Do The Things That Make You Happy! (FULL SHOW)

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
I didn't appreciate what you just said because now it's
in my head.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Wait what, I was just looking at myself in a picture,
and I'm like, oh my god, my foreheadlines are so bad.
It looks like it looks at the four five. It's
like the legitimate four oh five. There's twelve lips.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Not that bad, Yeah it is.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
And I'm just so sick of these lies where you're like,
I think it's nice when you get gray hairs.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
I think it's nice that you have lines.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
Stop, but I feel that though.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
That's not true, it is so true.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
What are you supposed to age and not like have wrinkles,
like like start to develop, and I think the like
they look fine, Like my wife has wrinkles around her
eyes when she has a deep smile. I love them.
I love when she has a gray or two.

Speaker 4 (00:43):
I really do.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
I just I can't buy it.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
You can't fight bother time, No, but.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
You you can fist fight father time with the lines
on the forehead. I physically can't right now because I'm breastfeeding.
But you better believe when I'm not line up the needles,
big mom is diving on them?

Speaker 1 (01:01):
Is she smiling? They don't know her face is frozen.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
Fine, I understand, but I think you look really good,
Like I think you look amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
I'm looking at these.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
I think you look great for thirty eight. I really do.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
I think you look great for thirty It's getting worse.
I can't say anything. It's getting worse and worse.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
You look great for thirty eight. Of them Mama too.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
Right now, they're like I I mean, we're you know
how just in life we are our own worst critics,
you know. And I just I look at my forehead
and I mean, you can just see in my forehead
like I've lived life, I'd be stressed.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
And then I try not to. I am such like
I talk with my face and my hands like I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
Just that's just the way. I'm very like reactive to things.
So when I'm taking photos of myself or having someone
take a picture of me, now, I try to just
keep my faces.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
With this zero movement. But I can't because that's not
the way I am.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Now. Is it just your forehead that's bothering you? Is
there anyplace else on your face?

Speaker 1 (02:04):
It's just my forehead. And I do have the crow's
feet thing where when.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
I smile, I had the lines, uh, you know, on
the side of my eyes.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
I I don't mind those. I'm fine with that. It's
my forehead.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Like I'm looking at myself right now in this in
the mirror in my phone, and I low key want
to die because it's it's pretty bad.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
When you mention it, you point the mouth and I
start staring at them. But I will say, when you
got it done, I could tell the difference, not in
a bad way. What what do you mean? No, I said,
if you were ever to.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Get it TONI doesn't know, so I pretend that never happened.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Yeah, anyways, like I could tell the difference. Yeah, but
again I didn't think one was better than the other.

Speaker 5 (02:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
So and again, I honestly do think you'll like amazing.
And if I didn't think that, I wouldn't say we.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Would just be like it would just be like this,
Oh cool. Yeah, I don't want to get this, do
you listen. I think I've always been on the side
of if you want to do something that's going to
make yourself feel better and you have the money to
do it, all ahead, and yeah, I would never shame
anybody for that.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
I just want a.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
Little in the forehead and then I'm gonna call like
it a day. I joke about the BBL. I'm not actually.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Going to do that. My ass is literally flatter than
a wall, but that just is what it is.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
This morning, I was having a thought because.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
My should get a BBL.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
My love handles on the side and kind of going
towards the back. They just won't disappear. And I'm like,
what if I sucked out some fat from in there, like, well,
they look.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Better and we would be getting into surgery territory.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yes, And that's what I wanted to voice because because
my mom went through a phase where she was getting
stuff done like every.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Year done to die.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah, my mother like almost died. Yeah, I think she
got a time me talk.

Speaker 2 (03:41):
I think that's what it was like, you're really digging
a grave with all the women in your life.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
Listen it is.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
I don't know if she wants that out there.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
It's three am when my mom lives. Say, but what
she did lately she got her eyebrows done. Oh my god,
I can't. It looks like she's constantly surprised. But the
eyebrows are so thick and dark, like I don't know
how to handle it.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
It does look like two surprise caterpillars something.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
Yeah, it's really bad.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
And like when you have you know what, if she
feels good and she feels like she looks better than
that is.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
All that matters truly.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
Okay, I have noticed something else too. What just texted you?

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Oh no, thank god?

Speaker 3 (04:23):
So she got a treatment done to her hair and
her hair looks so thick now and I'm like what
And I don't want to ask what she got done
because I also don't know what it really is. I
don't know if it's something like like a wig, but
it looks super thick and it looks really nice.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
You got to show me a photo.

Speaker 3 (04:39):
I don't have a yeah, which is fine. Yeah, but
my mother has always been doing work for years.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Yeah, but see that's fine. If it's making her feel
better about herself. I think that's what matters.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah, and like it's all good, So I guess I
should have this.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
I mean, you and I have that kind of addiction.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
But with working out, it makes us feel better and
that's we can go about our day and that's fine.
Little needle to the forehead here and there, I mean, whatever.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
So when are you getting get done?

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Oh? I'm brustrating right now, so I can't.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
And by the way, again, you'll know when I do,
because you'll wonder to yourself as she sad?

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Is she happy? Her faces? It's just frozen in time.

Speaker 6 (05:15):
But we don't know, especially end up Jamie Mori show
with DJ Foreign It's Sauntilynn.

Speaker 4 (05:21):
You need to know.

Speaker 7 (05:22):
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Speaker 2 (05:29):
Five Hi, everybody. I wasn't trying to make that weird.
I just really wanted to hear. Also, the Chief a
little bit louder. I can we get a little bit.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
Of like the suspense?

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Yeah, I mean, just give it to me.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Friday, feb twenty first, and we got big news from DT.
He welcomed a bunch of attendees to the White House
yesterday to celebrate Black History Month and announced the planned
National Garden of Heroes, which will honor Black Americans.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Including the garden.

Speaker 8 (06:01):
Will predominantly feature incredible women like Harriet Tubman, Rosa Parks,
Billy Holliday, Aretha Franklin, and Coretta Scott King. It will
be something very extraordinary. We're going to produce some of
the most beautiful works of art in the form of
a statue for men like Frederick Douglas, Booker, T Washington,
Jackie Robinson, what a great athlete that was, Martin Luther,

(06:23):
King Junior, Mohammad Ali, and the late Kobe Bryant.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
People love Colby, people do love Kobe Bryant. He said,
we're not honoring these people just because they are black heroes,
but also because they are truly American heroes who inspire us.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
All. I love it.

Speaker 3 (06:39):
Those are all like icons.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
Yeah, yeah, that's yeah.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Yeah, especially like I'm not surprised that Kobe is in there.
But I mean not saying they could have been somebody better,
but mean, Kobe left the legacy.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
Though, Mahmad Ali, the Great Junior, the Franklin, Billie Holliday,
Rosa Parks, the list goes on it.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
But yes, some I think America Heroes is an amazing
way to say it. All right.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
Neo has added son, a fourth woman to his group
of polyamorous quote pals. This is not the life for me.
That's just we talk about this. You dating more than
one person, You're putting in a lot of work. That's
a full time job.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
For people, but how do you satisfy that many like
females too, It's almost impossible.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
In December of last year, he basically added a professional
dancer by the name of Breed to the roster.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
She was touring with him.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
Then she recently shared a film of herself and Neo
and they can kind of like be seen touching each other,
and so it appears that they, you know, are part
of a bigger something together, but a bigger thing because
he has straight up said, yeah, he cannot be with
one person, He's not meant for one person, So he
has multiple girlfriends.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
So does he mix it up like every night, like
each night he shares a bed with somebody else.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
Just there again, not for me, But have you seen
the recent video where they all run off to him
and he kisses all of them?

