95 | LIVE COACHING: Still Waiting to Find Your Purpose? Here’s Why It’s Already In You

Hi beautiful! ♥️

Are you feeling stuck trying to figure out your passion or waiting for a clear sign from God about your purpose? Maybe you feel like it’s still hidden or far off, and you're wondering if you’ve missed it. What if your purpose isn’t something you have to chase down — but something that's already inside of you?

In today’s live coaching session, you’ll hear me walk several women through reflections that help uncover the passions, patterns, and gifts God uniquely wove into them. We dive into what it looks like to recognize your purpose through your natural wiring and lived experiences—without pressure, striving, or comparison.

If you’ve been waiting for permission to trust what’s already inside of you, this episode will encourage you and give you real steps to start walking it out. Your purpose isn’t ahead of you, sis—it’s already within you, ready to be activated.

See you on the inside, xo, Dani

 

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Episode Transcript

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Hello, beautiful.

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This episode is gonna be such a fun one.
I know I've been sharing some live coaching trainings, but this time I wanted to switch it up and share with you a part of a live coaching call, a live group coaching call, where we went deep into uncovering your God-given.
Passions and purpose.
And um, I think that listening to other girls' reflections and kind of getting them to share what they found and seeing how I'm coaching them through, um, their blockages or what's coming up for them will help you with discovering yours.

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So before we dive into the live combo, I want you to go ahead and grab your journal because these are the reflection questions that we walked through and this is really the starting off point for you to.
Really uncover your, your passions and your purpose.
Um, and so the first one is, when have you felt the most fulfilled, alive, at peace or in flow? And I want you to write down at least three examples.

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You know, what were you doing? Who were you with? Why did it feel meaningful? Really get into the nitty gritty of when, when has it been? What was going on when you did feel the most fulfilled, alive, at peace or in flow? And then the second question.
For you to answer is if you could dedicate an entire day to one activity, what would you choose and why does that activity appeal to you? And after you've journaled on these, I want you to look back at your answers and start noticing the common themes.

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You know, your purpose often hides inside your passions.
And your passions are hidden in the moments you feel most alive.
The thing that you would do for free.
Okay.
And once you've thought about that, then let's go ahead and press play, and then you can dive into the live conversation and you know, you'll really be able to hear some powerful breakthroughs that women had as we unpack their purpose together.

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And even hearing some of the coaching conversation in the way that I kind of dive deeper and helping them gain clarity.
It can help you with whatever blockages you feel are coming up for you to really uncovering your passions and your purpose. 18 00:02:09,847.43434783 --> 00:02:11,47.43434783 Hey, beautiful. 19 00:02:11,167.43434783 --> 00:02:14,947.43434783 Welcome to the Heal From Toxic Relationships podcast. 20 00:02:15,7.43434783 --> 00:02:39,307.43434783 Are you ready to break free from toxic relationship patterns and fully embrace a life filled with confidence, joy, and purpose? Do you find yourself questioning yourself worth and wondering what God's plan for your life is? Or maybe you deeply fear being alone and struggle with the lack of boundaries? Due to your people pleasing tendencies, well sis, you're not alone. 21 00:02:39,337.43434783 --> 00:02:40,477.43434783 I've been there too. 22 00:02:40,597.43434783 --> 00:02:47,827.43434783 Hey, I'm Danny, a Christian life coach wife, recovering people pleaser, and a total girl's girl. 23 00:02:47,917.43434783 --> 00:03:04,627.43434783 For 10 years I was stuck in a cycle of toxic, non-committed relationships and searching for my worth in men, my accomplishments, and the praise of other people until I found out how to heal my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center. 24 00:03:04,787.43434783 --> 00:03:19,907.43434783 In this podcast, you will find faith-based healing tools, confidence building tips, and healthy relationship skills so that you become a God-fearing, confident woman who attracts your husband while walking in your purpose with God. 25 00:03:20,147.43434783 --> 00:03:23,117.43434783 Grab your favorite mocktail and pop in the AirPods. 26 00:03:23,207.43434783 --> 00:03:27,347.43434783 It's time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together. 27 00:03:27,467.43434783 --> 00:03:29,237.43434783 One step at a time. 28 00:03:30,120.78144502 --> 00:03:37,860.78144502 Um, so for the first one, what felt most alive, uh, one was I lived in the Philippines for about six months. 29 00:03:37,860.78144502 --> 00:03:47,280.78144502 So it was fun to like live on my own terms and, you know, do things that I was passionate about and like, uh, like vlog and, what's the word? Document it along the way. 30 00:03:47,640.78144502 --> 00:03:49,350.78144502 Um, second was backpacking. 31 00:03:50,10.78144502 --> 00:03:52,380.78144502 Oh my gosh, I can't talk backpacking, Mexico. 32 00:03:52,680.78144502 --> 00:03:57,660.78144502 Um, same things, just doing what I wanted, meeting new people, learning new languages. 33 00:03:58,20.78144502 --> 00:03:58,410.78144502 Um. 34 00:03:58,710.78144502 --> 00:04:02,700.78144502 Uh, and again, just crossing off things I wanted to do. 35 00:04:02,970.78144502 --> 00:04:13,560.78144502 Um, and third was now kind of embarking on a new adventure, like with this course and kind of getting back to that old lifestyle of living remotely and again, living life on my own terms. 36 00:04:13,560.78144502 --> 00:04:15,150.78144502 'cause now I have a lot, a nine to five. 37 00:04:15,480.78144502 --> 00:04:18,30.78144502 Um, and then the activity that. 38 00:04:18,900.78144502 --> 00:04:30,150.78144502 I said was, um, I did two 'cause I didn't know if this one counted, but I said wonder through a new city, meeting new people and just opening myself up to new adventures and new experiences and learning a new culture. 39 00:04:30,420.78144502 --> 00:04:31,260.78144502 I didn't know if that counted. 40 00:04:31,260.78144502 --> 00:04:33,300.78144502 So I said learn a new language. 41 00:04:33,630.78144502 --> 00:04:34,320.78144502 Um, I. 42 00:04:34,735.78144502 --> 00:04:37,825.78144502 And then I found a lot of similarities between the two. 43 00:04:37,885.78144502 --> 00:04:51,925.78144502 So just learning about people traveling, um, diving into new experiences and connecting through language, whether that's English or otherwise, um, and meeting new people and connecting. 