November 12, 2024 • 8 mins
Santi's in his feelings about he and JoAnne's work-life balance.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sadly and the jam In Morning Show with DJ Foreurn.
It's Saw Take Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Cousin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four
or five. Hi, everybody, good morning, just says a reminder.
DJ Forn is away. He's in Miami, probably on his
cruise at this point.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean, I feel like we could figure out what
day the cruise left if we look online.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
He said it was like a three or four day. Yeah,
he's with some female. We have no idea who, So
he could.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Be in the Atlantic right now after we speak.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
I want that female to know when she gets back
from this cruise. Like, we keep secrets sometimes, so if
she ever wants to tell us who she is, what
her name is, what her occupation is, what her ages,
what her Social Security number is, like that's all we need.
I just need like a few crumbs and I'll take
it from there.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
There's also people out there who probably know her. To
know of their relationship to I mean, we couldn't just.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Some info, just a guys anything, just to know that
he's dating something would take somebody being like ash, I
saw all foreign at the market basket with a female. Cool.
I'll take that. So what did she look like, what
was he calling her? Was he saying her name? Or
was he saying baby? These are the things I need
to know.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
But we'll never find these things out, No, we won't.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
So Thorn's out. AJ is also out. AJ is not
doing anything. She We tried to get her to do
something fun, but she didn't want to, so she's probably
asleep right now.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
She's watching her cats.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Her cat died, nice though, that's real nice Jewels, thanks
for the thanks for the addition there. We can't even
call her a sad cat lady anymore.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
They're all dead. He thank god she's not here.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
So anyways, that lovely voice you just heard was Jewels
holding it down for foreorren. So if you call, that's
what you're gonna hear on the phone. Santi is trying
to do a thousand things. And I actually text you
yesterday after the show and I was like, I love you.
You're doing a great job. You know, you're doing a
million things. I thought you didn't, you know, I mean
about ten mistakes yesterday, but who's.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Counting, yeah, yesterday.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We're on THENT today so far, but it's weird because.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
We're just out of our rhythm absolutely and I feel
like completely like crazy at the moment, my mind is
in different places.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I don't love it.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't love that because I feel like I can't
have a real conversation, be like even right there, we
were trying to decide we were going to talk about,
and he threw seven things at me, you guys, and
then he finally goes and then also you know, I'm like.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
A little bit upset with Joanne.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Oh yeah, but I in a normal day, I feel
like I would already know about this, but I don't
because you're trying to do so many things in here.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
But now I need to know.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Because I originally wanted to play Dave Portnoy's country ditty
disc track, but this is of more interest to me.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Why are you mad? A joannam on her side, the word.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Mad is probably not a good word to use. I
feel a type of way is probably the better, like analogy.
So our lives are very busy, between the kids and
both of our careers, we're super busy.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Now.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I try to make it a point to tell how
much I appreciate her and helping me out with everything.
Now she's busy as well. Now when she complains about
her job or her busy schedule. She always throws the
kids in there as like, you know, I feel bad
for them because they don't get to spend as much
time with me. I don't get to pay as much
attention to them, And it's always like the kids. She
never says like, you know, my husband doesn't get all
(03:28):
of me or any aspect like that.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Now.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I know I'm being kind of a baby about this,
but there's something about like not being included in that
life of hers that she talks about that's missing out
that is that bothers me, and I want to maybe
say something to her, but I also don't want her
to be like, well, you're missing the entire point.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Of it all?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Are you missing the entire point of it all?
Speaker 3 (03:46):
No, because I truly understand I'm not putting myself in
front of the kids at all at all, but I do.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I mean, I don't know if anybody listening feels that,
but I that's kind of what I You just want
to be like with them.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I just want to be acknowledged that I also don't
get the full attention from her because she's so busy,
and that's just a little bit of like, hey, I
know you deal with when I'm busy and I'm crazy
and all this stuff.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Thank you and listen.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
I think that she should take it as a compliment
that you want that you're like wanting her time. You know.
I know we've talked about this. I think I have
absolutely had to send a text to the fireman in
the last couple months to just say, like, you know,
you're my best friend and I love you, and I
know that this isn't like the part of our lives
(04:33):
where everything is about us and I feel that and
I know that, so I you know, I see what
you're saying. But I also think you guys are kind
of at a place where you can carve out more
time for each other age wise with the kids.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yeah, and I think we are too. But I think,
like you know, at night, we spend our time doing
work and all this stuff. And I think I'm just
looking for an acknowledgment that she ap appreciates my support,
or at least some acknowledgement that I'm there.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Do you acknowledge her?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Absolutely? I absolutely do.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Any success that I have, whether it's this or anything else,
I think her, Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
What that's nuts.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
No, I definitely do, because I mean again, the balance
that we have in like in life is just because
it's working so well. It hasn't always been like this too.