Speaker 1 (08:03):
He's just like Neo's life is wild.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
I could almost like understand if you want like one extra,
like that's like easier to balance, But to have four
and to have to mix it up before that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Yeah, I mean listen, well, I think what's crazier is
every time we talk about this and polyamorous relationships and
people having these relationships.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
You and I are like, it's just not for us,
how do you?

Speaker 2 (08:26):
And then the phones light up of people being like,
it's amazing and it works for us, and we all
love each other.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
And I think I'm just too much of a jealous
you know what, Like I, are you looking at her
a little bit longer? Are you talking to her a
little bit more? What?

Speaker 3 (08:41):
And I feel like it's amazing for like X amount
of time. But after a certain point, all these emotions
start filtering in. Yeah, because I knew a guy that
was in a thrupple and it just it doesn't end well.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
And I'm sorry because I know there's people listening that
are polyamorous and whatever. But I will never believe that
in your mind, you don't want to be numero own.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
No, you don't want to be the most important one.
I just will never buy it. I won't. I won't,
all right.

Speaker 2 (09:05):
And lastly, Beyonce is making some serious moves with her
hairlines Sacred. She is taking it to Alta. This happens
a lot of times with the celebrities. They choose either
an Alta or a Sophora, but this is a big
deal because she did a major brand deal so on
April sixth, it'll be happening. She shared the news on

(09:25):
her ig. She was in like a corset dress, showed
off some platinum blonde hair and basically said, in the
past year, we've helped so many make a deeper connection
with their hair building and community that redefines what a
typical hair care brand looks like. Our historic partnership with
Alta Beauty represents a meaningful milestone in our journey of
getting sacred in the aisles and salons nationwide for everybody's experience.

(09:50):
They'll be in like fourteen hundred Alta stores and they'll
include tools like hair tools, also products, and they got
a bunch of stuff going on.

Speaker 3 (09:59):
Great for business. That probably just doubled what the evaluation
for her thing is.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Oh, it's it's massive.

Speaker 2 (10:05):
It's huge, and just as like a little bit of
a fun fact for most girls, you're either an Ulta
or a Sephora person.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
I really like.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
I think it mostly for a lot of people depends
on proximity, like which one's closer to you.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
I myself, I go to Sephora first.

Speaker 3 (10:21):
I don't shop there, but my daughters loves Sephora.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Yeah, it really everybody has their own because and again
like look at that exclusively through ultas some products you
can only get the certain stores.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
It also just feels better in there. And I'm not
gonna pick knits, but like the Ladies and Sephora Cuter,
I have noticed.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
Yes, that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
Yeah. As a guy I'm in there, I'm just like,
oh wow, Well.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
For us, nothing to do with that. It's just easier
for us to be able to go to a store
and grab a product as opposed to having to go
to like Sacred dot com to get it. Okay, I
am sorry, and I like to is you to apology
to anybody that works at ALTA.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
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Speaker 2 (11:03):
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Speaker 6 (11:26):
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Speaker 9 (11:30):
Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Hi, everybody, Happy Friday. Cheers to the freaking weekend. I'll
saying yesterday that I definitely have low level OCD, but
I'm self diagnosed.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
You know, I've never seen anybody about it. But certain
things like I have my little you know, ticks. I
guess you could call them that I like to do
my mind feel better, one of which is delete all
notifications from my phone. You're not gonna see Ashley has
fifteen emails because the second those things come in, I'm

(12:04):
clearing them. You're not gonna see text messages because once
they're in, they're getting cleared. Whether I'm responding to you,
just reading, You're not gonna see notifications on my home screen.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
You're not gonna do it.

Speaker 3 (12:15):
I feel like you've been that way for a long time,
because I remember when we first met, you were giving
me a bunch of crap because I had like all
the notifications like all over the place.

Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah, we're in the midst of this stupid internal competition
where we have to post videos and whoever gets the
most views gets one hundred dollars gift card and whatever,
we all have to do it. So Forren does one
yesterday and I'm watching his video and I'm half paying attention,
and then I see his home screen. Now, mind you

(12:44):
risk a move? Yeah, showing your home screen like that,
I don't know it's gonna pop up. The man has
over one hundred thousand emails. Now this upsets me, and
you guys know I would say this to his face.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
If he was here.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
There will be work emails that he has to respond to,
and I'll say, did you see the email? I'm like, no,
what email?

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Now, I know why he's not seeing the emails. How
could you possibly? Because they're lost.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
They're lost in the seat of one hundred thousand Gmail emails.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
Sir, it's worse than there. It's one hundred and six thousand,
seven hundred and twenty seven. That's an insane amount. I've
heard some bad ones, and I thought that like ten
thousand was bad, but I've never seen like this number.
I've never seen over like one hundred k.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
I also don't understand, and I'm genuinely asking this. On
first off, he has five notifications for food and drink.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
I don't know what's going on there. When he's just
like come back.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
Yeah, he has five hundred and nine notifications for YouTube,
So does that mean he's subscribing to series on there?

Speaker 1 (13:50):
And there's new videos.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
And there's new videos that he hasn't watched yet, so
he's got a lot of stuff that get caught up
on too.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
We also now can see what he has, like download
did so we got the sky scanner.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
The hell is that?

Speaker 3 (14:04):
I have no idea. I have to assume it's some
travel app.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
He's got the Calorie King.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
Prismas.

Speaker 1 (14:15):
But this is what I mean. You can't beat you
can't like, don't let me dance like that.

Speaker 3 (14:19):
But he has a daily teachings from the Secret So
he's clearly he's trying to find some path in life.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
The daily teachings.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
Wow, yeah, but it's just one hundred thousand emails is crazy.
And you can see at the bottom there, I'm fairly
certain that's the phone and he has twenty miss calls.

Speaker 3 (14:40):
Yes, you know his text messages. I believe all the
way to the right. And I feel like at one
point he had over a thousand text messages because I
was bad. But when he let me, like, when he
showed me his phone, his was like the worst of every.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
Yeah, because I think I was cloning you and he
was like, oh no, mine is Mine is way worse.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
But the thing with the emails is that you can
set some filters to like filter all all of that.
He hasn't. Yeah, no, and he's just sitting on those emails.

Speaker 2 (15:07):
He's not going to he's not going to. And then
when they say, oh, actually, you guys didn't respond to
the email.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Well, you know what, that's email one thousand.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
Five hundred and forty two. No, I'm sorry one hundred
thousand for for it.

Speaker 3 (15:18):
I also feel like he needs to get a brain
new account because you're never going to get to one
hundred thousand of them. And then the time it would
take the delete that it would take hours.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
You hit the select all and mark is read and
you're probably missing something important or you live your life
like that, you live your life with those notifications.

Speaker 3 (15:34):
I'm going to go on a limon and say that's
how he lives his life just just just by like
working with him for like a couple of years now,
I can see that, like, you know, he doesn't pay
attention to certain things, and he's start with it.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
I feel like they're you're either one way or the other.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
You're either like I have you By the way, I
just said to you, how many emails do you have?

Speaker 1 (15:50):
Sixty five? That's low for you.

Speaker 3 (15:52):
Well, that's also because of the past couple of years.
I've been trying to get better. In the last month
or so, I've changed my ways.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
So what do you got, Like, how many text messages
do you have?

