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September 28, 2023 35 mins

Welcome back to another episode of The Provoking Prosperity Podcast with your hosts, Miranda  Mitchell. In today's episode, we delve into the world of reflectors and how they navigate their unique identities.  Miranda and Becca explore the themes of perfectionism, relationship dynamics, overcommitment, and the transformative power of surrender in their own life. They also touch upon the Saturn return, Uranus return, and Chiron return as transformative periods that many individuals experience.

 

Key Topics/Show Notes of This Episode:

 

00:02:10 Learning to embrace your uniqueness and don't strive to be understood by others. 00:05:22 Learning what is worth fighting for with Gate 38 00:06:23 Seeing the potential in workplaces and wanting to make improvements with Gate 18 00:11:39 The awareness of over-committing and lacking willpower to follow through. 00:13:38 The struggle with judgments and criticisms from others for not following through on plans or taking on too much. 00:18:02 Saturn return  00:21:18 Learning to make heavy situations lighter by embracing curiosity and trust. 00:30:11 Expressing lack of resonance with online content about reflectors can upset people and lead to dismissal or criticism.

Reflection Questions:

1. How does understanding the intricacies of the Human Design Chart impact our self-discovery and personal growth? 2. What are some practical ways to navigate and optimize the energies within our unique body graph to unlock our hidden potential? 3. How can decoding the language of energy within the Human Design Chart help us in building more authentic and fulfilling relationships with others?

 

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(00:01):
And Ms.
Podcast.
I had the privilege of having a great conversation with Becca Brink's.
We were able to go deeper into her chart and we realized that there are a lot of activations within the gates that we have in common.
We talk extensively about gate 39, which is all about provocation, which as you all know, is the reason that I named this podcast provoking prosperity.

(00:26):
And it is why I provoke things.
That's the energy that I'm here to do here to bring.
And that is the energy that she is here to bring as well.
So we have a phone conversation about that.
We also go into the gate 38, which is the fighter.
It is the fighter energy.
Which I also have that gate.
So we were able to discuss the energy and the feeling of how that gate is represented.

(00:50):
And how sometimes.
It can be viewed as a negative when really what it is is we truly feel this passionate about certain things that we believe in.
And even though.
At sometimes it may be the low expression.
There is the high expression.
And it's learning about how to balance in between and the awareness of having this gate.

(01:12):
Whereas if you didn't know that you had this gate, you may just think that you like to fight all the time.
And then we even go into gate 18, which I have double eighteens.
And so does she, so we're able to talk about how we see these patterns and sometimes we can be viewed as.
judging.
some people judge others and some people judge themselves.

(01:35):
And some people it's both for me personally, I'm more some judge myself.
I truly don't judge other people as much as I used to when I was younger.
So I have all that judgment on myself, but there is a lot of judgment on myself when you have these 18.
Gait a couple of times in your chart.
There's a lot that for me personally, I have a high expectation of myself.

(01:58):
I have a high expectation of what I know I can do.
And I do judge myself on little things.
That truly are not that big of a deal, but they are big deal to me.
So we dive into those gates a lot.
I want to ask you.
If you have any of these gate activated.
Definitely tune in and see how you resonate with them.

(02:21):
And then if you don't have these activated or defined in a variable, so that means they're white.
Notice how you react to them because sometimes.
I know this personally, and all I do is share my experiences because of these gay activations.
I do fight for things.
And sometimes very strongly.

(02:42):
I'm only five to like 110 pounds.
But when I am passionate about something, Or if it is about my children, you better watch out.
It's it's this energy that is just in there.
And then the judgment energy as well, and the provocation with provoking people into change.
It's not out of.

(03:03):
Mean.
or provoking to tease people.
It's more so.
Ooh, there's a trigger there.
What is that? Can I see it? That's what it's about.
So if you don't have this energy, maybe you do know someone that does and maybe even be a little bit more compassionate.
For those that do because a lot of times.

(03:24):
I know for me personally, and within our discussion with Becca.
There are times that we judge ourselves and we feel like we have to play down or be less because of these certain energies.
And when we do that, we are suppressing ourselves or suppressing who we are.
And this is for every single gate.
There are a lot of gate activations that are very sensitive.

(03:47):
I don't really have a lot of those gate activations that have a couple, but the 19 and the 49.
I do not have to find those are the very most sensitive gates.
And there are times in my life that I was like, wow, that person's like really sensitive.
But now that I know they have that gate defined, I understand.
And it gives me compassion because we are all in different.

(04:10):
And it doesn't mean just because they're not like me doesn't mean it's wrong.
Right.
That's something we all have to truly digest.
Just because I can do many things at many times does not mean everyone else can.
Just because I have a lot of logic in my chart and I can see logic everywhere.
Like common sense.

