How To Make It Last (Full Show)

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Yo, wake up.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hi, everybody, it's six o nine, And if I'm being
honest with everybody, I was up from midnight to two thirty.
I set my alarm for as late as possible, so
I got up.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
I did ten minutes worth of makeup. I left.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
I forgot to put a bron I'm currently free. I'm free,
but also something's happening, so we're gonna have to make
this quiz I talk.

Speaker 4 (00:46):
Oh, yep, you don't leak.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
I'm in hell.

Speaker 4 (00:50):
Why did you go to bed so late?

Speaker 5 (00:52):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (00:52):
Why'd you wake up the kids? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:55):
I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Daisy.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
I think she's cutting a tooth.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
She she's eight months and she's still has not a
singular tooth.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
So I gotta give it to him.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
The fireman really tried because when I after about an
hour of me down being down there, what's crazy is
I can pick her up, I can nurse her, she
she'll she'll hop off the boot and then she'll just
nuzzle into me and I can hold her. But it's
really all about the transfer. And when I go to
put her back in the crib, the feet start kicking.

(01:25):
She goes crazy as soon as I pick her up
and she nestles back in.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
She's fine.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
The fireman after an hour felt so bad because he
knew I had to get up for work, so he
came down and tried to tag team. That baby acts
like that man has like he's Edward scissorhands, like for real.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Like she scarms in his arms.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
As soon as she comes back to me, it's quiet,
like she just wants So then I feel bad because
he can't help, and it's just gonna have to be me.
And eventually I got her back down, but I also
won't bring her up to the bed. Yeah, because oh,
because that's a slippery slope. You do that once and
then that's what they're going to expect. So I just

(02:05):
sit in the rocking chair in the room for two
and a half hours and staring at my phone and
online shop and it's just terrible.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
So what you can do for the bra, You're just
gonna rock like.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
No I I had.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
This is the reason I don't have it on is
it's a whole process for me in the morning. But
I usually get up at three point thirty, I go
out put the pumping bra, and I put the pumps in.
I start to pump so I leave my pumping bro
out in the kitchen next to the pump. But because
I was feeding her all night long, I didn't pump
in the morning.

Speaker 4 (02:32):
So it's for my swetchine.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
The routine is broken. I am a broken woman.

Speaker 6 (02:37):
Yeah, and you know what's funny is that I was
about to start bragging how good of a sleep I have.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
But I'm gonna leave that.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
Wah No, tell me, you know it's my future.

Speaker 6 (02:44):
Remember we've been talking about like I've been trying to
get to bed at eight nine o'clock.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
I told you getake those dight ours a.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Couple of a couple of these days.

Speaker 6 (02:51):
These past few weeks, I've been doing that, and it
really does change the way I wake up, man, Like
I wake up mad fresh. I make up feeling good
and energetic. But I don't want to right because it
must be nice, must those kind of nights?

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Though?

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah, no, I know you do. And I listen again, it's.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
I will There will come a day where I'll be like, damn,
I wish that she only wanted to be held by
me and I could cuddle her up and she fit
like in the top half of my body. I know that,
but man, I already, today's gonna be a three coffee day.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
There's no questions. Anybody has cocaine.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
I'm sure if somebody this building does.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Anyways, with some of you guys, nothing other than getting
amazing sleep.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
No, I mean, I went to bed at nine o'clock,
so I feel good as well, let's go.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
It's crazy. I went to bed at seven thirty, like
I was in my bed. I was, I was, I
was there.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
But but to your point, though, when it comes back,
it does feel really good. You missed the moments. But
then there are different ones though too.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
I know, I know, and I really also do, like
I'm so lucky that I have a partner who's like,
it's not as if he does doesn't try. He came down,
he had warmed a bottle, like he was ready to go.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
He was, and you don't. You don't sleep, like.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Even when he was trying to put her down and
I was trying to hurry up, and it just I
was up.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
So I'm like, let me just go back down there,
because there's no point.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
I can't listen to her cry, like I know the
difference in between I'm crying because you know it's something
stupid or I'm really crying, and so I would be
shocked today if either A she doesn't crawl or B
she didn't cut a tooth, because that's when they don't sleep,
when they have milestones or something like that.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Oh, let's hope it's not the crawling, because you need
to be there for that.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
Hey, the jails are up, baby, jails are up, and
I will be I will just be in for it
once she starts crawling. But you know one thing I
did too while I was up, I was looking up
things in Disney that are like popular at this time
because Disney's always trying to up the anti and up
their game. There's a place inside of Hollywood Studios now

(05:01):
where you can go and you can you know, I
love the word guys, customize your own headband and you
can put characters on the headbands.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Watch about seventy videos on that. I will be doing that.
I'm gonna make me a daisy headband.

Speaker 4 (05:16):
She's not there, Like how much are we talking though,
because that's.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Another thing that we chrisis don't matter there though.

Speaker 4 (05:19):
Okay, you know that, you know that, I know.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
That, and no, I'm telling you right now.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
You walk into Disney, they're like that's seventy two fifty
for a design and you're like, I'll take four.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
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Speaker 1 (05:43):
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Speaker 2 (05:46):
Tuesday, March fourth, And you know, I saw the headline
and I thought to myself, we gotta worry about crashes
and now we gotta worry about scorpions.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
At low An Airport.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
What is going on?

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Forty year old woman hospitalized on Sunday after she went
to grab her coat out of her bag at Logan
and was stung by a scorpion. Now a little bit
of inside info somebody that listens to this show. Her
husband not only works at the airport, but was there
during this whole process. And basically what happened was the

(06:24):
woman was in Mexico for vacation, scorpion got into her bag,
she had no knowledge of it, stung her and she
actually sent me a picture of the scorpion in a jar.

Speaker 4 (06:35):
That's wild to think because scorpions you just always here
as being like poisonous and you could die.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Yeah, it's actually it's not. It's rarely life threatening. Good
And that's so fun fact too, because yeah, I feel
like there is that misconception. But no matter what extremely painful,
the horrifying, the more important question what airline spirit spirit?

Speaker 3 (06:57):
I have no idea.

Speaker 4 (07:03):
That would be crazy. The airline's fault is wherever.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
This lady was.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
Hey, hey, she was in Mexico, and somebody on this
show is headed to Mexico in a week and it's
not me, and it's not for you.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
Better zip that bag up.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
The resort that I'm staying does not have I guarantee
that he's so stupid.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
Wow, you mean now you're insinuating, she stated in a
trash he just does.

Speaker 4 (07:30):
Not have scorpions. Trust me. She stayed at a multi,
She stayed at an awful place with like rap.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
But you gotta really think about it.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
This is no I think it is because this was
the bag that she was checking, right, so that how
I mean it must have really just crawled in there
in her hotel room. Or maybe she was staying in
a friend's house, so we don't know, but I think
she was on vacation.

Speaker 4 (07:53):
Friend's dirty though, But just but just to think that
the thing hopped in her jacket got in the pocket
all the way.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
He Yeah, basically what I was being told. Whether it's
true or not, she just was. She landed in Boston
and she was cold, because you know, it's weird when
you travel somewhere warm.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
You try to figure out.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
So she had had her jacket in her suitcase and
went to grab her jacket out and got stuck.

Speaker 4 (08:12):
Oh, that must have been pandemonium on that.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
Oh you know it was in customs. So it was
in baggage claim.

Speaker 4 (08:19):
Oh, she opened her suitcase and customs that means she
must have gotten flagged.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
Yeah, it says she was retrieving luggage in the baggage
claim area at US Customs in Terminal East.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
So I don't think so.

Speaker 4 (08:29):
I think you got to get your bags before before
you go.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
Exactly.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
So she's grabbing her bag, she's she's like, oh damn,
it's chili back here in Boston.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
Let me get my coat out.

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (08:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
It's just not every day that you see a headline
like scorpion found at Logan International. It's like, we're head
at the Logan International on Sunday you're going back to
go to Mexico for your wedding anniversary.

Speaker 3 (08:53):
It's just like, I don't want to read these headlines.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, that's I'm good. But it could have been worse
because it could have been like a snake or something
like that, or like a bigger spider.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Positive about this is this is the one off. We're
never seeing this headline again in our lifetime. Yeah, most likely,
all right. I am not shocked in the least to
see this. But jay Z is standing on some things
here with this one. Jay Z issuing the woman who
is who had accused him of rape. Remember he was
accused of rape by a Jane Doe back in two

(09:22):
thousand after I think it was like the VMAs with Diddy.
This woman said she was sexually assaulted, then her story
changed about sixteen times. It ended up being dropped, but
he is now filing a complaint against her. In the suit,
he's blaming attorney Tony Busby, claiming that he quote pushed
her to go forward with a false narrative of the

(09:43):
assault to leverage a maximum payday. He's seeking quote undisclosed damages,
and Buzzby said the case.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
Has no legal merit.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
This is good. I think this is going to have
to learn.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
I love Yeah, I do too, Like it's not fair.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
It's not fair because there are women and men that
go through things that they're not making it up, and
it's it's again, it's unfair to them.

Speaker 6 (10:05):
Y'all gonna stop playing with these celebrities because Cardi b
I think started that trying to remember she showed that
one lady the blog, and I think they actually.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
Just want that when you were going when this happened,
because I was crying, so Tasha kay. They selled it
in court. Cardi so badly was like, I want my money.
She hit her with a Klarna plan. Basically she's going
to pay Cardi but like you would after pay and installment.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
Yeah, so I was like, she colrnet her court case.

Speaker 6 (10:30):
So you got to real stop playing with him, like
these people are not And he said that, Jayson said,
he did, you made the worst decision coming after me,
and you're gonna play and you're gonna pay.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
Remember when we first read his statement in response to it,
he was like, you're about to find out where I
came from. I'm not playing these games. By the way,
He's good him and Beyonce just hosted this massive Oscars
after party, So.

Speaker 6 (10:50):
Chase, fine, I see pictures.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
I didn't see what she had, actually, no, but I
saw all the hard Ashians were there.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
I saw the people that were there. But yeah, I
don't think I did see her.