Speaker 3 (16:00):
So for text messages, I'm at seventy just from this week,
but in the past I've been at like two hundred.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Is there literally the seventy number of ye look, I'm not.

Speaker 3 (16:11):
I'm just kidding.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
Why do you have ten miss calls?

Speaker 3 (16:14):
Like, because there's ms called me? I have no idea
they're miscalls.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
He has ten miss calls, you guys, seventy text messages
and sixty five emails.

Speaker 3 (16:23):
This is not that bad. That's not that bad.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
This is bad.

Speaker 3 (16:26):
It's not bad considering where I came from, because those
numbers would have been tripled at the very least, and
like the like, like the whole thing with like the emails.
By the end of the week, I just delete everything.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
I just hit miss calls like to see who's calling him?
And he's got a couple don't answers on there like
they're actually in his phone as don't answer.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
Because people get my phone number and then they end
up being crazy. So yeah, yeah, yeah, that makes sense
to me. Can anybody be having one hundred thousand emails?

Speaker 1 (16:55):
I don't know? And or does this bother anybody else?
Like it may?

Speaker 3 (17:00):
I think it does.

Speaker 2 (17:02):
It shouldn't because but it sends me to the moon
when I've seen that man had over one hundred thousand
emails because he's not responding to the important ones.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
My wife is just like you. She has nothing on it,
always clean.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Always clean, like that.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
Then she's responding back like I.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
Just opened my phone and I have twelve emails. Those
are going to be gone within a millisecond. See you
later and you'll read them all.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
Yeah, we'll check to see what each one is. Usually
it's a store.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
And then a lot of times I have text messages
from six four five two three, and it's like Aesos
has a new drop, you know what I mean. But
I just I can't. I can't do it. I can
I can't live without a clean screen. Six one seven
nine three one one nine four five six one seven
nine three one one nine, four five. If you're beating
over one hundred thousand emails, you have a rail problem, especially.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
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Speaker 7 (17:50):
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Speaker 2 (18:01):
All right, it's all's, It's Friday, It's fab twenty first
and you know what this one I'm doing specifically for
you for me, because you're rude to celebrities children.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
You went viral once for being rude.

Speaker 3 (18:12):
About Prince what Kate?

Speaker 1 (18:16):
It was Kate?

Speaker 3 (18:16):
It was Kate, It was Kate Milton's suber. I forget
which kid Prince Louis. I think it was because he
was a bad kid. He was acting up and all
the moms wanted to kill me.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
The moms of Talk or whatever they call themselves.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
Were the parenting moms came from my life.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
And you have also made comments about Northwest.

Speaker 3 (18:35):
Yes, but I have a reason though, because she's entitled,
because she comes off like not really like humble at all,
and I think she believes her talent is better than
it actually is.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
Well, she got a.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
Role in the Lion King and there were a lot
of people at Santine Foreign that were saying, she can't
even sing like that, Like she doesn't even that doesn't have.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
A good voice. Guess what what, Kim knows that.

Speaker 10 (19:00):
I already know what's coming. You know that she's not
Whitney Houston.

Speaker 11 (19:06):
Duh.

Speaker 10 (19:07):
I know she got the job because of her parents.
North is the moment. They want to see Northwest on
a TikTok, on a this, on anything, because she's a personality,
a performer.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
North is the moment. And honestly, Kim's got a point.

Speaker 3 (19:26):
She definitely does. But I don't think North like understands that.
And the other part, I think you too. She got
the role because yes, because of the parents, But what
about the girl who can really sing, who's a performer,
who tried you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (19:37):
Well, I think that was the That was the pushback
from a lot of these people, like there are kids
going to these arts schools and they're spending all this
money and they have voices of angels, and but they're
not Northwest. That's not North's fault either. By the way,
it's not her fault who her parents are.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
Do you think she can sing well?

Speaker 2 (19:56):
Trump welcomed attendees yesterday to the White House were celebrating
Black History Month, and they.

Speaker 1 (20:02):
Were not proposing.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
They planned this beautiful National Garden of Heroes that will
honor some Black Americans and others. Here's DT talking about
who in fact will have statues inside of the National
Garden of American Heroes.

Speaker 8 (20:17):
The garden will predominantly feature incredible women like Harriet Tubman,
Rosa Parks, Billy Holliday, Aretha Franklin, and Coretta Scott King.
It will be something very extraordinary. We're going to produce
some of the most beautiful works of art in the
form of a statue for men like Frederick Douglas, Booker,
T Washington, Jackie Robinson, what a great athlete that was,

(20:40):
Martin Luther King, Junior, Muhammad Ali, and the late Kobe Bryant.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
People love Calby, people do love Kobe Bryant.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
Can we just make sure that the guy who designs
the sculpture is not the same guy who made the
statue of him, please, because that guy is bad.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
Let me just tell you some them. They could take
you and put a blindfold on you, and it's better
than that statue. Let's really get this together. Let's do
this right, Like, let's have a white house.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
Please.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
Huh, it's at the white House. Let's do it right.

Speaker 2 (21:04):
Speaking of celebrities and their kids, the bottom line is
they just live a different, different life.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
It is what it is.

Speaker 2 (21:11):
I know you love to watch Tom's blogs. Yeah, did
you watch Tom Brady's blog about the Super Bowl? I
haven't pulled up.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
So we'll watch it together when we would you like
to have breakfast me and watch it?

Speaker 3 (21:20):
Of course?

Speaker 2 (21:21):
Okay, Well, I'm gonna give you a little bit of
inside info, a little spoily.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
There is a part in it in which.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
Tom, you guys, is getting ready for the Super Bowl
and he's with his fifteen year old son and he
surprises him with a three million dollar watch.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
He's fifteen.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
For jack, if I got one hundred dollars g shock
at fifteen, I thought I was rich.

Speaker 3 (21:45):
And this is the problem. You can't give that kid
a gift like that. He won't understand how like hard work?
All right, very close your eyes, put your wrist up.

Speaker 4 (21:53):
Don't let your boys close your eyes to see. Don't
look it feels heavy.

Speaker 12 (21:59):
Benny, Okay, whoa let me see Benny, yo, he's iced
out that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Three million dollars for a fifteen year old, a three
million dollar watch. I mean again, it is not Benny's
fault that his dad is Tom Brady and can do
stuff like this.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
But for the love of God, maybe start them off
with a Rolex at ten g's right.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
I would die for a Rolex.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
I would buy one right now, tenjees and we like,
that would be a huge purchase of When I bought
a Chanel bag, Yes, that was like a major purchase
of my life.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Not even three million dollars for.

Speaker 3 (22:39):
A watch that you're gonna maybe wear once or twice
a year.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
You can't trust a fifteen year old like that, you really,
you cannot. I remember on my sweet sixteen, my grandparents
gifted me my one of my grandmothers. I think it
was like a ring of hers and it had a
diamond in it. Where was it when I was seventeen?
Gone like the wind? Because I was sixteen, I was irresponsible. Yeah,
and I still to this day hate myself because I
don't have my grandmother anymore.

Speaker 1 (23:03):
I'm like, how amazing would that be too? I've had gone?

Speaker 3 (23:06):
Somebody else is wearing it?

Speaker 2 (23:08):
No, I just I don't who knows what I did
with those sixteen I can't be trusted.

Speaker 1 (23:12):
Don't let don't let Benny alone with that three million
dollar watch. That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
That's really you need to know. For Friday, Feb twenty. First,
don't forget. Talkbacks are a great way to utilize the show,
especially if you're somebody that's listening at work and you
can't call us. You can listen to Jammin on the app.
A little microphone will pop up, hit that thing and
say good morning, Happy Friday Day, and the.