(04:31):
Not everyone else has it.
So, this is what human design gives you.
It gives you the time and space and compassion.
To understand that we're all different.
So I hope you enjoy. 75 00:04:46,353.33333333 --> 00:05:08,773.33333333 Do you spend all of your time building and maintaining your business so that you achieve the success you envision? Do you feel frustrated, unfulfilled, and have a loss or disconnect from your creative flow? Are you a conscious leader that is ready for change when it comes to society's views on money, wealth, relationships, and what prosperity truly means? If so, you are in the right place. 76 00:05:09,253.33333333 --> 00:05:11,573.33333333 Welcome to the provoking prosperity podcast. 77 00:05:12,253.33333333 --> 00:05:13,793.33233333 I am your host, Miranda Mitchell. 78 00:05:14,133.33333333 --> 00:05:15,783.33233333 I am a two four manage end. 79 00:05:16,83.33333333 --> 00:05:29,3.33333333 Who is here to empower and equip you to step out of the box of social norms, guide you into using your voice for inspiration and impact and support you in finding what prosperity means for you so that you have the business and life that fulfills you. 80 00:05:29,343.33333333 --> 00:05:41,683.33333333 So grab that cup of coffee, get comfy, and get ready to hear the heartwarming and heart wrenching personal stories, all things jinkies plus tangible practices that you can implement right now for your personal and business growth. 81 00:05:41,803.33333333 --> 00:05:42,963.33333333 Hello, beautiful souls. 82 00:05:42,993.33333333 --> 00:05:45,666.66666667 It is Miranda here we have Becca Briggs. 83 00:05:45,706.66666667 --> 00:05:47,876.66666667 She is a 6'2 reflector. 84 00:05:48,416.66666667 --> 00:06:00,756.66566667 So excited to dive into her chart, and I'm so excited because she also knows about human design, so we're really going to get some goodies in here on how she's felt and expressed and learned and all that good stuff. 85 00:06:00,756.66666667 --> 00:06:04,246.66666667 I'm very grateful that you're here, very grateful that you're ready to go into this. 86 00:06:04,816.66666667 --> 00:06:05,426.66666667 Thank you. 87 00:06:05,456.66666667 --> 00:06:09,656.66666667 I'm so excited to talk about it with somebody because I feel like I'm introducing human design to people. 88 00:06:09,686.66666667 --> 00:06:12,716.66666667 So I can't fully be let's nerd out over this. 89 00:06:13,276.66566667 --> 00:06:13,736.66566667 Yeah. 90 00:06:13,836.66566667 --> 00:06:15,156.66466667 Reflector 6. 91 00:06:15,976.66466667 --> 00:06:16,136.66466667 2. 92 00:06:16,176.66566667 --> 00:06:17,996.66566667 We talked previously a little bit. 93 00:06:18,94.999 --> 00:06:25,194.999 about how you struggled a little bit in the beginning before you knew what a reflector was or that you knew you were a reflector. 94 00:06:25,734.999 --> 00:06:35,214.999 Why don't you share with us what it feels like and what it means to you to be a reflector? To be a reflector. 95 00:06:35,654.999 --> 00:06:41,818.33333333 Well, I'll say when I found out, I Was both relieved and distraught. 96 00:06:42,108.33333333 --> 00:06:47,858.33333333 So if you know Myers Briggs at all, I'm an INFJ in Myers Briggs, and You said that really fast. 97 00:06:47,888.33333333 --> 00:06:48,388.33333333 Let me think. 98 00:06:48,528.33233333 --> 00:06:53,798.33333333 I, so introvert, and intuitive, F, feeling, J. 99 00:06:53,868.33333333 --> 00:06:54,328.33333333 Okay. 100 00:06:54,478.33333333 --> 00:06:57,448.33333333 So we're a lot of the same, except I'm an X. 101 00:06:57,968.33333333 --> 00:06:58,588.33333333 XNFJ. 102 00:06:58,588.33333333 --> 00:06:59,58.33333333 Okay. 103 00:06:59,208.33333333 --> 00:06:59,728.33333333 Okay. 104 00:07:00,618.33333333 --> 00:07:05,428.33333333 and I'm certified in Myers Briggs and I've been in a lot of groups and done events and stuff. 105 00:07:05,428.33333333 --> 00:07:11,198.33333333 And I always have just, when people are like, Oh, INFJ is the rarest type. 106 00:07:11,368.33333333 --> 00:07:12,418.33333333 So cool. 107 00:07:12,468.33333333 --> 00:07:16,728.33333333 Yeah, you're always misunderstood and unappreciated for what you have to offer. 108 00:07:16,728.33333333 --> 00:07:17,888.33333333 It's so great. 109 00:07:17,898.33333333 --> 00:07:18,688.33333333 Thanks. 110 00:07:19,78.33333333 --> 00:07:21,498.33333333 When I learned about being a reflector. 111 00:07:21,678.33333333 --> 00:07:23,178.33333333 And it was a very similar vibe. 112 00:07:23,178.33333333 --> 00:07:25,648.33333333 I was like, no, not again. 113 00:07:25,831.66666667 --> 00:07:30,711.66666667 But then again, it was, it was kind of a relief and almost a blessing. 114 00:07:30,711.66666667 --> 00:07:34,195 And, and I think identifying then as a reflector.

