Welcome to The Soft Science

Where pleasure is data, shame gets dissected, and your executive dysfunction is just another reason to question everything you've been told.

I'm Dr. Erika Miley—licensed therapist, clinical sexologist, professor, and your favorite neurodivergent bisexual MILF with a brain that won't shut up and a mouth that refuses to cooperate (ask any teacher I've ever had).

This space is for:

• The curious and the kinky
• The overstimulated and the over it
• Women over 35 who are done playing small

We're talking about sex without purity politics, trauma without making it your whole identity, and desire without a single apology.

Because here's what I know: So many of us are living in bodies that were never taught to rest, feel, or want. We're out here raising kids, running businesses, surviving late-stage capitalism, and trying to remember what turns us on besides iced coffee and morally grey book boyfriends.

The Soft Science is where we unpack all of it—your mental health, your sexual health, and everything in between. No shame, no bullshit, just research-backed real talk for women who are ready to reclaim their pleasure.

Previously known as Sex Talk with Erika Miley—now evolved, expanded, and even less filtered.

Let's get into it. 💋