenties, I
would say yes to all the promotions. I would say
as to all the opportunities in the career because at
that point in my life I didn't have as many
responsibilities as I do now, and so yeah, I would
say yes then and know now.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
I would still say yes because that would help me
to have a better work life balance. I think, wait, yes,
yes saying yes to a promotion, because then I would
have the money to be able to go and do
the things I want to do that would help me
to clear my head, that would help me to get away.
So many times these days, I see people that are
our colleagues getting promotions in different jobs, not just here.
(17:34):
But they're empty promotions, right. They just give them a
title and they hand them a bunch more responsibility without money.
And that's not okay to me. So if you were
willing to come to me and give me, you know,
X percent more or whatever, I would take on additional
responsibilities because I know that it would pay off for me.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
It's interesting you say that, because friends of mine who
have taken promotions with or without that money, they have
even less time to try and do all those things
because the responsibilities are so great they can't quote unquote
unplug as much.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I think now they would be the great test for
me to see if that is the case, you know
what I mean? Now, if I were to take a promotion,
and I were to take a little extra money, now
I would like to see if I could actually hold
fast to saying notice certain things in order to achieve
the work life balance, which means taking time off and
(18:28):
really taking time off, because how can you be the
best employee you can be if you're not rested, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Either way, gen Z's very different than those of us
who are the gen X. Where we live work work, work, work, work, all.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Live to work and not work to live. It's very European.
Like the Europeans, they don't have some of this stress
because they work so that they can live right. They
can take their cestas during the day for three four
hours and then go back to the job. Here in
a fortress America, we don't do that for whatever reason.
What do you think would you reject a promotion in
(19:03):
exchange for work life balance? Yes or no? There's no
right or wrong answer. Just want to hear yours eight
sixty six, ninety two, seven forty three sixty one. Feel
free to call it anytime. Get involved. You can also
tap the talk back microphone. In fact, why don't you
do that? Now, let's talk about something you shouldn't do
after a breakup.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
An expert says, there's this one thing, a big mistake
you're making. If you're doing it.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And everybody's been through some sort of a breakup or
you would hope that you that you've been through something
and you've learned from it. So give us a call,
tap the talk back microphone. We'll talk about this coming up.
Stay we gon't talk about some breakups here at ninety
seven point one. Watch FM Toby and Chilly in the
Morning at eight sixty six ninet two, seven forty three
sixty one. There's a magazine article or an online article
(19:49):
that's floating around that's that's very very true and very
very telling. This woman says, I'm gonna give you some
big sisterly advice. Besides looking in on your X on
social media, there are some things things you shouldn't do
after you break up.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
And the worst thing you can do is to keep
tabs on that individual to see what they are up to. Nope, nope, nope.
Let it go.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
Unplug the social media. Unplug the Instagram. You don't need
to know Facebook, you don't need to go through Facebook.
So what is the one thing that you feel like
you shouldn't do when it comes to a breakup, because
everybody goes through unfortunately or unfortunately people go through breakups.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
I mean, if I were to add a personal thing,
I got a dog right after a really rough breakup
to fill the void. I don't think that was a
smart reason to get one, because that's a huge responsibility.
It's not just like a quick little thing like, it's
years of responsibility. But that's one thing I don't think
you should invest in something like that.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
What about you, I think you should not overthink you
in the process, and you should just keep it moving
and move on.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Like, don't look for a reason why.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
Yeah, don't overthink it too much. You know what, for you,
things just happen. Sometimes sometimes they happen for you feel
like it's bad at the time, then you dwell on it.
So don't dwell on it, keep it moving and don't
look back. I know I didn't say it was going
to be easy These are tough lessons days. They're why
they call them relationships, and you learn something from them
(21:17):
along the way. What is it that you would do
eight six, six, ninety two, seven forty three, sixty two
through sixty one. What is something you would not you
shouldn't do after your breakup? Right? You know there's a
lot of things you should do. We could talk about
those at another time, But what shouldn't you do when
it comes to a breakup that maybe you found yourself
doing from time to time. We're not going to judge,
(21:39):
just want to hear what you have to say, and
we will coming up here at ninety seven point one
washt them with Toby and Chile in the morning. God knows,
we're not relationship experts, but together we can find a
way forward. And if you need the news, we got
you cover Top Stories at the top of the hour.
That's on the way coming up right around eight o'clock
with Toby and Chilly in the morning. Stay close.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
A new Trump administration policy will require undocumented immigrants to
register with the government or possibly face fines or imprisonment.
The plan calls for undocumented immigrants over fourteen to get
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The US and Ukraine a reportedly in agreement on a
(22:25):
framework for a minerals deal. It's a way for Ukraine
to pay back the US for aid provided during the
war with Russia. Police are investigating a shooting that caused
an evacuation at the Waterfront Metro station last night. Investigators
say a woman was hit by a stray bullet when
a group of juvenile males tried to rob someone else.
