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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Astley and Morning with DJ fourgn it's such a good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five. Hi, guys, it is painfully unfair, and I
mentioned this quickly this morning. How for women, we like
live on this biological clock, right, that thing is always
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clicking when it comes to us having babies. So like
a woman's fertility, for example, and the possibility of natural
pregnancy starts to decline in our mid to late thirties
and then reclines.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Rapidly after the age of thirty five.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
That is why the older you get, potentially they call
it a geriatric pregnancy.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Now that is not to say it doesn't happen.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I mean, I think Jana Jackson had a kid like
at fifty or something like that. Can it can happen,
It's just I think the chances of it happening really decline,
and then you have potential things that could happen, and
the pregnancies get harder and all the things.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Right, Like a twenty year old pregnant is.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Going to be a lot easier than a thirty eight,
thirty nine to forty year old trying to have a baby.
But then there's you guys where it's just nothing mess.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I mean, how old roberts and Niro?
Speaker 1 (01:20):
I think he's eighty two.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah, he was in his eighties.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah, baby, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
He has a two year old this.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I'm gonna play this clip for you because this cliff
is going and it is so mind blowing to me.
But picture Robert de Niro laying in bed in the
morning with the two year olds at eighty something.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Watching this. Hi, hell is the man's out here? Say
mom watching Miss Rachel? Okay, Miss Rachel?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Listen?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Can we see.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Robert de Niro and your two year old like snuggling
watching Miss Rachel?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
What do you watch?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
On?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
What I did this morning is do you watch Miss Rachel?
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Miss Rachel? The wiggles blippy?
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (02:07):
Sort of? She but Miss Rachel? We started with him.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
And what do you what do you?
Speaker 5 (02:12):
What do you two get from Miss Rachel when you watch?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
It's? Uh Now, she's becoming so more discerning because she's
seen it so many times and we're waiting for new
episodes and news skits or whatever new new music things
that they do. So I you know, she going okay, okay,
next and that's next because she's wanting me to switch
to something else.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Can't picture that because he's eighty two. Exactly, Yeah, he does.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
We go to this certain place in Marshfield with the kids,
and the fireman text me the other day and it's
like there was a whole ass like grandpa and he
had like a two year old coming out to him
being like.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, daddy, daddy.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
And then somebody else in the area goes you can
tell that's your daughter.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Pop up.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Grandpa isn't howl like in his eighties? Are we talking
like sixties?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I would say mid seventies.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
No, it was like like he sent me a photo
and I said, excuse me, whose dad is?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
What?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Who?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
What? Where? When there's something about it?
Speaker 2 (03:18):
But again, you guys, you guys can just shoot the
club up for the former and it's fine, and you
don't have it's I'm jealous of it.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Honestly, there's no shade here. I'm jealous.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
But to be able to do that at that age,
you definitely definitely need help though you're not just doing.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
You gotta be financially at a place where it doesn't matter.
A baby can be baby sat Yeah, you get what
I'm saying because Robert needs Let's be honest. I mean,
he's probably a healthy god, but he probably needs a
little bit of help.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
I actually read an article that the new like rich people,
flex isn't homes, isn't cars. It's having a third, four
or fourth kid. Like the adding is flex. That's a
that's so we have the money to do it.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Yeah, it's not chill that you have to have money.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
Ain't no way unless I mean, I don't know, know
sixty seventy eighty old just out here randomly shooting.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
The club basically, So I was saying, it's a sign
of wealth that you can afford to have that many kids.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I mean, i'll I mean, I know some Dominican dads
that are old men that have kids many kids that
a wealthy don't have my kids. I can't keep it
in the pants.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
They random shooters. Yeah, but for the most part, I
think you get to an age where you're like, nah, bro,
I don't want to have an eighteen year old when
I'm almost ninety. You did what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
We're also too at sixty. I don't want to be
taking care of a little baby. I want to be
like thinking about right my retirement in golf.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
That is something that I have struggled with so so much,
you guys, certainly as of late, because I don't want.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
To be a however old with a baby.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I want to be able to like live life and
experience those older years with the girls. So it's like
women just go through, Like the emotional roller coaster that
we go through is so crazy because now my body
and my mind is trying to settle in on the
fact that I'm closing the door on this and that
like I get choked up even right now thinking about it,
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that that anything I'm doing with Daisy in this like
baby age, is the last of it. I literally was
cleaning out pump parts the other day thinking that's it,
like once this is done, like it's done, like my
breastfeeding journey, all of it, Like I'm pumping now, so
but that will be done. And that that is also
now something that I'm really struggling with having to close
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the door. And it's wild to hear me say that
because it was so hard for me to get pregnant
a second time. But if I was in my young thirties,
I've said this, I would try again. Yeah, I would,
because it's just the most amazing thing in the planet.
So I've really like there's been nights on don't not
to be weird, but there's been nights where I've like
nursed her and I've cried because I'm like, I know
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that the clock is ticking on this ending and I'm
never going to do it again. And that's also a
hard realization for me.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
But there's other things that come down the pipeline that day.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
To look forward to her.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Yeah, and you have given me hope for that because
I know that every age has like its most amazing thing.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Yeah, on top of evolution.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
On top of evolution, sometimes you're going to get to
a point where you're like, I'm so happy I didn't
have another kid because I could not deal with this
madness another four or five years from now. You feel me, No,
I know, but hey, you know it's something to be said.
You got to you gotta really be serious about having
a kid later on in life, Like that's got to
be a decision that does you really sit down with
yourself and think about, I'm about.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
To be thirty nine years old this year, you know
what I mean, even if I got pregnant now, like
it's just a whole thing. And I again, Mike, it's
done and I'm trying to come to terms with it
also with that being said, snip sniphan stip sniphoney, Yeah,
I do. And if there's anybody listening that has a
suggestion for somebody in the south Shore, please add Ashley
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Feldman two.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
He's on the Ashley because he's scared.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Does he want to do it?
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Though he he will do it because of everything that
I've gone through. He's like it's my turn, that's fine.
But he's I've never seen him be he is a
frad it's.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
The thought of it scary. Yeah, but you avoid the accidents.
I had an accident and had a fourth, which is amazing,
but we weren't prepared for that. And like that's a
good way to fix it.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Yeah, if you're in the cell Shore and you have
a suggestion for somebody to get to do the snip snip,
please please DM me.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
And then you can shoot the club up without any.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Worry saying that I just don't want to just.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
You're like blah blah, but the bullet aren't hitting anything.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I don't need you to do that. And that's what
it is. But if anybody knows what I'm talking about, Like,
it's hard. It's hard out here, and the guys are
just like, I'm ninety. You want a kid,