July 28, 2025 • 20 mins
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Ever find yourself wondering why confidence feels so out of reach even when you know God has called you to boldness? Or maybe you’ve started a new project or season, and doubt keeps whispering that you’re not enough?
You’re not alone and confidence isn’t a destination you have to chase. It’s a daily practice rooted in faith, not in your own strength. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 3 simple hacks you can do in just 10 minutes each day to build unshakable confidence as a woman of faith.
Grab your journal and let’s turn those small daily habits into big confidence breakthroughs!
See you on the inside, Xo, Dani
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If you clicked on this episode.
You are probably looking for the answer to building confidence or just strengthening the confidence that you've started to build within yourself.
And this is gonna be a quick, practical, tactical episode for you, and we could really even replace hacks with the word habits because this is.
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Truly the answer to building confidence as a woman of faith is firstly, knowing where your confidence comes from and how to put that into practice and what to do to exercise your faith in your creator.
That is your source of confidence.
And so we're breaking this down.
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These are my three favorite things that I can always go back to and, and link.
Whether I'm feeling, sure of my identity, at the end of the day or if I look back on my day and I'm feeling like, wow, I had a, like a really strong day to day.
I felt like I was, you know, really myself today and showing up in serving to the best of my ability.
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I can link it back to doing these three things earlier that day, and I wanna share that with you.
And this is something that you can implement in your day in just 10 to 15 minutes.
So do not sleep on this.
Okay.
Many times people have a wrong idea of confidence being this destination or confidence being so far out from their reach based off the person they are today, but it really is just these little daily steps and actions that gets you to the big results. 16 00:01:49,56.63646601 --> 00:01:54,246.63646601 So, uh, make sure you pull out your journal, something to take notes with, and let's dive in. 17 00:01:54,529.13285912 --> 00:01:55,729.13285912 Hey, beautiful. 18 00:01:55,849.13285912 --> 00:01:59,629.13285912 Welcome to the Heal From Toxic Relationships podcast. 19 00:01:59,689.13285912 --> 00:02:23,989.13285912 Are you ready to break free from toxic relationship patterns and fully embrace a life filled with confidence, joy, and purpose? Do you find yourself questioning yourself worth and wondering what God's plan for your life is? Or maybe you deeply fear being alone and struggle with the lack of boundaries? Due to your people pleasing tendencies, well sis, you're not alone. 20 00:02:24,19.13285912 --> 00:02:25,159.13285912 I've been there too. 21 00:02:25,279.13285912 --> 00:02:32,509.13285912 Hey, I'm Danny, a Christian life coach wife, recovering people pleaser, and a total girl's girl. 22 00:02:32,599.13285912 --> 00:02:49,279.13285912 For 10 years I was stuck in a cycle of toxic, non-committed relationships and searching for my worth in men, my accomplishments, and the praise of other people until I found out how to heal my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center. 23 00:02:49,469.13285912 --> 00:03:04,589.13285912 In this podcast, you will find faith-based healing tools, confidence building tips, and healthy relationship skills so that you become a God-fearing, confident woman who attracts your husband while walking in your purpose with God. 24 00:03:04,829.13285912 --> 00:03:07,799.13285912 Grab your favorite mocktail and pop in the AirPods. 25 00:03:07,889.13285912 --> 00:03:12,59.13285912 It's time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together. 26 00:03:12,149.13285912 --> 00:03:13,919.13285912 One step at a time. 27 00:03:14,506.62426207 --> 00:03:28,996.62426207 Now, I'm sure if you could have a conversation with every single woman here walking the earth, they would share about a time that they've struggled with their confidence or some level of doubt that they are dealing with. 28 00:03:29,56.62426207 --> 00:03:43,606.62426207 In there today, no matter what achievements they have have gained, because as humans we are called to continuously grow, um, to continuously progress forward in life. 29 00:03:43,636.62426207 --> 00:03:46,876.62426207 This is just how God made us. 30 00:03:47,516.62426207 --> 00:03:58,226.62426207 And with every new level that we're going for, there's always gonna be a level of faith necessary to enter into that next level. 31 00:03:58,436.62426207 --> 00:04:09,296.62426207 Of course, if you're, you know, moving into things that are a little unknown, you are growth minded and you're stepping into things that God has for you, these open doors that you may feel inadequate. 32 00:04:09,676.62426207 --> 00:04:13,906.62426207 To step into, but that's exactly how God moves. 33 00:04:13,906.62426207 --> 00:04:20,386.62426207 He calls not the qualified, but he qualifies the called and he's not. 34 00:04:20,476.62426207 --> 00:04:25,276.62426207 Of course it makes sense for the Lord to, to call you into something that might be a little scary and. 35 00:04:25,866.62426207 --> 00:04:31,56.62426207 Make you feel like you're not good enough, because that's the whole, that's the whole message. 36 00:04:31,56.62426207 --> 00:04:36,456.62426207 Like, you are never going to be good enough, and this is why we need the Lord. 37 00:04:36,786.62426207 --> 00:04:40,686.62426207 And without, without faith, we're not able to please him. 38 00:04:40,776.62426207 --> 00:04:46,536.62426207 And so if he's calling you into something where you have some doubt that is trying to creep in because you. 39 00:04:46,601.62426207 --> 00:04:54,131.62426207 Don't feel like you're equipped enough or you're worthy enough or whatever voices that the, the lies that the enemy is feeding your mind. 40 00:04:54,491.62426207 --> 00:05:08,621.62426207 Um, this is just evidence that you are moving in the right direction because it's gonna take faith and you putting your trust in God, not in yourself to be able to step through that door and to progress forward in whatever he's called you into. 41 00:05:08,951.62426207 --> 00:05:12,731.62426207 And so I say that because if you speak with any woman of God. 42 00:05:13,76.62426207 --> 00:05:15,266.62426207 Who loves the Lord, who is seeking the Lord. 43 00:05:15,596.62426207 --> 00:05:25,981.62426207 They are probably going through some level of dealing with doubt and having doubt is not the or not having doubt isn't the goal. 44 00:05:26,716.62426207 --> 00:05:29,956.62426207 It is to build something stronger than the doubt. 