In this special episode of the Provoking Prosperity Podcast, Miranda has her friend, co-creator and fellow Human Design expert Rachael Weaver on . In today's thought-provoking discussion, Miranda and Rachael opens up about their experiences of finding it easier to blend in and be agreeable rather than embracing their true self. They dive deep into the concept that many people suppress their authenticity in order to feel valued and seen, leading to unhappiness and an internal struggle. They discuss the exploration of self-discovery and healing, as they share their own transformative journey of stepping out of their comfort zone in business and relationships. From powerful emotional releases to reevaluating conditioned beliefs, Rachael and Miranda dive into the ways societal expectations oppress personal expression and how it impacts our lives. They challenge us to imagine who we would be without these limitations and encourages us to embrace deeper conversations and discussions in our own lives. Join us for the first of many podcasts where Miranda and Rachael come to share, answer questions and dive deep into all things with the voice and marketing!
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- Uncovering Your Authentic Self - Exploring the fears and hesitations people have in expressing their true beliefs and desires - Exploring the power of communication in relationships, personal growth, and professional success - The challenges of going deeper and discussing more complex topics in messaging - Discussing the impact of societal norms on career choices and personal fulfillment
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Do you spend all of your time building and maintaining your business so that you achieve the success you envision? Do you feel frustrated, unfulfilled, and have a loss or disconnect from your creative flow? Are you a conscious leader that is ready for change when it comes to society's views on money, wealth, relationships, and what prosperity truly means? If so, you are in the right place.
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Welcome to the provoking prosperity podcast.
.999I am your host, Miranda Mitchell.
.999I am a two four manage end.
Who is here to empower and equip you to step out of the box of social norms, guide you into using your voice for inspiration and impact and support you in finding what prosperity means for you so that you have the business and life that fulfills you.
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So grab that cup of coffee, get comfy, and get ready to hear the heartwarming and heart wrenching personal stories, all things jinkies plus tangible practices that you can implement right now for your personal and business growth.
Miranda.
Oh my gosh.
I'm so excited for this conversation.
I mean, you and I, I do think that we, there is a connection.
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Maybe it's because our charts are so dang similar. 12 00:01:07,199.999 --> 00:01:08,839.999 Maybe it's just a soul thing. 13 00:01:08,909.999 --> 00:01:11,149.999 I don't know, but I'm so excited to have you here.
Oh, that makes my heart happy.
I love that soul connection and the charts, or maybe it's a yes and really on the charts and the way that we kind of want to shift the world and the way that we be in the world is.
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And I love that you said that makes me happy.
Love it.
I would love for you to share about your story of like coming into your voice because I mean, yes, our charts are similar, but we've had very different lived experiences.
And I think that's as part of what makes everyone special is you can have very similar charts, but your lived experience is completely different, right? Your, what you experienced as a child and Your culture and environment and all those different things play a role in how the energies are expressed.
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.999So I'd love to hear more about your story and your coming into your own voice and how human design played a role in that, or if it didn't and those types of questions.
Well, human design definitely played a role in that, definitely, but it was kind of like an ever evolving type of thing where I wasn't aware of it at that time. 22 00:02:22,239.999 --> 00:02:37,279.999 And the experiences, I truly feel like we come into this world with, A certain thing that we're here to learn about when I go deep into my chart, I realize everything in my chart had to do with support or lack of support. 23 00:02:37,599.999 --> 00:02:42,160 My entire life was really created about this lack of support that I had with my mother.
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.999And as I dove into my chart within the astrology aspects and all the gates and the open G and all the things, it kept coming back to that support and evolution as far as not understanding who I am and not being supported in any way and figuring it out on my own.
.999I moved out when I was 14 for my house because there was a lot of us, my mother, we have, there's a lot of children in our family.
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And my mother would always take in, I would like to say strays of children as well.
So we would have always people coming in, but yet we didn't get the support.
She was always giving to other people, but yet she wasn't supportive of us.
At least that's how I felt because she was always having.
.999So as she had us, she kind of let us go and we were basically fending for ourselves.
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.9995I moved out at 14 because there was a lack of support from her within an experience that I had that had to do with my step uncle. 32 00:03:43,779.9995 --> 00:03:50,649.9995 She basically said I was provoking him when I was, I can't remember the exact age, but it was between nine and 12. 33 00:03:51,69.9995 --> 00:03:53,289.9995 She said I was provoking him and he was 21. 34 00:03:53,569.9985 --> 00:03:58,189.9995 So I don't know how a nine to 12 year old can really provoke a 21 year old. 35 00:03:58,199.9995 --> 00:04:00,9.9995 Although I do have provocation in my son. 36 00:04:00,9.9995 --> 00:04:02,529.9985 So I guess I, I could see that now. 37 00:04:02,919.9985 --> 00:04:10,429.9985 So I've given myself some permission there and some forgiveness, but because she didn't stand up for me, I moved out. 38 00:04:11,309.9985 --> 00:04:15,594.9985 And then when I moved out, I really just went out of control. 39 00:04:15,734.9985 --> 00:04:23,74.9975 I was drinking, I was drugging, I was being promiscuous, I was looking for love in every area. 40 00:04:23,74.9985 --> 00:04:24,884.9985 I didn't love myself at all. 41 00:04:24,884.9985 --> 00:04:28,594.9985 I was a cutter, so I would cut myself so that I could feel. 42 00:04:28,869.9985 --> 00:04:30,439.9985 because I was numb. 43 00:04:30,689.9985 --> 00:04:31,529.9985 Trauma does that. 44 00:04:31,559.9985 --> 00:04:32,679.9985 I was totally numb. 45 00:04:32,989.9985 --> 00:04:36,759.9985 The only thing I used to say to myself I would rather feel pain than nothing at all. 46 00:04:36,949.9975 --> 00:04:41,339.9985 So I would cut myself and I don't know, how I got out of that stage. 47 00:04:41,349.9985 --> 00:04:46,689.9985 I truly feel like even though I felt in this world, I was not supported. 48 00:04:47,59.9985 --> 00:04:49,489.9985 I truly feel in another dimension. 49 00:04:50,129.9985 --> 00:04:53,759.9985 I was supported because I was definitely guided. 50 00:04:54,309.9985 --> 00:05:02,509.9985 Away from that, where I just stopped, so within this entire process, there are many elements that kind of grounded me into each area of my life. 51 00:05:02,509.9995 --> 00:05:03,919.9975 When I had my first son. 52 00:05:04,294.9985 --> 00:05:05,834.9985 Grounded me in my purpose. 53 00:05:06,94.9985 --> 00:05:07,164.9985 Then I had my other son. 54 00:05:07,164.9985 --> 00:05:10,944.9985 It grounded me into having the strength to get away from an abusive relationship. 55 00:05:11,264.9985 --> 00:05:15,964.9975 Then I had my daughter who grounded me into loving myself because she's a mirror reflection of me. 56 00:05:16,324.9975 --> 00:05:27,614.9985 She was actually due on my birth date, but she gave me four days so that I could actually kind of have a little space, but she is still a deep reflection of self love and lack of self love. 57 00:05:27,864.9985 --> 00:05:29,584.9985 So I feel like she came to me. 58 00:05:30,89.9985 --> 00:05:48,359.9975 For that reason, and within this time, because my mother didn't support me and listen to me, I created this belief that what I said didn't matter, no one believed me anyway I was stupid, I didn't know anything, I was constantly just telling myself all these things all the time because I wasn't valued, I wasn't listened to. 59 00:05:49,149.9975 --> 00:05:56,29.9965 Throughout my entire life, I created this whole life around this feeling of not being supported in my voice. 60 00:05:56,69.9975 --> 00:06:11,199.9975 I even had an abusive relationship where he choked me anytime I used my voice, which then again was like, I'm not allowed to speak, I'm not allowed to share my words, but I didn't realize this until I started going deeper into my human design chart. 61 00:06:11,724.9975 --> 00:06:20,404.9975 And then I started noticing I have a lot of activation to my throat, three of the four motors are connected to my throat, and yet I was so shy. 62 00:06:20,874.9975 --> 00:06:21,894.9975 I wouldn't speak. 63 00:06:21,944.9975 --> 00:06:31,674.9975 my face would get so red anytime a person asked me a question because all the energy is coming up like speak, speak, speak, but I I would cry. 64 00:06:31,704.9965 --> 00:06:32,734.9975 I'd get embarrassed. 65 00:06:32,784.9975 --> 00:06:36,864.9975 There are those awarenesses that started coming up for me within human design aspect. 66 00:06:36,874.9975 --> 00:06:42,974.9975 And then I went into the equine gestalt, which helped me release my anger. 67 00:06:43,324.9975 --> 00:06:45,214.9985 I didn't feel like I had anger. 68 00:06:45,214.9985 --> 00:06:49,834.9965 I thought I was this person that was forgiving and loving and I'm good. 69 00:06:50,414.9975 --> 00:06:56,974.9975 Until my coach gave me the racket and said, start hitting this cube and let me know how you feel. 70 00:06:56,974.9975 --> 00:07:00,464.9975 And then holy, like everything came out and my voice. 71 00:07:01,334.9975 --> 00:07:06,604.9975 I was screaming and yelling and by the time I was done, my entire body was shaking. 72 00:07:06,614.9975 --> 00:07:08,324.9975 I could barely stand. 73 00:07:08,864.9965 --> 00:07:23,544.9965 I feel like everything that I'm doing for myself now is giving me the opportunity to realize how conditioned I was because of those beliefs I created about myself because of what happened when I was nine. 74 00:07:24,164.9965 --> 00:07:31,324.9965 I feel we are all conditioned in the voice because almost everyone has either heard you're too much, you're too quiet. 75 00:07:31,564.9965 --> 00:07:35,444.9965 Why are you so shy? You need to be seen, not heard. 76 00:07:35,714.9965 --> 00:07:39,34.9965 We have all of this, which suppresses. 77 00:07:39,509.9965 --> 00:07:40,739.9965 Our authenticity. 78 00:07:41,39.9965 --> 00:07:41,189.9965 Yeah. 79 00:07:41,219.9965 --> 00:07:43,919.9965 Which then we create our entire life around. 80 00:07:45,539.9965 --> 00:07:57,809.9965 So when you look at your human design chart, and I've, even people I've worked with, I ask them this question and every time I get tears, who would you be if you did not have that belief? Mm-Hmm. 81 00:07:58,139.9965 --> 00:08:00,324.9965 Every single person is like, I don't. 82 00:08:01,184.9965 --> 00:08:17,434.9965 No, I don't know who I am and it is because we're so conditioned over those little things of suppression of trying to fit in, trying to be seen, but in a way that's not too much, which is a huge one for me. 83 00:08:17,854.9955 --> 00:08:20,54.9965 I'm very observant of people. 84 00:08:20,759.9965 --> 00:08:25,549.9965 I know how much they can take and I don't go over that edge so they don't reject me. 85 00:08:25,569.9965 --> 00:08:26,819.9965 They don't tell me I'm too much. 86 00:08:26,969.9965 --> 00:08:28,669.9965 They don't say they don't love me. 87 00:08:28,670.0965 --> 00:08:32,540.0965 I'm suppressing so much because I don't want to be too weird. 88 00:08:32,710.0965 --> 00:08:34,20.0955 I don't want to be too out there. 89 00:08:35,590.0965 --> 00:08:37,160.0965 I do the same thing. 90 00:08:37,170.0955 --> 00:08:44,130.0965 It was actually just talking about this with a coach talking that like I will read the room. 91 00:08:44,150.0965 --> 00:09:04,415.0965 I will read the person that I'm talking to and the situation and I'll decide how much Do I unleash and like just be versus Boxing in and playing by the rules and doing what everyone is expected to do in this certain situation. 92 00:09:04,935.0965 --> 00:09:15,125.0965 And yeah, it's fascinating in some ways that like, are you doing it because you want to be liked? Are you doing it just to be cordial, well, I know my answer. 93 00:09:15,175.0965 --> 00:09:23,145.0965 What's your answer? I feel like most of the time I just don't want the drama and I don't want people to get upset in any way. 94 00:09:23,145.0965 --> 00:09:29,255.0965 So it is a little bit of an emotional thing, but it's also, it's like, sometimes I don't really care either way. 95 00:09:29,705.0965 --> 00:09:35,765.0965 And sometimes it's just easier to blend in with everyone else than to be. 96 00:09:36,85.0965 --> 00:09:47,55.0965 Who I would normally be with, my best friends, the people that really know me, it's just easier just to, be that surface level person that's agreeable. 97 00:09:48,135.0965 --> 00:09:48,985.0965 I get that. 98 00:09:49,95.0965 --> 00:09:49,765.0965 I get that. 99 00:09:49,765.0965 --> 00:09:56,75.0955 But I truly feel like that is why a lot of us are not happy. 100 00:09:56,75.0965 --> 00:10:07,95.0965 That's why a lot of us, even with our marketing and our messaging, that's why we're not fully receiving All the recognition for who we are because we're suppressing it. 101 00:10:07,105.0965 --> 00:10:18,625.0965 So we feel valued and seen and not too much, but what if we actually were that crazy person that said all the things I'm getting there. 102 00:10:20,770.0965 --> 00:10:29,970.0965 Yeah, I am totally with you and I, I mean, I feel like every time I talk to you, I'm like, Oh, I could definitely open myself up a little bit more. 103 00:10:32,500.0965 --> 00:10:37,990.0965 Well, it's a good thing that we're going to be doing this podcast thing because you guys are in for a treat for it. 104 00:10:38,280.0965 --> 00:10:45,970.0975 Well, you do, you just, you have a way of being yourself, but it's never like, I've never felt like it was in my face. 105 00:10:46,415.0975 --> 00:10:49,825.0975 Or it was too big or too much, either. 