I Lose Control...

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Okay, hi, everybody, let'sget this going after show podcast. It's
Justin and Winnie Fred So Winnie,Yes, I have been fielding my phone
all morning long with my beautiful wifeJen because my daughter Gemma started daycare today.
Now. Um, yeah, Igot a picture of her, of

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her like in her little lunch box. Oh my god, I love her.
Yeah. And then she sent mefor the first thing this morning when
she woke up, Jen sent methis. This is when she, you
know, just woke up. Shesays, you know, are you excited
for school to school? Okay,yeah, she's an angel. But I

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bring it up because you know,I'm obviously at work. I'm not there,
you know, I get. Imean I get home at like eleven,
twelve o'clock, and you know,I'm excited for her to go to
date. How long will she go? Only for four hours, three days
a week, that's it thirty Butfor a mom, it's so much worse.

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Last night, she's like, I'mgonna stay up for a little while.
I don't think I can sleep becausegem is going to daycare tomorrow.
Yeah, and I'm just thinking likethe difference between yeah, you know dad
part of it. Yeah, LikeI don't really get emotional about it.
And they've been spending every morning togetherright the last year and a half.
And it goes back to when youtalk about the differences between women and men

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or moms and dads, there's anotherthing that. So one time she said
to me, you know what's messedup about you about about men and dads
is you guys will feed yourselves beforeyou feed the children. Right, And
that sounds worse than it is.When she said to me, I'm like,
what are you talking about? AndI thought about it. She's right.
So when we're sitting down to eat, you know, I'll have no

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problem getting the kids food ready toheat it up or in heating up mine
first, you know, whereas themom, the kids always eat before she
even takes something. You know,you can think about too, Like even
if you go to like the fatlike the McDonald's through, you take a
fry first and you eat it andthen you give the kids one, Right,
the mom ninety percent of times andgive the kid a fry for her
kid has to have the food.Yeah, that's just that's why moms are

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the best. So she's so soshe dropped her off. Okay, here's
the update, and she said thatat first she was okay. When they
went in, she was playing theteachers are very sweet. Then she snuck
away and as she was sneaking awayand walking down the hall, she heard
Jemmy yell by mama like crying.So of course this like broke her.

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Yeah, so she had to messagethe school. Yeah, so she did,
and they gave the update and said, you know, the drop off
went well. She cried for acouple of minutes, but then they started
playing and she was fine. Theysang circle time songs and uh and now
they were getting ready to go outside. So that's pretty good. Yeah,
it's cool. And you know whatsongs they were singing to a true Billy

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and Lisa in the Morning Prison Behindthe Scenes look into Boston's Favorite morning show.
That's a little too much information,guys, The After Show podcast.
Yeah, so we're here, it'sTuesday. What's today? April sixteenth?
You know that when between our Marchvacation and Memorial Day Stress, it's the

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longest stretch without a day off.Yeah, it's a long time. I
think we have what another seven sixweeks before we have a day off.
I actually have a suck a dayoff in them for myself though. Oh
yeah, I know they're Friday,Yeah, going to see adel Yeah yeah,
that's fine, and I know,but I'm I'm excited. But then
we had that little stretch where it'sMemorial Day, juneteenth, July fourth vacation,

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right, that's gonna be nice.Yeah, what I go see the
doctor at one o'clock today. Don'tdon't do that. Not tell me any
surgery. I don't. I don'tknow what's gonna happen. How you do
fucking no towards I'm good. Buthere's the thing, when here's the thing
you can't do in the summer becauseyou got to be in the pool.