(07:34):
I felt this shift happen within me of okay, you can actually dive into this more.
You are meant to be different. 117 00:07:42,44.999 --> 00:07:43,414.999 You're not meant to be understood.
You're not supposed to do things the same way everyone else is.
.999And you have permission from two different sources now this is just it. 120 00:07:49,914.999 --> 00:08:02,424.998 And You know, instead of, of trying to be who people want you to be, or trying to prove or explain why you're worthy because you're different, just embody your truth and let the rest go. 121 00:08:03,224.998 --> 00:08:09,694.998 Which has felt like a good permission slip that I really needed because for so long, felt like I was... 122 00:08:10,459.999 --> 00:08:33,309.999 Trying to please others, or then rebelling to try to prove myself to others, or struggling, for years, struggling, and my parents wanted me to be an engineer, or an actuary, or get a government job, and having to be None of this is right for me, and none of it, processing with them is, gave me permission to be like, you're not supposed to understand my life path, this is what I'm doing. 123 00:08:33,423.33233333 --> 00:08:34,513.33233333 Let me figure it out. 124 00:08:34,683.33233333 --> 00:08:35,643.33233333 It's going to be different. 125 00:08:35,673.33233333 --> 00:08:36,683.33233333 You're probably going to hate it. 126 00:08:36,733.33233333 --> 00:08:37,553.33233333 And that's fine. 127 00:08:37,933.33233333 --> 00:08:44,323.33233333 this is for me, really has shifted the way that I've moved forward in various areas of my life. 128 00:08:45,913.33233333 --> 00:08:50,3.33133333 And have you been able to express that to your parents and your friends? I have. 129 00:08:50,3.33133333 --> 00:09:17,773.33133333 It's something I am still, working on the human design helps I feel like I have something more tangible to say, this is why this is not for me, or this is why this is for me you know, or, or some of the, the areas that I would get criticized for, that it's, you know, my Mercury being gate 18, being constantly told that I'm criticizing or judging others and you know, let me explain to you, what is actually happening that's kind of helped a bit. 130 00:09:17,783.33233333 --> 00:09:21,413.33033333 So it's been a process, a slow process, but it has been helping. 131 00:09:23,93.33133333 --> 00:09:27,233.33133333 The mentioning of the 18, the double 18, that's also like perfectionism too. 132 00:09:27,233.33133333 --> 00:09:33,313.33133333 And yourself, so you always put that perfection in judgment for yourself, not only judge other people, but it's judging yourself. 133 00:09:33,313.33133333 --> 00:09:36,243.33133333 And it's not like you're judging to be a negative. 134 00:09:36,253.33133333 --> 00:09:39,203.33133333 you see the pattern you see, what's off. 135 00:09:39,203.33133333 --> 00:09:41,13.33133333 And it's more say out of love. 136 00:09:41,508.33133333 --> 00:09:51,708.33133333 But a lot of people, especially those people that aren't doing their inner work or they don't understand human design, they feel like it's more of a judging aspect, like something's wrong, yeah. 137 00:09:52,168.33133333 --> 00:09:56,458.33133333 Have you felt that with your Incarnation Cross? Because your Incarnation Cross is upheaval. 138 00:09:57,188.33133333 --> 00:10:03,48.33133333 You have the, the 18 and the 39 of provocation and the fighter and all that energy. 139 00:10:03,58.33133333 --> 00:10:11,168.33133333 Have you had to really work through that with the projection of other people onto you or how does that work with you? Absolutely. 140 00:10:11,398.33233333 --> 00:10:13,928.33233333 I've had to work with it both internally and externally. 141 00:10:14,78.33233333 --> 00:10:31,668.33233333 I've had to experiment with it a lot myself knowing what is worth fighting for has been a big one because I found myself fighting for things that I should have never been fighting for in the first place, I will dig my heels in until we're all just annoyed and frustrated and drained. 142 00:10:32,318.33233333 --> 00:10:58,419.996 So knowing what is worth fighting for and then, the perfectionism and the, and the judgments that I can have on myself learning to be more gracious with myself, learning to I not even view them as imperfections because sometimes that even feels a little judgy, but just accepting with no labels on certain things with other people, sometimes that happens in relationships. 143 00:10:58,759.996 --> 00:11:07,736.66266667 I've seen it as a big pattern in workplaces I see the potential of what's there and I'm oh, let's do this and go in and I've had places that I've worked at in the past. 144 00:11:08,431.66266667 --> 00:11:18,681.66266667 Be like, you're just like a negative Nancy, you just look at the glass half empty and you always have negative feedback and it's no, I see the potential and I want to, I want to fix it and make it better. 145 00:11:18,681.66266667 --> 00:11:25,571.66366667 I want it to be what, I guess similar to coaching is I see the core of what's there and I want that to come out. 146 00:11:25,581.66366667 --> 00:11:27,691.66366667 So let's streamline things. 147 00:11:27,691.66366667 --> 00:11:29,511.66366667 Let's make it smoother for everyone. 148 00:11:29,511.66366667 --> 00:11:30,951.66366667 Let's make it a great. 149 00:11:31,491.66366667 --> 00:11:47,681.66366667 Situation or place for everyone and a lot of times people will take that as a reflection of them and then lash out and it's this isn't personal this isn't even about you but then you take it personal and then you know I used to then take that personally and it's gotten to where I have that wall when people do that. 150 00:11:47,681.66366667 --> 00:11:48,591.66366667 This isn't even about you. 151 00:11:48,591.66366667 --> 00:11:50,194.997 You don't have to make it something it's not. 152 00:11:51,394.997 --> 00:11:51,844.997 Yeah. 153 00:11:51,844.997 --> 00:11:54,904.997 That's the provocation to the provoking type of thing. 154 00:11:55,324.997 --> 00:12:00,564.997 And the fact that if you're working with people that Are not doing their work. 155 00:12:00,574.997 --> 00:12:01,624.997 They're not in deconditioning. 156 00:12:01,634.997 --> 00:12:05,704.997 They're not letting go of what they think they should be rather than who they truly are. 157 00:12:06,64.997 --> 00:12:11,454.997 Then when you say something that is true and authentic, if it triggers someone, it means something's there. 158 00:12:12,124.997 --> 00:12:12,574.997 Yeah. 159 00:12:13,74.997 --> 00:12:14,944.997 It's kind of a funny story, but also not. 160 00:12:14,954.997 --> 00:12:15,944.997 So when I was in L. 161 00:12:15,944.997 --> 00:12:16,304.997 A., 162 00:12:16,954.997 --> 00:12:21,704.997 I had two, road rage incidents that, got really bad. 163 00:12:21,714.997 --> 00:12:41,4.996 Not, me road rage, but, other people, traffic stuff, and then, It, the situation just escalated really quick because, people are rude and one of the things I've started saying that I, again, need to, discern when is appropriate, when isn't, is have the day you deserve, because I used to just say have a nice day, but then I started saying have the day you deserve and, I was, chased by one of them. 164 00:12:41,4.996 --> 00:12:50,344.995 One of them, went and punched my car, and I was Bro, if you feel like you deserve to have a bad day and you're offended by that statement, that's for you to work on. 165 00:12:50,404.996 --> 00:12:51,354.997 But I need to stop. 166 00:12:51,384.997 --> 00:12:52,864.997 You know what you're doing, Becca. 