100 | What If Self-Doubt Is Proof You’re Winning?

Hi beautiful! ♥️

Ever catch yourself looking at confident women and think, “They must never feel doubt—or I’ll never be that confident”? Newsflash: doubt isn’t the enemy of confidence—it’s the evidence you’re growing, stretching, and doing the hard things. In today’s episode, we’re busting the biggest myth about confidence: that it means “never doubting.”

I’ll pull back the curtain on why your inner critic fires up whenever you leave your comfort zone, teach you how to see self-doubt as undeniable proof of progress, and walk you through three powerful reframes for doubt—so you can build your confidence brick by brick.

So grab your journal and let’s go! See you on the inside,

xo, Dani

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Episode Transcript

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I am so stoked for today's episode because I know this topic is stumping a lot of women right now.
Um, I mean, I get it.
As women, we can be clouded and honestly haunted by overwhelming self doubt and comparison, and we get into a head space where.

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When there's an opportunity present or we're invited into, larger rooms, we start to feel this imposter syndrome and we start to get in our head and we doubt ourselves.
We doubt our if we're enough, and that's not the issue though, and this is what I'm really excited to talk about today.
Having the doubt present isn't the issue.

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The issue is thinking that the doubt being present is an issue.
.581108666Yeah, because we have been taught that to have confidence, it looks a certain way, it should feel a certain way, and we look at people that we admire on stage, or influencers or just really confident women that can walk in a room. 10 00:01:06,816.63685428 --> 00:01:16,866.63685428 We, we believe that they have total confidence and they don't struggle with self-doubt, and that is just not the freaking case. 11 00:01:16,926.63685428 --> 00:01:17,616.63685428 And so. 12 00:01:18,1.63685428 --> 00:01:32,191.63685428 I'm excited to really dissect and give you three truths when it comes to doubt and how to rewire your mind and, and the way that you're thinking about doubt being present in your life. 13 00:01:32,461.63685428 --> 00:01:34,831.63685428 So I hope you're as excited as I am. 14 00:01:34,831.63685428 --> 00:01:36,1.63685428 Grab your journal. 15 00:01:36,31.63685428 --> 00:01:36,931.63685428 Let's dive in. 16 00:01:37,200.054887067 --> 00:01:38,400.054887067 Hey, beautiful. 17 00:01:38,520.054887067 --> 00:01:42,300.05488707 Welcome to the Heal From Toxic Relationships podcast. 18 00:01:42,360.05488707 --> 00:02:06,660.05488707 Are you ready to break free from toxic relationship patterns and fully embrace a life filled with confidence, joy, and purpose? Do you find yourself questioning yourself worth and wondering what God's plan for your life is? Or maybe you deeply fear being alone and struggle with the lack of boundaries? Due to your people pleasing tendencies, well sis, you're not alone. 19 00:02:06,690.05488707 --> 00:02:07,830.05488707 I've been there too. 20 00:02:07,950.05488707 --> 00:02:15,180.05488707 Hey, I'm Danny, a Christian life coach wife, recovering people pleaser, and a total girl's girl. 21 00:02:15,270.05488707 --> 00:02:31,980.05488707 For 10 years I was stuck in a cycle of toxic, non-committed relationships and searching for my worth in men, my accomplishments, and the praise of other people until I found out how to heal my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center. 22 00:02:32,140.05488707 --> 00:02:47,260.05488707 In this podcast, you will find faith-based healing tools, confidence building tips, and healthy relationship skills so that you become a God-fearing, confident woman who attracts your husband while walking in your purpose with God. 23 00:02:47,500.05488707 --> 00:02:50,470.05488707 Grab your favorite mocktail and pop in the AirPods. 24 00:02:50,560.05488707 --> 00:02:54,700.05488707 It's time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together. 25 00:02:54,820.05488707 --> 00:02:56,590.05488707 One step at a time. 26 00:02:56,895.0394362 --> 00:03:03,345.0394362 And before we get a little too cozy, I did wanna invite you into our free community, the Healing Circle. 