When the role that once fit like a second skin begins to suffocate, what do you do? For Duncan Robinson, it meant stepping away. No scandal. No collapse. Just honesty and courage to say, “I need to sit down and be fed.”
That decision took him from church staff to radio hosting, from the pulpit to row three, and eventually back into ministry with a new clarity.
Along the way, he discovered how to face failure without fear, how to detach identity from role, and why bi-vocational rhythms might be the healthiest way forward for pastors.
If you’re navigating transition - or helping someone who is - this conversation offers language and hope for what comes next.
Key Takeaways
- Identity is received in Christ, not earned by a role
- Failure roars like a lion but shrinks when faced
- Grace isn’t tidy - it meets you in real time
- Bi-vocational ministry mirrors the lives of congregants
- Pastoral skills translate beyond the pulpit
- Churches can pilot one day of outside work for healthier staff
- The wilderness is where God grows clarity and love
Chapter Markers
- 00:00 Welcome and setup
- 05:15 From Phoenix growth to Australian valley
- 08:30 Radio hosting and a father’s death
- 10:56 Untangling identity from role
- 15:45 A year of silence and being fed
- 21:05 What “pastor” really means
- 24:50 Transferable skills pastors overlook
- 29:20 Why bi-vocational makes sense
- 40:10 Real-time grace at the speed of Jesus
- 45:10 Closing
If you’re a pastor or ministry leader facing transition - or walking with someone who is - you don’t have to do it alone. Visit ministrytransitions.com to explore coaching, confidential conversations, and resources designed to help you protect people, preserve purpose, and plan what’s next with wisdom and grace.
To connect with Duncan Robinson, visit DuncanRobinson.net for links to his projects, speaking, and his book Full Phoenix Rising: Real-Time Grace at the Speed of Jesus - a raw and redemptive look at failure, faith, and finding your way back when everything falls apart. You can also find Full Phoenix Rising on Amazon, Target, Walmart, and other major retailers.
If this conversation encouraged you, share the episode with a friend who might need to hear that stepping out of ministry doesn’t mean stepping out of God’s calling - it might just mean walking it out differently.
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