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I always say that my mother tongue was writing and reading.
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When I discovered that Christianity is really rooted into God's revelation in scripture, I realized that Christianity is not like a blind faith, it's a reading faith.
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So for me to process my condition has always been through reading scripture.
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Autism or autism spectrum disorder is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects how individuals communicate, interact socially and process information.
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It is called a spectrum disorder because it varies wildly in severity and presentation with some individuals requiring significant support while others live independently.
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Common traits of autism include differences in social communication, repetitive behaviours, intense hyper focus on specific interests, and sensitivity to sensory input.
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Christian perspectives on autism vary widely, with some viewing as a part of God's unique design for individuals, emphasizing love, inclusion, and support, while others may see it as a challenge to be overcome through faith and prayer.
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You are listening to the Lost Son Movement podcast.
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This Lost Son Movement production is part of a wider initiative dedicated to sharing testimonies of God's work across the world for every believer.
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And this is a story about autism and faith.
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The voice you heard earlier was Maina Mora.
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Well, to be honest, it was actually Vivian.
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Ila Cruz, who's kindly translating minor during this episode.
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Minor is an author bible translator and a champion of understanding autism and faith, and this is his story.
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Um, hello, my name is Manor Mora.
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It a pleasure for me just to be here with you.
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It was a surprise for me, uh, just to be asked to share about, um, what God has been doing in my life and what he's doing here in this side of the world, Latin America.
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I am from Costa Rica, and 18 years ago, I gave my life to the Lord in my town in Costa Rica called Palmares.
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My story has a lot to do about with God's sense of humor, because my first profession was industrial engineering, because I love processing, but I didn't feel well suited, like, to create.
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To be in constant interaction, uh, with people.
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Two years after becoming a believer, I got obsessed with reading the Bible.
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I read the Bible five times in two years, so I got, because of that, I got interested in linguistics and Bible translation.
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And 10 years after becoming a Christian, I started to work in Bible translation in Equatorial Guinea.
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What I didn't know.
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Um, at that time, I didn't know that at that time that there was a reason why I just love reading and processing.
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And the biggest challenge I have had always is relating to people.
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When my son was four years old, We discovered that my son is autistic, and at that point, the person who was doing the evaluation, uh, evaluating my son, autism usually is a genetic disorder, so we went for a diagnosis, and at the place where we were doing this, uh, this study, the doctor also said, I think your daughter is also autistic, I think we need to, you need to consider, uh, evaluating Yourself as parents, like a very significant trade for autistic people is that they love processes and they have, they struggle relating to people.
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I wonder, he's describing me.
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It made so much sense.
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It's been four years that I know that I'm also in the spectrum.
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I spent seven years in Equatorial Guinea and now we have been three years in Oaxaca, Mexico.
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Right now I work in virtual learning, training, uh, mother tongue translators, and I am also a viable translation consultant.
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And with some friends, besides the ministry that I just mentioned, um, I have a ministry with some friends from Chile that is called Autism and Faith.
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And in that ministry, we just work alongside families that have People, members who are in the spectrum, and it's interesting autism and faith.
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This ministry will also be three years old in a way.
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And it started when we came here, right now we are walking alongside 70 people in the autistic spectrum.
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And we just try to integrate their faith to their type within the neurodiversity spectrum.
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I cannot even begin to imagine what it's like for a parent to receive a diagnosis like this for one's child, let alone both children.
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But on top of that, Minor was also challenged to get himself tested.
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I was curious to know how Minor responded and how that one moment This is a very interesting question for me.
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My first reaction was, uh, denial.
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Uh, I remember at that time I was just really struggling with the idea about what psychology could do, uh, to help us.
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So, when we received the diagnosis, I just mentally, I just decided, no, I oppose the idea of receiving help that way.
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I didn't say before, but my wife, um, is a psychologist in a way.
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She works through training, uh, psycho, uh, the, the department, um, psychology that relates with education and training, but she had worked a lot with autistic children before.
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So as soon as she heard the diagnosis, she started to cry.
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So.
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At that point, we had three people diagnosed as autistic and a woman crying all in the same room.