(22:47):
The Wyse High School boys basketball team in Prince George's
County has to forfeit all of its wins this season
for allegedly using an ineligible player. However, district officials say
Wise is still eligible for the state playoffs, which will
start Friday. New data from the Department of Transportation reveals
the cheapest US airport to fly out of, and it's
(23:08):
Florida's Fort Lauderdale Hollywood Airport. The average outbound flight costs
two hundred and fifty two dollars. Meanwhile, Dulles Airport here
in the DC area is the priciest in the country,
where departures cost an average of four hundred and seventy
three dollars, and according to a new survey, sixty percent
of Americans say that having your partner chatting with an
(23:30):
X could potentially end a relationship. Also, forty one percent
say they would call their partner out for casually flirting
with someone, and thirty seven percent say that hiding a
password is not okay. Forecast today sunny Sky's sixty seven
the high right now thirty four in Woodbridge.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Do you see this? There's a new study out that
says gen Z would say no to a promotion why
work life balance, They would reject the promotion on the job.
What do you think about this? Eight sixty six, ninety two,
seven forty three, sixty one talkbacks wide open too. If
you're listening on your iHeart app and you're signed in,
(24:08):
we'll talk about it and why coming up in just
a minute. Want to hear what you have to say
about it too, So feel free to jump in. Coming up,
Toby and Chilly in the morning year at ninety seven point.
Speaker 6 (24:18):
One wash up then with what seems like a catch
twenty two question. There's a study out that says that
gen Z would say no to a.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Promotion at work, they would reject it in it they
would reject it over work life balance. Right, So if
it compromised their work life balance, they would see a
job is just did come, and they would see anything
that wasn't is being stressed. It would cause some sort
of upset in that balance. Thirty nine percent of workers
(24:50):
not interested in promotions, forty two percent of gen Z
willing to just say no to it all together. What
do you think at eight sixty six ninet two seven
forty three sixty one work life balance? Would you say
no now? Chilly?
Speaker 3 (25:03):
What do you think at this point in my life? Yes,
I would say no to a promotion. But gen Z,
they're in their twenties, and so in my twenties, I
would say yes to all the promotions. I would say
yes to all the opportunities in the career because at
that point in my life I didn't have as many
responsibilities as I do now, and so yeah, I would
say yes then and know now I.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Would still say yes because that would help me to
have a better work life balance. I think, wait, say
yes too, yes saying yes to a promotion, because then
I would have the money to be able to go
and do the things I want to do. That would
help me to clear my head. That would help me
to get away. So many times these days, I see
people that are our colleagues getting promotions in different jobs,
(25:46):
not just here. But they're empty promotions, right, They just
give them a title and they hand them a bunch
more responsibility without money. And that's not okay to me.
So if you were willing to come to me and
give me, you know, X percent more whatever, I would
take on additional responsibilities because I know that it would
pay off for me.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
It's interesting you say that because friends of mine who
have taken promotions with or without that money, they have
even less time to travel and do all those things
because the responsibilities are so great they can't quote unquote
unplug as much.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
I think now that would be the great test for
me to see if that is the case. You know
what I mean. Now, if I were to take a
promotion and I were to take a little extra money,
now I would like to see if I could actually
hold fast to saying notice certain things in order to
achieve the work life balance, which means taking time off
(26:41):
and really taking time off, because how can you be
the best employee you can be if you're not rested?
You know what, I mean either way.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Gen Z's very different than those of us who are
the gen X, where yeah, live work, work, work, work, work, all.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Live to work and not work to live. It's very European.
Like the Europeans, they don't have some of the stress
because they work so that they can live. Right. They
can take their cestas during the day for three four
hours and then go back to the job. Here at
a fortress America, we don't do that for whatever reason.
What do you think would you reject a promotion in
(27:17):
exchange for work life balance? Yes or no, there's no
right or wrong answer. Just want to hear yours eight
sixty six ninety two, seven forty three sixty one. Feel
free to call it anytime. Get involved. You can also
tap the talk back microphone. In fact, why don't you
do that? Now? Let's talk about something you shouldn't do
after a breakup.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
An expert says, there's this one thing, a big mistake
you're making. If you're doing it.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
And everybody's been through some sort of a breakup or
you would hope that you that you've been through something
and you've learned from it. So give us a call.
Tap the talkback microphone, we'll talk about this coming up.
Stay we gon't talk about some breakups here at ninety
seven point one. Watch FM Toby and Chilly in the
Morning at eight sixty six ninet two, seven forty three
sixty one. There's a magazine article or an online article
(28:02):
that's floating around. It's very very true and very very telling.
This woman says, I'm going to give you some big
sisterly advice. Besides looking in on your X on social media,
there are some things you shouldn't do after you break up.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
And the worst thing you can do is to keep
tabs on that individual to see what they are up to. Nope, nope, nope,
let it go.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Unplug the social media, Unplug the Instagram. You don't need
to know Facebook, you don't need to go through Facebook.
