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July 29, 2025 17 mins

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In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the often confusing distinction between true healing and mere avoidance, especially following a traumatic experience. They discuss how trauma can make it difficult to distinguish between setting healthy boundaries and erecting 'trauma walls.' Key differences between healthy boundaries and avoidance behaviors are outlined, and the importance of self-reflection, clear communication, and emotional presence is emphasized. Reflection questions and actionable steps, including seeking therapy, are provided to help listeners move from avoidance to genuine healing and establish boundaries that foster both protection and connection. 00:00 Introduction to Healing vs. Avoidance 01:19 Understanding the Blurred Lines 02:13 Healthy Boundaries vs. Trauma Walls 08:35 Reflection Questions for Self-Assessment 13:41 Steps to Move from Avoidance to Healing 17:16 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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