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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wait Joe and wake up.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Well, well, well, happy Thursday everybody. I feel like I
have multiple things that I want to address, but the
first thing being I had a mother, like a first
motherly first last night, so we all know that I
sleep train and I very much so value sleep because

(00:37):
we don't get a lot of it. So last night,
Laylah wakes up. She's three and some change, she's daytime
potty train. Now I was told, hey, you got to
concentrate on the daytime, get that, get that under under control.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
And then the night, you know, will follow.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
When we started daytime potty training her, we'd always put
her in pull ups at night. Eventually, over the last
two months, she started saying, I don't we called them
nighttime undies. I don't want to wear my night time undies.
I want to wear my day undies asleep, which honestly
I kind of understood, because.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
You go back to feeling like you're wearing a dipe.
I don't want that.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
So I said, respect, girlfriend, you wear your daytime undies,
but you have to let mommy know if you have
to go peepy in the middle of the night, and
she does, she usually stands up, I have to go peepy.
So we've had that happen and that's fine. She wakes
up the middle of the night last night and the
fireman's like, she's peed the bed. I said, no, she didn't, No,

(01:40):
she didn't because she wasn't saying anything, but she was
taking her She sleeps with this thing. We call it
a lovey, I don't know if you guys know, and
it's like a little animal with a blanket attached to it. Yeah,
she's taken her lovey that she calls pink, and she's
dabbing pink on her sheet and sniffing it, dabbing pink,
and then she chucks pink out the crib and that's

(02:00):
what she don't want to pickcause pink was covered in pea.
And that's when I knew something was off. So I
went down there, and mind you, she peed before bed,
so it was a river in that thing, like bad.
So that was my first time with this experience, so
I wasn't really I'm usually I was very calm, and

(02:22):
I'm usually pretty good in those situations. But my first mind,
my thought process was we're gonna strip her, strip the bed,
everything's gonna get washed. I'm gonna shower with her because
once I picked her up out of the crib, now
I'm covered in pea, and then put her in the
bed with us while things get washed, and then try
to put her back in when they're dry.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
But you know, we get her in the bed, which,
by the way, she's never done. So she's like, this
is I'm gonna pee in that thing every night. So
we let her in and we we all fall asleep.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Now all of a sudden, my alarm's going off and
I'm like, oh my god, turn my alarm off.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
And I look at the fire man. I'm like, did
you switch the laundry.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
He's like no, I go all right, well, I guess
I'm not putting her back in. All of a sudden,
she said, mom, where are you going?

Speaker 4 (03:12):
Yo?

Speaker 3 (03:12):
Three thirty in the morning, it's a little bit one
and a half a full Where are you going?

Speaker 2 (03:17):
I'm going to work. She calls sign to the scary monster.
Will the scary monster be there?

Speaker 3 (03:21):
And I'm like, Laila, you have to lay down.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
I'm like, it's literally the middle of the night. Look,
I was like this this we always said, the sun
is still sleeping. You have to go back. Wanted to
ask me seventy eight questions and then remember the bathrooms
in the room. So I'm going in the bathroom to pump,
coming out, what.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
Are you doing? Are you pumping? Are you pumping? Cause
she can hear. It's just so she's in there right now.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
Now I'm looking back, I'm like, there was obviously things
I could have done.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
I probably should have had a whole setup ready. But
here's the thing.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
There's only one pink, and pink was covered in pay
and I knew she wasn't gonna be able to function
if you didn't have her pain again, it just peen.

Speaker 4 (04:01):
The bet happens though, so and people have told me that.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
I actually said to the farm and I said, she's
been potty trained for a good amount of time now,
five months or four months maybe since we've done it,
and this is the first accident. So yeah, that's great.

Speaker 5 (04:14):
And I think pin the bed something a little bit different,
because it's like it's a timing thing too, of like
not drinking so much fluid towards the end of the day,
because sometimes they just sleep right.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
Through the feeling of having to get up and go pee.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
One of my daughters, Pete for a while, then it
was like, you gotta go to the bathroom before, but
well they figure it out.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
It's yeah fine.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
And here's also the weird thing. She's still in the
crib because she hasn't never crawled out.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
She's never asked for a big girl bed, and I
feel weird about it because she's a little over three.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
But the doctor's like, the.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
Hell enough, like leave her in the leave her in
the trap until she wants out.

Speaker 4 (04:47):
Yeah, how long she was supposed to be in the
crib though.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Well, she could be out, I mean whenever some people
put them in because so the crib turns into a
toddler bed. So all we have to do is take
out the front, so she'll still be in that crib.
It'll just the front will be different where she can
get in and out. But I don't I don't want
her get in and out.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
But I know it. It's going to come eventually.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
But that's why she usually just stands up and says
like I have to go potty.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Guys, she's just in the bed right now, being like
where are you going? What are you doing?

Speaker 4 (05:18):
Awesome to hang out with everybody? You know? Oh, I know,
so what are you going to do tonight? When she's
in the bed.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
There's she won't be in the beds tonight.

Speaker 6 (05:27):
I watch.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
An hour before I let her back in that bed.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
But I need to figure out what my backup plan
with that, because, like pe was, Pink was saturated in.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
Pay can't you buy? Certain sheets are kind of like
I do I have them?

Speaker 2 (05:43):
So it didn't get through to the mattress like it
got onto the yeah, everything, but all that stuff still
needs to be what I haven't I have other sheets, like,
but she wasn't going to go back in without her
blank Like they're weird. They're very much so creatures of habits,
so they need like their blankets, they're pillows, they're pain
because they're love.

Speaker 5 (06:01):
My house is just like cutthroat. My wife is like, no,
you're going back back to bed. The thing's gone for
a couple of days. Close your eyes, go to bed.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Pink started out pink, Pink's like brown now because I've
watched that thing so many times, it's been through the ringer.
But yeah, I don't know, dude, I don't. It was
it was a night, so yeah, that was. I also
then had the thing where I'm like, how.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
Do people do this? How do people sleep with their
kids every night. It was horrible. She's a thousand degrees,
she's kicking me.

Speaker 5 (06:32):
People who love it too, I know. Yeah, then the
kids are like ten in the bed still, Like that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
No, no, anyways, what's up with you guys?

Speaker 3 (06:40):
That was my night?

Speaker 5 (06:41):
No, the only So our address is changing completely different,
and I'm like, what the hell they sent us a
letter to Basically there we our driveways now lane and
it's one.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
Of the two.

Speaker 5 (07:00):
But you're gonna mess up so many things, so many things,
all the addresses, all this stuff. But the biggest thing.
We just spent a lot of money on a granite
post where our address carved into it, like two grand.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
We called the town like listen, what do we get? Like,
this is crazy?

Speaker 3 (07:19):
What are we going to do with our granite post?

Speaker 4 (07:21):
Yeah? So like now like basically, here's a company idiot idiots.

Speaker 5 (07:31):
Yeah, basically you can kind of like adjust them.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
But I'm like, what the hell.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
It's like a whole process now I'm thinking like door dash,
all these little things where.

Speaker 4 (07:39):
Our address is on.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
It's annoying.

Speaker 4 (07:44):
It's annoying, but it will get done because there's no
other choice.

Speaker 3 (07:48):
Imagine having to change your last name.

Speaker 4 (07:50):
But you've had years to do.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
You just said that's annoying. What will you do is
under fieldman? How you know? Do you know the time
it will take to change that?

Speaker 1 (08:00):
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Speaker 7 (08:04):
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Speaker 1 (08:12):
You haven't any more.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
Vive all right, babes, Thursday, April the third.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
Let's start with some problems for Young Thug. Looks like
the prosecutors are trying to revoke his probation. Officials in
the Fulden County District Attorney's Office filed the motion yesterday,
claiming that Young Thug quote continues his presence in the
community under probationary supervision, presenting a clear and present danger

(08:38):
to public safety and he's undermining the rule of law.
They then also accused him of sharing a post that
showed escalating threats toward a local investigator plus witness intimidation
in a gangcase. Young Thug, I don't know what is
going on, sir, but you spent far too many times
to a time hind bars.

Speaker 3 (09:01):
They start acting right, that sounds serious, get it together.

Speaker 4 (09:04):
This person's a problem.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
He responded on social media. He tweeted, I don't make
I don't make threats to people. I'm a good person.
I would never condone anybody threatening anybody or even participate.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
In threatening anyone. I am all about peace and love.

Speaker 4 (09:20):
We've all made threats before, So that statement there is
not I just.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
Think like when in his situation, what's the same, like.

Speaker 8 (09:31):
Really low like low, But again, you know, he's been forgiven.
He probably feels like he can't go back to jail,
and sometimes, you know, you feel like you got to
stand up for what's wrong.

Speaker 4 (09:42):
But na, bro get it.

Speaker 8 (09:43):
Don't mess with the people who are dying and itching
to get you into jail.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
Like that's not smart.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Take a second and realize you have the freedom to
be able to tweet and do these things.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
You ain't.

Speaker 8 (09:54):
We don't got to tweet everything, you know what alone, Yeah,
that's it, that's it, that's it all right.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
Cardi B is teasing her by the way Crazy, her
second album, her sophomore album, I don't know why.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
When I read that, I was like, oh, this has
to be a typo.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
But CARTI really only had invasion of privacy in twenty eighteen.

Speaker 3 (10:23):
It is twenty twenty five now and we haven't got
another album.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
And why is that?

Speaker 8 (10:28):
I know, all those promising albums and then they never come,
or whatever's going on.

Speaker 3 (10:32):
She's had so many hits in the in between that
maybe she's.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
Like, I don't need to drop a whole new album,
like I have this song and this and I'm you know.
She she had singles that she dropped right or she
was collaborating on the song of either hers or somebody else.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
But this is her sophomore album.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
We are awaiting, and she was back in Spaces, not
talking about offset this time, but kind of telling everybody
she's gonna have some special features.

Speaker 9 (10:56):
The features on my album are really good. I don't
have a lot of feature but I'm working with artists,
some that I have worked before and some that I
haven't worked And like the ones that I have not
worked before, I feel like it's gonna like really surprise you.
And it's such a vibe. I could tell you this.
I'm one hundred percent confident with this album. Like it's

(11:17):
so I just don't think that what I got is
out there there you have it.