Speaker 4 (11:04):
It was probably dancing too.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
Blue Boys gets to yea.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Ard.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
And lastly, it's a show we all watch. On this
show we love ourselves. Some Stranger Things. The final installment
of the series is coming out this year. I love
that show. I've always loved that show.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
And I think with.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
Acting, when you do such a phenomenal job at a character,
it is hard for people to see you beyond that.
Daniel Radcliffe has a really tough time booking gigs because
to the eye of the beholder, that man.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Is always Harry Potter.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
So now Harry Potter is It might be trying to
play a different role, but you still are who you are.

Speaker 3 (11:44):
You still gotta go back to Howkwarts.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
So Millie Bobby Brown, we know her as eleven from
Stranger Things, and it's it's it's quite like Harry Potter
in a sense where these kids started out filming at
ten years old and now they've grown up because sometimes
they took a year, two three off in between seasons
and they grow up, so it's like weird. But kids

(12:07):
beat our babies and then the age father time.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
That's not you would like to say.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
But Millie Bobby Brown, she's really grown into herself and
she married Jahan bon Jovi's son. She's a whole husband now, okay,
like she's a grown up and the Internet just can't
stand it. The Internet is so upset that this little
girl has grown up and I don't know why, but
it's gotten so bad for her and she's getting bullied
so bad for just being that she had to address
it on her Instagram.

Speaker 9 (12:33):
Hi everyone, it's Milly. I want to take a moment
to address something that I think is bigger than just me.
I started in the industry when I was ten years old,
grew up in front of the world, and for some reason,
people can't seem to grow up with me. Instead, they
act like I'm supposed to stay frozen in time, like
I should still look the way I did on Stranger

(12:53):
Things season one, and because I don't, I'm now a target.
One article reads, why are gen z is like Millie
Bobby Brown aging so badly? Written by Lydia Hawkin. Milly
Bobby Brown mistaken for someone's mum as she guides younger
sister Eva through La written by Cassie Carpenter. This isn't journalism.

(13:13):
This is bullying, and the fact that some of these
articles are written by women makes it even worse. I
refuse to apologize for growing up. I refuse to make
myself smaller to fit the unrealistic expectations of people who
can't handle seeing a girl become a woman.

Speaker 2 (13:30):
Let's do better, Yeah, love and grow up and her
nose bleed at twenty two?

Speaker 3 (13:34):
What is wrong with these people? It's so weird to me.

Speaker 4 (13:38):
She's aging amazingly and that I have. The tough thing
is that she's beautiful and I can't look like I'm like, wow,
I'm attracted to her as an adult, but then I
remember her young. I'm like, Okay, that's kind of weird.
But you can't like take away the fact that she's aging.
That's crazy. That is crazy, and it's telling that it
was women.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
Yeah, it is like crabs in a bucket out there.

Speaker 4 (13:58):
It's creep sure in the show too. So a couple
of years have passed, so it's not like she's like
pretending to be this girl who's eleven, No, and.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
She has relationships in the show.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
Like it's by the way, if you don't watch Tranger Things,
such a good show, and catch up because like I said,
the final installment is coming out, but.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
Again it's and I think I remember all the Harry
Potter kids going through it too.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
They aged like you, we watched them grow up before
our eyes. They went to they reread Hogwarts. But you know,
it's it's it's going to happen. They're going to grow up.

Speaker 3 (14:30):
At some point.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Lou Ivy and North are gonna be adults too. That's
very strange how that happens. Leave these kids alone. There's
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Speaker 3 (14:50):
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Speaker 2 (15:13):
Oh man, Hi everybody, It's crazy to think that in
just a couple of days we will be gone and
we'll be doing this show next week and Monday show
live from the Contemporary, which is a very famous hotel
outside of Magic Kingdom, and you have monorail access right

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into the park. A couple of questions that I want
to go through that we've been getting asked about this
Disney trip.

Speaker 3 (15:42):
First and foremost, how many people as a force? For
four people. We're throwing the number.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
Ten thousand dollars out there as what this trip could
be valued at. But I think depending upon where they
end up putting you up, we don't have that answer,
it could be even higher.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
Yeah, I think that's being light in NI. I went
through the process of this a few years ago, and
I think you can put in which hotels you want
to stay and kind rank them and they do their
best to put you in there, which is really where
do you want to be? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (16:09):
Another common question, do we have to go at a
certain time? No, it looks like you're going to have
a year to use your tickets. So I love that
just because it doesn't put the pressure on you to
be like, all right, congratulations, you want to ten thousand
dollars trip.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
Now you have to go between April fifteenth and April twenty. Yeah,
you know that's huge.

Speaker 4 (16:29):
That is like really huge. And like I think the
more popular times, like obviously some of you have more flexibility.
But I heard and I went one time. It's not
the week before the holiday. The two weeks before the holiday,
it's like kind of dead and the lines are at minimum.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
I'm not trying to push anybody that wins this to
go at a certain time, but there is something about
being in Disney in just the month of December that is, no,
you can't.

Speaker 3 (16:54):
Yeah, hey, it might be like getting out of jail.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
It might be I don't know it, because the magic
feeling of that of the entire park being decorated in
holiday decor is just it's next level.

Speaker 4 (17:09):
If you've never been, you gonna understand, like this is
the cleanest place on earth. They are so on point.
Everybody is like bought in.

Speaker 3 (17:15):
Telling about the trash can this always blows my mind.

Speaker 4 (17:17):
So the trash cans in the ground. You don't get
empty on the top. They get I'm like empty from underneath.
And they're never never see trash of them. It's a phenomenon.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
You never see trash, and they have there are photos
of me young all the way to my adult age,
like laying on the concrete like you just you sit
and you. I I changed the baby one time on
a changing path, but I put on the floor on
main Street because it was quick and I but it
like that's the type of cleanliness level we're talking here.

Speaker 4 (17:46):
And they have people just walking around looking for gum too.
That's another thing, that just pick up gum gum because
they don't want anything like like on the ground, anything thorn.
This is pure magic and I don't think you appreciate it.
I don't.

Speaker 2 (17:59):
There's all so forear in a like an inside Disney
joke that a lot of people know about that like
seventy percent of the people walking around Disney have a
knee brace You ever see that weird because it's I
think the steps that you end up putting in in
a day's worth of being a Disney is like crazy,
It's it's some wild number.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
So people like brace up. I'm not kidding you. Get
ready for them.

Speaker 4 (18:24):
When Pop went, he put on a brace because he
was I.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Wanted to slap him so bad for it, but I
saw that was one of the embracers and I was like, yeah, really,
but yeah, it's a time.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
It is a dime. Are you going to put the
Fireman on dilts of Disney I'm gonna try.

Speaker 3 (18:40):
I'm gonna try. He won't like it. I'll try to
get you up there too.

Speaker 4 (18:43):
Well, yeah, thank you.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
Zazi's greatest, greatest, greatest achievement in life would be if
I could get him on dilfs of Disneyland.

Speaker 4 (18:54):
Just you'll You'll be my goal, okay.

Speaker 3 (18:56):
And my goal will be because the Fireman doesn't want
to be up there anyway. So are you gonna wear
a tank?

Speaker 4 (19:00):
Do you want me to?

Speaker 2 (19:01):
I might?

Speaker 3 (19:02):
I might move. That might be for the best.

Speaker 4 (19:04):
If that's gonna help it, I will do.

Speaker 3 (19:07):
It's going to be a different kind of trip. Remember,
for us to.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
To make this happen, part of the agreement was that
we had to do the two live shows from the contemporary.
So it's gonna just be weird because we'll be up
at our usual time at three thirty do the show
and then go to the park. So if we are going,
like you're always tired when you've come back from your
Disney trip, this is going to be a different level

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of tire, and it's.

Speaker 4 (19:35):
Impossible to take a nap. It's also impossible for me
to go to bed at a decent time because my
family was already talking about going back to the park,
and I'm like, for.

Speaker 3 (19:41):
What for the fireworks?

Speaker 2 (19:43):
By the way, they are amazing, But I don't know
how to say this, and I'm trying to be trying
to say this in a nice way. A girl that
I that we all know that works in radio, she
me up and she's like, oh, you and Santi are

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the two that are going, because you know, everybody sends
two people blah blah blah. She said that she knows
a few other shows that are going, and she she's like,
it's it's an interesting crowd.

Speaker 4 (20:16):
Really why.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Didn't give me much detail, but said that a couple
of the people that, by the way, they're Disney is
also sending podcasters, so it'll be like we're at table
ten and we know that, but there's gonna be podcasters
that go that strictly have Disney related podcasts, and then
there will also be radio shows.

Speaker 3 (20:35):
And she just told me she's like, some of these
people that.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
Are there with you are like there's there's there's, there's you,
and then there's them who like they bleed Disney. I
think we know we're gonna look like low level because
they're gonna hear us doing our regular show and be like,
wait a second, why are you not talking about the mouse.

Speaker 3 (20:54):
I don't care.

Speaker 4 (20:55):
I've always experienced with stuff like this. This in our industry.
There's a lot of weird people.

Speaker 2 (21:00):
By the way, because they're making they're literally making a
living off that, and that's amazing.

Speaker 3 (21:04):
I'm jealous. No, seriously, that's a thing.

Speaker 4 (21:08):
Well, there's a whole market out there though, people like
make a ton of money making content based off these
theme parks.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
I've noticed in the last few days, I'm getting so
many questions like, okay, ash, if you're just bringing Leila,
like I posted last night, people were asking me, are
you going to travel with a stroller? Are you gonna
rent from Magic Kingdom? Like there's so many questions behind
a trip like this, and especially when you bring young kids.

(21:36):
So I can only imagine that these Disney influencers have much, much, much,
much to talk.