106 00:10:49,995.0975 --> 00:11:00,215.0965 And I totally relate to that, being too much, being too, just too big of an energy, I feel like in my early 20s, I was a lot more outspoken. 107 00:11:00,215.0965 --> 00:11:07,565.0965 I would, unleash on people and just, and then had several people in my life that were like, no, pull it back. 108 00:11:08,605.0965 --> 00:11:10,45.0965 You don't need to be that way. 109 00:11:10,345.0965 --> 00:11:14,845.0965 You don't need, and it was, it was all in from the best of their intentions. 110 00:11:15,535.0965 --> 00:11:20,445.0965 But it did, it silenced a little bit and made me feel like maybe I should control myself more. 111 00:11:20,495.0955 --> 00:11:23,225.0955 I am too unhinged in some certain circumstances. 112 00:11:25,825.0965 --> 00:11:30,325.0965 That's very interesting that you said control because someone said that to me the other day. 113 00:11:30,325.0965 --> 00:11:32,845.0955 I was talking to someone about. 114 00:11:33,445.0965 --> 00:11:45,205.0955 Using my voice and like with my relationship, there's a lot of stuff happening with me and my personal relationship with my partner and our relationship is not normal. 115 00:11:45,325.0955 --> 00:11:53,965.0955 It is not what a lot of people would think was normal, but we've made that decision, but yet there's still a little bit of control. 116 00:11:54,115.0965 --> 00:12:09,705.0975 And someone asked me, well, why, are you controlling the outcome of it and doing it in a way that's more peaceful? And I said, well, cause my daughter, I don't want this chaos to affect my daughter because that was my life. 117 00:12:10,295.0975 --> 00:12:11,425.0975 I was affected. 118 00:12:11,465.0965 --> 00:12:17,695.0975 I lived in chaos all the time and I'm here to protect my daughter. 119 00:12:17,915.0975 --> 00:12:21,875.0975 So I have to do things in a way that is also mindful. 120 00:12:22,225.0975 --> 00:12:29,785.0975 You know, there's, you have to be mindful, but then it's also like, but that's not authentic either. 121 00:12:30,185.0975 --> 00:12:34,195.0975 Cause you're controlling things for someone else. 122 00:12:35,555.0975 --> 00:12:36,335.0975 Ooh. 123 00:12:37,385.0975 --> 00:12:37,965.0975 Yeah. 124 00:12:37,965.0975 --> 00:12:39,635.0975 That's so man. 125 00:12:39,735.0975 --> 00:12:44,245.0975 I totally relate to that because I do as a parent feel. 126 00:12:45,200.0985 --> 00:13:06,860.0985 Responsibility for their experience in some way, at least helping them understand things and being a guide and not necessarily telling them how to whatever, but the way that we parent the situations of the life that we have designed all is dictating their life experience. 127 00:13:07,575.0985 --> 00:13:08,175.0985 And it is. 128 00:13:08,745.0985 --> 00:13:13,995.0985 I don't, I don't see that as a bad thing per se, but it is something to be aware of for sure. 129 00:13:14,15.0985 --> 00:13:23,675.0985 Like, are you protecting them from something that could ultimately serve them? That's a tough question. 130 00:13:24,5.0985 --> 00:13:26,215.0985 Oh, yeah, it is. 131 00:13:26,675.0985 --> 00:13:30,655.0985 How I actually contemplated that afterwards, because at first I was like, well, I have to protect my daughter. 132 00:13:30,875.0985 --> 00:13:36,305.0985 And then after I had to sit with it being a two four, you know, you have to sit with it and your own energy and feel into it. 133 00:13:36,825.0985 --> 00:13:42,125.0995 And I realized then okay, I can protect her, but I also need to communicate with her. 134 00:13:42,275.0985 --> 00:13:43,335.0995 I can't hide things. 135 00:13:43,825.0995 --> 00:13:50,165.0995 So we're going to keep this space in a secure because I didn't have a secure space when I was younger. 136 00:13:50,165.0995 --> 00:13:51,445.0995 I didn't have a grounded space. 137 00:13:51,805.0995 --> 00:14:08,455.0995 And luckily my partner and I, Agree on this, which I'm so grateful for because he came into my life definitely for, I feel like this reason so that I can heal this karmic pattern that goes on in my family and also be there for her because she has this thing with talking to males. 138 00:14:08,635.0995 --> 00:14:11,295.0995 She doesn't feel kind of safe where she can with him. 139 00:14:11,705.0985 --> 00:14:21,865.0995 So we have opened up our relationship in a way that is very grounded and open, but still very secure and I've also let her be a part of it. 140 00:14:22,615.0995 --> 00:14:29,195.0995 So, she understands that relationships don't have to look like a certain way to be a relationship. 141 00:14:29,415.0995 --> 00:14:30,375.0995 Mm. 142 00:14:30,415.0995 --> 00:14:32,915.0985 And she's like 14, right? She's 12. 143 00:14:33,275.0995 --> 00:14:33,605.0995 12. 144 00:14:33,615.0995 --> 00:14:34,25.0995 Okay. 145 00:14:34,995.0995 --> 00:14:35,415.0995 Yeah. 146 00:14:35,415.0995 --> 00:14:48,795.0995 And I mean, that is such an age to be diving into those deeper conversations too, because she can understand and she's starting to already form her own opinions and beliefs and ideas about relationships. 147 00:14:49,165.0995 --> 00:14:52,15.0995 So, to open up that dialogue, oh. 148 00:14:52,460.0995 --> 00:14:54,610.0995 That's, that's beautiful. 149 00:14:55,440.0995 --> 00:14:55,890.0995 Yeah. 150 00:14:55,910.0995 --> 00:14:59,650.0995 Well, are kids are always so much more aware than we even realize. 151 00:14:59,780.0995 --> 00:15:09,635.0995 And the minute that she started asking questions, I had to say, okay, I need to have this conversation because she's I'm not going to hide things from her. 152 00:15:09,685.0995 --> 00:15:10,875.0995 She's going to understand things. 153 00:15:11,595.0995 --> 00:15:20,515.0995 So this is an opportunity to help her have new perspectives in the way to have friendships, new perspectives in how to relationships, new perspectives in the way a family works. 154 00:15:20,835.0995 --> 00:15:28,705.0995 It is truly actually a gift in being able to speak with her about this so she can have a choice when she's older. 155 00:15:28,885.0995 --> 00:15:29,505.0995 Yeah. 156 00:15:29,885.0995 --> 00:15:31,385.0995 Yeah, absolutely. 157 00:15:31,535.0995 --> 00:15:31,795.0995 Ugh. 158 00:15:32,245.0995 --> 00:15:33,25.0995 That's awesome. 159 00:15:34,205.0995 --> 00:15:37,45.0995 Being a parent always keeps us learning. 160 00:15:37,955.0995 --> 00:15:40,115.0995 Oh, it is always pushing an edge. 161 00:15:40,155.0995 --> 00:15:47,625.0995 I feel like, oh, once you think you get it figured out, there's a curveball that's like, nope, I don't. 162 00:15:48,615.0995 --> 00:15:49,35.0995 Yeah. 163 00:15:49,315.0995 --> 00:15:58,605.0995 And that even goes to self expression with parenting because I, I feel like before I truly cared. 164 00:15:59,105.0995 --> 00:16:03,595.0995 And I know a lot of parents care about what others think of them. 165 00:16:03,605.0995 --> 00:16:07,805.0995 They want their kids to behave because if they don't behave, then they're a bad parent. 166 00:16:07,805.0995 --> 00:16:08,885.0995 It has nothing to do with the kid. 167 00:16:08,885.0995 --> 00:16:11,325.0995 It has to do with their perspective and what people judge them out. 168 00:16:11,975.0995 --> 00:16:13,395.0985 Right? Yeah, 100%. 169 00:16:13,395.0995 --> 00:16:14,745.0995 So, yeah. 170 00:16:14,845.0985 --> 00:16:17,325.0995 So it, it gives the opportunity. 171 00:16:17,640.0995 --> 00:16:20,910.0995 To go deeper into your own stuff. 172 00:16:20,940.0995 --> 00:16:21,30.0995 Mm-Hmm. 173 00:16:21,270.0995 --> 00:16:22,655.0995 and your belief and, Mm-Hmm. 174 00:16:22,735.0995 --> 00:16:34,730.0995 And like what people see you as a parent and judge you and, and using your voice and saying, I'm not sticking in the conformity of what Good parent. 175 00:16:34,730.0995 --> 00:16:35,55.0995 Mm-Hmm mm-Hmm. 176 00:16:35,195.0995 --> 00:16:36,455.0995 it looks like Mm-Hmm. 177 00:16:37,560.0995 --> 00:16:44,460.0995 Well, and even I think our choice in deciding to homeschool has been very provoking and I found it even. 178 00:16:44,950.0995 --> 00:17:02,810.0995 When we in our old house, we sent the kids to a private school and that was provoking initially as well to the people that we around there were all sending their kids to the public school and they were like, why are you sending your kid to a private school? Like, what's wrong with the public? They instantly felt like they were judging me. 179 00:17:03,670.0995 --> 00:17:04,140.0995 Right. 180 00:17:04,250.0995 --> 00:17:08,250.0995 And for my decision, even though I don't judge you for your decision. 181 00:17:08,290.0995 --> 00:17:10,340.0995 I don't care where you send your child. 182 00:17:10,340.0995 --> 00:17:11,500.0995 It is your decision. 183 00:17:12,40.0995 --> 00:17:20,715.0995 And I want the same respect and found that even when we decided to homeschool, it was like people would defend What they did, they would defend. 184 00:17:20,735.0995 --> 00:17:21,975.0995 Oh, well, I can't do that. 185 00:17:22,225.0995 --> 00:17:23,575.0995 Oh, I don't have the time for that. 186 00:17:23,815.0995 --> 00:17:27,385.0995 And they were like, that has nothing to do with our decision. 187 00:17:28,155.0995 --> 00:17:32,865.0995 It was just interesting to see how people react to someone living outside of the box. 188 00:17:34,75.0995 --> 00:17:37,75.0995 Yeah, That is a great point. 189 00:17:37,75.0995 --> 00:17:44,325.0995 And what comes up is usually their fears and inadequacies of what they're doing. 190 00:17:44,325.0995 --> 00:17:50,655.0985 Cause it even, I don't drink and I haven't drank for six years and people get weird about it. 191 00:17:50,655.0995 --> 00:17:56,25.0995 Like, why don't you drink? Why don't you have one drink? It's like, why does it even matter? I'm not judging you. 192 00:17:56,675.0995 --> 00:18:09,575.0985 Right? Like, why are you drinking alcoholic? Why does it matter if I do or not? Exactly, but that goes to show why so many people stay in that conformity. 193 00:18:09,775.0995 --> 00:18:10,205.0995 Yes. 194 00:18:10,745.0995 --> 00:18:11,525.0995 It does. 195 00:18:11,555.0995 --> 00:18:19,245.0995 It really does is because they are afraid of their own, their own judgments for one, because they're judging other people for living outside of the box. 196 00:18:20,85.0995 --> 00:18:23,485.0995 And therefore, like, I can't step out of the box. 197 00:18:23,495.0985 --> 00:18:32,465.0995 Holy crap, like what's going to happen to me if I do that, and that does bring fears up too, because usually when you do step out of the box, there is a little bit of chaos. 198 00:18:32,860.0995 --> 00:18:56,170.0995 People fall away, friends fall away if you're shifting your business, business shifts, and a lot of people, like that starts to happen and then they restrict and like, oh no, I messed up, this is showing me that I messed up, when in reality it's more so you're realigning and you have to let things fall away so that you can fully step into who you're that next evolution of who you are, but most people. 199 00:18:56,805.0995 --> 00:19:00,965.0995 Get scared and they hold back and they stay the same and stay safe. 200 00:19:01,995.0995 --> 00:19:02,885.0995 I've been doing this. 201 00:19:02,935.0995 --> 00:19:05,305.0995 I've honestly been stepping out of the box. 202 00:19:06,515.0995 --> 00:19:08,975.0995 Consistently for over six months now. 203 00:19:09,295.0995 --> 00:19:28,155.0995 And let me tell you, so much has changed, but so many things have happened that are helping me step into my voice more, helping me be more bold, helping me understand myself more and not really letting others, keep me stuck or down. 204 00:19:28,365.0995 --> 00:19:31,35.0995 So it's, yeah, it's a lot of messiness. 205 00:19:31,415.0995 --> 00:19:38,605.0995 And it's overwhelming at times, but once you get to the place where it's like, Ooh, something's falling away, something else is coming. 206 00:19:38,785.0995 --> 00:19:41,905.0995 What is it? You know, it's, it's all on your perspective. 207 00:19:42,345.0995 --> 00:19:42,735.0995 It is. 208 00:19:42,855.0995 --> 00:19:43,595.0995 It so is. 209 00:19:43,595.0995 --> 00:19:50,525.0995 And I know I have felt that way where I stepped outside the box and went, Oh my God, what's happening? That was a really bad decision. 210 00:19:50,525.0995 --> 00:19:57,265.0995 Or I feel like I made the wrong decision or whatever, but now it is more of, okay Things are falling away. 211 00:19:57,285.0995 --> 00:20:03,265.0995 The things that were no longer serving me can fall away and something new can come in its place. 212 00:20:03,265.0995 --> 00:20:05,555.0995 Like you can't add more. 213 00:20:06,145.0995 --> 00:20:11,665.0995 You have to get rid of first in order to really fully express and be yourself. 214 00:20:11,855.0985 --> 00:20:26,560.099 Do you feel like the word alignment, when people say alignment in their business life, all that kind of stuff, do you feel like people understand that alignment is not easy? No. 215 00:20:28,450.099 --> 00:20:30,100.099 Because alignment and realignment... 216 00:20:30,685.099 --> 00:20:31,425.099 Is messy. 217 00:20:32,145.099 --> 00:20:32,485.099 Yeah. 218 00:20:32,955.099 --> 00:20:42,335.099 I would say most people, and honestly, I think it's the messaging that's out there is just, just align to yourself and everything will be hunky dory and flow. 219 00:20:42,815.099 --> 00:20:44,835.099 I did not have that experience. 220 00:20:44,945.098 --> 00:20:46,255.098 I feel like it's been messy. 221 00:20:46,285.097 --> 00:20:54,915.098 It's been rocky and scary and kind of feels like, I don't know what the heck I'm doing most of the time. 222 00:20:55,135.098 --> 00:20:57,395.098 And most people don't, most people don't understand. 223 00:20:57,865.098 --> 00:21:03,5.098 That things have to fall away before they can be in true alignment. 224 00:21:04,145.098 --> 00:21:04,515.098 Yeah. 225 00:21:05,125.098 --> 00:21:06,125.098 And a lot of trust. 226 00:21:07,825.098 --> 00:21:22,325.1 There has to be trust in that and knowing that even though things are a mess right now and you don't know what's going to happen, that you are supported, that the things that will show up for you in right timing, that yeah, you may struggle and things may be hard, but. 227 00:21:23,110.1 --> 00:21:27,460.1 You will move through it as long as you let yourself move through it and not hold on to things. 228 00:21:28,40.1 --> 00:21:28,270.1 Yeah. 229 00:21:28,480.1 --> 00:21:40,470.1 And not make the falling away mean anything about you, not let it mean that you did something wrong or did it wrong, did anything wrong or that you're not worthy or not enough or any of that. 230 00:21:40,760.1 --> 00:21:43,100.1 And just let it just be, it is what it is. 231 00:21:43,110.1 --> 00:21:47,880.1 Like allow the emotion to come up, come through whatever it needs to be. 232 00:21:47,900.1 --> 00:21:49,820.1 My friend that I spent the weekend with. 233 00:21:50,420.1 --> 00:21:52,460.1 She's going through a lot and I was like, just be with it. 234 00:21:52,480.1 --> 00:21:53,390.1 I know it sucks. 