You say you want to meet someone, but are you actually giving off “come talk to me” energy? In this episode, Mel and Suzie get into the mixed signals so many of us send without even realizing it. From crossed arms and dead-eye stares to hiding behind your phone, wearing headphones, and a constant scowl, we break down the little habits that might be making you look closed off, even if you're totally open to connection. It's not about blaming you—it’s about helping you notice the signals you’re giving off that could be sabotaging your dating life.
We also talk about what “looking approachable” really means in 2025. Whether you’re out at a bar, walking through the grocery store, or just existing in public, your body language and vibe matter. And if you’re ready for something real, it might be time to match your energy with your intentions.
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