I've moved back to O'ahu, spending lots of time on the North Shore, learning to surf, and having more incredible cervical orgasms.
In this episode, I highlight the gift being on the North Shore during surf season (Winter) has been, the incredibly intimate experiences I had with my most recent partner, and I reveal why I don't use condoms or contraception, and the harm these and lubricants can bring to our mind-body system.
Episode Highlights:
[2:32] I Moved Back to O’ahu
[3:53] The Seven Mile Miracle (North Shore)
[8:28] My First Surf Lesson
[9:06] Wana (Sea Urchins) aka "Fauna" 🙃
[10:23] More Cervical Orgasms & New Partner
[15:38] Self-Pleasure Demo with Partner
[16:00] Porn, Shame, Self-Abandonment
[19:55] Inviting my Partner to Touch Me
[20:57] Spontaneous vs. Response Arousal
[25:27] My Spontaneous Arousal with Partner
[27:26] vs. Typical Responsive Arousal
[27:59] Best Sex Post-Celibacy
[30:34] Vulva, Vagina, and The Three Gates
[31:22] Disclaimer to my Future Husband
[32:08] Inviting Him to Pleasure Me (Communication, Exploration)
[33:11] My Doctor-Patient Fantasy
[33:53] His Guidance During Penetrative Sex
[34:59] Jackhammering (vs. Grinding, Gyrating, etc.)
[37:36] The Multiorgasmic Experience
[39:23] Loss of Emotional Safety
[41:20] Surf Competition / Hurley Pro Sunset Beach 2024
[44:15] Unprotected Sex
[47:31] Chemicals in Condoms, Contraceptives, Lubricant, Vaginal Microbiome, pH, Osmolality
[69:37] Contraception: Fertility Cycling, Withdrawal & Peeing, Hormonal Implications for Women, Surgical, Neem for Men
[78:59] Sensation vs. Friction Sex
[79:57] Post-Nut Clarity
[84:15] Empaths, Numbing, Responsibility, Support
[86:04] Sensation vs. Friction Sex
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