27 00:03:03,555.0394362 --> 00:03:12,555.0394362 This is where you're able to get extra support, get your questions answered, that maybe, you know, I, I missed something that. 28 00:03:13,70.0394362 --> 00:03:16,130.0394362 Has been coming up for you that you really wanna dig into. 29 00:03:16,400.0394362 --> 00:03:24,80.0394362 This is a space where you can ask me questions, and I can give you little mini coaching moments right here in the free community. 30 00:03:24,350.0394362 --> 00:03:27,710.0394362 You can join at wp.com/the 31 00:03:27,710.0394362 --> 00:03:28,580.0394362 healing circle. 32 00:03:28,790.0394362 --> 00:03:31,940.0394362 That's wp wop.com, 33 00:03:32,690.0394362 --> 00:03:33,590.0394362 the healing circle. 34 00:03:33,860.0394362 --> 00:03:44,570.0394362 My heart behind this community is for every single woman to feel heard, seen, and encouraged as we walk this healing and growth journey together. 35 00:03:44,883.02646251 --> 00:03:48,503.02646251 So I, I really wanna talk about where I've been for the last couple weeks. 36 00:03:48,533.02646251 --> 00:03:48,893.02646251 Okay. 37 00:03:49,73.02646251 --> 00:03:54,563.02646251 So I had just traveled to Miami for my first big speaking engagement. 38 00:03:54,563.02646251 --> 00:03:54,833.02646251 Okay. 39 00:03:54,833.02646251 --> 00:04:04,745.01787122 This is my first time on a stage in a room of over a hundred women sitting there ready to learn about how they can crush it in a business and. 40 00:04:05,386.35409011 --> 00:04:09,406.35409011 Build this confidence for them to build their dream life. 41 00:04:09,706.35409011 --> 00:04:19,126.35409011 They came into the room wanting to leave a different version of themselves, and I had the honor of being the first keynote speaker. 42 00:04:19,362.6440012 --> 00:04:23,352.6440012 And when I tell you, and this is perfect 'cause we're talking about doubt. 43 00:04:23,622.6440012 --> 00:04:26,202.6440012 When I tell you I had so many different emotions. 44 00:04:26,202.6440012 --> 00:04:32,82.6440012 When I first got invited to be a speaker, I paused and I was like. 45 00:04:32,592.6440012 --> 00:04:32,922.6440012 Okay. 46 00:04:32,922.6440012 --> 00:04:37,962.6440012 I literally had to talk to myself because at the beginning of this year, I wrote down one. 47 00:04:37,962.6440012 --> 00:04:44,86.06206389 The skill that I wanted to develop this year was my speaking skill, and two, on my vision board. 48 00:04:44,86.06206389 --> 00:04:49,366.06206389 I literally have a woman with the mic on stage on my vision board. 49 00:04:49,516.06206389 --> 00:04:56,296.06206389 And so this is gonna go into one of my points today, but knowing that. 50 00:04:56,671.06206389 --> 00:04:57,511.06206389 Yes, I was. 51 00:04:57,541.06206389 --> 00:05:04,801.06206389 I was, I was super afraid and I was super scared, and I had thoughts of, oh my gosh, like there's somebody that's so much better for this role than I am. 52 00:05:04,981.06206389 --> 00:05:06,871.06206389 I know that they can find a better speaker. 53 00:05:07,81.06206389 --> 00:05:13,501.06206389 Am I gonna even know what I'm talking about? Like so much, so many fearful and doubtful thoughts came in. 54 00:05:13,736.48206233 --> 00:05:21,510.42527995 But what I had to go back to is I had to go back to my vision board and the goals and that I had written down my intentions for this year. 55 00:05:21,780.42527995 --> 00:05:35,640.42527995 And there, if I were to say no to this because of a fear-based decision, because I was doubting, I would've said no to this future version of myself that I aspire to be. 56 00:05:36,135.42527995 --> 00:05:40,305.42527995 That I wanna be, that I know God is, is leading me to be. 57 00:05:40,305.42527995 --> 00:05:47,385.42527995 And he's presenting opportunities currently for me to walk into to become that version of myself. 58 00:05:47,835.42527995 --> 00:05:55,809.22921503 And so I guess this can just lead me to my first point is doubt is not going to never be present. 59 00:05:56,184.22921503 --> 00:05:56,604.22921503 Okay. 60 00:05:56,664.22921503 --> 00:06:00,924.22921503 Whenever I got invited to to do this, it was still present right before stage. 61 00:06:00,954.22921503 --> 00:06:06,594.22921503 It was very present and up until even after the stage, I was doubting. 62 00:06:06,594.22921503 --> 00:06:07,14.22921503 I was like, okay. 63 00:06:07,14.22921503 --> 00:06:12,929.22921503 Was that even good? Like did my points hit? Did I make sense? And something that comforted me. 64 00:06:12,929.22921503 --> 00:06:14,149.83606716 I learned that. 65 00:06:14,326.24755345 --> 00:06:15,676.24755345 Most speakers. 