167 00:12:52,904.997 --> 00:12:53,634.997 Calm down. 168 00:12:55,144.998 --> 00:12:58,134.998 Well, that comes into your four... 169 00:12:59,574.998 --> 00:13:04,254.998 38 that you have, you have gate 38 four times in your chart. 170 00:13:04,274.998 --> 00:13:05,924.998 You have in the unconscious earth. 171 00:13:05,924.998 --> 00:13:07,834.997 You have it in Neptune. 172 00:13:07,834.998 --> 00:13:08,844.998 You have a Uranus. 173 00:13:08,904.998 --> 00:13:10,524.998 Where's the other one? Neptune. 174 00:13:10,554.998 --> 00:13:13,584.998 And that's, well, you have it in the conscious and unconscious. 175 00:13:13,894.998 --> 00:13:15,424.997 So that's that fighter. 176 00:13:16,34.998 --> 00:13:17,924.998 Type of energy. 177 00:13:18,64.998 --> 00:13:18,594.998 Yeah. 178 00:13:19,204.998 --> 00:13:20,214.998 Right? Oh yeah. 179 00:13:20,714.998 --> 00:13:25,64.998 That's a huge energy in your chart, plus you have the 39, which is provoking. 180 00:13:25,241.66466667 --> 00:13:40,871.66366667 Yeah, and it's funny because I feel like when people meet me, I'm pretty reserved, I'm pretty quiet, I'm really friendly, I think people underestimate me, I don't want to fight, I'm chill, you start something, I will finish, I will come up and you will. 181 00:13:41,621.66366667 --> 00:13:42,591.66366667 Wish you hadn't. 182 00:13:43,111.66366667 --> 00:13:46,681.66366667 And it's but then I also just like a tiny little girl. 183 00:13:46,711.66366667 --> 00:13:50,941.66366667 So you know, then it's oh, I'm all talk, no actual action. 184 00:13:51,491.66366667 --> 00:13:54,781.66366667 But are you really? Because I have the 38 as well. 185 00:13:55,31.66266667 --> 00:13:59,841.66366667 And for anyone that has the 38, this would be very interesting for you to kind of feel into. 186 00:14:00,341.66366667 --> 00:14:04,251.66366667 When there are certain things that you do know it's worth fighting, like my kids. 187 00:14:04,441.66366667 --> 00:14:07,91.66366667 Anyone can say anything to me, and I'm yeah, whatever. 188 00:14:07,91.66366667 --> 00:14:07,791.66366667 I don't really care. 189 00:14:08,111.66366667 --> 00:14:13,21.66266667 But you do something to my kids, I am that person that you do not want to deal with. 190 00:14:13,31.66366667 --> 00:14:13,591.66366667 You're right. 191 00:14:13,671.66366667 --> 00:14:14,321.66366667 You're right. 192 00:14:14,761.66266667 --> 00:14:25,931.66266667 I did scream at my cousin's now ex boyfriend in the middle of a restaurant because he, made some weird comment about her wanting tiramisu, and in the middle of Cheesecake Factory, and I, screamed at him for, 15 minutes about it. 193 00:14:25,941.66266667 --> 00:14:26,841.66266667 I have no shame. 194 00:14:26,851.66266667 --> 00:14:27,451.66266667 I will. 195 00:14:28,521.66266667 --> 00:14:41,721.66266667 I do believe it is that 38 energy and probably that 39 with the provoking too that when you feel like something has worth fighting for You have the strength of like 2, 000 men. 196 00:14:41,771.66266667 --> 00:14:43,21.66266667 It just feels like that. 197 00:14:43,31.66266667 --> 00:14:48,31.66266667 It doesn't matter if you're 5'2 100 pounds, whatever it is, you're just like up in the face. 198 00:14:48,601.66266667 --> 00:14:50,461.56166667 That's how I am. 199 00:14:50,461.66166667 --> 00:14:51,541.66166667 That's definitely how I feel. 200 00:14:51,541.66266667 --> 00:14:55,861.66166667 I don't know if that's how it comes off to others, I call it my my peacock. 201 00:14:56,176.66166667 --> 00:14:59,156.66166667 Coming out where I'm just like, let's go. 202 00:14:59,516.66166667 --> 00:15:00,736.66166667 I love that fighter energy. 203 00:15:00,736.66166667 --> 00:15:01,466.66166667 I truly do. 204 00:15:01,816.66166667 --> 00:15:02,536.66166667 It is fun. 205 00:15:02,823.32833333 --> 00:15:22,8.32833333 Since you have every single one of the centers open, was there one or maybe a couple, which were the most hard for you to kind of decondition yourself? I still feel like I'm working on the will, that, will, heart center. 206 00:15:22,108.32833333 --> 00:15:29,648.32833333 I overcommit so much, and then struggle to have the actual willpower to follow through with it. 207 00:15:29,861.66166667 --> 00:16:06,999.993 I'm working on it, I don't want to let people down, I always want to make things easier on people, and I also think part of it, I don't know if this is a conscious decision or unconscious decision, but I don't always know what I'm going to have the energy for because things change on such a constant basis that I tend to overcommit because it should be fine, I'll probably have a burst of energy then, I'll stick it out and then next thing you know, I'm, Committed to four jobs and haven't had a day off in a month and I'm struggling and it's, it's just a lot, which I would say also ties into that sacral, I would say that one, the sacral and the root. 208 00:16:07,489.993 --> 00:16:17,899.993 It's just the over committing, overworking, overdoing not knowing when to stop, not knowing when to slow down, feeling this pressure, expectation to keep up with everyone it would be hard. 209 00:16:17,909.993 --> 00:16:35,649.994 I feel like for being a lunar being that has to wait really 28 days to be to fully understand if you really want to commit in a world where everything is fast and we're conditioned to believe we're all manifestors or Manny Gens, like fast, fast, fast, more mean success. 210 00:16:36,229.994 --> 00:16:41,676.6606667 How are you supposed to be able to wait the entire 28 days to make a decision? Plus, yeah. 211 00:16:42,16.6606667 --> 00:16:45,516.6606667 I love that you also said the root because you have so much. 212 00:16:45,789.994 --> 00:16:46,369.994 In the root. 213 00:16:46,379.994 --> 00:16:50,539.994 So no wonder you feel like you can do all those things. 214 00:16:50,799.994 --> 00:16:51,459.994 Mm hmm. 215 00:16:52,219.994 --> 00:16:52,729.994 Yeah. 216 00:16:52,829.994 --> 00:16:53,749.994 I want to. 217 00:16:54,129.993 --> 00:16:54,749.994 I really do. 218 00:16:54,886.6606667 --> 00:17:10,124.994 I remember how it came up earlier, but, something that has been Transitioning and working through is some of the judgments and criticisms from others of bailing on plans or taking on too much and then not being able to follow through with it. 219 00:17:10,154.995 --> 00:17:20,994.994 I've been working on saying no more or if I do commit and can't do it communicating that hey, say, I thought I would be able to do it, but I'm, you know, struggling to keep up or whatever. 