45 00:05:30,16.62426207 --> 00:05:32,236.62426207 And this is where confidence comes in. 46 00:05:32,716.62426207 --> 00:05:50,206.62426207 And the reason why your confidence is being attacked is because this is the thing that the enemy is going to use to strip away the dream, to make you, um, to distance you away from the promised land that God has for you and the things that he wants to do through you. 47 00:05:50,356.62426207 --> 00:05:53,296.62426207 When you do step out on faith, I mean. 48 00:05:53,631.62426207 --> 00:06:07,701.62426207 For me personally, I, it's a constant battle for me whenever I'm, I'm looking like right now I'm working on launching something around God rooted confidence and helping women heal from their past traumas and step into the calling that God has over their life. 49 00:06:08,1.62426207 --> 00:06:08,541.62426207 And. 50 00:06:08,601.62426207 --> 00:06:14,481.62426207 Of course the enemy's gonna come in and, and try to attack my mind and to plant these seeds of doubt. 51 00:06:14,841.62426207 --> 00:06:31,131.62426207 Um, and these negative thoughts about, about the dream that, that God has given me in the vision and I can easily, one thing that I found is he, he uses other people's content that is great content as seeds of questioning. 52 00:06:31,501.62426207 --> 00:06:39,121.62426207 The thing that I carry, the thing that God has put within me, that he's birthing through me by comparing myself to other women. 53 00:06:39,541.62426207 --> 00:06:56,161.62426207 And I notice when I do these three things, I can stay rooted on who God has called me to be and not look the left or to the right, and to covet the gifts and the calling that other women of God. 54 00:06:56,511.62426207 --> 00:06:58,341.62426207 Are caring and walking in. 55 00:06:58,491.62426207 --> 00:07:13,11.62426207 And so the very first one that I wanna make super clear and simple is this hack AKA habit, is to simply stop scrolling. 56 00:07:13,461.62426207 --> 00:07:20,691.62426207 If you check your screen time and you've got three hours a day on Instagram, on TikTok, on Facebook. 57 00:07:20,731.62426207 --> 00:07:46,681.62426207 I had a little bit of a scrolling time earlier today, and I had to like, and even though it's good content, like it's Christian content, the the, the scrolling has got to get to a minimum because if you are stuck in this consumption mode, it's going to cause you to be a consumer and to sit in a place of, sit in an identity of a consumer when God didn't create you to be a consumer. 58 00:07:46,981.62426207 --> 00:07:49,321.62426207 And so anytime that you are doing something that is. 59 00:07:49,381.62426207 --> 00:07:52,321.62426207 And not in alignment with who God called you to be. 60 00:07:52,531.62426207 --> 00:07:59,551.62426207 You are going to lack confidence because you're not living authentically in your identity from the Lord. 61 00:07:59,881.62426207 --> 00:08:04,21.62426207 So the scrolling habit has got to stop. 62 00:08:04,121.62426207 --> 00:08:07,1.62426207 And if you want some accountability in that, feel free to join the online community. 63 00:08:07,746.62426207 --> 00:08:09,362.39784698 community@wp.com 64 00:08:09,662.39784698 --> 00:08:11,312.39784698 slash the healing circle. 65 00:08:11,312.39784698 --> 00:08:14,852.39784698 That's WHO p.com/the 66 00:08:14,852.39784698 --> 00:08:15,362.39784698 healing circle. 67 00:08:15,680.44449307 --> 00:08:22,790.44449307 And you can come in, make a post, and to just hold yourself accountable or find another sister in Christ who is on the same journey. 68 00:08:23,240.44449307 --> 00:08:39,800.44449307 But this is something that the enemy is totally using to distract you, to take you off course, to make you fall into comparison, to make you focus on the wrong thing, to steal your time, your most precious and valuable asset that you cannot get back. 69 00:08:40,220.44449307 --> 00:08:47,870.44449307 And two, just simply CR create a consumer consumerism spirit within you. 70 00:08:48,230.44449307 --> 00:08:57,320.44449307 And it's pulling you away from creation mode, from from pursuing and doing the work that God has called you to do. 71 00:08:58,70.44449307 --> 00:09:01,460.44449307 And so this is immediately something that we need to minimize. 72 00:09:02,150.44449307 --> 00:09:14,180.44449307 If this is something that you find yourself struggling with, and so the how to find somebody that can hold you accountable, this is a great way, especially somebody that is also needing to having the same goal. 73 00:09:14,180.44449307 --> 00:09:16,340.44449307 Like, listen, like girl, I need to stop scrolling too. 74 00:09:16,700.44449307 --> 00:09:19,970.44449307 Grab, grab an accountability partner and. 75 00:09:20,405.44449307 --> 00:09:25,235.44449307 We set up a system where it's like, okay, I'm gonna text, I'm gonna check in with you every Sunday or every Friday, what whatnot. 76 00:09:25,505.44449307 --> 00:09:27,485.44449307 And I have to send you my screen time. 77 00:09:27,965.44449307 --> 00:09:30,665.44449307 That is just a level of accountability that can help you. 78 00:09:30,725.44449307 --> 00:09:32,765.44449307 Or it is setting up a limit on your phone. 79 00:09:33,65.44449307 --> 00:09:34,805.44449307 Um, something that I'm doing. 80 00:09:34,805.44449307 --> 00:09:36,755.44449307 The limits don't work for me. 81 00:09:37,115.44449307 --> 00:09:43,925.44449307 Um, I have to literally tell myself, okay, I've, I've gotta get off, like get off and speak to myself. 82 00:09:44,225.44449307 --> 00:09:48,425.44449307 And then something else that really helps with this is planning out your day. 83 00:09:48,500.44449307 --> 00:09:58,460.44449307 Okay, so that way you are, you're, you are going by your calendar because any, anytime that I find myself scrolling, it's because I haven't planned out what I'm gonna do for the day. 84 00:09:58,580.44449307 --> 00:10:01,190.44449307 And so I have this free space on my calendar. 85 00:10:01,190.44449307 --> 00:10:06,320.44449307 So what I do, I'm like, okay, lemme look for some content to create and then it gets me into this scroll hole. 86 00:10:06,710.44449307 --> 00:10:11,870.44449307 But if I have my calendar already set and planned, and I'm telling. 87 00:10:12,390.44449307 --> 00:10:20,580.44449307 Employee Danielle from a, from a C of CEO, Danielle, I'm telling, okay, employee Danielle, this is what you're doing and this is what needs to get done today. 88 00:10:20,850.44449307 --> 00:10:25,500.44449307 And I notice whenever I actually do that for my days, I get so much done. 89 00:10:25,500.44449307 --> 00:10:29,370.44449307 I'm so much more productive and I minimize my screen time. 90 00:10:29,790.44449307 --> 00:10:32,400.44449307 Okay? So those are a few hacks that you can do. 91 00:10:32,730.44449307 --> 00:10:41,370.44449307 Um, and that takes literally a few, a few minutes, like two minutes at the end of every single day to plan your next day. 92 00:10:42,260.44449307 --> 00:10:42,590.44449307 Okay. 93 00:10:42,830.44449307 --> 00:10:44,750.44449307 Second hack is. 94 00:10:45,230.44449307 --> 00:10:49,610.44449307 Is, is you want to craft and be intentional with your mornings. 