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Yeah, if it's what I thinkit is, because I had my other
neee done, it's called a scope. It's a day surgery. It's not
really that okay, So going atnoon for the day, right, I
mean, if it's like that FridayI did, I did that during a
vacation. But I don't remember therecovery being that bad. Honestly, it's

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not even on Friday. Yeah,I'll try to figure it out. So
I missed minimal time, thank you. But you know, there may be
a day that I miss that'll befine. She's learning, you know,
and you know what, the bestthe best way for her to really learn
is to just do it. It'slike she shadows you on the board every
day she runs the board. Butthe true test is going to be when

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you're not here. Well, itwas good when Lisa wasn't here. We
had her run the entertainment. Soso I actually sat in Lisa's seat,
so I wasn't even near her.Yeah, she did. She had a
one mistake, but she recovered.I told her that was good because you
fucked up, but then you didn'tlet ruin the whole segment. Yeah,
that's true. Tests. Yeah,that's good. That's good. So so

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yeah, so it just sucks.I mean, I'm really in some pain.
I'm sorry, you know what Imean, Maybe take it easy on
the squad numbers. No, Ihaven't done legs in a long time.
Yeah, I'm done it. Yeah, No, the muscles still there.
But you know, I was pushingit too hard and I think, you
know, you got to listen toyour body, which normally I'm really good
at. I think I just underestimatedwhat was going on. I had a

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little bit of pain in my knee. And I kept pushing through a week
after week, and then this lasttime that I did legs, probably three
weeks ago, I pushed it waytoo hard. So what do you do
on leg day? Now? I'vebeen skipping. You don't go with zeven
No, I do two other dayswith them. And then I got to
take my seriously, for me,it's not even the gym, it's it's
the it's the it's the everyday life. It's with my kids. You know,

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I'm playing baseball my son, he'shitting the ball. I can't even
run to get it. When Ibend down, my knees killing me.
I have a hard time getting onthe floor with my daughter. I have
this fucking house with all this fuckinglandscaping, and it needs to be done.
I have no motivation to do anyof it because my knee hurts.
So hopefully they'll fix it and they'llbe all right. Things could always be
worse. Yeah, you could bean amputee. I could be an amputee.

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I always try. I think thatway. Speaking of which do you
follow? And I doubt you do. This is funny. You said that
amputee thing, not that being anempty is funny. It's not funny.
It's not funny, and but Iuh, I follow this guy on Instagram.
His name is real eighty six hands. His name is Martin. He's
young kid, he's like in histwenties. He's from North Carolina. He

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was born in Russia. Okay,he has no hands. I'll show you.
I'll show you video. And hewas adopted and brought here as a
young child. And now he's dude. He's got seven hundred and nineteen thousand
followers on Instagram and TikTok and hejust makes videos showing how he does shit
with no hands. So like thisis him eating. He's probably a better

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one here. So there is heis. I've seen him before, so
there, so he was seen theone that the one the person that has
no arms or legs their quatting amputee. Yeah, is he a speaker?
Well, the one I'm talking aboutis transgender now, so it's she is
Brielle. I forget what her namewas before. And she does makeup like

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full on with no arms. Butso so what she uses is she puts
like the brush between her and nolike this where I guess the socket would
have been for her arm and againstlike a desk and she like puts her
face down, slays a face.This is this other man I saw that

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also has no arms or legs,and he works at Walmart. He has
four kids. He does everything normal. Yeah, it's amazing crazy. And
I follow this kid Martin because it'samazing what he's done, not just that
he's able to do all most thingsthat everyone can do, but that he
has such a good added dude.Yeah, you know, and now he's
taking it and turning it into income. The one thing he has trouble with

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is shoes. He wears slides.Yeah, but he'll like, you know,
people just comment and they'll say,you know, how do you brush
your teeth, how do you shaveyour beard, how do you eat this?
How do you eat that? Andhe just he just does it.
It's really it's really uh, Idon't know. You see stuff like that
and you really put your life intoperspective. You know, it could always
be worse, for sure, Butgood show today. We did talk about

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Karen Reid. I get requests allthe time to talk about that. You
know what's interesting is is I don'tknow anybody that's on the side of Karen
Reid did it. But I gotone talk the talk back. I gotta
find it. I could find it. Yeah, give me a second here,
Yeah I don't. It's weird likeI got probably hundreds of talkbacks about

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about the whole thing about how youknow, yes, we're right, she's
innocent, blah blah blah blah blah, and then I got one saying that
she's I was shocked by it.I was like, Wow, there really
are people that believe but that shemarried to That's what I mean. She's
got to be some kind of She'sgot to be connected somehow, for sure.