Speaker 4 (21:40):
About, and that's all they wear too, is Disney like gear.
I just dislike trip.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
It's gonna be a situation where because remember, we're gonna
be able to still talk so foreign in between. But
I think it's gonna be as being like, you're not
even you know what I mean, trying to fill him
in because it's.

Speaker 4 (21:56):
Just and I'm sure everybody's nice, but oh yeah, that
really believe their own hype. And I feel like we're
gonna run into a.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
Lot of those can't wait. It's going to be a time.

Speaker 4 (22:06):
I'm sure you can wait, because when you start talking
to them, it gets it gets old fast.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Obviously, leaving the baby is going to be upsetting. I
only left my mother with two rules. Number One, we're
not just like giving milk out on demands, like this
is the milk, that's that's there. I actually put milk
in baggies already that say like Monday bag, only going
the Monday bag from Monday hunting.

Speaker 3 (22:29):
I know, no, no, no, I'm not kidding. I text
that's what everybody said.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
Dr people were heading to be like ash, you gotta
really hide your stash because this woman is not going
to stay in her bag.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
She's and this definitely.

Speaker 2 (22:43):
And the second thing I said to her is we're
so close to daisy crawling. I said, if you if
you get a crawl, if it happens under your watch,
you are to act like you did not see it.

Speaker 3 (22:57):
I don't want to see a video. I don't want
to get a call.

Speaker 2 (22:59):
Oh I'm called, And I said, Mom, No, I'm like,
I got like, actually I would get emotional about that
that I missed it, Like you can't.

Speaker 4 (23:05):
Oh huh, I'm calling.

Speaker 3 (23:08):
I'm calling. I said, Mom, you can't call me.

Speaker 4 (23:12):
I'll be upset. But would you rather not see it
and like come back to her just like full crawling
to get a video?

Speaker 2 (23:20):
Now, I truly believe ignorance is bliss, So I would
rather not know. And I come home and I see
your crawl and to me, that's the first time she's
ever done it.

Speaker 3 (23:29):
But Terry will live for this moment.

Speaker 4 (23:30):
Yeah, but in my opinion, the walking is a better experience.
Like that first, that first crawl is sag.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
She's fully like grabbing stuff and standing up now like
the crawl is coming any second. I'm we're on o'clock now,
if you can do it before Sunday, it would be nice.

Speaker 4 (23:46):
Did we have a conversation with both the mothers, because.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
Yeah, the fireman's mom, the baby will be milk drunk.

Speaker 4 (23:57):
You don't have the stack question. It's gonna be upside
down on the I'm coming.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
I'm coming back to Marshfield and the entire town is
gonna be like your breast milk was so sweet.

Speaker 4 (24:06):
We loved it.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
We're hugging you up at the Disney trip at eight
twenty Good morning actually and the.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Gym in Morning show with DJ Feign and Sunty.

Speaker 7 (24:13):
When you need to know, we got you three things
you need to know on Boston's number one for hip
hop and the best throwbags.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
She haven't any more five Tuesday, March fourth. And it's
not a headline you see often.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
A scorpion found at Boston Logan International. I feel like
lately the headlines we're seeing as another plane craft not
on spirit though.

Speaker 3 (24:37):
I'll throw you, I'll throw you that.

Speaker 6 (24:38):
The animals have been rampant. There was a scorpio. What
was the other thing they found?

Speaker 2 (24:46):
They found rats up in the where you put your
bags on the spar planes.

Speaker 4 (24:50):
Yes, and then in the terminal they found a rad cone, Like,
what's going on?

Speaker 3 (24:53):
I don't know. Somebody that works at the airport, her
husband works there. She hit me up. She listens to
the show.

Speaker 2 (25:01):
She basically said from what she gathers, this woman forty
years old went to Mexico on a vacation. She came back.
She was at baggage claim in the customs area. She
was like, oh, I'm a little cold, let me grab
my jacket out of my suitcase, and she got a
whole handful of scorpion.

Speaker 3 (25:21):
The scorpion must have crawled in her bag while she
was there in Mexico.

Speaker 4 (25:25):
Could you imagine if that was in her like carry
on and that got out while you were up in
the sky.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
Yeah, because I would have been afraid to even step
on it, because what if the stinger gets in your shoes?

Speaker 11 (25:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (25:39):
Do you land the plane if the thing's running loose
in the in like the cabin, I say no. If
it's a dangerous animal, I think yes.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
They got through the scorpions. I think people think them.
They think you're dead right off the bat.

Speaker 11 (25:51):
You're not.

Speaker 3 (25:52):
A lot of the times, they're.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
Rarely life threatening. But that's gonna go ahead and hurt you,
and it's gonna be painful. Yeah, I mean, listen, I
love how but if I saw like a black widow
type pull the plane down.

Speaker 4 (26:04):
But that's a different story because that you could actually die. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
I actually know somebody that got bit by a spider
on an airplane and due to the elevation and them
being allergic, like whole body swelled up, the whole body
like it was some crazy stuff. Well it wasn't a scorpion.
That's not spider.

Speaker 4 (26:24):
Oh yeah, I know, I know, I know, Like I
need to get to my vacation.

Speaker 2 (26:29):
I've actually never been on a plane with any sort
of medical emergency like that.

Speaker 3 (26:34):
Now, I'll tell you.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
I'll tell you this though, and it completely makes sense
to me. But I Laila was six months old. I knew, mom,
I've never traveled with a baby before. I did not
know that it's pretty much illegal to like change the
baby's outside of the bathroom.

Speaker 4 (26:52):
I had that. I did that. I did that.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
It was a p but I quick, but you're not, no, you're.

Speaker 4 (26:58):
It's it's illegal.

Speaker 3 (27:00):
Yes, I'm because that's how it was made to me.
Because it's like it's like weeks in the air in
the tube.

Speaker 4 (27:10):
And that happened to me. The flight attendant absolutely lost
on this woman. Yeah, it was bad, it was really.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
I had no idea. I wasn't doing it out of
disrespect anything. I had genuinely no idea. And by the way,
when I did it, no one said anything to me.
It's not until after I learned that you're not supposed
to do that.

Speaker 4 (27:26):
I also think it was fine because it was stuff.

Speaker 3 (27:30):
But anyways, everybody is okay, you know.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
A spokesperson for Boston MS confirmed that the you know,
they responded to the incident and it was isolated. So
I don't think when we had there on Sunday there's
gonna be any more scorpions running around, But I hope.
Can I just say, though, rather ten scorpions on my
plane than a crash, I don't know, load me up,
load me off a scorpion per role agent.

Speaker 4 (27:57):
I'll take a thousand of them versus.

Speaker 2 (28:01):
Right, I mean, it's one step too far, but yes, yep, yep, people,
I think we can both.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Agree on that.

Speaker 4 (28:14):
Terrorist function. They want that.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
I would think I'm kidding.

Speaker 12 (28:24):
We are.

Speaker 3 (28:24):
Let's go, let's stay in Boston. But a little something fun.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (28:28):
The Celtics doc is officially out on Max.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
This thing looks so good because if you think about
the roster of Boston Legends then and now, I mean
we got we got a lot of good guys that
can talk about the Celtics franchise and what it means
to be a Boston Celtic.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
Here's a little look into the promo.

Speaker 2 (28:52):
Is not come to work out of respect from what
people have laid here before.

Speaker 1 (28:58):
Celtic Pride would have. So every team that's Hunger Banner
that's calling through something.

Speaker 4 (29:07):
Thirty teams in the league, how many got things? It's
gonna last forever.

Speaker 3 (29:12):
You sign me up, Sign me up thirty seconds.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
I'm in.

Speaker 4 (29:20):
The guy who produced this is like just a local
guy who's in the podcasting world and his name is
Bill Simmons. Used to be like a writer for po
and does these things right.

Speaker 2 (29:30):
I literally watched that thirty second trailer and I was like,
I'm putting this hunt tonight.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
That's how good it look.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
He's also the guy that produced the thirty for thirty
for ESPN for all those years. Oh I love that
really good.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
You can't watch the thirty for thirty and I cry, Yeah,
it's every time, all right? Then?

Speaker 3 (29:44):
Lastly, jay Z was not playing. And I remember when
this allegation first.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
Came out and jay Z issued his statement, he was like,
you're about to find out where I'm from, Like, don't
don't play these games with me. And he held onto
that because he is now suing the woman who accused
him of rape. Remember, Jane Doe filed a claim that
jay Z sexually assaulted her after the MTV VMA's back
in two thousand. She eventually withdrew her lawsuits against jay

(30:10):
Z because remember, her story changed multiple times to the
point where she was.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
Like, well, I mean I can't remember because this and
it just it got weird.

Speaker 2 (30:20):
So jay Z basically is blaming her attorney, Tony Busby,
claiming that he pushed her to go forward with a
quote false narrative of the assault to leverage a maximum payday.
Jay Z is seeking quote undisclosed damages. Buzzby, on the
other hand, is saying that jay Z's case has no
legal merit. What do we think jay Z's asking for, Uh,

(30:41):
like the whatever he lost And honestly, that.

Speaker 3 (30:44):
Man deserves every penny.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
You can't be coming out here with lies and expecting
not have to pay.

Speaker 6 (30:49):
I feel like people like that need to go to jail,
bro or jail. Yeah, they need to stop making example
of people who because that's a big claim to put
that kind of charge on somebody that can impact the
entire Like you're not just saying they stole candy and
then come to find out it's false.

Speaker 4 (31:03):
Nah, bro, Like they need to go to jail.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
I agree with you.

Speaker 2 (31:07):
You prosecuted you because here's the thing. We would expect
a rapist to be jailed for the rest of his
life of the jail. And so if you're gonna come
out and try to say that a man did that
and you're making it up and he has a whole family,
and like, it's just And by the way, in my opinion,
it doesn't matter if it's a celebrity, anybody. You can't
you can't say that. I always go back to like

(31:27):
the Duke Lacrosse case, and I think about what that
woman did to those young boys over something she completely
made up. Yeah, it's just crazy. So we'll see what
ends up happening there. It seems like Tony Buzby's gonna
fight this one tooth and nail. By the way, if
you're wondering, Jay Z fine. The man threw a massive
Oscars after party, so he's like, hey, here's my lawsuit,
but give me a second, I gotta go throw a

(31:47):
big party for all my celebrity friends.

