The Madame Tales (Full Show)

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Episode Transcript

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Wait God, wake yo, Pa, Good morning, Happy Tuesday to the
Tuesday to be exact. Scott DJforher Man back in the building. I'm
feeling a little tired. It's along day. Yesterday we'll be back in
the building and I'm a little underthe weather. I think it's the allergies.
I was wondering why I was gettingthe cold. I'm like, yo,
I've seen the levels for the allergies. I guess between the rest of

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the week it's going to be likesevere severe, and my sinuses are not
happy right now. So make surey'all taking your claritins or whatever y'all take
to make sure that y'all cleared up. Big shout out to all their parents
out of New Hampshire, out ofmy way vacation this week for the kids,
so I know, you know what, I got to call myself out
on this last week. I waskind of talking to smack when somebody called

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in and was like, oh,you know, it's a hard thing to
do when you're trying to find somethingto do with the kids. That was
last week when mass had a vacation. I was kind of like, but
you knew about this for months onend, so why didn't you plan accordingly?
Yeah, I didn't plany nothing.I don't know what to do with
my son. Anybody got any ideasmy boy in the studio with me today.
You're trying to run around the cityand see what's popping. So let

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me apologize first off for calling outwhoever I called out last week. And
that's my bad because I did theexact same thing I was talking about not
doing. I made zero plans atDJ ford s. You could tap it
with me if you want to flameme otherwise, you know what the vibe
is man Tender Tuesday and a bunchof good content all throughout your morning,
tapping with Ashley and Am on ourInstagram and of course stream is live on

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the free Heart Radio app. Ifyou do that by downloading it to your
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play. You could even leave usa talk back on that red mic right
next to her play Bun. GoodMorning. I's Ashley and the gam In
Morning Show with DJ Florren and Santhy. Here we go, It's Tender Tuesday,
y'all on Boston's number one for hiphop and the best throwbacks jam at

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a eighty four five. Well,you know it's going to be a good
Tender Tuesday one. We uh kickit off with Ashley Janino, go hop
on a mic there, AJ,this is a new one. And if
I'm being very frank with everybody,I thought that this particular act was deaded.
I did not think people actually dothis anymore. But we know AJ

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is a tender all star to thepoint where she's been kicked off the app.
They've asked you just kind of like, hey, let's wrest your thumbs,
let's get you a little bruin outof guys, there's no one left
to swipe on. Yeah, butyou recently were swiping. You connect with
this guy and just they have alittle bit of back and forth, and
then right off the jump, immediatelythe man asks for something very specific.

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Yeah, he asked for phone sex. Weird? What is he? Ninety?
Who is doing that? I alsodon't understand phone sex, like me
neither, I just don't. Ithought phone sex died off when the invention
of FaceTime, because if you canand experience like phone sex right still on

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the phone, at least you cansee something. Yeah, but I guess
you could still call that. No, I don't think it's still too Wait,
FaceTime is the same as phone sex, that's like, but that's just
video. I think it's porn.I think there's people out there who like
to use their mind and like tohear things. Yeah, but it's seriously

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and I also feel like they gotto be above seventy. It's just nobody's
doing that. I feel like longdistance relationships maybe yes, yeah, but
they do FaceTime exactly so then orset up and they zoom. Well,
sometimes you listen. Sometimes here's yourpin. Sometimes you're not in an environment
where you can do FaceTime sex.You know what I'm saying. So you

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do the phone sex, all right, so you've clearly done phones? Yes,
all right, so how do youlike? What do you say?
I mean, it's all in themood, right, So what you're doing,
that's it? What do you doa mood? Right? Okay?
What you what you wear? Hodo you? And no pants? Nothing?
No pants at all? Like youjust out here just freeing it up.

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Yeah? Oh and then okay,and then man that one quick,
let's moisturize it. Yes, Idon't like it. I just don't.

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It's weird. So any you obviouslysaid no no way, I didn't do
that. Now, yeah, thatwould be I would. It would probably
have to be like a comfortable relationshipthat I was in to ever think about
doing it. This was not abut even then it's just like, I
know, that's what well, that'sthat's what you know. When people call
in and tell it's like Tender's crazy, Like that's what they're getting. She
just swipes, starts chatting with thisguy and he immediately is like, let's

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have phone sex, sir, whatabout dinner. It's the act of explaining
what you're doing in in that toneof voice that gets embarrassing. Like for
me, I just would feel youwould have to be like, could we
start the call on an hour?I have to take the vite everybody,
Yes, it's true. Schedule,it's true. All right, a J.

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Well, thank you for that,and I'm sorry AJ's dating life continues
to be dry. What is goingon with your six one seven nine three
one one nine four five six oneseven nine three one one nine four five
We're talking dating, love and relationships. In twenty twenty four, it's Tender
Tuesday only on Jam and hit meup Hi, everybody, Good morning Fashion

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The Jam of Morning show. We'retalking tender Tuesday dating love relationships. Listen,
this is broad now compared to whatit used to be back in the
day, and people would just callme and tell me strictly tender stories.
You can talk about the relationship you'rein. Maybe you want to break up,
he need some advice, whatever thecase may be. If it involves
you know that type of thing,dating love, we always talk about it

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here during Tender Tuesday six one seven, nine three one one nine four five
That is six one seven nine,three, one one nine four or five.
Aj just kicked it off by tellingus that she was swiping on Tinder
and the guy was like, hey, what's up? Want to do phone
sex? Immediately I got a DMfrom Christine. She goes, ash,
this is why I've given up ondating sites, guy wrightzer and goes,

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you are absolutely gorgeous. Would deadass fight three mountain lions and a McDonald's
handicapped bathroom stall with both hands tiedbehind my back and my only weapon is
a shake weight glued to my foreheadjust to get a chance to take you
out now on a date. Hethought that was going to work. Well,
maybe it has before and it's notsick, though at least he's saying
they would fight for her. I'mtrue against mountain lions with his arms tied

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behind his back. Maria is inDorchester. Hi, Maria, Hi,
good morning. I said, there'snot a singular chance anybody under the age
of seventy is asking for phone sexand your fight on this. They're out
there the young'ins. Uh, definitely, definitely Actually, So I have an
OnlyFans page and that is my numberone clientele is between twenty and thirty.