44 00:04:51,925.78144502 --> 00:04:53,305.78144502 So yeah. 45 00:04:53,470.78144502 --> 00:04:53,690.78144502 Wow. 46 00:04:53,995.78144502 --> 00:05:01,855.78144502 I can already see like, so one thing about what we're gonna be doing next week is you wanna have this prompt in front of you, because we're gonna. 47 00:05:02,775.78144502 --> 00:05:05,85.78144502 Continue building off of this to find your values. 48 00:05:05,85.78144502 --> 00:05:09,855.78144502 And Catherine, I can just already feel like I can tell some of your core values just from that. 49 00:05:10,425.78144502 --> 00:05:12,225.78144502 Um, but that's fun. 50 00:05:12,225.78144502 --> 00:05:14,175.78144502 You're such an adventurous spirit. 51 00:05:14,175.78144502 --> 00:05:15,15.78144502 I love it. 52 00:05:15,465.78144502 --> 00:05:15,945.78144502 Thank you. 53 00:05:16,5.78144502 --> 00:05:17,295.78144502 Trying to be more adventurous, so. 54 00:05:17,980.78144502 --> 00:05:18,880.78144502 Thank you for this course. 55 00:05:20,710.78144502 --> 00:05:33,550.78144502 Yeah, so I guess like if, um, and one thing that I forgot to mention earlier, like one thing if we, if you really break it down, Jim Quick talks about what we all share a common purpose. 56 00:05:34,120.78144502 --> 00:05:39,550.78144502 And it's our common purpose is to help people through our passion. 57 00:05:40,120.78144502 --> 00:05:40,450.78144502 Um. 58 00:05:41,400.78144502 --> 00:05:46,890.78144502 So that's really the end of, if you get to the bottom of what purpose is. 59 00:05:47,190.78144502 --> 00:05:57,810.78144502 Um, so I mean, for you, Catherine, based off of like the similarities that you see, what would you, how, what would you define as your passion? Just my passion. 60 00:05:58,950.78144502 --> 00:06:05,825.78144502 Uh, I would say definitely meeting new people and learning new things, just wherever they are in the world, it's. 61 00:06:06,660.78144502 --> 00:06:16,860.78144502 Even if there is a language barrier, it is fun to get to know them and see life from their perspective and see what life is like in their world or in their country. 62 00:06:16,860.78144502 --> 00:06:19,290.78144502 I mean, um, 'cause it is like a whole new world. 63 00:06:19,290.78144502 --> 00:06:22,260.78144502 It's just so different from what I'm used to in Alabama. 64 00:06:22,260.78144502 --> 00:06:25,80.78144502 So, um, it's just very, very cool. 65 00:06:25,110.78144502 --> 00:06:26,820.78144502 And so, um. 66 00:06:27,990.78144502 --> 00:06:29,755.78144502 I'm sorry, I forgot the question you asked. 67 00:06:29,755.78144502 --> 00:06:30,330.78144502 No, you answered it. 68 00:06:30,330.78144502 --> 00:06:30,510.78144502 Yeah. 69 00:06:30,510.78144502 --> 00:06:31,710.78144502 You answered the question that, yeah. 70 00:06:32,160.78144502 --> 00:06:32,430.78144502 Yeah. 71 00:06:32,430.78144502 --> 00:06:53,550.78144502 I was, I said, what do you, what would you define as your pur your passion? Um, and then what would you say like, and this doesn't have to, it might not hit the hill, the nail on the head yet, but like a purpose based out of you loving to meet new people and immerse yourself in cultures and learning new languages and. 72 00:06:54,240.78144502 --> 00:06:57,210.78144502 Seeing people from their, you know, viewpoint. 73 00:06:57,810.78144502 --> 00:07:04,890.78144502 What do you feel like apostle purpose of yours is? Just kind of making the world a smaller place, if that makes sense. 74 00:07:04,890.78144502 --> 00:07:08,790.78144502 Like, it's not so big and so different than we think. 75 00:07:08,790.78144502 --> 00:07:12,120.78144502 We really are very similar in a lot of ways. 76 00:07:12,420.78144502 --> 00:07:19,359.34137461 Um, and I, I feel like language kind of makes that more visible. 77 00:07:19,359.34137461 --> 00:07:21,429.34137461 It's probably not the right word, but makes it more. 78 00:07:22,74.34137461 --> 00:07:32,374.83386905 You know, it's easier to connect with people when the language is there, but even if it's not, you can still learn through, you know, basically sign language, not real sign language, but you know what I mean. 79 00:07:32,374.83386905 --> 00:07:32,434.83386905 Yeah. 80 00:07:32,704.83386905 --> 00:07:38,404.83386905 Um, so just kind of making it a smaller place and know that we're not so different. 81 00:07:38,404.83386905 --> 00:07:41,944.83386905 I feel it's where my purpose kind of is. 82 00:07:42,4.83386905 --> 00:07:44,284.83386905 Um, especially through like documenting and stuff. 83 00:07:44,284.83386905 --> 00:07:50,524.83386905 And um, yeah, I think that definitely leads back to my passion, which is just really getting to know people and learning about them, and. 84 00:07:51,4.83386905 --> 00:07:53,674.83386905 Connecting on just so many different levels. 85 00:07:54,184.83386905 --> 00:07:54,574.83386905 Yeah. 86 00:07:54,664.83386905 --> 00:07:55,624.83386905 I want you to write that down. 87 00:07:55,624.83386905 --> 00:08:01,684.83386905 If you hadn't yet, like making the world feel small, smaller, because that is a, a beautiful 'cause. 88 00:08:01,684.83386905 --> 00:08:05,164.83386905 Not everybody wants to do that or desires to do that. 89 00:08:05,734.83386905 --> 00:08:08,584.83386905 So that is like in you for a reason. 90 00:08:08,704.83386905 --> 00:08:10,174.83386905 Um, yeah. 91 00:08:10,894.83386905 --> 00:08:11,464.83386905 I love it. 92 00:08:12,4.83386905 --> 00:08:12,544.83386905 Well, thank you. 93 00:08:12,544.83386905 --> 00:08:13,444.83386905 I loved this. 94 00:08:13,534.83386905 --> 00:08:17,14.83386905 I didn't, didn't, would not have thought to think about these things, so thank you. 95 00:08:17,104.83386905 --> 00:08:18,959.83386905 I know, I know. 96 00:08:20,299.83386905 --> 00:08:24,1.430567 Anybody else wanna share? I don't mind sharing. 97 00:08:24,631.430567 --> 00:08:25,111.430567 Go for it. 98 00:08:26,161.430567 --> 00:08:26,521.430567 All right. 99 00:08:26,521.430567 --> 00:08:36,841.430567 So, um, Catherine definitely explained kind of what I value with just in a more, like she pinpoint her experiences, like specifically, which I absolutely love. 100 00:08:36,841.430567 --> 00:08:39,481.430567 Like I, I loved traveling to Japan. 101 00:08:39,481.430567 --> 00:08:42,691.430567 When I went for like a month, like it was with a group of people, it was with my sister. 102 00:08:42,691.430567 --> 00:08:43,561.430567 I absolutely loved it. 103 00:08:44,161.430567 --> 00:08:48,421.430567 But, um, I definitely did not pinpoint the specific experiences. 104 00:08:48,421.430567 --> 00:08:54,126.430567 It's just kind of like what I was experiencing at those specific experiences of what I wrote. 105 00:08:54,366.430567 --> 00:08:54,886.430567 I wrote down. 106 00:08:55,681.430567 --> 00:09:03,781.430567 So like most fulfilled and alive and at peace is like when I'm networking and connecting with other people, like having deep con conversations like this. 107 00:09:03,841.430567 --> 00:09:04,381.430567 Exactly. 108 00:09:04,381.430567 --> 00:09:17,341.430567 Like just having these meetings and being in the trainings every Mondays and Wednesdays, like I just love being surrounded by, um, feminine energy especially, and I love being surrounded by just like deep. 109 00:09:18,526.430567 --> 00:09:19,816.430567 Genuine conversations. 