235 00:21:53,430.1 --> 00:21:59,200.099 And she has always, always, always had a great perspective of things are happening for me, not to me. 236 00:21:59,890.1 --> 00:22:05,570.1 And I told her that like, you're doing, you're, you're in the thick of it and it's okay to be in the thick of it. 237 00:22:05,880.1 --> 00:22:07,590.1 Just be present in it. 238 00:22:07,620.099 --> 00:22:09,10.1 You'll get to the other side. 239 00:22:09,20.099 --> 00:22:11,380.1 Who knows what that looks like? I don't know what it looks like. 240 00:22:11,380.1 --> 00:22:12,130.1 You don't either. 241 00:22:12,160.1 --> 00:22:12,960.1 That's okay. 242 00:22:13,350.1 --> 00:22:15,190.1 Just be in the muck. 243 00:22:15,935.1 --> 00:22:23,645.1 Learn what you need to learn in this muck so that you can come out the other side and go, holy shit, I'm a whole new person, whole new person for the better. 244 00:22:25,525.1 --> 00:22:31,585.1 That goes with your messaging too, because we came together because of human design and messaging and the voice. 245 00:22:32,65.1 --> 00:22:40,585.099 And that's why we are doing these podcasts, there's going to be numerous, where we just come together, have conversations, probably have people ask questions. 246 00:22:41,25.1 --> 00:22:41,565.099 I don't know. 247 00:22:41,955.1 --> 00:22:42,975.1 Ooh, that could be fun. 248 00:22:43,5.099 --> 00:22:44,55.1 I like that idea. 249 00:22:44,355.1 --> 00:22:44,795.1 Yeah. 250 00:22:44,795.1 --> 00:22:50,295.099 Like have people listen and have questions where we can respond to them because they're Yeah. 251 00:22:50,455.099 --> 00:23:02,695.1 I know, and just see what happens and I know that we came together because You are my podcast and we have a lot of things in common with our charts. 252 00:23:02,935.1 --> 00:23:10,335.0985 So I want to ask you then, yeah, since you asked me about the embodiment of the voice, cause that's what I'm focusing on. 253 00:23:11,5.0985 --> 00:23:22,425.0975 What is this collaboration or connection that you feel with us with the messaging and the voice and why is it that you wanted to do this? I love this cause we get to take turns asking questions. 254 00:23:24,155.0985 --> 00:23:35,125.0975 I feel like there's just certain people that you meet and you're like, you feel like you can go deep and ask the harder questions with, right? And I feel like those people, I want more in my life. 255 00:23:35,695.0975 --> 00:23:39,35.0975 I want more interactions like that. 256 00:23:39,655.0985 --> 00:23:42,105.0975 And maybe it's the sixth lane, the fourth line, whatever. 257 00:23:42,155.0975 --> 00:23:46,105.0975 But those are the people that I'm like, I want to hang on to you in some way. 258 00:23:46,125.0975 --> 00:23:48,175.0975 I want to keep you in my sphere. 259 00:23:48,345.0975 --> 00:23:52,715.0975 I want to like nurture this relationship because there's. 260 00:23:53,555.0975 --> 00:23:55,455.0975 That's not an easy thing to find. 261 00:23:55,505.0975 --> 00:23:57,415.0975 I feel like it's not, it's not common. 262 00:23:58,475.0975 --> 00:23:58,895.0975 I don't know. 263 00:23:58,965.0975 --> 00:23:59,935.0975 I meet a lot of people. 264 00:24:02,365.0975 --> 00:24:03,5.0975 Yeah. 265 00:24:03,5.0975 --> 00:24:04,715.0975 I agree with that too. 266 00:24:04,775.0975 --> 00:24:11,105.097 With the depth and going deeper, not being afraid to share the deeper stuff and the messy stuff. 267 00:24:11,125.097 --> 00:24:12,945.097 Whereas a lot of people don't want to go there. 268 00:24:13,195.096 --> 00:24:13,585.096 Yeah. 269 00:24:14,545.096 --> 00:24:14,855.096 Yeah. 270 00:24:17,15.097 --> 00:24:27,695.097 Do you go into the deeper stuff and the messy stuff with the messaging or do you feel like a lot of the people aren't ready to go there? One on one, yes. 271 00:24:28,225.097 --> 00:24:30,75.0975 Because I think when you haven't. 272 00:24:31,330.0975 --> 00:24:42,930.0975 I've been in feeling safe to say what you want to say and you've just been conforming your message to what you think is going to sell to what you think is supposed to be good messaging. 273 00:24:44,300.0975 --> 00:24:48,260.0965 It can feel really scary to come out and actually talk about what you want to talk about. 274 00:24:48,270.0975 --> 00:24:49,260.0965 I felt that way. 275 00:24:49,270.0975 --> 00:24:56,500.0975 I mean, it's why I created a private Facebook group for a year and a half and only talked about what I wanted to talk about in that group. 276 00:24:56,500.0975 --> 00:24:57,430.0975 I didn't have Instagram. 277 00:24:57,430.0975 --> 00:24:58,80.0975 I didn't have like. 278 00:24:58,305.0975 --> 00:25:03,785.0975 It was exclusively this private Facebook group because I didn't feel safe talking about it. 279 00:25:04,245.0975 --> 00:25:09,655.0975 And it wasn't until I did it long enough and felt like, Oh yeah, I do have something to say. 280 00:25:09,655.0975 --> 00:25:10,975.0975 People are listening. 281 00:25:11,395.0975 --> 00:25:13,105.0985 It was validation. 282 00:25:13,165.0985 --> 00:25:17,825.0985 I, I don't think I did it seeking the validation, but when it came, I was like, okay. 283 00:25:18,110.0985 --> 00:25:30,970.0985 Now, I feel like I have a piece that was missing in my confidence to be able to go out and face the masses, face the whatever's out there, be able to talk about what I want to talk about. 284 00:25:32,50.0975 --> 00:25:37,240.0975 So you create that, that four line, that safety first, you felt grounded and safe. 285 00:25:37,270.0985 --> 00:25:38,320.098 You felt good in yourself. 286 00:25:38,320.098 --> 00:25:39,520.0975 You understood yourself. 287 00:25:39,990.0975 --> 00:25:40,810.0975 And then. 288 00:25:41,135.0985 --> 00:25:42,605.0985 You stepped more so out. 289 00:25:42,625.0985 --> 00:25:47,525.0985 So where is the provocation in your chart again? 39 is my sun gate. 290 00:25:48,525.0985 --> 00:25:55,165.0985 So I mean we have basically it's the same numbers, they're just in different order for our incarnation crosses. 291 00:25:55,635.0985 --> 00:26:00,435.0985 Conscious sun is 39 and unconscious is 21 for me. 292 00:26:01,435.0985 --> 00:26:09,915.0985 And mine's like the conscious sun is 48 and the unconscious 39 and then the conscious earth is 21. 293 00:26:10,425.0985 --> 00:26:10,605.0985 Yeah. 294 00:26:10,705.0975 --> 00:26:20,855.099 Well, no wonder why we kind of like our energies like bounce off each other, right? Like it's just a tiny little difference, but it's very similar. 295 00:26:20,915.099 --> 00:26:21,225.099 Yeah. 296 00:26:23,275.099 --> 00:26:30,785.099 I love the 39 in the conscious son because that energy is what you're here to be is that provocation and provoking thing. 297 00:26:30,795.099 --> 00:26:36,15.0985 So you knew that by creating that space, getting comfortable in that sharing. 298 00:26:36,15.0985 --> 00:26:43,835.099 And then it's like, okay, now I know more, so I'm going to bring it out more into the world with the provoking more. 299 00:26:46,495.099 --> 00:26:49,635.099 and it had to be on my own timeline too. 300 00:26:50,95.099 --> 00:27:10,735.099 I have had several people in that timeframe say, you need to be doing like stuff on your Facebook profile, and just being louder and more, I don't know, like putting plastering it everywhere, what I was doing and I was like, no, that is no It's not, not the way I wanna do it, I guess. 301 00:27:11,110.099 --> 00:27:11,570.099 I want to do it. 302 00:27:11,580.099 --> 00:27:12,490.099 Not yet. 303 00:27:14,470.099 --> 00:27:14,930.099 Not yet. 304 00:27:15,30.099 --> 00:27:18,370.099 You can't exactly because yeah, I felt that way too. 305 00:27:18,520.099 --> 00:27:21,390.099 Before I felt like I needed to have a safe space. 306 00:27:21,390.099 --> 00:27:23,340.099 I didn't need to have all of this. 307 00:27:23,890.099 --> 00:27:25,900.099 All of this energy with provoking out there. 308 00:27:25,900.099 --> 00:27:31,560.099 But now that I've been really diving into letting go of the anger and letting my voice out, it's like, no, I'm here to provoke. 309 00:27:31,660.099 --> 00:27:32,750.099 I'm here to bring that out. 310 00:27:32,780.099 --> 00:27:35,140.099 And if people get provoked, then I'm doing my job. 311 00:27:35,150.098 --> 00:27:38,580.099 So I'm doing what I'm here for. 312 00:27:39,10.099 --> 00:27:39,870.099 Exactly. 313 00:27:39,950.099 --> 00:27:40,160.0985 Yeah. 314 00:27:40,160.0985 --> 00:27:42,40.099 And that's the difference with messaging. 315 00:27:42,50.099 --> 00:27:47,780.097 When you mentioned, some people don't even know human design and they're automatically following their strategy and they already do it. 316 00:27:48,270.097 --> 00:27:59,370.0975 But I do feel like once you have that knowing and then you no longer have any doubt whatsoever, your messaging is in the face and there's no holding back. 317 00:27:59,560.0975 --> 00:28:06,40.0975 Whatever anyone said, it, it may hurt a little, it may sting, but you know that's what you're here to bring. 318 00:28:06,600.0975 --> 00:28:06,850.0975 Yeah. 319 00:28:06,910.0975 --> 00:28:08,400.0975 Right? Oh, totally. 320 00:28:09,240.0975 --> 00:28:18,450.0965 Going deeper into that with the messaging, even if you don't know your strategy or you do know your strategy, but you haven't really been fully putting it out there, maybe it's not right timing. 321 00:28:18,450.0975 --> 00:28:19,610.0965 You have to feel into it. 322 00:28:19,610.0965 --> 00:28:23,480.097 I feel like we have to try things on first and then we get to be more bold. 323 00:28:23,630.097 --> 00:28:24,850.097 Mm hmm. 324 00:28:24,850.197 --> 00:28:25,219.997 Mm hmm. 325 00:28:25,300.097 --> 00:28:28,890.097 Yeah, get to filter it through your own. 326 00:28:29,825.1595 --> 00:28:30,635.1595 Awareness. 327 00:28:30,685.1595 --> 00:28:42,395.1585 And I think with, as with anything in human design and filtering it through your own awareness, do you feel like that's true or not? Are you ready to be there? Are you ready to really talk about that? If you're not, that's okay. 328 00:28:44,395.1595 --> 00:28:44,865.1595 Yeah. 329 00:28:44,895.1595 --> 00:28:45,715.1595 I've been there. 330 00:28:47,165.1595 --> 00:28:49,435.1595 We have so much to talk about. 331 00:28:49,985.1595 --> 00:28:59,905.1595 I want to know what has been the hardest part of stepping out? Like you talked about like lovability. 332 00:29:00,875.1595 --> 00:29:08,855.1595 But what has been the scary, almost like it's not the scary part that you think is going to happen. 333 00:29:08,855.1595 --> 00:29:16,365.1585 It's almost like the, the hidden benefit of staying small and not using your voice. 334 00:29:17,415.1585 --> 00:29:20,285.1595 I've been going through a lot right now with the being too much. 335 00:29:21,845.1595 --> 00:29:24,545.1595 I've noticed that I would observe. 336 00:29:25,180.1595 --> 00:29:29,210.1595 So I knew what people could take, so it wouldn't be too much. 337 00:29:29,220.1595 --> 00:29:34,90.1595 So that I was loved and valued and seen for who I was. 338 00:29:35,370.1595 --> 00:29:37,290.1585 So, the too muchness. 339 00:29:37,800.1595 --> 00:29:59,410.1585 It's still a lot because I am afraid when I say too much, people are just going to be like, what the hell, like, what is going on with you? Like you're going through a midlife crisis Maybe that is when people get to a specific age, they start to say, you know what, I'm sick of pretending I'm sick of wearing these masks. 340 00:29:59,570.1585 --> 00:30:06,660.1585 And then maybe that's what the midlife crisis is, is truly being authentic and no longer caring what anyone thinks. 341 00:30:06,670.1575 --> 00:30:20,475.1585 Right? So I am definitely still afraid of People lashing out and kind of rejecting me and telling me that I'm crazy, basically, you're too much. 342 00:30:20,485.1585 --> 00:30:21,395.1585 You're way out there. 343 00:30:21,395.1585 --> 00:30:24,775.1585 Why are you being too much? Those are the things that still come up for me. 344 00:30:24,775.1585 --> 00:30:31,725.1575 And sometimes there was a, a person, I think it was about a year ago that said to a colleague of mine that. 345 00:30:32,145.1585 --> 00:30:33,215.1585 I triggered her. 346 00:30:33,635.1585 --> 00:30:39,305.1575 And at first it hurt me because I didn't want to trigger people, but now it's like, yes, I want to trigger people. 347 00:30:39,325.1585 --> 00:30:41,955.1575 Cause that's something it means there's something there. 348 00:30:42,265.1565 --> 00:30:45,775.1575 And I have to understand that even when people say I'm too much. 349 00:30:46,815.1575 --> 00:30:47,805.1575 It's their stuff. 350 00:30:47,805.1575 --> 00:30:48,775.1575 It's not me. 351 00:30:48,845.1575 --> 00:31:00,155.1565 But because I've been holding on for this for so long, it still hurts when people say that to me or say that I'm going through something because it's like I'm not going through anything. 352 00:31:00,155.1565 --> 00:31:04,585.1575 I'm emerging into who I always was and you don't even know who I am. 353 00:31:05,785.1575 --> 00:31:08,895.1585 So that it's scary to me of judgment of people. 354 00:31:09,465.1585 --> 00:31:10,685.1585 Oh yeah. 355 00:31:10,745.1585 --> 00:31:27,40.1585 And I feel like If you talk cross the board, MG vote, have you been considered or do you consider yourself too much? And I guarantee you like 95 percent of us would be like, yup, feel like way too much in some way, shape or form. 356 00:31:27,970.1575 --> 00:31:33,930.1585 Mine has always been, if I speak up, if I talk and just be myself, that I am an idiot. 357 00:31:34,650.1585 --> 00:31:39,190.1585 That I'm stupid, that somehow I'm not smart enough. 358 00:31:39,240.1585 --> 00:31:40,650.1585 I don't even know where that comes from. 359 00:31:40,660.1585 --> 00:31:43,760.1585 I'm sure it's from a childhood, and that I don't want to look stupid. 360 00:31:44,600.1585 --> 00:31:47,270.1585 So if I keep my mouth shut, I can't look stupid. 361 00:31:48,240.1585 --> 00:31:53,310.1575 Well, that's the 48 and adequacy, not knowing enough. 362 00:31:53,310.1595 --> 00:31:53,470.1595 Yeah. 363 00:31:53,470.2595 --> 00:31:53,890.0585 Right. 364 00:31:53,970.1585 --> 00:31:54,250.1585 Yeah. 365 00:31:55,10.1585 --> 00:31:55,300.1585 Yeah. 366 00:31:56,220.1585 --> 00:32:01,510.1585 And even in that, I love that you brought that up too, because that even goes deeper than the too muchness is of. 367 00:32:02,150.1585 --> 00:32:03,880.1585 the depth that we can go into. 368 00:32:04,140.1585 --> 00:32:08,230.1585 Like, some of the things that I'm studying right now, people would seriously think I'm crazy. 