Speaker 4 (11:22):
Who's it gonna be offset.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
I mean, somebody's got him, it's not her. She also said,
by the way, swearing off sex until she finishes the album. Now,
I've heard of fighters doing this, but CARTI like, for.

Speaker 8 (11:40):
What Cardi loves sex too much. That's good. I'm not
saying she can't do it. But every other day she's
telling us how much she needs some day and she
does love to say that. And I almost feel like,
because of what her and all said of going through,
she's just purposely gonna get some to piss him off.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Offset Hype though he's like, I hope the album takes
eight more years.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
Okay, if that's what you're doing. But fighters do it
to like get all rimmed.

Speaker 8 (12:05):
Well, you know for fellows once. Yeah, you can have
some weak knees and your week knees got to.

Speaker 5 (12:11):
Be typically it's a conservative testosterone to like all the levels. Yeah,
but Tyson never listened.

Speaker 4 (12:17):
He was banging.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
Not where we were for a second. All right, let's
wrap this up with Karen read up day.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
Guys, we got seven seated jurors in total. Yeah, we
had two from Tuesday and five more yesterday. Remember we're
trying to get to that number of twelve twelve jurors
plus four alternates.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
That's what's needed. Seven is a good number. I mean
we're on the up and up.

Speaker 4 (12:48):
We could have this like thing filled by Friday, by tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (12:53):
Yeah, I mean, I guess the quicker the better.

Speaker 4 (12:57):
Let's get this thing on the road.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
I mean, seriously, let's get it going.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
I actually just printed out a it's like, no everybody
that's coming up in the retrial, and they kind of
listed everybody, the key players and a little blurb about them.
It's damn near twenty pages. It's that's how many people
are involved in this case.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
It's nuts.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
But yeah, I mean I was predicting end of May
for them to get this jury. But we might, I
mean we might. We might be going before Easter at
this point. Seven seated two from Tuesday, five more yesterday.
We'll keep you posted that us Three things need to
know for Thursday, April third, Nellie Job, Rule, e Chingy,
Jermaine Debri. I'll gonna be hanging out at the Xtinity
Center in August.

Speaker 3 (13:37):
You could be too easy. Way to win at post seven.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
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Speaker 10 (13:50):
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Speaker 3 (13:55):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
I had read this article and now I feel like
it's stuck in my head and I can't get it out.
I was talking to Santi a little bit about it
in the gym forum, but and I don't know if
maybe you feel differently about this, but the article basically
said that we as people should try our very best
mentally to not live for the weekends, like try to

(14:25):
force yourself to live and be excited about each.

Speaker 3 (14:28):
And every day. And I do. I understand the mentality.
I get it.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
I myself do feel like I live each day being like,
all right, it's Wednesday, it's almost Friday. That comes from
a place of our schedule. And I mean that wholeheartedly,
because you know, we don't have the luxury of like
going out on a Monday or Tuesday night.

Speaker 4 (14:51):
We don't and if we pay for it the next day.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
Exactly, and I don't. It's not worth it to me.
I've done it where I've tried it and been like,
I'm going out tonight.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
I don't care.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
But then the alarm clock hits at three thirty, and
I'm like a zombie of a human and I can't
do it. So I just think our schedule is so hard,
and I put it this way. It's created such real
estate in my brain that I brought it up to
the fireman last night and he's like.

Speaker 3 (15:14):
Honey, you like, you have to get that out of
your head.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
It's okay that you're excited for a Friday because you
get to sleep in three hours. You know, like it's
it and it's again. I think when I was reading
the article, it made me feel like, I don't know,
am I like a bad mom because I'm not. I
know I went down this path of being like well
because on Mondays it's not like I'm thinking, oh, let's

(15:39):
do something like I'm taking them for a walk or
I'm taking them to the playground.

Speaker 3 (15:42):
I'm doing something, but I'm not doing weekend types.

Speaker 6 (15:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (15:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (15:45):
We watched The Time. I do watch the Time, which
is something I hate because somebody tells me, yo, show
up at seven.

Speaker 4 (15:50):
I'm like, oh yeah, crazy, be like, oh.

Speaker 3 (15:57):
You want to bring her to this really fun kids
thing that starts five. I'm like five six, Nope, can't
do it.

Speaker 8 (16:02):
We watched Time like hard, I do you know the weekend.
You just you don't worry about nothing.

Speaker 5 (16:10):
My family is on the same thing because they know, like,
we could never ask him to do this, that and that,
because now by default everybody is on this awful schedule
that we kind of have.

Speaker 3 (16:20):
He literally will get in bed with me between eight
and nine.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
A yeah, like he just you follow it. I would
if my house was running this way.

Speaker 5 (16:30):
Now there's a point of the article which I understand
because like five out of the seven we're just looking
for the weekend, or four of the seven, right.

Speaker 4 (16:36):
You're making the five days miserable.

Speaker 5 (16:37):
Yes, if we change our way of thought, maybe the
experience would be better. But at the same time, I
don't think people are wired like that, Like the weekends
are a good thing and it's like good payoff at
the end of the week.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
And I don't know if you guys feel like this too.
But once I'm here, it's done, the day has begun.

Speaker 3 (16:54):
We're doing the show.

Speaker 2 (16:55):
We love what we do, so that helps, because, mind you,
if we didn't, I don't even I would.

Speaker 3 (17:01):
I don't think I do this schedule.

Speaker 8 (17:02):
This is unique to us because we get out of
what ten eleven, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (17:06):
We get out.

Speaker 8 (17:06):
But like I told some people, like even my parents
will be like, all right, so wait, so you going
because my dad saw a first hand when he came
here a few months ago and he's like, oh, so
you leave the crib by four thirty seven and you're
back even before noon.

Speaker 3 (17:17):
It's like, beautiful, Yes, it all depends on the day. Yes,
when you say it like that.

Speaker 5 (17:22):
Yeah, when you break down the math of how many hours,
that's like the positive and people don't understand. But the
schedule is really daunting and also physically it's not good
for us.

Speaker 4 (17:32):
We are dying more and more every single day because
we don't sleep.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yeah, And so many people have written us and been like,
how do you do it with the schedule because there
are so many people that are like, I don't care
if I could be home by noon, that doesn't matter
to me. I'm not getting up through because there's a
lot of people that have a firm belief that we
get up like in.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
The middle of the night, which we kind of do.

Speaker 11 (17:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (17:52):
But there's a positive though, Like I have always experienced
being home with the kids when they get off the
bus and being home with them, like, so there's a
positive to that. And the things, and I feel like
fortunate for that because I know a lot of parents
work until five than they're home by six o'clock and
it's a fast turnaround.

Speaker 2 (18:07):
That's what makes me emotional is because anytime I think
about this and the whole like living for the weekend thing,
I think, actlely, there's for.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
For the kids.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
For the little girls that I have in my house,
there's no better schedule. They get to see me and
spend a big chunk of their day with me every day.

Speaker 3 (18:23):
But I had different scheduling but would do that.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
But I think I've always been the type of person
that lives for the Friday feeling.

Speaker 4 (18:30):
I just that's.

Speaker 8 (18:31):
Feels awesome part of me to become like the norm
right that everybody's like, damn, Monday sucks. Like I've seen
people try to be like try to try to make
Monday like more of a positive thing as opposed to
be like, yeah, it's Sunday, Monday's going to behare well, there's.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
The Sunday, there's the scaries. The Sunday scary set in
because you know, yeah, I.

Speaker 5 (18:50):
Will say too sand the article a little bit also
as Americans like America is different way like we're handcuffed
to our jobs and careers are big if you go
like overseas the arts like not like this work is
like third on the list here as Americans, I feel
like it's number one to.

Speaker 8 (19:05):
Test to that. And again, people go to work overseas.
By here, it's like it's a machine. It's like you have.
If you don't go to work, they some wrong with
you and you're not paying your bills overseas.

Speaker 4 (19:15):
Yes, people are kind of you.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
You can't.

Speaker 8 (19:17):
People are little more or less have less overseas. But
it's not it's not. I almost feel like it's is
you're clocking into the machine and you're just making the
American machine just keep turning, and.

Speaker 4 (19:27):
Some people out of it. It's weird.

Speaker 5 (19:28):
Some people think that cars of metal coffins just slowly
dying on the highways like we're coffins. Yeah, it's crazy,
but it's also.

Speaker 4 (19:41):
Killed us.

Speaker 3 (19:41):
In this conversation commute now I'm dead, No.

Speaker 4 (19:46):
But that's what the thing.

Speaker 5 (19:47):
We're just driving to our death, like like every single day,
wasting more time to from what's important.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
Don't have another option.

Speaker 4 (19:54):
But that's the thing.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
It's like, yes, you do, and just in the sense
of like work doesn't have to be the most important
thing your life.

Speaker 4 (20:00):
It will be there if you balance it out. And
that's the thought process.

Speaker 2 (20:03):
Yes, I think you do have to, which is not
easy sometimes because you're made to feel a certain type
of way. But I've really, like in this job, you know,
I've said no more to things.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
That's exactly I used to. I used to be like, yeah,
I'll go, yeah, I'll do it.

Speaker 2 (20:18):
Yeah, but my life is different now and my priorities
are different, so I've had to say notice and things.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
That's the thought. That's the thought there, yeah, instead of
like back in the day. And I've dealt with this too.

Speaker 4 (20:27):
It's like, yeah, I'll do any event anytime in Boston
and like, wait, what am I doing?

Speaker 12 (20:31):
No?

Speaker 4 (20:32):
I know, I know.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
It's funny.

Speaker 2 (20:33):
When I was bringing this off to him though, there's
an eighties song Foreign that's literally about this.

Speaker 3 (20:39):
You're gonna do that song?

Speaker 4 (20:53):
Yeah, I love that song. Everybody is working.

Speaker 3 (20:57):
It has not changed, it has not changed.

Speaker 4 (20:59):
It's so true.

Speaker 5 (21:00):
Five o'clock on a Friday for most people, quitting time,
quit in time, and then it's like the weekends.

Speaker 8 (21:06):
If you really think about it, it's a gimmick bro
out of seven days, we look full to only two.