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Why easily? Easily and then somethingMaybe they're lying, but you know they
like to send pictures and things likethat, and most of them are younger.
All right, well, yeah,let's do this without you going into
the graphics of a detail. Whydon't you and Santi you have like a
minute long exchange right here of howit like start? Started out with Santi
like, how would it go?Well? A lot of times, so

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a lot of times they are actuallybelieve they're not selling out a form of
what they like and don't like.For your words, they like things they
want to talk about. So I'llusually go in having some type of idea.
We'll let me give you this.I like the ladies who are a
little bit on the older end andsnowboarding home. Yeah, so just make

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it like you're seducing me and like, okay, I'm not. That's a
new one for me. Your time, well, a lot of the times,
I'll just ask you very much howyou were. You guys are just
doing it asking like what are youwearing, what are you doing? And
everything. I can't see all thisstuff on the radio. Okay, she's

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nervous. She's nervous. I wasready to go. I was starting to
get going, ready to take itoff. Oh my gosh. Well,
just give me your number on theside, and you know that's the only
fans. But thank you for thecaution. Wow, she wanted your personal

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number. Justina is calling from Detroitor from Detroit. I'm from Detroit,
but I'm out here in Lynn.And but I'm in Lynn. Okay.
Well, Santi said, that's unfortunatethat you Lynn is like Detroit, right,

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Yeah, she's familiar. All right, Justina, you've been living here
for how long? I think it'ssince November? Okay, since November.
I think that's a good enough time. Are you a single lady trying to
Yeah, I'm a single lady.You know, I'm into somebody that's you
know, probably in the same professionare better than me. I work in
healthcare. So yeah. But overall, you were telling four and what have

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you noticed about the guys here inthe Boston area. So a lot of
the guys, you know, theirgame is kind of like whack. Like
everybody is just kind of like notreally trying to impress anybody, which I
can understand. I'm from a colodcity too, so like sometimes people be
called but yeah, wow, whatif you have like if your girlfriend called
you and was like tell me likethe craziest story that you have from Boston

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where you were just like wow,like this is the game you're coming at
me with. What would you tellthem? What was the story? Okay,
So there's these there's like these threeguys that wanted to like, you
know, I'll hook up me,and they wanted to have like a magia,
but every single different guy had likea different reason why they wanted me
alone. So I was just likeI just didn't know what to do anymore.
And then one of the guys waslike, oh, I'm not talking

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to the two other guys, andI was like why and They're like,
well, they put me into likeinto a issue. So I was like,
I'm staying away from all three ofthem because as much as I am
a freak and I like exciting things, I'm not trying to get into no
trouble. So hold on, justkind of please let me just ask so
you would down at the same time, not just individually of course. Yeah,

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but then I found out, like, do what I'm doing math or
something, and I'm not into that, Like I'm a clean girlf Yeah,
I'm not really into that. Ifit was something else like maybe, but
not mass that's right, dropped mylife as well. Yeah, I drow
my line on everything. I mean, they could smoke a bliant with some
weed, definitely for sure, forsure. But then you yeah, well,
wow, that's that. I didn'tnot when I asked you for a

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crazy story. I didn't think thatyou were the crazy person. But that's
interesting. So but you did sayyou've kind of settled down. You're talking
to somebody now, Yeah, I'mtalking to a few guys in the area.
They all want to do the samething. They all want to hook
up, and I'm not really tryingto do that. I'm trying to get
some money, honey, like youto get paid for it. I'm trying

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to get some money, honey.I'm from d Troy. I'm from the
east side of the trit Baby.We all here indie screets, baby getting
this money. We're not out heredoing nothing for free. All right.
Well, if anybody is looking topay Justina, I guess and some friends
the time, then you know,but no meth. We're down, but

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no mess. Justina, thank youfor this. This is a good insight.
You're so welcome. I have agood one. Welcome to the city.
You two bye, okay bye,I like, are we know?
We are fine? She was gonnasay this one dude, you know,
hit me up and says, Idon't know, not that she was looking

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for. She was mad because shewanted to four him. She was mad
that the other guys were kind oftrying to separate, and lets they try
to do it individual. She wasmad. Yeah, and then the meth
is where you draw the line.I mean, come on, man,
yeah, I mean she has apoint with the meth. Six one seven
nine three one one four five sixone seven nine three one one nine four
five. Dating love relationships in twentytwenty four meth free day man. Everybody,

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Hi, good morning, it's actuallythe jam in morning said that you
know what? That is why welove ten or Tuesday because you certainly never
know. You should see my dmsright now. She is for the streets.
She listen. Everybody is into theirown thing. That's her. Yeah,
she likes, she likes what shelikes. And then shaming. But
we're judging for sure. I mean, you want to be with three guys
at once, that's a lot,a lot unless they do math like she

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has standards. She's only here fora fun time. She's back to Detroit
in a couple of months, that'sright. And she says it's a guy's
here are lame. They're not eveninto that. There's a few guys in
Lynn that are like, wait asecond, she's hitting up the wrong guys.
Alma is in Rhode Island. Hi, Almah, good morning, Good
morning. How's everybody going. We'regood, babe, how are you?