95 00:10:50,0.44449307 --> 00:11:08,685.44449307 So starting your day with truth, with the word of God, what are you filling your mind with the first hour of your day, if you're immediately hopping on social media or you're immediately clicking on the news or you're, you're immediately looking at your feed like, this is not. 96 00:11:09,555.44449307 --> 00:11:21,15.44449307 This is not, this is, it's totally gonna derail your focus for the rest of the day, and it's going to tell yourself what is important for you right off the jump of you waking up. 97 00:11:21,135.44449307 --> 00:11:26,685.44449307 And no matter if you think that you're filtering through things, everything is getting in you. 98 00:11:26,685.44449307 --> 00:11:32,985.44449307 If you are seeing it, if you are hearing it, it is getting in you, um, whether you like it or not. 99 00:11:33,490.44449307 --> 00:11:35,770.44449307 So how you start your day is everything. 100 00:11:35,830.44449307 --> 00:11:38,620.44449307 And I want you to start starting your day with the word of God. 101 00:11:38,620.44449307 --> 00:11:44,920.44449307 Maybe you're like, well I feel rushed in the morning and I just get ready for work and I jump in my car and like that's what I do. 102 00:11:45,160.44449307 --> 00:11:49,840.44449307 Or I jump on my laptop 'cause I'm working, work from home or whatnot, and I just have so much work to do. 103 00:11:49,840.44449307 --> 00:11:50,860.44449307 So I don't have time to do it in the morning. 104 00:11:50,860.44449307 --> 00:11:52,240.44449307 So I do it at night. 105 00:11:52,690.44449307 --> 00:11:56,380.44449307 That's great that you do it at night, but there is something very. 106 00:11:56,990.44449307 --> 00:12:04,310.44449307 Very special about starting your day, even if it is just this 10 minutes to spend time with the Lord. 107 00:12:05,150.44449307 --> 00:12:07,370.44449307 As soon as you wake up, give him gratitude. 108 00:12:07,370.44449307 --> 00:12:10,160.44449307 Give him thanks and open up your Bible. 109 00:12:10,160.44449307 --> 00:12:13,790.44449307 Even if it's just one verse, it doesn't have to be three chapters. 110 00:12:13,790.44449307 --> 00:12:16,265.44449307 If it's one verse, if it's one chapter. 111 00:12:17,30.44449307 --> 00:12:26,330.44449307 Start your day with the word of God, because how this is, this is the only way that you're gonna be filled to be able to pour out into other people. 112 00:12:26,690.44449307 --> 00:12:42,740.44449307 So if you ever find yourself overwhelmed or feel like you're pouring from an empty cup, more than likely it's because you haven't gotten your cup filled by God, by sitting in God's presence because you will be filled once you sit in His presence and you allow him to fill you. 113 00:12:43,550.44449307 --> 00:12:52,490.44449307 So how you put this into practice, whether you have to wake up just 10 minutes earlier, if, if time is, is a thing that is hindering you. 114 00:12:52,880.44449307 --> 00:12:57,380.44449307 Um, if you don't know where to start with your Bible and reading the word. 115 00:12:57,815.44449307 --> 00:13:06,395.44449307 If you're, if you're wanting to grow your confidence, start reading Ephesian Ephesians, it's a great chapter that it's like the identity chapter in the Bible. 116 00:13:06,425.44449307 --> 00:13:07,625.44449307 Start with Ephesians. 117 00:13:07,925.44449307 --> 00:13:12,185.44449307 Um, if you haven't read the Gospels yet, that this is the place to start. 118 00:13:12,185.44449307 --> 00:13:22,25.44449307 You wanna start in John, after you read John, you can go to Ephesians, you can go to one Corinthians, um, and, and start reading in the New Testament. 119 00:13:22,505.44449307 --> 00:13:27,155.44449307 Um, getting into the gospels and getting into the identity chapter and. 120 00:13:27,560.44449307 --> 00:13:39,260.44449307 I mean, we're in a, we're in a time where there's so many devotionals that you can purchase online and the Bible app, like, don't feel like you're, you know, you, you, you don't have resources. 121 00:13:39,260.44449307 --> 00:13:41,210.44449307 You just have to be resourceful. 122 00:13:41,630.44449307 --> 00:13:42,740.44449307 So get on the Bible app. 123 00:13:42,770.44449307 --> 00:13:51,50.44449307 They have so many different plans and devotionals that you can use, and this is gonna help you start your day with God just 10 minutes in the morning. 124 00:13:52,190.44449307 --> 00:13:54,20.44449307 And then hack number three. 125 00:13:54,410.44449307 --> 00:13:58,850.44449307 This one is one of my favorites, and this one has totally changed the game for me. 126 00:13:59,360.44449307 --> 00:14:02,960.44449307 And a lot of times the people say that, oh my gosh, well I can't hear from God. 127 00:14:02,960.44449307 --> 00:14:10,490.44449307 What do you mean that you hear from God? How do you do that? You literally sit in ex in expectancy to hear from him. 128 00:14:11,180.44449307 --> 00:14:18,590.44449307 And so this is, is this hack number three, and again, a habit that I encourage you highly to input in your life. 129 00:14:18,590.44449307 --> 00:14:21,770.44449307 If you don't do anything else, this is the one to do. 130 00:14:22,160.44449307 --> 00:14:22,430.44449307 Okay. 131 00:14:22,430.44449307 --> 00:14:26,30.44449307 Because if you, if you do this, all the other things will, will fall into place. 132 00:14:26,360.44449307 --> 00:14:33,50.44449307 And so hack number three is you wanna sit with God with an expectancy to hear from him. 133 00:14:33,770.44449307 --> 00:14:40,310.44449307 What does this mean? This means finding some place in your home that's quiet, closing the door. 134 00:14:40,310.44449307 --> 00:14:43,715.44449307 If you have roommates, getting just by yourself, you and God. 135 00:14:44,420.44449307 --> 00:14:51,140.44449307 Bring a journal and a pen with you because that is, that is you telling him, Lord, I expect to hear from you today. 136 00:14:51,500.44449307 --> 00:14:52,970.44449307 I want to hear from you today. 137 00:14:52,970.44449307 --> 00:14:55,640.44449307 I want to hear what you have for me today. 138 00:14:55,850.44449307 --> 00:15:03,50.44449307 How do you want me to live my day today? What do you want me to do? What do you want me to focus on? And getting a word from him. 139 00:15:03,680.44449307 --> 00:15:07,490.44449307 So what I do is I have my journal out and I write at the top. 140 00:15:07,805.44449307 --> 00:15:09,335.44449307 I start off with thanks and gratitude. 141 00:15:09,335.44449307 --> 00:15:13,655.44449307 So I'm thanking God, I'm writing down anything that's on my heart, right? Just getting that out. 142 00:15:13,715.44449307 --> 00:15:26,705.44449307 And then I'm just asking the Lord, holy Spirit, God, what do you wanna say to me today? What do you wanna tell me today? And just sit in silence and set a timer for just five minutes. 143 00:15:27,905.44449307 --> 00:15:37,505.44449307 And many times this is the part where, uh, we start to overthink, right? We have a lot going on in our mind, and so maybe some things we're like, oh, this is just my mind's racing. 