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And when we left that room, I started to talk with her and I was saying, I don't think Lucas, uh, my son is autistic because he, he's just, he was just, he's just like I was.
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When I had his age, and I consider myself a very normal kid, and one of the things that just really took us to see this doctor is that he used to bang his head against me, and he didn't talk, and I told my wife, that's just normal.
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I started to talk when I was eight years old.
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I learned to read on my own when I was six, but only when I was I started to talk and when I was frustrated, I used to also bang my head against the wall.
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So I think that's just very common among kids.
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I was in total denial, but then my wife started to read and read and read.
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She started to take all kinds of courses online and I didn't want to know anything about it.
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The psychologist gave us a little book.
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And she read it in a week, my wife, and she told me, I really think you need to read this book.
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So I started to read the book.
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And I, I don't remember reading a book that was just so hopeless.
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The mom, uh, the mom in this book was just sharing about all the challenges she had with her son, to the point that they actually extract teeth.
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Uh, from the, from the child, because he used to bite himself all the time.
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I don't want to do that to my son.
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And I just could not see any trait of gospel or hope in that book.
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And I was just wondering, how can I embrace my condition and my son's condition, if there's no trace of the gospel in this situation? And many months passed by, and COVID hit, and we just could not leave the house.
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And God brought some Chilean friends to my life at that point, and they began to walk with us in the process of accepting our reality.
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And throughout different sessions and times together, they just help us just to discover the beauty of God's creativity in neurodiversity.
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And after one of these sessions, one of my friends asked if I just would consider doing a test online.
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So yeah, yeah, yeah, probably one day I will do it.
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And that night in the evening, I just sit in the bathroom with my computer, and I started to answer the questions that the test, the test.
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The first result was 98 percent probability that I was in the spectrum.
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Like, these tests are not reliable.
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I closed the computer and I told my wife, no, I don't really think I'm ready to do this kind of test.
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Three months later, I did the test again.
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I was just really hoping that this time it would just show that I was not autistic.
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99 percent probability that I was autistic.
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So with this test right in front of me, I told my wife that I was really considering now that I was in the spectrum.
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And for me, that was just like to realize that the gospel is God's peace.
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We have heard that through the sacrifice of Jesus, we have peace with the Father.
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We have also, we just can also listen to Jesus words and, and see.
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See that through the gospel, we can also have peace with other people.
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But something that I didn't understand until then is that the gospel also puts me at peace with myself.
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God made me autistic for his glory, and so that I can get to know him in a very different way.
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So I think this is how I will describe my process.
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To be completely honest, I was ever so slightly confused by one thing Minor shared.
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I can understand that it seems normal to him as a child to bang his head against a wall, but surely his parents must have understood that children shouldn't behave like this.
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So I wanted to know how they responded to his diagnosis.
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Mayno's answer shows once again that not all cultures deal with health issues in the same way.
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Maybe I also need to say that in Costa Rica, uh, there are many stereotypes or stigma around autism, even today.
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My mom passed away five years before we found out about my diagnosis.
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But I'm, I'm really sure that she knew that I was somehow different from my siblings.
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For example, I still remember I have that image of just seeing her, like, not really aware that I could actually understand.
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So just imagine about a six years old with a letter for his mom when she has never heard him talk.
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So I'm sure that she knew that I was different about my dad.
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This story is really different because years later my dad realized that he is autistic.
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His first impression was, um, I don't think you are autistic, but as the more he learned about it, he said, I just have no doubt anymore that you're autistic and that I am autistic.
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Regarding my siblings, the more they also learn about it, the more they will just make sense of the differences that we have as we were growing up.
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I remember talking with my My friends about this topic, I was so afraid and so ashamed of talking with them about it.
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The friend who shared about Jesus with me while we were at university, he's the first one I asked.
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I asked him, you know, I think, uh, I'm just, I'm really considering that I might be in the spectrum and I wanted to ask you if you think you have seen or noticed something different about me.
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And I, he told me, I'm going to save you a lot of money.
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We have always thought, we always knew you were the different one.
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The only one who is not really sure about it is you.