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I'm great? Diving like kids toschool? Okay, so they dropped them
off because I see what you wantto talk about. So I was a
little you know, sus that thekids are in the cubbet but they're not
anymore. All Right, So we'retalking dating a twenty twenty four. You
feel like you've been, you know, getting a certain something from guys,

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and it's shocking to you because they'resending you this specific thing and then wanting
to hang out after. I thinkit's like where do they get the bravery
to send these pictures and everything likethat? Like I've never been one to
send like, you know, nakedpicture or anything like that, but like
they're so bold this year, andit really is the younger crowd. It
really is so specifically the younger crowdis sending you penis pictures and it's not

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they look like little red hot sausages. It's gross. You know, It's
like, am I supposed to getexcited at that? Or like what do
nothing with that? Yeah? Theylucky. I'm not sitting there sending little

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pictures of Vanna sausages to them.Oh my god. Listen. I've said
it before and I'll say it again. I don't know who wants poenis pictures.
I don't know who these people are. I don't certainly not unsolicited.
But yeah, if they're not,if the picture isn't holding up to you
know, what they're saying should itbe so sad because I'd be so disappointed.

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I'm like, can that's what yourback? You know? I was
gonna ask if they're asking to hangout after the picts are sent, doesn't
that mean you're still engaging with them? You should just diet it right once
you get that little frank you allI can think about her those little apps
that people send the I feel badthough, because maybe they were sending that

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just to get it out of theway and be like, hey, if
this goes further, like this isyou know what I have. I've never
understood that move. I'm not oneof those dudes. I'm never I think
it's that the people don't understand.I think they're just showing what they have.
They aren't realizing the size of it. The only way you can send
one is if you have one.That I mean. I once got an

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unsolicited one and he put it nextto a Comcast remote to show that it
was longer, like there was girththere. So I now that it's like
I didn't like it, but thatwasn't a little frank. Yeah. Also,
let it be known we don't needa Comcast remote shout out to an
average penis like average size. Idon't this, this is real life.

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Okay, you are a man driving, you have an average sized egg plant,
exactly, are welcome? Good foryou. Dashing show with DJ feign
It saw taking Morning Bustin's number onefor hip hop jam in ninety four or
five. Obviously my night was takenover by the internet thinking that I pooped

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myself and would have the audacity topost it. It was me dropping my
protein shake to be specific, atAshley Feldman tweeze on the Ashley people are
going to check it out and they'relike, well, now I know what
it is, even though was like, now I know what it is,
so I'm seeing it differently. ButI wonder if I saw it just clicking
through. I mean, it's thepants for a very second. You can
understand why people thought that you hadan accident. I said this earlier,

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and this is you know, thisis the true statement. I would rather
be dead than post me pooping onsocial media. I don't. I don't
do that, so it would beI don't know, like I'm not going
to pick nits. But there wasone time I've heard you in your entire
life mentioned poop in confirment. Butbesides that, you avoid that topic and

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confirming the fact that girls poop andfart. Yeah, if anybody ever heard
me tell that specific story, itwas from years ago. I lied to
make you laugh that day because youwere down. That was honest, too
real, and it's the funniestory I'veever heard. Well, moving on the
fireman, I was telling him aboutit. I'm like, yeah, now
the internet thinks I'm out here justpooping myself and posting about it, which

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is crazy. And I sent himan article and I was like, you
know what, this just is fittingfor the day. Looks like our relationship
won't last. And it was anarticle that said science says couples that fart
together are happier, healthier, instate together longer. We have had this

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conversation on the show before, andpeople have called in and people are disgusting
and sickening, and they can dowhat they want to do in the privacy
of their own home. You're nevergoing to catch me doing that. You
will never ever ever catch me doingthat, I know. But you realize
that it's not really about to act. It's more symbolic. It's it's it's
the fact that people look comfortable andwe're humble. That's why it's fine.

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So I'm not humble because I don'trip farts. Yeah, you're still protecting
something. And I don't understand whythis is the man you're going to spend
the rest of your life with,right, I mean, yeah, I
married him, okay, so whynot be comfortable enough to he He doesn't
need to like because that is unattractive. There's nothing about that that's like gonna
do anything for me or for ourrelationship. But I'm sorry, I'm not

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Joanne who poops with the door open, like that's not for me, So
that's not I will say that weare not the Norman. Like she walks
around she far sometimes I walk toa clod, I'm like, Jesus,
what did you eat? I'm veryopen with it. Now. I've also
realized it's trickled down to our family, where pretty much five out of the
six people in our household like openlyfar and think it's funny. So yeah,

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so it's become a problem, butit's also very comfortable. We're all
normal. No, I want thatman to always look at me and want
to ravish me, and he will. Now he will maybe in the second
that he smells that he will wantto, but because after that'll be fine.
He also, which I think peoplethink is even crazier, doesn't do
it in front of me. Therewas like a random time a month or

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so ago that he burped in frontof me and I was like, are
you okay? Really? Yeah?And he was like, oh god,
I forgot. I thought I wasat the firehouse. So you've never heard
the man fart sound wise? No, okay. One time, I want
to say, five years ago,we were in Oh my god, this
could be the divorce. We werein San Diego, and I'll never forget

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it because we were in an elevatorand we were getting ready to go out,
and all of a sudden it hitme and I was like, what,
Like, I no, I startedhaving like a convulsion in the in
the in the elevator because it wasa box and the smell was so bad.
And he starts dying and he's like, oh my god, I'm mortified.
He's like, I didn't think he'sjust dying. It was sh God,

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I died did that day in SanDiego? By the way, that
was like six years right, maybe, So No, I've never heard anything
nothing. Say, there was acouple that was together, right and one
of them was on the radio andthey're driving in a car for a long
time. What do they do ifthey're in the car hypothetically speaking, this
couple that does not exist, shedoesn't have the baby named Leyla, and
like all the stuff, what dothey do if they're in a car for

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a long time? They're just holdingit? Yeah, Jesus, the stomach
ache. Now do you know whatmakes it worse? No? I don't
know. And here's the thing.If you're listening and you're like somebody that's
just at home farting and going tothe bathroom with the door open in front
of your partner, I don't that'scool. I'm to do that, but
that's not for me. And ifthat, if science is gonna tell me
some these stupid articles that come out, please that we're not gonna last as