Speaker 2 (21:10):
I know, but and how do we create a Friday
Saturday feeling on a Tuesday unless I don't have work
the next dayDay.

Speaker 5 (21:22):
Certain countries in Europe will take August off, four weeks
of holiday off.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
They have.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
They have siestas. Literally, yeah, I would, but then this
is the way by works.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
I'd keep your siesta. I'll work through the two hours
and get out earlier. It's weird, like your mind. Our
minds are just different. But yeah, this article made me
feel a type of way about the fact that Thursdays
I'm a little more relax. Like if the fireman, for
some crazy reason, was like, let's grab dinner tonight, I'd
be like, I can do it, yes, because it's Thursday
and tomorrow's Friday.

Speaker 3 (21:56):
But you Monday. You asked me that, are you ill?

Speaker 5 (21:59):
Yeah, Like it's offensive to us. But the thing is like, listen,
we're not going to change like overnight. But I think
it's just just reminding us to have balance on all levels.
And that's the important part. Yes, yes, which I've gone
in the past. Why I've not had balance and the
schedule is the most important thing in this and that
and it wasn't good for my partners.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Yeah, And with that.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
Being said, there's people who work even crazier schedules to
lead to and we know that because during twenty twenty,
you guys would call us. And that's why we do
the check in now because other people have these just insane.

Speaker 8 (22:27):
Tchedule days, fourteen holo days. Some people work three four
days a week just to have the rest of them.
It's like, it's weird.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
Somebody is listening right now in that car, in their
car and a one hundred present saying, hey.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
Shut the hell up. You're pissing off because my schedules
were way worse.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
And I get it if you, But you know what,
I don't care what anybody says. Friday's hit different, Fridays
hit different. Hi, everybody, good morning. It's actually in the
Jamie Morning Show. I was just saying I had a
feeling there was gonna be somebody who's like, listen, you
guys have a tough schedule, because listen, there's people that

(23:05):
are on our schedule but they hate their job. And
I think that would be the ultimate right because at
least when we get in here, we love what we
do and we have a good time and we love
talking to you guys. Because I couldn't imagine doing this
for a job that I hated.

Speaker 3 (23:18):
I couldn't. Yeah, I wouldn't be able to maintain.

Speaker 4 (23:20):
I actually did it.

Speaker 5 (23:20):
I woke up this hour to go to a radio
station that I hated and just and despise. And that's
a lot tougher.

Speaker 4 (23:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:26):
Well, it got to the point where you would drive around, yeah,
just like to then go back in when it was
going to start. That's like lunacy, Christina, you used to
wake up at three point thirty.

Speaker 3 (23:37):
What job were you working?

Speaker 1 (23:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (23:41):
I was going to the bottoming.

Speaker 4 (23:42):
I went to buy a city hospital. Wow.

Speaker 11 (23:45):
And the first ship was like four point thirty. And
you waken people up, You're the first person and then
waking them.

Speaker 14 (23:51):
Up, Yeah, I'm here to draw your blood.

Speaker 13 (23:53):
Yeah, like mad, but you know, you here to do
a job.

Speaker 10 (23:56):
And you got to put on, like, you know, a
happy face even though you don't want to be and
you don't want to wake them up.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
And what was that shift? Four thirty in the morning to.

Speaker 11 (24:05):
Four thirty two?

Speaker 3 (24:07):
Okay, and you don't work that shift anymore.

Speaker 13 (24:11):
No, I don't.

Speaker 11 (24:12):
And God bless everyone that still.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
Does what's your shift now?

Speaker 13 (24:18):
No, right now, I'm just doing PCA work, so I'm like,
okay pretty much all day.

Speaker 11 (24:22):
But yeah, it doesn't.

Speaker 2 (24:24):
Starting at I was gonna say, did you did you
hate that that that alarm clock so much that you
would take any other shift?

Speaker 14 (24:31):
Honestly, it started to become muscle memory, like I would
just wake up like three o'clock ready to go back
to thirty.

Speaker 4 (24:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (24:37):
I actually did wake up fifteen three fifteen today, fifteen
minutes before my alarm. I actually despise when that happens,
because I'm like, then I just stare at it and
wait until the time.

Speaker 3 (24:46):
But no, the getting up in the threes is uh,
it's not. It's certainly not for the week. It's it's
it's a lot.

Speaker 11 (24:54):
It's not you think different, you sleep differing, you eat.

Speaker 3 (24:58):
Yeah, so and money this thing. Yeah, we'll have a
problem with that. But Christina, thanks for the calling.

Speaker 2 (25:05):
Anytime I think about this our schedule, you have to
think about the news anchors too.

Speaker 3 (25:09):
Yeah, they're up in the twos.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
I know that for a fact because one of my friends,
she works on the morning news shift, and she's up
I think she said two twenty and.

Speaker 5 (25:17):
Then they have to be uh full makeup, yes, do
it themselves too, which takes how long?

Speaker 4 (25:23):
And now, plus if.

Speaker 2 (25:25):
You're doing your hair and your glam let's just say
at minimum you're looking at forty five, maybe thirty if
you have some sort of trick. But yeah, yeah, if
you're doing a full face, like that's crazy.

Speaker 4 (25:35):
That is what time you have to go to bed
to wake up at two in the morning.

Speaker 5 (25:39):
My system was a news anchor for a while, but
she used to go to that like at seven and
she wow.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah, yeah, I know, but that's the thing. Your day
completely shrinks, right.

Speaker 5 (25:48):
Yeah, absolutely, like and then you're also off by the
time you want to hang out with people like that
are they're at work?

Speaker 4 (25:54):
Yeah, and then when they want to hang out, you're
in bed.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
And that's why I value so much. So my schedule
with the girls in the sleep with people will be like, god,
youre's just psycho about the sleep, yeah, bitch, because if
I don't get them down around six thirty, then I'm
gonna have zero time with my husband, like literally zero.

Speaker 5 (26:10):
Watch vacation is like so easy going, just just go
with the flow. Santi now doesn't go with the flows, right, it's.

Speaker 3 (26:19):
Right like you look at the clock.

Speaker 12 (26:22):
Three.

Speaker 4 (26:22):
Four I hate it.

Speaker 5 (26:24):
Yeah, when my wife says at eight thirty, hey, do
you want to start like a brand new show?

Speaker 4 (26:28):
Much? Are you crazy? Are you okay?

Speaker 11 (26:30):
Actually?

Speaker 7 (26:30):
And four and it's santy when you need to know,
we got you three things you need.

Speaker 10 (26:37):
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Speaker 1 (26:41):
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Speaker 12 (26:42):
Five?

Speaker 3 (26:44):
All right, Thursday, April third, here we go again.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
I guess I don't. I'm so sick of it with
the TikTok stuff. But there's a potential band again could
be happening on Saturday. Trump Is has this like TikTok
deal proposal that could prevent it from being banned.

Speaker 3 (27:05):
But the right company has to buy it is how
I'm digesting it.

Speaker 2 (27:09):
They have to give the oki dok for the correct
company that they feel like, an American based company to
buy it. I have heard rumors that Amazon hasn't been in.

Speaker 5 (27:19):
Now Here's the biggest problem with this is that for
companies like that, it's tough to them. It's tough for
them to understand the valuation of the company because it's
Chinese base, So who knows behind the scenes if they're
messing with all the numbers, so they might want to
sell it for two hundred billion, but it's still only kind.

Speaker 8 (27:34):
Of bro doesn't even want to sell it. The owner
doesn't want to sell it at all. He doesn't want
to do nothing with it. He wants to keep it
from So here's my thing. Today's supposed to be the deadline,
right Saturday Saturday. If Saturday come and TikTok is still here,
this is all fake because that's what they tried to
pull on us the last time, remember, and he went
away for a couple of days and then it was
back all of a sudden. I'm like, wait a minute,
we wanted supposed to have to TikTok forever. I feel

(27:54):
like they just they just pulling that leg at this point.
Maybe if next Monday come and TikTok is still around
in no company.

Speaker 2 (28:00):
One thing I've noticed since the last time this happened,
when there was the old TikTok scare and everybody was crying,
a lot of people seem to be investing more on
Instagram now because they know it's not going in there.
I've even seen people posting being like I put this
on TikTok at one point here it is on my Instagram.
So I still think some of these people who were

(28:20):
just straight up TikTok based have started to kind of
reach their tentacles in other places because they know there's
a chance of it happening again.

Speaker 5 (28:29):
Absolutely, But I do think on Sunday will all be
on the talk and we'll all be seeing the hot
moms and.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
Yeah, I mean listen, And I took a little shot
right there. But I also was the first one to
say that people that content create and that that's their
full time job.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
That is a hard job to do. To come up
with something every single day, multiple times a day.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
That's not an easy job either. I just the people
that were like, it was a lot that day.

Speaker 5 (28:56):
And to that point, if you struggle with creating content,
go on my Instagram those videos weekly about creating contents.

Speaker 4 (29:02):
He does every day.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
And yeah, right.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Now, I will say a lot of times too, just
to add another layer to this, we will be in
the gym working out and I'll just open up my
phone real quick and a video will have been posted.

Speaker 3 (29:24):
So he has them set to go, like he's got
video scheduled out probably.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
For the next month, actually yeah, yeah, And he also
will do a video about scheduling posts where heeding schedule himself.
All right, let's talk about Yay because there's a chance
that we have a new album today.

Speaker 3 (29:46):
I can't all right, let me backtrack.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
Yay might drop an album today entitled World War Three.
He gave a little preview to DJ Academics. Him and
Act are like best buddies right now. Act, but be
careful because things with ya can change or they're going
to link.

Speaker 3 (30:07):
We got a track list.

Speaker 2 (30:08):
I physically can't read some of the song titles on there.
I'll give you a few of them just to give
you a taste. Bianca, Cosby Freedom, and one is even titled.

Speaker 3 (30:20):
Hitler, Yay and Jesus the man is obsessed.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
I don't think they're all on the same level there.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
I don't either. Now, remember Forn you were kind of
telling us about this. He can't drop on streaming platforms, correct.

Speaker 8 (30:32):
He doesn't have the support to be able to do so.
But he can drop on his own website though, so that's.

