Getting Real with Bossy: For Women Who Own Business

Getting Real with Bossy: For Women Who Own Business

The Real Raw and Honest podcast about small business ownership hosted by Kelly Bush + Kelly Metras, co-owners of BOSSY ROC, a support group for business owners. With our experience, nine businesses in over 25 years, we continue to bear it all and share what we wish we had known. We move past the must-be-nices and start getting real. Come along as we interview other business owners and get the true story. New episodes every 2nd and 4th Monday of the month. www.BossyRoc.com

Episodes

September 22, 2025 52 mins

What’s your exit plan? In this episode, Dr. Ruth Mantrack—dentist turned business strategist—gets real about building a sellable business, boosting value, and knowing when (and how) to walk away. Whether you’re years from selling or just starting out, these insights will change the way you think about your business.

What’s your game plan for when it’s time to step away from your business? Most entrepreneurs don’t think about their e...

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Episode Highlights with Crystal Wallace (CMW Services)

In this episode, we dive into the world of business funding with our amazing guest, Crystal Wallace of CMW Services. Crystal keeps it real about all the different ways you can fund your business—grants, loans, equity, even self-funding—and breaks down how to think strategically instead of making decisions out of fear.

You’ll hear us chat about:

  • The different types of funding ...
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What happens when life throws you a curveball—like an unexpected family crisis—right in the middle of running your business? In this episode, we’re digging into that exact challenge with Julie Loughlin Haers, co-founder of Breathe Capital Planning.

Julie brings not only her professional expertise but also her personal experiences navigating the tricky space where business finances, personal responsibilities, and family emergencies c...

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Lets rewrite YOUR money story with Scarlett Stanhope, The Biz Hippie.

Ever feel like no matter how much money you make, it never feels like enough? Or maybe you’ve been chasing financial success, thinking it’ll fix everything—but deep down, you still feel stuck? You are not alone.

In this episode, we sit down with Scarlet Stanhope—aka The Biz Hippie— whose business is to coach entreprenuers and creatives through their money trauma by...

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This episode delves into the critical, and often overlooked, significance of understanding and managing one's finances as a business owner. We explore fears surrounding money, particularly among female entrepreneurs, and emphasize the necessity of breaking the taboos associated with financial literacy.

Throughout our discussion, we highlight the importance of actively engaging with financial statements and maintaining clear oversig...

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In this episode of Getting Real with Bossy, we dive into financial empowerment, particularly focusing on the pivotal role women play in financial decision-making. Abbe F. Large, managing director at Lenox Advisors, and a prominent advocate for women's financial literacy, joins us to share her insights from her extensive experience in the financial services sector. She elucidates the significance of inclusive financial planning, emp...

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    Let’s talk money—because it’s time we all got a little more comfortable doing just that.

    In this empowering episode of Getting Real with Bossy, your hosts Kelly B and Kelly M sit down with the amazing Lauri Kibbe—entrepreneur, investor, and fierce advocate for women’s financial empowerment. Lori is the managing partner of Selene Brighthouse, a real estate investment fund focused on revitalizing community retail centers with a purpos...

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    This podcast episode revolves around the profound concept of self-acceptance as articulated by Barbara Burgess, author of the book "Enough." In our conversation, we delve into the pervasive feelings of inadequacy that many individuals experience, addressing how these sentiments can manifest in our daily lives. Through Barbara's insights, we explore the importance of recognizing one's intrinsic worth, irrespective of societal pressu...

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    The focal point of this podcast episode revolves around the multifaceted and often contentious realm of artificial intelligence (AI) within the contemporary business landscape. We, (hosts Kelly and Kelly), delve into the myriad ways AI can be utilized by small business owners to enhance operational efficiency, marketing strategies, and overall productivity.

    While we acknowledge the significant ecological concerns associated with AI...