110 00:09:19,816.430567 --> 00:09:21,586.430567 That's just what I like, resonate with. 111 00:09:21,616.430567 --> 00:09:30,406.430567 And, um, not all you guys know, like my job, um, but I am actually a live broadcaster and I do stream and I stream to a live audience like every single day. 112 00:09:30,526.430567 --> 00:09:34,246.430567 And that's just something that I resonated with and I've been doing it for six years. 113 00:09:34,486.430567 --> 00:09:44,596.430567 So just having that genuine conversation with other people and feeling like you can actually make like, um, a connection with somebody when you're talking to them. 114 00:09:44,596.430567 --> 00:09:46,126.430567 So that was just kind of like. 115 00:09:46,801.430567 --> 00:10:00,511.430567 One of the examples I wrote down is when I stream and have genuine conversations with my community and make those connections, understand each other, where we're coming from, and just, it's like you're learning new things every single day when you actually have those genuine conversations with people. 116 00:10:00,511.430567 --> 00:10:02,41.430567 And that's just something I resonate with. 117 00:10:02,611.430567 --> 00:10:07,501.430567 And then when I'm on my networking trips, like with my industry, I go out to. 118 00:10:07,721.430567 --> 00:10:12,821.430567 Just places around the USA to do like networking stuff, like conventions and stuff. 119 00:10:12,821.430567 --> 00:10:17,771.430567 And then the Miami Mastermind, I know I haven't done it yet, but I know that's something that I'm gonna love. 120 00:10:17,801.430567 --> 00:10:20,231.430567 'cause I already love doing those kind of networking trips. 121 00:10:20,681.430567 --> 00:10:20,771.430567 Mm-hmm. 122 00:10:21,11.430567 --> 00:10:27,791.430567 And then when I hope others be their more confident selves, like I, like I live by a motto where it's like, look good, feel good. 123 00:10:28,85.98624152 --> 00:10:33,755.98624152 Those experiences that you resonate with, you're gonna feel them on a much like higher level when you just feel confident too. 124 00:10:34,325.98624152 --> 00:10:37,235.98624152 So that's like another example I wrote down my third one. 125 00:10:37,805.98624152 --> 00:10:46,745.98624152 And then if I had to do something for the whole day other than streaming, 'cause I already do that, that's just something I do already for the last six years. 126 00:10:47,135.98624152 --> 00:10:48,275.98624152 It'd probably be like. 127 00:10:48,710.98624152 --> 00:10:54,140.98624152 Getting ready with a bunch of girlfriends and just having the deep conversations while doing our makeup. 128 00:10:54,440.98624152 --> 00:10:57,680.98624152 'cause then we're entering our like feminine energy. 129 00:10:57,980.98624152 --> 00:11:02,180.98624152 We're feeling confident in ourselves and we're having a deep conversation. 130 00:11:02,180.98624152 --> 00:11:09,20.98624152 Those are just the three things that I know are like connection, feminine energy, and deep, genuine conversations. 131 00:11:09,20.98624152 --> 00:11:10,160.98624152 Those would be like my. 132 00:11:10,535.98624152 --> 00:11:12,305.98624152 It's probably my core values. 133 00:11:12,665.98624152 --> 00:11:16,415.98624152 And then, um, yeah, that would be like my reason why. 134 00:11:16,685.98624152 --> 00:11:21,395.98624152 And then, yeah, she, Catherine definitely pinpoints specific experiences like traveling. 135 00:11:21,605.98624152 --> 00:11:22,655.98624152 I'm like, oh wow. 136 00:11:22,865.98624152 --> 00:11:25,445.98624152 I feel like she definitely did a better job, like pinpointing them. 137 00:11:25,655.98624152 --> 00:11:27,935.98624152 I kind of made it like turned into the more like. 138 00:11:28,520.98624152 --> 00:11:34,730.98624152 Vague and kind of definitely went down the route of like why I like the genuine connection, the feminine energy. 139 00:11:35,0.98624152 --> 00:11:36,710.98624152 'cause I just like being a confident person. 140 00:11:36,710.98624152 --> 00:11:49,130.98624152 I think you live a much more fulfilling life when you're confident and I, that's just where I get my confidence from is from talking to others, having deep conversations and being surrounded by like people who's open to sharing. 141 00:11:49,250.98624152 --> 00:11:49,790.98624152 I just. 142 00:11:50,0.98624152 --> 00:11:58,220.98624152 I love seeing other people's perspectives and like Catherine said, like experiencing different peoples, like how they live, how they think, how they feel, how they just, what they go through. 143 00:11:58,220.98624152 --> 00:12:00,560.98624152 That's just, yeah, I definitely can resonate with that a lot. 144 00:12:00,620.98624152 --> 00:12:01,550.98624152 And that's what I wrote down. 145 00:12:02,420.98624152 --> 00:12:02,960.98624152 Yeah. 146 00:12:03,20.98624152 --> 00:12:03,830.98624152 No, I love it. 147 00:12:03,830.98624152 --> 00:12:05,900.98624152 And this isn't like, there's no right or wrong way to do it. 148 00:12:06,170.98624152 --> 00:12:13,340.98624152 I think pinpointing like specific examples, um, well just help you kind of go back to that moment and pull out certain things. 149 00:12:13,400.98624152 --> 00:12:14,630.98624152 But it sounds like. 150 00:12:15,470.98624152 --> 00:12:25,160.98624152 That everything that you said, like the, the deep conversations, the feeling confident, um, and helping other people feel confident. 151 00:12:25,415.98624152 --> 00:12:25,835.98624152 Mm-hmm. 152 00:12:25,920.98624152 --> 00:12:27,980.98624152 Um, and genuine connection. 153 00:12:27,980.98624152 --> 00:12:28,10.98624152 I. 154 00:12:29,10.07150986 --> 00:12:31,110.07150986 That, those sound like passions for sure. 155 00:12:31,140.07150986 --> 00:12:31,230.07150986 Mm-hmm. 156 00:12:31,950.07150986 --> 00:12:36,480.07150986 Um, like I love showing people that it's also like, okay not to be good at everything. 157 00:12:36,480.07150986 --> 00:12:41,160.07150986 Like, 'cause I know I try like everything in the book that I think I might enjoy, and then I realize I don't enjoy it. 158 00:12:41,220.07150986 --> 00:12:42,900.07150986 And I love sharing that with other people. 159 00:12:42,900.07150986 --> 00:12:46,80.07150986 Like, Hey, I did that and I was absolutely ass at it. 160 00:12:46,110.07150986 --> 00:12:49,50.07150986 So like, but you know, it's okay to not be perfect at everything. 161 00:12:49,50.07150986 --> 00:12:55,530.07150986 And I definitely grew up with like the whole, like the golden child having, you know, being a perfectionist and then. 162 00:12:56,220.07150986 --> 00:12:57,690.07150986 As an adult is not like that. 163 00:12:57,690.07150986 --> 00:12:59,910.07150986 You're not surrounded by rose gold glasses. 164 00:12:59,910.07150986 --> 00:13:02,340.07150986 So I definitely like experiencing that with people. 165 00:13:02,340.07150986 --> 00:13:04,470.07150986 Like I'm not a perfect person, you're not a perfect person. 