Speaker 2 (30:38):
Where he usually has in putting his songs if he
does in fact drop. Ac previewed Bianca. Now we know
his wife's name is Bianca. This song is interesting because
if you listen to the lyrics, it insinuates that Ya
and her are on the outs. Ack then commented and said,
I think this was an old story that they're back together.
Either way, at some points on they did go through something, Yaka.

Speaker 12 (31:04):
I just want you to come back, come back to me. Yeah,
rock up. I'm good to make him back, big Yanka.
I just watch it and come back, come back to me.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
I want you to come back to me. I want
you to come back, my baby.

Speaker 12 (31:24):
She ran away the friend she tried to give me committed.

Speaker 4 (31:27):
You're going to the hospital because I am not saying that, Jim,
I get it.

Speaker 15 (31:31):
She wants me to sail when I finished, I'm making
a stir when I'm many.

Speaker 12 (31:34):
She's having a panic attack and she ain't not like
an Ovader, not tweet it until the yank is back.
I stay up.

Speaker 2 (31:40):
I'm mad.

Speaker 12 (31:40):
I'm not going to sleep. I really don't know where
she's at.

Speaker 15 (31:43):
I'm checking my busto an ass, I'm checking my bus
to the city. I guess we didn't new Castle and lady,
I'll make you the sofa, Biyanka.

Speaker 12 (31:51):
I'm feeling the spirit of the.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
Dona has so many things. He at one point says
she tried to get me committed. At a different time,
he says she has a panic attack.

Speaker 3 (31:59):
When I tweet.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
He then compared them to Diddy and Cassie and then
said he tracks her.

Speaker 3 (32:05):
On an app.

Speaker 4 (32:06):
Do we think the music is good?

Speaker 3 (32:07):
I didn't like that, Like, this isn't good.

Speaker 4 (32:10):
Life is gone.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
He has come out over the last couple of weeks
with a few songs where I'm like, like fiend, Like
there's a couple of songs, but Ye're still in there.

Speaker 8 (32:20):
This is Bully album was not that bad. Yeah, I agree,
nobody really talked about but his Bully album was.

Speaker 4 (32:25):
Not that bad.

Speaker 3 (32:26):
It wasn't that that to me.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
Still can do music. It's just now he's just.

Speaker 3 (32:30):
He's actually wish he would just do that.

Speaker 8 (32:32):
He's so selfish though, because all he's doing is trying
to hurt people's feelings. And it's like, for one, like,
what is the end result? What are you hoping to
gain at the end of all this, Like with the
with the swatsticker chain and your KKK black hoodie and
you know, talking about what's what's some of the title
tracks Hitler like that, HL and Jesus, like, what, okay, cool,

(32:52):
you're shocking us. What is the end result after all
of this. Oh, you're just doing is just to be
selfish and gain all attention to to.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Me, he's lost his shock value, thank you, because he
said the most shocking. So I now.

Speaker 8 (33:07):
What And you're doing it every day like to make
an impact. Maybe every once in a while pop out
the window and be like hit loo and then dick
right back in.

Speaker 4 (33:14):
You feel me, and then we'll be like what the hell.

Speaker 8 (33:17):
But now you're like it's like every day you're just
trying to make it worse and worse and worse.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
What Like he was hype that he tweeted that about
jay Z's kids and it got so much traction because
he's like, oh I shocked him again.

Speaker 8 (33:28):
There you go. No man, what we need to do?
And unfortunately I hate to say this, just stop paying.

Speaker 3 (33:32):
Attention to ya because this this right here, like I
don't want to hear this. I'm all set, I'm good.

Speaker 4 (33:38):
I do want my body thought, because that.

Speaker 3 (33:41):
I want foreign in the fireman's shoes. I would love
my hoodie.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
Please.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
All right.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
Lastly, we got more jury members people, and it looks
like this retrial might start faster than we thought. Seven
seeded two from Tuesday, five more yesterday. We only and
not only, but we need twelve and four alternates to
get this thing going.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
I mean there's a chance this week. Yeah, it really is.

Speaker 4 (34:09):
I like halfway there.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
I think everybody is probably shocked that they've already hit
the seven of the twelve. That's that's pretty good. Yeah,
And I don't know how quickly.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
The turnaround is.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
I don't know if they have once they have all
twelve and four, if those people then go through another
round of questioning, or how it works. Either way, I
know those are the lucky numbers. We need to hit
twelve and four and we are getting very very close.
Nick Rokko will join us tomorrow to kind of talk
about the jury process and where Karen is with everything.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
At least this face has yes. Yeah, I have to
say that now because he you know, he was getting
come up and it all depends.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
All right, There's three things that you need to know
for Thursday, April the third.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
Let's do round one of these tickets.

Speaker 2 (34:49):
Nellie Ja Rule Eve Chiney, Germaine, dupri They're gonna be
the Expinity Center. That show is in August, which crazy
will probably be here before we know it. Six one
seven nine three one one nine four five calor twenty
five good Luck, Dashy and the jam In.

Speaker 1 (35:04):
Morning Show with DJ fourn It's Sad Morning.

Speaker 10 (35:07):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four five.

Speaker 3 (35:13):
Hig Doll's Good Morning Thursday.

Speaker 2 (35:16):
One step closer to the weekend six one seven nine
three one four five per that per that comments. We
had a conversation earlier where I was taking I read
this article that like created such real estate in my brain,
which I'm not usually like this with certain things. I
can get obsessive, but I you know, this article basically

(35:36):
said live every day like it's Saturday. How honey, like how?
But it messed me up because I'm like, no, I
I am different on a Saturday. I'm lighter, I get
three hours extra sleep. It's it's different. I don't have
the same type of responsibilities.

Speaker 3 (35:51):
We might go to the zoo. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
It's Saturday, and for me the world is your oyster
on a Saturday, and for me, Saturday is sex night.

Speaker 4 (35:59):
So obviously it's the road schedule. Sex we forgot.

Speaker 3 (36:05):
But enough about us.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
Six one seven nine three one one four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. It's
about you, your life, your world. You call us talking
about anything you want. I set that up, Danny, because
you also are on our same type of schedule. What's yours?
What time are you up in the morning, Danny?

Speaker 16 (36:27):
I know.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
People, Hi, what's your schedule? What time are you up
in the morning.

Speaker 6 (36:34):
I get up at three three to be at work
for like three thirty three forty five.

Speaker 3 (36:39):
So we're at work right now. What time do we
work until?

Speaker 6 (36:43):
Huh? That's the best thing. Yeah, it depends. It varies
all the day. Is I do delivery, So it could
be like ten thirty, eleven thirty, twelve thirty. Yesterday was
twelve thirty. It varies. Bad white days and I got
a little bit heavier days.

Speaker 4 (36:58):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (36:59):
So you we are twinsies, like we are pretty much
on the exact same schedule as you talk to me about,
like your bedtime.

Speaker 6 (37:08):
My bedtime. I'm very h I'm very picky with that.
I don't like to get up in the morning and
be tired. So my latest will be nine nine o'clock
if that's me. There's something going on, maybe nine thirty
if I'm pushing it.

Speaker 3 (37:24):
Bar damn are you off? Are you off Saturday Sunday?

Speaker 6 (37:29):
Oh yeah, that's that's far. Yeah, Saturday Sunday off and
Fridays is usually my life day. So I get out
eleven o'clock times thirty on a Friday. That's beautiful.

Speaker 3 (37:39):
Do you did you hear my conversation earlier?

Speaker 12 (37:41):
Like?

Speaker 3 (37:41):
Do you listen to us that earlier? Did you kind
of just put us on? I? I do.

Speaker 6 (37:47):
As soon as I get in the car, I put it,
put you guys on, and then until I get to
duncan get my call.

Speaker 3 (37:54):
We're part of the sketch. I love that.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
Well. I guess my thing to you is like you know,
this article said live every day like it's a on
our schedule.

Speaker 3 (38:02):
You can't.

Speaker 2 (38:03):
We can't like Tuesday is a Tuesday for us, you know, yeah,
especially when we get up so early, like it's like
everybody's sleep and when we get up with.

Speaker 4 (38:13):
It, I know, I know.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
Hilarious question for you? Do you is the most common
question you get? How do you do it? How do
you do it with the schedule? Because I mean that's.

Speaker 6 (38:23):
Yeah, yeah, everybody does. My son. I throught my son
into work with me once he wanted to make some
extra money for something that he wanted to buy, and
I'm like, you gotta get up for three and we
got to be there for like four o'clock.

Speaker 8 (38:37):
So okay.

Speaker 6 (38:37):
He did it for like a day or two, and
then after that he was like, Dad, I don't understand
how how do you do it that? How do you
how do you get up at that time that we
did it. I gotta do it if you want to
get fed and Bill got to get paid, I have
to get up.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
No, that's a fact, Danny. Well listen, we're doing it
with you.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
You know, you can always call us if you get
but you can't get sleepy you're driving, so careful.

Speaker 4 (39:01):
Wait.

Speaker 6 (39:01):
My last question today.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
Seriously, you want to just be back in about how
many coffees a day do you have?

Speaker 6 (39:08):
I try to keep it to like one a medium
vanilla latte or sugars and that's it. And then maybe
maybe I'll try a red Bull depending on the day.
I mean, that's two things I messed with.

Speaker 3 (39:24):
I only drink.

Speaker 6 (39:25):
I know they're not good for you.

Speaker 2 (39:26):
Well, I only drink them with vodka, So I don't
like to drink they don't they don't have the same taste,
but they don't have it in there, so all right, Dan, Well,
sometimes I like to have a little afternoon cup, like
just a small try to drink it black. Don't have
the sugar too, but maybe you know, around one or
two o'clock, just to get you through to the to
the nine o'clock bedtime.

Speaker 6 (39:47):
Yeah, my crash. I crashed around that time too, between
two and three o'clock. I have to take a nap.

Speaker 3 (39:51):
That's a tough thing.

Speaker 6 (39:52):
And sometimes I got things to do and I can't
take the not far. I feel like take a twenty
minute nif a little powering up, and then just get
the rest of the daytime.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
I get them. Man, all right, well, thanks for the call, Danny.
Stay strong.

Speaker 6 (40:05):
That's another thing.

Speaker 14 (40:06):
I go home.

Speaker 6 (40:06):
After I go home, and I know, trust me my wife, So.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
Listen, I got I got two little babies at home.
I can't take a nap.

