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March 24, 2025 12 mins
Different ways of minding young children 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (00:14):
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six one seven nine three one nine four five.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
It really is our favorite part of the showcase. It's about you.
You call us. You can talk about anything you want.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
You can call and say hi, you can call on yellas,
you can call and tell me a story, ask for opinion,
anything you want, because it's about your life. Kayla is
in Wooster getting married. Kayla, and you are extremely overwhelmed.
I bet you every single bride to have ever been
married would agree. It is a very overwhelming experience. What
is what's triggering you right now? What's the toughest part?

Speaker 5 (01:29):
Hi, I'm so nervous. This is my first time calling.
I've been listening to the show since I was like thirteen.
I'm thirty, so this is crazy.

Speaker 6 (01:36):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (01:37):
Hi.

Speaker 5 (01:38):
Yeah, Hi, not your show specifically.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
I was gonna say, I haven't been on that long,
but that's I love it.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
No, but seriously, your show's great. So I went shopping
with my fiance's aunt this weekend, and I thought it
was going to be great because she used to own
a floral shop and I just wanted to show were
the arrangement. I was thinking whatever, and I put together
like my dream bouquet, and this woman the first word

(02:07):
out of her mouth is that's tacky.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Oh was it?

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Was? It very very colorful, like what was going on
at bouquet?

Speaker 5 (02:17):
Yeah, I don't know. I thought it was great, and
like I literally had sunflowers high drain jos and like
a pink flower, like a pioni or whatever. And she's like,
let's take out the sunflowers. And I had just told her,
I'm like, I literally love sunflowers, Like why would I
chase this out?

Speaker 6 (02:35):
Oh man?

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Okay, hey, I agree with her. Yes, I hate telling
you that what I do I would say, I.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
Know, but but but I'm thinking, like in ten years
from now, photos that we want to last a lifetime.
Things that won't, you know. And I get your your
little you like sunflowers, right, So I think we could
do a nod to sunflowers in a different place, a
little bit more muted. I don't know if we want
to walk down the aisle with a big ass yellow sunflower,
but go on, I stay with the up.

Speaker 5 (03:04):
Okay, okay, yeah, heard, heard, okay, okay. And then she's
like trying to get me to get favors for everybody.
And I guess my opinion, My question you guys, is
one fake or real flowers?

Speaker 1 (03:19):
In two?

Speaker 5 (03:20):
Should I get favors for people? Or is it kind
of like you the favors you coming and not having
to pay for food and stuff? You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (03:27):
I will not Okay, let's start with I will not
even entertain you asking me should you get fake or
real flowers?

Speaker 2 (03:33):
Stop it, stop it.

Speaker 3 (03:35):
We're not even going to go down that path if
real or die.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
And then as for the favors thing, it's tough.

Speaker 4 (03:43):
I don't remember a favors that I've ever gone for
your wedding. I remember just eating the pizza. I thought
that that was amazing.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
So that's what I was gonna say, Kayla.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
I think a way that you can do favors that
is kind of fun and that I've seen and that's
why I did it is this thought of a like
everybody's dunk now after dinner late night snack that stood
out to me at a wedding that I had gone
to because they had a mac and cheese like buffet
happening and they had little bite sized versions of chicken

(04:15):
and waffles that they were passing around at like midnight.
So everybody's drunk and we're eating mac and cheese and whatever,
and that was the party favor. So that's why what's
not he's referring to. At my wedding, we had a
pizza truck pull up. They got there, let's say, for
the last two hours, and we had custom pizza boxes
and everybody's eating pizza, and that was, in turn, our
wedding favor.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
But yes, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (04:36):
I do think there has to be some sort of
nod to the guests, which sucks because it costs more money.

Speaker 5 (04:42):
But yeah, but like I'm also because my experiences, I
get like a little chot Ski whatever thing, and I
just like toss that the wedding wasn't important.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
I know, I remember going to weddings and getting like
a seed and it's saying, help us make this love girl.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
I don't care about it. What am I going to
do with this apple seed?

Speaker 3 (05:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (05:04):
Once the trashic goes, That's why I.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
Really thought food is going to satisfy everybody. I saw
this was on Instagram, so you know whatever, But I
saw a couple that had McDonald's show up at like
a m.

Speaker 6 (05:19):
And had it.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
They had a table of fries and a table. She's like,
that's iconic to me, something like that. Don't put seeds
on my table. I'm not trying to help your love
grow in my backyard.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Don't do that.

Speaker 5 (05:30):
No, how cool?

Speaker 2 (05:32):
Alp, Yeah, I think you.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
I think you favor them with some sort of really
cool snack at the end because everybody will be happy. Then.

Speaker 5 (05:40):
I love snacks. I actually want this idea so much
more because was trying to get me to put like
sand in a jar and I'm.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
Like, oh my god, she had she had me with
the florals. But now she's she's flushing me. She's pushing me.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
And by the way, can I also say, Kayla, it's
your wedding to each their own. Think you should have
a some flower on your buque, but what the hell
doesn't matter what I think.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
If you love sunflowers, hond of, you walk down that
aisle with a big as sunflower, it's your day.

Speaker 5 (06:09):
Thanks. Yeah, I'm so excited. It might be one sunflower
subtle Okay.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, yeah, you'll figure out away, You'll figure out a way.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
All right.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Thank you, guys, You're welcome. I love you. Thanks for calling.
I'm glad you weren't too nervous.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
Fan in the drought might be the worst thing ever?

Speaker 2 (06:26):
Is this woman serious?