166 00:13:04,470.07150986 --> 00:13:05,340.07150986 It's totally okay with that. 167 00:13:05,400.07150986 --> 00:13:14,940.07150986 And you should, you can still be happy and confident when you're not like the so-called perfect or rose gold person that you think you should be or need to be. 168 00:13:14,940.07150986 --> 00:13:15,270.07150986 Yeah. 169 00:13:16,200.07150986 --> 00:13:16,590.07150986 Yeah. 170 00:13:16,890.07150986 --> 00:13:36,603.60824614 So what would you say, Janna? Like how would you define your purpose if you had to in this moment, based off of that exercise? Well, if there's no like right way to define something like that, I would probably say, um, my purpose, I would say this could be really weird. 171 00:13:36,603.60824614 --> 00:13:43,923.60824614 I use very weird analogies to explain things, but I was like, put on this earth to like experience things and just try out new things, like a new hobby. 172 00:13:44,928.60824614 --> 00:13:57,348.60824614 Do something new that puts me on my comfort zone or I think I might like, and then I end up not liking it, embarrass myself, be really bad at it or, and then being able to share that with other people. 173 00:13:57,408.60824614 --> 00:14:03,438.60824614 Like kind of be like a test subject to things to show people that it's okay to try new things, if that makes sense. 174 00:14:03,438.60824614 --> 00:14:06,138.60824614 Like, oh, I've tried it and I did this and I don't know, I didn't like it. 175 00:14:06,138.60824614 --> 00:14:11,328.60824614 I did like it, I guess, but, 'cause I know it's really hard for people to get outta their comfort zones and I think. 176 00:14:11,673.60824614 --> 00:14:23,583.60824614 Um, I think sharing experiences with other people can help people get into the state of being more actionable, towards trying new things, and I just, I don't know. 177 00:14:23,583.60824614 --> 00:14:25,713.60824614 I just love the whole act of sharing, so. 178 00:14:25,833.60824614 --> 00:14:26,133.60824614 Yeah. 179 00:14:26,403.60824614 --> 00:14:26,673.60824614 Yeah. 180 00:14:27,303.60824614 --> 00:14:28,953.60824614 I wonder if it's. 181 00:14:29,853.60824614 --> 00:14:33,273.60824614 Helping people show up authentically without fear or, yeah. 182 00:14:33,273.60824614 --> 00:14:34,863.60824614 Helping people try new things. 183 00:14:35,163.60824614 --> 00:14:35,613.60824614 Mm-hmm. 184 00:14:36,573.60824614 --> 00:14:47,793.60824614 I mean, I've definitely been, I've been online for, uh, since 2017, so I've been scrutinized to like showing my personality and I definitely show a lot more personality now in front of my community than I did back then. 185 00:14:48,63.60824614 --> 00:14:56,883.60824614 I was definitely following the kind of like the image you have to be online, especially being a female, like you have to be the very delicate, dainty. 186 00:14:57,858.60824614 --> 00:15:02,88.60824614 You know, men just are attracted to that online, especially in the live broadcasting. 187 00:15:02,88.60824614 --> 00:15:03,978.60824614 Like just, I play video games for a living. 188 00:15:03,978.60824614 --> 00:15:04,788.60824614 I don't, yeah. 189 00:15:05,208.60824614 --> 00:15:12,348.60824614 But, um, but now I don't want anyone to think anything different, which is totally okay if like you did, but like, yeah, I played video games for a living. 190 00:15:12,348.60824614 --> 00:15:17,988.60824614 So especially in a male dominant community, it's like they're attracted to the and distress. 191 00:15:18,318.60824614 --> 00:15:21,108.60824614 And yeah, at first I played into that, but now. 192 00:15:22,83.60824614 --> 00:15:30,903.60824614 Like I am a very, I have a lot of attitude and I'm definitely not a very delicate female, and I definitely show more personality now. 193 00:15:30,933.60824614 --> 00:15:36,783.60824614 So I definitely, I want people to be able to feel like they can be their genuine self, like all the time. 194 00:15:36,783.60824614 --> 00:15:37,623.60824614 Just be confident. 195 00:15:38,73.60824614 --> 00:15:39,243.60824614 I love when people are confident. 196 00:15:39,273.60824614 --> 00:15:41,793.60824614 It makes me more confident that they're confident, so, yeah. 197 00:15:41,823.60824614 --> 00:15:43,113.60824614 Mm-hmm. 198 00:15:43,114.60824614 --> 00:15:43,115.60824614 Mm-hmm. 199 00:15:43,608.60824614 --> 00:15:48,588.60824614 Yeah, and you'll define this more, but I, I love this like helping people show up authentically with confidence. 200 00:15:48,588.60824614 --> 00:15:48,708.60824614 Mm-hmm. 201 00:15:48,948.60824614 --> 00:15:49,278.60824614 Like that. 202 00:15:49,278.60824614 --> 00:15:50,28.60824614 It's simple as that. 203 00:15:50,28.60824614 --> 00:15:55,308.60824614 And then you can, now that you know that, like for you and then for Catherine helping. 204 00:15:55,953.60824614 --> 00:16:00,423.60824614 Pe, what would he making the world feel? Smaller helping people. 205 00:16:00,993.60824614 --> 00:16:04,53.60824614 You would wanna kind of phrase it with like helping people blank. 206 00:16:04,563.60824614 --> 00:16:04,923.60824614 Yeah. 207 00:16:05,133.60824614 --> 00:16:09,273.60824614 And then you'll be able to find opportunities to do that. 208 00:16:09,723.60824614 --> 00:16:10,263.60824614 Yeah. 209 00:16:10,503.60824614 --> 00:16:10,593.60824614 Mm-hmm. 210 00:16:10,863.60824614 --> 00:16:14,373.60824614 When Catherine said like, make the world feel smaller, I was like, damn, that's a good way to put it. 211 00:16:14,373.60824614 --> 00:16:17,763.60824614 Because yeah, that's like sharing experiences with other people. 212 00:16:17,763.60824614 --> 00:16:18,423.60824614 It helps. 213 00:16:19,983.60824614 --> 00:16:23,493.60824614 Build that bridge of people being able to relate to others. 214 00:16:23,493.60824614 --> 00:16:31,713.60824614 And then that's when I feel like when you're able to relate to somebody, you're able to try new things as you're like, oh, like this person has done it, has has tried it. 215 00:16:31,713.60824614 --> 00:16:33,63.60824614 Like, I can definitely do that too. 216 00:16:33,63.60824614 --> 00:16:35,943.60824614 Like, it just gives people more confident in like all aspects of their lives. 217 00:16:35,943.60824614 --> 00:16:39,753.60824614 So yeah, I definitely think she put in, Catherine put in a very like, great way. 218 00:16:39,813.60824614 --> 00:16:40,533.6082461 So, yeah. 219 00:16:41,373.6082461 --> 00:16:41,733.6082461 Yeah. 220 00:16:42,513.6082461 --> 00:16:42,843.6082461 Awesome. 221 00:16:42,843.6082461 --> 00:16:50,523.6082461 I love these, I love seeing like, what makes you guys like to the core of like who you are, like what you, what? Lights you up. 222 00:16:50,583.6082461 --> 00:16:57,363.6082461 Um, because we all are, we all are gifted with different talents and qualities. 223 00:16:57,423.6082461 --> 00:17:00,573.6082461 Um, and it's just, it's beautiful. 224 00:17:01,203.6082461 --> 00:17:07,233.6082461 Who else wants to share? Who wants to go next? Uh, I can go. 225 00:17:07,713.6082461 --> 00:17:08,583.6082461 Yay, Jasmine. 226 00:17:08,583.6082461 --> 00:17:16,473.6082461 Um, so for the first one, I actually like, I was kind of thrown off a little bit and I almost exercise. 227 00:17:16,473.6082461 --> 00:17:16,623.6082461 I. 228 00:17:17,973.6082461 --> 00:17:23,583.6082461 Because it forces you to think and pull things that you're not really thinking about. 