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But to talk about this in church was very complicated.
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This was the youth group pastor at the time.
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And Latin America, we have this expectation or stereotype that the pastors always know they have everything under control and everything is fine with them.
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And I was just thinking, if I just tell them that I'm in the spectrum, I don't really know how.
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People will just react, and that was the case in some instances.
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Some people just, just went away, but I was just then surprised when then suddenly more people started to learn more about that, about autism.
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And we started to have a closer relationship with these people.
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Yeah, it opened like a really wonderful door that is called being vulnerable.
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At that point, I didn't really know what it implies to be an autistic person.
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I had more questions than answers.
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But the people who love me and really appreciate me, they just really saw this as like a bridge that was established between them and us.
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I don't need to have all the answers, I don't need to know it all, and that's okay.
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I think my life has just been in a way like an instrument for them, just to remind them the importance of knowing yourself so you then can know God better.
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It must be an absolutely life changing moment when one finds out that all the things that that person had been considering normal for decades turn out to be abnormal.
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In a sense, it turns your life and the way you think about yourself upside down.
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I always say that my mother tongue was writing and reading.
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When I discovered that Christianity is really rooted into God's revelation in Scripture, I realized that Christianity is not like a blind faith, it's a reading faith.
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So for me to process my condition has always been through reading Scripture.
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So I started to write notes, uh, throughout the process about what I was discovering about myself and what I was discovering about God.
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A key moment for me was to be able to meet this couple from Chile.
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Just go there and meet them for the first time in person after they have been working with me online.
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Uh, one day we were just around the table and then we started to talk about faith.
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Just asking really.
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Fundamental key questions.
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How much do I actually know God for what I see in his word and how much I just have learned just because I have been trying to fit in within the church.
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And there was just like this snowball of questions coming, getting more and more about this, this idea.
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One of the characteristics of autistic people, at least in my case, is when I just find something is fixation.
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When I just find something I'm really interested about, I just start talking about it nonstop and I just can't share like.
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It's so much information that it can be overwhelming for the people around me with my wife at home.
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We just have what we call this sacred minute.
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I call it the segment of no one asked me, but anyway, I will just share about it.
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And at that moment with my friends, I had one of these sacred minute moments where No one asked me about this, but I'm going to share about it anyway.
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And suddenly I started just to make sense of different situations in my life.
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Um, and I shared about them in the conversation with them and the friend that the wife of this couple, this friend, she said, you know, I think you should really consider writing this down, what you are just sharing now.
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And I told her, yeah, I'm probably, I will do it one day.
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The next day, early morning, I began to write four or five hours.
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And the chapter that I wrote is called Autism and Faith.
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I, in that, and that chapter, I just summarized what it was for me to get to know the Lord and to live in a community of faith.
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And I suddenly realized, I just feel like naked in front of this page.
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It was just like, we see my life on this paper.
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And now we're just waiting for my wife to wake up.
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50 pages of my life and for me, I think this was just really key to be able just to write about this.
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It's the only way I just can find that I just can process something and when I can process that way then I can assimilate what I'm writing about.
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My wife started to read it and I remember that we just both started to cry.
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And I remember she said, this is like very personal.
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And I think maybe you should just, you should share it with the people who are very important or significant for you.
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And then I asked myself, what are people going to, what are they going to think of me? And I would just, I'm sharing really a lot of personal information here.
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So I was really nervous, um, at that point, just considering sharing it with my pastor.
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But I sent it to him and I kept waiting in WhatsApp just to see if he had seen it.
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He said, what is he going to think of me? And I remember his answer, his reply was, uh, this looks like the first chapter of a book.
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So I began to write the book and I wrote it in five days.
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Um, the title is Jesus, the Samaritan woman and autism.
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And I think this book was what really helped me to close this cycle of accepting who I am.
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At this point, I jokingly mentioned that if he's written his first book in five days only, Then I had to assume that he's now got about 5, 000 publications.
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It's something interesting, it's called hyperfocus, another characteristic in some autistic people.
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I assumed that everyone had that.
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I remember when I started to learn Hebrew, I just did it every day, morning, afternoon, even throughout five years.