Speaker 3 (31:50):
That is three things you need to know for Tuesday,
March the fourth.

Speaker 2 (31:53):
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Speaker 3 (32:03):
Up, hit it and say good morning, Happy Tuesday. Formerly
known as Tender Tuesday, we call it Beyond the Swipe.

Speaker 2 (32:16):
Now, just because this segment certainly does encompass so much
more than just somebody swiping on Tender. We've had people calling, Hey,
I'm in a relationship and I'm going through ABC and D.
What's your advice? You know, I, without naming names, know
some people that are going through whether it's divorce on

(32:40):
the horizon or a breakup, and I can tell that
the sentiment is the same. It's I am afraid of
what's out there because all we ever hear are these
horror stories.

Speaker 4 (32:50):
You know, But it's crazy to think that somebody would
stay in a bad relationship instead of exploring, like the
freedom and positivity could be out there, And.

Speaker 6 (32:58):
When you're stuck in that situation, don't see for what
it is true, you know what I mean. You're blinded.
You feel like there's nobody else out there for you,
Like what did I do wrong? Why don't they want me?
It's hard for some.

Speaker 2 (33:08):
People to let go, and then you think, well, if
this is over, will anybody else ever want me? And
then that that becomes a whole thing too, and then
I think you you block your blessings.

Speaker 6 (33:18):
Yeah, I think the belief should be that somebody will
at some point. Self love and self worth is a
big thing that people need to get up on. Yeah,
I let anybody else dictate how much of a good
person that you.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
You got to date yourself and love yourself to find
anybody else like period. And I only know that because
I went through that for a while and I did
not love myself and it was not good there for
a little bit. But you know, once I got through
that bad breakup and I was like, you know what,
it's actually not that bad and you do eventually find love.

Speaker 4 (33:45):
Was this the last time around?

Speaker 2 (33:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (33:47):
Last time wrong? Got ugly. Yeah, because I think once
there's like.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
You, if there's infidelities or something like that, you kind
of start to doubt yourself and who you are.

Speaker 3 (33:58):
You think like, well, I wasn't.

Speaker 4 (33:59):
Good enough and I have to imagine it's all and
it's almost impossible not to compare yourself to the other
person too.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
Yeah, I'm got to talk about this all the time.
It's not it's no surprise. It's just we all hope
that our ex moves on with someone grotesque.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
Don't mind on me. Don't look me in the eye
and tell me that you hope they move on with Beyonce.
You don't.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
And for some reason, if you date me models after,
I guess I'm I guess I have the like of
the Irish. I don't know, uh, But either way, we're
calling it beyond this wipe now just because dating right
now is it's different, it's it's it's very interesting out there.
So if you have a story to tell me about dating,

(34:39):
if we tender bumble her plenty of fish, any of
the apps love to hear it.

Speaker 3 (34:43):
But maybe you're in a relationship and you want to
call and talk about that.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
Maybe you want to tell a story of finding love
and a little bit of positivity in this crazy dating world.

Speaker 3 (34:51):
Anything you want. That's why we call it beyond this Wipe.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
Now six one seven, nine, three, one one nine four
five six one seven, nine three, one, one nine four
or five are talking dating, love and relationships.

Speaker 3 (35:03):
It's beyond a swipe on Jael.

Speaker 10 (35:05):
Exactly and jam In Morning Show with DJ four and
it's Soty Good Morning, Bustin's.

Speaker 13 (35:10):
Number one for hip hop. Heam in ninety four or five.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
I've Abe's good morning. We are talking dating, love, relationships.
It's beyond the Swipe, Raquel and Somerville is gonna kick
it off for us.

Speaker 3 (35:23):
Raquel, it's not easy out there. It's it's it's tough.
I get it.

Speaker 8 (35:27):
Not easy.

Speaker 3 (35:28):
They preach.

Speaker 14 (35:29):
Amen.

Speaker 15 (35:29):
I'm saying, so, how long have we been single?

Speaker 3 (35:32):
And why why do you say you think it's so hard.

Speaker 15 (35:36):
I've been seeing almost four years now, and honestly, I
love it, and I love myself and I've been dating
myself and everyone else and I've seen it.

Speaker 8 (35:44):
But it's so hard because.

Speaker 15 (35:46):
It's hard because you go on dates with men and
like they want to know if you're dating and I
say yes because I'm honest and it's like, aren't you
and no, I just I don't know. I think everyone's
dating everybody, and it's just like, let's just be honest.
I'm gonna date, I'm gonna date. I'm gonna date, I'm

(36:06):
gonna date, and then I'm gonna choose who is gonna
feed me the most and help me the most.

Speaker 2 (36:12):
So I don't feed you like money wise or your soul,
which one. We have to be specific out here, we
have to be specific.

Speaker 4 (36:24):
So so that's interesting.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
So that's interesting to me that you feel like a
lot of times on these first dates, the guys are
asking you straight up, are you dating other people?

Speaker 1 (36:34):
Girl?

Speaker 15 (36:35):
Straight up? Body count?

Speaker 2 (36:36):
Like what?

Speaker 15 (36:39):
Yeah, depends on the straight up I think. I'm like,
when was the last time you had you know, the
I'm like, somebody asked you on the.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
First date, when is the last time you had sex?

Speaker 15 (36:51):
I'm like, yeah, girl, oh my god, I've had the
funniest day before.

Speaker 3 (36:54):
You shut up. Don't listen to the man.

Speaker 14 (37:01):
The man that did that.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
All right, So let me ask you this. You've been
single for a while. What's the longest you dated somebody?

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Like?

Speaker 3 (37:07):
How many dates can you can you string together?

Speaker 15 (37:11):
I'm dating someone right now that I think it has
a lot of potential, but like, sometimes things just happen,
and I'm like.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
Really, give me an example.

Speaker 2 (37:22):
Give me example of a moment that you've had with
this new guy that you're kind of into, or you've
been like ugh, really.

Speaker 15 (37:30):
Like I don't know if I want to put it
out there like that, but like just simple things, just
simple things that almost like it makes me feel like
a mom instead of a girl, like I have to
tell him certain things like like I don't know, for example,
I don't have to tell him this to like get
up and brush your teeth, you know, like just I
don't know. I don't want to. I don't want to

(37:52):
put him on blast, but yeah, just things that annoy me.
And I'm like do I just go like is the
grass always greener? If you know?

Speaker 3 (38:00):
I know, I understand.

Speaker 2 (38:01):
Listen, the guy you didn't say his name, but if
you don't give us an example of something he's done
where I could be like, okay, maybe then.

Speaker 3 (38:07):
I can't help you, but I listen.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
I hope that I hope that there are little things
that are small enough that you can get past them,
because you.

Speaker 15 (38:16):
Know, yeah, I know it's nothing like cheating or like
being disuspectful or it's just like Dailey like.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
Daily say it.

Speaker 3 (38:26):
Just give me one example, like driving me not yeah,
like is he not clean?

Speaker 1 (38:34):
I like.

Speaker 15 (38:35):
He is clean. I wouldn't be dating if he wasn't.
Just just stuff like just stuff that you would have
to tell a teenage boy.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
Okay, yeah, you know with hygiene. Okay, So he smells.
He smells. That's not something.

Speaker 15 (38:51):
That's not something you guys like until they say it.

Speaker 2 (38:58):
We are journalists. The man doesn't wipe his butthole and
he smells. Okay, all right, Raquel, well listen. If you
can get past the smells, then God bless you. I'm
pulling for you. And this this love question is hey,
birahall letting. No, the manda is in shower, he doesn't
brush his teeth and he has skid marks.

Speaker 3 (39:20):
Like, here's the thing.

Speaker 2 (39:21):
Guys, you're not gonna call me and be like, well,
there's this one thing that really sticks out, but I
can't say it.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
So then why are we doing this thing? Say the thing?
Because I can't dance with you and I want to. Uh,
Jimmy is in Dorchester, Jimmy, talk to me.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Hi, Jimmy, are you doing so?

Speaker 5 (39:39):
I think I think that the lady that just called
nailed it on the like right on the nail, because
the reason why it's hard to date from people these days,
because everybody got their own agendas. She sat there and said, clearly,
who's going to do the most for me or feed
me the most? That's the problem right there. I think
anybody's different from twenty years ago and then what it

(39:59):
is today. I agree, no man gonna want to be
with nobody that's wanting wanting wanting, or who's gonna do
the most of me? That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (40:06):
I think the verbiage should have been like that we
could feed each other. And whenever you hear that that like,
oh that can feed me, I go right to Okay,
this woman is just trying to get literal free dinners.

Speaker 3 (40:17):
But she meant like you feed her soul.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
But she should have said that we can feed each other,
you know what I mean, that we make each other
better type of thing. But I Jimmy, when I think
she'd be tough to date too after that conversation, I
stand with you.

Speaker 5 (40:30):
I stand with you on that a lot, but a
lot of women, but a lot this doesn't obtain to
me because I'm married. But this is from what I
see on the outside. Everybody has their own agenda. Everybody
wants something out of their relationship.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
It's not true.

Speaker 5 (40:43):
It's transactional wanting something. Everybody wants something. Can we ner
hair done, nails done?

Speaker 3 (40:49):
Doing all that?

Speaker 5 (40:50):
We just not a week ago, and we just met
the person a week ago. How do you expect to
get all of that from a man after a week
or two of dating them?

Speaker 2 (40:57):
I mean, I want all those things, and I pay
for them myself. So I do think that there are
people out there like January.

Speaker 5 (41:03):
That's the type of woman. That's the type of woman
the man wants.

Speaker 14 (41:07):
I'm wanting.