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long as you and Joanne, fine, I'll die on that grain really Yeah,
well there is I don't have evena thought desire anything. Nothing.
I don't like that is not hedoesn't Why would he need to hear that?
Like, that's I think he needsto hear. Just think something that
happens that yeah, should be okay, I think that's the whole point.
Maybe it shouldn't be though, maybeit shouldn't be okay. I will say

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that we do have a line likeat home, like there's a girl here
who goes to the bathroom or theboyfriend in the bathroom goes poop. I
think that's crazy, that's wild.That's like he'll be in the bathroom like
brushing his teeth while she's going tothe bathroom. Bath It's like that to
me is insane. Yeah, butI mean you the only difference is you
don't go in there, in there, Okay, that's a line. That's

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a line. Oh yeah, butit's right like you you guys are comfortable.
We are very comfortable. And likeagain I feel like seeing childbirth and
stuff like that, that's like comparedto farting, it's like that's ten thousand
times worse. So if I thinka farting one of the bathroom, that's
like nothing on average. Yeah,Like how many times a day is she
just is just like an everyday thing? Is she going to the bathroomarting in

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front of you? Is that everyday? I'm sure it's an every day
thing. It's just so just numbto it. Now that I even think
about it, I openly do it. Have you never thought to yourself like,
oh my god, like that smellcan come out of her like that?
Are astonished? There have been timesI've asked, like, are you
sick? That something breaking there?Yeah, it's like gas and poison.
That's what I'm saying. I wouldrather die. I would look at goodbye

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see a six one seven nine threeone one nine four five. You guys
are already calling probably the yell atme. I don't care straight up now,
simmy me baby, Hi, everybodyin morning, It's Ashley and the
Jam in the Morning show. Umm. I posted a picture of me yesterday
covered in protein because I dropped myblender with my protein shake. And when

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I tell you, guys, Igot twenty five plus messages from people thinking
that I would have the audacity topoop myself and post about it. People
really thought that I was like sickor something and did that, And hey,
look at me, I pooped myself. Guys. I'll be dead before
that happens. Like I will bedead in the grave before that happens.

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Also, I think the most importantpart about this is to know that girls
don't poop, so I don't evenknow where the physically how that could happen.
But anyways, there was this studythat came out saying, if you,
you know, poop and fart infront of your partner, your your
relationship is gonna last long or coolshaved two three years off mine. I'm
serious, Like, I don't that'sit. I will never. Now you

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used to. That's weird because girlsdon't poop, but I guess you used
to. Yeah, Like I wasjust saying, like in my past relationships,
especially with like the ones being fromAmerica, it's normal, Like I'm
in the bathroom, I'm on thetoilet. My ex wants to come in
brush his teeth. I'm like,really, I'm in the shower. You
want to come in and take aship going on? Like who's in America?

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I think she's saying that the Americanboyfriends are okay with going to the
bathroom. Let let's go back.You were basically saying that the other guys
used to date would come into theyou know, bathroom while you were showering.
They would use the toilet like justcomfortable literally what ever, just whatever,
we're in the bathroom together, likehe'll stand at the door while I'm

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on the toilet pooping like crazy,crazy, wanting to have a conversation.
Yep. But now my current boyfriendbeing like straight from Jamaica, I'm not
doing that. I am not ripping. But in front of this man,
I'm not even gonna burn. There'sno way I'm not gonna have him like,
oh this American girl is discuss Nope, Nope, not gonna happen.
Wow. So okay, just itdepends on who you're with. Now,

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does does your Jamaican boyfriend do thatstuff in front of you? No,
I've never heard him ever pass gaslike yeah, and that's what makes me
even more scared about it. Butat the same time, he is the
type that's like he'll maybe I'm inthe shower, he'll brush his teeth,
but that's like that's it, Yeah, bathroom, I don't even I don't

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even find I mean, I'll bein the shower and the fireman will like
open the door and have a fullon conversation with me while brushing your teeth.
That is not like we're gonna no, there's no bodily fluid things happening
now. Yeah, But when we'rewhen we're releasing seeing the stuff from the
other end. Yeah, I knowyou. I'm not. He's not catching
that. He's not thank you forthe call. That's funny. Depending on
who she's with us or she usedto poop, she don't anymore. I

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will say that Dominicans have a weirdthing with like not burking it and farting
and like all that stuff. Theydon't even talk about it. Like my
dad never you would. You wouldn'tbe caught dead him talking about her and
doing anything. So what happened toyou is I was raised with white people.
Say and the jam In Morning Showwith d J four and it's saut
morning. Bustin's number one for hiphop. He am in ninety four or

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five. Hi, everybody, goodmorning. I want to check in with
you. I want to see what'sgoing on. Six one seven nine three
one one nine four five calls rightnow to talk about whatever you want?
Coco? Is it Lawrence? Hi, Coco, good morning, Good morning,
Good morning. What's going on?How are we doing? I'm going

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I'm on my way to work rightnow. All right, where's work?
I'm in Tilsbury? All right?Well, what are you call them for?
What can I do for you.Yeah, I'm just trying to give
a shout out. So the loveof my life, Matzi. You already
know I love her and I wantto get u. Shout out to my
boys up in Middleton, up inShirley, up and god now I want
to go to side at obam andpeople are never coming home, and I

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shout out to y'all. It's alwayskeeping me up in early with the ninety
four five. Well a lot,there's lots of cover here. Shout out
to your lovely lady. We alllove her. Thank you don't know,
worry, but she sounds nice.Uh. You got friends in Shirley,
that's tough. If they're in Shirley, they're yeah, we're probably not going
to see them, you know,like with any freedom anymore. So that's
tough. Yeah. Yeah, can'tyou can't be making these mistakes that send

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you to Shirley. That's tough.Yeah. Yeah, you know I've been
there, so I know what itis. I know the struggle. Okay,
you've been to Shirley. Yeah,I just came home, so you
know, I'm just you know,being real with minds on this side,
you know, that day, tryingto stay on the positive vibe. You
know you made a mistake. Youneed to pay your time. Guess what,