220 00:17:21,4.994 --> 00:17:22,804.994 And one thing I have found. 221 00:17:23,314.994 --> 00:17:30,834.994 Even through the years has been realizing that my 100% is not other people's 100%. 222 00:17:30,834.994 --> 00:17:34,404.994 I feel like my 100% is other people's like 70 to 80. 223 00:17:35,4.994 --> 00:17:35,124.994 Mm-hmm. 224 00:17:35,369.994 --> 00:17:39,939.994 So when I'm I wanna give a hundred percent, I wanna give all my effort, it tends to exceed what they expect. 225 00:17:40,119.994 --> 00:17:45,279.994 And so then I feel like I'm letting people down and I'm burning myself out, feeling like I'm disappointing everyone. 226 00:17:45,329.994 --> 00:17:56,359.994 Or judging yourself, that's me judging myself, or they then get used to that, my hundred percent as being the normal, even though that was exceeding the expectations they had originally. 227 00:17:56,399.994 --> 00:18:00,69.994 And then if I can't keep up with that, then they get mad or disappointed. 228 00:18:00,669.994 --> 00:18:05,319.994 So first, the judgment of having to feel like you have to prove yourself because yeah, that totally opened. 229 00:18:05,319.994 --> 00:18:05,949.994 Well. 230 00:18:06,179.994 --> 00:18:11,189.994 The value of approving and then they expect that because you've been doing that. 231 00:18:11,199.994 --> 00:18:17,289.994 So then you burn yourself out and then you can't follow through, which then you make, you break your agreement, which then you judge yourself. 232 00:18:17,829.994 --> 00:18:18,249.994 Yep. 233 00:18:18,419.993 --> 00:18:22,104.994 So I started communicating to people is that, you know, I try my best. 234 00:18:22,104.994 --> 00:18:22,724.994 I show up. 235 00:18:22,724.994 --> 00:18:34,554.993 I show up with as much as I can, but I'm also inconsistent in the fact that sometimes I don't always have the same amount of energy or I or the same amount of excitement and power to do stuff every day. 236 00:18:34,554.994 --> 00:18:41,534.994 And if I can't, for whatever reason, I have gotten better about communicating it and just being open and honest about it. 237 00:18:42,454.994 --> 00:18:50,334.993 Being like you, you know, if, if we're working together or if we're, friends or dating or whatever, just trusting, there has to be trust there. 238 00:18:50,454.994 --> 00:18:53,344.994 You have to trust me that I'm not going to bail on you. 239 00:18:53,344.994 --> 00:18:54,634.994 I'm not going to let you down. 240 00:18:55,34.993 --> 00:18:56,834.993 if something's really important, let me know. 241 00:18:56,834.993 --> 00:19:00,144.992 And I can prioritize that amongst everything else. 242 00:19:00,734.992 --> 00:19:08,814.992 But if, if you're expecting this level every day, it's just unrealistic and not me and will never be me. 243 00:19:09,11.6596667 --> 00:19:14,811.6596667 I'm also looking at the chart a little bit and you're, you're in the Saturn. 244 00:19:15,191.6596667 --> 00:19:24,631.6596667 We mentioned before, so how do you feel like you've been dealing with the Saturn return? Because you do have it in the 60 and then the 41. 245 00:19:24,671.6596667 --> 00:19:43,866.6596667 I mean, little note here, because just so you know, and I share with everybody, I have a totally Thank Open Ajna, so I have to make notes and I used to think that I was like so stupid, why can't I remember anything and now it's well, now I know and that's the beauty of human design is you realize I'm not stupid, it's just in that one year. 246 00:19:44,376.6586667 --> 00:19:46,356.6596667 Yeah, yeah, definitely. 247 00:19:46,636.6596667 --> 00:19:50,216.6596667 So, I thought my Saturn return was over. 248 00:19:50,586.6596667 --> 00:19:56,216.6596667 Is it not over yet? Saturn, the Saturn return itself is on a specific day. 249 00:19:56,666.6596667 --> 00:19:56,826.6596667 Okay. 250 00:19:58,176.6596667 --> 00:20:04,876.6596667 The energy around the Saturn return lasts two years before, two years after. 251 00:20:05,511.6596667 --> 00:20:08,711.6596667 Oh, so it's like that shadow period of, of the actual return. 252 00:20:08,741.6596667 --> 00:20:09,181.6596667 Okay. 253 00:20:09,181.6596667 --> 00:20:11,181.6596667 Cause when Saturn went into Pisces, I was yes. 254 00:20:11,961.6596667 --> 00:20:12,361.6596667 Okay. 255 00:20:12,401.6596667 --> 00:20:13,81.6586667 Well, maybe it is. 256 00:20:13,601.6586667 --> 00:20:14,301.6586667 Maybe it is. 257 00:20:14,311.6586667 --> 00:20:15,211.6586667 Maybe you've been able to, cause you're aware of it. 258 00:20:16,561.6586667 --> 00:20:27,251.6586667 But I have noticed with people, sometimes they will be in their Chiron return, but they haven't done their work and they're stuck still in their Saturn because they haven't been doing their work. 259 00:20:27,301.7586667 --> 00:20:35,501.7586667 So there's that energy that kind of like lingers for you to work on the 60 and the 41. 260 00:20:35,661.7586667 --> 00:20:43,831.7576667 Do you still feel that there, or do you feel like now that you mentioned that so it's funny because I would say like the first couple years. 261 00:20:43,973.4253333 --> 00:20:47,663.4253333 really sucked, was really heavy, really emotional. 262 00:20:48,123.4253333 --> 00:20:53,663.4253333 I've looked it up and the, peak of my Saturn return started in March 2020. 263 00:20:54,163.4253333 --> 00:21:24,730.092 So a lot of that pandemic period, which honestly was for me in my experience probably 2020 was one of my best years that I've ever had because before I was working, multiple jobs all the time doing so much and just having everything stop forced me to slow down and the month we had when LA was shut down, it was like every day you just woke up and said, what do I want to do today? Oh, my God. 264 00:21:24,740.092 --> 00:21:25,760.092 It was amazing. 265 00:21:26,70.092 --> 00:21:32,290.091 and I haven't been the same since then because I don't want to be doing a million things all the time. 266 00:21:32,730.091 --> 00:21:37,830.092 I want to be able to assess what I want to do today. 267 00:21:37,920.092 --> 00:21:48,290.092 Where do I want to go? You know, do I want to stay inside? Do I want to go outside? Do I want to socialize? having that range Made such a huge difference. 268 00:21:48,500.092 --> 00:21:52,910.092 And that was when I started learning about human design and did a lot of camping. 269 00:21:52,960.092 --> 00:21:53,750.092 It was great. 270 00:21:54,140.092 --> 00:21:59,220.092 And right now is not the best example because I'm juggling a lot of things at once. 271 00:21:59,940.092 --> 00:22:14,640.091 But in general, it's really forced me, or not forced, but influenced me to slow down in areas of my life and understand my limitations and have this, vision of what I want my life to look like and feel like, and that it is possible. 272 00:22:14,883.4243333 --> 00:22:18,283.4243333 You don't have to, to constantly hustle and grind. 