369 00:32:08,570.1585 --> 00:32:13,70.1585 Like, what the heck are you even thinking about, right? Like, you're so blue. 370 00:32:13,440.1585 --> 00:32:24,760.1575 I love conspiracy theories and like, not that I believe most, you're generally not, but they're so fascinating to me to go, how someone can go so deep down a rabbit hole. 371 00:32:25,610.1575 --> 00:32:26,590.1575 It's fascinating to me. 372 00:32:27,255.1585 --> 00:32:34,375.1585 Yeah, yeah, and then people I feel like that don't go deep kind of like think we're weird. 373 00:32:34,605.1585 --> 00:32:34,835.1585 Yeah. 374 00:32:34,885.1585 --> 00:32:36,645.1585 And that's a huge thing for me. 375 00:32:36,705.1575 --> 00:32:40,775.1575 I've always been attracted to people that are different. 376 00:32:40,965.1575 --> 00:32:45,825.157 I've always been Oh my gosh, I admire you for walking around with a rat on your shoulder. 377 00:32:46,55.157 --> 00:32:49,765.157 You know what I mean? Like, I've always loved people that were not afraid. 378 00:32:49,785.157 --> 00:32:52,195.157 And now I know it's because I was. 379 00:32:52,815.157 --> 00:33:01,795.157 I'm one of those people, I'm seriously one of those people that go deep into the things that are different, that is attracted to the darker side of things. 380 00:33:01,825.156 --> 00:33:05,645.156 And I couldn't do that because I felt like people would think I'm weird. 381 00:33:05,695.157 --> 00:33:13,835.158 I'm studying right now, galactic astrology on how our past lives, we jumped through portals and aliens. 382 00:33:13,845.158 --> 00:33:18,715.1585 I mean, there's so much that I'm studying right now that people would think Oh my gosh. 383 00:33:19,70.1585 --> 00:33:19,960.1585 Love it. 384 00:33:22,620.1585 --> 00:33:24,830.1585 So I think that's a little bit of the too muchness too. 385 00:33:26,220.1585 --> 00:33:27,240.1585 You're like, you're crazy. 386 00:33:27,770.1585 --> 00:33:28,940.1585 Right, exactly. 387 00:33:30,250.1585 --> 00:33:33,480.1585 It's so funny. 388 00:33:33,670.1585 --> 00:33:34,100.1585 Mm hmm. 389 00:33:34,130.1585 --> 00:33:41,780.1585 I, you know, projectors really call that out on you because my daughter in law, she's a projector. 390 00:33:42,120.1585 --> 00:33:44,865.1585 And at, Christmas I forgot what game we're playing. 391 00:33:44,865.1585 --> 00:33:45,685.1585 We're playing this game. 392 00:33:45,695.1585 --> 00:33:55,105.1585 It had to do with like talking about planets and extraterrestrials and like they had to pick who would it be and it was me and she's a projector. 393 00:33:55,115.1585 --> 00:34:00,915.1575 And at first I was like, what? What are you talking about? Like, because I hadn't even found galactic astrology yet. 394 00:34:01,365.1575 --> 00:34:01,965.0585 And yet. 395 00:34:02,265.1585 --> 00:34:08,785.1585 She, as a projector, called that out last year, and I'm just putting that together right now. 396 00:34:09,135.1585 --> 00:34:15,915.1575 She saw that before I even saw it, which just gives the brilliance of the projectors. 397 00:34:16,255.1585 --> 00:34:34,635.1585 And what is even weird? What is like what is normal? And I was reading it was a parenting book and it was talking about left brain, right brain, and how school, especially K through like sixth, seventh grade is really set up for left brain. 398 00:34:34,845.1585 --> 00:34:42,225.1585 It's very memorizing, consecutive, it's structured, but if you're right brained, you don't do well in that environment, especially if you're very much right brained. 399 00:34:42,235.1585 --> 00:34:50,265.1585 There's kind of a spectrum from right to left, but if you're very much right brained, like you're not going to do well with memorizing. 400 00:34:50,265.1585 --> 00:34:52,285.1575 And I very much right brained. 401 00:34:52,285.2575 --> 00:34:53,545.1585 I don't memorize. 402 00:34:53,595.1585 --> 00:34:54,415.1585 I don't care. 403 00:34:55,595.1585 --> 00:35:20,430.157 I want to know how can I apply this to my life? What does it mean for my life? Give me some application like that versus just memorize these things and you're going to be smart, which is probably why I never felt like I was smart because I can't memorize, It was fascinating because she said in the book that most, 30 percent are very, very right brained. 404 00:35:20,500.157 --> 00:35:26,500.157 Another 30 percent of kids are kind of in that middle spectrum, more in the middle, but leaning on the right. 405 00:35:27,190.157 --> 00:35:39,880.156 And so that's 60 percent of the kids that are leaning on the right side, some more heavily than others, but yet our entire school system is set up for left and how much we are labeling kids. 406 00:35:40,280.157 --> 00:35:51,830.157 Because that their, their brain just works different, and I've heard that argument so many times about ADHD and autism and all these things that we're labeling them because their brain just thinks differently. 407 00:35:51,830.157 --> 00:35:58,30.158 They're not weird, they're not abnormal, it's just different, it's fascinating to me and it makes me... 408 00:35:58,200.158 --> 00:36:18,530.158 Really mindful of how I am schooling my kids as MGs and allowing them to, one, my daughter is definitely very right brained and my son is probably more in the middle, but leans towards the right, I think, but how you notice if it has to do with the Ajna. 409 00:36:20,590.158 --> 00:36:24,770.158 Let's see, my daughter's defined in the Ajna and my son and I are not. 410 00:36:25,620.158 --> 00:36:26,10.158 Okay. 411 00:36:26,620.158 --> 00:36:29,500.158 So I'm wondering if it has to do with the circuitry. 412 00:36:29,670.158 --> 00:36:37,700.158 I thought that too, that like if you are really good with numbers and putting things together that you would be defined. 413 00:36:38,120.157 --> 00:36:39,620.158 Like that was my, my theory. 414 00:36:39,860.158 --> 00:36:41,500.158 And my daughter totally threw that one out the window. 415 00:36:42,640.157 --> 00:36:43,700.158 That's interesting. 416 00:36:43,800.157 --> 00:36:47,140.158 Yeah, that is because I thought that too, because my autism is totally open. 417 00:36:47,410.158 --> 00:36:47,660.158 Yeah. 418 00:36:47,700.158 --> 00:36:48,990.158 So for me, like. 419 00:36:49,245.158 --> 00:36:58,825.158 In one ear out the other basically unless I embody it if I embody if I enjoy it and I practice it in repetition over and over and I embody it, then I remember it. 420 00:36:59,25.157 --> 00:37:01,555.157 But if I don't embody it, then I don't remember. 421 00:37:04,40.158 --> 00:37:22,780.158 Mine is more, it's like, it's tied more to an emotion, which is interesting because I'm undefined in emotions too, that if I'm excited about learning about something or there's like a reason, or I don't know, there's more emotion attached to it, the more I'm apt to remember the lesson versus if it's just. 422 00:37:24,350.158 --> 00:37:26,710.158 Like a math problem and you have to figure out this problem. 423 00:37:27,750.158 --> 00:37:28,230.158 I don't care. 424 00:37:30,360.158 --> 00:37:42,85.159 I truly feel like if a person, I mean, do you really truly feel like a person that I had difficulty with a certain aspect or certain subject. 425 00:37:42,325.159 --> 00:37:50,265.159 Do you feel like they found a job in their life that they're primarily focusing on that one subject that they disliked? No. 426 00:37:53,195.159 --> 00:38:06,535.159 Unless they were conditioned to because their parents pushed them, conditioning of, oh, you want to be a doctor, you, I need you to do this rather than finding something that really lights them up. 427 00:38:06,865.159 --> 00:38:07,255.159 Yeah. 428 00:38:07,605.158 --> 00:38:21,635.159 I mean, I definitely felt that, that there were certain professions that my parents really wanted because they knew it would equal X amount of dollars, right? I loved photography and I loved drawing houses as a kid. 429 00:38:22,35.159 --> 00:38:29,845.159 And they pushed me towards architecture because that was going to make money versus being a photographer, which was artsy and you never know. 430 00:38:29,845.159 --> 00:38:32,475.159 And who knows where you would go? Let's do the architecture route. 431 00:38:32,515.159 --> 00:38:33,335.158 That's the safe route. 432 00:38:34,465.159 --> 00:38:42,475.159 Here's the thing that I've learned about MGs too, is just because you love to do something doesn't mean that you should do that thing as a profession. 433 00:38:45,390.159 --> 00:38:46,650.159 Especially MGs. 434 00:38:46,950.159 --> 00:38:47,940.159 Especially MGs. 435 00:38:48,330.159 --> 00:38:49,60.159 Especially. 436 00:38:50,260.159 --> 00:38:51,680.159 Because we love so many things. 437 00:38:52,0.159 --> 00:38:52,990.159 We love so many things. 438 00:38:52,990.259 --> 00:38:56,350.159 And we are not destined to do all of them as a career. 439 00:38:56,970.159 --> 00:38:57,550.159 Forever. 440 00:38:58,40.159 --> 00:38:58,420.159 Nope. 441 00:38:58,430.159 --> 00:38:58,690.159 Nope. 442 00:39:00,150.159 --> 00:39:10,880.058 I mean, I think that's why I've been a personal trainer, I've been a yoga teacher, I've been a pranayama teacher, I've been, a meditation teacher, Those are all in the same realm, at least. 443 00:39:10,880.058 --> 00:39:14,400.058 I went from architecture to photography to now messaging and copywriting. 444 00:39:16,500.058 --> 00:39:23,160.058 I think we get so much pressure that we, that somehow our passion is going to be the thing that. 445 00:39:23,530.058 --> 00:39:24,140.058 We do. 446 00:39:24,170.058 --> 00:39:37,250.058 And, and I totally agree with the sentiment that whatever you're doing, you should have passion for and love it because you do spend so much time doing it, but just because something is a passion doesn't mean that it's going to be the thing that you do to make money. 447 00:39:37,630.058 --> 00:39:43,460.058 And also you could just do it for a certain amount of time and then once it no longer is your passion, you can leave it. 448 00:39:43,460.058 --> 00:39:46,310.058 Whereas in society we're told, like I was a trainer. 449 00:39:46,695.058 --> 00:39:49,275.058 For 20 years, I trained a lot of people. 450 00:39:49,275.058 --> 00:39:57,435.057 I was like really known for training, then it's like, ah, it no longer fulfills me because it's just about the physical body and I want to get deeper. 451 00:39:57,965.057 --> 00:39:59,145.058 So then I went to yoga. 452 00:39:59,365.058 --> 00:40:03,125.0575 And then again, I was yoga for the, the football team and all that kind of stuff. 453 00:40:03,125.0575 --> 00:40:05,955.0575 But then I was like, okay, but now I want to ask the right question. 454 00:40:05,965.0575 --> 00:40:06,225.0575 So. 455 00:40:07,75.0575 --> 00:40:21,845.0575 It's like having the mentality of I'm going full in right now, but it doesn't mean I'm going to be there forever and not letting society or friends or family say to you, well, you spent 20 years on this and so you should stay. 456 00:40:22,210.0575 --> 00:40:23,200.0575 Even though you're miserable. 457 00:40:23,420.0575 --> 00:40:25,190.0575 That even goes with messaging, I feel like. 458 00:40:25,320.0575 --> 00:40:25,890.0575 It does. 459 00:40:26,120.0575 --> 00:40:27,10.0575 Oh my gosh. 460 00:40:27,20.0575 --> 00:40:27,440.0575 Yes. 461 00:40:27,480.0575 --> 00:40:29,170.0575 Oh, we could go down a whole rabbit hole with that. 462 00:40:29,470.0575 --> 00:40:29,910.0575 Yes. 463 00:40:29,920.0565 --> 00:40:31,390.0565 Your messaging is going to change. 464 00:40:31,670.0565 --> 00:40:33,90.0575 Hands down, it's going to change. 465 00:40:33,100.0575 --> 00:40:41,210.0575 And I think this is why I've shifted into teaching people instead of writing for them because your messaging change. 466 00:40:41,220.0575 --> 00:40:43,450.0575 You need to be able to do this on your own. 467 00:40:43,880.0575 --> 00:40:51,470.0575 In at least the basic capacity, because if you can't, you're never you're just stuck relying on other people to figure out what your voice is. 468 00:40:51,470.0575 --> 00:40:53,170.0565 And that's not always an easy thing. 469 00:40:53,180.0575 --> 00:40:54,550.0575 You got to know it for yourself. 470 00:40:54,560.0575 --> 00:40:57,490.0575 You got to know what you want to do, what you want to communicate. 471 00:40:57,540.0565 --> 00:41:03,430.0575 What is the transformation of whatever you're creating is be able to explain it to people. 472 00:41:03,910.0575 --> 00:41:08,0.0575 And know that it's going to change in six months, a year, two years. 473 00:41:08,345.0575 --> 00:41:09,185.0575 Like, that's okay. 474 00:41:10,575.0575 --> 00:41:13,735.0575 And honestly, I feel like if it doesn't change, you're not doing your work. 475 00:41:14,175.0575 --> 00:41:14,755.0575 Yeah. 476 00:41:16,355.0575 --> 00:41:20,415.0565 Because if we're growing and evolving, then we're going to change our messaging. 477 00:41:20,675.0575 --> 00:41:21,665.057 We become more bold. 478 00:41:21,665.057 --> 00:41:22,915.0575 We become whatever it is. 479 00:41:23,975.0575 --> 00:41:24,825.0575 It changes. 480 00:41:25,15.0575 --> 00:41:30,605.0575 So if it doesn't change, then that's a time for you to reflect on like, Ooh, I'm stuck because I'm not doing my work. 481 00:41:30,905.0575 --> 00:41:31,255.0575 Yeah. 482 00:41:31,755.0575 --> 00:41:39,745.0565 And I think, I think generators I've noticed can do the same messaging longer than on most of the types. 483 00:41:39,745.0575 --> 00:41:39,875.0575 Thanks. 484 00:41:40,545.0575 --> 00:41:47,785.0575 Most of us get, we're done after like one round, but generators can do it a little longer. 485 00:41:47,785.0575 --> 00:41:56,475.0575 And I find that their messaging just deepens, like it starts out a little more surface level and they'll maybe turn that thing a little more passive. 486 00:41:56,475.0575 --> 00:42:01,675.0575 They don't really want to be in it as much after a few rounds and they want to deepen it. 487 00:42:01,675.0575 --> 00:42:04,545.0575 And so they'll take the clients to another level deeper. 488 00:42:05,210.0575 --> 00:42:10,230.0575 Like, they're just deepening, in their mastery, which is what they're supposed to be doing. 489 00:42:11,0.0575 --> 00:42:11,350.0575 Yeah. 490 00:42:11,350.0575 --> 00:42:14,890.0575 Like deconditioning the layers, going deeper, the things. 491 00:42:15,140.0575 --> 00:42:23,420.0575 What about projectors? What have you noticed the projectors and messaging? They bounce around until they find. 492 00:42:24,460.0575 --> 00:42:32,450.0575 Their system can be, I've found their system can be like, human design is just their system and that's what they wanna dive deep on. 493 00:42:32,810.0575 --> 00:42:40,370.0575 Or it can be something that's like totally outta left field and something they've created from their own life. 494 00:42:40,400.0575 --> 00:42:46,110.0575 They pulled in yoga, they pulled in reiki, they pulled in like all these different things. 