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She told me it's not normal.
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I started to read it happened as well with, uh, I started to study revelations for my master's degree.
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When I was writing the book, I asked my wife for permission to, I asked her for permission just to be present and I physically present, but mentally absent only five days, but I was asking for, I have studied already carefully.
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Just the story between the Samaritan woman and Jesus.
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But to be able to, to write about it, it was just like therapy.
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It's a time when I just found how my story and her story just connected.
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What I wanted to do with this book is was just to share with people something very different from what I received in that very first book I received, uh, when my son was diagnosed.
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In that first book, there were just these keywords coming over and over, deficit.
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Uh, limitations, weaknesses, challenges, disorder.
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But I wanted to talk about autism in a different way.
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I wanted to talk about grace.
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I wanted to talk about love, acceptance, creativity, neurodiversity, and building bridges of love.
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And after five days, I finished.
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sharing about my story.
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But really, there are three stories within the book.
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First, I talk about my experience as a missionary in Africa, sharing the story about Jesus and the Samaritan woman.
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But I also talk about, um, the glory of God and the way how he created so much diversity among people.
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And when I finished the book, I also, I shared the book with my wife and my friends from autism and faith.
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And that was about the time when we were coming to Mexico to serve in Bible translation.
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I didn't have a lot of money to print these books.
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And I said, well, I would just check with Christian publishing companies to see if they will, they're willing to help.
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I asked seven different companies.
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One of them told me you need to have at least 5, 000 followers in Instagram.
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He said, I think I have four.
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So they said that wasn't enough.
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All the other ones also said no for different reasons, and one of them actually told me this is about autism and disability that that's not that doesn't sell at all.
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If you will have something more about personal growth or development, maybe you will have more an opportunity.
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At that point, I said, well, maybe probably no one will just be able to read this after all.
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But then one friend told me, have you considered just trying it, Amazon, to do it through Amazon? I said, okay, I'll just give it a try.
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Amazon told me I needed the ISBN number from Costa Rica.
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He said, we were already in Mexico.
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We were not even there anymore.
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And I know there is bureaucracy everywhere, but in Latin America, it's something else.
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So I sent an email to the National Library.
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My country and they told me three things is expensive.
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It will take a long time and we need to read the book first.
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I was really discouraged by that, but I sent the book anyway.
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We had a very liberal government at the time.
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And the title of the book is Jesus, the Samaritan woman and autism.
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So five days later, they actually, uh, sent an email.
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They read the book and the employees of the library decided among themselves.
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to pay so I could have the ISBN.
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And I, then I realized God really wants this project to come, uh, to be able to be shared this with the world.
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And one day we did a live on Facebook with our friends from autism and faith.
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Those who were just with us in the process of accepting my diagnostic, we were only four people at the live episode on Facebook, the two of them and my wife.
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No publicity, nothing.
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And we just talk about the book.
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And suddenly at the point where we were just sharing, we have thousand people connected, but I was even still thinking, well, one thing is to have thousand people watching, but other thing is just to sell one book three weeks after this, uh, live Amazon sent me an email.
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I really thought it was a problem with it, or there's a problem with the cover or just telling me, you know what? We, we, we cannot really do something about this book.
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And the email was just to tell me that it was the most sold book in those weeks in Amazon in Spanish.
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But for me, really, what really impacted me was not how many books were sold, but it was really the fact that there were people who have never been in a Christian church before that they were writing.
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But they started to read the book because it's the title had autism on it.
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And they ended up meeting Jesus as their savior.
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We heard.
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Pastors who have children who are autistic, who are really embarrassed and ashamed and didn't want people in their churches to know that their child was autistic.
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And these pastors to receive emails from them saying, there's no, we don't have to be ashamed of this anymore.
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My son is autistic for God's glory.
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When I started to write the book, I did it thinking that my son will probably read it, maybe 15 years later.
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And I just really saw it as a legacy for my.
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But I discovered that God's plans are always bigger.
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For anyone who hasn't read Minor's book yet, I don't think this is too much of a spoiler.