229 00:17:23,583.6082461 --> 00:17:23,733.6082461 Mm-hmm. 230 00:17:24,423.6082461 --> 00:17:32,673.6082461 Um, and I put that I was, I felt most inflow, um, when I was working. 231 00:17:33,63.6082461 --> 00:17:38,943.6082461 And like I was working in the bank, but in like a elderly community, like a older community. 232 00:17:39,513.6082461 --> 00:17:46,233.6082461 Um, and it was challenging 'cause we had sales goals, but the old people didn't want anything and they didn't like digital. 233 00:17:46,713.6082461 --> 00:17:49,803.6082461 Um, they hated everything I had to offer. 234 00:17:51,903.6082461 --> 00:18:00,543.6082461 But, um, I felt most in flow at that time because I would literally pray every day that God would just send me people that I could help. 235 00:18:01,353.6082461 --> 00:18:06,963.6082461 People that wanted what I had to say and wanted, um, the education that I had to give. 236 00:18:07,623.6082461 --> 00:18:16,383.6082461 Um, so, and then that kind of followed me into like what I'm doing now, which is, and the role kind of just fell into my lap. 237 00:18:16,383.6082461 --> 00:18:24,783.6082461 My managers, I had only been working at this new bank for like three months, and they were like, we think you would be great as the financial health education specialist. 238 00:18:24,783.6082461 --> 00:18:29,403.6082461 And I'm like, what? Don't you have to be here a year before you do that? And they're like, no, you can do it. 239 00:18:29,943.6082461 --> 00:18:41,313.6082461 And again, I'm going out into the community teaching different groups about different financial topics and um, just educating people favor right there. 240 00:18:41,373.6082461 --> 00:18:41,703.6082461 Right. 241 00:18:41,703.6082461 --> 00:18:45,213.6082461 It's just educating people on, um, different things. 242 00:18:46,98.6082461 --> 00:18:51,528.6082461 And of course you go to like low income communities and speak to them about different things too. 243 00:18:52,128.6082461 --> 00:18:52,218.6082461 Mm-hmm. 244 00:18:52,458.6082461 --> 00:19:03,828.6082461 Um, and then also I was a CFO, um, for a women's organization called Prestigious Purse, where we gave, uh, battered women. 245 00:19:04,758.6082461 --> 00:19:15,498.6082461 Um, purses full of like, toiletries, different things like that, um, to help them with their transition into, you know, going into different groups and homes and things like that. 246 00:19:15,678.6082461 --> 00:19:18,648.6082461 So then I got to again talk and speak and encourage. 247 00:19:18,948.6082461 --> 00:19:21,258.6082461 So, um, yeah. 248 00:19:21,383.6082461 --> 00:19:21,803.6082461 Mm-hmm. 249 00:19:22,278.6082461 --> 00:19:29,478.6082461 And then for the second part, um, I think again, just. 250 00:19:30,63.6082461 --> 00:19:33,813.6082461 Anybody who will listen to me about whatever, I like listening to people. 251 00:19:33,813.6082461 --> 00:19:48,573.6082461 And if I can give them something back or, um, help them come up with a solution or, um, whatever it may be, or give them a piece of knowledge to help them along on their journey, that's what I would like to do. 252 00:19:49,143.6082461 --> 00:19:49,233.6082461 Mm-hmm. 253 00:19:49,833.6082461 --> 00:19:56,643.6082461 Because it's like everything that, and just like, um, Catherine and, um, Jan was saying like. 254 00:19:57,18.6082461 --> 00:20:03,978.6082461 Everything that you go through is for something, is for somebody else, right? It's, it's about the emotions that we experience. 255 00:20:03,978.6082461 --> 00:20:05,868.6082461 The emotions are what connect us. 256 00:20:06,198.6082461 --> 00:20:12,408.6082461 And when I see somebody who's been somewhere that I've already been and I can just say, Hey, do this, or if I've had, I. 257 00:20:12,793.6082461 --> 00:20:20,23.6082461 Uh, a client that's already been through something and we had to work through something together, and then I see somebody else that has a similar experience. 258 00:20:20,293.6082461 --> 00:20:21,253.6082461 I already know what to say. 259 00:20:21,253.6082461 --> 00:20:26,773.6082461 I already know what advice to give or suggest, something that they can do, and that makes me happy. 260 00:20:26,983.6082461 --> 00:20:30,403.6082461 Like anybody who listen, if you wanna know something, I got you. 261 00:20:31,93.6082461 --> 00:20:31,453.6082461 Yeah. 262 00:20:31,453.6082461 --> 00:20:41,193.6082461 So why does that make you happy? Um, because, uh, a long, long time ago, I used to always, I was going through so much. 263 00:20:41,193.6082461 --> 00:20:47,283.6082461 I was a single mom of two and I was fighting to come up in corporate America. 264 00:20:47,703.6082461 --> 00:20:51,903.6082461 And, um, I felt like doors were just slamming in my face. 265 00:20:52,563.6082461 --> 00:20:53,798.6082461 And one day it hit me. 266 00:20:53,858.6082461 --> 00:20:56,583.6082461 It was like, Jasmine, you're not here. 267 00:20:57,183.6082461 --> 00:20:59,373.6082461 To do what you're trying to do. 268 00:20:59,613.6082461 --> 00:21:01,173.6082461 You are just here to assist. 269 00:21:01,233.6082461 --> 00:21:06,453.6082461 You are just here to play the position that you have right now until it's time for something greater. 270 00:21:06,693.6082461 --> 00:21:18,63.6082461 I used to go to work mad every single day, like I was angry every single day until I realized my purpose at that particular job was just to, I'm there just to assist. 271 00:21:18,693.6082461 --> 00:21:21,693.6082461 So then I got this inkling that. 272 00:21:22,818.6082461 --> 00:21:26,238.6082461 My misery would be my ministry. 273 00:21:26,748.6082461 --> 00:21:38,58.6082461 So whatever I went through wasn't just for me, it was for the next person, um, for me to help them, encourage them and help them through it so they didn't fall in the same pitfalls I feel in. 274 00:21:38,303.6082461 --> 00:21:38,593.6082461 Yeah. 275 00:21:38,593.6082461 --> 00:21:42,198.6082461 So, um, yeah, that's why it makes me happy. 276 00:21:42,288.6082461 --> 00:21:45,618.6082461 So somebody else doesn't have to go through what I went through. 277 00:21:45,828.6082461 --> 00:21:50,28.6082461 If they can just listen to my story or whatever knowledge I have that can help them. 278 00:21:51,168.6082461 --> 00:21:52,488.6082461 That, that makes me happy. 279 00:21:53,358.6082461 --> 00:21:53,748.6082461 Yeah. 280 00:21:54,168.6082461 --> 00:22:02,58.6082461 No, I appreciate you for sharing and this is a great example of a lot of the times our passions can stem from our biggest struggles. 281 00:22:02,448.6082461 --> 00:22:13,548.6082461 Um, like I know in Jim Quick, he talks out, I don't know if you guys have heard his story, but he uh, grew up being told, his teacher told him that um, he had a broken brain. 282 00:22:13,908.6082461 --> 00:22:18,888.6082461 'cause he had a brain injury and he now talks about his passion. 283 00:22:19,293.6082461 --> 00:22:20,463.6082461 Being for learning. 284 00:22:20,463.6082461 --> 00:22:27,603.6082461 Like he dedicated a lot of his life to fixing his brain and to learning how to learn. 285 00:22:27,783.6082461 --> 00:22:32,433.6082461 And now he teaches other people how to learn and that's his purpose. 286 00:22:32,553.6082461 --> 00:22:35,133.6082461 And it stemmed from that, um, struggle. 