March 5, 2024 • 14 mins
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Text MAGICCHARMSto862-292-3644Your favorite Psychic, Christine is here with another episode, delving into a topic that affects us all - how others make us feel. This episode explores our emotional responses to people in our lives, from family to romantic partners, illuminating how our interactions may inspire a variety of feelings, and providing guidance on how to thoroughly process these emotions.
In this episode, Christine highlights a critical aspect of relationships - the emotional environment they create. She shares an illuminating anecdote about a mother-daughter relationship marked by emotional manipulation, using it as a guide to dissect the dynamics of communication and expectation within relationships. Christine confronts the fallacy of love being unconditional and also addresses the more toxic sides of relationships, such as people who make you feel consistently unworthy.
Moving on to solutions, Christine asserts that negative treatment by others should never define us or govern our self-perception, instead, she insists, it is a reflection of the person inflicting the treatment, not the recipient. Christine emphasizes the importance of self-love, forgiveness and understanding as key to navigating our emotional landscapes.
Our psychic concludes with an invitation for one-on-one consultations, assuring listeners that she is eager and ready to provide personalized advice, guidance and support through life’s turbulence. Whether it’s about love, money, career or overall well-being, Christine is ready to assist you.
Join our psychic, Christine, in this episode and take a leap towards understanding your feelings better and fortifying your emotional resilience. Take away invaluable insights that you can apply to your relationships and indeed, your life. #bestpsychicreadings #psychicreadings
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(00:00):
Hey everybody, it is me, your psychic Christine.
Thank you guys so much for being here and sticking with me for as long as you have.
God bless all of you. And you guys know very well that I'm always looking forward to serving you.
And if for any reason you need to have a one-on-one consultation,
(00:22):
do not hesitate to reach out to me.
You can be in another country. You couldn't be here in the United States,
and all you have to do is send me an email or call my phone number, 855-708-2768,
or go to my website, trustedpsychicadvisor.com,
(00:47):
or just randomly search Psychic Christine Wallace in Philadelphia,
and you're going to find different ways of communicating with me.
Phone, social media.
I mean, you're going to see all of that stuff. So I also want to thank everybody
who has left me some amazing reviews on my Google page.
(01:11):
Very much appreciated. Thank you guys. That is like so awesome.
So what is this episode about? This episode is about how people make you feel.
Do you ever think about how people make you feel?
We love a lot of people in our lives.
(01:34):
Initially, it's going to be
mom and dad, and then that's going to extend outward to extended family.
Then we're going to find someone and fall in love with them,
and hopefully they're nice enough or the right person or a good person.
And, uh, it's really important to think about when you are with whoever it is
(02:01):
that you love, how do they make you feel?
Do they make you feel good? Do they make you feel wanted? Do they make you feel at home?
Are they happy to see you? Are Are they happy to be with you?
Do they smile as soon as you walk through the door? Are they happy to hear your voice when you call?
(02:21):
Do you feel loved?
Is the question. Or are you in a relationship with someone, whether it be a
romantic partner, a friend, or even a family member, sadly,
even a parent that makes you feel not good about yourself?
(02:46):
Self. You know, someone reached out to me the other day and was telling me that
she was having an issue with her mom.
Her mom has narcissistic personality disorder.
And she told me that her Her mom makes her feel untrustworthy.
(03:09):
Her mom makes her feel like she has to prove herself in the relationship,
to prove that she's trustworthy,
to prove that she's worth her time, to prove that she's deserving of a good mother.
(03:31):
You know, the problem is, I'll use that situation as a guide to help you understand the point.
So, this person's mom, there's no hoops to jump.
There's no winning this person's love, this mother's love. This mother only
(03:58):
does what she feels like doing.
There have been times that this mom to this girl...
Has done stuff for her, you know, shopping and this and that.
Sometimes it feels like really good, but the little bit of good that she's getting
(04:21):
out of it is not worth how this is making her feel for the most part.
Like I said, makes her feel untrustworthy, makes her feel like a A criminal
sometimes makes her, and she hasn't done anything to bring,
(04:43):
to make her mother treat her that way.
You know, it's not like she's ever stolen anything from her mom.
It's not like she's ever taken advantage of her mom.
It's not like she was a rebellious adult or child.
It was always about trying to please her mom and winning her approval.
(05:05):
Because that is what her mom had led her to believe,
whether consciously or subconsciously, because the truth is,
the real truth is, now brace yourself for this, the mom has a hard time admitting the truth.
