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Speaker 1 (00:00):
A mine ever.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Mine Ely and the gam In Morning Show with DJ
fourn It's such a big morning.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Hi, everybody, good morning. Most people, out of
one hundred percent of people in the world, how many
would you say are are as nosey as you and
I son?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Probably seventy percent? Yeah, at least yea.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
By the way, just a PSA because we're gonna continue
to talk about breakupsus. I got this DM the couple
that I was talking about this morning that announced their breakup,
but just twelve hours ago, eating pizza in London. All
the things I'm getting blown up now again. I don't
watch the bachslore. I don't fallow. I found him because
he runs the Boston Marathon, so I followed him. His
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name is Matt James. He's he's he's been dating this
trick Rachel for years and years and years. They go around,
they eat food. I like their social media. They're twelve
hours ago in London eating pizza, haven't moke a lappez
And now all of a sudden this morning he's announcing
their breakup. People are blowing me up, saying ash the
Reddit is saying they're engaged and they're playing us. This
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is all like a big joke for social media. And
he actually proposed to her last night.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
If that's the case, I'm sick of it. Then they're stupid.
Stop playing game, people clicks.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
It's working, it's working.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
But so since we were talking about their breakup and
I mentioned that I went through one in Disney, I
got this message from anonymous. Now, usually guys don't send
me messages like this. I think it's predominantly women. That'll
be like ash listen. He said he will not come
on because his voice is so recognizable that he feels
as if his family would know, and he hasn't alerted
them yet about the breakup. So here's what we got.
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Me and my ex wanted Disney a couple months ago.
We were perfectly fine there. We had a few regular
arm arguments, but nothing crazy. I did notice she kept
using the verbiage that our relationship was rocky. We get
through Christmas. Everything is great, it's back to normal, everything's cool.
This past Saturday, she tells me she's going out with
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a friend from work. He is forty forty four years old.
Also happens to be her old teacher, and she hasn't
told me all of the things about them hanging out,
but she did tell me she wants to break up.
She wants to see where it goes with him. Hey,
she's twenty three.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
And how old is he? Did he ever say?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
I asked him twenty five. Oh, so the forty four
year old teacher is now dating the twenty three year
old ex studid so son, that would be like a
twenty three year old, which I would never do. Add
more to this, they have a kid. They've been together
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for six years, he said, a little background for you.
I'm blue collar. I've stayed with her. You know, I
just want to make sure that the kids have The
kid has a house with two parents. But I'm not
playing these games. I just need to I just need
to keep moving forward, he said. I felt like I
should have known this maybe was coming. She was hot
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and cold for a while, but five days before she
went out with this guy, we had sexuals. So that
really confused me, and I go, yeah, I can completely
understand that, he goes she wants to read the benefits.
It seems like because I'm a good dad, I'm always around,
I'm financially stable, and I've literally given her the world.
I mean everything from fixing anything around the house to
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the car. I'm very well rounded and I can do
that kind of stuff. I don't want to read the
last line, but he did say Hant He's right. It
always rains hi lyin.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
For this guy. I feel bad because you know what
I mean, Like the guy is forty four, and it's
a completely different type of person, Like he's never gonna
win against them in that time that you kind of
start thinking that. But she's also twenty three. I don't
see that that's not gonna last.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
She's gone through a phase. Yes, she's gone through.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
A phase, and that's fine, but she can go through
her phase. That doesn't mean he's gonna be waiting for her.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
She should back, That's what I'm saying. He should move on.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
I also think and there's something like glittery and shiny
to her about her being able to say I'm with
my old teacher.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Absolutely, come on, old man, yes exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
And there's nothing illegal. She's twenty three. There's an age gap,
but that we're we're not talking creeble.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
We said before. People are not mature enough. I don't
think at these ages. So if they were together six years,
that means they've been together since what's sixteen seventeen, they've been.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Together since young.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Like, you shouldn't even be wanting to settle down with anybody,
Take it from me again. I settled down with my
ex since I think we were high school streethaart, So
eighteen seventeen, eighteen, No, no, no, I'm just saying, like we
were at the age right, you know, towards senior year,
and then we were together, we had kids, and we
you know, you think that you're gonna have this big
old grand family and then it doesn't work out because
guess what, you evolve as a person. Yeah, you know,
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you grow up.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
And she's she's right now, probably on this giddy trip,
like damn, I bagged me an older guy. You know,
he kind of has a figure of authority over her
because she's a he's a teacher, so this is probably
appealing to her. Eventually, she's probably gonna come back. But
my man, you shouldn't be sitting there waiting on her
to come back to you. Yeah, you already got it together.