We've gone through our ups and downs. I just feel
like I just want like a hug, like thank you
for all that you do.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Or you want her to say like, oh, I know,
I've been so busy and things are so crazy. I
wish I had more time for the kids and years.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yes, that's exactly it. That that would mean the world
to me, the world to me. And I also know
too she doesn't love the way that I do. She
doesn't like share her feelings as much as me and
all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
So yeah, Jules is an outsider to all this. I'm
assuming he doesn't listen to the show because he told
me that he doesn't wake up till eleven am. I know,
ladies disgusting as an outsider listening in. Do you hear
like a husband who just wants to be acknowledged? Do
you hear bitch boy like what are you?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Well?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Well, bitch boy definitely camped up.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Yeah, it was the in what sense, just.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
The way you're talking about it, just bit.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah I didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I think I said it a little bit nicer, but I, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Think some guys would hear that.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, and I know that, and I acknowledge that at
the same time too, if I have a certain need
in the relationship, then it's okay to ask that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
No thinking battle the thought of like, I'm a man,
I shouldn't have to hear that. But you're different and
at the same time, okay, and Joanne knows that about it, and.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Men feel this way. So you're trying to tell me, Jules,
and I'm so also just stomach this and deal with
this internally.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
No, I think you just need to get a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
But you know, well, we all think that Jules is
coming all right, because Jus doesn't avidly listen to this show,
and you guys do is this Santi being Santi or
does Santi actually have a point? I feel like Joanne,
if she heard that you felt this way, would be like,
oh my god, I like I I obviously meant yeah,
(07:00):
the kids. I feel like she would say that.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
So why not just communicate that to her?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Well, I think that's what I was thinking about on
the way in that I do need to communicate this
ord because it's been like a lot of just like
a couple of weeks of this whole thing just building out.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So and this is now, I'm really going to try
to decide what I think say to me, what you'll
say to her.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
So, Joanne, recently you've been talking about how your life
balance doesn't really allow time for the kids, and the
kids are always like the ones who take the brunt
of everything. It kind of bothers me a little bit
because I feel like I should be involved in that
in a sense, like just an acknowledgement that I also too,
am on that same page. I feel like it would
just make me feel better and make me know that
(07:39):
kind of you're happy and I'm doing the right things
for you, something like that.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Of the ID say, I know second part was a
little bit better, but I am maybe sensing bitch boy
as well. I'm not going to say it as aggressively
as Jules, because that was I know that man is
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
What are we sensing from our guy this morning? Because
Satchels made his opinion, Claire
Sadly and the jam In Morning Show with DJ Foreurn.
It's Saw Take Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Cousin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four
or five. Hi, everybody, good morning, just says a reminder.
DJ Forn is away. He's in Miami, probably on his
cruise at this point.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean, I feel like we could figure out what
day the cruise left if we look online.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
He said it was like a three or four day. Yeah,
he's with some female. We have no idea who, So
he could.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Be in the Atlantic right now after we speak.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
I want that female to know when she gets back
from this cruise. Like, we keep secrets sometimes, so if
she ever wants to tell us who she is, what
her name is, what her occupation is, what her ages,
what her Social Security number is, like that's all we need.
I just need like a few crumbs and I'll take
it from there.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
There's also people out there who probably know her. To
know of their relationship to I mean, we couldn't just.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Some info, just a guys anything, just to know that
he's dating something would take somebody being like ash, I
saw all foreign at the market basket with a female. Cool.
I'll take that. So what did she look like, what
was he calling her? Was he saying her name? Or
was he saying baby? These are the things I need
to know.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
But we'll never find these things out, No, we won't.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
So Thorn's out. AJ is also out. AJ is not
doing anything. She We tried to get her to do
something fun, but she didn't want to, so she's probably
asleep right now.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
She's watching her cats.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Her cat died, nice though, that's real nice Jewels, thanks
for the thanks for the addition there. We can't even
call her a sad cat lady anymore.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
They're all dead. He thank god she's not here.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
So anyways, that lovely voice you just heard was Jewels
holding it down for foreorren. So if you call, that's
what you're gonna hear on the phone. Santi is trying
to do a thousand things. And I actually text you
yesterday after the show and I was like, I love you.
You're doing a great job. You know, you're doing a
million things. I thought you didn't, you know, I mean
about ten mistakes yesterday, but who's.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Counting, yeah, yesterday.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We're on THENT today so far, but it's weird because.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
We're just out of our rhythm absolutely and I feel
like completely like crazy at the moment, my mind is
in different places.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I don't love it.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't love that because I feel like I can't
have a real conversation, be like even right there, we
were trying to decide we were going to talk about,
and he threw seven things at me, you guys, and
then he finally goes and then also you know, I'm like.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
A little bit upset with Joanne.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Oh yeah, but I in a normal day, I feel
like I would already know about this, but I don't
because you're trying to do so many things in here.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
But now I need to know.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Because I originally wanted to play Dave Portnoy's country ditty
disc track, but this is of more interest to me.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Why are you mad? A joannam on her side, the word.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Mad is probably not a good word to use. I
feel a type of way is probably the better, like analogy.