Speaker 4 (23:31):
Jam In Morning Show with DJ Foreign It's Saunty Big.

Speaker 9 (23:34):
Warning, Bustin's number one for hip hop Jammin ninety four
or five.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
Hi, everybody, good morning, Happy Friday. Cheers to the freaking weekend.
Myself and Santi holding it down. Also myself and Santi
next week for a couple of days, Jay Horn will
still be in Jamaica.

Speaker 1 (23:51):
I think Jewels is gonna come in Jewels and help out.

Speaker 3 (23:54):
Yeah, jewelels life away.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
Jewels was like, hey, guys, I can't do Thursday Friday
all forns how I don't want to say, but this
man just wants to sleep, Like we know, he's not
doing anything right now he is solely, but we love
him for it. We love him for it. We're gonna
be happy to see him on Monday and Tuesday. All right,
right now is the check in six one seven nine
three one one nine four five six one seven nine
three one nine four five.

Speaker 1 (24:17):
We're gonna kick it off with a talk back.

Speaker 2 (24:19):
And this is in reference to our conversation earlier about
people just having nine hundred million thousand notifications and not
clearing their screens.

Speaker 5 (24:26):
Good morning, guys, Happy Friday. I'm probably just as bad
as worn. At one point, I think I had one
hundred and fifty thousand emails. I had to clean it up, though,
But you can't even do it on your phone. You
got to do it on the computer and weed them out,
like as a group. I'm back up to eighty six thousand.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
So back up, honey, back up to eighty six thousand, Like, guys.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
What are we doing? You're gonna miss out on a
major opportunity.

Speaker 3 (24:54):
And weeding out what because you're letting them come come
in like by the thousand, So what are you looking for?

Speaker 1 (25:00):
Hey, you're not allowed to be a part of this.

Speaker 3 (25:02):
You're not allowed to be out eighty two thousand.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
You have ten miss calls, you have seventy text messages,
you have eighty five emails like you can't play five?

Speaker 3 (25:09):
You nothing, that's light work.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
Moving on, Rafael wants to celebrate his seventeen year wedding
anniversary show his wife some love.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
Raphael, good morning, Let's go.

Speaker 13 (25:23):
At your laundre made on the radio station ninety four
point five. Let's go now to take it in Boston.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
Wow, almost didn't say Boston. I don't know what he
was gonna say right there, but.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
Rafael, good morning, Happy wedding anniversary, seventeen years.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
What's the trick? What's the what's the secret? Sauce?

Speaker 13 (25:42):
To be honest with you men, It's all about respect.
And I'm kind of nervous with you guys right now.
I don't know why, because I love you guys. I
needed to see guys every day. I talk to you
guys at.

Speaker 14 (25:51):
Least once a month.

Speaker 13 (25:52):
But I'm nervous day because I really want to tell
him if they shout out had specialized I cans and laundry.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Today, Okay, well maybe cry like that will stick out.

Speaker 13 (26:01):
I will stick out.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
What is a thought that comes to mind? Seventeen years ago?
Right before you were about to marry the love of
your life. What were you thinking?

Speaker 13 (26:15):
Uh, To be honest with you, I would have never
never thought that I would settle down. I was a
playboy back in my air days, and I wouldn't thought
I would have never settle down. To be honest with you,
is really funny. She proposed to me first.

Speaker 1 (26:28):
Oh well, that's a good way to start this conversation.
Excuse me what she asked you to marry her?

Speaker 14 (26:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (26:35):
She she got me a nice uh whim Dan went
like all uh with a lot of diamond party and
on my birthday she took me off guard and uh,
she got on one knee she proposed to me.

Speaker 3 (26:52):
I don't know how I feel.

Speaker 1 (26:53):
I hate it.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
She but but for her, like, that's amazing. She's an icon.
She's a legend of her time. I will die single
where I'm proposing to anybody, but that is I love
her for that.

Speaker 1 (27:03):
She ay, she's a woman who knows what she wants.

Speaker 6 (27:07):
Yeah she does.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Uh.

Speaker 13 (27:08):
So she proposed to me and shot he checked his
out out. I had to redeem myself. I had to
redeem myself.

Speaker 14 (27:14):
So I waited like.

Speaker 13 (27:15):
Around this happening. She proposed to me in October and
then around December, not posing or something like that, I
had I had to redeem myself and proposed to her.
Oh yeah, yeah, so I got me. I got her
a nice chocolate diamond, and I went to boss had
this chocolate explo and I got you a room and

(27:38):
uh and and chocolate explos I'm proposed to her.

Speaker 1 (27:43):
The what the chocolate expo.

Speaker 13 (27:46):
Chocolate chocolate expo is?

Speaker 14 (27:49):
It?

Speaker 4 (27:49):
Is?

Speaker 2 (27:49):
It literally an expo where you'd try all different types
of chocolate.

Speaker 13 (27:53):
Yeah, all different chocolate around the world.

Speaker 11 (27:56):
It's amazing.

Speaker 1 (27:57):
Okay, I'm gonna be googling the next one because it
sounds up my alley, sounds delicious.

Speaker 11 (28:03):
So I figured in, you know, with.

Speaker 13 (28:05):
The chocolate diamond right back post.

Speaker 2 (28:08):
With us, to add that place to the list of
places I would never want to be proposed to.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
Okay, sorry, Raphael, I was sidebar.

Speaker 13 (28:17):
All right, and John's good. Well did I get the
shut out now?

Speaker 1 (28:21):
Please? I thought that's what we were doing.

Speaker 13 (28:24):
Oh, I'm sorry.

Speaker 14 (28:24):
Well, I'm sorry.

Speaker 13 (28:25):
I'm sorry. Hey, yo, Laundry, I love you to that.
I'm stuttering right now because I'm nervous seventeen years and
let's go for another seventeen years. I love you and
I can't wait to spend the weekend in Boston.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
And duet, where are we going in Boston? Where are
we gonna? Where are we staying?

Speaker 13 (28:44):
Well? But seeing at the Revere Hotel and uh, she
has uh something lined up in New Very Street that
you uh you make your own cologne?

Speaker 11 (28:55):
You did?

Speaker 15 (28:55):
You make your own.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Different kind of Yo, I've done this. I've made my
own perfume. I've been to that place. It's so dope.
I love it. And you can make a custom Uh
what am I trying to say? Labels for the bottles
and stuff. You're gonna love it. It's really cool.

Speaker 2 (29:12):
I made I made mine called Witches Woods.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
That's pretty cool.

Speaker 9 (29:18):
That's pretty good.

Speaker 13 (29:19):
Yeah, So we're gonna we're gonna go there and and
uh and the night has some really fancy fire restaurants
that it turns into like a nightclub.

Speaker 1 (29:28):
I guess at night you got a name for me?

Speaker 13 (29:32):
I damn, man, I know I should have loved Maryelle.

Speaker 1 (29:35):
Is it Maryelle? Yeah? Yes, yes, Mary's amazing.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
All right, babe, We'll have the best time. Please send
please send her my love and can she call us
next time? I want to talk to her. I need
to meet a lady who said I'm just gonna get
down on one day. I want to talk to her
next time.

Speaker 14 (29:50):
Hey, if if anybody can follow her on on Instagram,
she does nails.

Speaker 13 (29:55):
She has a nail shop in uh.