(05:31):
Because the truth is not a good truth.
It's a bad truth, and it's a negative reflection on her,
which is, I only do what I want to do, and if I don't want to play the mother
(05:53):
role today, I'm not going to do it.
But like i said that sounds bad because
we have to be a mother like 24 7 we
don't get the option of no i'm not playing mom today that's normal but being
that this person has like a narcissistic personality disorder they're very self-serving
(06:20):
people you know they don't make the the best parents, sadly.
But what does that have to do with anything else?
That also speaks to your love life.
Are you with a partner currently that makes you feel unworthy?
(06:41):
Are you with a partner that is making you feel like you need to jump hoops,
or that the love is there,
only they're not giving it to you because you haven't done anything to deserve that.
(07:03):
That's not good. That's not a good foundation.
Is there a give and take in a relationship?
Is love conditional? If there are conditions in love, does that mean it's not real?
Well, at the end of the day, we're all human beings.
(07:29):
And the truth of the matter is that, yeah, there are some conditions to love.
Well, let's say I can love you, but if I'm being treated badly by you,
I will distance myself from you.
(07:49):
While I still may feel love in my heart, I refuse to allow you to treat me badly.
So at the end of the day, that is a condition.
You know, because you'll lose me if you treat me badly.
So, you know, love does have certain conditions.
(08:12):
It's just, it's a reality, okay, of the way it really is.
And it's a fair condition, you know, that's not a bad condition.
So that's okay. But like I said, I'm not going to love you if you don't buy me this car,
or I'm not going to love you if you don't jump certain hoops and give me what I want.
(08:38):
That's not real love. That's not really what love looks like.
So I'm sharing this with you, my listeners, and don't forget how we began.
When you are with with people, people that you love, people that you care for,
(08:59):
potential romantic partner.
It's important for you if you are in a troubled relationship or something like
that, you need to think about how you feel when you are with this person.
Because if you're feeling bad bad whenever you're with this person,
(09:19):
whoever that may be, then you're going to have to take a step back and reevaluate this situation.
Because if it's making you feel bad, I mean, do you want to get into a committed
relationship with someone that's always going to make you feel like you're not enough?
(09:43):
But at the end of the day, that is not because you have the problem. them.
That is someone that is projecting whatever they are onto you.
I hope I'm making this easy enough to follow.
(10:04):
I'll try to elaborate a little more.
Like I said, when we use the mom of a client of mine earlier,
like I said, the mom, the answer was she simply didn't feel like it.
But rather than admit the truth, she made the daughter feel like,
(10:30):
I have all of what it is that you're looking for.
I choose not to give it to you because there's something that you're not doing
for me, which at the end of the day is in fact not true.
And that could very easily apply to whoever it is that you're dealing with as well.
(10:56):
So my point is this, don't take negative treatment upon yourself.
If someone is treating you badly or negatively or treating you in a way that
you don't deserve to be treated.
That has nothing to do with you. That is only speaking to the person that is doing that.
(11:18):
That's a reflection of their character, not yours.
So, you know, I, there's a saying, and I don't remember exactly how it goes,
but I'm sure that many of you that that are listening, know what saying I'm talking about.
It's not this, that, and the other. People will not forget this, that.
(11:42):
You're always going to remember how they make you feel.
People throw out a lot of this stuff, like I mentioned before,
but they lack elaborating on the meaning of this stuff, like self-love.
I've mentioned that a few times in these episodes. episodes,
many of us know that we're supposed to have it, but we don't necessarily know how to go about it.
(12:12):
We're not really clear on it.
And I guess I'm going to bring that up again. Stop subjecting yourself to treatment,
negative treatment that you don't deserve.
Trust your feelings. If you don't feel like you deserve it, you probably don't.
And self-love, and I'm sorry about all the oohs and the aahs.
(12:37):
I'm not supposed to be doing that on a professional podcast.
One of these days I'm going to get more pro in this stuff.
There I go again. So what I'm trying to say here is self-love is not subjecting
yourself like that, protecting yourself, doing a better job with protecting yourself, obviously.
(13:00):
And forgiving yourself.
Try to be fair with yourself because you're going to have to,
there's one person that you can't get rid of and that's you.
You're going to have to live with yourself for a really long time.
So I think it's super important for you to have a better relationship with yourself.
(13:22):
Forgive yourself, be fair to yourself, give yourself the benefit of the doubt
out. You know, if you're not going to be treating yourself a little better than
you treat other people, at least do it equal.