273 00:22:18,485.092 --> 00:22:43,605.092 That's a great example, too, because a lot of people when they talk about Saturn return or Uranus return or Chiron return and like this fear comes up like, Oh, no, all this pain and a lot of the times it is pain, but it's usually because you're out of alignment or or you're fighting something that is something's trying to show you it's too much, you're burnt out or whatever. 274 00:22:43,775.092 --> 00:22:57,90.091 And if you fight it, There's going to be pain, there's going to be resistance, but if you surrender to it and you allow it, then it's actually this beautiful experience of shifting your life, which is what it sounds like happened for you. 275 00:22:57,400.092 --> 00:23:08,200.092 And I'd love to hear when it all, when things happen for us, and it makes things a lot easier, and then you get to reflect back and realize. 276 00:23:08,665.092 --> 00:23:25,375.092 What happened and like what time frame it happened and we all know, with the Saturn return, usually between 28 and 32, there's something that occurs, there's something, whether it's tragic or not tragic, it's usually a change in life somehow. 277 00:23:25,375.092 --> 00:23:26,555.092 So yours is beautiful. 278 00:23:27,360.092 --> 00:23:34,360.092 Yeah, I'd say it's the slowing down and then you know, that, that kind of shadow is still here, honestly, moving here. 279 00:23:34,480.091 --> 00:23:38,843.4253333 There was a lot of, of, there's a lot of hardship last year when I was in L. 280 00:23:38,843.4253333 --> 00:23:39,193.4243333 A. 281 00:23:39,193.4253333 --> 00:23:44,203.3253333 and there was a lot of heaviness involved with the move and leaving behind a relationship that I... 282 00:23:45,163.4253333 --> 00:23:51,913.4253333 Thought was gonna be a long like a really we were together for four years, but one that I thought was gonna last a lot longer than that. 283 00:23:52,3.4253333 --> 00:23:56,173.4253333 Since then, I've been working through a lot of relationship issues, which I know Venus is still retrograde. 284 00:23:56,173.4253333 --> 00:23:57,163.4253333 So that's been great. 285 00:23:57,753.4253333 --> 00:24:03,563.4263333 But yeah, it hasn't felt as heavy as it did at the beginning. 286 00:24:03,693.4263333 --> 00:24:06,383.4263333 But it's kind of almost like a sandwich of like it was really heavy. 287 00:24:06,783.4263333 --> 00:24:08,313.4263333 And then it was actually really light. 288 00:24:08,663.4263333 --> 00:24:30,808.4253333 And then it's been a little bit heavier, I would say in the last year, but I think with everything that I learned and especially learning human design, for example, it's helped make the heavy stuff not as heavy because again, just leaning into the strategy and authority and trusting the process and saying, Oh, this is coming up for whatever reason. 289 00:24:31,78.4253333 --> 00:24:41,348.4253333 Let's get curious about it and work through it instead of allowing it to feel so debilitating has made this last chunk a little bit easier to navigate. 290 00:24:41,651.7586667 --> 00:24:48,151.7586667 So you actually embrace the shadows, which I love because some people don't do not they're fearful of my favorite. 291 00:24:49,101.7586667 --> 00:24:49,351.7586667 Yeah. 292 00:24:49,381.7586667 --> 00:24:58,606.7586667 Have you gone into the aspects of your chart and the astrology to see what gates and astrology they are and all that? Have you done that? Not really. 293 00:24:58,606.7586667 --> 00:24:59,76.7586667 I know. 294 00:24:59,96.7586667 --> 00:25:04,176.7586667 Cause the conscious side is all the same as what my what's in my natal chart, correct? Yeah. 295 00:25:04,176.7586667 --> 00:25:05,296.7586667 So I know that one. 296 00:25:05,296.7586667 --> 00:25:07,676.7586667 I haven't looked at the unconscious side yet. 297 00:25:07,706.7586667 --> 00:25:08,746.7586667 I probably should. 298 00:25:08,826.7586667 --> 00:25:10,926.7576667 Oh, that's going to be, it's fun. 299 00:25:12,336.7586667 --> 00:25:19,566.7576667 It's fun because when you see what Scorpio is in, it makes you, I have Scorpio in my mercury. 300 00:25:19,566.7576667 --> 00:25:22,706.7576667 So I'm here to talk about the dark stuff, yeah. 301 00:25:22,786.7576667 --> 00:25:24,996.7566667 So you get into that layer. 302 00:25:24,996.7576667 --> 00:25:25,106.7576667 Yeah. 303 00:25:25,371.7576667 --> 00:25:35,301.7566667 It's another layer of okay, so I'm, I'm talking about the 18 and judgment, but what is that energy as far as the astrology sign? Yeah. 304 00:25:36,451.7576667 --> 00:25:37,541.7576667 And that one's Libra. 305 00:25:38,351.7566667 --> 00:25:39,261.7576667 Oh, that one's Libra. 306 00:25:39,611.7576667 --> 00:25:40,161.7576667 Yeah. 307 00:25:40,871.7576667 --> 00:25:41,341.7576667 Yeah. 308 00:25:41,521.7566667 --> 00:25:44,671.6566667 Libra is a, I, do you have a lot of Libra? Cause you're a Libra too. 309 00:25:44,671.7566667 --> 00:25:44,981.7566667 Yeah. 310 00:25:44,981.7566667 --> 00:25:48,551.7576667 So Libra is my sun, Mercury, and Mars. 311 00:25:49,181.7576667 --> 00:25:49,641.7576667 Okay. 312 00:25:50,151.7576667 --> 00:25:50,591.7576667 Are all Libra. 313 00:25:52,221.7576667 --> 00:25:55,501.7566667 And do you know what your moon is? My moon and Venus are Leo. 314 00:25:56,126.7576667 --> 00:25:57,756.7576667 Okay, that makes sense. 315 00:25:57,756.7576667 --> 00:25:58,656.7576667 I can see that. 316 00:25:59,216.7576667 --> 00:26:02,786.7576667 Yeah, so this Leo Venus retrograde has been really cool. 317 00:26:03,236.7576667 --> 00:26:04,906.7576667 Yeah, that is. 318 00:26:05,256.7576667 --> 00:26:12,186.7566667 So have you noticed a shift in your energy with all of that, with the retrograde and everything going on? Oh yeah, oh yeah. 319 00:26:12,876.7576667 --> 00:26:28,606.7576667 What is the shift? It's been, just the timing of everything, it kind of happened right after my move out here, is Just feeling a lot more empowered feeling like things are working a lot easier for me in, in life and in business. 320 00:26:28,606.7576667 --> 00:26:32,576.7566667 I have a sense of community out here been connecting with people. 321 00:26:33,146.7566667 --> 00:26:40,486.7576667 I so between the retrograde itself and I also just read the book Existential Kink, if you haven't read it, it's about shadow work. 322 00:26:42,176.7576667 --> 00:26:43,806.7576667 It's, I like it. 323 00:26:43,806.7576667 --> 00:26:50,106.7576667 It's kind of a different take on shadow work where she talks about getting really excited, almost turned on by your shadows. 324 00:26:50,136.7566667 --> 00:26:53,686.7576667 And then when you do, they become less controlling cause it's not so taboo. 325 00:26:53,686.7576667 --> 00:26:55,866.7566667 You own it and you're like, yeah, this is what I want. 326 00:26:56,16.7566667 --> 00:26:59,416.7566667 And then it releases the power over you. 327 00:26:59,416.7566667 --> 00:27:08,996.7566667 But I read that and it has brought up a lot of relationship patterns that I address in myself and relationship and work stuff. 328 00:27:09,126.7566667 --> 00:27:24,46.7566667 And so addressing those and then, having the opportunity to, because it is retrograde, I feel like exes keep coming back and okay, like here's a chance for me to practice what I just learned and take the more empowering. 