Speaker 3 (41:09):
It's Jimmy in the morning shop, my best jim Listen.
I want to say this.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
I have friends right that are out there and they
are in the dating world, and they are they are
nothing like that that last conversation. They're literally looking for
a real relationship and love. They live by themselves, they
take care of themselves. They're not like looking for those
things like those girls are out there. Maybe they're few
and far between, but they're out there. AJ's one.

Speaker 5 (41:33):
They're out there A lot. I think it's like fifty
to fifty. Okay, are jim for the people like the
people that you're saying and half of the women that
I'm saying. That's all I see nowadays is women wanting
seat done, hair done, nails done, trips out of you know,
plane trips and stuff, right, and then they want to
have a relationship after. That's not going to work that way.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
And I can't fight you on that because I see
I do see some of those girls out there too,
and it's a shame because there are other ones who
really do just want to find But Jimmy, thank you
for the call. We got a ton of other lines
lighting up. We're doing beyond the Swipe right now. But
this this listen, it's turned into a vent sash.

Speaker 3 (42:07):
That's why we just couldn't call it tender Tuesday. Guys.
Let's vent.

Speaker 2 (42:10):
Let's let's get some things off of our chest. Six
one seven nine three six one seven three one one
four five. At this point, we're pretty much talking about
dating right now in America. It's not a good climate
out there. It's freezing. Hi, everybody, good morning. It's actually
the gym of morning show. We're doing beyond the swipe.

(42:30):
We're talking the climate of dating out there. I feel
like the conversation has kind of turned it. Let me
tell you, I see as hell it's frizing out there.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
So we're learning. Gabby is in Boston.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
Gab, I can not even believe this, but you went
on two dates with an older man?

Speaker 3 (42:48):
What I need an age here? How old are you?
And how old was he?

Speaker 16 (42:53):
So I'm twenty five at that point, I was twenty four.
It was last year, and he's like thirty four. And
you would think that the older guys got it together,
but they're terrible, terrible.

Speaker 3 (43:04):
Tell everybody what he said to you on date number two.

Speaker 16 (43:08):
So it was fine, Like the first day was great.
We had great conversation. You know, he has some stuff
going on. I had my stuff going on, and I
you know, I had a little bit too much to drink,
but I was still good. And I just remember at
one point he was like, oh, okay, you know, we
can go back to the car and just talk and
get to know each other more. And I said cool,
and out of nowhere, like I started getting really tired,

(43:31):
and he was basically using my phone and trying to
like open up my phone using space ID, but I
didn't realize it until the next morning because I woke
up and I'm starting to remember all these things. And
I called him and I'm like, were you trying to
like go through my phone? And he was like, yeah,
I have to see who you're talking to. Like it
was it was crazy. I had to let him go back.

Speaker 3 (43:55):
Do you feel like you put something in your drink?
Is that what you're insinuating?

Speaker 8 (43:59):
I don't think.

Speaker 16 (44:00):
I'm not sure, honestly, I really don't. I mean, you
never know what people. But I just find it so
weird because this was a year ago and he's still
like I've watched him and he still like leaves me
like creepy voicemail. Like two weeks ago he sent me
a voicemail telling me to unblock him and all these
crazy things.

Speaker 3 (44:20):
You might want to get a restraining order on that
when that sounds a little bit much for me.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
And the fact that you were trying to go through
your phone on the second to see if you're talking
to anybody else is so weird.

Speaker 3 (44:29):
Gabby, thanks for the call. The sentiment of are you
dating anybody else.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
On date one or day two is diabolical, Like what
do you mean, yes, I'm dating, That's why I'm here.

Speaker 4 (44:39):
The crazy part is that they take offense with it
because you're all there doing the same exact thing, right,
you should be okay to date like other people just wants.

Speaker 6 (44:46):
To be serial datas out here, right because they just
want you to themselves and they want to be outside
in the streets.

Speaker 3 (44:51):
Michelle is in leven Ster. Hi, Michelle, Hi.

Speaker 2 (44:56):
So Jimmy called and Jimmy was passionate and he was
just like, listen to all these emails out here in
the dating world. They just want trips, They want their
nails done, their lashes, their hair. And I said, do
I think that that is true? Do I think there
are some women like that? Absolutely?

Speaker 3 (45:11):
But do I think I have Yeah?

Speaker 2 (45:13):
But also I think, like I have friends, there's an
eight there's ajs of the world that really are on
the the apps trying to find true love.

Speaker 3 (45:23):
That's right, So what is your point?

Speaker 14 (45:28):
My point of view is this, I think there were
women like that all over the place. But I think
there are guys all over the place that are all
about their richard first thing and foremost, and that's all
they care about.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
Is there what not one thing.

Speaker 3 (45:44):
They're Richard. Okay, yes, they're Richard, And it's the first thing.

Speaker 14 (45:49):
You know, you're on the dating app. You just got
talking ten minutes ago, and they're sending you pictures.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
You know what.

Speaker 14 (45:54):
I'm not about that, And if I was about it,
I wouldn't be on a dating app.

Speaker 4 (45:57):
Looking for you, Michelle that man.

Speaker 6 (46:00):
I do kind of agree with Michelle, because I mean,
for men, it's it's kind of been a stereotype that
men only won one thing, especially on these dating sites,
right yeah, And I feel like there's been a revolution
of women in the last I don't even know how
many years. But they were like, you know what if that,
we're gonna start acting like dudes and we're gonna start
demanding the same thing. So yeah, if you want to
date me, you gotta buy me nails, you gotta take
me out to an expensive dinner, you gotta buy me

(46:21):
a bag, and not just become this whole other things.

Speaker 2 (46:25):
It's just weird, Like you'll see a conversation where the
girl or the guy's like hey, and the girl's like hey,
what's up, and then the guys like I want to
motor boat you.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
You know, I just like right right right to it.
Maybe maybe that's my favorite color. I don't know.

Speaker 14 (46:40):
Oh my god, no, I know, I mean I didn't
even know what No motivo one closing.

Speaker 4 (46:45):
You're sick now you love it, right, Michelle?

Speaker 14 (46:49):
I would never I don't even understand.

Speaker 3 (46:50):
Never call you stupid, Michelle. How old are you?

Speaker 4 (46:52):
Man?

Speaker 14 (46:54):
I'm sixty two.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
You're sixty two, and you're single, and you're trying to
find love O here and then all these riches just
want to show you their richards.

Speaker 3 (47:01):
I get it.

Speaker 14 (47:02):
Yeah, yeah, And I'm not about it. I'm not about
it at all, gentlemen. And I will, I absolutely will,
and I thank you very much.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
All right, No, I thank you, Michelle. I just got
a flash I just got like a flash forward of AG's.

Speaker 3 (47:15):
That's that's a sixty two. Like I'm sick of these richards.

Speaker 6 (47:19):
Richards A question, especially for a right, wouldn't you rather
somebody just be honest with you from the jump so
you don't waste.

Speaker 3 (47:25):
Your time trying as in, hey, I just want to
have sex with you, that's it.

Speaker 6 (47:28):
As opposed to me trying to saurenade you. And I
know what my angle is is to try to get
you know, to clap that and should I just say
it from Jump Street.

Speaker 17 (47:36):
I mean, yes, if that, But there's other ways to
say it than like messaging someone and being like, hey,
can I make your eyes roll back tonight?

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Like whoa?

Speaker 17 (47:43):
I like that line that you say to somebody that's aggressive.

Speaker 4 (47:48):
I fail.

Speaker 2 (47:49):
You know, you and I have talked about this, like
Foreign I think we've made it very clear, like Foreign
is a freak in the bedroom. He likes certain things.
You're not going to come out of the game with that.
You gotta warm up and then you get the feeling
from the female if you can say those.

Speaker 6 (48:02):
But at the same time, if I'm just here for
a good time and not a long time, you're going see,
I'm gonna lead that conversation. I'm gonna be very flirtatious.
I might be very sexual in my flirt like you're
gonna know what time I'm on, you know what I mean.
I'm not gonna be like, hey, you know you look nice,
let me take you out to dinner, let's know, because
I don't want to. That's not what I want. I
don't want a long term relationship. So I think a

(48:23):
lot of these guys and maybe women, they just eat
that up and be like Hey, yo, this is going
to be a long term thing. And then when they
when they give it up and they don't call you
no more, you wonder why.

Speaker 17 (48:31):
But if that is what a guy is looking for,
list it on your profile, because I will not swipe
right on someone who says they are looking for short
term fun. But when they list that they're looking for
a long term relationship and that's the first thing they
come out with in the conversation, that's frustrated.

Speaker 4 (48:47):
I've been said that these are apps are all just
for just for hookups.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
I feel I know.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
But then I could give the number and say call
me if you found love on the app, and every
line will light.

Speaker 6 (48:57):
But that will be that will be one out of
maybe twenty people, one out of ten people. I felt
the majority is going to be this guy played me
or this check played me and they just wanted one
thing and they left me high and dry. And then
you'll catch the one you know, lighting in the bout
be like, oh yeah, I fell in love. Okay, cool,
But that's very rare.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
I'm not saying it's easy. I'm not, but I'm with ash, like, oh,
put that, put that in your profile. If you're just
trying to get it in and then then that's fine,
But don't you know poor Michelle sixty two years years
old and is getting unsolicited penis picks?

Speaker 3 (49:29):
What's wrong with this one?

Speaker 1 (49:33):
Especially?

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Speaker 2 (49:45):
More Vive Tuesday, March fourth, and obviously the celebs were
out in about because it was Oscars weekend.

Speaker 3 (49:53):
There was tons of after parties.

Speaker 2 (49:55):
The celebrities usually will some of them go to the
Oscars and then switch up the fit and go to
the after party, and then some celebrities just go straight
to the after party.

Speaker 3 (50:05):
Lizzo being one.

Speaker 2 (50:06):
She was at the Vanity Vanity Fairs oscar party and
she literally lost like a whole human wit like it's crazy.
So she did celebrate. In jan she talked about how
she met her weight release goal. She is crediting months
of weight training and having a calorie deficient diet, a

(50:28):
veggie based diet with a lot of protein, And I.