495 00:42:46,170.0575 --> 00:42:47,430.0575 A little mg ish. 496 00:42:47,580.0575 --> 00:42:51,985.0575 Right? But it's laid out in a different fashion than what an MG would do. 497 00:42:52,825.0575 --> 00:42:57,105.0575 And they, once they kind of figure out what that system is, then, then they can go all in. 498 00:42:57,195.0575 --> 00:42:58,675.0575 But sometimes it takes time to find that. 499 00:42:59,605.0575 --> 00:43:00,75.0575 Mm hmm. 500 00:43:01,485.0575 --> 00:43:10,125.0575 I do also have a question about MGs, because, you know, the, we're all different, all the MGs. 501 00:43:10,155.0575 --> 00:43:26,530.0585 I've really noticed people that have the 34, I feel like, have a lot more Hands in the pot, I guess, I feel like because I don't have the 34, but I do have the 952, the 952 is a, format channel. 502 00:43:26,830.0575 --> 00:43:28,150.0575 So this format channel. 503 00:43:28,560.0585 --> 00:43:32,720.0585 Really, it actually reflects my entire chart. 504 00:43:32,780.0585 --> 00:43:36,90.0585 Everything is through that lens of the nine 52. 505 00:43:36,940.0575 --> 00:43:41,620.0575 So for me, I, I feel like I'm sometimes not a full mg. 506 00:43:42,200.0575 --> 00:43:46,250.0595 I have a lot of activation to my throat, but I don't feel like I have that. 507 00:43:46,785.0585 --> 00:43:49,975.0585 It's that shiny object syndrome where I kind of like go all over the place. 508 00:43:49,975.0585 --> 00:43:55,515.0585 It's like, I find something, I have the 48, I go deep for years and years and focus and deep and deep. 509 00:43:55,745.0575 --> 00:43:59,475.0575 And then as soon as I'm no longer excited, it's like, okay, time to move on. 510 00:43:59,685.0585 --> 00:44:06,110.0585 So have you noticed that with different? Types of MGs. 511 00:44:06,540.0585 --> 00:44:07,460.0585 Yeah, definitely. 512 00:44:07,470.0585 --> 00:44:13,780.0585 I mean, the 34, if you have that, it's definitely a hands in the every kind of pot all over the place. 513 00:44:13,810.0585 --> 00:44:14,740.0585 I have the 34. 514 00:44:14,740.0585 --> 00:44:16,930.0585 It's not connected to my throat, but I have the 34. 515 00:44:17,870.0585 --> 00:44:19,740.0585 Both my kids have the 34 too. 516 00:44:20,740.0585 --> 00:44:35,10.0585 And they're You very much kind of all over the place too and what they like and yeah, I think the shiny object syndrome for MGs is tied very much to the 34. 517 00:44:35,650.0575 --> 00:44:38,990.0585 That's interesting that you have noticed that so much about yourself too. 518 00:44:39,530.0585 --> 00:44:48,882.859 Because I, I realized I would ask myself, I'd be working with people and they jump from one thing to the other and I'd be like, I need to focus. 519 00:44:48,882.859 --> 00:44:52,30.059 Like I need to sit and focus and go deep into this. 520 00:44:52,30.059 --> 00:44:52,80.059 Yeah. 521 00:44:52,80.159 --> 00:44:52,99.959 Thanks. 522 00:44:52,570.059 --> 00:45:01,505.059 For like however long I need to and then I'll move to the next maybe the next day or maybe half day Later, I can really focus on something for a couple hours. 523 00:45:01,505.059 --> 00:45:06,165.059 I can't be all over the place because it makes me feel like I'm all over the place. 524 00:45:06,305.059 --> 00:45:08,785.059 And I have, I have a defined route. 525 00:45:09,75.059 --> 00:45:10,745.058 I have the nine 52. 526 00:45:11,25.059 --> 00:45:12,955.059 I really like to go deep and focus. 527 00:45:12,985.059 --> 00:45:14,855.057 And I always wondered why, I'm an MG. 528 00:45:14,865.058 --> 00:45:25,625.058 Why am I not like that? But then I realized that it is a a format channel that the channel actually kind of is the whole lens, my entire human design body graph. 529 00:45:25,925.058 --> 00:45:26,695.058 Reflects that. 530 00:45:26,895.058 --> 00:45:27,775.058 And that's how I am. 531 00:45:27,795.058 --> 00:45:29,215.058 So I do go deep. 532 00:45:29,645.058 --> 00:45:33,15.058 And I kind of bounce back and forth between the two. 533 00:45:33,115.057 --> 00:45:41,215.057 Like I want to go deep, but I also, if I were to spend an entire day on one thing, I would feel like a failure that day. 534 00:45:42,55.057 --> 00:45:43,985.058 See for me, I feel like. 535 00:45:44,480.058 --> 00:45:52,390.058 Wow, I got like this, this amazing thing done and it's so good and it's so in depth and I'm done. 536 00:45:52,510.058 --> 00:45:55,560.058 And now I get to go to the next thing and go deep into that. 537 00:45:57,240.058 --> 00:46:02,170.057 No, I feel like I didn't even scratch the surface of the depth and I'm like, now I'm all consumed with it. 538 00:46:02,180.057 --> 00:46:03,680.057 And I'm like, versus... 539 00:46:04,405.058 --> 00:46:12,275.058 going deep for a a shorter amount of time and then I can do that with a couple different areas throughout the day. 540 00:46:12,475.057 --> 00:46:21,785.057 That feels like a win of a day where I get to do all the pots and go deep on all the pots for a short period of time. 541 00:46:22,645.058 --> 00:46:23,305.058 Yeah. 542 00:46:23,465.058 --> 00:46:24,435.057 Oh, that's so interesting. 543 00:46:24,435.057 --> 00:46:30,255.058 So that's interesting for anyone listening, you know, because even though we're both MGs. 544 00:46:30,885.058 --> 00:46:40,935.058 Yeah, it's, we do things differently because of our, our definition, so it, it just goes to show that we're all unique in our way of being that our messaging is our messaging. 545 00:46:40,945.058 --> 00:46:44,65.0575 It's not what someone tells us to do or anything like that. 546 00:46:44,65.0575 --> 00:46:48,915.058 You have to feel into it because for like me with my clients, I like to go deep. 547 00:46:49,195.058 --> 00:46:54,5.058 Like I want to go into that depth, that time, that space where we get into that heaviness. 548 00:46:54,595.058 --> 00:46:57,685.058 That's what fills me up where a lot of people are like, I don't want that. 549 00:46:57,695.058 --> 00:46:58,815.058 That is scary. 550 00:47:00,675.058 --> 00:47:01,795.058 Shadow work is scary. 551 00:47:01,845.058 --> 00:47:04,125.058 I mean, it's scary when you haven't done it. 552 00:47:04,605.058 --> 00:47:06,585.058 The more you do it, you're like, yeah, bring it on. 553 00:47:07,705.058 --> 00:47:08,215.058 Yeah. 554 00:47:08,395.057 --> 00:47:10,205.058 It's like, Ooh, there's something there. 555 00:47:10,215.058 --> 00:47:11,375.058 Let's see what that's about. 556 00:47:11,525.058 --> 00:47:17,455.059 Cause you know that on the other side, it's so much better when you release and get rid of that shadow and work and just see the shadow. 557 00:47:17,485.059 --> 00:47:18,25.059 Just see it. 558 00:47:18,155.059 --> 00:47:18,825.059 Not even get rid of it. 559 00:47:18,825.059 --> 00:47:19,345.058 Just see it. 560 00:47:21,430.059 --> 00:47:23,890.059 That even goes even more into our messaging and our voice. 561 00:47:24,340.059 --> 00:47:24,600.059 Yeah. 562 00:47:24,640.059 --> 00:47:25,20.059 Right. 563 00:47:25,50.059 --> 00:47:28,130.059 Because once you understand that about your chart. 564 00:47:28,600.059 --> 00:47:30,380.059 You understand more of your niche. 565 00:47:30,400.059 --> 00:47:32,230.059 You understand who your ideal client is. 566 00:47:32,230.059 --> 00:47:34,640.059 You understand, like for me personally, it has to go deep. 567 00:47:34,700.059 --> 00:47:35,870.059 I want to spend time. 568 00:47:35,880.059 --> 00:47:36,680.059 I want space. 569 00:47:37,90.059 --> 00:47:49,960.058 Whereas other people don't, they want many, many people or whatever touching on things and that's, that's their chart, but that's where the messaging comes in and that's where the voice comes in too. 570 00:47:49,960.058 --> 00:47:51,390.058 And how to find that aligned. 571 00:47:52,135.059 --> 00:48:05,665.059 Strategy, the containers that you're putting around your offers and how it works for you and what you really wanna do, not what makes money, or not what industry standard is, or what people think it sells or anything like that. 572 00:48:05,670.059 --> 00:48:08,995.059 It's like, no, this is how I wanna work with clients. 573 00:48:10,515.059 --> 00:48:16,785.059 Well, we're gonna be doing one of these a month and I'm so excited and I feel like I wanna tease. 574 00:48:17,600.059 --> 00:48:18,570.059 what we're making. 575 00:48:19,490.059 --> 00:48:19,710.059 Go ahead. 576 00:48:20,410.059 --> 00:48:20,600.059 Go ahead. 577 00:48:20,840.059 --> 00:48:20,950.059 Tease it. 578 00:48:21,720.059 --> 00:48:22,210.059 Tease it. 579 00:48:23,200.059 --> 00:48:30,290.058 Miranda and I are gonna put together a container where we're going deep, obviously. 580 00:48:32,340.059 --> 00:48:33,260.059 We're provoking you. 581 00:48:34,260.059 --> 00:48:39,370.059 But really, we're creating a container for people that are afraid to step out into who they truly are. 582 00:48:39,840.059 --> 00:48:49,340.059 And we're going to look at the shadow, we're going to look at why and what's holding you back and then really step forward with a message that. 583 00:48:49,690.059 --> 00:48:52,710.059 Is authentically you and feels exciting to you. 584 00:48:52,710.059 --> 00:49:05,200.058 And like, this is what I've been really wanting and craving to do, but didn't give myself permission to, we're giving the space to like, we're holding space for you to be able to do that because it's not always easy. 585 00:49:05,350.058 --> 00:49:07,240.059 There is a shadow there. 586 00:49:07,350.058 --> 00:49:07,910.058 And. 587 00:49:08,490.058 --> 00:49:09,229.859 I think. 588 00:49:09,699.959 --> 00:49:29,179.959 This collaboration between the two of us really helps people go deep in a way that I have never been able to do with clients and I'm excited about being able to heal some shadow and really look at like, why can't, why haven't I been able to do this, even though I know that I want to. 589 00:49:29,589.959 --> 00:49:31,789.959 But I just, there's something holding you back. 590 00:49:33,929.959 --> 00:49:45,789.959 What this feels like is a little bit of a container where you have the permission and opportunity to go into the things that you are always afraid of before. 591 00:49:45,789.959 --> 00:49:54,679.959 Because whether people push away, you're afraid to say it to people, you're afraid of reaction, you're afraid, like, is this truly me? These beliefs. 592 00:49:54,979.959 --> 00:49:56,659.959 So we go into like the deconditioning. 593 00:49:56,659.959 --> 00:50:00,399.959 Where are you conditioned the most? How you're expressing yourself. 594 00:50:00,409.959 --> 00:50:08,619.959 How are you not expressing yourself and why? So we go into that like going heavy into this stuff and it will be. 595 00:50:09,404.959 --> 00:50:50,899.958 It will be heavy at times, but it's in a safe space, and I've done these containers, and the magic that unfolds happens almost within the first week, because as soon as people start sharing those scary things, and you're witnessed, and you're uplifted, and you're congratulating each other, and you're, you're not Putting people down or making them feel bad for feeling a certain way you start to realize how many times you've actually suppressed Yourself, so this container is gonna give you that space and then we get to do all that work And then we get to do the messaging so that you get to bring that out into the world So I think it's gonna be really magical. 596 00:50:51,119.958 --> 00:50:59,889.958 I think so, too So that'll come out not till the first of the year after the new year, let that percolate in people's minds, I think, right now. 597 00:51:01,149.958 --> 00:51:11,369.958 We are going to be doing a monthly podcast, so, if you guys want to ask questions, definitely, send questions, either either one our way. 598 00:51:11,759.958 --> 00:51:18,849.958 We can answer them, that way we can give you a little bit more insight of what we're doing, more of what you want to hear from us. 599 00:51:19,369.958 --> 00:51:20,749.958 We're doing this in a way because... 600 00:51:21,119.958 --> 00:51:23,129.958 We're learning how to work with one another as well. 601 00:51:23,129.958 --> 00:51:26,969.958 So I love that you brought this up for us to do, because we get to know each other. 602 00:51:26,969.958 --> 00:51:30,119.958 We get to practice, we get to, to kind of be in each other's energy. 603 00:51:30,119.958 --> 00:51:33,489.958 And then we're going to get to create this container for everyone too. 604 00:51:33,849.958 --> 00:51:37,539.958 So this way, you guys will all know us together. 605 00:51:37,629.957 --> 00:51:44,139.958 You don't know us, our energies together and learn from us before we even really bring that container out into the world. 606 00:51:45,829.958 --> 00:51:46,549.957 Well, Miranda. 607 00:51:47,209.958 --> 00:51:47,739.958 I'll see you next month. 608 00:51:48,619.958 --> 00:51:49,49.958 Yes. 609 00:51:49,229.958 --> 00:51:50,309.958 Thank you so much. 610 00:51:50,349.958 --> 00:51:50,789.958 Can't wait. 611 00:51:51,229.958 --> 00:51:51,869.958 Bye guys. 612 00:51:53,663.8955 --> 00:52:04,543.8945 My hope is that you walked away with something today that has opened your mind, your heart, or both listening to new perspectives, not only help you grow and expand, but it helps humanity as a whole. 613 00:52:04,993.8955 --> 00:52:10,73.8955 So if you have someone that you feel would benefit from this podcast and you feel that you want to share. 614 00:52:10,403.8955 --> 00:52:11,173.8955 Please do. 615 00:52:11,533.8955 --> 00:52:14,343.8955 Also would love to connect with you on Instagram. 616 00:52:14,473.8955 --> 00:52:16,813.8955 So please follow me at Miranda J. 617 00:52:16,813.8955 --> 00:52:17,263.8955 Mitchell. 618 00:52:17,683.8955 --> 00:52:24,973.8955 One last thing, if this episode left you with any ahas and insights, take 30 seconds of your time and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. 619 00:52:25,613.8955 --> 00:52:29,203.8955 This is the only way I know you are loving the content and connection in this space. 620 00:52:30,393.8955 --> 00:52:36,293.8955 And if you want to know more or wondering how we can work together, please go to Miranda Mitchell. 621 00:52:36,533.8955 --> 00:52:36,923.8955 com. 622 00:52:37,183.8955 --> 00:52:39,403.8955 Click on the contact in the menu and send me a message. 623 00:52:40,118.8955 --> 00:52:41,108.8955 Sending you all love. 624 00:52:41,388.8955 --> 00:52:42,98.8955 Till next time.
Do you spend all of your time building and maintaining your business so that you achieve the success you envision? Do you feel frustrated, unfulfilled, and have a loss or disconnect from your creative flow? Are you a conscious leader that is ready for change when it comes to society's views on money, wealth, relationships, and what prosperity truly means? If so, you are in the right place.
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Welcome to the provoking prosperity podcast.
.999I am your host, Miranda Mitchell.
.999I am a two four manage end.
Who is here to empower and equip you to step out of the box of social norms, guide you into using your voice for inspiration and impact and support you in finding what prosperity means for you so that you have the business and life that fulfills you.