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Prior to my conversation with Minor, I also wasn't aware of his book and I was still able to enjoy every single bit of it.
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Perhaps even more so after hearing the answer to a question I had after what he just shared.
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How have you seen God's glory revealed through your autism? For me, it has just been wonderful to take off this weight of prejudice off my shoulders.
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I have friends who, when they get to know me more, they say, you don't really look like autist.
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I know that very deep inside, they just want to be kind.
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They try to be kind when they say that.
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And they think most of autistic people are like Sheldon Cooper.
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And there is a lot to do about trying to change these stereotypes.
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I think I can say that I can see God's glory, uh, in me through strengths and weaknesses.
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I will just divide it that way.
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I think the autistic mind has this strength in being able just to look at details in a very special way, to be able to go very deep in a topic.
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So I remember when I was in the process of trying to become a certified as a translation consultant, I remember that after a year, Uh, working on this, I remember that I managed to do consulting work in 400 chapters of the Bible in 400 hours.
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And someone asked me, why did you do all this work? And for me, it was fun.
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So I think there are some strengths that we have.
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But at the same time, I don't want to give this romantic view of autism.
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We do have challenges.
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And, and it's the condition that sometimes is just really debilitating.
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It just really limitates, uh, limits how, what you can do.
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I can revise, uh, or check, consultant checks 400 chapters of scripture in one year, but I will never be able to meet 400 new people in a year.
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Sometimes when I have like a very complex or difficult conversation, I need the week to recover from that.
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I have like serious challenges with Alexithymia, not all autistic people have it, but I do have it.
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I have, and this has to do with having a challenge.
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It's challenge, it's hard for me to recognize or acknowledge my own emotions and other people's emotions.
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around me.
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And I just remember at times when I was doing counseling with my wife and with other people and we were just sharing and I would just say something like in a very direct way somewhat.
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I'm really good at telling other people what they need to do or not.
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And the person who was receiving the counseling was crying.
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And I thought that if she's crying, I'm doing a good job.
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And I remember later talking with my wife about it and I was really happy.
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Did you see she was crying? And my wife was Really kind.
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She told me, um, I don't really think it's a good idea to make people cry every time.
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So we do have challenges as we really, um, the biggest challenge I see with autism is that, for example, if someone in a wheelchair wants to go to church, we see they're coming in a wheelchair and we just put a ramp or something so they can go into church.
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We know that the ramp will make it easier for them to go into the temple.
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It's just a reasonable thing to do.
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The challenge that we have with autism is that you cannot see it.
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So therefore the adjustments that we actually need as autistic people are not necessarily visible for other people.
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So we have strengths and we also have weaknesses, but in both areas I have seen God's glory.
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In my needs, in my weaknesses, and in times when I need to adjust things.
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I have seen how people then can acknowledge their own weaknesses.
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As I do it, I see how other people then start doing.
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Now, this made me wonder.
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More and more churches are becoming aware of the fact that they are actually excluding people just by the way their facilities are set up.
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And so they aspire to be, for example, more wheelchair accessible.
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But what about autistic people? Is there anything churches and other ministries can do to be more welcoming to those with autism? I'm, I just love Jesus.
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I just love the stories or the encounters of Jesus with people and how he just built bridges.
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to, to relate to them.
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Jesus doesn't engage Peter in the same way he engaged the Samaritan woman.
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Jesus doesn't talk with Bartimaeus the same way he does with Simon.
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Actually, even as Jesus engages with different women, we can see in the stories that he, he doesn't even do it the same way with all of them.
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I have been invited to different events where people ask me the question you just asked.
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What are the 10 things I need to know, uh, how I can engage or relate to autistic people? As if we will just come with a new sermon one.
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When people ask me, give me like five strategies to, to make possible that autistic people will come to church.
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It's true that there are certain characteristics that we all autistic people share or have in common.
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Nevertheless, I think it's important to say that we have different needs.
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Something that I really like about Jesus and the Samaritan woman is not that Jesus doesn't have a monologue with her, there is a dialogue.
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He lets her just share.
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He wants to listen to her concerns.
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He wants to know what she thinks of God, what she believes.