144 00:15:37,505.44449307 --> 00:15:38,735.44449307 This is just me thinking it. 145 00:15:38,975.44449307 --> 00:15:40,925.44449307 Or, I don't know if this is from God or if this is me. 146 00:15:40,925.44449307 --> 00:15:43,265.44449307 I don't know how to tell which voice is which. 147 00:15:43,685.44449307 --> 00:15:50,255.44449307 Give yourself some grace to, to not overthink it and just write down anything that comes to your mind. 148 00:15:50,285.44449307 --> 00:15:53,135.44449307 Anything that comes up for you, don't overthink it. 149 00:15:53,135.44449307 --> 00:15:54,215.44449307 Just write it down. 150 00:15:54,590.44449307 --> 00:15:56,660.44449307 And what I did in the beginning was okay. 151 00:15:56,660.44449307 --> 00:15:59,60.44449307 Some things like, I would be like, oh wow, like that's very random. 152 00:15:59,60.44449307 --> 00:16:00,890.44449307 Like, I feel like that's from God. 153 00:16:00,890.44449307 --> 00:16:10,880.44449307 But you know, I'm not a hundred percent sure, but sometimes I would just write a question mark after a point that I, that I, that could be from God, but maybe that felt like it was from me. 154 00:16:11,60.44449307 --> 00:16:13,280.44449307 And just write down anything that comes up for you. 155 00:16:14,615.44449307 --> 00:16:15,665.44449307 And don't overthink it. 156 00:16:15,665.44449307 --> 00:16:19,25.44449307 That is the main thing here, okay? Don't question. 157 00:16:19,25.44449307 --> 00:16:26,255.44449307 Know that if you have been saved by God, you've received Jesus Christ as your Lord and your Savior, you've given your life to him. 158 00:16:26,585.44449307 --> 00:16:28,985.44449307 The word says that he dwells within you. 159 00:16:29,615.44449307 --> 00:16:30,785.44449307 He walks within you. 160 00:16:30,785.44449307 --> 00:16:33,305.44449307 You have the spirit of the living God in you. 161 00:16:33,755.44449307 --> 00:16:45,260.4444931 And so who's to say? That, or who's not to say that whenever you accept Jesus in your life, it's, he's, he's, we are doing life with him already. 162 00:16:45,260.4444931 --> 00:16:51,830.4444931 It's just acknowledging him and giving him space, giving, giving him space to speak to you and just to hear him. 163 00:16:51,830.4444931 --> 00:16:59,780.4444931 Because the thing is, and truth is that God is, God is always speaking, speaking through his word, but he also wants to speak to you directly. 164 00:17:00,365.4444931 --> 00:17:00,725.4444931 Okay. 165 00:17:00,725.4444931 --> 00:17:09,485.4444931 The people that heard him in the Bible that wrote the Bible, that that, that God used to write the Bible, he is still the same God today and he wants to speak to you. 166 00:17:09,485.4444931 --> 00:17:17,135.4444931 He wants to help you take your pen to paper and write out words that are coming straight from his heart to yours. 167 00:17:17,795.4444931 --> 00:17:21,725.4444931 So go into it with faith and believing that, you know what, I'm God's daughter. 168 00:17:22,295.4444931 --> 00:17:25,85.4444931 I'm God's princess, and he has a word for me. 169 00:17:25,115.4444931 --> 00:17:27,395.4444931 He wants to speak into who I am. 170 00:17:27,935.4444931 --> 00:17:32,495.4444931 And when you hear from the Lord, that becomes your confidence. 171 00:17:32,495.4444931 --> 00:17:36,275.4444931 It's like my gosh, like I'm loved by God, he's speaking to me. 172 00:17:36,305.4444931 --> 00:17:38,165.4444931 He cares, he sees me. 173 00:17:38,585.4444931 --> 00:17:40,985.4444931 And that is what you root your confidence in. 174 00:17:41,15.4444931 --> 00:17:49,865.4444931 You don't root your confidence in yourself and your accolades and what you can do on your own, but in his strength, the Lord is your strength. 175 00:17:50,570.4444931 --> 00:17:52,550.4444931 The joy of the Lord is your strength. 176 00:17:52,640.4444931 --> 00:17:57,980.4444931 Everything God Jesus is, is your strength, is your confidence. 177 00:17:58,40.4444931 --> 00:18:01,400.4444931 And just know that you are a daughter of the most high king. 178 00:18:01,610.4444931 --> 00:18:10,550.4444931 You walk with him, he dwells within you, and that is the reason you can move forward in confidence and whatever he's called you to. 179 00:18:11,240.4444931 --> 00:18:14,720.4444931 So going back through those again, first one, simple stop scrolling. 180 00:18:14,720.4444931 --> 00:18:15,980.4444931 Don't start your day with scrolling. 181 00:18:16,130.4444931 --> 00:18:18,380.4444931 Okay? Get out the scroll hole. 182 00:18:19,115.4444931 --> 00:18:23,615.4444931 Number two, start your day with truth, with God's promises. 183 00:18:24,35.4444931 --> 00:18:31,385.4444931 My encouragement is if there is something specific that you're believing God for, what is a scripture that you wanna stand on for it and speak that out loud. 184 00:18:31,721.3227747 --> 00:18:32,621.3227747 I love speaking. 185 00:18:32,621.3227747 --> 00:18:34,901.3227747 Psalms 23 over my life every single day. 186 00:18:34,901.3227747 --> 00:18:35,831.3227747 The Lord is my shepherd. 187 00:18:35,831.3227747 --> 00:18:37,721.3227747 I shall not want speak it. 188 00:18:37,721.3227747 --> 00:18:39,251.3227747 Prophesy over yourself. 189 00:18:39,491.3227747 --> 00:18:45,971.3227747 And then number three, sit with God with an expectancy to hear from him with your journal and your pen. 190 00:18:46,31.3227747 --> 00:18:51,311.3227747 And don't overthink what comes to your mind after you ask him to speak to you. 191 00:18:51,551.3227747 --> 00:18:53,891.3227747 His precious and beloved daughter. 192 00:18:54,168.9710251 --> 00:18:55,998.9710251 Okay, I would love to hear how this goes. 193 00:18:56,268.9710251 --> 00:19:00,605.5479603 If you wanna share, come on over to the free community@wp.com 194 00:19:00,965.5479603 --> 00:19:02,405.5479603 slash the Healing circle. 195 00:19:02,405.5479603 --> 00:19:02,435.5479603 Okay. 196 00:19:02,683.9304169 --> 00:19:03,883.9304169 i'd love to hear. 197 00:19:04,45.1055276 --> 00:19:14,305.1055276 I'm praying that you have just a beautiful, productive week full of God's grace, his mercy, and just a newfound confidence in yourself. 198 00:19:15,81.0402504 --> 00:19:20,961.0402504 Okay? I love you so much, but God loves you more, and I'll see you back here, same time, same place next week. 199 00:19:21,261.0402504 --> 00:19:21,651.0402504 Bye. 200 00:19:21,906.4743736 --> 00:19:22,836.4743736 Hey, beautiful. 201 00:19:22,836.4743736 --> 00:19:26,436.4743736 I hope you loved hanging with me today and enjoyed the episode. 202 00:19:26,706.4743736 --> 00:19:41,106.4743736 If so, would you take just 30 seconds and share it with someone you love who may also want to heal from past relationships and love themselves again? 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If you clicked on this episode.
You are probably looking for the answer to building confidence or just strengthening the confidence that you've started to build within yourself.