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    Today, we delve into the inspiring journey of Alayna Alderman (@amh523), a luminary in Rochester's music and business landscape, who has indelibly altered the fabric of record stores both locally and nationally. With over four decades of experience, she has transformed the Record Archive into a cultural cornerstone, enriching the community with a vibrant space for music and camaraderie. In this episode, we explore Alayna's innovati...

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    The focal point of our discourse today is the intricate challenge of managing others while grappling with our own personal struggles as business owners. We candidly explore the reality that leadership does not equate to invincibility; in fact, many of us find ourselves navigating turbulent waters, often barely maintaining our own stability. It is imperative to recognize and articulate our vulnerabilities, as doing so fosters an env...

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    The salient point of this podcast episode revolves around the significance of human design as a transformative tool for entrepreneurs. We engage in a profound conversation with Mel McSherry, an international business and life guide, who elucidates how human design can assist individuals in understanding their unique energy types and decision-making strategies. This framework enables entrepreneurs to navigate their journeys with gre...

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    This podcast episode delves into the imperative concept of assuming the role of the CEO of one's own life. We engage in a thoughtful discussion about the necessity of taking control amidst the tumultuous external circumstances that can often feel overwhelming. During our conversation, we reflect on the importance of delegating tasks that do not align with our highest priorities, thereby allowing ourselves to focus on activities tha...

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    This episode covers the remarkable journey of Kathy Turiano, the Business Development and Marketing Director of Joe Bean Coffee, who has adeptly navigated the complexities of the coffee industry for over two decades. Kathy articulates her commitment to quality and sustainability, emphasizing the significance of ethical sourcing practices and the cultivation of meaningful connections with coffee producers. Her narrative encapsulates...

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    Ep. 54 Kelly Metras and Kelly Bush explore the inner narratives and doubts that small business owners face. They discuss the pressure of maintaining a positive facade, the loneliness of entrepreneurship, and the importance of acknowledging mental health struggles. The conversation covers overcoming impostor syndrome, managing customer reviews, and recognizing that not every venture can succeed. They emphasize the significa...

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    Ep. 53 What if the lens you see yourself through could transform the way the world sees you?

    This Black History Month, we’re celebrating artistry and storytelling with photographer Jackie McGriff, who turned her personal journey of self-love into a mission to uplift others.

    From capturing the soul of Rochester to redefining representation in media, Jackie shares how photography became her tool for healing, empowerment, and...

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    Ep. 52 How will Trump policies impact small businesses? On Inauguration Day Kelly Metras and Kelly Bush dive into the evolving political and economic landscape as of January 20, 2025. With a dash of humor and a glass of tequila in hand, they analyze how new policies might influence small businesses across the United States. The duo weighs in on tariffs, deportation, and other proposed changes, drawing from their rich busin...

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    Are you having a Dry January? Perhaps it's time to dry a new vice. In this episode of Getting Real with Bossy we spark up a conversation with Shelby Poole, founder of Betty Bloom, a mobile social club focused on empowering women to embrace the marijuana plant in lieu of alcohol. Shelby shares her journey from working in the restaurant industry to building a business that promotes education, destigmatization, and fun cannab...

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    January 6, 2025 31 mins

    Ep. 51 Hey Bossys! We’re kicking off 2025 with a vulnerable and unfiltered recap of the rollercoaster that was 2024. From the financial chaos of an election year to the pressures of the holiday season, we’re laying it all out—no sugarcoating, just the real, messy truth of being small business owners.

    Kelly Bush shares how the unpredictable economy hit her businesses, Marshall Street and The Union Tavern, while Kelly Metras ...

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    Ep. 50 Is it possible to run a successful bar without serving alcohol? Meg Hartman of Alt Bar thinks so, and she’s changing the game in Rochester, NY. Find out how Meg's innovative non-alcoholic bottle shop and bar is creating a welcoming space for everyone.

    Whether you’re a business owner, an advocate for inclusivity, or simply curious about the growing non-alcoholic space, this episode is packed with insights and inspirat...

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