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May 29, 2025 48 mins

Love & Rage — What Did You Inherit and What Are You Choosing?


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How do we honor our rage without becoming who harmed us? In this episode of Rich Queer Aunties, we talk about love and rage, what we inherited, what we’re choosing instead, and how we’re learning to hold both without abandoning ourselves.

We speak as African daughters, as queer folks, as partners learning to fight fair, and as children unlearning obedience as the price of love. This conversation is honest, tender, and necessary.

We explore:

  • ​Why rage felt safer than softness in many of our homes
  • ​How rage and tenderness can coexist when we stop suppressing ourselves
  • ​The cost of performing obedience in relationships—especially with family
  • ​How we learned to channel anger into truth, not destruction
  • ​What it looks like to individuate without cutting off our roots

If you’re in the Bay Area, come be in the room with us for The Gathering on June 21. It’s a lush, intimate night of expertly made cocktails, radically honest conversation, and real community around the theme of Love and Rage.

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