So our lives are very busy, between the kids and
both of our careers, we're super busy.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Now.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I try to make it a point to tell how
much I appreciate her and helping me out with everything.
Now she's busy as well. Now when she complains about
her job or her busy schedule. She always throws the
kids in there as like, you know, I feel bad
for them because they don't get to spend as much
time with me. I don't get to pay as much
attention to them, And it's always like the kids. She
never says like, you know, my husband doesn't get all
(03:28):
of me or any aspect like that.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Now.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I know I'm being kind of a baby about this,
but there's something about like not being included in that
life of hers that she talks about that's missing out
that is that bothers me, and I want to maybe
say something to her, but I also don't want her
to be like, well, you're missing the entire point.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Of it all?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Are you missing the entire point of it all?
Speaker 3 (03:46):
No, because I truly understand I'm not putting myself in
front of the kids at all at all, but I do.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
I mean, I don't know if anybody listening feels that,
but I that's kind of what I You just want
to be like with them.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I just want to be acknowledged that I also don't
get the full attention from her because she's so busy,
and that's just a little bit of like, hey, I
know you deal with when I'm busy and I'm crazy
and all this stuff.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Thank you and listen.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
I think that she should take it as a compliment
that you want that you're like wanting her time. You know.
I know we've talked about this. I think I have
absolutely had to send a text to the fireman in
the last couple months to just say, like, you know,
you're my best friend and I love you, and I
know that this isn't like the part of our lives
(04:33):
where everything is about us and I feel that and
I know that, so I you know, I see what
you're saying. But I also think you guys are kind
of at a place where you can carve out more
time for each other age wise with the kids.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yeah, and I think we are too. But I think,
like you know, at night, we spend our time doing
work and all this stuff. And I think I'm just
looking for an acknowledgment that she ap appreciates my support,
or at least some acknowledgement that I'm there.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Do you acknowledge her?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Absolutely? I absolutely do.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Any success that I have, whether it's this or anything else,
I think her, Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
What that's nuts.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
No, I definitely do, because I mean again, the balance
that we have in like in life is just because
it's working so well. It hasn't always been like this too.
We've gone through our ups and downs. I just feel
like I just want like a hug, like thank you
for all that you do.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Or you want her to say like, oh, I know,
I've been so busy and things are so crazy. I
wish I had more time for the kids and years.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yes, that's exactly it. That that would mean the world
to me, the world to me. And I also know
too she doesn't love the way that I do. She
doesn't like share her feelings as much as me and
all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
So yeah, Jules is an outsider to all this. I'm
assuming he doesn't listen to the show because he told
me that he doesn't wake up till eleven am. I know,
ladies disgusting as an outsider listening in. Do you hear
like a husband who just wants to be acknowledged? Do
you hear bitch boy like what are you?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Well?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Well, bitch boy definitely camped up.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Yeah, it was the in what sense, just.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
The way you're talking about it, just bit.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah I didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
I think I said it a little bit nicer, but I, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Think some guys would hear that.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, and I know that, and I acknowledge that at
the same time too, if I have a certain need
in the relationship, then it's okay to ask that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
No thinking battle the thought of like, I'm a man,
I shouldn't have to hear that. But you're different and
at the same time, okay, and Joanne knows that about it, and.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Men feel this way. So you're trying to tell me, Jules,
and I'm so also just stomach this and deal with
this internally.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
No, I think you just need to get a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
But you know, well, we all think that Jules is
coming all right, because Jus doesn't avidly listen to this show,
and you guys do is this Santi being Santi or
does Santi actually have a point? I feel like Joanne,
if she heard that you felt this way, would be like,
oh my god, I like I I obviously meant yeah,
(07:00):
the kids. I feel like she would say that.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
So why not just communicate that to her?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Well, I think that's what I was thinking about on
the way in that I do need to communicate this
ord because it's been like a lot of just like
a couple of weeks of this whole thing just building out.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So and this is now, I'm really going to try
to decide what I think say to me, what you'll
say to her.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
So, Joanne, recently you've been talking about how your life
balance doesn't really allow time for the kids, and the
kids are always like the ones who take the brunt
of everything. It kind of bothers me a little bit
because I feel like I should be involved in that
in a sense, like just an acknowledgement that I also too,
am on that same page. I feel like it would
just make me feel better and make me know that
(07:39):
kind of you're happy and I'm doing the right things
for you, something like that.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Of the ID say, I know second part was a
little bit better, but I am maybe sensing bitch boy
as well. I'm not going to say it as aggressively
as Jules, because that was I know that man is
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
What are we sensing from our guy this morning? Because
Satchels made his opinion, Claire
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