Move on.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
She's not the one and for the guy too. He's
forty four. The twenty three year old girl. It could
be a face for him and he can tell all
his buddies like, oh, she's so hot.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
She does this and again like listen, I don't want
to take this down. We're I think we're We're not
in Creeperville. We're like tingl forty three. Tho, it's legal,
You're just in two different I think he feels a
type of way about the age thing, and it's like
I get it to say, wow, that's a very big eight,
but it's not.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I'm like, why are you going for the og instead
of me?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Like we just say guys, he's listening. So he just
wrote I've been with her since we were eighteen. She's
not the one.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
She isn't the one that thank you. The fact that
he's saying that is really.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Good and you got your issh together, Continue to be
a good father and just leave alone. Trust me, she's
gonna she's gonna come crawling back.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
She seems just the way he's describing her very self serving.
So if it serves her in that moment, the Disney
trip being on and off, because he'll watch the kid
or fix things in the house.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Cool.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
But for him, as much as it kind of stinks now,
like just the heartache, the future is he gets again,
he gets to do all.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
These young he's a baby with a baby, so you
know he has his life.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Hawage the bullet Now you'll be I.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
He's now. He goes, guys, she's I told him, just
let me know if I'm missing anything. I can read
what you're writing. He goes, tell everybody she's for the streets.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Like I playing these games.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I'm not six one seven nine, three, one one nine
four or five of you want a weigh in and
help out anotymous breakups? Man, everybody, good morning, it's Ashley
in the gym in morning show. I just want to
say that you guys are the best and you call
in and you tell us all the things, but sometimes
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people get nervous and you guys dm us. I love
reading the Matt Ashley Felman two. He's on the Ashley Guy,
twenty five years old. His twenty three year old girlfriend
also mother of his child, just said I'm leaving you
for my forty four year old teacher from Lynn.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Can keep on with that, bro. That's things as a
young man. That's things you can't compete against it. No,
because the old g is not supposed to be outperforming me.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, that's tough. This is tough. Breakups are tough in general.
But that would hurt that, that would hurt my ego.
I'm not gonna lie to I'm twenty five.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
I'm a young stallion exactly. But the old guys he's.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
He's forty four, he's not old.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
He's just doing things that the twenty five year old
doesn't do.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Joe is in Grafton. Joe I said, Hi, teacher's forty four,
the girls twenty three. Their day and now I said,
I don't think we've taken a full on turn down Creeperville.
Yet I don't love it because I like, I'm not
a big Like twenty year age gap is weird, like
you know, but it's legal.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Yeah, maybe legal, But there's a golden rules this man
is not following. It's half your age plus seven is
as low as you can go without a predatory at
least where I come from.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Nine half your age plus seven. Where did this rule happen?
I never heard of this.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
It's it's it's the rule.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
It's the rule.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Most guys know it you should know it and otherwise
you're creep.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Well, Bill Belichick never was you. No one ever told
him about it. Jo, Thanks for the call. Half your
age plus seven. But can I ask you guys a
question at your age, which by the way is my
age too, But do you would you even want a
date a twenty three year old?
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Not too young?