329 00:27:24,311.7566667 --> 00:27:31,181.7566667 Path and assessing what it is that I want moving forward and that I can actually have it has been. 330 00:27:31,405.09 --> 00:27:39,215.0576667 And you actually, and you learned it, it's interesting because you're already learning it and it's you're already prepared and now it's put it into action. 331 00:27:39,215.0576667 --> 00:28:01,625.09 Are you going to stay in the same pattern or are you going to put it into action? Yeah, yeah, because I had one it's like been an off and on situationship for almost a decade now, just between when we both have been single and he briefly came back into the picture right after Venus went retrograde and I was this is a lesson and I was like, let's see what happens. 332 00:28:01,625.09 --> 00:28:04,876.7566667 And so I had this conversation with him that I wouldn't have had otherwise. 333 00:28:04,876.7566667 --> 00:28:06,376.7566667 And I was let's just see what happens. 334 00:28:06,386.7566667 --> 00:28:08,816.7566667 Let's just go all in, see what happens. 335 00:28:09,176.7566667 --> 00:28:10,876.7576667 Why not? I'm a catch. 336 00:28:11,76.7576667 --> 00:28:11,756.7576667 Let's do it. 337 00:28:12,436.7566667 --> 00:28:14,406.7576667 And he at first was like, okay. 338 00:28:14,436.7576667 --> 00:28:16,566.7566667 And then he ghosted, which was his. 339 00:28:16,898.4243333 --> 00:28:18,878.4243333 And I was like, you know what, I'm not even bothered by this. 340 00:28:18,918.4243333 --> 00:28:25,288.4243333 I put myself out there, which I was a bold move that I wouldn't have done in the past because I would have been worried about scaring him off. 341 00:28:25,958.4233333 --> 00:28:32,768.4263333 And then he made his decision and I'm good because I know that the person who I want to be with, wants to go all in with me. 342 00:28:32,818.4263333 --> 00:28:39,848.4263333 And so I don't feel hurt and bothered and worked up like I used to because I would want That love and acceptance. 343 00:28:39,888.4263333 --> 00:28:41,558.4263333 I feel good with who I am. 344 00:28:41,558.4263333 --> 00:28:47,928.4253333 And that makes me feel like I have done the work and I'm, I'm in a better place than I was in the past. 345 00:28:47,928.4263333 --> 00:28:51,728.4263333 And I can now release this connection from this person that I had for so long. 346 00:28:52,403.4263333 --> 00:29:08,493.4273333 that's empowering when you're able to see that and then just let it go because you it's like, okay, that was closure I tried that closure and I didn't expect Expectations are really what keep us really be holding on to something even with Relationships. 347 00:29:08,513.4273333 --> 00:29:23,618.4263333 I'm trying to really focus on being in the now in the present moment and you never know we have these Expectations of what a relationship is going to look like, what, how long it's going to be all these things, but what you're doing there is really putting yourself in a box. 348 00:29:23,778.4273333 --> 00:29:27,258.4273333 You're putting yourself in the social norm of what a relationship looks like. 349 00:29:27,508.4263333 --> 00:29:33,688.4263333 So do you want to be in that box and miserable? Or do you want to just be in the now and say, okay, this relationship is wonderful right now. 350 00:29:33,688.4283333 --> 00:29:36,8.4273333 I love this, but I don't know what it's going to be like. 351 00:29:36,488.4273333 --> 00:29:41,948.4273333 I don't know what it's going to be like next year, I don't know what it's going to be like tomorrow, and I'm not going to put the expectation on that. 352 00:29:42,111.7606667 --> 00:29:45,341.7606667 It's so freeing to have that mindset. 353 00:29:45,671.7606667 --> 00:29:49,571.7606667 Because we've been conditioned to, plan everything. 354 00:29:50,31.7606667 --> 00:29:50,721.7606667 Mm hmm. 355 00:29:51,291.7606667 --> 00:29:52,491.7606667 Right? Totally. 356 00:29:52,811.7606667 --> 00:30:00,991.7606667 And that's, it just makes everything feel lighter and easier, because you're not, like you said, you're not, forcing yourself into this box. 357 00:30:01,311.7596667 --> 00:30:05,285.094 Just going with the flow of what is right for you. 358 00:30:05,431.7606667 --> 00:30:06,471.7606667 In that moment. 359 00:30:06,741.7606667 --> 00:30:07,271.7606667 Mm hmm. 360 00:30:07,681.7606667 --> 00:30:12,821.7606667 And if you communicate that with someone and they can't accept it, then they're not the right person. 361 00:30:13,51.7606667 --> 00:30:15,141.7606667 And if they can accept it, then wonderful. 362 00:30:15,608.4263333 --> 00:30:15,798.4263333 Yeah. 363 00:30:15,798.4273333 --> 00:30:20,538.4273333 One thing I've started saying to myself all the time now is it's either this or something better. 364 00:30:21,923.4273333 --> 00:30:22,943.4273333 I love all your sayings. 365 00:30:24,103.4273333 --> 00:30:24,813.4273333 I have a lot of them. 366 00:30:25,116.7606667 --> 00:30:26,306.7606667 That's what keeps me grounded. 367 00:30:26,306.7606667 --> 00:30:30,576.7596667 I'm gonna have to go back to that one about the one where the people got all mad. 368 00:30:30,586.7606667 --> 00:30:31,856.7606667 Because I love that one. 369 00:30:32,716.7606667 --> 00:30:34,46.7606667 Oh have the day you deserve. 370 00:30:34,706.7606667 --> 00:30:35,836.7606667 It's my favorite. 371 00:30:35,980.095 --> 00:30:36,620.095 Love that. 372 00:30:37,670.095 --> 00:30:40,950.095 Just don't do it with road rage incidents because people get real mad. 373 00:30:41,185.095 --> 00:30:42,885.095 I wanted to thank you. 374 00:30:43,780.095 --> 00:30:45,610.095 For being on the show. 375 00:30:45,640.095 --> 00:30:52,870.094 Thank you for sharing with us your story with what you do with what you bring and a little bit about your chart. 376 00:30:52,910.095 --> 00:31:01,140.094 I always feel so blessed to be able to meet someone through the chart because I'm able to meet them, not the not the conditioning. 377 00:31:01,380.095 --> 00:31:04,0.095 So I truly appreciate every connection. 378 00:31:04,0.095 --> 00:31:06,220.095 I want to thank you for being here. 379 00:31:06,580.095 --> 00:31:12,900.095 Is there anything that you wanted to say to the audience before we end up closing? Thank you for having me. 380 00:31:13,0.095 --> 00:31:17,600.094 I would say the only thing I want to add is from a reflector. 381 00:31:17,600.096 --> 00:31:23,680.095 I know a lot of people are very curious about reflectors or want to know more or especially in the online space. 382 00:31:23,900.095 --> 00:31:26,780.095 I kind of mentioned earlier there's a lot of information about reflectors. 