At least treat yourself as well as you treat others. Thank you so much for being
(13:42):
here. I'm your psychic, Christine Wallace.
If you want to have a one-on-one session with me, that's great. 855-708-2768.
I'm here and I'm waiting to hear from you.
One more thing I I want to say, you know, this podcast, these episodes are for
(14:04):
the general public, obviously.
A one-on-one session with me would be a completely different experience.
I'd love to talk to you. I'd love to give you one-on-one advice.
My goal is to help and to lead you and guide you with whatever troubles you
(14:24):
may be facing in your life right now, whether that be love, money, career,
your overall well-being, or if you just need to heal from some kind of past
experience that you're having trouble getting past, I'm here for you.
(14:46):
Okay. So thank you so much again. Good luck, everybody. Namaste.
Hey everybody, it is me, your psychic Christine.
Thank you guys so much for being here and sticking with me for as long as you have.
God bless all of you. And you guys know very well that I'm always looking forward to serving you.
And if for any reason you need to have a one-on-one consultation,
(00:22):
do not hesitate to reach out to me.
You can be in another country. You couldn't be here in the United States,
and all you have to do is send me an email or call my phone number, 855-708-2768,
or go to my website, trustedpsychicadvisor.com,
(00:47):
or just randomly search Psychic Christine Wallace in Philadelphia,
and you're going to find different ways of communicating with me.
Phone, social media.
I mean, you're going to see all of that stuff. So I also want to thank everybody
who has left me some amazing reviews on my Google page.
(01:11):
Very much appreciated. Thank you guys. That is like so awesome.
So what is this episode about? This episode is about how people make you feel.
Do you ever think about how people make you feel?
We love a lot of people in our lives.
(01:34):
Initially, it's going to be
mom and dad, and then that's going to extend outward to extended family.
Then we're going to find someone and fall in love with them,
and hopefully they're nice enough or the right person or a good person.
And, uh, it's really important to think about when you are with whoever it is
(02:01):
that you love, how do they make you feel?
Do they make you feel good? Do they make you feel wanted? Do they make you feel at home?
Are they happy to see you? Are Are they happy to be with you?
Do they smile as soon as you walk through the door? Are they happy to hear your voice when you call?
(02:21):
Do you feel loved?
Is the question. Or are you in a relationship with someone, whether it be a
romantic partner, a friend, or even a family member, sadly,
even a parent that makes you feel not good about yourself?
(02:46):
Self. You know, someone reached out to me the other day and was telling me that
she was having an issue with her mom.
Her mom has narcissistic personality disorder.
And she told me that her Her mom makes her feel untrustworthy.
(03:09):
Her mom makes her feel like she has to prove herself in the relationship,
to prove that she's trustworthy,
to prove that she's worth her time, to prove that she's deserving of a good mother.
(03:31):
You know, the problem is, I'll use that situation as a guide to help you understand the point.
So, this person's mom, there's no hoops to jump.
There's no winning this person's love, this mother's love. This mother only
(03:58):
does what she feels like doing.
There have been times that this mom to this girl...
Has done stuff for her, you know, shopping and this and that.
Sometimes it feels like really good, but the little bit of good that she's getting
(04:21):
out of it is not worth how this is making her feel for the most part.
Like I said, makes her feel untrustworthy, makes her feel like a A criminal
sometimes makes her, and she hasn't done anything to bring,
(04:43):
to make her mother treat her that way.
You know, it's not like she's ever stolen anything from her mom.
It's not like she's ever taken advantage of her mom.
It's not like she was a rebellious adult or child.
It was always about trying to please her mom and winning her approval.
(05:05):
Because that is what her mom had led her to believe,
whether consciously or subconsciously, because the truth is,
the real truth is, now brace yourself for this, the mom has a hard time admitting the truth.
(05:31):
Because the truth is not a good truth.
It's a bad truth, and it's a negative reflection on her,
which is, I only do what I want to do, and if I don't want to play the mother
(05:53):
role today, I'm not going to do it.
But like i said that sounds bad because
we have to be a mother like 24 7 we
don't get the option of no i'm not playing mom today that's normal but being
that this person has like a narcissistic personality disorder they're very self-serving
(06:20):
people you know they don't make the the best parents, sadly.
But what does that have to do with anything else?
That also speaks to your love life.
Are you with a partner currently that makes you feel unworthy?
(06:41):
Are you with a partner that is making you feel like you need to jump hoops,
or that the love is there,
only they're not giving it to you because you haven't done anything to deserve that.
(07:03):
That's not good. That's not a good foundation.