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah? I just think we're in different spaces. I would
be like, want to hang with my kids and go
watch it film. She has to go to the bar
and I can't do that.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
And also I don't want to hold I wouldn't want
to hold them back. You should be doing those things.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
No, I'm not thinking about that. I could care, but
less about holding you back.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
What I'm saying is just that unless I'm just having
fun with you, I'm not having a serious relationship for
the twenty two years.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Yeah, you're not interesting.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
I don't want to hear. We're not in the same space.
Like Santi said, different mindsets different and we want to
do different things.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
How low are you guys going thirty plus?
Speaker 5 (09:27):
Yeah about the low thirties. Yeah, unless you're super much
your twenty some, But even that's a little I don't know.
I'm at the thirties.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Thirties, By the way, we all know, I think women mature.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
See that's what I'm saying. Do with thirty two, That's
what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
There's a twenty eight, twenty nine year old who's like
really got her it's together. She's like a different kind
of you know what I mean, converts herself differently. We
can consider it twenty two. I still think you have
a lot of growing up to do.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
I agree. Amanda is in Fall River. Amanda tried to
help a guy and his son by letting them live
with her. A first mistake in New Year's Day. He
wakes up and says, what.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Nah, Like it was on and off so and then
New Year's Day? What pushed it over the edge? You know?
He went out on New Year's Eve? Oh yeah, we're together.
We're gonna work on things, you know what I mean,
right off into the sunset, blah blah blah blah. Yo,
this dude comes into the crib on New Year's Day
with his underwear on inside out. Okay, he didn't leave
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the crib the night before with his underwear on inside out?
Believe that right? So then, of course, though, of course,
of course, I'm the crazy person. I'm bugging. I'm I'm delusional.
I'm imagining things now, like Homya, your underwear on inside out?
What happened is you scraped some chick yesterday. You got
up scrambling around, sound a dip from her spots, come
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back to the crib, and you didn't realize you put
your underwear on inside out. And then you accuse me
of being a hawk. I'm not a hawk. I'm just observing,
not my fault. I'm not messy and stuffy like you.
That's why you get all these open cases because you
ain't on point, Doug. That's the fact. And it's just
funny too. The whole age thing does play into it.
I'm forty three, he's just about thirty six, but now
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it's the other way around where he loves younger chicks
and I'm not saying no pedophile type of situation like that,
but he's thirty six. Now it's a twenty three, twenty four.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
Year old girl.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
That's where it's at because it's fun and it's exciting
to him. So I get it, and I also understand too,
like I feel bad to the little twenty five year
old that just lost his DM to a forty four
year old, She just chasing the bag. Anybody with the
brain and been around the block knows that that girl
just chasing the bag and it's just fun and it's exciting.
And the teacher that's messing with her, of course, he
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just wants to all his people that he backs the
most shorty, you know what I mean. So it's just
the mind game. What it all comes down to is
that people have to realize the mind games that they're
playing with people. And if people aren't strong, it can
push them over the edge. Because I could have been
sitting here crying like, oh dude, last nine thirty two
weeks ago, saying he's going to be bad, not you,
and he never knew that, you know what I mean.
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I'm over here laugh and I threw up his bone
in the trash. I think the homeless people deserve his
bone more than him. But now she wanted to cry
and be I.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
Feeling it was coming, and I'm going to use this
as a We're gonna let Amanda go. She cursed as
a shock to absolutely no one beyond her story I
would have left to But beyond her story, I would
like to say the amount of lingo. I just learned,
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And so is that so when you have sexuals with someone,
you say you scratch them.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Now, I don't know. You're gonna have to ask for
because he's on the phone.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
If Foreign, If Foreign gives me the okay on that,
my mind is good for it. If I said to you,
I was with the fireman last night and he scratched me,
what does that mean?
Speaker 2 (13:00):
This sounds violent?
Speaker 3 (13:02):
She said, he scraped me.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
That still sounds violent.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
But she said something else so that she she called
sex scratching or scraping doesn't sound enjoyable. Fall man again,
I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm afraid of Fall River.