And this is gonna be a quick, practical, tactical episode for you, and we could really even replace hacks with the word habits because this is.
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Truly the answer to building confidence as a woman of faith is firstly, knowing where your confidence comes from and how to put that into practice and what to do to exercise your faith in your creator.
That is your source of confidence.
And so we're breaking this down.
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These are my three favorite things that I can always go back to and, and link.
Whether I'm feeling, sure of my identity, at the end of the day or if I look back on my day and I'm feeling like, wow, I had a, like a really strong day to day.
I felt like I was, you know, really myself today and showing up in serving to the best of my ability.
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I can link it back to doing these three things earlier that day, and I wanna share that with you.
And this is something that you can implement in your day in just 10 to 15 minutes.
So do not sleep on this.
Okay.
Many times people have a wrong idea of confidence being this destination or confidence being so far out from their reach based off the person they are today, but it really is just these little daily steps and actions that gets you to the big results. 16 00:01:49,56.63646601 --> 00:01:54,246.63646601 So, uh, make sure you pull out your journal, something to take notes with, and let's dive in. 17 00:01:54,529.13285912 --> 00:01:55,729.13285912 Hey, beautiful. 18 00:01:55,849.13285912 --> 00:01:59,629.13285912 Welcome to the Heal From Toxic Relationships podcast. 19 00:01:59,689.13285912 --> 00:02:23,989.13285912 Are you ready to break free from toxic relationship patterns and fully embrace a life filled with confidence, joy, and purpose? Do you find yourself questioning yourself worth and wondering what God's plan for your life is? Or maybe you deeply fear being alone and struggle with the lack of boundaries? Due to your people pleasing tendencies, well sis, you're not alone. 20 00:02:24,19.13285912 --> 00:02:25,159.13285912 I've been there too. 21 00:02:25,279.13285912 --> 00:02:32,509.13285912 Hey, I'm Danny, a Christian life coach wife, recovering people pleaser, and a total girl's girl. 22 00:02:32,599.13285912 --> 00:02:49,279.13285912 For 10 years I was stuck in a cycle of toxic, non-committed relationships and searching for my worth in men, my accomplishments, and the praise of other people until I found out how to heal my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center. 23 00:02:49,469.13285912 --> 00:03:04,589.13285912 In this podcast, you will find faith-based healing tools, confidence building tips, and healthy relationship skills so that you become a God-fearing, confident woman who attracts your husband while walking in your purpose with God. 24 00:03:04,829.13285912 --> 00:03:07,799.13285912 Grab your favorite mocktail and pop in the AirPods. 25 00:03:07,889.13285912 --> 00:03:12,59.13285912 It's time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together. 26 00:03:12,149.13285912 --> 00:03:13,919.13285912 One step at a time. 27 00:03:14,506.62426207 --> 00:03:28,996.62426207 Now, I'm sure if you could have a conversation with every single woman here walking the earth, they would share about a time that they've struggled with their confidence or some level of doubt that they are dealing with. 28 00:03:29,56.62426207 --> 00:03:43,606.62426207 In there today, no matter what achievements they have have gained, because as humans we are called to continuously grow, um, to continuously progress forward in life. 29 00:03:43,636.62426207 --> 00:03:46,876.62426207 This is just how God made us. 30 00:03:47,516.62426207 --> 00:03:58,226.62426207 And with every new level that we're going for, there's always gonna be a level of faith necessary to enter into that next level. 31 00:03:58,436.62426207 --> 00:04:09,296.62426207 Of course, if you're, you know, moving into things that are a little unknown, you are growth minded and you're stepping into things that God has for you, these open doors that you may feel inadequate. 32 00:04:09,676.62426207 --> 00:04:13,906.62426207 To step into, but that's exactly how God moves. 33 00:04:13,906.62426207 --> 00:04:20,386.62426207 He calls not the qualified, but he qualifies the called and he's not. 34 00:04:20,476.62426207 --> 00:04:25,276.62426207 Of course it makes sense for the Lord to, to call you into something that might be a little scary and. 35 00:04:25,866.62426207 --> 00:04:31,56.62426207 Make you feel like you're not good enough, because that's the whole, that's the whole message. 36 00:04:31,56.62426207 --> 00:04:36,456.62426207 Like, you are never going to be good enough, and this is why we need the Lord. 37 00:04:36,786.62426207 --> 00:04:40,686.62426207 And without, without faith, we're not able to please him. 38 00:04:40,776.62426207 --> 00:04:46,536.62426207 And so if he's calling you into something where you have some doubt that is trying to creep in because you. 39 00:04:46,601.62426207 --> 00:04:54,131.62426207 Don't feel like you're equipped enough or you're worthy enough or whatever voices that the, the lies that the enemy is feeding your mind. 40 00:04:54,491.62426207 --> 00:05:08,621.62426207 Um, this is just evidence that you are moving in the right direction because it's gonna take faith and you putting your trust in God, not in yourself to be able to step through that door and to progress forward in whatever he's called you into. 41 00:05:08,951.62426207 --> 00:05:12,731.62426207 And so I say that because if you speak with any woman of God. 42 00:05:13,76.62426207 --> 00:05:15,266.62426207 Who loves the Lord, who is seeking the Lord. 43 00:05:15,596.62426207 --> 00:05:25,981.62426207 They are probably going through some level of dealing with doubt and having doubt is not the or not having doubt isn't the goal. 44 00:05:26,716.62426207 --> 00:05:29,956.62426207 It is to build something stronger than the doubt. 45 00:05:30,16.62426207 --> 00:05:32,236.62426207 And this is where confidence comes in. 46 00:05:32,716.62426207 --> 00:05:50,206.62426207 And the reason why your confidence is being attacked is because this is the thing that the enemy is going to use to strip away the dream, to make you, um, to distance you away from the promised land that God has for you and the things that he wants to do through you. 47 00:05:50,356.62426207 --> 00:05:53,296.62426207 When you do step out on faith, I mean. 48 00:05:53,631.62426207 --> 00:06:07,701.62426207 For me personally, I, it's a constant battle for me whenever I'm, I'm looking like right now I'm working on launching something around God rooted confidence and helping women heal from their past traumas and step into the calling that God has over their life. 49 00:06:08,1.62426207 --> 00:06:08,541.62426207 And. 50 00:06:08,601.62426207 --> 00:06:14,481.62426207 Of course the enemy's gonna come in and, and try to attack my mind and to plant these seeds of doubt. 