287 00:22:35,133.6082461 --> 00:22:43,713.6082461 And so I think that's so beautiful that you now, 'cause like the words that came to my, to my heart whenever you were sharing all of that is like servanthood leadership. 288 00:22:44,43.6082461 --> 00:22:45,483.6082461 Um, like a giver. 289 00:22:45,903.6082461 --> 00:22:46,593.6082461 Um. 290 00:22:47,373.6082461 --> 00:22:56,434.4126609 And so I guess through what you wrote down, how would you define your pur? I mean, how would you define your passions? Hmm. 291 00:22:58,384.1209079 --> 00:22:59,254.1209079 Or if you had to pick one. 292 00:23:01,744.1209079 --> 00:23:03,390.1209079 My passion is I. 293 00:23:04,857.5275612 --> 00:23:06,117.5275612 I don't know. 294 00:23:06,117.5275612 --> 00:23:09,177.5275612 I don't know how to, I don't know how to put it into words the way that I'm feeling it. 295 00:23:09,867.5275612 --> 00:23:12,717.5275612 I just, I, I want to help. 296 00:23:13,317.5275612 --> 00:23:15,747.5275612 Um, I don't wanna see anybody hurt. 297 00:23:16,47.5275612 --> 00:23:18,297.5275612 I think that's like the biggest thing. 298 00:23:18,297.5275612 --> 00:23:21,87.5275612 I want to find a solution, like let's find a solution. 299 00:23:21,87.5275612 --> 00:23:24,627.5275612 Even in my job now, that's where I do, is like, let's find a solution. 300 00:23:25,17.5275612 --> 00:23:32,727.5275612 Even if the solution is just me listening, I want, like, I just wanna give you a solution to your problem, whatever it is. 301 00:23:34,962.5275612 --> 00:23:35,442.5275612 That's it. 302 00:23:35,442.5275612 --> 00:23:39,852.5275612 And yeah, helping people find solution is, is a passion of yours or helping people. 303 00:23:39,852.5275612 --> 00:23:43,272.5275612 Like, it's just, yeah, helping people find a solution that's a, a passion for yours. 304 00:23:43,272.5275612 --> 00:23:48,668.3028839 And, um, I even think that's, or yeah. 305 00:23:48,973.3028839 --> 00:23:49,423.3028839 Tell me. 306 00:23:50,489.9991504 --> 00:23:55,434.2213741 Is it in any specific area or just period? No matter what it is, it is. 307 00:23:56,324.2213741 --> 00:23:57,494.2213741 It doesn't even matter. 308 00:23:57,494.2213741 --> 00:24:07,784.2213741 Like literally, I had somebody walk into my office and I, I'm a, um, I don't know what this is called, maybe somebody knows what it's called, but I can feel other people's energy. 309 00:24:07,904.2213741 --> 00:24:14,250.3897278 So sometimes it's hard for me to work if I feel, I have two examples. 310 00:24:14,250.3897278 --> 00:24:19,770.3897278 So I was on the teller line and I'm trying to do this lady's transaction, right? I'm trying to, I'm not even supposed to be on the teller line. 311 00:24:19,770.3897278 --> 00:24:21,990.3897278 I'm just trying to take her money so she can go. 312 00:24:24,870.3897278 --> 00:24:28,950.3897278 I look at her and I'm like, ma'am, are you okay? Because I can't work. 313 00:24:29,400.3897278 --> 00:24:33,930.3897278 Like I literally, I can't type, I can't do anything because she's so heavy. 314 00:24:33,930.3897278 --> 00:24:39,990.3897278 Like her energy is so heavy and she's like, oh no, I'm just, you know, I'm just tired. 315 00:24:39,990.3897278 --> 00:24:44,400.3897278 I'm just, and then I'm like, I'm like, okay, so I'm still trying to work and I can't. 316 00:24:44,400.3897278 --> 00:24:48,480.3897278 I said, ma'am, are you okay? And she just starts crying and I'm like. 317 00:24:50,550.3897278 --> 00:25:04,290.3897278 I know that it's something and I might not be able to help you, um, the way that you need help, but if you can just tell me what's going on so that I can, I can work, I can't work with whatever energy, energy she had. 318 00:25:04,470.3897278 --> 00:25:05,760.3897278 Anyway, she started crying. 319 00:25:05,880.3897278 --> 00:25:06,930.3897278 She started talking. 320 00:25:07,110.3897278 --> 00:25:08,130.3897278 I gave her encouragement. 321 00:25:08,130.3897278 --> 00:25:10,890.3897278 I prayed with her and I got her out my way. 322 00:25:10,920.3897278 --> 00:25:12,720.3897278 'cause I couldn't, I could not work like that. 323 00:25:13,80.3897278 --> 00:25:16,530.3897278 It's just, yeah, I, I can't explain it. 324 00:25:16,530.3897278 --> 00:25:17,700.3897278 It's whatever. 325 00:25:17,850.3897278 --> 00:25:19,620.3897278 It's whatever falls in my lap. 326 00:25:19,740.3897278 --> 00:25:22,30.0867269 I literally, yeah. 327 00:25:22,30.0867269 --> 00:25:22,600.0867269 Take it and run. 328 00:25:22,600.0867269 --> 00:25:32,260.0867269 They used to call me the bartender at one of my branches because every time somebody would walk up, I could be like, Hey, how you doing? How can I help you? And they might just start crying. 329 00:25:33,715.0867269 --> 00:25:34,950.0867269 I just don't know what it is. 330 00:25:35,230.0867269 --> 00:25:35,630.0867269 I don't know. 331 00:25:35,755.0867269 --> 00:25:42,25.0867269 Yeah, well I can definitely tell you one of your spiritual gifts is Compassion mercy, and it's, that's for sure. 332 00:25:42,25.0867269 --> 00:25:42,625.0867269 Definite. 333 00:25:43,555.0867269 --> 00:25:53,725.0867269 Um, but yeah, maybe, I mean, I think your really, your, your purpose and this will, you'll continue to mold these, you know, the more that you, um. 334 00:25:55,84.0319636 --> 00:25:56,194.0319636 Exercise in it. 335 00:25:56,194.0319636 --> 00:25:59,374.0319636 So maybe your purpose is like helping people find a solution. 336 00:25:59,944.0319636 --> 00:26:02,593.3862465 Your passion is, like teaching. 337 00:26:03,81.61932 --> 00:26:09,503.3583114 Teaching or, like leading from the heart, you know, something like in that realm. 338 00:26:09,863.3583114 --> 00:26:10,703.3583114 Um. 339 00:26:11,764.5480039 --> 00:26:12,229.5480039 I don't know. 340 00:26:12,649.5480039 --> 00:26:12,979.5480039 Yeah. 341 00:26:13,429.5480039 --> 00:26:14,239.5480039 I wanna find it. 342 00:26:14,239.5480039 --> 00:26:18,439.5480039 I wanna be, and I wanna be, you know, I wanna own it. 343 00:26:18,439.5480039 --> 00:26:18,499.5480039 Yeah. 344 00:26:18,499.5480039 --> 00:26:19,549.5480039 So, yeah. 345 00:26:19,549.5480039 --> 00:26:22,819.5480039 So those, when I said that it didn't really, there's something missing. 346 00:26:23,839.5480039 --> 00:26:25,459.5480039 No, it, it sounds right. 347 00:26:25,804.5480039 --> 00:26:37,204.5480039 But I just, I guess because it's just anything and everything, like literally anything and everything, like literally, I might have somebody come into my office and be like, I need this, this, and this. 348 00:26:37,294.5480039 --> 00:26:46,114.5480039 And then they'll be like, can you pray for me? And I'm like, what makes you Yes, I, I am, but at my job, we're really not supposed to do that. 349 00:26:46,414.5480039 --> 00:26:50,314.5480039 And they'll come in and be like, can you, can you pray? Can you, and I'm like. 350 00:26:50,704.5480039 --> 00:26:55,744.5480039 How do you see this on me? Like, why are you, why did these people come to me? But I did pray for it before. 351 00:26:56,224.5480039 --> 00:26:56,464.5480039 Yes. 352 00:26:56,584.5480039 --> 00:27:00,544.5480039 And so I'm like, okay, yeah. 353 00:27:00,754.5480039 --> 00:27:01,984.5480039 Answer the call, sister. 