Is there a give and take in a relationship?
Is love conditional? If there are conditions in love, does that mean it's not real?
Well, at the end of the day, we're all human beings.
(07:29):
And the truth of the matter is that, yeah, there are some conditions to love.
Well, let's say I can love you, but if I'm being treated badly by you,
I will distance myself from you.
(07:49):
While I still may feel love in my heart, I refuse to allow you to treat me badly.
So at the end of the day, that is a condition.
You know, because you'll lose me if you treat me badly.
So, you know, love does have certain conditions.
(08:12):
It's just, it's a reality, okay, of the way it really is.
And it's a fair condition, you know, that's not a bad condition.
So that's okay. But like I said, I'm not going to love you if you don't buy me this car,
or I'm not going to love you if you don't jump certain hoops and give me what I want.
(08:38):
That's not real love. That's not really what love looks like.
So I'm sharing this with you, my listeners, and don't forget how we began.
When you are with with people, people that you love, people that you care for,
(08:59):
potential romantic partner.
It's important for you if you are in a troubled relationship or something like
that, you need to think about how you feel when you are with this person.
Because if you're feeling bad bad whenever you're with this person,
(09:19):
whoever that may be, then you're going to have to take a step back and reevaluate this situation.
Because if it's making you feel bad, I mean, do you want to get into a committed
relationship with someone that's always going to make you feel like you're not enough?
(09:43):
But at the end of the day, that is not because you have the problem. them.
That is someone that is projecting whatever they are onto you.
I hope I'm making this easy enough to follow.
(10:04):
I'll try to elaborate a little more.
Like I said, when we use the mom of a client of mine earlier,
like I said, the mom, the answer was she simply didn't feel like it.
But rather than admit the truth, she made the daughter feel like,
(10:30):
I have all of what it is that you're looking for.
I choose not to give it to you because there's something that you're not doing
for me, which at the end of the day is in fact not true.
And that could very easily apply to whoever it is that you're dealing with as well.
(10:56):
So my point is this, don't take negative treatment upon yourself.
If someone is treating you badly or negatively or treating you in a way that
you don't deserve to be treated.
That has nothing to do with you. That is only speaking to the person that is doing that.
(11:18):
That's a reflection of their character, not yours.
So, you know, I, there's a saying, and I don't remember exactly how it goes,
but I'm sure that many of you that that are listening, know what saying I'm talking about.
It's not this, that, and the other. People will not forget this, that.
(11:42):
You're always going to remember how they make you feel.
People throw out a lot of this stuff, like I mentioned before,
but they lack elaborating on the meaning of this stuff, like self-love.
I've mentioned that a few times in these episodes. episodes,
many of us know that we're supposed to have it, but we don't necessarily know how to go about it.
(12:12):
We're not really clear on it.
And I guess I'm going to bring that up again. Stop subjecting yourself to treatment,
negative treatment that you don't deserve.
Trust your feelings. If you don't feel like you deserve it, you probably don't.
And self-love, and I'm sorry about all the oohs and the aahs.
(12:37):
I'm not supposed to be doing that on a professional podcast.
One of these days I'm going to get more pro in this stuff.
There I go again. So what I'm trying to say here is self-love is not subjecting
yourself like that, protecting yourself, doing a better job with protecting yourself, obviously.
(13:00):
And forgiving yourself.
Try to be fair with yourself because you're going to have to,
there's one person that you can't get rid of and that's you.
You're going to have to live with yourself for a really long time.
So I think it's super important for you to have a better relationship with yourself.
(13:22):
Forgive yourself, be fair to yourself, give yourself the benefit of the doubt
out. You know, if you're not going to be treating yourself a little better than
you treat other people, at least do it equal.
At least treat yourself as well as you treat others. Thank you so much for being
(13:42):
here. I'm your psychic, Christine Wallace.
If you want to have a one-on-one session with me, that's great. 855-708-2768.
I'm here and I'm waiting to hear from you.
One more thing I I want to say, you know, this podcast, these episodes are for
(14:04):
the general public, obviously.
A one-on-one session with me would be a completely different experience.
I'd love to talk to you. I'd love to give you one-on-one advice.
My goal is to help and to lead you and guide you with whatever troubles you
(14:24):
may be facing in your life right now, whether that be love, money, career,
your overall well-being, or if you just need to heal from some kind of past
experience that you're having trouble getting past, I'm here for you.
(14:46):
Okay. So thank you so much again. Good luck, everybody. Namaste.
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