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He wants to know how she relates to God.
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To the people around her and even ask her about politics.
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For me, something that is really key is to be able to understand the person with all the things that make him who he is.
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So something that I can share with the church is that Jesus brought us to church already.
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Autistic people don't come from Mars, not from a lab, not from TV series.
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If it's estimated that 33 percent of the whole world population is within the spectrum, we could probably think that 33%.
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of the church population is also within the spectrum.
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Christ brought us, uh, to, he attracted us to himself already.
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I, what I really think is that good information with good intentions, it will give us true inclusion.
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Bad information with good intentions will only build a wall.
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So it will be important to get good information about this.
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We should listen to autistic people, adults.
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For us, it was a challenge.
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For example, in Facebook, we have a group for Christian autistic people, and we listened to them and we asked What has been your experience in church as an autistic person? And we have heard really painful things, very challenging situations, but it's really important that we listen to this, uh, kind of, uh, critical, constructive criticism to get to know the person as a person and their stories.
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It's like a certain kind of confrontation.
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Something that we really need to be aware of.
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God is not calling us to be the shepherds or the pastors of institutions or organizations.
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He's calling us to be the shepherds or the pastors of people with real needs.
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And we are called to evaluate and, uh, our traditions and institutions.
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Are we really examples of true inclusion of real inclusion? Do we know what it implies to be autistic for someone? Are we really willing to believe that there is God's glory? in diversity.
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Are we willing to let God confront our prejudices and preconceptions? I really think in the long run it's worth it because in very mysterious ways God is just expanding his kingdom among people in the spectrum and we want to be part of what God is doing.
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What I can tell you is that God is extending his kingdom in ways that we never ever thought possible.
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I think pretty every week.
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Since maybe like three years ago, we have seen how people are just making peace with themselves.
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We're just coming to terms with who they are.
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One of the examples that just stay in my mind about is someone in a church in Latin America who have not talked with his son for seven years, every time they talk, they will just end up in an argument.
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He, he was already suspected that he's autistic, but he's 64 years old.
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His wife bought my book and forced him to read.
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Like my wife with me at the beginning, and he read the book in one day.
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And after seven years, he decided he could just contact his son again.
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And for me, it was a beautiful testimony because I could really see how a bridge of love was built among them.
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And the son then confessed to his dad that he was less autistic, but he didn't know how to tell his dad.
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So that's what I just say, that I think God is expanding his kingdom among people.
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Uh, we are in the spectrum in a very non traditional ways.
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I mean, just thinking about these women who pay for the ISBN.
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So I just could publish the book to be invited to places where there are no believers.
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I have been able to talk with people who are really, uh, uh, trying to champion for autism or autistic people, but they want nothing to do with God.
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And they invite me to talk about how Jesus approached Samaritan.
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I have been invited in this last year to more non Christian events than Christian.
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People who, because they are autistic, declare themselves on social media as anti God and anti faith.
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They're writing and asking, how can you actually connect faith and autism? God keeps working in mysterious ways, in us, through us, and in spite of us.
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I could hear Maynard talking about autism and his faith and God's glory for hours.
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And as it so happens, Maynard works for a ministry called Autism and Faith.
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And so I wanted to learn more about that as well.
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Autism and faith is this ministry that we have with my wife and this other couple from Chile.
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One of the key aspects of our ministry is just sharing about autism.
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We meet once per month and talk about different, uh, specific aspects of autism.
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For example, this month we will be talking about how do we just express friendship according to what scripture says.
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and how autistic people express friendship.
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We listen to the community that we already have and try to talk about the topics that they bring up or suggest.
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But most of the time that we spend with people is just walking alongside with them.
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Many of the people that we work with are just coming because they want to know, they want to learn how can I just support my son or my daughter in the diagnosis and we just support the families in those initial stages.
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In the case of my wife and I, we are spending now more and more time with couples.
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One of them is autistic, so we support them with counseling.
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I didn't share about this, but I'm also doing a master's degree in biblical counseling at a theological seminary.
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So I was just practicing a lot, and it's really interesting, actually.
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I will tell you how I came into that master's degree.