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we can't make another mistake. Yougot to keep your head down,
do what you need to do,go to work, be at home with
your lady. We don't need anymore mistakes. Yeah, I just wanted
to show you, all right,all right, Coco, Well thank you
for that. Shirley's Yeah, surely, Scar wasn't sure it was. And
even when you drive by you canjust sense the heaviness on the town.
It's not a good thing, man. Yeah. Well, listen, he's

(27:27):
out, he's out, and hehe like he said, he made a
mistake. People make mistakes. I'mfine if we've learned from it and we're
doing the right things. Absolutely,Okay. Elizabeth is in Wooster, all
right, so you're out. We'regoing to try to cut you short.
Well, way to work, allright, make it short then, Lizzy

(27:47):
light, So let's say it.I was about I think I was about
five and a half months pregnant becausemy baby was born in November. So
I was out visiting some family inOhio, some friends and family. It
was our godson's my my That partdoesn't matter, okay, I don't need

(28:11):
to know who sisters cousin's mom's party. I don't know. I'm sorry,
Okay. So we go to wego to Walmart. We're getting a couple
of things because we need whatever.So this I'm in a random aisle and
a lady stops me. She's likea Hispanic lady. She's like wow,
She's like, I'm getting this alot of energy from you, like a

(28:34):
lot a lot of energy. She'slike, can I read? Can I
like read your hand? Can Igive you a reading? And I'm like
what, Like I was like freakedout. So I'm like no, like
I don't, I don't have She'sshe's like, I'm getting so much energy
from you. You you have somebodyreally close to you that just doesn't want

(28:56):
what's good for you, doesn't wantwhat's best for you. And I'm like,
listen, lady, like I'm pregnantright now. You're like yeah,
yeah, I don't like this.Yeah. So I'm like no, Like
I'm good. I'm good. She'slike she's like it starts kind of talking
to me, spanishing we got back, we got there, like take care

(29:17):
of yourself, take care And I'mlike whoa, Like I was freaked out.
So I was. I always wantedto like post this on facetucking say
like what would you guys have done? Like, well, let me ask
you something. Did anything come tofruition? Did? Did? Did you
end up later in light like laterafter she told you that finding out that
somebody was trying to do you dirty? I mean, well, a lot
of has happened, but have youspecifically found out that there was somebody that

(29:41):
did not want the best for you? Honest to god, she's probably talking
about the baby because mine terrorizes meevery single day every day. Yeah,
yeah, she's a collar. Yep, she totally up. That is very
strange. I don't know if somebodycame up. I'm not big into that.
So I think if somebody stopped onthe street was hey, can I
read you? Probably I probably wouldhave said no, but yeah that's I

(30:07):
did do it, and you know, so she would have told me a
lot that I didn't know. Yeah, well again, did you change?
Did you find one person in yourlife though that didn't want the best for
you? Or No? No,I don't think. I don't you know,
you never really truly know you knowwhat it's it's a it's something we

(30:27):
have to live with in life.We never will know. Well, listen
to Elizabeth, I let you gobecause I know you wanted to cut it
short. So thank you. Ohdamn, all right, well, good
luck, babe, Thanks, thankyou bye. Want the best fall.
That's her fault. There's nothing betterthan someone telling me that they have to

(30:48):
keep the story short. Then we'refinding out whose party she was going through.
Then she was like, I wasat Walmart. So Walmart is this
store that has a lot of items. I was in Aisle twelve? Is
everybody again? All right, guys, A lot of you were on hold,
don't go anywhere six one seven nine, three one five six one seven
nine. You want to say?What up? We're checking in only on

(31:11):
Jamming. Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning Sashion, Jim. We're
checking in on Yeah. How areyou? What's up? What's going on?
Uh? John is in Boston?Hi? John? How you doing?
You know what's crazy? I hadjust mentioned this earlier in the week
that it it's obviously on my mindthat every time the fireman goes to work

(31:33):
and goes to the firehouse he justcomplains about me. That'd be like my
worst figure. And here you arecalling to tell me that every time you
and your guys get together, everybody'sjust venting about their ladies. Oh,
he's definitely talking about you, youknow what, John? Stop? Okay,
tell me the top three complaints thatyou hear from your buddies about their

(31:55):
wives or their girlfriends. Like,what are the top three things people are
saying? Only three? Oh?My god, I give me five.
H I don't even know where tostart. To be honest, is when
you got If you don't smoke andyour girl smokes, that's an issue that
person needs to grow up. Like, what what do you mean? You

(32:17):
see? Look, you already makingme unhappy? Or cigarettes? Wait till
it's just the guys on the line, it's over for you. No,
it's not all right. Sorry,I'm trying to get situated here in my
chair smoking smoking the weed or smokingcigarettes either one. Now, okay,
if you're smoking SIGs, there's wegot to rethink like life decisions here.

(32:40):
That's that's number one, all right? So fine, if one person smokes
the other one doesn't. What else? Driving the issues with the cars?
You guys do not let us knowuntil it's too late. I want to
take a left ballot. I leftI'm going to the mechanic to figure I
was wrong with the car. It'slike too late to okay, It's like

(33:05):
it's not even Oh I got alight on it. It looks like a
Christmas tree. What else? Thirdof all the drinking, women that drinks,
Oh yeah, I could, Icould understand that there was a complaint
about me. Is that I wouldn'tI wouldn't even find it. Some of
the ladies are drinking and getting alittle wild. Oh wow, there's no

(33:28):
such thing as going out anymore andbuying a girl of drink and having her
be nice, like women drink morethan men. Now. Yeah, Well,
because y'all make us at everything isyou guys make us do this?
Yeah, because you do. Honestly, you're pissing me off. What else?

(33:51):
What else? What else do you? By the way, we've already
been through like three or four complaintsand there's no like sexual complaints. Yeah,
there's no deal breakers here that areworth breaking up over. Yes,
for you guys. What one?She didn't take the card of mechanic in
time? Like stop you you guysmake that choice. It's not even that.