Speaker 3 (40:14):
Who's going to take care of them? So it's tough.
I get it.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
Yeah, all right, man, though, speed good luck. No, it's uh,
it's listen, it's it's there's a lot of people who
have said to me, like, ugh, your job isn't hard.

Speaker 3 (40:31):
You talk for four hours, like it's nothing. But they're
not adding in the schedule the work we do the
night before, you know, coming up with topics and all that.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
It's you know, this job is weird because you put
a microphone in front of ninety percent of the people
that you know.

Speaker 8 (40:49):
It's not even about even the talking. It's like the
mental strain. You just have to come up with things
well content creators, not in the sense of like TikTok
and stuff. Right, yeah, but you've got it, like it's
it's draining on the brain. Bro for four hours. You
feel like you've worked in an eight hour shift.

Speaker 4 (41:04):
There's always this pressure to perform too. If you're not
exactly they could fire you, like any day. Again, this
job isn't very secure, so there's that mental part of.

Speaker 3 (41:12):
It, and people get so mad.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
You say one thing and all of a sudden, I'm
being called transsexual, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
They get mad at me and they're like, you like
Calen Jenner, but that costent. I say one thing that
somebody doesn't like. I'm like, oh, maybe Karen Reid did it.
They're like, you're transsexual. I'm like, oh, you're tall man,
you know, fine, Yeah, like it's crazy out here.

Speaker 4 (41:32):
The world is weird.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
Cindy is in Lawrence, Hi sing good morning, Hi, how
are you.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
I'm good. We got a big birthday today.

Speaker 17 (41:42):
Yeah, my twelve year old Julius.

Speaker 13 (41:45):
Happy birthday.

Speaker 9 (41:46):
I just wanted to give them a shout out.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
Happy birthday to Julius. Doesn't it like it goes so fast.
I'm sure you're thinking that right now.

Speaker 3 (41:54):
It's nuts.

Speaker 13 (41:55):
It's just I.

Speaker 17 (41:56):
Can't believe I got through for the second time because
when I now twenty three year old's heart turn twenty one,
I also called to give him a shut up.

Speaker 3 (42:03):
Wow. It must be something.

Speaker 2 (42:05):
It must be something about the birthdays. Well, I have
fun celebrating the twelve year old tonight.

Speaker 13 (42:10):
Mom, Thank you, thank you. Have a great day, you.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Too, babe. Thanks for the call. Let's go to the phones.

Speaker 2 (42:17):
We're talking about literally anything you want six one seven
nine three one one nine four five. It's the check in.
We're checking in on you. Tell me a story about
your life, calling comment on things we talked about thus far.
Just say what up? Anything you want. It's our favorite
part of the show because it's all about you. Six
one seven nine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five call

(42:39):
me the checking only on.

Speaker 3 (42:40):
Jam In ninety four five. Hi, bet, it's good morning.
It's actually in the jamb Morning show.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
We're checking in on. Yeah, let's go to Schanie. Nie
has another big birthday.

Speaker 3 (42:49):
Shout out to give.

Speaker 13 (42:52):
Good morning by good morning?

Speaker 4 (42:54):
Hold on, okay, sure, well good morning.

Speaker 3 (42:59):
Who's this.

Speaker 10 (43:01):
Laura?

Speaker 12 (43:02):
Laura?

Speaker 3 (43:04):
Yeah, I'm Laura. How old you? I'm sick you're six
years old? And is it somebody's birthday today?

Speaker 4 (43:13):
Yes?

Speaker 14 (43:13):
My mother, your mom.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
So Mommy said, listen, this is what we're gonna do.
Mommy's gonna call a number. I'm gonna hand you the phone,
and you're gonna say happy birthday to me on the radio.
Is that what she said?

Speaker 13 (43:24):
Tell her what happened?

Speaker 3 (43:27):
Tell me what happened.

Speaker 10 (43:29):
I said good morning to my mom and also happy birthday.

Speaker 8 (43:33):
And this was.

Speaker 10 (43:37):
My idea.

Speaker 2 (43:38):
Oh, you were like, I want to call Ashley and
say happy birthday to you on the radio.

Speaker 3 (43:45):
Yeah, why, he somed you trained her? Well, honey, can
you give me some pointers? I need to know. I
love that. Listen, you're the best.

Speaker 2 (43:53):
They're you're the best daughter, and I hope you and
mom have a great day celebrating her birthday.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
Do we have any plans?

Speaker 13 (44:00):
Thank you, Ashley, thank you. I'm not really this was
all hers, and she was like, can we call the
radio and tell them that's because we listened to y'all
on the Way for the Ways of School.

Speaker 3 (44:09):
I love it.

Speaker 13 (44:09):
I'm like, oh, so that was kind of special because
I don't really have anything. Point. I guess we're gonna
go out to eat later.

Speaker 3 (44:15):
Cute. I love it. We'll have fun tonight. Best daughter,
she is the best. She's so cute. How old are you, Denise,
I'll be well.

Speaker 13 (44:22):
I'm thirty seven today.

Speaker 3 (44:25):
Happy thirty seven. Thank you so much for the call.

Speaker 13 (44:29):
Thank you, good morning.

Speaker 3 (44:31):
Good morning, thank you, good morning.

Speaker 13 (44:33):
You have a good day.

Speaker 3 (44:34):
Oh wow, lookcluded that's sick.

Speaker 4 (44:36):
Thanks.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
You know. I want to say this because she's thirty seven,
and I recently listened to a podcast, and I feel
like this kind of goes with our conversation earlier. Another
woman I heard in an interview Lauren Graham, if you
watched Gilmore Girls, the iconic Lourli said that there's no
greater time.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
Than the forties. Absolutely, she had the forties are the
best and the best hurts. So many people say that lately.

Speaker 5 (45:01):
Yeah, it's been amazing. I think you just had things
figured out more and then yeah, you.

Speaker 3 (45:05):
Know what she said.

Speaker 2 (45:06):
Damn, I forget the quote, but it's like something along
the lines of like, you know who you are and
you know what you.

Speaker 3 (45:11):
Want, and you at that time perspective and a lot
of yeah, yeah, because in the in your twenties and
thirties are chasing something. Yeah the forties you might have
had it, or you might still be chasing, but you
know exactly what it is that you're chasing.

Speaker 5 (45:21):
Which, by the way, in my twenties, forties seemed ancient,
but it's not oh so far away.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
Yeah, high school, Ashley was like, I'm gonna be married
when I'm thirty. I'm gonna have sucods, I'm gonna make
millions of dollars.

Speaker 3 (45:34):
Like you just don't know. You think thirties old in
high school, like you genuinely think thirty is ancient.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
Yeah, And to Foreign's point, man, the forties come.

Speaker 8 (45:42):
Fast, super fast. I tell my kids that, oh yeah,
y'all blink it. Y'are gonna blink. You're gonna be thirty.
Then you blink, then you're body then you're fifty, then
he's sixty, and you gotta get.

Speaker 3 (45:50):
It going that the fifties are the best.

Speaker 2 (45:52):
Like, just let the start, get getting that narrative going
so that we're not afraid of anything. I know you
you embraced out the time. That's nice, that's really good.
All right, We're gonna wrap up the check in with
a talk back that we got.

Speaker 3 (46:04):
Y'all are so hard on Sunday. But I know it's
out of love.

Speaker 16 (46:07):
But honestly, and I have commented on his posts even
though I'm not on IG that much. I love his content.
I love his I love what he's doing. He's always
trying to better himself and at the same time others
most important.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
Okay, if you're getting out, hey, you're getting a compliment,
just like, stop speaking and let the person comment.

Speaker 3 (46:28):
But you can't like gas are they no? Listen we
we we make fun of you, but it is it
is all friendly banter. That's what we do.

Speaker 2 (46:41):
Show.

Speaker 4 (46:41):
I'll sign that too.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
Yeah, I mean do I do?

Speaker 2 (46:46):
I get like the legit shakes thinking of this man
alone in his office, like staring at a computer and
looking off to the you know, to the as he's
filming himself to the wall wherever it is, the camera
and just talking.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
I don't like it.

Speaker 2 (47:00):
I've seen it in action before and it upsets me.
But you like it, and that's all that matters.

Speaker 5 (47:07):
Try living with me having filming days, because then I'm
telling me quiet on the third guy, Quiet, It's impossible
to hit it in one.

Speaker 3 (47:21):
Joannely has sex with you one that a week.

Speaker 1 (47:23):
Quiet on the set, especially in the jam In Morning
Show with Foreign and Santi.

Speaker 7 (47:30):
When you need to know, we got you three things
you need to know on Bustin's Number one for hip
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Speaker 3 (47:38):
Any more Vive oh Man Thursday, April third, and we
might be getting a new album today called World War
Three from one Kanye West Yay, whatever the hell you
want to call him these days.

Speaker 16 (47:55):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (47:55):
You know, he's in a weird space because he can't
just drop it on Apple Music or spot I can't
usually use the streaming services, So if he does drop
an album, you'll probably hear snippets on ig and social media,
but you'd probably have to go to his website.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
I would think to buy it in its entirety.

Speaker 2 (48:13):
A track list was released via DJ Academics. Some of
the song titles are outlandish, as you can only imagine
a few to name Bianca, Cosby Freedom, another one titled Hitler,
Yay and Jesus. I don't know, guys, I don't know
if this thing is actually going to come out. I
don't know if people care anymore because it's just getting

(48:36):
so outrageous.

Speaker 3 (48:37):
We have a couple of clips.

Speaker 2 (48:38):
Here's one from the song titled Bianca and really listen
to the lyrics here, Biaka.

Speaker 12 (48:47):
Just to come back, come back to me, to make
him back and can come back combatinate I I want
you to combat to me.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
I want you to come back, my baby.

Speaker 12 (49:07):
She ran away the French she tried to give.

Speaker 4 (49:09):
Me committed You're not going to the hospital dies.

Speaker 3 (49:11):
I am out saying that. Joe to get it.

Speaker 12 (49:13):
She wants me to sail in a finished I'm making
a stir when I'm minting. She's having a panic attack.
Is she ain't the like? And no wayter not tweeted
and Joe the yank is back.