Speaker 4 (06:27):
It is like right away even worse.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
I'm not even bringing it home. I'm drunk. I'm leaving
it on that table.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
I've also seen where people have done also food related,
but like some sort of sweet, like a hot, warm
cookie on the way like that's I think everybody's fine
with that.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
We don't want to help the love grow.

Speaker 4 (06:47):
Imagine if somebody gave back to cocaine on the way out,
like a little bumpy if you'll be up like all night.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
If anybody has that plan, it's hey, it's lambed, It's
lambded all right?

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Six one seven, I'm like, damn, could we have done that?
Six one seven.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
And nine three one one nine four five missed opportunity?

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Uh six one seven, nine three one one nine four five.
Call me, guys. We're talking about anything you want. What's
going on in your world. It's Ashley in the Jam
of Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning, It's Ashley the Jam
of Morning Show. We're checking in on you, you, your life,
your world, anything you want? Six one seven, nine three
one one nine four five that is six one seven
nine three one one nine four five call us and
say what up? You know I I know what Foreorn's

(07:40):
gonna says No, I'm responding and I'm doing what they want,
and I know that this person is like there's levels
to what sets me off online, And it used to
be things that are so stupid to me.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
Now the only thing.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
That's really gonna set me off as if it's parenting related,
like insinuating that I'm doing something wrong as a mother.
I remember when I was pregnant and I ate dairy
queen and someone told me that I was killing my baby.
I wanted to I wanted to kill that woman, which
is crazy lunacy.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
She was like, you're giving our listerea shut up bitch.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Anyway, I get a message this weekend. I don't know
if anybody's saw. If you have my Instagram, I'm at
Ashley Feldman two e's on the Ashley in.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
My living room. I call it a playpen.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
I don't know because everybody has like some people call
it like a playyard. People have different names for it,
but essentially it is a massive, like gated area where.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
I put the baby when I am doing other things.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
So after good example our system, she eats, I clean
her up because it's an absolute disaster. I put her
in the playpen and then I go back to the
kitchen and clean up inside.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
The playpen is only going to be.

Speaker 3 (08:56):
Toys appropriate for her age. That way, in my mind,
I can turn away for like a millisecond, and if
I have to, and I know that she can't get
out of that gated area, I get this message from
this woman basically telling me that I'm disgusting for trapping
my daughter and not letting her be able to.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
Roam freely around the house. I have so many questions
for this woman.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
Number one like, are you even a parent of a
of a literal nine month old, because I don't think
you are because she is now crawling and standing up
on everything. I also have a three year old that
has toys with little small pieces. I don't have the
luxury of letting her room well I try to do

(09:42):
anything else in the house, like I have to have
an area that I know in my mind is safe,
and by the way, it's not really all the ways
safe because she pulls herself up and I don't like
the face you're making to agree with this woman.

Speaker 6 (09:53):
I do agree with her.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
No Jesus something No, no, I'll ask would you respond
to her?

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Well, yeah, because.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
Because what you should have done first is looked at
her profile to find what's going on with her, because
who the hell knows. You could have probably found something
physical that you could attack her back on if she
wants to come for you like that. You have to
win this this personne Yeah, she saw the house.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
Free because there is a joke like people call it
a quote baby jail, which kind of is.

Speaker 6 (10:26):
What do they do in this stairs? They let the
kid fall down the stairs.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
And there is stairs, Like I know you've never missed
my house, you will be hopefully, but there are stairs
going up into the kitchen. So I really like if
I have if I if I let Daisy just roam
free in the house, like she, something will happen. She
will get into something, she will fall. I mean, there's
literally a video. There's there's her in her little playpen.

(10:50):
You fast forward, there's a video of her and Layla
laughing back and forth and she gets CTE like, I
don't know what could happen if I like, I again,
I don't have eyes in the back of my head.
My husband works twenty four hour shifts. I am at
home by myself. I have it's called survival mode. Honey,
I gotta do what I gotta do.

Speaker 4 (11:08):
I understand you should have told her f off and
unfollow you. That's a simple thing that I know.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
No, really I should have just blocked her and not engaged.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
But I think I was tired and it and when
I get like that, I'm just sleepy.

Speaker 2 (11:21):
And now I'm pissed off and I just want to
be like, who are you again?

Speaker 3 (11:24):
I've used this as an example, and this is please
don't take this literal because this is such an exaggeration.
But if an influencer that I know posted their four
year old like chugging Reuben off, I'd be like, oh,
she's a bad mom. I wouldn't even write her though,
Like I wouldn't be like stop giving your kid vodka.

Speaker 6 (11:42):
That I can understand and be like, Okay, you have.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
Issues, yeah, I know you know. But Patricia, good morning.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
Good morning?

Speaker 3 (11:51):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (11:52):
What's up?

Speaker 7 (11:54):
Dollan? How I Ashley? First of all, I want to
tell you you're a great mom.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
Thank you. Are you a mother?

Speaker 7 (12:00):
You're welcome. I am a mother of two grown children. Okay,
but when when my daughter was little, I used to
use I don't know if you know, the little wrist
band you put the bell, throw it to them, and
then you bel throw it to you and you walk
around the mall at least right. People want to call
it at leash right. So some gentlemen in the mall

(12:23):
when I walked by, he looked at me and nodded
his head in disgust. And I said to him, well,
at least you won't see my child's face on a
milk five, because you do want to let your child walk, right,
they're at walking stage, but you don't want to chase
them around the mall. They disappear or something like that.
So I and I just thought it was mind your business.

Speaker 6 (12:43):
I had a question, like, is that
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