66 00:06:15,676.24755345 --> 00:06:26,56.24755345 This I was at in a, a convention, um, this past February, and they were talking about speakers on stage, some of the greatest speakers in the personal development and growth space. 67 00:06:26,296.24755345 --> 00:06:39,794.13289552 They said every single speaker, once they hopped off the stage would look at, um, one of the hosts and ask them was that, was that good? Did I do a good job? Like the best speakers? And so. 68 00:06:40,154.13289552 --> 00:06:49,754.13289552 Yeah, understanding that even the best and the greatest and the people that we look up to, they have doubtful thoughts as well. 69 00:06:49,964.13289552 --> 00:06:55,454.13289552 They just have learned how to build something bigger than the doubt. 70 00:06:56,84.13289552 --> 00:07:05,24.13289552 Okay? And so this first point that I want you to write down about doubt is you want to reframe doubt to be data. 71 00:07:05,689.65517917 --> 00:07:15,21.27993075 It's not something that you have to completely gut out of you to then be confident you have to. 72 00:07:15,21.27993075 --> 00:07:33,467.80151446 What do I mean by reframing it as data Is first off, if you are approaching or you're facing something that is making you doubt yourself, this is just a signal that you are treading new ground, that you are walking into new territory, that you are getting out of your comfort zone. 73 00:07:33,901.02188781 --> 00:07:37,51.02188781 And that's the place where real growth happens. 74 00:07:37,411.02188781 --> 00:07:53,461.02188781 Do you think that somebody who does the same things every single day, who goes into their nine to five, who comes home and complains and they don't have anything different going on in their life, they're not trying to, to cultivate the gifts that God placed in them. 75 00:07:53,731.02188781 --> 00:08:07,876.02188781 Do you think that they are going to struggle with doubt at this thing that they've spent the last 10 years doing? But they dream of doing something different, but they don't have the courage or the drive, or the vision or the belief to do it. 76 00:08:08,308.64250519 --> 00:08:19,348.64250519 So the fact that you're feeling this doubt is a signal that you are walking a path that most people are not walking, that you're, you're welcoming uncertainty. 77 00:08:19,378.64250519 --> 00:08:27,628.64250519 You're welcoming this new, new opportunities into your life that is causing you to feel uncomfortable and experience a little doubt. 78 00:08:28,270.62858212 --> 00:08:32,530.62858212 It's completely normal and common for you to feel the doubt. 79 00:08:32,710.62858212 --> 00:08:44,139.36136931 The question, and the important thing in this is how are you gonna respond to it? What if I responded to the speaking engagement to say, you know what, there's no way, like, uh, nah. 80 00:08:44,319.36136931 --> 00:08:45,879.36136931 Maybe next year I'll try again. 81 00:08:45,879.36136931 --> 00:08:48,939.36136931 Next year, whenever I'm feeling a little bit more confident. 82 00:08:50,469.36136931 --> 00:08:54,219.36136931 Whereas next year rolls around, I would feel the same exact way. 83 00:08:54,339.36136931 --> 00:09:01,119.36136931 What is going to build the confidence is feeling the doubt and doing the thing anyway, despite the doubt. 84 00:09:01,433.98285385 --> 00:09:03,879.70039066 so the next time that you feel like, oh, snap. 85 00:09:03,879.70039066 --> 00:09:10,629.70039066 Like, no, I can't do that, or there's somebody better for that than me, say to yourself instead. 86 00:09:10,839.70039066 --> 00:09:11,319.70039066 Okay. 87 00:09:11,949.70039066 --> 00:09:18,849.70039066 I acknowledge that I'm feeling this doubt, and this is a good thing because this means that I'm about to hit my next level. 88 00:09:19,269.70039066 --> 00:09:26,439.70039066 This means that I'm about to step outside of my comfort little circle, and I'm about to grow in this area. 89 00:09:26,814.8674967 --> 00:09:29,694.8674967 And many times, this is just a little extra cherry on top. 90 00:09:29,694.8674967 --> 00:09:42,894.8674967 Many times we put so much pressure on ourselves to perform or to be perfect or to do something new in a certain way that we are afraid of failing or messing up or looking dumb. 91 00:09:43,405.26754157 --> 00:10:06,333.0189392 When we need to start thinking about new things that we are doing, not as this, this, this moment to perform or needing to perform or to be perfect, but view it as practice for your next door of opportunity for your next speaking engagement, for your next business idea, for your next, insert the blank. 