(34:15):
It's like if I've seen women drivingon flat tires and acting like they
don't have no idea what's going on, because they probably don't. You can't
divorce somebody over that. But thesmoking thing, bro, the smoking thing,
you already knew she was a smoker, So you can't complain that she's
a smoker if you've got with herwhen she was smoking. No, No,
that's not what I'm saying. I'mjust saying like this, this regular
smoking in this smoking and if theydon't get ten, they don't get weeds

(34:37):
for an hour. The attitude thatcomes out of a woman that's not doesn't.
Yeah, marry pead addiction because that'scrazy. Once an hour smoking the
weeds, y'all. Y'all all addicted. If they smoke, they all addicted.
This guy, John, do youdo you have a girl? Yeah?

(35:00):
I do so bad for her.She can't do anything, she can't
do anything. Okay, right now, if you had to say you had
to pick one thing, you canonly change one thing about your girl,
what would you What would be thenumber one thing you would change her?

(35:20):
No, for the love of God, John, I'm praying for her.
I'm just I'm just waiting. I'mjust now. If I could change something
about it one thing. Honestly,I don't even know. It's like at
this point, it's like you gottadeal with whatever you know we got,
especially you got kids, man,I got I got multiple baby mama fish.

(35:47):
I don't think the issue with agirl like maybe you're the problem,
John, check out yourself in themirror. I'm never the problem. But
what I'm saying is like I havea group chat a bunch of my friends.
It's probably like ten or fifteen ofus on there, and there's not
a day that goes by that wedon't get in the group chat. And
it starts off with someone being miserableat home. Yeah, if any chance

(36:10):
later in the day you slide mynumber to your girl, I want to
talk to her. You know,I need to hear her side because I'm
sure, I'm sure she could tellme some things about you too that I
could cheot off in a group chat. Never Yeah, okay, I can
name five things, John, Tellher to call me, please, I'll

(36:31):
try. Bye. Oh my god. If I see her, I want
to be like, blink if youneed help, because that poor woman Nicole's
in Dorchester. He Nicolenkola, Iwas so close, Nikolay it actually says
Nikolay, that's my bad. Afterthat call, I'm happy that you want

(36:52):
to spread some of these things.Go on. I just want to say,
you know, if peace, loveand blessings, everybody have its commute,
you know, take it one dayat a time. You know a
lot of people that go through alot of stuff in life. But you
know, maybe let's take it oneminute at a time and you just figure
it out and it's live in amoment and soaking everything. And it's like

(37:13):
I saw this thing on Instagram andit's play. She's like, let's go
right through it with Angelina and Jolie. Yep, we're right to it.
Keep your head up and never letyour crown tip and you make it through.
You know, let's be safe,keep it cool and go from zero
to one hundred, and let's keepit at fifty fifty watching them zero becoming
artists. Okay, all right,one day at a time, Nikola,

(37:36):
thank you for that wise words.Very is it? Is it? I
mean that it's not you like JohnJohn. John would get beat up in
my group chat if he was theboyfriend to any of my friends. That
poor girl. You know, weneed to take it one step at a

(37:57):
Time, John's Girlfriend One Step ata Time on You Stay STROMP, What's
Up? Ashley and the jam InMorning Show with DJ Florin and Santy.
Here we go. It's Tinder Tuesdayon Boston's number one for hip hop and
the best throwbacks jam at eighty fourfive. My Babe's good morning. We're
gonna do Tender Tuesday right here.We're talking dating, love relationships, the

(38:22):
lack thereof. You can call andcomplain about being single. You can call
and tell me you're in a relationshipand you need some advice. You could
tell me about something wild you sawon Tinder. Anything you want that involves
dating, love relationships. We're gonnado it right here. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four fivesix one seven nine three one one nine
four five. We're gonna kick itoff with d D. So you have

(38:45):
a very interesting profession. We don'thear from often. What's up? What
do you do? So? Idid? Did? I no longer?
Remember? So? All right?So I was a madam for a gentleman
ring. It was like a cougarring. I called it, and I
was on the show a while back. I don't know if anybody remembers,
but I had sampled the product oneof my guys and fell in love.

(39:08):
We had a baby. Fast forward. Haven't talked to him in a while.
It's been about three months since Ihad contact with this man, okay,
And all of a sudden, Ihad a visit with his mom with
the baby, and he all ofa sudden has all these emergencies at his
house. He needs to come byright now. Mind you, this is
after probably finding out that I hada visit, So like, why,

(39:30):
I know it's tender Tuesday, SoI'm like, why even show up now?
With the point? You know whatI mean? Well, let's backtrack
and just so everybody understands what definesmadam. So basically what I was doing,
I would arrange dates for older womenthat needed like company or I don't
know, it was a range ofreasons, like they want to go to
an event and they don't have adate, or they're lonely, or they

(39:52):
have a birthday party with all theirother older women, and I would rent
out my people and they would havea good time with them. You one
of the people you would rent outended up falling in love with yeah,
so yeah, okay, and thenyou guys, go on to have a

(40:13):
baby after you told him, afterwe told him, Hey, I'm pregnant,
I'm having this baby. Is thatwhen he kind of left and erased
himself from the picture. No,so all the events in between. We
were together for two and a halfyears. Wow, So he obviously we
ended, we stopped the ring becausehe wasn't comfortable with all of that.

(40:35):
He didn't go on any dates likehe just I don't know. It was
just a whole mess, lots ofmoney lost. Still upset about that,
but right, yeah, yeah,but so fast forward even more makes it
through the whole couple of years.Families involved kids, my kid, my
other kids, involved, his kids, involved, whole family thing. But
then probably like five months after thebaby's born, six months, we just

(40:57):
like it wasn't working out. Webroke up, but slowly but surely he
crept out of the baby's life,and then he just left. I don't
know. So I haven't seen himin three months and we don't talk.
He creeps on all my social media. I get notifications every time. I'm
just like, if you can pickup your phone and text my name to
search me on the internet. Idon't understand why you can't just pick up
your phone and say, hey Iwant to see the baby, or hey
I missed you whatever. The reasonis just really quick out of curiosity.

