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April 11, 2025 18 mins

In this episode, I discuss the importance of making yourself the priority in recovery and I introduce the powerful RAIN method. This method can be used just 5 minutes a day for practicing mindfulness and self-compassion during difficult moments in your eating disorder recovery journey.

Your Assignment is YOU
  • This season is about planting seeds for your own growth and healing
  • You need permission to make your recovery the priority
  • Self-care isn't self-indulgence—it's essential recovery work
  • Recovery takes root when you commit to "watering your garden first"
The Seasons of Recovery
  • We expect constant productivity from ourselves but don't apply the same standards to nature
  • There are natural seasons for growth, rest, and transformation
  • The eating disorder thrives when you're depleted and exhausted
  • Rest and self-nurturing create the conditions for healing
What It Means to "Water Yourself"
  • Providing consistent, adequate nourishment without food rules
  • Hydration—both literal and metaphorical waters of connection
  • Exposure to things that bring joy and remind you who you are
  • Rest periods where you're simply being, not producing
The RAIN Method Breakdown
  1. Recognize what's happening in the moment without judgment
    • Notice triggers, urges, thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations
    • Name what you're experiencing to create space between you and the experience
  2. Allow the experience to be there without trying to fix or change it
    • Stop fighting against difficult emotions or thoughts
    • Break the cycle of shame by acknowledging "this is what's happening right now"
  3. Investigate with kindness and curiosity
    • Ask gentle questions: "What triggered this?" "What am I really needing?"
    • Notice where you feel sensations in your body
    • Identify the stories you're telling yourself
  4. Nurture yourself with self-compassion
    • Offer yourself what you truly need in the moment
    • Speak to yourself as you would to a dear fri
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