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There was a professor who was reading a book.
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He was reading my Norse book, and then he says, Oh, I will just recommend you for this program.
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But he didn't tell me which college or seminary, which program.
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Nothing says, I will just write a recommendation for you.
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And then from this seminary, they wrote, says they wanted to talk with me and they offered me a scholarship.
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And even with the scholarship, I could not afford what I was supposed to pay.
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And then they told me that the financial partner had a son who committed suicide.
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He was autistic, so there was a certain key interest and that someone will get trained to be able to offer counseling, um, for autistic people within the church.
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So that's how I came into the program.
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So we support couples, marriages, people who just got their diagnosis.
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And we also support people who have suffered a certain kind of, a level of trauma.
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And it's been really wonderful, to be honest.
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Because part of our ministry is also just to offer and share tools with the church.
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So we have been working alongside some churches who would like to talk about autism, not only at the childhood level, but also in general for the church.
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As always, there is so much more to say.
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Autism is such a broad topic and it's talked about so little.
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Especially among Christians.
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And so to finish it off, I asked Maynard to share something that's on his heart and then how the global church should be praying.
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I would like to ask a question, but also take advantage of the opportunity just to offer an invitation.
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The invitation is that we just join.
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God in what he is doing.
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I really respect, I have an awful respect for God's church.
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I don't want to join those who are just usually rebuking, uh, or complaining.
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I have heard from many different pastors that are kind of afraid of talking about neurodiversity.
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Sometimes we don't have the tools.
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We don't have the right people that we can ask about it.
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But the reality is that God is already bringing Neurodiverse people to our churches every day.
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Let us not be afraid of looking at the gospel through other lenses.
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Autism goes beyond any generation, ages, ethnicity, and social positions.
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This is a global issue, but we have a great opportunity to be part of what God is doing to extend his kingdom.
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That's just really what is just very deep in my heart that I would like to share with you.
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We are just in the critical, uh, stage as human beings, but it's a great opportunity as well.
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We have an incredible message and in the body of Christ, there is place for everyone.
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I usually write my prayers.
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Um, one of the first prayers I remember I wrote during this initial stages of the diagnosis is the following one.
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Lord, help me to walk with.
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That one, the one who is different.
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Help me to appreciate your creativity in the way you have created the other.
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May I build today a bridge of love and not a wall of prejudice.
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I don't want to see the other through the lens of deficit.
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Let me see the other through the lens of Christ.
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I'm not going to tell you how the book ends, but I would like to give you a heads up that at the end of the book, I shared about the things that I saw in common between Jesus and the Samaritan woman.
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At the beginning, when I started to write the book, I saw myself, uh, as a person besides Jesus and my son, I saw my son besides the Samaritan woman.
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My first thought was, how can I just reach out to that, to my son and the same way Jesus was trying to reach out to that woman and just bring them over to my side, to where I was with Jesus.
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But I found something way more beautiful than that.
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Jesus doesn't engage the Samaritan woman just to bring her over to his side, so to speak.
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They have things in common.
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And with their differences, they create something completely Something bigger than the kingdom or the, of the Samaritans or the Jews, they are creating a third culture, the culture of the kingdom.
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I never thought that I have so many things in common with my son.
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And I started to see him as I just pray in this prayer.
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So as a creative masterpiece of God.
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Not through the lenses of what he's missing or what he doesn't have, but throughout the how valuable, I started to think about how valuable and special God made him.
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And I really hope that this prayer will just be a blessing for the global church.
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May we just be able to walk with those who are different so we together can create something completely new.
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You have listened to the God on the Move podcast, which is part of the Lausanne Movement's wider God on the Move initiative, where we want to share inspiring God stories from the global church, with the global church.
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Through listening to what God is doing all around the world, We hope to encourage and challenge the global church to faithful obedience to the Great Commission.
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From now on, we will be releasing the God on the Move podcast episodes only bi weekly, with episodes from the Lausanne Movement podcast being published in the weeks between.
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Our bonus episode next week is the Lausanne Movement podcast's interview with Dr.
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Susan Greener.
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We really hope you enjoy.