Speaker 14 (29:57):
In White and Belle located at one one Church Treet
in Whittonville and you can follow her at Gentron Nails
Maundrey Nails on Facebook.

Speaker 13 (30:06):
I truly appreciate it. Guys.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
All right, happy anniversary, Thanks for the call.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
We're spending that much in Boston, why not like pick
a better hotel? Or is that just me? Like I'm sorry,
Like the Maya is fine, not like no hate against that,
but so many better because.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
You know what I'm Sensingniverse, You know what I'm sensing,
a little bit of hate.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
Oh I'm hating, Yeah, a little bit of hate.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
U six one.

Speaker 2 (30:30):
Seven nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
What the hell are you doing?

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Call me happy Friday. We're talking about anything you want.
We're checking in six one seven nine three one one
nine four five.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Call me. It's absolutely the jam.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Morning ha ha, Hi everybody, Good morning, Happy Friday.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Seriously, cheers to the freaking weekend. You made it.

Speaker 2 (30:51):
We were just talking to Raphael and he's celebrating his
seventeen year wedding anniversary. They're going to the Roovier Hotel.
They're going out in Boston tonight. They're going somewhere fancy
for dinner. That turned into a club. I guess, Mary Elle,
but I could be wrong. But the biggest fact I
think we learned from Raphael today is that his wife, Marjorie.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
Is actually the one who proposed to him.

Speaker 2 (31:12):
You just don't hear that often, if ever really, And
I said I want.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
To talk to her. She was listening. My prayers have
been answered.

Speaker 2 (31:21):
Marjorie seventeen years ago ish, probably a little bit before that,
you said, I gotta get I gotta lock this man down.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
You even went jewelry shopping.

Speaker 15 (31:32):
I sure did, Yes, I did. That is a nice ring.

Speaker 13 (31:35):
Crazy.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
Were you nervous? Were you?

Speaker 4 (31:37):
Like?

Speaker 1 (31:38):
What am I doing? Why am I doing this?

Speaker 4 (31:40):
And he's not?

Speaker 15 (31:41):
Uh No, Like I knew he was gonna do it.
I just wanted to beat him to it.

Speaker 1 (31:48):
Why why is it a competition?

Speaker 15 (31:50):
It's not a competition. Well, obviously, you guys don't know
the backstory. I'm gonna give it to your place because
I have to go to work. Okay, But he proposed
to another He had a like a five year relationship
with another woman. This is way before he met me,
and he proposed to her. So I felt like it
wouldn't be special if he proposed to me, So I

(32:11):
did it to him. Yeah, bald for a woman, go
ahead and not do something traditionally. Yeah, I went, I
went to the ring, I went to the hunt, and
I lost him and I've been with him for ever since.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
That is.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
I am so glad you called because like he was
never going to tell that part of the story and
I needed to hear it.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
Wow, look at now I get it.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
You're like, I want to marry him, and I know it,
but it needs to be different from what his old
thing was.

Speaker 1 (32:40):
And I love that, love that, and.

Speaker 15 (32:41):
You know what a lot of people was like, no way,
and I'm like, yes way, I'm gonna go ahead and
do it. I don't care what people say. I could
wipe my behind with what people's opinions, so I really
don't care. I'm the one living my life. I'm the
one happy and I've been ever since.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
I know you were listening, but I go I could
never do it. I'd rather die single. But I'm she's
an icon for doing it. And I mean that like
you got way bigger balls than I do.

Speaker 15 (33:04):
Well literally an icon.

Speaker 1 (33:06):
Yeah, well, Marjorie, have so much fun tonight. Where are
you guys going to dinner? Because he wasn't sure.

Speaker 15 (33:12):
It's called and then turns to like a lounge.

Speaker 2 (33:19):
Okay, Well, have the best time tonight. The perfume Colonne
spot that you guys are going to, I've been. It's
unbelieve you're gonna love it?

Speaker 4 (33:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 15 (33:27):
Really, well, can I promote my business real quick?

Speaker 4 (33:29):
Is that?

Speaker 15 (33:29):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (33:30):
Yes, he already did, but let's let's do it again
real quick.

Speaker 11 (33:33):
Okay.

Speaker 15 (33:34):
Well, my name is Marjorie and I own Marjorie Nails
in North Bridge. I'm a nail salon. I'm a private
nail salon. Sweet I'm work by myself and you guys
are model welcome to hit me up to book your
appointments for your nails.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
There you have it, Marjorie. I do have a question.
Do you file down thick to nails?

Speaker 11 (33:52):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (33:52):
I do.

Speaker 15 (33:53):
I actually work in a medical pedietary, so I'm a
medical mail technician, I deal with patients that I have diabetes.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
Also, okayay, if somebody's tonails were so bad, can you amputate,
like could you just cut their feet off? Because that
that's podiatrist.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
Thanks Marjorie, thanks for the call. I've told you a
million times were off happily.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
And they look like manageable. They didn't look.

Speaker 2 (34:21):
Imagine that manageable. Somebody made an Instagram account. Let me
pull it up. I just want to make sure I
have the name properly. It is Ashley's underscore forehead and
they messaged me and said, no matter what you inject
into me, I'll always roll with you. This was in

(34:44):
reference to the fact that I said earlier this morning,
my foreheadlines are out of control, like I'm out here
looking like the four oh five. I actually didn't realize
too that he has one post and it's a picture
of like that is not me.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
I want to make that clear. That's not me. I
don't know who who that is, but look at us.
What a day.

Speaker 2 (35:02):
The guy who made the Instagram account is now calling
the show, but under the name Anonymous.

Speaker 1 (35:09):
A shock, uh Anonymous? How bored are you? Do you work?
Do you have a job.

Speaker 3 (35:14):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (35:14):
I'm like genuinely wondering.

Speaker 11 (35:18):
I do have a job. I was actually waiting for
a delivery, so I had some time to kill got it,
got it?

Speaker 1 (35:23):
Okay, Well that's good. At least you're making.

Speaker 11 (35:24):
Money on Ashley, you were gorgeous. First of all, that
is not your picture.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
Thank you.

Speaker 11 (35:32):
I am Google searched ugly roles and a female's forehead
and that's how I got that. Wow, it's crazy, but
I only did it just through I figured i'd make
you laugh on a Friday.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
Oh okay, yeah, No, it was like a laugh.

Speaker 11 (35:47):
Cry saying is that really my forehead? I had to
call in and just tell you that it really wasn't,
even though you most likely knew it wasn't.

Speaker 2 (35:57):
Yeah, I had, I had a feeling. I don't part
my hair that way. But I appreciate you calling to
confirm that. Thank you so much for the call and goodbye.
I mean this genuinely when I say I am not kidding.
There's probably three times during the day where I think
to myself, I need a cigarette and this is gonna
be Numero Uno for the doubt.

Speaker 6 (36:18):
Ashley and The Gamine Morning Show with DJ Foign it's SAUTI.

Speaker 7 (36:22):
When you need to know, we got you three things
you need to know on Boston's number one for hip
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all right.

Speaker 2 (36:32):
Babs Friday, Feb twenty first, and it would be a
big deal obviously for Beyonce.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
You get your Sacred hair care line in Alta. You know,
she was pumped about this launch. It's gonna happen as
of April six.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
You'll be able to buy Sacred products, hair tools, all
the things inside Alta, which is always nice. I gotta say,
being able to go to a store physically and pick
something up if you need it. I'm a big online shopper,
but to know that you don't have to go to
like Sacred, you just walk in the store and get it,
try it, look at it.