(41:21):
Is there an app for that whereyou can like see if someone's looking at
your stuff? Oh no, it'sit's like Snapchat will say, we'll say
who's viewing your profile? Jesus whenI tell you you just put Santi Diulio
into cardiac arrest. But anyways,A right, So then you ended up
hanging out with his mother. Great, Yeah, she's great. So she's

(41:43):
been active, she's always wanted tosee the baby, so we have frequent
visits. Really got it, okay, And he must have found out about
that some way, somehouse, sohe's trying to creep back in, That's
what I'm thinking. But like,why you know what I'm saying, or
why do we hard way? I'mgonna be honest with you. The thought
of somebody not wanting to spend timeand see a five month old baby like

(42:06):
sickens me to the core. Idon't even know how it's physically possible.
Ddie. That man is for thestreets and that's where he belonged. Well,
yeah, and that he should staythere because I look where we met,
right, Yeah, well hey,let me ask you something when you're
with Grandmam, just out of curiosity. Does Nana ever bad mouth him?
Or does he not get brought up? Because no, we honestly we don't

(42:28):
even talk about it. It's noteven a thing. So she, like
I said, she's amazing. Sheliterally like that, wants to see the
baby. Me and her have agreat relationship. She's hilarious. So it's
really all love there. Good doeshe Does he support you financially? No?
I don't ask for anything from anybody. Do you want to be with
this guy? No. For along time I did, and I was

(42:50):
like, oh, well maybe he'llturn around. Maybe he'll turn around.
But I'm just not set up theway to like prep not prep myself or
forever. Really, so I hadall these options in my head already to
to when I as soon as Igot bring it, I knew, like
I'll probably prepping myself to be asingle mother. You know what I mean.
That's just terrible. I'm sorry,that's that makes me sad. I
mean, obviously it makes me sadfor you, but it makes me sad

(43:10):
for that little baby because that's crazy. Now, say he comes to you
today, say somebody hits him upand says, DEDE was on GYMN ninety
four or five and it was sadand that baby deserves to, you know,
have father in her life and whatever. And he reaches out to you
and says, I want to startbeing a dad again. I want to
consistently see the baby. Would youallow that? I'm telling you right now,

(43:32):
if he hits me up today,it's not going to be anything friendly
like that. He's gonna be fad. Well, listen, maybe he should
show up for his kid. Welived down the street. That's what the
first part is. He literally pulledthe street. Yeah, that's what I
mean. So I hope somebody doesbecause I'm not going to reach out.
I won't break the silence. That'slike medicine to a narcissist. You got
me whole mess up. Wow,Hey Gdi, Just since I have you

(43:54):
on here and you know, theMadam life if fascinates me, it really
does. Could you tell us astory, like a wild story about the
Madam life, like your craziest storythat you can think of? Oh my
god, my favorite one. Allright, So there was this woman who
had called and she was hosting likea birthday event. So she basically wanted

(44:15):
four guys to just walk around herpool and just like serve her and her
friend's food and drink in like themost scandalous outfit you have ever heard?
Oh and how much would something likethat run her? So four guys for
let's just how many hours at herbirthday party? How much was something like

(44:37):
that cost? So the event startedat six and she didn't have an ending
time, so we left her tohave open But realistically, we have to
do numbers by each person what eachperson does, So it really is it's
like hard to ballpark that. Okay, So two of the four ended up
sleeping with two of the women,so of course that's enough charge, of

(44:57):
course, and then you know whatI'm saying, but like, yeah,
it was, It's very strange.It's hard to you know, age,
Yeah, how did you get intothat life? Who wouldn't? Like I
just I always had a ton ofguy friends, and then we would always
make jokes about cougars, like everybodyalways had a crush on somebody's mom,
have you You know what I mean? So then i started I'm like,
oh my god, this could makelike great. I started getting interested,

(45:22):
I started dibble dabbling a little bit, doing some research, and then I
happen to work in a field whereI am surrounded by older women who always
complain about their husbands or just beingalone or making somebody jealous, or going
on dates with younger men. Andthe sugar baby sugar daddy thing is huge,
massive, but alone that time whenI started it, so I just
I don't know. Somehow I endedup being really good at it, and

(45:43):
people old women love me, sothey trust me and stuff and so,
oh my guys, they're pretty effectiveout of curiosity, if say foreign and
Santee run your roster different pricing onan up charge for sexuals or the sex
is one certain charge arch I justfeel like that's a lot of these heils
on the radio. I'm sorry,How do you avoid the legal the legal

(46:08):
part of this whole thing? Realistically, there's nothing wrong with somebody wanting to
get a young man that she sleepswith. There's nothing wrong, there's nothing
illegal there. If you put itin a contract, I'm writing something down
that hey, I'm going to sleepwith you for money, You're probably gonna
get in trouble. Yeah, okay, it's gifts. I of course Santy

(46:30):
wants to know that type of stuffbecause he's probably gonna call nine one one
when we hang up with you.You won't Why has he never been to
Hollis. I'm fine, No,it's not my problem anymore. He made
me stop. Maybe that's why Istarted calling after I quit. That's right.
Well listen, Dde. Either way, like I said, I always
think about the baby in this situation. So I hope, I hope he

(46:51):
wakes wakes up and opens opens hiseyes at some point and and gets back
in the kid's life. Yeah,he knows he can show up whenever he
wants, as long as he swingsme in saxon, Come, hey,
I want to see the baby.Okay, I'm right down the street.
I'm not difficult at all. Idon't ask for anything. I'm not gonna
push anybody. That's just not outset up. And he knows that there's
an open door right there for him. All right, Ddie, Well listen,
thanks for the call, and thanksfor answering my questions. Of course,

(47:12):
a good one. Appreciate you,babe. It's fascinating. No,
I could ask her a thousand questions. Fascinating because the word like you think
about the word madam, and it'sjust like I picture her sitting on a
throne in her home and just running. Gives me dominatrid Vie does. And
she's always wearing like a lingerie typeget up right when she's taking the calls

(47:34):
and scheduling the guys, like arobe maybe yeah, something sexy. Yeah
yeah, we don't have time todo anybody else. Okay, it could
be quick. Okay, we're playinga song, all right, Unique,
hold on the line. We're gonnavery quickly play a quick song and they're
gonna come back and talk to youreally quick, especially because she helps.
Okay, Unique, we'll be rightwith you. Guys, don't go anywhere.

