The Conscious Love Show

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You’ve read the books. You’ve journaled the patterns. You’ve cried on the therapy couch, tracked your triggers, and rewritten t...

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In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a complex and often painful question: What if he wants me sexually—but not emotionally? If you’ve found yourself in a situation where physical attraction is strong, but emotional connection feels lacking, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on.

We’ll explore the dynamics of emotional vs. phys...

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You’ve heard the words: “embodied,” “soft,” “surrendered,” “in your feminine.”

But what does that actually mean when your nervous system is wired for control… and the world rewards you for it?

In this episode, we’re cutting through the fluff.

You’ll learn what feminine energy really is—and why so many powerful women feel both drawn to it and terrified by it.

We’ll na...

If you’ve ever found yourself emotionally tied to someone who isn’t fully committing, or you’re struggling to let go of someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, this episode of The Conscious Love Show is for you. Listen in as I explore the heart-wrenching question: Why can’t I leave someone who won’t choose me?

We’ll uncover the deep emotional and psychological factors that keep us attached to unavailable partners, from fear ...

Ever been in a situationship?  Of course you have! 

Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake.  They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.

It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relatio...

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a powerful question: Can you ever really let go of a trauma bond? If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that feels magnetic yet unhealthy, this episode will provide you with the clarity and tools you need to break free from the grip of a trauma bond.

We’ll explore what trauma bonds are, how they develop, and why they can feel so hard to release. I’ll also share ...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the question: How to attract a truly aligned relationship? If you’ve ever felt like you’re attracting the wrong type of partner or struggling to find someone who truly resonates with your values, this episode is for you.

I’ll walk you through the steps to align your energy, heal past patterns, and get clear on what you truly desire in a partner. We’ll discuss the importance o...

Why do so many women feel so unseen, unheard, and invalidated in their relationships with men?

And what is happening with men that they are unable or unwilling to meet a woman's deepest heartfelt needs?

In this episode, we peel back the layers to expose the truth about a woman's deepest needs and why men struggle to meet them. But not only that, we're exploring exactly how women can call men forward to invite them into higher consc...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a deep and thought-provoking question: Can two wounded people really have a conscious relationship? If you’ve ever wondered whether past trauma or emotional wounds can prevent you from building a healthy, loving partnership, this episode is for you.

I’ll share insights on how to navigate a relationship when both partners have their own wounds, and how it’s possible to heal t...

It’s the question so many women are silently asking: Where are all the good men? And why does it feel like the dating pool is filled with emotionally unavailable, unmotivated, or non-committal men?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on what’s really happening to men in today’s world, the identity crisis men are silently navigating, and the what and how of finding a good man and creating conscious love in the age of dating ap...

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a crucial question: Is this my gut talking or my avoidance? If you’ve ever been uncertain whether your instincts are guiding you or if you're simply avoiding something out of fear, this episode is here to help you differentiate between the two.

I’ll walk you through how to recognize the subtle differences between intuitive gut feelings and avoidance driven by anxiety or past wou...

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You say you want deep love—but you keep chasing men who can’t give it.

You overthink, overgive, and anxiously wait for crumbs… but real intimacy? That scares you.

What if your anxious attachment isn’t about needing too much—but about avoiding the intimacy of being truly seen? In ...

We may feel that we're following our heart, when in reality, we’re following our trauma.

In this episode, we explore the seductive pull of the trauma bond — how it masquerades as chemistry, intensity, and “meant to be,” but is often rooted in pain from the past.

Learn how to tell the difference between true love and addictive attraction, and how to break free from the cycles that keep you c...

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a powerful question: How to challenge him? Whether you’re in a romantic relationship or seeking deeper connections in your life, challenging your partner or someone you care about can be an important way to foster growth, communication, and mutual respect.

I’ll share strategies for how to challenge your partner in ways that encourage positive change without creating conflict. Y...

You know it’s breaking you. And yet… you can’t seem to let go.

The hope, the history, the moments of sweetness—they keep pulling you back in, even when you know it’s costing you your peace. This episode is for anyone caught in that painful in-between: holding on, knowing you need to walk away, but feeling paralyzed by love, fear, and hope.

Through this heartfelt discussion, I'll reveal why knowing you should leave isn't enough t...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we’re breaking down a key relationship question: How to tell if someone is avoidant or secure? If you’ve ever wondered whether your partner’s behavior is a sign of emotional distance or just a different attachment style, this episode will provide the clarity you need.

I’ll explain the key traits of avoidant and secure attachment styles, how they show up in relationships, and the subtle...

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You think waiting patiently for a commitment shows loyalty and love—but it’s actually lowering your value. In fact, high-value people always ask for what they want and it is impossible to communicate your value without speaking a...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a crucial topic: How to use discernment when anxiety is high. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by anxiety and struggled to make clear decisions, this episode is for you.

I’ll guide you through the process of tuning into your inner wisdom, even when your mind feels clouded by worry and uncertainty. We’ll explore practical strategies to separate anxious thoughts from your true f...