Speaker 3 (49:22):
I stay up on that.

Speaker 12 (49:23):
I'm not going a snave.

Speaker 15 (49:24):
I really don't know where she's at. I'm checking my
best do an app, I'm checking my bush to the
city I guess we did.

Speaker 12 (49:30):
Newcassie and Diddy. I'm meeting the shof with the yanker.
I'm feeling a spirit of the don.

Speaker 3 (49:35):
That's so so, so many things. Number One, he says,
she tried to commit me.

Speaker 2 (49:40):
He then goes on to say she has panic attacks
from my tweets.

Speaker 4 (49:43):
We all do.

Speaker 3 (49:45):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (49:45):
He then said I track her on an app and
he also compared them to Cassie and.

Speaker 4 (49:51):
Diddy, Like in what sense that he hit her?

Speaker 3 (49:53):
I don't really know. Also, it's not a good song. Also,
that's the first thing.

Speaker 4 (49:57):
Well to that point, like she came back after that's.

Speaker 2 (50:00):
Yeah, Well, the rumor is they did break up at
one point, but that she's back. But I'll be honest
with you, we haven't seen her lately in the last
few Commins.

Speaker 8 (50:09):
Said she packed the bag of air and dipped because
she has no clothes. The other yes, yes, this is
the part. This is the part where I'm saying, like, yay,
whatever he's saying is just left field. That like it's
on another planet. But when he makes music, now, I know,

(50:30):
I said I want to support this guy, but when
you play something like this, that's why I'm like, Okay,
you see this guy knows how to make songs. I
don't know the name of the song. But again he's
still talking about what's going on right now.

Speaker 4 (50:39):
He's trying to say I'm doing Tracy you on Twitter.
My friend's best advice was to stay low.

Speaker 6 (50:45):
I guess it's son to decipher all of the bills.

Speaker 4 (50:47):
That's see when you get family members, don't play role.
The media said it was out laying the spinning.

Speaker 3 (50:53):
The media said, way.

Speaker 4 (50:55):
Yeah, that control. I just feel it come the only one.

Speaker 8 (50:58):
Net for kenn And I'm not added control.

Speaker 4 (51:00):
I'm just that late control. We come up postpart that.

Speaker 10 (51:05):
Time cover was just confirmation.

Speaker 3 (51:10):
I stand with you on like this, like like make music.

Speaker 4 (51:12):
Yeah, did you give us your message to music?

Speaker 3 (51:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (51:15):
I think we'll be able to digest it a little better.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
Tweeting, stop stop wearing crazy outfits.

Speaker 3 (51:23):
Enough, go back to the music.

Speaker 4 (51:25):
But he won't. Though he won't.

Speaker 2 (51:26):
He won't, So no one's gonna No one's gonna deal
with this because he won't. All Right, big news for
Karen read yesterday we are accounting counting counting LA seven
seeded for her jury in this new retrial two from
Tuesday five.

Speaker 3 (51:40):
More yesterday on Wednesday. Guys, we gotta get to that.

Speaker 2 (51:43):
Lugging number twelve, twelve and four alternates is what's needed
to make this trial go again.

Speaker 3 (51:50):
I would assume they wanted to happen quickly, because like,
let's get this going. We're ready.

Speaker 2 (51:57):
The people are out there and they're pink, they're ready.
But today and tomorrow they still have time. There's a
chance we could have twelve by the end of this week.

Speaker 3 (52:05):
Tomorrow.

Speaker 4 (52:05):
Absolutely, But again, how do you get on this and
just you don't keep your mouth shut, Like you're not
going to call up and be like, hey, I'm on
the case. No, I you raise it.

Speaker 2 (52:14):
I don't think that you have to have one person
that you can't live with that by yourself.

Speaker 5 (52:19):
And also you're not going to hit the Google like
after this and be like, let me just see what
this Karen Reid thing is about.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
The only thing you could say is can you hold
it in long enough for the next day so that
way when you do talk about it, you're talking to
another jerm about it. That would be the only thing.
But there's no way, like I'm sorry, everybody has one
person that they say I'm telling my secrets. Everybody has
one Yeah, all those jurors have one. Yeah, Now are

(52:47):
they dumb enough to tell them at the bar? That's
a different story, all right.

Speaker 2 (52:50):
Cardi B is gearing up for her second album, which
is so crazy. We talked about this earlier. They keep
saying her sophomore album, her sophomore album, and it seems
like it would be a typo but it's not. We
got an invasion of privacy Carti's og album in twenty eighteen.

Speaker 3 (53:05):
People have been waiting that long for her to drop
another one.

Speaker 2 (53:08):
She says it's on the way, but she also says
there's some special features.

Speaker 9 (53:11):
The features on my album are really good. I don't
have a lot of features, but I'm working with artists,
some that I have worked before and some that I
haven't worked And like the ones that I have not
worked before, I feel like it's gonna like really surprise you.
And it's such a vibe I could tell yeah this,
I'm one hundred percent confident with this album. Like it's

(53:32):
so I just don't think that what I got is
out there.

Speaker 3 (53:36):
Her saying not work is sending me to the moment,
like that I haven't worked with, but she's like some
I have not work, like.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
She was in Spaces, though she also said she's not
having sexuals until her album is done.

Speaker 5 (53:50):
She's concentrated, so the technical part of sex right or
could she do like other stuff like hands?

Speaker 3 (53:57):
I didn't get on spaces to ask because.

Speaker 4 (53:58):
I feel like you could do with that right you?

Speaker 8 (54:02):
But just a general also a good question if you
practice in abstinence. Right does not mean zero everything, whether
it's it's.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
Opposed to I think it is. I think it's all
of that. Like you don't. I don't think you get
to the happy place.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
You don't even watch nothing, matter which way. You don't
do nothing at all that has to do with anything
to do with sex.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
I do not think.

Speaker 4 (54:21):
So could you help somebody else? Because that's part part?

Speaker 3 (54:25):
Are you talking about you? What's going on with you?

Speaker 1 (54:27):
Like?

Speaker 12 (54:27):
What do you mean?

Speaker 5 (54:28):
Because if you, if you're upstaining personally right for your
own thing, could you help somebody else get there to
help them?

Speaker 3 (54:33):
Though I don't want to know. That is three things now,
I'm good.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
That is three things you need to know for Thursday,
April the third.

Speaker 3 (54:42):
Well, if that's the case, we know for it my six.

Speaker 18 (54:46):
One seven, nine, three, one nine four or five nelly
job Rule, Eve Chingy, Germaine de Pre are going to
be at the Exminity Center hopefully with you.

Speaker 2 (54:56):
Galluppibes, Cyron and Fitchburg is going to the Nelly Show.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
We will do it again tomorrow morning.

Speaker 2 (55:02):
You know the times by now seven twenty and twenty
and then of course DJ Popdog has tickets in the
three pm hour to go see Jay Balvin. I had
been seeing a few female influencers post about this on Instagram.
I know it's a massive thing on TikTok. I'm still
learning what is a trad wife?

Speaker 5 (55:23):
Basically, it's a wife who who stays home and the
husband goes out and works. It's like your traditional wife
of like the fifties.

Speaker 3 (55:30):
What's it called trad wife? A trad wife?

Speaker 4 (55:33):
Why did they change the name from like, wasn't it
like a housewife?

Speaker 8 (55:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (55:37):
But I think this one is more traditionally based, where
like the woman really doesn't work, she traps a home.

Speaker 3 (55:43):
And it's it's a thing like it trends. Are you
a trad wife? Are you not?

Speaker 2 (55:50):
We found a video where a trad wife explains the
number one rule of a trad wife.

Speaker 3 (55:56):
Interesting interesting times have.

Speaker 2 (56:00):
Trouble, uh six one seven, nine three, one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. If you're a tradwife where you consider yourself?

Speaker 3 (56:10):
One, let's shot Dashly and the jam.

Speaker 1 (56:12):
In Morning Show with DJ fourn It's Satig Morning.

Speaker 10 (56:16):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.

Speaker 3 (56:21):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I don't know if you're anything
like me, but you've come across this trending thing called
a trad wife and you're like, what the hell is
a tradwife?

Speaker 2 (56:32):
Actually wrote it down on a posty because I was like,
what the hell is a trad wife?

Speaker 3 (56:37):
But I had seen so many people making the little
comment about it. Well, I'm a tradwife. I'm a tradwife.
If you don't know.

Speaker 2 (56:45):
What one is, I'm still learning myself, or maybe you
consider yourself one six, one seven nine three one one
nine four five to join in the convo, This saying
tradwife has been trending. It in its easiest, simplest terms,
it's a trade wife. This is a woman who considers
herself a trad wife, and this is what she claims is.

Speaker 3 (57:05):
The number one rule for all trad wives.

Speaker 19 (57:09):
Number one rule as a trad wife this is your
duty as a wife. A man's home is his castle,
so he should be treated as a king. He's working
a stressful job, maybe working long hours, just so he
can provide for you and the family, so he rightfully
deserves peace. At being said, it's every wife's duty to

(57:29):
appreciate her man and all his hard work. Show him
how much you truly appreciate him. Okay, he is your
king and you are his queen. That is your duty.

Speaker 3 (57:39):
If that's the duty, being a trad wife sucks. It's
very one sided.

Speaker 4 (57:44):
I don't like it. It doesn't feel like a true partnership. Now.

Speaker 2 (57:46):
Oh like, listen, I think there's something to it. We
all want a little peace at the house, but that's
gotta go both ways.

Speaker 4 (57:54):
Yeah, it sounds like the piece is just a one
sided thing. Now, going back to the fifties, maybe this work.

Speaker 1 (57:58):
Then.

Speaker 4 (57:58):
I think society has completely change and it's well bound.

Speaker 8 (58:01):
Cause back then was you know, the wife is staying
at home, she takes care of the crib.

Speaker 4 (58:05):
You handle the crib.

Speaker 8 (58:06):
I bring the money to supply whatever we need to do,
and I just come sit down, get my feet rugged,
get fed, we chill. I'll go to bed. Wake up
the next morning and do the same thing. You take
care of the household.

Speaker 2 (58:16):
I do not mean to offend when I say this,
because there are some women out here that that's the
goal for them to be a stay at home mom,
to be a stay at home.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
Wife, to trad wife.