51 00:06:14,841.62426207 --> 00:06:31,131.62426207 Um, and these negative thoughts about, about the dream that, that God has given me in the vision and I can easily, one thing that I found is he, he uses other people's content that is great content as seeds of questioning. 52 00:06:31,501.62426207 --> 00:06:39,121.62426207 The thing that I carry, the thing that God has put within me, that he's birthing through me by comparing myself to other women. 53 00:06:39,541.62426207 --> 00:06:56,161.62426207 And I notice when I do these three things, I can stay rooted on who God has called me to be and not look the left or to the right, and to covet the gifts and the calling that other women of God. 54 00:06:56,511.62426207 --> 00:06:58,341.62426207 Are caring and walking in. 55 00:06:58,491.62426207 --> 00:07:13,11.62426207 And so the very first one that I wanna make super clear and simple is this hack AKA habit, is to simply stop scrolling. 56 00:07:13,461.62426207 --> 00:07:20,691.62426207 If you check your screen time and you've got three hours a day on Instagram, on TikTok, on Facebook. 57 00:07:20,731.62426207 --> 00:07:46,681.62426207 I had a little bit of a scrolling time earlier today, and I had to like, and even though it's good content, like it's Christian content, the the, the scrolling has got to get to a minimum because if you are stuck in this consumption mode, it's going to cause you to be a consumer and to sit in a place of, sit in an identity of a consumer when God didn't create you to be a consumer. 58 00:07:46,981.62426207 --> 00:07:49,321.62426207 And so anytime that you are doing something that is. 59 00:07:49,381.62426207 --> 00:07:52,321.62426207 And not in alignment with who God called you to be. 60 00:07:52,531.62426207 --> 00:07:59,551.62426207 You are going to lack confidence because you're not living authentically in your identity from the Lord. 61 00:07:59,881.62426207 --> 00:08:04,21.62426207 So the scrolling habit has got to stop. 62 00:08:04,121.62426207 --> 00:08:07,1.62426207 And if you want some accountability in that, feel free to join the online community. 63 00:08:07,746.62426207 --> 00:08:09,362.39784698 community@wp.com 64 00:08:09,662.39784698 --> 00:08:11,312.39784698 slash the healing circle. 65 00:08:11,312.39784698 --> 00:08:14,852.39784698 That's WHO p.com/the 66 00:08:14,852.39784698 --> 00:08:15,362.39784698 healing circle. 67 00:08:15,680.44449307 --> 00:08:22,790.44449307 And you can come in, make a post, and to just hold yourself accountable or find another sister in Christ who is on the same journey. 68 00:08:23,240.44449307 --> 00:08:39,800.44449307 But this is something that the enemy is totally using to distract you, to take you off course, to make you fall into comparison, to make you focus on the wrong thing, to steal your time, your most precious and valuable asset that you cannot get back. 69 00:08:40,220.44449307 --> 00:08:47,870.44449307 And two, just simply CR create a consumer consumerism spirit within you. 70 00:08:48,230.44449307 --> 00:08:57,320.44449307 And it's pulling you away from creation mode, from from pursuing and doing the work that God has called you to do. 71 00:08:58,70.44449307 --> 00:09:01,460.44449307 And so this is immediately something that we need to minimize. 72 00:09:02,150.44449307 --> 00:09:14,180.44449307 If this is something that you find yourself struggling with, and so the how to find somebody that can hold you accountable, this is a great way, especially somebody that is also needing to having the same goal. 73 00:09:14,180.44449307 --> 00:09:16,340.44449307 Like, listen, like girl, I need to stop scrolling too. 74 00:09:16,700.44449307 --> 00:09:19,970.44449307 Grab, grab an accountability partner and. 75 00:09:20,405.44449307 --> 00:09:25,235.44449307 We set up a system where it's like, okay, I'm gonna text, I'm gonna check in with you every Sunday or every Friday, what whatnot. 76 00:09:25,505.44449307 --> 00:09:27,485.44449307 And I have to send you my screen time. 77 00:09:27,965.44449307 --> 00:09:30,665.44449307 That is just a level of accountability that can help you. 78 00:09:30,725.44449307 --> 00:09:32,765.44449307 Or it is setting up a limit on your phone. 79 00:09:33,65.44449307 --> 00:09:34,805.44449307 Um, something that I'm doing. 80 00:09:34,805.44449307 --> 00:09:36,755.44449307 The limits don't work for me. 81 00:09:37,115.44449307 --> 00:09:43,925.44449307 Um, I have to literally tell myself, okay, I've, I've gotta get off, like get off and speak to myself. 82 00:09:44,225.44449307 --> 00:09:48,425.44449307 And then something else that really helps with this is planning out your day. 83 00:09:48,500.44449307 --> 00:09:58,460.44449307 Okay, so that way you are, you're, you are going by your calendar because any, anytime that I find myself scrolling, it's because I haven't planned out what I'm gonna do for the day. 84 00:09:58,580.44449307 --> 00:10:01,190.44449307 And so I have this free space on my calendar. 85 00:10:01,190.44449307 --> 00:10:06,320.44449307 So what I do, I'm like, okay, lemme look for some content to create and then it gets me into this scroll hole. 86 00:10:06,710.44449307 --> 00:10:11,870.44449307 But if I have my calendar already set and planned, and I'm telling. 87 00:10:12,390.44449307 --> 00:10:20,580.44449307 Employee Danielle from a, from a C of CEO, Danielle, I'm telling, okay, employee Danielle, this is what you're doing and this is what needs to get done today. 88 00:10:20,850.44449307 --> 00:10:25,500.44449307 And I notice whenever I actually do that for my days, I get so much done. 89 00:10:25,500.44449307 --> 00:10:29,370.44449307 I'm so much more productive and I minimize my screen time. 90 00:10:29,790.44449307 --> 00:10:32,400.44449307 Okay? So those are a few hacks that you can do. 91 00:10:32,730.44449307 --> 00:10:41,370.44449307 Um, and that takes literally a few, a few minutes, like two minutes at the end of every single day to plan your next day. 92 00:10:42,260.44449307 --> 00:10:42,590.44449307 Okay. 93 00:10:42,830.44449307 --> 00:10:44,750.44449307 Second hack is. 94 00:10:45,230.44449307 --> 00:10:49,610.44449307 Is, is you want to craft and be intentional with your mornings. 95 00:10:50,0.44449307 --> 00:11:08,685.44449307 So starting your day with truth, with the word of God, what are you filling your mind with the first hour of your day, if you're immediately hopping on social media or you're immediately clicking on the news or you're, you're immediately looking at your feed like, this is not. 96 00:11:09,555.44449307 --> 00:11:21,15.44449307 This is not, this is, it's totally gonna derail your focus for the rest of the day, and it's going to tell yourself what is important for you right off the jump of you waking up. 97 00:11:21,135.44449307 --> 00:11:26,685.44449307 And no matter if you think that you're filtering through things, everything is getting in you. 98 00:11:26,685.44449307 --> 00:11:32,985.44449307 If you are seeing it, if you are hearing it, it is getting in you, um, whether you like it or not. 99 00:11:33,490.44449307 --> 00:11:35,770.44449307 So how you start your day is everything. 