This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed speak with John Schindel, a mortgage loan officer at Bay Equity. They discuss the importance of getting pre-approved before starting the home buying process and the common hurdles that buyers face. John shares why having a long-term financial plan and working with a financial planner to align homebuying goals with overall financial goals is valuable. He also explains the difference between a soft pull and a hard pull on credit and advises against making any major financial changes, such as quitting a job or taking on new debt, during the home buying process.
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[01:58] Importance of getting pre-approved before house shopping
[05:57] Biggest hurdle with buyers: meeting them after making offers
[10:53] Loan estimate and comparing lenders' costs
[12:44] Starting with a trusted lender before shopping rates
[14:19] The break-even point and the opportunity to refinance
[21:34] Considering the quality of life when determining budget
[25:32] Difference between hard pull and soft pull for credit checks
[28:08] Top three things not to do when getting ready to buy a house
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