Speaker 2 (58:27):
It up that if that brings you joy and that
brings you happiness, that's cool. Me Nope, that's not bringing
me joy. That's actually that's sucking the life about me.

Speaker 5 (58:40):
I will say, like in other cultures, trad wife is
still a thing Like Dominicans. I can tell you they're
still going by traditionals and those men can do whatever
they want there and like the wise my complaint, but
they're still like they're they're just adherent to all the men.

Speaker 4 (58:53):
It doesn't sound fun.

Speaker 3 (58:54):
Sounds spooky to me. And again, I do want my
husband to feel like a man of the house. There's
no there's no like. I have no qualms about that.
You are the man of the house, for sure.

Speaker 4 (59:06):
I want to let him.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
But I do think there needs to be a little
bit of a partnership here because her main thing is
like my husband needs he's the king, he deserves peace.

Speaker 6 (59:16):
Bitch.

Speaker 3 (59:16):
I deserve peace too. Okay.

Speaker 2 (59:19):
Uh, Mary is in Rhode Island, Mayor. It's tough the
trad wife thing.

Speaker 3 (59:23):
Oh it is god golf.

Speaker 13 (59:28):
I just can't believe this is a trend happening right
now in this moment.

Speaker 3 (59:33):
Oh, it's big. It's in this.

Speaker 17 (59:35):
Political climate that women are still right.

Speaker 13 (59:39):
If you think that way, great and that's what you
want to do. But I'm tired.

Speaker 3 (59:43):
I work full time.

Speaker 19 (59:44):
I'm a mom.

Speaker 2 (59:45):
I want my house to be a castle too, right right,
call me Cinderella because I definitely want to feel that
as well.

Speaker 13 (59:55):
There's a trad husband.

Speaker 14 (59:56):
Is that a tread listen?

Speaker 12 (59:58):
I can't take that.

Speaker 14 (01:00:00):
Not the same.

Speaker 3 (01:00:01):
You know what's messed up? Though? This is very messed up.

Speaker 2 (01:00:03):
If my husband was like I want to quit my
job and be like a trad husband and stay at
home dad, that my vagina would shrivel, which is messed up.

Speaker 3 (01:00:10):
I don't want that either. I don't want that either,
Horuly though.

Speaker 13 (01:00:13):
No, I want you out and contributing to here. We
could build the castle together.

Speaker 3 (01:00:17):
Yes, let this be our kingdom. Mary, thanks for the call.
Uh Staph is in Chelmsford, Hey staff, good morning.

Speaker 14 (01:00:24):
Good morning.

Speaker 3 (01:00:26):
Had you heard about the trad wife thing.

Speaker 14 (01:00:28):
I've never heard of it anymore, because you know what,
I don't hear about traditional men do tell go on.
So it's like okay, And I feel like a lot
of men are entitled now these days. They want women
to duel the whole nine while they're doing the bare minimum.
And I can understand if there's like these real hard
working men and they're paying all the bills and you're

(01:00:48):
staying home and you're taking care of the kids, But like, nowadays,
where do you even see that? Like I can understand
men who are probably like in their late thirties that
that probably still exists. But I'm twenty five years old.
I could, I could probably maybe I'm looking in the
wrong areas, but I do not see traditional men nowadays.
They just want to feel entitled. And I'm working just
as much as all as they are. I'm just as

(01:01:09):
tired as they are. Where's my treatment? Where where's me
being treated as a queen? You want to be a king?
Where's my queen treatment?

Speaker 12 (01:01:17):
Well?

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
Listen stuff I do. They're out there and thank you
for the call.

Speaker 2 (01:01:21):
I think a lot of women that listen to this
show sometimes give off like broken and hurt and you
guys have been through things, so have I.

Speaker 3 (01:01:30):
But they're out there, and I just refuse to to
not say that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:36):
There is another side to this where I do believe,
like I married a great man and you can find
that too. They're out there. It might be hard to find, yeah,
but there isn't a decide to this. They're not all bad.

Speaker 4 (01:01:48):
I also think like, if you have a bad experience
with one dude, you should like change your pattern for
the other one. I think some girls go back to
the same consistency that they've always known, expecting different and
that makes me sad.

Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
Because stuff's like guys won't meet out here doing the
whole nine when they're doing the bare minimum. I think
eventually she's just twenty five. Eventually she'll find somebody that
will meet here in the middle. But I do feel
like a lot of the women sometimes and we have
these topics, they call.

Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
In they're hurt the place right yep, Melissa is in
pvty hey byless. Hello, are you a trad wife? No?

Speaker 14 (01:02:23):
I am not.

Speaker 3 (01:02:26):
What do you how do you feel about it that, oh,
you hadn't got this is crazy because this is a
big thing, and I'm shocked that we haven't had somebody
call in being like I'm a trad wife and I
love it.

Speaker 17 (01:02:37):
Yeah, I wasn't going to give my two cents, but
I was listening. As soon as you put up that
lady saying her like the number one rule, I was like,
all right, I gotta call in now. But I just
wanted to say. I just wanted to say to go
off of like what you were saying too about how
there are good men out there and I recently just
found one, and like I'm twenty six now, so going

(01:02:58):
like after all of these just you know, relationships that
didn't work and whatnot, and dealing with all these horrible men,
there are good men out there, and there are men
that will treat you the way that you deserve to
be treated. You just have to be patient and wait
for it. But but yeah, I totally agree with the
sense of treating.

Speaker 13 (01:03:17):
Your man like a king.

Speaker 17 (01:03:18):
And you know, I totally agree with all that. But
if it's reciprocated, agreed, I like.

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
I like that narrative.

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
And you know, one the list what sounds to me
is you were messing with boys and you found yourself
a man, which is they're out there.

Speaker 4 (01:03:29):
That's nice exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
Yeah, listen again, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:03:34):
I'm not saying that to not treat your to your
significant other like they're a king or a queen. But
again I'm including the queen in there. Let me both
have to we gotta, we gotta find a middle ground.
I want a trad wife though, I want, I want
to hear I'm can we play another song since if
you can get six one seven nine three one four five.

Speaker 3 (01:03:53):
Don't be shy trad wives. I know you're out there.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
You're probably out running some errands for the house, and
that's cool. Six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. You consider yourself a traditional wife and you
are just running the kingdom? Call me hi, everybody, Family
Affair a perfect song. We're talking about being a trad wife.
It's a it's a trending thing on social media. I

(01:04:17):
had heard it referenced a few times.

Speaker 3 (01:04:19):
What the hell is this? So we were doing a
little bit more digging today.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
Essentially, in its in its simplest forms, it is a
traditional wife. It is a stay at home mom, a
stay at home wife who you know, does all of
the household things while big daddy goes out and makes
the money.

Speaker 16 (01:04:36):
If it.

Speaker 2 (01:04:36):
If it's for you, that's cool. I'm not throwing any shade,
but not for Big mo Mom, not for me, but
it is for Becky and Cambridge back. Good morning, babe, Hi,
how are you good? I said, listen, I need me.
I need to talk to a traditional wife because it's
it brings happiness to some. You, in fact, are a tradwave.
Now had you heard the term before?

Speaker 11 (01:04:57):
No, not till this morning.

Speaker 3 (01:04:59):
Okay, So talk to me. Stay at home mom, stay
at home wife, Like, what does your day to day
look like?

Speaker 11 (01:05:06):
Well, I recently started working part time in the morning
because my children have gotten older. Okay, but when when
they were younger, you know, I was a stay at
home mom. I took care of the house. I did
everything for my husband and my children. You went out,
he paid all the bills. He's a wonderful father, coach
the kids teams.

Speaker 6 (01:05:27):
So it brought me joy.

Speaker 11 (01:05:28):
It's not it's one of those things. He has to
be the right man. He has to be the man
that makes you feel good about your role in life.

Speaker 3 (01:05:36):
And what about you?

Speaker 2 (01:05:37):
Did you ever feel like lost in that? Did you
ever feel like you didn't have an identity in that?
Like you never had anything for yourself that you were
constantly just giving to everybody else or was that enough
for you?

Speaker 11 (01:05:50):
No, because I did have my own identity as well,
which was what he didn't. I was still my own person.
I spend had my friends.

Speaker 2 (01:05:59):
Didn't and you weren't like you got that you got
out of the house and did your own things as
well by yourself of course.

Speaker 1 (01:06:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:06:06):
And I always went to mom's groups. We have a
lot of local moms groups in Cambridge, okay, where you
can meet with other moms and it's wonderful.

Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
Wonderful Okay. Well, and like I said, beg for it
is it is for some people. It's it's like I'm
not the type that could do it. But talking to you, like,
it's not like as if you're calling me being like
I hated it and I regret staying at home all
of those years like you did.

Speaker 11 (01:06:29):
Oh no, I love it, Like it was great. Yeah,
I got to spend so much time with my children.
You didn't have to worry about daycare, not that. Yeah,
I didn't have to worry about any expenses.

Speaker 3 (01:06:41):
Yeah. I did you ever have a moment where you
were how many kids you got?

Speaker 1 (01:06:45):
I have four?

Speaker 3 (01:06:46):
Did you Jesus.

Speaker 2 (01:06:47):
Did you ever have a moment where everybody was crying
and going crazy and you just were like, get me
the hell out of here. Because I have those daily
and I only have two, So I didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:06:56):
I just didn't know.

Speaker 11 (01:06:57):
I mean, yeah, it's usually by like kind of the
end of the day when he's coming home, and then
he comes home and you know, he takes it on.

Speaker 3 (01:07:06):
Did he he helped out?

Speaker 18 (01:07:07):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (01:07:07):
He did?

Speaker 3 (01:07:08):
Okay, So would you do the dinners and stuff too,
or would he help cook?

Speaker 16 (01:07:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:07:11):
You would.

Speaker 11 (01:07:12):
I usually did that because he'd be out playing with
the kids and like trying to give me a personal break,
and I love cooking, so it was like my time, all.

Speaker 3 (01:07:20):
Right, Becky, Well thank you for that.

Speaker 2 (01:07:22):
I mean, listen the way Becky's describing it, it still
doesn't sound something for me.