100 00:11:35,830.44449307 --> 00:11:38,620.44449307 And I want you to start starting your day with the word of God. 101 00:11:38,620.44449307 --> 00:11:44,920.44449307 Maybe you're like, well I feel rushed in the morning and I just get ready for work and I jump in my car and like that's what I do. 102 00:11:45,160.44449307 --> 00:11:49,840.44449307 Or I jump on my laptop 'cause I'm working, work from home or whatnot, and I just have so much work to do. 103 00:11:49,840.44449307 --> 00:11:50,860.44449307 So I don't have time to do it in the morning. 104 00:11:50,860.44449307 --> 00:11:52,240.44449307 So I do it at night. 105 00:11:52,690.44449307 --> 00:11:56,380.44449307 That's great that you do it at night, but there is something very. 106 00:11:56,990.44449307 --> 00:12:04,310.44449307 Very special about starting your day, even if it is just this 10 minutes to spend time with the Lord. 107 00:12:05,150.44449307 --> 00:12:07,370.44449307 As soon as you wake up, give him gratitude. 108 00:12:07,370.44449307 --> 00:12:10,160.44449307 Give him thanks and open up your Bible. 109 00:12:10,160.44449307 --> 00:12:13,790.44449307 Even if it's just one verse, it doesn't have to be three chapters. 110 00:12:13,790.44449307 --> 00:12:16,265.44449307 If it's one verse, if it's one chapter. 111 00:12:17,30.44449307 --> 00:12:26,330.44449307 Start your day with the word of God, because how this is, this is the only way that you're gonna be filled to be able to pour out into other people. 112 00:12:26,690.44449307 --> 00:12:42,740.44449307 So if you ever find yourself overwhelmed or feel like you're pouring from an empty cup, more than likely it's because you haven't gotten your cup filled by God, by sitting in God's presence because you will be filled once you sit in His presence and you allow him to fill you. 113 00:12:43,550.44449307 --> 00:12:52,490.44449307 So how you put this into practice, whether you have to wake up just 10 minutes earlier, if, if time is, is a thing that is hindering you. 114 00:12:52,880.44449307 --> 00:12:57,380.44449307 Um, if you don't know where to start with your Bible and reading the word. 115 00:12:57,815.44449307 --> 00:13:06,395.44449307 If you're, if you're wanting to grow your confidence, start reading Ephesian Ephesians, it's a great chapter that it's like the identity chapter in the Bible. 116 00:13:06,425.44449307 --> 00:13:07,625.44449307 Start with Ephesians. 117 00:13:07,925.44449307 --> 00:13:12,185.44449307 Um, if you haven't read the Gospels yet, that this is the place to start. 118 00:13:12,185.44449307 --> 00:13:22,25.44449307 You wanna start in John, after you read John, you can go to Ephesians, you can go to one Corinthians, um, and, and start reading in the New Testament. 119 00:13:22,505.44449307 --> 00:13:27,155.44449307 Um, getting into the gospels and getting into the identity chapter and. 120 00:13:27,560.44449307 --> 00:13:39,260.44449307 I mean, we're in a, we're in a time where there's so many devotionals that you can purchase online and the Bible app, like, don't feel like you're, you know, you, you, you don't have resources. 121 00:13:39,260.44449307 --> 00:13:41,210.44449307 You just have to be resourceful. 122 00:13:41,630.44449307 --> 00:13:42,740.44449307 So get on the Bible app. 123 00:13:42,770.44449307 --> 00:13:51,50.44449307 They have so many different plans and devotionals that you can use, and this is gonna help you start your day with God just 10 minutes in the morning. 124 00:13:52,190.44449307 --> 00:13:54,20.44449307 And then hack number three. 125 00:13:54,410.44449307 --> 00:13:58,850.44449307 This one is one of my favorites, and this one has totally changed the game for me. 126 00:13:59,360.44449307 --> 00:14:02,960.44449307 And a lot of times the people say that, oh my gosh, well I can't hear from God. 127 00:14:02,960.44449307 --> 00:14:10,490.44449307 What do you mean that you hear from God? How do you do that? You literally sit in ex in expectancy to hear from him. 128 00:14:11,180.44449307 --> 00:14:18,590.44449307 And so this is, is this hack number three, and again, a habit that I encourage you highly to input in your life. 129 00:14:18,590.44449307 --> 00:14:21,770.44449307 If you don't do anything else, this is the one to do. 130 00:14:22,160.44449307 --> 00:14:22,430.44449307 Okay. 131 00:14:22,430.44449307 --> 00:14:26,30.44449307 Because if you, if you do this, all the other things will, will fall into place. 132 00:14:26,360.44449307 --> 00:14:33,50.44449307 And so hack number three is you wanna sit with God with an expectancy to hear from him. 133 00:14:33,770.44449307 --> 00:14:40,310.44449307 What does this mean? This means finding some place in your home that's quiet, closing the door. 134 00:14:40,310.44449307 --> 00:14:43,715.44449307 If you have roommates, getting just by yourself, you and God. 135 00:14:44,420.44449307 --> 00:14:51,140.44449307 Bring a journal and a pen with you because that is, that is you telling him, Lord, I expect to hear from you today. 136 00:14:51,500.44449307 --> 00:14:52,970.44449307 I want to hear from you today. 137 00:14:52,970.44449307 --> 00:14:55,640.44449307 I want to hear what you have for me today. 138 00:14:55,850.44449307 --> 00:15:03,50.44449307 How do you want me to live my day today? What do you want me to do? What do you want me to focus on? And getting a word from him. 139 00:15:03,680.44449307 --> 00:15:07,490.44449307 So what I do is I have my journal out and I write at the top. 140 00:15:07,805.44449307 --> 00:15:09,335.44449307 I start off with thanks and gratitude. 141 00:15:09,335.44449307 --> 00:15:13,655.44449307 So I'm thanking God, I'm writing down anything that's on my heart, right? Just getting that out. 142 00:15:13,715.44449307 --> 00:15:26,705.44449307 And then I'm just asking the Lord, holy Spirit, God, what do you wanna say to me today? What do you wanna tell me today? And just sit in silence and set a timer for just five minutes. 143 00:15:27,905.44449307 --> 00:15:37,505.44449307 And many times this is the part where, uh, we start to overthink, right? We have a lot going on in our mind, and so maybe some things we're like, oh, this is just my mind's racing. 144 00:15:37,505.44449307 --> 00:15:38,735.44449307 This is just me thinking it. 145 00:15:38,975.44449307 --> 00:15:40,925.44449307 Or, I don't know if this is from God or if this is me. 146 00:15:40,925.44449307 --> 00:15:43,265.44449307 I don't know how to tell which voice is which. 