Speaker 4 (50:33):
Mean, I don't think so, I don't know. Listen, there's
a chance that she didn't. But at the same time,
I think the speed of it is where like people
she has Regardless, she looks amazing.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
I am pretty sure though that I saw she admitted
to taking ozembic.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
Yeah, Lizzo the American Singers Are has faced speculation. Lizzo
shocks fans with her new weight loss.

Speaker 4 (50:58):
Yeah all right.

Speaker 3 (51:00):
Since the beginning, she's.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
Many critics have claimed that she uses ozempic to lose weight.
Listen to me, it was the speed too, but she
has continually tried to shut down the rumors.

Speaker 10 (51:11):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
And interesting, at the end of the day, she's healthier,
and she's happy, and her skin looks.

Speaker 6 (51:15):
This is how quote when you finally get ozembic allegations
after five months of weight training and calorie deficient.

Speaker 4 (51:22):
So she I think she's saying she never got it.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
Listen, a calorie deficit diet. I understand, like you can,
but like she lost the whole person. That's crazy out there.

Speaker 4 (51:33):
She looks like and by the way, I didn't.

Speaker 3 (51:35):
Care if she us.

Speaker 2 (51:38):
I've seen somebody go wow, this is a legit commercial
for ozempic. Because Oprah and will Be Goldberg we're up
on the stage looking like skeletons and they both they've
admittedly been on on ozempic, but also a lot of
celebrities are doing it.

Speaker 3 (51:53):
Even the skinny ones are taking ozmpic.

Speaker 4 (51:55):
Yeah. I guess that's probably where most people get bothered,
when the thinner ones. But I guess at the end
of the day, if somebody's getting healthy and you know
they're in a better place than good for them.

Speaker 2 (52:03):
Yeah. And I think the issue for a lot of
people in the beginning with celebrities taking ozempic was that
people who actually needed it, like diabetics and stuff, weren't
able to get it. But I think you you could
just walk right into a medspot right now and get
the shot if you want to.

Speaker 4 (52:16):
They've got so many different versions though, Yeah, I'm pretty
sure you can stop by like a Bertuccis and get it.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
At this point, I, by the way, was crying laughing
because on this last episode of Keeping Up with the Kardashians,
Chloe called Scott and she was like, Scott, have you
seen the news?

Speaker 3 (52:33):
And he's like no, what She's like, well, you showed
your fridge in the last episode. He goes, no, they
saw my Manjaro.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
I mean, we knew Scott was on it, like that
Scott is a walking skillets and with a little bit
of skin on himself.

Speaker 3 (52:47):
It's crazy. Yeah, there definitely is a ozempic look.

Speaker 4 (52:51):
And I think there has to be a point for
these people too, who get addicted to it and it's
hard for them to come off as well.

Speaker 2 (52:56):
Yes, and I have read there's a lot of studies
out about people getting off it that they're regaining the
weight like quick.

Speaker 3 (53:02):
So I think you have to do it in a
certain way.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
I don't know, but I also imagine the appetite must
come back ferociously.

Speaker 2 (53:09):
And yeah, because in the end, that is what I've noticed.
Anybody that's on nozempic has said, you just don't have
the appetite like that. And when you do get hungry,
you eat, Say you have a full sandwich in front
of you, you might have half.

Speaker 4 (53:21):
Of a half. Oh I'm parched.

Speaker 3 (53:24):
I just like to eat so much. It's crazy. Even
talking about this is making me hungry, all right.

Speaker 2 (53:29):
Serena Williams is joining the Toronto Tempo as part of
the ownership group. She's going to be a part of
the new and WNBA franchise this season. It's funny because
in their social media announcements. There she was with a
tennis ball that quickly turned into a WNBA basketball and
we were chatting about this. This is a team in Toronto,

(53:50):
but there is and there have been rumors swirling that
Donnie Wahlberg wants to get in on potentially starting a
WNBA team here in Boston.

Speaker 4 (53:58):
There's a market. I mean, my daughters have been asked
me to take to take to take them, so I
would wish anything.

Speaker 6 (54:03):
Yeah, that's something you try. I'm noticing everybody's like investing
into teams, whether it's soccer.

Speaker 4 (54:08):
Teams or football teams. Everybody putting their money into the money.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
There did it, Yeah, Tom Brady, you know, yeah, of
course at them absolutely.

Speaker 4 (54:18):
All right.

Speaker 3 (54:18):
Lastly, the headline is insane. I know you saw it.

Speaker 2 (54:22):
Scorpion at Boston Logan International Airport. It's like, when you
see that headline, you really hope it's not your airport,
the one you have to go to.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (54:29):
The incident happened on Sunday. A woman was coming back
from Mexico. Basically, guys, picture it like this, she lands
from Mexico to Boston. It's always that weird thing when
you're traveling and you're going to warmer weather, because you're like,
do I dress for here?

Speaker 3 (54:41):
Sometimes it can get chilling on the plane. Do I
wear my jacket? What's up?

Speaker 2 (54:45):
She decided I'm gonna put my jacket in my checked luggage.
She gets it from baggage claim. She puts her hand
in to get her jacket back out because now she's
in Boston. It's chili bop. She gets a whole handful
of a scorpion. She's rushed to the hospital. Uh, they're
not life threatening, but that is painful.

Speaker 4 (55:00):
It could have been a lot worse if it was
a spider. She is scared it could have been dead.

Speaker 2 (55:04):
I feel like it's gonna make me do a little
double like double glands into my bag before I just
put my hand in there. You're literally going to Mexico.
We had a fun fact for everybody. We land back
in Boston from Disney. Santia has twenty four hours and
then he is headed to Mexico with Joean to celebrate
their twenty year wedding anniversary.

Speaker 4 (55:25):
Without scorpions, though, just a lot of love making. All right,
get ready, Joe Jones, alright, coming.

Speaker 3 (55:30):
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Speaker 2 (55:33):
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Speaking of us going to Disney, let's stop with the
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Speaker 2 (58:46):
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Will I think? For some of the things you have
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Speaker 4 (59:35):
You know, Like I think it's more so the fact
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to stuff that everybody does.

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To that's not anymore. You can't say that that was
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He was like, hello, Rishia, elderly, the middle age. It's
a different thing. So yeah, but yeah, I mean, it's
all open. But that's also why she doesn't listen, because
she heard a lot of stuff like this in the
past and it's caused like fights in our marriage. So
now she just takes the whole fight out of it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:14):
Twenty years is crazy, though. Can you remember like your
first date. I think it was at like Gigi Fridays, right, first.

Speaker 4 (01:00:19):
Date, we went to Fridays up in Danvers, So we
went to Fridays. She had the chicken Caesar and I
had some pasta dish, and then after that we went
to a comedy show in Boston. So it was like
a date.

Speaker 2 (01:00:30):
But you tell the story that when you were there
you really actually were like I kind of want to
marry this chick.

Speaker 4 (01:00:35):
Yeah, because it was different than anything I've ever dated before.
Like now, this girl was into like her career and
had like you know, gold vision and like all that stuff.
I was talking about buying a house. I'm like, wait,
buying a house, Like what are you talking about? That
was any like even in my mindset, and I think,
like that's what I liked about her. And you guys
were how old won the first date? On the first date,
we were twenty We got married. I was still twenty four.
I turned twenty five on my honeymoon, which by the way,

(01:00:58):
was way too young, way too get married. To get married. Yeah,
I guess I didn't understand the responsibility of the whole thing.
And I still spent like a lot of the first
parts of our marriage still going out and hosting and
partying and all that stuff without realizing how to be honest.

Speaker 18 (01:01:12):
And they used to get in fights, like in the
beginning of their marriage, because Joanne would be mad that
he just would he would leave work at ten, like
he was doing morning radio show, and he would go
home at ten and he would get in his like
PJ pants and get in his bed and turn all
the lights out and fly a plane.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
Remember I'm not this is not a joke from Boston
to California. That would take like six hours. And he
would do nothing but eat and lay in that bed.
And she would catch him and be like, I know
that's what you're doing, and he'd say, no, it's not,
and she'd go, I can see that all the lights
are off at the house and you have the curtains
clothes because you wanted to bet on your dark on
the plane.

Speaker 4 (01:01:46):
That was really bad, Like I would say, year two
to four of like the marriage was really bad. And
I think like we only didn't get divorced because I
feel like like none of us wanted to be divorced
at the same time, And that has.

Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
Stuck out with me because you've said that a couple
of times that, like you, at one point you wanted
a divorce, she didn't, and she fought. At a different time,
she wanted a divorce, you didn't, and you fought. Had
you both wanted it at the same time, your whole
trajectory of your life could be different.

Speaker 4 (01:02:12):
Absolutely, And we were very young, so at that point
the responsibility in the entire thing wasn't as like what
it has to be. We would have been like, yeah,
let's get divorced. It's fine, it's just easy. Twenty years in,
that's not even like an option. So when we both
have issues, the communication is on point, and then we
don't try to ever like one up each other or
like win certain fights. We both try to understand where
each other's coming from. And that has changed so like

(01:02:34):
so much, But that comes with twenty years of marriage.

Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
Did you ever think at TGI Fridays over at chicken
Caesar salad you'd be talking about going to Mexico to
celebrate twenty years.

Speaker 4 (01:02:43):
No, I thought that there was a possibility, but I
knew pretty sure, like like pretty fast, that she was
the one easily he.

Speaker 2 (01:02:50):
Got her that ring when they were twenty something, still
has an upgraded it.

Speaker 3 (01:02:55):
Keep your Mexican trip.

Speaker 4 (01:02:57):
Sir, there's a better story to that. So I define
astant the entire thing. She ended up paying it off
with her own money.

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
What.

