What if discovering your personal style could start with something joyful instead of something stressful? In today's episode, I'm sharing the story of how I inverted the traditional style process—putting seeing beauty at the very beginning instead of starting with body type rules and expert formulas.
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Last week in Episode 107, I shared what my mentor Carla Mathis taught me: what you love aesthetically is what looks like you. This week, I'm telling you how I took that wisdom and created The Aesthetic Mirror—a process that helps women discover their style by seeing beauty in what they're naturally drawn to. Â
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In this episode, you'll hear:
• The divine epiphany that led me to invert the process
• What happened when I tried this approach for the first time
• The story of a client who was so excited she told my daughter at the mall
• Why seeing beauty through group reflection is so powerful
• How The Aesthetic Mirror works and who it's for
Core insight: Most people think you need expert analysis before you can trust your style choices, but actually seeing beauty in your own aesthetic preferences is the anchor for authentic style.
Ready to experience this yourself? Learn how to gather your friends for a private Aesthetic Mirror party.
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Let's connect! Download the free guide - Discover Your Style DNA: A Guide to Seasonal Energy & Personality Colors to start discovering your true colors today!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
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