So what is the one thing that you feel like
you shouldn't do when it comes to a breakup, Because
everybody goes through unfortunately or unfortunately people go through breakups.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
I mean, if I were to add a personal thing,
I got a dog right after a really rough breakup
to fill the void. I don't think that was a
smart reason to get one, because that's a huge responsibility.
It's not just like a quick little thing, like it's
years of responsibility. But that's one thing I don't think
you should invest in something like that.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
I think you should not overthink you in the process
and you should just keep it moving and move on, like,
don't look reason why, Yeah, don't overthink it too much.
You know what, for you, things just happen sometimes sometimes
they happen for you feel like it's bad at the time,
then you dwell on it. So don't dwell on it,
keep it moving and don't look back. I know I
(29:23):
didn't say it was going to be easy. These are
tough lessons days. They're why they call them relationships, and
you learn something from them along the way. Yeah, what
is it that you would do eight sixty six, ninety two,
seven forty three, sixty two through sixty one. What is
something you would not you shouldn't do after your breakup? Right?
You know there's a lot of things you should do.
We could talk about those at another time. But what
(29:46):
shouldn't you do when it comes to a breakup that
maybe you found yourself doing from time to time. We're
not going to judge, just want to hear what you
have to say, and we will coming up here at
ninety seven point one. Wash at them with Toby and
Chile in the morning. God knows, we're not relationship experts,
but together we can find a way forward. And if
you need the news, we got you covered. Top stories
(30:07):
at the top of the hour. That's on the way
coming up right around eight o'clock with Toby and Chilly
in the morning. Stay close.
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (30:17):
Elon Musk will take part in President Trump's first cabinet
meeting later today. He'll provide an update on how all
of the cabinet secretaries are identifying waste and government fraud well.
The House narrowly passed the GOP's budget resolution. A handful
of Republicans had expressed concern with the bill's spending cuts
and how it will affect social programs like Medicaid, but
(30:40):
they still voted for it. The FAA is investigating a
near collision between a Southwest Airlines plane and a smaller
jet at Chicago's Midway Airport yesterday. The business jet reportedly
entered the runway without authorization just as the Southwest plane
was landing. Meanwhile, locally, the FAA says an American Era
Lines pilot called off a landing at Reagan National yesterday
(31:03):
morning after spotting another plane on the runway. Pepco has
announced its extending breaks for customers in DC and Maryland
who found their energy bills jumped dramatically this winter. So
under the plan, customers will not have to pay late
fees for January, February or March. And according to a
(31:24):
recent study, our shorter lifespans might have something to do
with the fact that we don't have as many friends
as people did in previous generations. Back in the nineties,
forty nine percent of high school grads had at least
six close friends. We'll fast forward to now and that
number has dropped to just seventeen percent. Forecasts for today
(31:45):
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Speaker 2 (31:48):
Coming up in just minutes. Your calls and your thoughts.
Things you should not do after a breakup eight six,
six ninety two seven forty three sixty one. If you
want to jump in right now does no matter what
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Morning continues. Things you Shouldn't do after a breakup Toby
and Chilly in the Morning, it's ninety seven point one
wash f M. A little bit earlier, I said, just
keep it moving, don't overthink the why it ended, don't
(32:29):
waste time on that, don't overthink you. That's just not productive,
at least not in my opinion. So change nothing. Keep
the course, that's right, Yeah, say the course. It didn't
work out, Okay, it happens. What about you?
Speaker 3 (32:42):
I had said that I got a dog to fill
the void at the emptiness around the house. Maybe that's
not the wisest thing you should do, getting a pet
right after a breakup.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Taking on that responsibility eight six six nine two seven
forty three sixty one Jason and Landover. When it comes
to a breakup, what should you do you not do
after the deed is done and it didn't work out.
Speaker 6 (33:04):
Oh, you shouldn't look at old stuff that reminds you
of your ex.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Either store it all the way or just get rid
of it. It's time to move on.
Speaker 3 (33:11):
That's great advice. I had my stuff in a box
and then I dumped it when I met my husband.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
I had a friend of mine who I encouraged to
bring their stuff down from their ex relationship and throw
it in a wood shipper. Ooh, I actually did that
on the side of the building here. Yes, a ton
of time, no kidding. Ninety seven point one. Watchef them
things you should not do after your breakup Karen and Gaithersburg.
What wouldn't you do or what shouldn't you do? You
(33:36):
shouldn't immediately jump into another relationship just to fill the void,
you know, just try being single for a bit. Ah
this to that too.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
You also shouldn't immediately hook up with another X that
you had in your life just for some sort of validation,
so to see.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
I completely agree with that. Stand on your own two
feet for a while. There's nothing wrong with you being you,
nor do you need to have a SI significant other
to be completed in life. You know. Maybe that's just
my two cents on it.
Speaker 3 (34:05):
In other words, don't be a j lo exactly?
Speaker 2 (34:08):
What more?
Speaker 1 (34:08):
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