92 00:10:06,948.76557054 --> 00:10:15,912.62562721 Okay, now, the second truth about doubt is, I mentioned this earlier in the show, but you wanna build something bigger than your doubt. 93 00:10:16,152.62562721 --> 00:10:35,762.48632104 The only way that I did not say no to the speaking engagement is because guess what? I had a vision that made the doubt not go away, but made it smaller than the vision that I had in my heart that I written out at the beginning of the year. 94 00:10:35,912.48632104 --> 00:10:47,162.48632104 So then when the door of opportunity came, I was able to walk through that door and not shut it and turn it, turn back around and choose my comfort zone. 95 00:10:47,162.48632104 --> 00:10:48,692.48632104 Choose the old Danielle. 96 00:10:49,76.27575201 --> 00:10:54,746.27575201 The Danielle that was deathly afraid of public speaking that I net, she never thought she would ever be on stages, ever. 97 00:10:55,472.14953753 --> 00:10:57,632.14953753 But you have to build something bigger than your doubt. 98 00:10:57,632.14953753 --> 00:11:00,152.14953753 And what do I mean something bigger? A vision. 99 00:11:00,272.14953753 --> 00:11:07,0.82469403 Your why? The confidence booms when your vision outweighs your fears. 100 00:11:07,346.81095953 --> 00:11:12,986.81095953 So the goal again, is not to live without experiencing doubt. 101 00:11:13,196.81095953 --> 00:11:16,766.81095953 It's to build something bigger than the doubt. 102 00:11:16,916.81095953 --> 00:11:20,450.60650287 So when the doubt flares up, it becomes present. 103 00:11:20,870.60650287 --> 00:11:30,688.29107163 You already have a clear picture of what things you need to say yes to that are gonna pull you for, that are gonna elevate you and what things to say no to. 104 00:11:30,980.13071585 --> 00:11:37,610.13071585 And the reason why this is powerful is because when you have a clear vision, when you have a goal that is so compelling. 105 00:11:37,820.13071585 --> 00:11:44,450.13071585 It demands you to focus on what is possible, not on what might can go wrong. 106 00:11:45,43.94691834 --> 00:11:52,753.94691834 So instead of, I had, I had to, once I said yes to this thing, I had to start being like, alright, let me prepare, let me prepare for it. 107 00:11:52,753.94691834 --> 00:12:02,503.94691834 Because the, I, I, I could have, I could have chosen to start speaking to myself negatively to say, oh my gosh, why did I just say yes to that? Like, there's no way. 108 00:12:02,533.94691834 --> 00:12:06,763.94691834 And the doubt would've gotten louder and louder and louder and louder. 109 00:12:07,49.84393351 --> 00:12:08,939.84393351 And I probably would've just been like, okay. 110 00:12:08,939.84393351 --> 00:12:09,689.84393351 Yeah, no, like. 111 00:12:09,908.63319249 --> 00:12:22,983.15925083 Drop out the last second, but instead, no, I decided not to feed the doubt voice, but instead I decided to feed the realm of possibilities. 112 00:12:23,154.20918329 --> 00:12:31,180.38610543 That that is the thing that I decided to meditate on, to think about, to work towards, not on what might go wrong. 113 00:12:31,505.57032918 --> 00:12:40,445.57032918 So how you wanna do this, right? Putting this into practice is before you're faced with a door of opportunity, you're faced with something. 114 00:12:40,539.11048508 --> 00:12:47,55.81300022 That causes you to be bigger than who you currently are right now, right? This is the gap that God fills. 115 00:12:48,127.60353206 --> 00:12:51,7.60353206 What I want you to do is I want you to get very clear on your why. 116 00:12:51,297.7925975 --> 00:13:07,735.61863179 Why do you do what you do? Why are you in the business that you're in? Why are, why do you do the things that you do on a daily basis? Why do you, if you're on a weight loss journey, why do you keep going to the gym? Why do you stick to your nutrition plan? Whatever the thing, the why is for you. 117 00:13:08,37.73765574 --> 00:13:09,357.73765574 Write down your why. 118 00:13:09,751.12570665 --> 00:13:21,1.12570665 Get very clear on your why and your vision, and you wanna either read it or create a vision board, right? I've got my, my vision, it was right next to me whenever I got asked. 