(47:57):
It's ten or Tuesday. Misteak Hibabes, good morning. It is
Ashley and the gam In Morning Show. Wow. I want to be a
madam. No you don't. Idon't know, right, it's a lot
of work. I don't want to. But the lifestyle does fascinate me.
It's all gifts. They're gifts.Yeah yeah, buy somebody and I want

(48:19):
to gift you, like some moneyfor it illegal how much did you gift
me? Oh? It depends whatyou throw down. That probably a lot
for the good. You can dosome things. I'm not a madam.
Okay, unique is in Cambridge.Unique things for holding for us. Good
morning, good morning. All right. So you're in a very different situation.

(48:45):
You have a boyfriend that you are, you know, trying to part
ways with let's just say, buthe lives with you, and obviously that's
going to create a little bit ofcomplications. Yes, so we live together
and I'm just outgrown him. Hehasn't elevated at all, and I'm just

(49:09):
not that person to be like likeget out my house, Like I don't
know what to do. I havelove for him. He he financially,
you know, takes the bills mostof them, but the relationship is just
is not there anymore. The chemistryis not there anymore. If he when

(49:30):
he leaves, will you be financiallystable on your own? Will you be
okay, I'll make it, wearit out last. I only ask because
to me, that means you reallyare done with this relationship. If you're
like, hey, I don't evenknow what I'm gonna do, but I'm
gonna figure it out, because thisisn't for me, is it? His
house or yours? Will he needto leave or will you have to leave
it's my house? Okay, listen, I feel like at the end of

(49:52):
the day, no matter what,whether you know it's the time, you're
not sure, breakups are hard andit's hard to do you never I want
to hurt somebody's feelings, right,how long have you all been together?
Three years? Yeah? Like that'sa long time, and you know I
don't. I don't nobody's actively tryingto hurt anybody's feelings. But the bottom
line is the longer you prolong this, the more you are hurting him.

(50:15):
Like cut ties with him so hecan move on with his life and you
can move on with yours. ButI don't know, guys, what would
you want to hear from a womanwho was breaking up with you. There's
no ideal way, but just thetruth, Just the truth I want to
hear from the guys. Yeah,what would you guys? See you know,
well they're idiots, but here yougo. Yeah, well, I
just want to hear that like youwere holding me back to potentially finding love

(50:35):
once you break up with me.I want to see the light at the
end of the tunnel. But I'mnot looking for love and for me personally
selfishly, like tell me of breakingup with me because you want me to
go find love. Breakups ain't easy, but yeah, tell me the truth
though, Don't beat around the bush. Just be like, hey, look,
it's not working out. It's gonnahurt, but it's not working out.
You needs to go. So whatif I've said this, like,

(50:59):
listen, you know it's not workingout. I need my space. I
have a bigger I have like asixth bedroom, So like I asked him,
like, you know, go sleepin the other bedroom. If that
has already happened and we're like basicallyroommates at this point, wouldn't you as
a man be like, all right, let me move on. That's what

(51:19):
you would hope for. But maybehe maybe he still loves you in that
way and he's holding on to hope. That's not there. You got to
kill the hope. Do you stilldo for him though, Like do you
do stuff for him, laundry,cloak anything, Yeah, that's my that's
my instant. Like it's just it'snatural, it's not it's not something I
do on purpose. Yeah, Likeyou have to stop doing for that man?

(51:45):
So he sees that there's nothing therekicking him out. He's got a
big ass house to live in,and you're doing everything for him. Well,
man, want to do that andhe can still go outside and do
whatever he wants. Nah, stopdoing that. Make it uncomfortable for him.
That's crazy. He needs to getthe hen come on handsome. Yeah.
Yeah. My brother's like, I'mnot getting any and I can tell
he's like, yeah, I staywith your brother on that. That's he

(52:07):
doesn't listen. He's trying to justhave a nice home. But yeah,
I think I think you have tostop doing that stuff. But I also
think you just just need to tellhim. I mean, we're all adults
here, and I just you know, hey, you need to find somewhere
else, Like this just isn't workingout for me. The last thing you
want to be is uncomfortable in yourown home, you know, right?
Absolutely? Absolutely? Well, thankyou guys. I do appreciate everybody's a

(52:27):
team and that's what I called for. Yeah, well, listen, good
luck because no one's trying to breakup on a Tuesday. That's going to
be a tough day for him.Okay, let's taco Tuesdays. So maybe
you're right. You know what,dump him and then get yourself some guawk.
Baby. I like the attitude andthe jam in morning show with DJ
Fourn. It's so Mornington's number onefor hip hop jam in ninety four or

(52:50):
five? What up Scott DJ Forren, Yes, sir, holding down for
the squad. It was fun hangingout with on this Tuesday. A big
shout. I tell everybody that tippedin what it was through the phone on
social of course, even on thetalkbacks. Yes, the talkbacks are old
as open. By the way.You can hit those up on that Freeheart
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(53:15):
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on the phone line, but yeah, big shout out. Tell everybody that
tapped in on this Tuesday as always. Yes, aside from the talk back,
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(53:38):
That's at DJ the number four EG n I'll be back later on
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surviving the nighttime new music and anythinglike that. But otherwise, enjoy the
rest of your day, and Ihope it gets a little warm out here,
but enjoy it. And my songonna be out in the city doing
some things. We might bump intoeach other, we don't know, right

(54:00):
yeah, be blessed dream is upnext right here, and Jamin A four five