354 00:27:05,164.5480039 --> 00:27:06,604.5480039 Yeah, no, I love it. 355 00:27:06,934.5480039 --> 00:27:07,234.5480039 Yeah. 356 00:27:07,234.5480039 --> 00:27:13,114.5480039 I think it's just helping people like it, genuinely, like helping people find a solution to just period. 357 00:27:13,144.5480039 --> 00:27:16,804.5480039 Helping people sign, helping people find a solution no matter what it is. 358 00:27:17,614.5480039 --> 00:27:18,244.5480039 I love it. 359 00:27:18,274.5480039 --> 00:27:19,144.5480039 Thank you for sharing that. 360 00:27:19,294.5480039 --> 00:27:19,594.5480039 Thanks. 361 00:27:20,194.5480039 --> 00:27:20,554.5480039 Yeah. 362 00:27:20,794.5480039 --> 00:27:21,544.5480039 Owning that. 363 00:27:21,844.5480039 --> 00:27:23,134.5480039 You are, you're a helper. 364 00:27:23,554.5480039 --> 00:27:24,574.5480039 That's what we're called to do. 365 00:27:24,574.5480039 --> 00:27:25,84.5480039 We're help. 366 00:27:25,84.5480039 --> 00:27:25,744.5480039 We're helpers. 367 00:27:26,181.5120704 --> 00:27:29,811.5120704 Um, well final six minutes. 368 00:27:30,441.5120704 --> 00:27:32,721.5120704 Anyone wanna share? Take the final seat. 369 00:27:33,94.0888271 --> 00:27:33,334.0888271 Okay. 370 00:27:33,334.0888271 --> 00:27:49,920.5418145 So I guess to your first question, so the, the things that make me feel more, most alive are like events and gatherings and like any, any time where there's like community or, or like. 371 00:27:50,955.5418145 --> 00:27:55,395.5418145 Cookouts or like, like things like that where people gather. 372 00:27:56,85.5418145 --> 00:27:58,275.5418145 I just, I love that stuff. 373 00:27:58,275.5418145 --> 00:28:05,835.5418145 Like, I love being surrounded by people just having fun, you know, just social, the social stuff really lights me up. 374 00:28:05,835.5418145 --> 00:28:10,935.5418145 I love, you know, when people are together having a good time, everybody's really positive. 375 00:28:11,535.5418145 --> 00:28:12,105.5418145 Um. 376 00:28:13,140.5418145 --> 00:28:18,570.5418145 We're just like all just having fun and music and just any kind of stuff like that. 377 00:28:18,570.5418145 --> 00:28:22,230.5418145 Board games, just like that is one thing that lights me up. 378 00:28:22,230.5418145 --> 00:28:28,350.5418145 And the other thing that lights me up is like doing physical stuff, like whether it's like. 379 00:28:28,950.5418145 --> 00:28:35,970.5418145 Sports or just like running, um, or fitness or just things like that. 380 00:28:35,970.5418145 --> 00:28:38,610.5418145 Anything where I'm like moving my body dance. 381 00:28:38,730.5418145 --> 00:28:44,160.5418145 Um, I know over here where I live, there's this thing called bar like ballet bar. 382 00:28:44,160.5418145 --> 00:28:49,260.5418145 It's a type of exercise and it's kind of like Pilates, but I think it's better than Pilates 'cause it's more fun. 383 00:28:49,860.5418145 --> 00:28:56,310.5418145 Um, so like I love that and like, so yeah, those are both like, I love. 384 00:28:56,730.5418145 --> 00:29:04,800.5418145 Socializing and moving my body and, and like getting those endorphins and adrenaline and just all those feel good chemicals up. 385 00:29:05,160.5418145 --> 00:29:08,850.5418145 They, those two things are the things that came to mind that really make me feel alive. 386 00:29:09,480.5418145 --> 00:29:09,900.5418145 Yeah. 387 00:29:10,200.5418145 --> 00:29:10,650.5418145 I love it. 388 00:29:10,650.5418145 --> 00:29:13,380.5418145 It so suits you and you talk like it suits you. 389 00:29:13,500.5418145 --> 00:29:14,130.5418145 I see it. 390 00:29:14,490.5418145 --> 00:29:14,580.5418145 Yeah. 391 00:29:15,90.5418145 --> 00:29:25,440.5418145 And then what was the one activity if you could do all day, you would? Um, the first thing I wrote down was like event gathering or just like. 392 00:29:25,785.5418145 --> 00:29:36,795.5418145 Anytime where I'm like the I, I was mistaken when I first got into this and that I said I had no experience in sales because that's not actually true. 393 00:29:37,275.5418145 --> 00:29:38,475.5418145 I remember that. 394 00:29:38,475.5418145 --> 00:29:40,335.5418145 I actually, um, I. 395 00:29:40,695.5418145 --> 00:29:43,335.5418145 Did do stuff, and it was always at events. 396 00:29:43,335.5418145 --> 00:29:54,435.5418145 They always put me in like the front to like greet people or, or be like a hostess or like a hype girl or like to sell tickets. 397 00:29:54,435.5418145 --> 00:30:02,985.5418145 They always, it was always like being put in the front and to like, get people's attention and like kind of flirt with the crowd and like mm-hmm. 398 00:30:03,480.5418145 --> 00:30:04,140.5418145 Stuff like that. 399 00:30:04,140.5418145 --> 00:30:16,380.5418145 And I also did like, um, like booth encounters, like beauty booth and stuff where like they, they need girls to like sell their things on counters and stuff like, or booth. 400 00:30:16,470.5418145 --> 00:30:21,690.5418145 I mean, and that was a lot of fun 'cause you always get to meet people and kind of play with people. 401 00:30:21,690.5418145 --> 00:30:25,380.5418145 And so I love that, that fun, playful energy. 402 00:30:25,380.5418145 --> 00:30:26,730.5418145 Like that's really me. 403 00:30:27,540.5418145 --> 00:30:30,720.5418145 Yeah, girl, you are totally extrovert. 404 00:30:30,720.5418145 --> 00:30:32,280.5418145 Extrovert, yes. 405 00:30:32,340.5418145 --> 00:30:32,730.5418145 Period. 406 00:30:32,730.5418145 --> 00:30:33,780.5418145 Exclamation mark. 407 00:30:33,780.5418145 --> 00:30:35,250.5418145 Because it's amazing. 408 00:30:35,280.5418145 --> 00:30:36,840.5418145 That's such a beautiful gift. 409 00:30:36,840.5418145 --> 00:30:37,950.5418145 Like truly. 410 00:30:38,280.5418145 --> 00:30:40,440.5418145 So, no, I love this. 411 00:30:40,440.5418145 --> 00:30:55,350.5418145 So what would you, I mean, I think you pretty much already said it, but how would you define, like, what would you say your, your passions are or your passion, if you had to choose one? Between like, fit, like, like physical exercise and, and like event stuff. 412 00:30:55,971.9228751 --> 00:30:59,631.9228751 Yeah, I mean, you can, we can say you, I mean, those are, it's okay to have more than one passion. 413 00:30:59,631.9228751 --> 00:31:02,834.6048595 So you would say events, I guess. 414 00:31:02,834.6048595 --> 00:31:06,614.6048595 So socializing, like being with people. 415 00:31:06,734.6048595 --> 00:31:07,64.6048595 Yeah. 416 00:31:07,164.6048595 --> 00:31:12,24.6048595 It was nice to get feedback on, on how I'm perceived, um, yeah. 417 00:31:12,24.6048595 --> 00:31:13,74.6048595 Through people's eyes. 418 00:31:13,74.6048595 --> 00:31:16,134.6048595 'cause they really, they can see you better than you can see yourself sometimes. 419 00:31:16,134.6048595 --> 00:31:16,974.6048595 So that was cool. 420 00:31:17,814.6048595 --> 00:31:19,374.6048595 Yeah, no, for sure. 421 00:31:19,854.6048595 --> 00:31:20,64.6048595 Yeah. 422 00:31:20,64.6048595 --> 00:31:21,204.6048595 You're the ball of energy. 423 00:31:21,204.6048595 --> 00:31:22,854.6048595 You're the definition of like. 424 00:31:23,364.5184423 --> 00:31:25,524.5184423 Like be, be childlike again. 