147 00:15:43,685.44449307 --> 00:15:50,255.44449307 Give yourself some grace to, to not overthink it and just write down anything that comes to your mind. 148 00:15:50,285.44449307 --> 00:15:53,135.44449307 Anything that comes up for you, don't overthink it. 149 00:15:53,135.44449307 --> 00:15:54,215.44449307 Just write it down. 150 00:15:54,590.44449307 --> 00:15:56,660.44449307 And what I did in the beginning was okay. 151 00:15:56,660.44449307 --> 00:15:59,60.44449307 Some things like, I would be like, oh wow, like that's very random. 152 00:15:59,60.44449307 --> 00:16:00,890.44449307 Like, I feel like that's from God. 153 00:16:00,890.44449307 --> 00:16:10,880.44449307 But you know, I'm not a hundred percent sure, but sometimes I would just write a question mark after a point that I, that I, that could be from God, but maybe that felt like it was from me. 154 00:16:11,60.44449307 --> 00:16:13,280.44449307 And just write down anything that comes up for you. 155 00:16:14,615.44449307 --> 00:16:15,665.44449307 And don't overthink it. 156 00:16:15,665.44449307 --> 00:16:19,25.44449307 That is the main thing here, okay? Don't question. 157 00:16:19,25.44449307 --> 00:16:26,255.44449307 Know that if you have been saved by God, you've received Jesus Christ as your Lord and your Savior, you've given your life to him. 158 00:16:26,585.44449307 --> 00:16:28,985.44449307 The word says that he dwells within you. 159 00:16:29,615.44449307 --> 00:16:30,785.44449307 He walks within you. 160 00:16:30,785.44449307 --> 00:16:33,305.44449307 You have the spirit of the living God in you. 161 00:16:33,755.44449307 --> 00:16:45,260.4444931 And so who's to say? That, or who's not to say that whenever you accept Jesus in your life, it's, he's, he's, we are doing life with him already. 162 00:16:45,260.4444931 --> 00:16:51,830.4444931 It's just acknowledging him and giving him space, giving, giving him space to speak to you and just to hear him. 163 00:16:51,830.4444931 --> 00:16:59,780.4444931 Because the thing is, and truth is that God is, God is always speaking, speaking through his word, but he also wants to speak to you directly. 164 00:17:00,365.4444931 --> 00:17:00,725.4444931 Okay. 165 00:17:00,725.4444931 --> 00:17:09,485.4444931 The people that heard him in the Bible that wrote the Bible, that that, that God used to write the Bible, he is still the same God today and he wants to speak to you. 166 00:17:09,485.4444931 --> 00:17:17,135.4444931 He wants to help you take your pen to paper and write out words that are coming straight from his heart to yours. 167 00:17:17,795.4444931 --> 00:17:21,725.4444931 So go into it with faith and believing that, you know what, I'm God's daughter. 168 00:17:22,295.4444931 --> 00:17:25,85.4444931 I'm God's princess, and he has a word for me. 169 00:17:25,115.4444931 --> 00:17:27,395.4444931 He wants to speak into who I am. 170 00:17:27,935.4444931 --> 00:17:32,495.4444931 And when you hear from the Lord, that becomes your confidence. 171 00:17:32,495.4444931 --> 00:17:36,275.4444931 It's like my gosh, like I'm loved by God, he's speaking to me. 172 00:17:36,305.4444931 --> 00:17:38,165.4444931 He cares, he sees me. 173 00:17:38,585.4444931 --> 00:17:40,985.4444931 And that is what you root your confidence in. 174 00:17:41,15.4444931 --> 00:17:49,865.4444931 You don't root your confidence in yourself and your accolades and what you can do on your own, but in his strength, the Lord is your strength. 175 00:17:50,570.4444931 --> 00:17:52,550.4444931 The joy of the Lord is your strength. 176 00:17:52,640.4444931 --> 00:17:57,980.4444931 Everything God Jesus is, is your strength, is your confidence. 177 00:17:58,40.4444931 --> 00:18:01,400.4444931 And just know that you are a daughter of the most high king. 178 00:18:01,610.4444931 --> 00:18:10,550.4444931 You walk with him, he dwells within you, and that is the reason you can move forward in confidence and whatever he's called you to. 179 00:18:11,240.4444931 --> 00:18:14,720.4444931 So going back through those again, first one, simple stop scrolling. 180 00:18:14,720.4444931 --> 00:18:15,980.4444931 Don't start your day with scrolling. 181 00:18:16,130.4444931 --> 00:18:18,380.4444931 Okay? Get out the scroll hole. 182 00:18:19,115.4444931 --> 00:18:23,615.4444931 Number two, start your day with truth, with God's promises. 183 00:18:24,35.4444931 --> 00:18:31,385.4444931 My encouragement is if there is something specific that you're believing God for, what is a scripture that you wanna stand on for it and speak that out loud. 184 00:18:31,721.3227747 --> 00:18:32,621.3227747 I love speaking. 185 00:18:32,621.3227747 --> 00:18:34,901.3227747 Psalms 23 over my life every single day. 186 00:18:34,901.3227747 --> 00:18:35,831.3227747 The Lord is my shepherd. 187 00:18:35,831.3227747 --> 00:18:37,721.3227747 I shall not want speak it. 188 00:18:37,721.3227747 --> 00:18:39,251.3227747 Prophesy over yourself. 189 00:18:39,491.3227747 --> 00:18:45,971.3227747 And then number three, sit with God with an expectancy to hear from him with your journal and your pen. 190 00:18:46,31.3227747 --> 00:18:51,311.3227747 And don't overthink what comes to your mind after you ask him to speak to you. 191 00:18:51,551.3227747 --> 00:18:53,891.3227747 His precious and beloved daughter. 192 00:18:54,168.9710251 --> 00:18:55,998.9710251 Okay, I would love to hear how this goes. 193 00:18:56,268.9710251 --> 00:19:00,605.5479603 If you wanna share, come on over to the free community@wp.com 194 00:19:00,965.5479603 --> 00:19:02,405.5479603 slash the Healing circle. 195 00:19:02,405.5479603 --> 00:19:02,435.5479603 Okay. 196 00:19:02,683.9304169 --> 00:19:03,883.9304169 i'd love to hear. 197 00:19:04,45.1055276 --> 00:19:14,305.1055276 I'm praying that you have just a beautiful, productive week full of God's grace, his mercy, and just a newfound confidence in yourself. 198 00:19:15,81.0402504 --> 00:19:20,961.0402504 Okay? I love you so much, but God loves you more, and I'll see you back here, same time, same place next week. 199 00:19:21,261.0402504 --> 00:19:21,651.0402504 Bye. 200 00:19:21,906.4743736 --> 00:19:22,836.4743736 Hey, beautiful. 201 00:19:22,836.4743736 --> 00:19:26,436.4743736 I hope you loved hanging with me today and enjoyed the episode. 202 00:19:26,706.4743736 --> 00:19:41,106.4743736 If so, would you take just 30 seconds and share it with someone you love who may also want to heal from past relationships and love themselves again? Also, please scroll down and leave a quick written review for the show on Apple Podcasts. 203 00:19:41,196.4743736 --> 00:19:46,266.4743736 This is the main way we can get this message out to our girlfriends all around the world. 204 00:19:46,511.4743736 --> 00:19:51,911.4743736 And it also just really blesses me to know and hear how this podcast is helping you. 205 00:19:51,971.4743736 --> 00:19:55,61.4743736 Okay, I need to get outta my sweats and get ready for date night. 206 00:19:55,211.4743736 --> 00:19:58,271.4743736 I'll meet you back here on Monday for another episode. 207 00:19:58,391.4743736 --> 00:20:00,11.4743736 Sending you all the love. 208 00:20:00,71.4743736 --> 00:20:01,211.4743736 Until next time.
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