Speaker 1 (37:03):
Always nice, she said.

Speaker 2 (37:05):
In the past year, we've helped so many make a
deeper connection with their hair building and community that redefines
what a typical haircare brand looks like.

Speaker 1 (37:11):
Now, why did I've kind of feel a type of way.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Well, Beyonce is now like, hey, go spend more of
your money buy my hair care products at Alta, and
most people in the comment section like Beyonce. We just
spent our rent checks trying to buy flights and hotels
and tickets for your country show, and now you want
us to go buy your hair tools at Alta.

Speaker 1 (37:33):
Give us a break.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
Okay, Well they can wait a couple months and buy
the hair stuff.

Speaker 2 (37:36):
For they're to have to yeah, or they just Hey,
I won't tell Beyonce if you don't buy her hair care.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
It's okay. You're you're paying that much money to go
see her in concert. She's fine.

Speaker 3 (37:45):
Also, it's going to be there in six months because
the product is more accessible.

Speaker 2 (37:48):
Now, I stay with you on that. But the comment section,
oh man, go in there if you're looking for a
little laugh.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
Oh god, hilarious. All right.

Speaker 2 (37:55):
DT welcoming attendees yesterday to the White House to celebrate
Black History and announce the planned National Garden of Heroes,
which will honor Black Americans and others. Here is DT
talking about who will be honored inside the garden.

Speaker 8 (38:10):
The garden will predominantly feature incredible women like Harriet Tubman,
Rosa Parks, Billy Holliday, Aretha Franklin, and Coretta Scott King.
It will be something very extraordinary. We're going to produce
some of the most beautiful works of art in the
form of a statue for men like Frederick Douglass, Booker T. Washington,
Jackie Robinson, What a great athlete that was, Martin Luther King,

(38:33):
Junior Muhammad Ali, and the late Kobe Bryant.

Speaker 3 (38:37):
People love Colby, people love Kobe, they do people like
Michael Jordan too. Why not him? Is it because Kobe died?

Speaker 11 (38:45):
Though?

Speaker 1 (38:46):
Yes, okay, all right, nobody is living that he named.

Speaker 3 (38:53):
I guess you're right, all right, I'm sorry, guys. I apologize.
I forgot that.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
All those people I die gonna make your I forgot that.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
I thought he was still alive. But in retrospect, yes
he has that he has passed away. Oh hey, fine,
And so when Michael dies will be on the.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
Thing then he can go. Okay.

Speaker 2 (39:11):
DT wanted to make it clear that these people are
not inside of the National Garden just because they're black heroes,
but also because they are true American heroes who inspire
all of us.

Speaker 1 (39:22):
They are also I don't even know where I was, like.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
They just had a stroke. When I'm back, that's gonna
make I thank you.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
All right, Speaking of being dead, let's talk about DJ
Khalid and Takashi six nine. Have you seen this story
sound with the coffins? This is so weird. I don't
know what's going on here, guys. But DJ Khaled is
the latest celeb to receive a black coffin in front
of his Florida home. So this also happened to Takashi
six ' nine, and it was a black coffin for

(39:52):
Takashi and on his coffin in white lettering, it's at
r I P King Vaughn.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
We know they had him and Takashi had like a
long standing beef between each other.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
Now DJ Khaled's coffin also black, but in his the
white writing said rip o vo rip Drake. So I
don't know, like I'm trying to really think about this.
If they're saying that Drake is dead in the coffin,
is this a Drake dis or are they saying Drake

(40:23):
is dead to you Dj Khaled? Because remember DJ Khaled
recently said I'm gonna have a new album on it.
I'm gonna have Drake on this album, and Drake was,
like commented in the comment sectually goes Drake, who Drake Bell?

Speaker 4 (40:34):
Not me?

Speaker 3 (40:34):
This one's confusing because it sounds like it's a marketing ploy,
but what's the purpose of it.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
The two that dropped the coffin off at DJ Khaled's
they prayed in front of it before.

Speaker 3 (40:43):
They left, and we don't know who these people are.

Speaker 1 (40:45):
It's got to be a stuck. I mean, it's clearly
it's clearly a stump.

Speaker 3 (40:47):
But what's the angle.

Speaker 2 (40:49):
I don't know, And I guess police are saying that,
you know, they're not going to press any charges because
they didn't really violate anything.

Speaker 1 (40:56):
They're just going to destroy the coffins and throw them out.

Speaker 3 (40:59):
Well technically they didn't, but it could be taken as
a threat though too.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
It's weird.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
Yeah, if you're Drake, I get. I don't know, it's weird.
People have a lot of time. It's probably the guy
who made the Instagram account about my four because he
has doing nothing else, Like he has a lot of time.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
He hit Miami and then yeah, that's crazy crazy.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
That's three things need to over Friday, Feb twenty first,
one thousand dollars. Who doesn't want a grand going into
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Speaker 1 (41:39):
Good Morning, Happy Friday, Dashy and the.

Speaker 4 (41:42):
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Speaker 9 (41:45):
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Speaker 1 (41:51):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 2 (41:55):
You know, I can't say enough about this show that
the show literally nothing without you guys, without the people
that listen. I think if we're doing our job the
right ways on people feel like and they should feel
like we're friends.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
Yeah, you know, and I.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
Think sometimes I've seen the meme that people send where
it's like my life will never be that bad, where
I'll call in the radio station, and I hate that
meme because I want, I always want people to call
in and tell us their stories and their ups and
their downs, because I think that's what we do every day.
I mean, how many times have I cried on this show?

(42:34):
Numerous times? I mean last year alone. I think I
cried twenty times. Yeah, I can cry right now.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
But when we do stuff like that, I feel like
you help so many people out there who are dealing
with the same exact thing, and I think it's so powerful.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
Well, you know I had talked about before I got
pregnant with Daisy. You know, I had had multiple miscarriages,
and the first miscarriage.

Speaker 1 (42:55):
That I had before Layla.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
So I had miscarriage, then I had then I had
two miscarriages, then I had Daisy. I didn't talk about
the first one, and I held it in and I drank.
I did whatever I did to kind of like get by,
and it was not for the best, Like it was
not good for me.

Speaker 1 (43:12):
Once I started talking.

Speaker 2 (43:13):
About it and realizing, you know, that there's other people
that have been through the same thing, and that we
can kind of find comfort in each other because it
can't be described the feeling of it, It really can't.

Speaker 1 (43:24):
You know, it helped me, it did. Now.

Speaker 2 (43:28):
I say all of this to say, we just got
a call and he did not want to come on air,
which I totally understand, but he basically was like he
didn't know who else to call, and he just wanted
to talk, but that him and his wife had just
gotten back from the doctors. Now this was just a
little bit agoes. So this must have happened this morning.
I don't know what led them to go to the hospital,
but she was five months along and they found out

(43:50):
that the baby didn't have a heartbeat, and he was bawling,
crying to us on the phone, and I could just
tell that he just needed somebody to talk to. And
I told him, I said, I wasn't that far along.
Mine was early in the first like nine weeks of
my pregnancy.

Speaker 1 (44:06):
At that time.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
You get to five months and you feel safe, you know,
you're like, okay, I made it past the first three.
Now I'm at five. I'm sure she was starting to
show a little bit. I don't think that can be described.

Speaker 3 (44:21):
I don't I've never had to experience that, but I
can only imagine, and I've only heard of it from
gentlemen like him and you talking about things. But you
could hear the heartbreak and his voice so much. And
it's one thing to hear somebody cry, but a man
going through it, like in this moment, I felt for
that guy, like I really did.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
I did too, and I like the fact that he
thought to call here.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
And I've made that very clear.