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So grab that cup of coffee, get comfy, and get ready to hear the heartwarming and heart wrenching personal stories, all things jinkies plus tangible practices that you can implement right now for your personal and business growth.
Miranda.
Oh my gosh.
I'm so excited for this conversation.
I mean, you and I, I do think that we, there is a connection.
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Maybe it's because our charts are so dang similar. 12 00:01:07,199.999 --> 00:01:08,839.999 Maybe it's just a soul thing. 13 00:01:08,909.999 --> 00:01:11,149.999 I don't know, but I'm so excited to have you here.
Oh, that makes my heart happy.
I love that soul connection and the charts, or maybe it's a yes and really on the charts and the way that we kind of want to shift the world and the way that we be in the world is.
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And I love that you said that makes me happy.
Love it.
I would love for you to share about your story of like coming into your voice because I mean, yes, our charts are similar, but we've had very different lived experiences.
And I think that's as part of what makes everyone special is you can have very similar charts, but your lived experience is completely different, right? Your, what you experienced as a child and Your culture and environment and all those different things play a role in how the energies are expressed.
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.999So I'd love to hear more about your story and your coming into your own voice and how human design played a role in that, or if it didn't and those types of questions.
Well, human design definitely played a role in that, definitely, but it was kind of like an ever evolving type of thing where I wasn't aware of it at that time. 22 00:02:22,239.999 --> 00:02:37,279.999 And the experiences, I truly feel like we come into this world with, A certain thing that we're here to learn about when I go deep into my chart, I realize everything in my chart had to do with support or lack of support. 23 00:02:37,599.999 --> 00:02:42,160 My entire life was really created about this lack of support that I had with my mother.
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.999And as I dove into my chart within the astrology aspects and all the gates and the open G and all the things, it kept coming back to that support and evolution as far as not understanding who I am and not being supported in any way and figuring it out on my own.
.999I moved out when I was 14 for my house because there was a lot of us, my mother, we have, there's a lot of children in our family.
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And my mother would always take in, I would like to say strays of children as well.
So we would have always people coming in, but yet we didn't get the support.
She was always giving to other people, but yet she wasn't supportive of us.
At least that's how I felt because she was always having.
.999So as she had us, she kind of let us go and we were basically fending for ourselves.
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.9995I moved out at 14 because there was a lack of support from her within an experience that I had that had to do with my step uncle. 32 00:03:43,779.9995 --> 00:03:50,649.9995 She basically said I was provoking him when I was, I can't remember the exact age, but it was between nine and 12. 33 00:03:51,69.9995 --> 00:03:53,289.9995 She said I was provoking him and he was 21. 34 00:03:53,569.9985 --> 00:03:58,189.9995 So I don't know how a nine to 12 year old can really provoke a 21 year old. 35 00:03:58,199.9995 --> 00:04:00,9.9995 Although I do have provocation in my son. 36 00:04:00,9.9995 --> 00:04:02,529.9985 So I guess I, I could see that now. 37 00:04:02,919.9985 --> 00:04:10,429.9985 So I've given myself some permission there and some forgiveness, but because she didn't stand up for me, I moved out. 38 00:04:11,309.9985 --> 00:04:15,594.9985 And then when I moved out, I really just went out of control. 39 00:04:15,734.9985 --> 00:04:23,74.9975 I was drinking, I was drugging, I was being promiscuous, I was looking for love in every area. 40 00:04:23,74.9985 --> 00:04:24,884.9985 I didn't love myself at all. 41 00:04:24,884.9985 --> 00:04:28,594.9985 I was a cutter, so I would cut myself so that I could feel. 42 00:04:28,869.9985 --> 00:04:30,439.9985 because I was numb. 43 00:04:30,689.9985 --> 00:04:31,529.9985 Trauma does that. 44 00:04:31,559.9985 --> 00:04:32,679.9985 I was totally numb. 45 00:04:32,989.9985 --> 00:04:36,759.9985 The only thing I used to say to myself I would rather feel pain than nothing at all. 46 00:04:36,949.9975 --> 00:04:41,339.9985 So I would cut myself and I don't know, how I got out of that stage. 47 00:04:41,349.9985 --> 00:04:46,689.9985 I truly feel like even though I felt in this world, I was not supported. 48 00:04:47,59.9985 --> 00:04:49,489.9985 I truly feel in another dimension. 49 00:04:50,129.9985 --> 00:04:53,759.9985 I was supported because I was definitely guided. 50 00:04:54,309.9985 --> 00:05:02,509.9985 Away from that, where I just stopped, so within this entire process, there are many elements that kind of grounded me into each area of my life. 51 00:05:02,509.9995 --> 00:05:03,919.9975 When I had my first son. 52 00:05:04,294.9985 --> 00:05:05,834.9985 Grounded me in my purpose. 53 00:05:06,94.9985 --> 00:05:07,164.9985 Then I had my other son. 54 00:05:07,164.9985 --> 00:05:10,944.9985 It grounded me into having the strength to get away from an abusive relationship. 55 00:05:11,264.9985 --> 00:05:15,964.9975 Then I had my daughter who grounded me into loving myself because she's a mirror reflection of me. 56 00:05:16,324.9975 --> 00:05:27,614.9985 She was actually due on my birth date, but she gave me four days so that I could actually kind of have a little space, but she is still a deep reflection of self love and lack of self love. 57 00:05:27,864.9985 --> 00:05:29,584.9985 So I feel like she came to me. 58 00:05:30,89.9985 --> 00:05:48,359.9975 For that reason, and within this time, because my mother didn't support me and listen to me, I created this belief that what I said didn't matter, no one believed me anyway I was stupid, I didn't know anything, I was constantly just telling myself all these things all the time because I wasn't valued, I wasn't listened to. 59 00:05:49,149.9975 --> 00:05:56,29.9965 Throughout my entire life, I created this whole life around this feeling of not being supported in my voice. 60 00:05:56,69.9975 --> 00:06:11,199.9975 I even had an abusive relationship where he choked me anytime I used my voice, which then again was like, I'm not allowed to speak, I'm not allowed to share my words, but I didn't realize this until I started going deeper into my human design chart. 61 00:06:11,724.9975 --> 00:06:20,404.9975 And then I started noticing I have a lot of activation to my throat, three of the four motors are connected to my throat, and yet I was so shy. 62 00:06:20,874.9975 --> 00:06:21,894.9975 I wouldn't speak. 63 00:06:21,944.9975 --> 00:06:31,674.9975 my face would get so red anytime a person asked me a question because all the energy is coming up like speak, speak, speak, but I I would cry. 64 00:06:31,704.9965 --> 00:06:32,734.9975 I'd get embarrassed. 65 00:06:32,784.9975 --> 00:06:36,864.9975 There are those awarenesses that started coming up for me within human design aspect. 66 00:06:36,874.9975 --> 00:06:42,974.9975 And then I went into the equine gestalt, which helped me release my anger. 67 00:06:43,324.9975 --> 00:06:45,214.9985 I didn't feel like I had anger. 68 00:06:45,214.9985 --> 00:06:49,834.9965 I thought I was this person that was forgiving and loving and I'm good. 69 00:06:50,414.9975 --> 00:06:56,974.9975 Until my coach gave me the racket and said, start hitting this cube and let me know how you feel. 70 00:06:56,974.9975 --> 00:07:00,464.9975 And then holy, like everything came out and my voice. 71 00:07:01,334.9975 --> 00:07:06,604.9975 I was screaming and yelling and by the time I was done, my entire body was shaking. 72 00:07:06,614.9975 --> 00:07:08,324.9975 I could barely stand. 73 00:07:08,864.9965 --> 00:07:23,544.9965 I feel like everything that I'm doing for myself now is giving me the opportunity to realize how conditioned I was because of those beliefs I created about myself because of what happened when I was nine. 74 00:07:24,164.9965 --> 00:07:31,324.9965 I feel we are all conditioned in the voice because almost everyone has either heard you're too much, you're too quiet. 75 00:07:31,564.9965 --> 00:07:35,444.9965 Why are you so shy? You need to be seen, not heard. 76 00:07:35,714.9965 --> 00:07:39,34.9965 We have all of this, which suppresses. 77 00:07:39,509.9965 --> 00:07:40,739.9965 Our authenticity. 78 00:07:41,39.9965 --> 00:07:41,189.9965 Yeah. 79 00:07:41,219.9965 --> 00:07:43,919.9965 Which then we create our entire life around. 80 00:07:45,539.9965 --> 00:07:57,809.9965 So when you look at your human design chart, and I've, even people I've worked with, I ask them this question and every time I get tears, who would you be if you did not have that belief? Mm-Hmm. 81 00:07:58,139.9965 --> 00:08:00,324.9965 Every single person is like, I don't. 82 00:08:01,184.9965 --> 00:08:17,434.9965 No, I don't know who I am and it is because we're so conditioned over those little things of suppression of trying to fit in, trying to be seen, but in a way that's not too much, which is a huge one for me. 83 00:08:17,854.9955 --> 00:08:20,54.9965 I'm very observant of people. 84 00:08:20,759.9965 --> 00:08:25,549.9965 I know how much they can take and I don't go over that edge so they don't reject me. 85 00:08:25,569.9965 --> 00:08:26,819.9965 They don't tell me I'm too much. 86 00:08:26,969.9965 --> 00:08:28,669.9965 They don't say they don't love me. 87 00:08:28,670.0965 --> 00:08:32,540.0965 I'm suppressing so much because I don't want to be too weird. 88 00:08:32,710.0965 --> 00:08:34,20.0955 I don't want to be too out there. 89 00:08:35,590.0965 --> 00:08:37,160.0965 I do the same thing. 90 00:08:37,170.0955 --> 00:08:44,130.0965 It was actually just talking about this with a coach talking that like I will read the room. 91 00:08:44,150.0965 --> 00:09:04,415.0965 I will read the person that I'm talking to and the situation and I'll decide how much Do I unleash and like just be versus Boxing in and playing by the rules and doing what everyone is expected to do in this certain situation. 92 00:09:04,935.0965 --> 00:09:15,125.0965 And yeah, it's fascinating in some ways that like, are you doing it because you want to be liked? Are you doing it just to be cordial, well, I know my answer. 93 00:09:15,175.0965 --> 00:09:23,145.0965 What's your answer? I feel like most of the time I just don't want the drama and I don't want people to get upset in any way. 94 00:09:23,145.0965 --> 00:09:29,255.0965 So it is a little bit of an emotional thing, but it's also, it's like, sometimes I don't really care either way. 95 00:09:29,705.0965 --> 00:09:35,765.0965 And sometimes it's just easier to blend in with everyone else than to be. 96 00:09:36,85.0965 --> 00:09:47,55.0965 Who I would normally be with, my best friends, the people that really know me, it's just easier just to, be that surface level person that's agreeable. 97 00:09:48,135.0965 --> 00:09:48,985.0965 I get that. 98 00:09:49,95.0965 --> 00:09:49,765.0965 I get that. 99 00:09:49,765.0965 --> 00:09:56,75.0955 But I truly feel like that is why a lot of us are not happy. 100 00:09:56,75.0965 --> 00:10:07,95.0965 That's why a lot of us, even with our marketing and our messaging, that's why we're not fully receiving All the recognition for who we are because we're suppressing it. 101 00:10:07,105.0965 --> 00:10:18,625.0965 So we feel valued and seen and not too much, but what if we actually were that crazy person that said all the things I'm getting there. 102 00:10:20,770.0965 --> 00:10:29,970.0965 Yeah, I am totally with you and I, I mean, I feel like every time I talk to you, I'm like, Oh, I could definitely open myself up a little bit more. 103 00:10:32,500.0965 --> 00:10:37,990.0965 Well, it's a good thing that we're going to be doing this podcast thing because you guys are in for a treat for it. 104 00:10:38,280.0965 --> 00:10:45,970.0975 Well, you do, you just, you have a way of being yourself, but it's never like, I've never felt like it was in my face. 105 00:10:46,415.0975 --> 00:10:49,825.0975 Or it was too big or too much, either. 106 00:10:49,995.0975 --> 00:11:00,215.0965 And I totally relate to that, being too much, being too, just too big of an energy, I feel like in my early 20s, I was a lot more outspoken. 107 00:11:00,215.0965 --> 00:11:07,565.0965 I would, unleash on people and just, and then had several people in my life that were like, no, pull it back. 108 00:11:08,605.0965 --> 00:11:10,45.0965 You don't need to be that way. 109 00:11:10,345.0965 --> 00:11:14,845.0965 You don't need, and it was, it was all in from the best of their intentions. 110 00:11:15,535.0965 --> 00:11:20,445.0965 But it did, it silenced a little bit and made me feel like maybe I should control myself more. 111 00:11:20,495.0955 --> 00:11:23,225.0955 I am too unhinged in some certain circumstances. 112 00:11:25,825.0965 --> 00:11:30,325.0965 That's very interesting that you said control because someone said that to me the other day. 113 00:11:30,325.0965 --> 00:11:32,845.0955 I was talking to someone about. 114 00:11:33,445.0965 --> 00:11:45,205.0955 Using my voice and like with my relationship, there's a lot of stuff happening with me and my personal relationship with my partner and our relationship is not normal. 115 00:11:45,325.0955 --> 00:11:53,965.0955 It is not what a lot of people would think was normal, but we've made that decision, but yet there's still a little bit of control. 116 00:11:54,115.0965 --> 00:12:09,705.0975 And someone asked me, well, why, are you controlling the outcome of it and doing it in a way that's more peaceful? And I said, well, cause my daughter, I don't want this chaos to affect my daughter because that was my life. 117 00:12:10,295.0975 --> 00:12:11,425.0975 I was affected. 118 00:12:11,465.0965 --> 00:12:17,695.0975 I lived in chaos all the time and I'm here to protect my daughter. 119 00:12:17,915.0975 --> 00:12:21,875.0975 So I have to do things in a way that is also mindful. 120 00:12:22,225.0975 --> 00:12:29,785.0975 You know, there's, you have to be mindful, but then it's also like, but that's not authentic either. 