119 00:13:21,181.12570665 --> 00:13:26,4.5241072 So I see What I really wanted for myself this year, it was right there for me. 120 00:13:26,4.5241072 --> 00:13:26,784.5241072 I couldn't doubt it. 121 00:13:26,784.5241072 --> 00:13:38,763.63217504 So the fact that you're faced with your vision, it's like, you know what, okay, if I say no to this, I know this is, me allowing fear to respond in this moment. 122 00:13:39,433.8578901 --> 00:14:06,201.00956088 What do you want? In your life, what type of impact do you wanna have? Who do you wanna serve? What type of meaning do you want your life to have, and why is it important for you to fulfill those shoes and then put it in a place, whether it's written down on paper or in visual form, so that way you can reference it and see it whenever doubt does start to creep in so you can visually remember your why. 123 00:14:06,665.07388891 --> 00:14:16,655.07388891 And the third and final truth that I have for you today about self-doubt and how to make it smaller is you need to start taking action. 124 00:14:17,22.02909997 --> 00:14:17,382.02909997 Okay. 125 00:14:17,712.02909997 --> 00:14:26,442.02909997 Too many people get stuck on the fence because they're doubting themselves and they're fearful of making the wrong decision. 126 00:14:26,696.77590643 --> 00:14:28,346.77590643 And I don't know if you need to hear this today, but. 127 00:14:29,413.06986776 --> 00:14:37,843.06986776 Indecision is also a decision, and successful people are those people who could, who have just made more decisions. 128 00:14:38,53.06986776 --> 00:14:44,443.06986776 Too many people waste years of their life on the fence because they're afraid of making the wrong decision. 129 00:14:44,443.06986776 --> 00:14:47,713.06986776 But successful people, they just jump off to one side. 130 00:14:47,953.06986776 --> 00:14:49,363.06986776 Whether or not they know. 131 00:14:49,363.06986776 --> 00:14:56,83.06986776 Nobody knows if it's a hundred percent the right decision, but they learn if they jump off the fence to the right side, they learn very quickly, oh wow, okay. 132 00:14:56,83.06986776 --> 00:14:57,13.06986776 This was the right decision. 133 00:14:57,372.89298162 --> 00:14:59,52.89298162 Or if not, okay, well perfect. 134 00:14:59,52.89298162 --> 00:15:06,166.70156325 I know that was the wrong decision and now I can go hop to the other side and that is a quality successful people do. 135 00:15:06,166.70156325 --> 00:15:10,726.70156325 And so my friend, you have got to start taking action. 136 00:15:10,792.1576127 --> 00:15:12,862.1576127 In spite of uncertainty. 137 00:15:13,519.43126725 --> 00:15:16,879.43126725 Action is the only way that you are going to build confidence. 138 00:15:17,749.43126725 --> 00:15:24,349.43126725 Like we wanna, we wanna think our way to being confident, or we just wanna get to a place where we feel confident. 139 00:15:24,469.43126725 --> 00:15:29,846.71258555 But the only way that you are gonna build confidence is by when, doing what you tell yourself you're gonna do. 140 00:15:30,401.71258555 --> 00:15:39,311.71258555 So every single time that you make a promise to yourself or you have a thought and you're like, okay, well I'm gonna do this tomorrow, or I'm gonna do this Friday, or I'm gonna wake up early, or or I'm gonna go to the gym. 141 00:15:39,311.71258555 --> 00:15:43,781.71258555 Every single time that you tell yourself you're gonna do something and you do it, it builds confidence. 142 00:15:44,111.71258555 --> 00:15:51,920.69154819 And on the flip side, the opposite happens every time that you don't fulfill the promise that you make to yourself or you don't keep your word. 143 00:15:52,250.69154819 --> 00:15:54,890.69154819 It picks at your self-confidence. 144 00:15:54,950.69154819 --> 00:16:01,731.68809198 And so You gotta do the things that you tell yourself you're gonna do, and then you have to just take action. 145 00:16:01,761.68809198 --> 00:16:11,569.96738574 Despite feeling doubtful, despite feeling uncertain, despite feeling the fear, action is the answer that you're looking for. 146 00:16:11,629.96738574 --> 00:16:17,479.96738574 And it's so funny because most people miss action. 147 00:16:17,952.32927445 --> 00:16:21,392.32927445 I coach over a thousand women in mindset. 148 00:16:21,392.32927445 --> 00:16:30,458.20153617 And the thing that, the thing that separates the unsuccessful students from those that are successful is the lack of action or the presence of action. 