Speaker 2 (44:43):
I think in me talking about it, it was I
used the word selfish, and I didn't at that time.
It was really weird that I could think of because
it made me feel better to talk about it and
to talk to other people that had gone through it,
you know. And I said it a million times then
and I'll say it now. And I said to him,
somebody that's struggling with loss, eventually, God willing, you will

(45:10):
end up having the baby.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
And it really does.

Speaker 2 (45:16):
Make all of those times, those hard times, and all
those things that you went through. I don't even know
if worth it is the right way to phrase it,
but you know your whole you have you you you
got through it, and you have the baby, and you know,
it doesn't make that pregnancy any easier. It's terrible. And
every day I was even telling Santi the other day,
you guys, we we work out in the bathroom in

(45:37):
the gym. And when I was pregnant with Daisy, every
single time I would go to the bathroom, I would
hold my breath. I would hold my breath just worried
that like I was going to see spotting or whatever
the case may be, like that, I never rested during
that pregnancy, and then you have the baby and there's
still no rest. But you know, pregnancy loss and a
loss of a baby is it's it's undescribable, really is.

Speaker 1 (46:00):
And yeah, like you said, could absolutely.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
Hear the pain in his voice, and you don't often
hear like the men calling in to cry about that.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
When you talk about the first one and you talk
about what you did to cope through that and you
say that it wasn't the right thing to do. I
think more people need to hear that because I think
a lot of the times, especially most men will hold
down that pain, hold on that loss, and it comes
out in other ways and that's not the healthy thing.
But talking about it helps so much. Especially I feel
like that guy was calling just to talk about it,

(46:29):
just to release attention, and I know by the end
of it, couple that with your advice, he felt better.
It didn't like fix anything, but he just felt better.

Speaker 2 (46:36):
I think him calling sticks out to me too, because
you know, we physically are going through it, and obviously
that that's a different kind of pain because it's physical.
But just because we're going through the loss doesn't mean,
our partner isn't as well, right they he got to
the place of like, I have a baby on the way,
I'm going to have a baby in four months.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
So it's just hard all around in general.

Speaker 2 (46:58):
And it's just, you know, it's if you haven't been
through it, it's really hard to explain it.

Speaker 3 (47:04):
Yeah, it is like I don't know, I don't know,
and when you were going through anything, the only thing
I can say is like, I'm here, like even to
listen because I can't give advice because I have no idea.

Speaker 2 (47:12):
Yeah, and there's so many different people that have gone
through it that are vocal about it. You know, when
I talk about this, I think of Kelly Braybance, who's
you know, she owns Spooty by Braybance, and she lost
her baby girl, And I get choked at even thinking
about it because she's very honest about you know, some
day she wakes up and she's like, I can't even
get dressed, I can't even put on my makeup, and

(47:34):
then other days like I have an okay day, And
she made it all the way through her pregnancy and
got to meet her baby. So I just think that
the bottom line is it can't be described. Sometimes it
really is tough to say, like time heals all wounds.
But I do think, especially in a Kelly situation and
with this guy, I think that they will go on

(47:54):
to have babies, and I don't think that it will
take away and they'll forget what they went through before.
But I think that what someone told me that always
sticks out is you know, the baby just wasn't ready yet,
and the baby will come.

Speaker 1 (48:07):
The baby will come. But I don't want to bring
everybody down on Friday. It's just we just got off that.

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Call, and yeah, and like we hear a lot of
stuff that doesn't go on the air, and it affects
us too, Like we both got emotional. That was like
a lot because now we're parents and and and we're
looking at it from those eyes, and it's really tough.

Speaker 2 (48:25):
You do have like this this is gonna maybe cry.
But I remember there was like days where I was
like I don't know how to like go on, Like
I feel like everything is just like the world my
life is over, Like my world is over, you know,
And I'm sure that anybody that has experienced that you
feel like it. Then you start to feel like it's

(48:46):
your fault and you you know, but you just got
to put one foot in front of the other and
and help eventually. Like I still to this day, not
even kidding you. Two days ago, I will look at
Daisy and just start crying because I'm there days where
I'm like, will it ever happen for me?

Speaker 10 (49:02):
You know?

Speaker 2 (49:03):
So I just hope if he's still listening, that he
knows he can always call here. Anybody can call here.
If you're somebody listening that's going through that you can
always DM me. I tell people this all the time.
I'm no expert, but I do know how you feel,
and I can at least tell you that at Ashley
Film and Twee's on the Ashley I love you guys,
I do Okay, Dashy jam.

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Speaker 2 (49:31):
Hi, everybody, Happy Friday date night for some you know,
Friday night date night.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
Some people go out on Friday nights.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
Friday nights is for the girlfriends, Saturday nights for the wives.

Speaker 2 (49:42):
I oh, there's a little interesting.

Speaker 1 (49:44):
How the hell do you know?

Speaker 3 (49:46):
What do you know?

Speaker 1 (49:47):
Because I was like listen.

Speaker 2 (49:51):
We'd love to make fun of her, but I think
we have to obviously when she has something good going
for herself, talk about that as well.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
A j Friday night date night.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
Date number two, number two with the CEO does not
happen often. And for some reason, when we sat on
air that you were going out on a date with
a correctional officer, we got blown up. If you'll be
in like, don't go out with the CEO. Do not,
do not, do not. So you went out on the
first date. Obviously he was fine because we're going out again.

Speaker 16 (50:21):
Yeah, the first date was really good. I didn't see
anything wrong with him being a CEO.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
I mean he didn't have a family or anything.

Speaker 16 (50:28):
Sometimes not that I'm aware of, so hopefully not.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
So where did you guys go again for the first date?

Speaker 16 (50:34):
To have it in the Square?

Speaker 1 (50:36):
Oh yeah, that's your go to spot. Yeah, yeah, he
picked it.

Speaker 3 (50:39):
For date though. You go there and watch the sports game.
But I don't know if the date.

Speaker 1 (50:42):
So she loves to go there for days. I think
it's like local Ta Well.

Speaker 17 (50:45):
There's so many locations, but it's for a first date.
You're meeting for the first time. It's a nice, nice vibe.
You can sit at the bar, grab a drink. Now,
it's nothing too crazy.

Speaker 1 (50:54):
Where are we headed tonight? So I think it's.

Speaker 16 (50:57):
Called the Wolf Den or something like that. I don't know.
I've never heard of it. He has apparently never been either.

Speaker 2 (51:03):
But Woburn the Wolf Then I think that's what joming
to head up Nanny Helen on the buggets to the
bottom of the Wolf.

Speaker 3 (51:11):
The Wolf it's a funny name for a restaurant because
it doesn't give like a nice soft beyond. Could have
it wrong, like it's giving me cave.

Speaker 1 (51:17):
I got people in Wooburn. I'll get to the bottom
of it.

Speaker 16 (51:20):
The Fox Den close enough.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
It's an animal's den, an animal.

Speaker 3 (51:25):
It's really kind of word.

Speaker 16 (51:27):
I looked at the menu.

Speaker 17 (51:28):
They have a lot of perogis, but then they have
seafood and burgers and and it's in an interesting menu.

Speaker 16 (51:35):
But I guess we'll go and we'll try it.

Speaker 3 (51:36):
And you'll get the tacos.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
Yeah, so they don't have tacos parking.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
I need to look that up.