Speaker 4 (01:03:04):
Yeah, Because when I first when we first got married,
I was I was working here basically one step out
like out of being like an intern. So I was
making and I'll be honest with you, two hundred dollars
a month. That was that was no, sorry, two hundred
dollars a week. But and then I was making bonuses
on top of that with hosting events. But that was inconsistent. Yes,
but then she ended up having like a really good

(01:03:26):
job and she was paying for everything, and then she
ended up paying off paying off the ring. So yeah,
but she hasn't gotten the ring is coming coming.

Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
Like, imagine a ring upgrade from you, How amazing that
would be.

Speaker 4 (01:03:42):
I mean, I would love to. I would go do
it today, but she just needs to tell me when
specifically she wants and I'll go buy it. And again
I'm not good at surprising her stuff like that. And
she's also where we we we have the relationship where
I want this, I go by. She has that, but like,
tell me, give me some direction and like, I'll figure
it out.

Speaker 3 (01:03:58):
What's the secret to what? Twenty years?

Speaker 10 (01:04:02):
Like?

Speaker 4 (01:04:02):
Understanding communication and not trying to win anything. You have
to understand what point of view they are coming from.
That has to be it.

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Speaker 13 (01:04:26):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.

Speaker 3 (01:04:31):
Hi, everybody, good morning. How are you? What's up? What's
going on?

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
We're doing the check in right now, checking in on you.
We're talking about anything you want. You call us and
you're like, Ash, I gotta tell you a story. I
just want to say, Hi, I'm pissed that I didn't
get to play for the Disney giveaway today. Anything you want,
We'll do it right here. Six one seven nine three
one one nine four five. That is six one seven
nine three one one nine four five. We're gonna kick

(01:04:56):
it off with a talkback. I'm assuming this is in
reference to our conversation that we had earlier during Beyond
this wipe where we were kind of discussing like the
climates of dating, and we had guys calling in saying,
all girls want is their meals, to be paid for,
their hair done, their nails taken care of. And then
we had females calling in saying, no, all guys want
is sex after the first date.

Speaker 3 (01:05:18):
So I'm assuming that this had.

Speaker 2 (01:05:19):
To do with that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:20):
The thing guys you need to understand is just get
yourself a basic bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:05:25):
Okay, we don't really want anything, We just want to
be shown love.

Speaker 12 (01:05:29):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
I'm trying to tell you there are females out there
like that that are on there and they really are
just searching for love.

Speaker 4 (01:05:36):
They are. But to some guys, I feel like that's
boring to them, Like a guy doesn't really want to
want a boring girl.

Speaker 3 (01:05:42):
What do you guys want? What is a perfect situation
for you on like a dating ask? I mean it's tough.
I'm asking both of you me be a boring girl.

Speaker 4 (01:05:52):
At home? Yeah, just hang out a homebody? Yes, all right,
so let's not call them boring homebody?

Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
All right?

Speaker 6 (01:05:58):
Yeah, I'm kind of with you. I need to motivated female.
Who's who's not about the Instagram life like that, Bro,
I don't. I don't need your cheeks on on the
ground for everybody to see.

Speaker 3 (01:06:07):
I think the social media is a big turn off
for a lot of.

Speaker 4 (01:06:11):
People, you know. And it's the reason why a lot
of people think the way they do, bro.

Speaker 3 (01:06:15):
And it's a reason why a lot of couples fight
and bring yes.

Speaker 4 (01:06:17):
Because fellas are out here looking at I mean these options.
I'm on Instagram.

Speaker 6 (01:06:21):
Maybe there I scroll and you just see a bad
chick after chick bad chick, and you think that that's
what the world is. And then you know, and then
the bad chicks are talking about, oh you know, I
got flew out to Dubai, I got done this, and
now the chicks is.

Speaker 4 (01:06:32):
Like, oh word, I could do the same thing.

Speaker 12 (01:06:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:06:34):
It's like this false narrative that's been painted and that's
not what real relationships that are gonna sustain I'm made
out of.

Speaker 3 (01:06:40):
What if you went on a first date with somebody
who posts about the dates like AJ does I hate
that too?

Speaker 4 (01:06:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:06:46):
That would be tough for a lot of my friends
have actually asked me about that because there's like, you
wonder if you met a guy and you guys hit
it off and he was like, I don't like that
you talk about our dates on Instagram?

Speaker 3 (01:07:00):
Would you stop?

Speaker 2 (01:07:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 17 (01:07:01):
I mean, and I think i've even in the past
when I did like somebody, I was, I played it
safer with what I would share and what I would
talk about.

Speaker 2 (01:07:12):
Yeah, but if he was like, shut it down all together,
like I don't want you talking about our dates.

Speaker 17 (01:07:17):
Do I have to shut down Instagram and my social
media priving together the date? I mean, yeah, I guess your.

Speaker 3 (01:07:23):
Social media presence is all around that, yes, but I
would be open to sharing other things, Like I don't know.

Speaker 17 (01:07:32):
I'm at a place where I'm very open about my
life after having to hide it for so long and
like keep it secret from you guys and my family
that I don't necessarily like there's a fine line between
what can be shared and what has to be secret.

Speaker 3 (01:07:45):
But I don't want to keep everything private anymore. I
don't get as in your relationship, yeah, yeah, I.

Speaker 6 (01:07:52):
Don't get the sense that if AJ found somebody and
they really like, were serious, that she'd be talking about
their relationship. She wouldn't be like, oh, well, today we
went to the movies and you know, we did.

Speaker 4 (01:08:01):
X Y and z.

Speaker 3 (01:08:01):
I mean, that's what you do.

Speaker 4 (01:08:03):
She's doing that with strangers though these are not people, Yeah, stranger.

Speaker 6 (01:08:07):
I think once she gets into a committed relationship, I
don't think she's sharing that much.

Speaker 4 (01:08:10):
I mean, I could be wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
You tell me, well, it hasn't happened, so I guess you.

Speaker 4 (01:08:18):
Will never.

Speaker 2 (01:08:21):
I can see exactly what you're saying with like social
media being an issue for people, and I think about
it even in my life, you know, I know there's
times where the fireman's probably like, can we just put
the phone away? You know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (01:08:32):
And listen. There have been times where I made a
video of me slapping my wife's button and she said, no,
you can't post that because she's not into sharing that
type of stuff. So I have to be very careful.
And then when it comes to the kids, it's a
whole other thing too.

Speaker 6 (01:08:43):
It's a false lim We've always said it. People all
is happy on that, they're not the happiest.

Speaker 3 (01:08:47):
It's like it's the fakest fa No, it's it's it's spooky, but.

Speaker 6 (01:08:53):
It makes you think that there's something like really no bro,
Like half of these chicks that are on there, they've
done contooled their body. They done used apps to make
them look thicker than they all they and then you
meet them in person, you're like, you look the same.
And then it's about what's inside, right, It's about the person.
Like and I'm with Santa. I want somebody who's just
a homebody. Let's go to the movies, let's go eat
good let's travel, good work. Come on, bro, let's make

(01:09:15):
some money together and just be cool. Snuggle up you
okay with viground like all.

Speaker 3 (01:09:19):
That well, you found that person son, so good for you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:23):
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We're talking about you, your life, your world, anything you
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Speaker 3 (01:09:34):
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Speaker 2 (01:09:45):
You can call and tell us a story, you can
ask a question, you can talk about anything you want.

Speaker 3 (01:09:50):
It's all about you. We usually do the check in
earlier in the show.

Speaker 2 (01:09:53):
But I like a little late mix again, a little
late check in. People are really just on this topic
early or from beyond the swipe. Another talkback, my.

Speaker 11 (01:10:03):
Best friend has stayed with the SoundCloud wrapper for like
four years now, and she like actually hates him, but
stays with him because she doesn't want to start over.

Speaker 3 (01:10:14):
So yeah, that's tough. That's tough. My best friend's dating
a SoundCloud rapper and she won't dump him.

Speaker 2 (01:10:23):
She wants to, but she hates him, hates him, hates
she doesn't want You're stupid.

Speaker 3 (01:10:29):
Yeah, that's yeah, No, I you know what, I think
you're stupid. She's being stupid too, like just be done.

Speaker 4 (01:10:35):
But she's saying it with like some sort of tone too,
because she's putting in like the whole SoundCloud thing, not
just a rapper, So she's diminishing the whole point is I.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
Was gonna say, yeah, she's calling the friend is calling
him a SoundCloud rapper.

Speaker 3 (01:10:46):
It's for a reason. Yeah, I think you know, a
lot of things being pushed on social media, and the
sentiment out there is that it is hard to date,
you know.

Speaker 4 (01:10:57):
But the four point, there are a lot of options,
especially when you look on social Like obviously I'm a
guy and I look at girls online. I'm like man,
she's beautiful. I mean, I stopped the act, but I'm
sure there's people out there who try to pursue that,
and it's just everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
I just think it's funnier for people to post like
about it being bad than like it actually being good.
So I think that that's the narrative that everybody's pushing.
That it's just so people are like, I don't want.

Speaker 3 (01:11:20):
To date it. Look it seems awful out there.

Speaker 4 (01:11:21):
But I will say there's been a consistency of dating
has been tough forever. I mean, I don't think it's
just a now thing, but back in the year it
was always bro it could be. But do we know though,
because that's what we've been making. That's a fact. You
know why.

Speaker 6 (01:11:31):
Because social media, you didn't see this many options, so
it's flooded.

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
Bro.

Speaker 6 (01:11:36):
The amount of sex that sold on social media is intense,
like every two seconds. It's something It was never like
that back in the day because you didn't have that
much access to it. So you always dreamt about having
a baddy, but you maybe only knew five. No, I'm
sure you thought because you only knew five in your neighborhood.
Now you know a thousand from all.

Speaker 4 (01:11:56):
Over the place.

Speaker 2 (01:11:57):
And now you can go on only fans and find
that bad and she can make you a special video
where she's saying hi to you, and then you can watch.

Speaker 3 (01:12:04):
Porn over and over for seven bucks.

Speaker 4 (01:12:05):
It's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:12:06):
Yeah, how do you know?