121 00:12:30,185.0975 --> 00:12:34,195.0975 Cause you're controlling things for someone else. 122 00:12:35,555.0975 --> 00:12:36,335.0975 Ooh. 123 00:12:37,385.0975 --> 00:12:37,965.0975 Yeah. 124 00:12:37,965.0975 --> 00:12:39,635.0975 That's so man. 125 00:12:39,735.0975 --> 00:12:44,245.0975 I totally relate to that because I do as a parent feel. 126 00:12:45,200.0985 --> 00:13:06,860.0985 Responsibility for their experience in some way, at least helping them understand things and being a guide and not necessarily telling them how to whatever, but the way that we parent the situations of the life that we have designed all is dictating their life experience. 127 00:13:07,575.0985 --> 00:13:08,175.0985 And it is. 128 00:13:08,745.0985 --> 00:13:13,995.0985 I don't, I don't see that as a bad thing per se, but it is something to be aware of for sure. 129 00:13:14,15.0985 --> 00:13:23,675.0985 Like, are you protecting them from something that could ultimately serve them? That's a tough question. 130 00:13:24,5.0985 --> 00:13:26,215.0985 Oh, yeah, it is. 131 00:13:26,675.0985 --> 00:13:30,655.0985 How I actually contemplated that afterwards, because at first I was like, well, I have to protect my daughter. 132 00:13:30,875.0985 --> 00:13:36,305.0985 And then after I had to sit with it being a two four, you know, you have to sit with it and your own energy and feel into it. 133 00:13:36,825.0985 --> 00:13:42,125.0995 And I realized then okay, I can protect her, but I also need to communicate with her. 134 00:13:42,275.0985 --> 00:13:43,335.0995 I can't hide things. 135 00:13:43,825.0995 --> 00:13:50,165.0995 So we're going to keep this space in a secure because I didn't have a secure space when I was younger. 136 00:13:50,165.0995 --> 00:13:51,445.0995 I didn't have a grounded space. 137 00:13:51,805.0995 --> 00:14:08,455.0995 And luckily my partner and I, Agree on this, which I'm so grateful for because he came into my life definitely for, I feel like this reason so that I can heal this karmic pattern that goes on in my family and also be there for her because she has this thing with talking to males. 138 00:14:08,635.0995 --> 00:14:11,295.0995 She doesn't feel kind of safe where she can with him. 139 00:14:11,705.0985 --> 00:14:21,865.0995 So we have opened up our relationship in a way that is very grounded and open, but still very secure and I've also let her be a part of it. 140 00:14:22,615.0995 --> 00:14:29,195.0995 So, she understands that relationships don't have to look like a certain way to be a relationship. 141 00:14:29,415.0995 --> 00:14:30,375.0995 Mm. 142 00:14:30,415.0995 --> 00:14:32,915.0985 And she's like 14, right? She's 12. 143 00:14:33,275.0995 --> 00:14:33,605.0995 12. 144 00:14:33,615.0995 --> 00:14:34,25.0995 Okay. 145 00:14:34,995.0995 --> 00:14:35,415.0995 Yeah. 146 00:14:35,415.0995 --> 00:14:48,795.0995 And I mean, that is such an age to be diving into those deeper conversations too, because she can understand and she's starting to already form her own opinions and beliefs and ideas about relationships. 147 00:14:49,165.0995 --> 00:14:52,15.0995 So, to open up that dialogue, oh. 148 00:14:52,460.0995 --> 00:14:54,610.0995 That's, that's beautiful. 149 00:14:55,440.0995 --> 00:14:55,890.0995 Yeah. 150 00:14:55,910.0995 --> 00:14:59,650.0995 Well, are kids are always so much more aware than we even realize. 151 00:14:59,780.0995 --> 00:15:09,635.0995 And the minute that she started asking questions, I had to say, okay, I need to have this conversation because she's I'm not going to hide things from her. 152 00:15:09,685.0995 --> 00:15:10,875.0995 She's going to understand things. 153 00:15:11,595.0995 --> 00:15:20,515.0995 So this is an opportunity to help her have new perspectives in the way to have friendships, new perspectives in how to relationships, new perspectives in the way a family works. 154 00:15:20,835.0995 --> 00:15:28,705.0995 It is truly actually a gift in being able to speak with her about this so she can have a choice when she's older. 155 00:15:28,885.0995 --> 00:15:29,505.0995 Yeah. 156 00:15:29,885.0995 --> 00:15:31,385.0995 Yeah, absolutely. 157 00:15:31,535.0995 --> 00:15:31,795.0995 Ugh. 158 00:15:32,245.0995 --> 00:15:33,25.0995 That's awesome. 159 00:15:34,205.0995 --> 00:15:37,45.0995 Being a parent always keeps us learning. 160 00:15:37,955.0995 --> 00:15:40,115.0995 Oh, it is always pushing an edge. 161 00:15:40,155.0995 --> 00:15:47,625.0995 I feel like, oh, once you think you get it figured out, there's a curveball that's like, nope, I don't. 162 00:15:48,615.0995 --> 00:15:49,35.0995 Yeah. 163 00:15:49,315.0995 --> 00:15:58,605.0995 And that even goes to self expression with parenting because I, I feel like before I truly cared. 164 00:15:59,105.0995 --> 00:16:03,595.0995 And I know a lot of parents care about what others think of them. 165 00:16:03,605.0995 --> 00:16:07,805.0995 They want their kids to behave because if they don't behave, then they're a bad parent. 166 00:16:07,805.0995 --> 00:16:08,885.0995 It has nothing to do with the kid. 167 00:16:08,885.0995 --> 00:16:11,325.0995 It has to do with their perspective and what people judge them out. 168 00:16:11,975.0995 --> 00:16:13,395.0985 Right? Yeah, 100%. 169 00:16:13,395.0995 --> 00:16:14,745.0995 So, yeah. 170 00:16:14,845.0985 --> 00:16:17,325.0995 So it, it gives the opportunity. 171 00:16:17,640.0995 --> 00:16:20,910.0995 To go deeper into your own stuff. 172 00:16:20,940.0995 --> 00:16:21,30.0995 Mm-Hmm. 173 00:16:21,270.0995 --> 00:16:22,655.0995 and your belief and, Mm-Hmm. 174 00:16:22,735.0995 --> 00:16:34,730.0995 And like what people see you as a parent and judge you and, and using your voice and saying, I'm not sticking in the conformity of what Good parent. 175 00:16:34,730.0995 --> 00:16:35,55.0995 Mm-Hmm mm-Hmm. 176 00:16:35,195.0995 --> 00:16:36,455.0995 it looks like Mm-Hmm. 177 00:16:37,560.0995 --> 00:16:44,460.0995 Well, and even I think our choice in deciding to homeschool has been very provoking and I found it even. 178 00:16:44,950.0995 --> 00:17:02,810.0995 When we in our old house, we sent the kids to a private school and that was provoking initially as well to the people that we around there were all sending their kids to the public school and they were like, why are you sending your kid to a private school? Like, what's wrong with the public? They instantly felt like they were judging me. 179 00:17:03,670.0995 --> 00:17:04,140.0995 Right. 180 00:17:04,250.0995 --> 00:17:08,250.0995 And for my decision, even though I don't judge you for your decision. 181 00:17:08,290.0995 --> 00:17:10,340.0995 I don't care where you send your child. 182 00:17:10,340.0995 --> 00:17:11,500.0995 It is your decision. 183 00:17:12,40.0995 --> 00:17:20,715.0995 And I want the same respect and found that even when we decided to homeschool, it was like people would defend What they did, they would defend. 184 00:17:20,735.0995 --> 00:17:21,975.0995 Oh, well, I can't do that. 185 00:17:22,225.0995 --> 00:17:23,575.0995 Oh, I don't have the time for that. 186 00:17:23,815.0995 --> 00:17:27,385.0995 And they were like, that has nothing to do with our decision. 187 00:17:28,155.0995 --> 00:17:32,865.0995 It was just interesting to see how people react to someone living outside of the box. 188 00:17:34,75.0995 --> 00:17:37,75.0995 Yeah, That is a great point. 189 00:17:37,75.0995 --> 00:17:44,325.0995 And what comes up is usually their fears and inadequacies of what they're doing. 190 00:17:44,325.0995 --> 00:17:50,655.0985 Cause it even, I don't drink and I haven't drank for six years and people get weird about it. 191 00:17:50,655.0995 --> 00:17:56,25.0995 Like, why don't you drink? Why don't you have one drink? It's like, why does it even matter? I'm not judging you. 192 00:17:56,675.0995 --> 00:18:09,575.0985 Right? Like, why are you drinking alcoholic? Why does it matter if I do or not? Exactly, but that goes to show why so many people stay in that conformity. 193 00:18:09,775.0995 --> 00:18:10,205.0995 Yes. 194 00:18:10,745.0995 --> 00:18:11,525.0995 It does. 195 00:18:11,555.0995 --> 00:18:19,245.0995 It really does is because they are afraid of their own, their own judgments for one, because they're judging other people for living outside of the box. 196 00:18:20,85.0995 --> 00:18:23,485.0995 And therefore, like, I can't step out of the box. 197 00:18:23,495.0985 --> 00:18:32,465.0995 Holy crap, like what's going to happen to me if I do that, and that does bring fears up too, because usually when you do step out of the box, there is a little bit of chaos. 198 00:18:32,860.0995 --> 00:18:56,170.0995 People fall away, friends fall away if you're shifting your business, business shifts, and a lot of people, like that starts to happen and then they restrict and like, oh no, I messed up, this is showing me that I messed up, when in reality it's more so you're realigning and you have to let things fall away so that you can fully step into who you're that next evolution of who you are, but most people. 199 00:18:56,805.0995 --> 00:19:00,965.0995 Get scared and they hold back and they stay the same and stay safe. 200 00:19:01,995.0995 --> 00:19:02,885.0995 I've been doing this. 201 00:19:02,935.0995 --> 00:19:05,305.0995 I've honestly been stepping out of the box. 202 00:19:06,515.0995 --> 00:19:08,975.0995 Consistently for over six months now. 203 00:19:09,295.0995 --> 00:19:28,155.0995 And let me tell you, so much has changed, but so many things have happened that are helping me step into my voice more, helping me be more bold, helping me understand myself more and not really letting others, keep me stuck or down. 204 00:19:28,365.0995 --> 00:19:31,35.0995 So it's, yeah, it's a lot of messiness. 205 00:19:31,415.0995 --> 00:19:38,605.0995 And it's overwhelming at times, but once you get to the place where it's like, Ooh, something's falling away, something else is coming. 206 00:19:38,785.0995 --> 00:19:41,905.0995 What is it? You know, it's, it's all on your perspective. 207 00:19:42,345.0995 --> 00:19:42,735.0995 It is. 208 00:19:42,855.0995 --> 00:19:43,595.0995 It so is. 209 00:19:43,595.0995 --> 00:19:50,525.0995 And I know I have felt that way where I stepped outside the box and went, Oh my God, what's happening? That was a really bad decision. 210 00:19:50,525.0995 --> 00:19:57,265.0995 Or I feel like I made the wrong decision or whatever, but now it is more of, okay Things are falling away. 211 00:19:57,285.0995 --> 00:20:03,265.0995 The things that were no longer serving me can fall away and something new can come in its place. 212 00:20:03,265.0995 --> 00:20:05,555.0995 Like you can't add more. 213 00:20:06,145.0995 --> 00:20:11,665.0995 You have to get rid of first in order to really fully express and be yourself. 214 00:20:11,855.0985 --> 00:20:26,560.099 Do you feel like the word alignment, when people say alignment in their business life, all that kind of stuff, do you feel like people understand that alignment is not easy? No. 215 00:20:28,450.099 --> 00:20:30,100.099 Because alignment and realignment... 216 00:20:30,685.099 --> 00:20:31,425.099 Is messy. 217 00:20:32,145.099 --> 00:20:32,485.099 Yeah. 218 00:20:32,955.099 --> 00:20:42,335.099 I would say most people, and honestly, I think it's the messaging that's out there is just, just align to yourself and everything will be hunky dory and flow. 219 00:20:42,815.099 --> 00:20:44,835.099 I did not have that experience. 220 00:20:44,945.098 --> 00:20:46,255.098 I feel like it's been messy. 221 00:20:46,285.097 --> 00:20:54,915.098 It's been rocky and scary and kind of feels like, I don't know what the heck I'm doing most of the time. 222 00:20:55,135.098 --> 00:20:57,395.098 And most people don't, most people don't understand. 223 00:20:57,865.098 --> 00:21:03,5.098 That things have to fall away before they can be in true alignment. 224 00:21:04,145.098 --> 00:21:04,515.098 Yeah. 225 00:21:05,125.098 --> 00:21:06,125.098 And a lot of trust. 226 00:21:07,825.098 --> 00:21:22,325.1 There has to be trust in that and knowing that even though things are a mess right now and you don't know what's going to happen, that you are supported, that the things that will show up for you in right timing, that yeah, you may struggle and things may be hard, but. 227 00:21:23,110.1 --> 00:21:27,460.1 You will move through it as long as you let yourself move through it and not hold on to things. 228 00:21:28,40.1 --> 00:21:28,270.1 Yeah. 229 00:21:28,480.1 --> 00:21:40,470.1 And not make the falling away mean anything about you, not let it mean that you did something wrong or did it wrong, did anything wrong or that you're not worthy or not enough or any of that. 230 00:21:40,760.1 --> 00:21:43,100.1 And just let it just be, it is what it is. 231 00:21:43,110.1 --> 00:21:47,880.1 Like allow the emotion to come up, come through whatever it needs to be. 232 00:21:47,900.1 --> 00:21:49,820.1 My friend that I spent the weekend with. 233 00:21:50,420.1 --> 00:21:52,460.1 She's going through a lot and I was like, just be with it. 234 00:21:52,480.1 --> 00:21:53,390.1 I know it sucks. 235 00:21:53,430.1 --> 00:21:59,200.099 And she has always, always, always had a great perspective of things are happening for me, not to me. 236 00:21:59,890.1 --> 00:22:05,570.1 And I told her that like, you're doing, you're, you're in the thick of it and it's okay to be in the thick of it. 237 00:22:05,880.1 --> 00:22:07,590.1 Just be present in it. 238 00:22:07,620.099 --> 00:22:09,10.1 You'll get to the other side. 239 00:22:09,20.099 --> 00:22:11,380.1 Who knows what that looks like? I don't know what it looks like. 240 00:22:11,380.1 --> 00:22:12,130.1 You don't either. 241 00:22:12,160.1 --> 00:22:12,960.1 That's okay. 242 00:22:13,350.1 --> 00:22:15,190.1 Just be in the muck. 243 00:22:15,935.1 --> 00:22:23,645.1 Learn what you need to learn in this muck so that you can come out the other side and go, holy shit, I'm a whole new person, whole new person for the better. 244 00:22:25,525.1 --> 00:22:31,585.1 That goes with your messaging too, because we came together because of human design and messaging and the voice. 245 00:22:32,65.1 --> 00:22:40,585.099 And that's why we are doing these podcasts, there's going to be numerous, where we just come together, have conversations, probably have people ask questions. 246 00:22:41,25.1 --> 00:22:41,565.099 I don't know. 247 00:22:41,955.1 --> 00:22:42,975.1 Ooh, that could be fun. 248 00:22:43,5.099 --> 00:22:44,55.1 I like that idea. 249 00:22:44,355.1 --> 00:22:44,795.1 Yeah. 250 00:22:44,795.1 --> 00:22:50,295.099 Like have people listen and have questions where we can respond to them because they're Yeah. 251 00:22:50,455.099 --> 00:23:02,695.1 I know, and just see what happens and I know that we came together because You are my podcast and we have a lot of things in common with our charts. 