Speaker 16 (51:43):
But it's in Woburn, so it should be fine.

Speaker 1 (51:47):
Because you know she won't go.

Speaker 3 (51:49):
Yeah, but like what if it's on like a main
streeting at the parallel park.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
I'm screwed she's leaving. So now I know.

Speaker 2 (51:56):
Throughout the week you had mentioned that you hadn't heard
from him, so you were even sure if there was
going to be a date number two, But he did
end up reaching out at like one am.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
Different person. Why she got to be.

Speaker 3 (52:11):
The guy?

Speaker 1 (52:12):
Oh?

Speaker 17 (52:13):
Yeah, So it's been so it's been two weeks since
the first date, and honestly, our communication has just been
kind of not there. I know he can't have his
phone when he's at work and that's fine, but then
when we do talk, it's very like, hey, how was
your day?

Speaker 16 (52:26):
Well, my day was good.

Speaker 17 (52:28):
Yeah, We've had a few days where we just didn't
speak at all. The other day I reached out to
him because I was like, oh, I probably should, So
before today I wasn't sure if the date was going
to happen.

Speaker 16 (52:38):
But he did reach out yesterday and he was like, hey,
do you still want to go?

Speaker 2 (52:42):
So I'm not feeling like an excitement? Is there a
lack of that a little bit?

Speaker 1 (52:48):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (52:48):
Why?

Speaker 1 (52:49):
I don't know.

Speaker 17 (52:50):
Again, the first date was good, I felt conversation was great.
I was attracted to him, and then I got home
and I was just kind of like, if I don't
see him again, that's okay.

Speaker 3 (53:02):
Do you think it's because like you want to be
by like by yourself for the rest of your life.

Speaker 17 (53:06):
Honestly consciously, yeah, I don't know what it is. I
just I don't feel like if he did not reach out, I.

Speaker 16 (53:12):
Would have been like, Okay, that's fine.

Speaker 1 (53:14):
Maybe this will end up being more of a long
term thing and there will be more date. It's because it's.

Speaker 2 (53:22):
Different and I don't know, man, maybe after maybe you'll
tonight the date, you'll realize that on the first one
he was nervous.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
I don't know, who knows.

Speaker 16 (53:29):
That's the thing I didn't like.

Speaker 17 (53:30):
On the first date, there was nothing to complain about,
Like conversation flowed, there were no like awkward silences, Like
I was actually really enjoying it.

Speaker 16 (53:39):
So then when I got home and I was.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
Just like, nah, but like, what is it though, because
it seems like you're just not like.

Speaker 17 (53:44):
I don't know, I don't know what it is. Maybe
because are you attracted to him? Yeah, Like I said,
when we were talking, I was like, this is good.
I like what I see. But yeah, I just in
the past two weeks I've been.

Speaker 1 (53:56):
Would you kiss him tonight if he because it's not
the first date, I know your first date. We see.

Speaker 16 (54:01):
What's so crazy is he definitely tried to on the
first date.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
I did move your head.

Speaker 17 (54:06):
Well, I went in for the hug as he went
in for the kiss, So I not on purpose blocked
him from kissing me.

Speaker 16 (54:13):
Right now, I don't feel like I want to kiss him.

Speaker 1 (54:15):
No, how are you attracting?

Speaker 16 (54:19):
Because I did like what I looked at him, and I.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
Was like, why don't you want to kiss that?

Speaker 16 (54:24):
I don't know, I can't explain it.

Speaker 1 (54:26):
And why are you going seriously?

Speaker 17 (54:28):
Because I told myself that I would because there was
no reason for me to not go on a date
with him.

Speaker 16 (54:33):
And I don't think that I should cut him off.

Speaker 3 (54:36):
Yet, which I respect, because I feel like you get
super like, I don't know, stuck in certain people and things,
and I feel like you're expanding there with that mindset.

Speaker 17 (54:44):
Yeah again, there was nothing. There were no like red flags.
He didn't do anything weird. He didn't try to cross
any weird lines or anything. So there's no reason.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
I do think that after tonight, if you still feel
this exact same way, it's fair yeah, like fair as
in you gotta let him no, because unfair to him
is what I'm trying to say, that that you'd be
leading him on.

Speaker 17 (55:03):
But yeah, like I said, the first day was actually
really good. So I'm like, wait a minute, why do
I feel this way.

Speaker 16 (55:08):
Let's go on a second see how things go.

Speaker 3 (55:11):
But I also think tonight, if he tries to kiss
you should kiss him back. Don't don't move your head
again too, because that's like a very time.

Speaker 1 (55:19):
We'll see the fox is den the fox. Let's see
what's going to happen if the fox is den.

Speaker 3 (55:24):
And do you know there used to be a Lions
then in Salisbury Beach it was a strip club. Oh
give me the same type type of vibe.

Speaker 16 (55:32):
It did not look like a strip club when I.

Speaker 1 (55:34):
Hope it was.

Speaker 3 (55:35):
I hope you're going to get eggs and legs.

Speaker 2 (55:40):
And you know what, maybe you're not fully committed to
this one because you're also talking to other people.

Speaker 1 (55:43):
I don't know, maybe you're more into one of the
other guys and it's it's taking away your concentration from
this one.

Speaker 17 (55:49):
I'm that, you know, maybe, but I haven't seen the
other guy because.

Speaker 3 (55:54):
Other night that's like Who is this other guy?

Speaker 1 (55:55):
Why do we just get Why don't we just address this?

Speaker 17 (55:57):
It's the college guy. We talked about my friend from
college that I went out with.

Speaker 3 (56:03):
The college guy, the one I feel like she likes.

Speaker 17 (56:07):
I do feel like she's I don't know if it
was a date or not, and I still don't really
know right right.

Speaker 3 (56:13):
He tried to kiss you, would you kiss?

Speaker 5 (56:15):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (56:15):
She would tongue that man, you can tell she now.

Speaker 2 (56:18):
I think that's what I feel bad for the CEO
guy because the CEO guy. If we don't talk to
college guy, CEO guys getting bumped up.

Speaker 1 (56:26):
Now, ceo guys getting bumped for college guy, who, by
the way, is hitting herup at like one am Like
you up? Yo?

Speaker 2 (56:34):
You up?

Speaker 5 (56:35):
Well?

Speaker 1 (56:35):
Anyways, have fun at the Foxy tonight. Thanks.

Speaker 16 (56:37):
I'll get some Perogi's and report back.

Speaker 1 (56:39):
What's your pretenidal? He's not here? Now, what are we
gonna What are we gonna find out? On Monday?

Speaker 3 (56:44):
She's gonna come back and hate him because it's already
in her mind. But he's gonna end up kissing her.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
But I didn't really like him. He tried to kiss me,
so I kissed him back. Okay, Well, Why didn't you
like him? What was it he was breathing? Yeah, I
just like he was just breathing. And my presence and
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All right, everybody that is going to do it for
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If we missed anything today at Ashley Feldman to ease
on the Ashley. Other than that, we will talk to
you next week. Like I said, we will still be
down foreign He'll be back Wednesday. But DJ Jewles is
gonna hold it down and assist next week. Did hit
that port Man?

Speaker 1 (57:40):
We need We need to sit Jewels down and we
gotta figure out what's going on all with his life.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
Next week, Yeah, we goett to fix a sleep and
we also have to fix all the dents in the car.

Speaker 1 (57:47):
What's going on with that. We will get to the
bottom of it next week. Until then, have a great weekend.

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