383 00:31:27,200.095 --> 00:31:28,930.095 Some of it resonates, some of it doesn't. 384 00:31:29,370.095 --> 00:31:54,900.096 One thing I will say is if you want to understand reflectors more, I know sometimes it can be hard to find us, but we're, we're there, is to really stay curious about us, ask us questions, ask us about our experience, and really listen to what it is that we say, and, and hold that As truth or as, our perspective there's, I've had a couple of times, and this is probably also that like provocation coming out. 385 00:31:54,900.096 --> 00:31:57,790.096 But if I see stuff online that's like, we're reflectors, blah, blah, blah. 386 00:31:57,790.096 --> 00:32:00,240.095 If it doesn't resonate, I'll say hey, this doesn't resonate. 387 00:32:00,240.095 --> 00:32:02,290.096 And I find that that upsets people. 388 00:32:02,670.095 --> 00:32:06,330.096 And, and it's, or like, they'll say, well, no, you're a reflector, that's your conditioning. 389 00:32:06,330.096 --> 00:32:11,120.096 Or they'll say like, oh, you're a reflector, this is what, this is what it means, or this is how reflectors do. 390 00:32:11,120.096 --> 00:32:13,820.096 And I'm don't tell a reflector how reflectors be, because. 391 00:32:14,16.7626667 --> 00:32:15,276.7626667 I know better than you. 392 00:32:15,286.7626667 --> 00:32:16,913.4293334 So, anyway, that's my rant. 393 00:32:16,953.4293334 --> 00:32:22,843.4293334 Be curious and be open to hearing what it is that we have to say there's no ill intention. 394 00:32:22,883.4293334 --> 00:32:25,813.4293334 There's no, trying to turn you into something that you're not. 395 00:32:25,823.4293334 --> 00:32:27,543.4293334 There's no telling you who you are. 396 00:32:27,543.4293334 --> 00:32:31,273.4293334 There's, it's, we're here to share the truth. 397 00:32:31,333.4293334 --> 00:32:32,143.4293334 And. 398 00:32:32,338.4293334 --> 00:32:50,599.996 We see things that other people don't and we just want to be seen and, and for who we are and respected for who we are and I think the more that people stay open and curious and really hear what reflectors are saying, the more that there will actually be information about reflectors out there. 399 00:32:51,280.096 --> 00:32:57,306.7626667 it seems like a lot of people are afraid to ask or afraid to actually share real stuff. 400 00:32:57,306.7626667 --> 00:32:59,406.7626667 And so it doesn't happen as much as it could. 401 00:33:00,186.7626667 --> 00:33:03,376.7626667 It may be that they are afraid of what you're reflecting back to them. 402 00:33:03,886.7626667 --> 00:33:04,446.7626667 Yeah. 403 00:33:05,16.7626667 --> 00:33:08,716.6626667 Yeah, people are not doing their work and they're seeing stuff that. 404 00:33:08,923.4293334 --> 00:33:17,393.4293334 Kind of, you know, just like the trigger, if you end up saying something and it's part of them that they don't really want to work on or haven't worked on, there's a trigger. 405 00:33:17,393.4293334 --> 00:33:18,653.4293334 There's something inside. 406 00:33:18,683.4293334 --> 00:33:19,813.4293334 So then they react. 407 00:33:20,243.4293334 --> 00:33:20,293.4293334 So it's. 408 00:33:22,638.4293334 --> 00:33:25,848.4293334 Reflectors are rare and they, you're like the mirror. 409 00:33:26,618.4293334 --> 00:33:41,443.4293334 So some people don't want to see that and ask yourself, everyone who knows a reflector or has judged a reflector or whatever, scared of a reflector, is it the reflector or is it the mirror back of yourself? Right. 410 00:33:41,453.4293334 --> 00:33:43,153.4293334 Everyone wants to blame the reflector. 411 00:33:43,153.4293334 --> 00:33:44,763.4293334 And it's like, I didn't ask for this. 412 00:33:45,563.4293334 --> 00:33:59,713.4293334 I love every single human design type because it gives us permission to who we are and it gives us permission to understand we're all different and not to judge one person over the other. 413 00:33:59,713.4293334 --> 00:34:00,993.4293334 That's why I love human design. 414 00:34:01,383.4293334 --> 00:34:08,753.4293334 So if a person knows human design and they're doing the that everyone is loved and supported. 415 00:34:09,83.4293334 --> 00:34:13,473.4293334 If you're a person that is not doing the work, there's gonna be judgment there, and that's on you. 416 00:34:13,683.4293334 --> 00:34:16,433.4293334 That is not on you, Becca. 417 00:34:16,533.4293334 --> 00:34:17,343.4293334 That's on the other person. 418 00:34:18,163.4293334 --> 00:34:18,483.4293334 Yeah. 419 00:34:18,633.4293334 --> 00:34:27,333.4293334 Yeah, so if you're afraid to talk to a reflector, I would get more curious about exploring your own growth and what you're afraid of coming out, cause, As we mentioned before, do the work. 420 00:34:27,663.4293334 --> 00:34:29,23.4293334 It gets easier once you do it. 421 00:34:29,573.4293334 --> 00:34:30,3.4293334 It does. 422 00:34:30,3.4293334 --> 00:34:31,963.4293334 Don't blame people for just existing. 423 00:34:32,573.4293334 --> 00:34:33,93.4293334 It does. 424 00:34:33,683.4293334 --> 00:34:35,653.4293334 Now we got a little provoking and poking. 425 00:34:36,753.4283334 --> 00:34:37,943.4293334 I can't not do it. 426 00:34:38,263.4293334 --> 00:34:41,973.4293334 We provoke and poke for your growth, for your awareness. 427 00:34:42,33.4293334 --> 00:34:42,993.4293334 It's because we love you. 428 00:34:43,428.4293334 --> 00:34:43,968.4293334 That's why. 429 00:34:44,558.4293334 --> 00:34:46,48.4293334 And we want the best for you. 430 00:34:46,818.4293334 --> 00:34:47,178.4293334 Yes. 431 00:34:47,908.4293334 --> 00:34:49,228.4293334 Thank you so much for playing with me. 432 00:34:49,228.4293334 --> 00:34:50,188.4293334 This is so awesome. 433 00:34:50,278.4293334 --> 00:34:50,468.4293334 Thank you. 434 00:34:50,778.4293334 --> 00:34:51,998.4293334 I love this so much. 435 00:34:52,418.4293334 --> 00:34:53,438.4293334 Thank you again. 436 00:34:53,468.4283334 --> 00:34:54,728.4293334 Bye everyone. 437 00:34:54,969.096 --> 00:35:05,849.095 My hope is that you walked away with something today that has opened your mind, your heart, or both listening to new perspectives, not only help you grow and expand, but it helps humanity as a whole. 438 00:35:06,299.096 --> 00:35:11,379.096 So if you have someone that you feel would benefit from this podcast and you feel that you want to share. 439 00:35:11,709.096 --> 00:35:12,479.096 Please do. 440 00:35:12,839.096 --> 00:35:15,649.096 Also would love to connect with you on Instagram. 441 00:35:15,779.096 --> 00:35:18,119.096 So please follow me at Miranda J. 442 00:35:18,119.096 --> 00:35:18,569.096 Mitchell. 443 00:35:18,989.096 --> 00:35:26,279.096 One last thing, if this episode left you with any ahas and insights, take 30 seconds of your time and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. 444 00:35:26,919.096 --> 00:35:30,509.096 This is the only way I know you are loving the content and connection in this space. 445 00:35:31,699.096 --> 00:35:37,599.096 And if you want to know more or wondering how we can work together, please go to Miranda Mitchell. 446 00:35:37,839.096 --> 00:35:38,229.096 com. 447 00:35:38,489.096 --> 00:35:40,709.096 Click on the contact in the menu and send me a message. 448 00:35:41,424.096 --> 00:35:42,414.096 Sending you all love. 449 00:35:42,694.096 --> 00:35:43,404.096 Till next time.
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