Speaker 8 (01:07:26):
But she she probably the closest you're going to get
to them of how it's supposed to be.

Speaker 4 (01:07:31):
Yes, I don't like it.

Speaker 5 (01:07:33):
I don't think I could be the person who wants
to be like that. I'm so used to that being
with my wife who's into her into like just her
work and everything like that. To have a traditional wife
like that, but that's all you know, that's all I know.

Speaker 8 (01:07:46):
Also on the flip, these women who want to just
stay home because they're lazy and they don't want to
do no by the.

Speaker 3 (01:07:50):
Way, and I've seen there's people create content around that.

Speaker 4 (01:07:52):
Yes, like I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:07:54):
There's a girl that I follow that she's married, she's
a trophy wife. She doesn't have a job, she has
they don't even have kids. She's like, this is what
I do all day while my husband works and she goes.

Speaker 8 (01:08:03):
And so it's the opposite side because yes, some guys
want the traditional wife, but they kind of using it
to you know, kind of just have somebody to watch
the kids. They don't talk to you, they don't show
you no love. This guy, the last example sounded like
the perfect gentleman, right yeah. And then on the other
side there the wives who were just like, bro, I
don't want to work, just go make money, give me
a card, I can go shopping, do whatever I want,

(01:08:25):
and just chill. Might even have a nanny if they
have kids, right, and she's just chilling.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
I think we can all wrap our head around stay
at home mom because again, like that that daycare, all
those things they cost.

Speaker 3 (01:08:38):
So if you're somebody who has that in you that
you can do it?

Speaker 2 (01:08:42):
Like again, I love my kids more than anything on
this planet, but I need this time outside of it,
like the house, because you can only play like zombie
so many times before.

Speaker 3 (01:08:52):
You do go crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
But stay at home wife with nothing like that's a
special breed because what are you doing?

Speaker 4 (01:09:01):
It just sounds a ring and just looking out the
window when kids are done and folding.

Speaker 3 (01:09:06):
And that's like, oh, I can't say it like that. Well, hey,
that's at all.

Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
How many times can you go to home Goods and
get something different every day?

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
Though?

Speaker 4 (01:09:19):
If it's every Wednesday? I cool?

Speaker 12 (01:09:22):
How do you know that?

Speaker 3 (01:09:24):
Wow, that's what drops the new goods every Wednesday? Foreign
is lying, He's a little trophy White.

Speaker 1 (01:09:31):
Dam in ninety four five Traffic and the jam In
Morning Show with d J. Foreign It's sat Morning, Bustin's.

Speaker 10 (01:09:39):
Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four five.

Speaker 3 (01:09:45):
I always love giving you guys a little peaksy as
to what happens in the studios when we're playing music.

Speaker 2 (01:09:55):
And you know, people always say, oh, I wonder what
you guys talk about. I'm gonna tell you you're not
gonna like it. You're not gonna like it. This man
is trying to debate me on if how do we
say this properly what Robert crafted, if that's cheating or not?

Speaker 5 (01:10:13):
Okay, here's my point technically, and technically yes, it is cheating,
but I also don't think the act should be illegal.
And I guess that was my big point, Like, if
a man wants to go in there and get the
robber Craft Special, he should be allowed to legally. Now
the other part, what you're dealing with your wife and
all that stuff, that's a different story.

Speaker 4 (01:10:34):
I'm yeah, the Rkade Special is cheating.

Speaker 3 (01:10:39):
You're cheating. I'm sorry, Like, there's no way around that.

Speaker 5 (01:10:42):
I also want to say this and like, I don't
really know if it's a divorcible offense.

Speaker 4 (01:10:48):
It's not. It might let me walk you back. If
there's an agreement to it, then cool, we're good.

Speaker 8 (01:10:58):
It's something that you tore your Like if you're getting
an Arcade Special everyday.

Speaker 3 (01:11:04):
Night, you're getting the ark every Friday.

Speaker 4 (01:11:07):
Sorry, let me clarify.

Speaker 2 (01:11:10):
Friday, you're going to quote a work lunch and you're
getting the RC Special.

Speaker 4 (01:11:14):
You're cheating, clear about it.

Speaker 5 (01:11:16):
Wait, it's cheating, yes, But I guess my point is
It's like I probably have a better chance of convincing
her not to divorce me if I got that versus
if I actually did something.

Speaker 4 (01:11:25):
You agree, That's what I say.

Speaker 2 (01:11:27):
Because one of them is just like a transaction, there's nothing.
Now you have a whole affair where there's emotions and whatever,
you know, the person's name. Okay, I can kind of
see what you're saying. But still regardless, like that's a
divorceable effect.

Speaker 8 (01:11:39):
Yeah, specially you could have your own you know, you
could have your own you know, person that you go
see and you ask for them directly. Yes, which problem
makes a little emotion, you know, emotional connection.

Speaker 2 (01:11:50):
Yeah, but you're going to me about the ark Special,
Like you could get that right now up the street, which.

Speaker 5 (01:11:55):
Is like see, but my thing is like I would
be so fearful of like if I get arrested then
like what do you say? How do you how does
one bring that up?

Speaker 4 (01:12:04):
You can't? You can't, So you're gonna just let them
like that wandering?

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
I know so many people are in the car, like
what is the rcase specials? If you google our case
special not.

Speaker 8 (01:12:12):
Arkay, by the way, robber Craft Robbert Craft Special. What
do you got arrested for out in Florida. He was,
you know, I mean, and then you know.

Speaker 5 (01:12:20):
They ended it very positively, happily the opposite sad.

Speaker 2 (01:12:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:12:26):
Now, so then he's going to a strip club without
your wife or your significant other knowing also cheating, but.

Speaker 3 (01:12:31):
Don't touch because they don't touch.

Speaker 4 (01:12:33):
But someplaces place as they do.

Speaker 3 (01:12:34):
I know.

Speaker 2 (01:12:35):
But if you're going just to like you're just going
to the strip club, there's dancing, you're not touching.

Speaker 8 (01:12:39):
You're going to take advantage of full capacity of the
strip club. If you've got some extra you know, the
refund just hit and they want to take you into
a private room, you might throw a couple of extra dollars.

Speaker 3 (01:12:49):
If there's not any touching, then I think that's completely different.

Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
So what's considered touching? Okay, so touching is just understand,
But there's.

Speaker 8 (01:12:58):
No body part is on me at the strip club.
At that point, that's when it becomes cheating.

Speaker 3 (01:13:03):
Yes, like what are you doing?

Speaker 5 (01:13:05):
So getting a lap dance is cheating according to her, No,
you're touching. I know technically yes, but that's my point.
So if the fireman goes and gets gets a lappie,
how he comes home fine, that's.

Speaker 4 (01:13:18):
How could you cheat? Yeah, so that's cheating to you.

Speaker 2 (01:13:20):
Yeah, I mean, man, you guys, but we're flirting here,
like we're getting dangerous.

Speaker 3 (01:13:27):
We're getting dangerous.

Speaker 4 (01:13:28):
I don't love Providence and got the five man special.

Speaker 3 (01:13:32):
I don't. I don't like it at all.

Speaker 4 (01:13:33):
I'm mad.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
But I'm also like, you took advantage of me because
go to the strip club, like have a good time,
you know what I mean. But you're taking advantage of
me now now you're there's levels to this. I'm not
mad that you're at the strip club. I'm cool, but
now you're paying for private dances and you're you're getting.

Speaker 4 (01:13:48):
Laped in difference. What's the difference what.

Speaker 3 (01:13:51):
One person is dancing at you and the other one
is dancing with you?

Speaker 4 (01:13:54):
Technically yes, is that divorceble Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:13:56):
Yeah, I don't know if I think that's a lap dance?
Is not divorceable?

Speaker 4 (01:14:01):
But again to some people, yes, to some people, the
robber crafting is not like it's really.

Speaker 2 (01:14:06):
It's really I don't think we could get one person
to call in and be like I call my husband
getting our our case specials and I didn't divorce.

Speaker 8 (01:14:12):
I guarantee you would bro got the guy sitting in
front of you almost got to let go because you
know it was going to certain places to get different
credit cards, to do certain things, to watch different things,
and my heart to stop.

Speaker 3 (01:14:24):
I was like guy and then and then all of
a sudden it was some things that was happening.

Speaker 4 (01:14:29):
To the crab. I'm just saying that was that was virtual,
That was a virtual touch. That was I'm going through
thirty years of my life.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
What did I do?

Speaker 4 (01:14:39):
Did you tell the wait? The second one.

Speaker 3 (01:14:44):
I said, I'm not thinking got you?

Speaker 8 (01:14:47):
So I would feel that the person who had an
issue with him doing that virtually would happen.

Speaker 4 (01:14:51):
Even bigger issue. Yeah, walked into a break and mortar
and did it for real?

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
Yeah, no, for real And for Joanne that would be
a double whim because it would be at a mail
strip up.

Speaker 4 (01:15:01):
Like talking about like my life, my life is over.

Speaker 3 (01:15:04):
But it's a dual part.

Speaker 1 (01:15:06):
I mean for the Love Up Dashi and the Jamie
Morning Show with DJ Forn It's sat Morning Bustin's.

Speaker 10 (01:15:14):
Number one for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.

Speaker 3 (01:15:19):
Well, Well, well that is going to do it for us, everybody.
We're gonna get out of here. But Santy has some
shout outs. He's gonna butcher for you.

Speaker 4 (01:15:26):
Well we do here we go live, Gilman, Bath Foods
and Kelly Alexandra.

Speaker 3 (01:15:32):
Not bad, not bad today, DJ Forn.

Speaker 8 (01:15:34):
You know the vibs, Ashley to Ease and Am make
sure you go check out the podcast. A lot of
b Day love today, Happy Birthday. Tell you body otherwise.
I'm back later on tonight, nine o'clock Late Night Drip.
Find me at DJ the number four e G all right.

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
And if I missed anything at Ashley Feldman to Ease
on the Ashley we will talk to you tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (01:15:51):
And you know what, I've read the article multiple times.
I've done what I can. Friday is the best.

Speaker 4 (01:15:56):
Day of the week. Done feels so good.

Speaker 3 (01:15:59):
It's gonna I feel I'm not going to be as
tired driving in tomorrow. You know why, because it's almost
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