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I'm looking forward here. Hold on, so you put me on the
spot. Well, don't bring itup, bro, if you don't have
it. Yeah, I see allthese ones. I love you talking about
this. Thank you. Oh,I got it, I got it.
Hold on me. It's funny becauseit started. It starts good with I
love you guys. Yeah, okay, I love you guys, and then
it just quickly goes south. Holdon, my computer's freezing here, god,

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okay, here we go. Okay, I love you guys, But
you are a complete idiot on thisKaren Reid saying, period, you clearly
have not looked at any objective informationand uh, yeah, she did it
and that will come out. Sothat's all, guys, some good day.

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You give any information, though,I know, what does that mean?
You're just saying that I want Iwant her to give me what she
has that she thinks. Okay,let's do a little search here. Wha
we I have her name here.I'm not gonna I'm not gonna say her
name. Yeah, but I wantto see if she's from Canton? Yeah,
where is she from? Where she'scoming up? Hold on? Hold
on? Uh okay, let's see. Ah, it doesn't say where she's

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from. How would I know?Hold on? I'm not sure if this
is her? Well, don't justtell me that. Show me the names
so I can put it to myself. But but the one that's listed here
has no E at the end.This one has an E, so it
might not be her. This thisname doesn't This name on the talk back
doesn't have any But I don't seeone. I do you do? Man?

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It's so funny. Remember the rememberthe although I don't think she's she's
from here, she's not from here? Oh wait, it has the Oh
my god, it has a zipcode. Has a hold on? Hold
on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Uh uh uh uh
huh uh uh. Okay, sheis from Beverly. Hmm, okay,

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so she's not she's not doesn't looklike she's involved in the in the thing.
But yeah, we talked about thethe Karen Reid thing. I mean
it's crazy, you know what Imean. I don't understand why it's still
going on that this should just it'sjust And that's the thing is a year
ago people were like you to talkabout this case, blah blah blah blah,

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and I and I would say thesame thing. It's gonna get dropped.
Yeah, if you look at allthe evidence and all the cover and
they're rarely pushing this thing forward,you know what it's really involved in this?
My wife, Oh she is.She's not every turtle Boy live.
She's on. It's funny because Ihave a girl that goes to my gym,
Shannon. She is for the lastyear, like I see her,

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we talk about it. She's beenso into it and she's she actually commented
I think on our post on doesshe ask why we don't talk about it?
No, we haven't really, No, I haven't really, but she's
always telling me shit. Yeah,that's where I get most of my information
from her. My stretch Lady Jenna. Yeah, we know, you know
Jenna. She every time I goin, she said, are you guys
talking about Karen Reid yet? It'sjust interesting. We just said we didn't.

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We really didn't have the time togive to it that deserved. We
thought. Also, it's like,you know, everybody's talking about it,
which I get, but it's sucha I don't know, it's so controversial.
You know, you don't want tofucking make people mad, not not
that it's not why we you know, I don't care about that. I
know you don't care. But Ithink Billy said everybody mad. I think
Billy said it best this morning.I think that there's so much bullshit in

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the world. It's our job tobe an escape for people. Wow,
I'm crying. What everything just hit? All the bills I paid yesterday,
Yeah, two hundred dollars left myname. I thought I two hundred.
I thought I had more than that. I thought I had like four hundred.
It. Wow, it's okay.I paid a lot of bills,

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paid a lot of bills. Yeah, my window guy was there yesterday looking
around the house. Hopefully we'll getthat going. Oh yeah, because you
got your homemache, it's gonna bea lot of banging at my house.
You Oh no, yeah, insideand out. Okay, okay, all
right, Well it depends on youknow, the position. It depends on

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what we're doing. Just switched itup a little bit. Have you made
adjustment, man? Anyway? Yeah, anyway, So yeah, I'll see
the dock at one o'clock. Let'ssee what's going on. Okay, And
that's it man. Tomorrow we'll beback another after show. Maybe we'll get
four full days of after show aftershow podcasting. So that's good. We
shall try. Yeah, So havea great day, everybody. Enjoy the

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weather pick of the week today.It's gonna be beautiful and you know,
let people know you're excited. Ah, lose come true.