149 00:16:30,908.20153617 --> 00:16:31,958.20153617 That's literally it. 150 00:16:32,247.81738803 --> 00:16:49,637.3408394 So many women get stuck in this headspace of the what if this happens, or what if I look dumb, or, what if I get rejected again? Or, what if, what if, what if? And that kills way more dreams than the presence of doubt does. 151 00:16:49,637.3408394 --> 00:16:57,280.2836788 Because again, back to the main point, you can have, doubt present, but that's not the thing, that's the issue. 152 00:16:57,280.3696163 --> 00:17:06,915.37174 The issue is when you respond in a way that lets the doubt win, where you're, you're making fear and doubtful based decisions. 153 00:17:07,305.37174 --> 00:17:08,745.37174 That is the issue. 154 00:17:09,169.7883311 --> 00:17:14,959.7883311 And so what I want you to do here is to practice taking action and get in the habit of taking action. 155 00:17:15,199.7883311 --> 00:17:16,819.7883311 Choose one thing. 156 00:17:16,879.7883311 --> 00:17:27,79.7883311 What is the one thing that you know you can do, right? Don't make it, if you've been waking up at 8:00 AM tell yourself that you're gonna wake up at 5:00 AM tomorrow. 157 00:17:27,79.7883311 --> 00:17:27,559.7883311 Like, no. 158 00:17:28,99.7883311 --> 00:17:34,232.1259521 Do one thing big or small, whether it's going to the gym or going for a five minute walk. 159 00:17:34,382.1259521 --> 00:17:36,422.1259521 One thing that you know you can do. 160 00:17:37,52.1259521 --> 00:17:38,402.1259521 And then do it. 161 00:17:38,849.5503341 --> 00:17:43,559.5503341 This is going to help you practice one, keeping promises that you make to yourself. 162 00:17:43,559.5503341 --> 00:17:48,29.5503341 And two, starting to take action towards your goals, towards the woman that you wanna be. 163 00:17:48,599.5503341 --> 00:17:50,69.5503341 And don't put it off, do it now. 164 00:17:50,99.5503341 --> 00:17:51,119.5503341 Do it today. 165 00:17:51,599.5503341 --> 00:17:54,959.5503341 Do it today, this Monday, or whenever you're listening to this. 166 00:17:55,456.1744651 --> 00:17:57,376.1744651 Okay, so doing a quick recap. 167 00:17:57,631.0368839 --> 00:18:00,931.0368839 Number one, you wanna reframe doubt as data. 168 00:18:01,21.0368839 --> 00:18:02,311.0368839 It's not something negative. 169 00:18:02,341.0368839 --> 00:18:13,261.0368839 It is just data, and it's evidence that you are walking into new territory and you are about to level up as long as you lean into the opportunity. 170 00:18:13,861.0368839 --> 00:18:19,711.0368839 Number two, you wanna build something bigger than your doubt, a bigger vision and a bigger why. 171 00:18:20,176.0368839 --> 00:18:32,308.2759078 Making 'em very clear so that when you have doors of opportunity come in, you know that if you say no to it, you are making an unaligned decision because you know this is gonna be the thing. 172 00:18:32,308.2759078 --> 00:18:38,848.2759078 Even though it's a little scary or a lot scary, it's the thing that is gonna bring you closer to your ultimate goal. 173 00:18:39,113.6738947 --> 00:18:42,953.6738947 And number three, you wanna get in the habit of taking action. 174 00:18:43,295.4175909 --> 00:18:51,815.4175909 Keeping the promises that you make to yourself and taking action are gonna be the things that is going to build the confidence that you deeply desire within you. 175 00:18:52,253.2578509 --> 00:19:07,384.4666099 I hope that this changed the way that you look at doubt and experienced doubt, that the next time that you feel a little fearful or doubtful that you celebrate it and that you let it be the thing that indicates you are moving in the right direction. 176 00:19:07,812.4586536 --> 00:19:09,340.2469565 I'm so proud of you. 177 00:19:09,370.2469565 --> 00:19:10,540.2469565 Keep going. 178 00:19:10,540.2469565 --> 00:19:14,260.2469565 I believe in you and God believes in you even more. 179 00:19:14,260.2469565 --> 00:19:17,920.2469565 So go out and have the best week because you can. 180 00:19:18,96.7953984 --> 00:19:19,26.7953984 Hey, beautiful. 181 00:19:19,26.7953984 --> 00:19:22,626.7953984 I hope you loved hanging with me today and enjoyed the episode. 182 00:19:22,896.7953984 --> 00:19:37,296.7953984 If so, would you take just 30 seconds and share it with someone you love who may also want to heal from past relationships and love themselves again? 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