Speaker 4 (01:12:08):
Oh, my friend told told me. He also told me
by another site called many VIDs, where you can buy
stuff like that.

Speaker 3 (01:12:13):
Wow, your friend is so knowledgeable, knows everything. What are
you gonna do? Son line to Rita, Hi, Rita, Hey,
you guy, what's going on? What's going on?

Speaker 4 (01:12:24):
Then?

Speaker 15 (01:12:26):
Nothing?

Speaker 12 (01:12:26):
I'm just like really excited because you know it's tisy season.
My birthday's coming up. I've been listening to you guys
since I was sixteen. You know, I'm a little up
there now. But I called the other day to one
of these tickets. Y'all told me you call back at
three twenty.

Speaker 2 (01:12:41):
Now.

Speaker 12 (01:12:41):
I told y'all been house and calling y'all since I
was sixteen, right, And usually what y'all do is be like, Okay,
you know you ain't call. You ain't the win a
pick up the phone. I'm telling y'all, will y'all wiganness
because y'alln't even answering the phone for me.

Speaker 4 (01:12:56):
Rita, you're not a person, Rita, Rita, You're not the
only person. There's thousands of people, millions of people, all
at the same time trying trying to call. So that's
just the luck of the drive.

Speaker 8 (01:13:08):
I don't believe it.

Speaker 2 (01:13:10):
Well, Rita, it's illegal for us to rise the competition, Toney,
we can't playing.

Speaker 15 (01:13:15):
I love you guys, I love you guys.

Speaker 12 (01:13:17):
I need these tickets today.

Speaker 3 (01:13:18):
And I'm assuming you're talking about the Wu Tang tickets
that popause.

Speaker 12 (01:13:22):
I don't even remember.

Speaker 11 (01:13:25):
You don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:13:26):
You gotta call and yell at us, and you don't
even know the tickets that you're got you.

Speaker 3 (01:13:30):
Yeah, I was gonna say, we're not even giving away
tickets to.

Speaker 4 (01:13:33):
Glorella with my birthday.

Speaker 15 (01:13:36):
I just want some tickets.

Speaker 16 (01:13:37):
Yep, I'm taking those two.

Speaker 6 (01:13:39):
Can I put redo on though? And a lot of
people do not know this trick gemming non four five
dot com slash contests go there, yo. You can win
the gift cards to market basket, you can win trips.
A lot of people sleep on the website and that's
why you can really like because a lot of people
don't enter. So you got a better chance gamming non
four five dot com slash contest some of the stuff
that we don't even have on a we give away

(01:14:00):
on line.

Speaker 4 (01:14:01):
So we'll try your luck.

Speaker 3 (01:14:03):
Thank you, guys, godspeed.

Speaker 2 (01:14:06):
Like complainable calling here talking about mad that no one's
answering the phones when you don't even know if you're
blind calling, you don't even know what you're.

Speaker 4 (01:14:12):
Calling, I'd be like me complaining about not winning like
the power ball. Yes, well, I will say the chance
is to win on here better than the power ball,
that's for sure.

Speaker 3 (01:14:21):
Nicole is in Westminster, Hi, Nicole.

Speaker 8 (01:14:24):
Hi, Ashley, and guys Actley. I was just talking to
you through the d M the other day about being
a mama too, and I just saw I was like,
I'm gonna follow up because I have had a trip
of the last twelve hours. I work at a hospital
and New Nash and Wister and I went to early
labor last night. They sent me home at three thirty

(01:14:48):
in the morning. So six hours ago they said they
gotta I gotta hold him in till about midnight to
night if they considered a premium. And I'm like, get
this baby out of Meade's appointment morning at eight forty.
I was like, I'm doing this thing. I'm getting this
baby out. I can't have a I can't have the
baby for another three more week.

Speaker 11 (01:15:07):
I'm a guy.

Speaker 2 (01:15:08):
Yeah, you need to you need to keep that baby inside.
Do whatever you certainly don't because remember Leila came early.
I had her right of the thirty seven week mark,
and she made it just in time to not be
considered a premium And not that there's anything wrong with
a premium baby, but when you had a preemi, they
have to go into the NICU and things change. So
you want to make it to that thirty seven you

(01:15:29):
need to hold on, honey.

Speaker 8 (01:15:31):
I'm like, I got like, what is it, twelve fifteen
more hours and then he'll be thirty seven weeks.

Speaker 4 (01:15:37):
Good.

Speaker 3 (01:15:38):
I was like, oh, can you just like not do anything?

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
Like why are we going to the chiropractor? Why are
we leaving the house? Like just sit somewhere and rely.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
So.

Speaker 8 (01:15:47):
Funny thing, as I work at the hospital, I a
different campus, so I had to drive myself over there
to get to the hospital to get to our triage
and my husband met me over there and he is
blue collar through and through, and he was like, I'll
get there. When I get there, I'm like, all right, you.

Speaker 9 (01:16:03):
Know it's it's I'm time to come.

Speaker 2 (01:16:06):
I'm like, a oh.

Speaker 15 (01:16:09):
The night.

Speaker 8 (01:16:10):
I'm like, I mean, I don't think we're here for
the night, but let's see.

Speaker 3 (01:16:13):
Are you dilated?

Speaker 8 (01:16:15):
That's it. I'm like, the two wasn't special thing?

Speaker 3 (01:16:18):
Are you dilated?

Speaker 6 (01:16:20):
I am.

Speaker 8 (01:16:24):
Not far enough, but I went from zero to last night.
So I was like, all right, we're here.

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
Oh man, Well listen, are you packed up? Do you
have all the things ready? Is the car seat in?
Are we good to go?

Speaker 2 (01:16:37):
Second?

Speaker 8 (01:16:37):
Baby, I've got everything passing certain week. I want a
little break from my toddler. He's a little he's a
wonderful little Irish man and he's got temper like no
other patrol. So I was like, you know what, watch
the paw patrol.

Speaker 14 (01:16:51):
I don't care right now.

Speaker 8 (01:16:54):
Right now, so's on the on the board and she's
all ready to take over.

Speaker 2 (01:16:58):
When when this happened, all right, well, fingers crossed, hold
on to that baby, suck them back in, do what
you gotta do, but do keep us posted.

Speaker 3 (01:17:07):
To make sure you message me and let me know
when the babes comes.

Speaker 8 (01:17:09):
I sure will have a baby guys.

Speaker 3 (01:17:11):
All right, babe, good luck.

Speaker 2 (01:17:13):
Can you like hold no, yeah, no, that baby is
gonna come with that No, that baby is gonna She
could blink and all of a sudden it be six centimes.
You don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:17:21):
You don't have control over the dilation.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
You do not have control over the dilation. You don't.
But it is true.

Speaker 2 (01:17:26):
It's like, there's absolutely nothing wrong with the baby coming early.
But if you make it to the thirty seven weeks,
then you don't have.

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
To do nick you and all that stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:17:32):
My daughters were in the nicky for like a week.

Speaker 2 (01:17:34):
Yeah, that's fine in the as Yeah, you'd rather just
have the baby and leave twenty four hours later.

Speaker 3 (01:17:39):
So good luck, Nicole, baby's coming, Sadly and.

Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
Jam In Morning Show with d J four and it's
Stid Morning.

Speaker 13 (01:17:47):
Bustin's number one for hip hop damn in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 3 (01:17:51):
Oh baby, oh baby, that is going to do it
for us.

Speaker 2 (01:17:55):
I actually do have a shout out I want to
give today by the name of Jane wrote me, and
she said, just lost my nana.

Speaker 3 (01:18:05):
She was in her nineties.

Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
She lived a long, amazing life, but she wanted to
meet to make sure that I showed some love to
her nana, having lost mine within the last you know year,
I know how hard that can be. I actually was
thinking about that the other day, that my nana was
my last living grandparent, which I know at my age
is that doesn't happen a lot. And I used to
always call her on the way home from work because

(01:18:26):
I always like to be on the phone to kill time.

Speaker 3 (01:18:28):
And I can't do that anymore. But I do a
lot of voicemails from her and I listened to those.

Speaker 4 (01:18:33):
Nana, Man, you hipchacked her at the wedding.

Speaker 2 (01:18:35):
I sure did she survived that she did, which is wild.
Yeah that was crazy, but yeah, none also lived a
crazy long life. But shout out to Janey and her family.
I'll be thinking about you, guys. Rip Ripza Nana Son Instagram.

Speaker 4 (01:18:48):
Shout out to Lexi Walsh, Marty T and Bobby eighty
one on ig DJ Forn.

Speaker 6 (01:18:53):
Reminder for everybody, if you want to win your trip
to Disney tomorrow, listen to the podcast today as to
Ease and the AM. Make sure I tap in at
DJ the number four e I G and I am
back later on tonight nine o'clock late night.

Speaker 3 (01:19:06):
Is it Sony's got me on the Paradise.

Speaker 4 (01:19:12):
It's not really a new shows, but I know.

Speaker 3 (01:19:14):
I already saw that it's coming back for season two.
I saw he announced that.

Speaker 4 (01:19:18):
God Episode seven is one of the most satisfying episodes
of TV I've ever seen in my life.

Speaker 3 (01:19:22):
Wow, I love to hear it. I have only watched
one app.

Speaker 4 (01:19:25):
Another one I think is Zero Day that just dropped on.
Almost finished with that with Denaro with the narrow interesting.
A lot of dope actors in that show.

Speaker 3 (01:19:33):
I had the top.

Speaker 2 (01:19:34):
I get one app at night, but that's fine. I'll
get there. I I now want to watch the Celtics
doc though, too. I don't know which one I'll watch tonight.

Speaker 3 (01:19:42):
But Paradise I again, only one episode in and I'm hooked.

Speaker 4 (01:19:46):
I will say that the reveals on that show per
episode have been amazing. Every episode gives gives you a
little bit more.

Speaker 3 (01:19:52):
There it is.

Speaker 2 (01:19:53):
If I missed anything at Ashley Felman tweeze on the
Ashley and We will talk to you guys tomorrow later