425 00:31:25,584.5184423 --> 00:31:32,64.5184423 It's such a strength to tap into the childlike energy, um, and play like we need to play. 426 00:31:32,394.5184423 --> 00:31:35,664.5184423 Um, so I love that you, you express that fully. 427 00:31:35,784.5184423 --> 00:31:38,544.5184423 And I've, I've done babysitting too, like a lot. 428 00:31:38,544.5184423 --> 00:31:41,199.5184423 And like I, I like I play Right, right. 429 00:31:41,199.5184423 --> 00:31:43,974.5184423 With the kids, like we're around and they love. 430 00:31:45,769.5184423 --> 00:31:46,609.5184423 I love it. 431 00:31:46,669.5184423 --> 00:32:04,939.5184423 So, Lily, what would you say if you had to define your purpose in this moment, what would you say it, it would be? I feel like it has to do with, um, so on last call, like last Monday's call, I wasn't sure, but I feel like, 'cause I, I remember saying that I did, it didn't feel like just me was enough. 432 00:32:05,299.5184423 --> 00:32:07,339.5184423 I think it has something to do with other people. 433 00:32:08,124.6005625 --> 00:32:08,214.6005625 Mm-hmm. 434 00:32:08,454.6005625 --> 00:32:12,954.6005625 Um, I'm not sure what that is, but, um. 435 00:32:14,39.6005625 --> 00:32:14,549.6005625 I don't know. 436 00:32:14,549.6005625 --> 00:32:16,529.6005625 When people get together, I come alive. 437 00:32:16,529.6005625 --> 00:32:19,829.6005625 Like, even if it's just like a hype girl on the dance floor. 438 00:32:20,339.6005625 --> 00:32:30,299.6005625 Um, that's another thing that I've done, like when there's like hardly any people on the dance floor, you just set me loose and I start dancing and I get pe I pull people in, like everybody starts dancing. 439 00:32:30,299.6005625 --> 00:32:31,889.6005625 It's, it's, it's a lot of fun. 440 00:32:32,519.6005625 --> 00:32:32,819.6005625 So. 441 00:32:33,659.6005625 --> 00:32:37,709.6005625 Well, I wonder if it is simply helping people play again. 442 00:32:38,699.6005625 --> 00:32:39,719.6005625 Oh my god. 443 00:32:40,184.6005625 --> 00:32:41,984.6005625 I got goosebumps when you said that. 444 00:32:43,229.6005625 --> 00:32:45,524.6005625 Can that be a thing? Yes. 445 00:32:45,794.6005625 --> 00:32:46,244.6005625 Yeah. 446 00:32:46,544.6005625 --> 00:32:47,264.6005625 Cool. 447 00:32:47,264.6005625 --> 00:32:50,684.6005625 I have to, and you can do it through your different modalities. 448 00:32:50,684.6005625 --> 00:33:06,824.6005625 So with your passions, you can do it through dance, you can do it through fitness, um, you can do it through, um, bringing people together and community events and helping them tap into being a child again and what it feels like. 449 00:33:07,124.6005625 --> 00:33:08,84.6005625 That's totally a gift. 450 00:33:08,84.6005625 --> 00:33:08,714.6005625 People need that. 451 00:33:09,794.6005625 --> 00:33:10,574.6005625 That's cool. 452 00:33:10,574.6005625 --> 00:33:11,204.6005625 Thank you. 453 00:33:11,534.6005625 --> 00:33:14,714.6005625 I love, I love that for you. 454 00:33:17,239.6005625 --> 00:33:18,794.6005625 I loving these mindsets. 455 00:33:18,794.6005625 --> 00:33:21,14.6005625 They're like, it's amazing. 456 00:33:21,14.6005625 --> 00:33:22,274.6005625 It's, they've been really cool. 457 00:33:22,793.8485964 --> 00:33:26,33.8485964 How beautiful was that? Oh my gosh. 458 00:33:26,63.8485964 --> 00:33:30,233.8485964 I really hope hearing the reflections today helps spark something inside of you too. 459 00:33:30,653.8485964 --> 00:33:39,623.8485964 You know, purpose can feel like this big mystery that we're trying so hard and striving to figure out, but I just want you to remember that your purpose isn't far off. 460 00:33:40,568.8485964 --> 00:33:41,978.8485964 It's already inside of you. 461 00:33:41,978.8485964 --> 00:33:49,448.8485964 It's woven into the things that make you come alive, the things that light up your spirit, the things that you could do for hours without even noticing the time. 462 00:33:49,808.8485964 --> 00:33:53,588.8485964 God made you in a very specific way, very uniquely. 463 00:33:53,738.8485964 --> 00:33:59,18.8485964 He placed certain passions, talents, and calls on your heart for a reason. 464 00:33:59,78.8485964 --> 00:34:04,628.8485964 The things that make you tick, even the things that make you a little bit angry, like these are the things that. 465 00:34:05,133.8485964 --> 00:34:14,403.8485964 That are in your makeup and it's for a specific purpose, and if you're still figuring out like it is, okay, don't you just know that you don't have to strive to figure out. 466 00:34:14,403.8485964 --> 00:34:27,148.8485964 Purpose often becomes clear as you take action and as you move forward, not just with you sitting and reflecting all day long and some other things too that I want you to remember. 467 00:34:27,923.8485964 --> 00:34:34,673.8485964 Is your passion is what fills you up and your purpose of what flows out of you to serve other people. 468 00:34:34,733.8485964 --> 00:34:37,973.8485964 Your purpose is about other people, and the passion is what fills you up. 469 00:34:38,483.8485964 --> 00:34:40,13.8485964 Know that you are not behind. 470 00:34:40,103.8485964 --> 00:34:41,303.8485964 You are not lost. 471 00:34:41,423.8485964 --> 00:34:46,133.8485964 You are in the process and nothing that you've walked through will be wasted. 472 00:34:46,443.8485964 --> 00:34:48,693.8485964 It's all part of your process. 473 00:34:49,53.8485964 --> 00:34:59,583.8485964 If you wanna go deeper or share your reflections and connect with other women that are also on the same journey as you, I'd love for you to join us inside The Healing Circle at wp.com/the 474 00:34:59,583.8485964 --> 00:35:00,363.8485964 Healing Circle. 475 00:35:00,603.8485964 --> 00:35:04,143.8485964 That's wop.com/the 476 00:35:04,143.8485964 --> 00:35:04,893.8485964 healing circle. 477 00:35:05,193.8485964 --> 00:35:06,573.8485964 Again, I love you. 478 00:35:06,573.8485964 --> 00:35:13,383.8485964 I see you, and I'm so proud of you for showing up, doing the work and choosing to lean into your God-given calling. 479 00:35:13,778.8485964 --> 00:35:16,418.8485964 I'll see you same time, same place next week. 480 00:35:16,658.8485964 --> 00:35:16,808.8485964 Bye. 481 00:35:17,546.1290411 --> 00:35:18,476.1290411 Hey, beautiful. 482 00:35:18,476.1290411 --> 00:35:22,76.1290411 I hope you loved hanging with me today and enjoyed the episode. 483 00:35:22,346.1290411 --> 00:35:36,746.1290411 If so, would you take just 30 seconds and share it with someone you love who may also want to heal from past relationships and love themselves again? Also, please scroll down and leave a quick written review for the show on Apple Podcasts. 484 00:35:36,836.1290411 --> 00:35:41,906.1290411 This is the main way we can get this message out to our girlfriends all around the world. 485 00:35:42,151.1290411 --> 00:35:47,551.1290411 And it also just really blesses me to know and hear how this podcast is helping you. 486 00:35:47,611.1290411 --> 00:35:50,701.1290411 Okay, I need to get outta my sweats and get ready for date night. 487 00:35:50,851.1290411 --> 00:35:53,911.1290411 I'll meet you back here on Monday for another episode. 488 00:35:54,31.1290411 --> 00:35:55,651.1290411 Sending you all the love. 489 00:35:55,711.1290411 --> 00:35:56,851.1290411 Until next time.