252 00:23:02,935.1 --> 00:23:10,335.0985 So I want to ask you then, yeah, since you asked me about the embodiment of the voice, cause that's what I'm focusing on. 253 00:23:11,5.0985 --> 00:23:22,425.0975 What is this collaboration or connection that you feel with us with the messaging and the voice and why is it that you wanted to do this? I love this cause we get to take turns asking questions. 254 00:23:24,155.0985 --> 00:23:35,125.0975 I feel like there's just certain people that you meet and you're like, you feel like you can go deep and ask the harder questions with, right? And I feel like those people, I want more in my life. 255 00:23:35,695.0975 --> 00:23:39,35.0975 I want more interactions like that. 256 00:23:39,655.0985 --> 00:23:42,105.0975 And maybe it's the sixth lane, the fourth line, whatever. 257 00:23:42,155.0975 --> 00:23:46,105.0975 But those are the people that I'm like, I want to hang on to you in some way. 258 00:23:46,125.0975 --> 00:23:48,175.0975 I want to keep you in my sphere. 259 00:23:48,345.0975 --> 00:23:52,715.0975 I want to like nurture this relationship because there's. 260 00:23:53,555.0975 --> 00:23:55,455.0975 That's not an easy thing to find. 261 00:23:55,505.0975 --> 00:23:57,415.0975 I feel like it's not, it's not common. 262 00:23:58,475.0975 --> 00:23:58,895.0975 I don't know. 263 00:23:58,965.0975 --> 00:23:59,935.0975 I meet a lot of people. 264 00:24:02,365.0975 --> 00:24:03,5.0975 Yeah. 265 00:24:03,5.0975 --> 00:24:04,715.0975 I agree with that too. 266 00:24:04,775.0975 --> 00:24:11,105.097 With the depth and going deeper, not being afraid to share the deeper stuff and the messy stuff. 267 00:24:11,125.097 --> 00:24:12,945.097 Whereas a lot of people don't want to go there. 268 00:24:13,195.096 --> 00:24:13,585.096 Yeah. 269 00:24:14,545.096 --> 00:24:14,855.096 Yeah. 270 00:24:17,15.097 --> 00:24:27,695.097 Do you go into the deeper stuff and the messy stuff with the messaging or do you feel like a lot of the people aren't ready to go there? One on one, yes. 271 00:24:28,225.097 --> 00:24:30,75.0975 Because I think when you haven't. 272 00:24:31,330.0975 --> 00:24:42,930.0975 I've been in feeling safe to say what you want to say and you've just been conforming your message to what you think is going to sell to what you think is supposed to be good messaging. 273 00:24:44,300.0975 --> 00:24:48,260.0965 It can feel really scary to come out and actually talk about what you want to talk about. 274 00:24:48,270.0975 --> 00:24:49,260.0965 I felt that way. 275 00:24:49,270.0975 --> 00:24:56,500.0975 I mean, it's why I created a private Facebook group for a year and a half and only talked about what I wanted to talk about in that group. 276 00:24:56,500.0975 --> 00:24:57,430.0975 I didn't have Instagram. 277 00:24:57,430.0975 --> 00:24:58,80.0975 I didn't have like. 278 00:24:58,305.0975 --> 00:25:03,785.0975 It was exclusively this private Facebook group because I didn't feel safe talking about it. 279 00:25:04,245.0975 --> 00:25:09,655.0975 And it wasn't until I did it long enough and felt like, Oh yeah, I do have something to say. 280 00:25:09,655.0975 --> 00:25:10,975.0975 People are listening. 281 00:25:11,395.0975 --> 00:25:13,105.0985 It was validation. 282 00:25:13,165.0985 --> 00:25:17,825.0985 I, I don't think I did it seeking the validation, but when it came, I was like, okay. 283 00:25:18,110.0985 --> 00:25:30,970.0985 Now, I feel like I have a piece that was missing in my confidence to be able to go out and face the masses, face the whatever's out there, be able to talk about what I want to talk about. 284 00:25:32,50.0975 --> 00:25:37,240.0975 So you create that, that four line, that safety first, you felt grounded and safe. 285 00:25:37,270.0985 --> 00:25:38,320.098 You felt good in yourself. 286 00:25:38,320.098 --> 00:25:39,520.0975 You understood yourself. 287 00:25:39,990.0975 --> 00:25:40,810.0975 And then. 288 00:25:41,135.0985 --> 00:25:42,605.0985 You stepped more so out. 289 00:25:42,625.0985 --> 00:25:47,525.0985 So where is the provocation in your chart again? 39 is my sun gate. 290 00:25:48,525.0985 --> 00:25:55,165.0985 So I mean we have basically it's the same numbers, they're just in different order for our incarnation crosses. 291 00:25:55,635.0985 --> 00:26:00,435.0985 Conscious sun is 39 and unconscious is 21 for me. 292 00:26:01,435.0985 --> 00:26:09,915.0985 And mine's like the conscious sun is 48 and the unconscious 39 and then the conscious earth is 21. 293 00:26:10,425.0985 --> 00:26:10,605.0985 Yeah. 294 00:26:10,705.0975 --> 00:26:20,855.099 Well, no wonder why we kind of like our energies like bounce off each other, right? Like it's just a tiny little difference, but it's very similar. 295 00:26:20,915.099 --> 00:26:21,225.099 Yeah. 296 00:26:23,275.099 --> 00:26:30,785.099 I love the 39 in the conscious son because that energy is what you're here to be is that provocation and provoking thing. 297 00:26:30,795.099 --> 00:26:36,15.0985 So you knew that by creating that space, getting comfortable in that sharing. 298 00:26:36,15.0985 --> 00:26:43,835.099 And then it's like, okay, now I know more, so I'm going to bring it out more into the world with the provoking more. 299 00:26:46,495.099 --> 00:26:49,635.099 and it had to be on my own timeline too. 300 00:26:50,95.099 --> 00:27:10,735.099 I have had several people in that timeframe say, you need to be doing like stuff on your Facebook profile, and just being louder and more, I don't know, like putting plastering it everywhere, what I was doing and I was like, no, that is no It's not, not the way I wanna do it, I guess. 301 00:27:11,110.099 --> 00:27:11,570.099 I want to do it. 302 00:27:11,580.099 --> 00:27:12,490.099 Not yet. 303 00:27:14,470.099 --> 00:27:14,930.099 Not yet. 304 00:27:15,30.099 --> 00:27:18,370.099 You can't exactly because yeah, I felt that way too. 305 00:27:18,520.099 --> 00:27:21,390.099 Before I felt like I needed to have a safe space. 306 00:27:21,390.099 --> 00:27:23,340.099 I didn't need to have all of this. 307 00:27:23,890.099 --> 00:27:25,900.099 All of this energy with provoking out there. 308 00:27:25,900.099 --> 00:27:31,560.099 But now that I've been really diving into letting go of the anger and letting my voice out, it's like, no, I'm here to provoke. 309 00:27:31,660.099 --> 00:27:32,750.099 I'm here to bring that out. 310 00:27:32,780.099 --> 00:27:35,140.099 And if people get provoked, then I'm doing my job. 311 00:27:35,150.098 --> 00:27:38,580.099 So I'm doing what I'm here for. 312 00:27:39,10.099 --> 00:27:39,870.099 Exactly. 313 00:27:39,950.099 --> 00:27:40,160.0985 Yeah. 314 00:27:40,160.0985 --> 00:27:42,40.099 And that's the difference with messaging. 315 00:27:42,50.099 --> 00:27:47,780.097 When you mentioned, some people don't even know human design and they're automatically following their strategy and they already do it. 316 00:27:48,270.097 --> 00:27:59,370.0975 But I do feel like once you have that knowing and then you no longer have any doubt whatsoever, your messaging is in the face and there's no holding back. 317 00:27:59,560.0975 --> 00:28:06,40.0975 Whatever anyone said, it, it may hurt a little, it may sting, but you know that's what you're here to bring. 318 00:28:06,600.0975 --> 00:28:06,850.0975 Yeah. 319 00:28:06,910.0975 --> 00:28:08,400.0975 Right? Oh, totally. 320 00:28:09,240.0975 --> 00:28:18,450.0965 Going deeper into that with the messaging, even if you don't know your strategy or you do know your strategy, but you haven't really been fully putting it out there, maybe it's not right timing. 321 00:28:18,450.0975 --> 00:28:19,610.0965 You have to feel into it. 322 00:28:19,610.0965 --> 00:28:23,480.097 I feel like we have to try things on first and then we get to be more bold. 323 00:28:23,630.097 --> 00:28:24,850.097 Mm hmm. 324 00:28:24,850.197 --> 00:28:25,219.997 Mm hmm. 325 00:28:25,300.097 --> 00:28:28,890.097 Yeah, get to filter it through your own. 326 00:28:29,825.1595 --> 00:28:30,635.1595 Awareness. 327 00:28:30,685.1595 --> 00:28:42,395.1585 And I think with, as with anything in human design and filtering it through your own awareness, do you feel like that's true or not? Are you ready to be there? Are you ready to really talk about that? If you're not, that's okay. 328 00:28:44,395.1595 --> 00:28:44,865.1595 Yeah. 329 00:28:44,895.1595 --> 00:28:45,715.1595 I've been there. 330 00:28:47,165.1595 --> 00:28:49,435.1595 We have so much to talk about. 331 00:28:49,985.1595 --> 00:28:59,905.1595 I want to know what has been the hardest part of stepping out? Like you talked about like lovability. 332 00:29:00,875.1595 --> 00:29:08,855.1595 But what has been the scary, almost like it's not the scary part that you think is going to happen. 333 00:29:08,855.1595 --> 00:29:16,365.1585 It's almost like the, the hidden benefit of staying small and not using your voice. 334 00:29:17,415.1585 --> 00:29:20,285.1595 I've been going through a lot right now with the being too much. 335 00:29:21,845.1595 --> 00:29:24,545.1595 I've noticed that I would observe. 336 00:29:25,180.1595 --> 00:29:29,210.1595 So I knew what people could take, so it wouldn't be too much. 337 00:29:29,220.1595 --> 00:29:34,90.1595 So that I was loved and valued and seen for who I was. 338 00:29:35,370.1595 --> 00:29:37,290.1585 So, the too muchness. 339 00:29:37,800.1595 --> 00:29:59,410.1585 It's still a lot because I am afraid when I say too much, people are just going to be like, what the hell, like, what is going on with you? Like you're going through a midlife crisis Maybe that is when people get to a specific age, they start to say, you know what, I'm sick of pretending I'm sick of wearing these masks. 340 00:29:59,570.1585 --> 00:30:06,660.1585 And then maybe that's what the midlife crisis is, is truly being authentic and no longer caring what anyone thinks. 341 00:30:06,670.1575 --> 00:30:20,475.1585 Right? So I am definitely still afraid of People lashing out and kind of rejecting me and telling me that I'm crazy, basically, you're too much. 342 00:30:20,485.1585 --> 00:30:21,395.1585 You're way out there. 343 00:30:21,395.1585 --> 00:30:24,775.1585 Why are you being too much? Those are the things that still come up for me. 344 00:30:24,775.1585 --> 00:30:31,725.1575 And sometimes there was a, a person, I think it was about a year ago that said to a colleague of mine that. 345 00:30:32,145.1585 --> 00:30:33,215.1585 I triggered her. 346 00:30:33,635.1585 --> 00:30:39,305.1575 And at first it hurt me because I didn't want to trigger people, but now it's like, yes, I want to trigger people. 347 00:30:39,325.1585 --> 00:30:41,955.1575 Cause that's something it means there's something there. 348 00:30:42,265.1565 --> 00:30:45,775.1575 And I have to understand that even when people say I'm too much. 349 00:30:46,815.1575 --> 00:30:47,805.1575 It's their stuff. 350 00:30:47,805.1575 --> 00:30:48,775.1575 It's not me. 351 00:30:48,845.1575 --> 00:31:00,155.1565 But because I've been holding on for this for so long, it still hurts when people say that to me or say that I'm going through something because it's like I'm not going through anything. 352 00:31:00,155.1565 --> 00:31:04,585.1575 I'm emerging into who I always was and you don't even know who I am. 353 00:31:05,785.1575 --> 00:31:08,895.1585 So that it's scary to me of judgment of people. 354 00:31:09,465.1585 --> 00:31:10,685.1585 Oh yeah. 355 00:31:10,745.1585 --> 00:31:27,40.1585 And I feel like If you talk cross the board, MG vote, have you been considered or do you consider yourself too much? And I guarantee you like 95 percent of us would be like, yup, feel like way too much in some way, shape or form. 356 00:31:27,970.1575 --> 00:31:33,930.1585 Mine has always been, if I speak up, if I talk and just be myself, that I am an idiot. 357 00:31:34,650.1585 --> 00:31:39,190.1585 That I'm stupid, that somehow I'm not smart enough. 358 00:31:39,240.1585 --> 00:31:40,650.1585 I don't even know where that comes from. 359 00:31:40,660.1585 --> 00:31:43,760.1585 I'm sure it's from a childhood, and that I don't want to look stupid. 360 00:31:44,600.1585 --> 00:31:47,270.1585 So if I keep my mouth shut, I can't look stupid. 361 00:31:48,240.1585 --> 00:31:53,310.1575 Well, that's the 48 and adequacy, not knowing enough. 362 00:31:53,310.1595 --> 00:31:53,470.1595 Yeah. 363 00:31:53,470.2595 --> 00:31:53,890.0585 Right. 364 00:31:53,970.1585 --> 00:31:54,250.1585 Yeah. 365 00:31:55,10.1585 --> 00:31:55,300.1585 Yeah. 366 00:31:56,220.1585 --> 00:32:01,510.1585 And even in that, I love that you brought that up too, because that even goes deeper than the too muchness is of. 367 00:32:02,150.1585 --> 00:32:03,880.1585 the depth that we can go into. 368 00:32:04,140.1585 --> 00:32:08,230.1585 Like, some of the things that I'm studying right now, people would seriously think I'm crazy. 369 00:32:08,570.1585 --> 00:32:13,70.1585 Like, what the heck are you even thinking about, right? Like, you're so blue. 370 00:32:13,440.1585 --> 00:32:24,760.1575 I love conspiracy theories and like, not that I believe most, you're generally not, but they're so fascinating to me to go, how someone can go so deep down a rabbit hole. 371 00:32:25,610.1575 --> 00:32:26,590.1575 It's fascinating to me. 372 00:32:27,255.1585 --> 00:32:34,375.1585 Yeah, yeah, and then people I feel like that don't go deep kind of like think we're weird. 373 00:32:34,605.1585 --> 00:32:34,835.1585 Yeah. 374 00:32:34,885.1585 --> 00:32:36,645.1585 And that's a huge thing for me. 375 00:32:36,705.1575 --> 00:32:40,775.1575 I've always been attracted to people that are different. 376 00:32:40,965.1575 --> 00:32:45,825.157 I've always been Oh my gosh, I admire you for walking around with a rat on your shoulder. 377 00:32:46,55.157 --> 00:32:49,765.157 You know what I mean? Like, I've always loved people that were not afraid. 378 00:32:49,785.157 --> 00:32:52,195.157 And now I know it's because I was. 379 00:32:52,815.157 --> 00:33:01,795.157 I'm one of those people, I'm seriously one of those people that go deep into the things that are different, that is attracted to the darker side of things. 380 00:33:01,825.156 --> 00:33:05,645.156 And I couldn't do that because I felt like people would think I'm weird. 381 00:33:05,695.157 --> 00:33:13,835.158 I'm studying right now, galactic astrology on how our past lives, we jumped through portals and aliens. 382 00:33:13,845.158 --> 00:33:18,715.1585 I mean, there's so much that I'm studying right now that people would think Oh my gosh. 383 00:33:19,70.1585 --> 00:33:19,960.1585 Love it. 384 00:33:22,620.1585 --> 00:33:24,830.1585 So I think that's a little bit of the too muchness too. 385 00:33:26,220.1585 --> 00:33:27,240.1585 You're like, you're crazy. 386 00:33:27,770.1585 --> 00:33:28,940.1585 Right, exactly. 387 00:33:30,250.1585 --> 00:33:33,480.1585 It's so funny. 388 00:33:33,670.1585 --> 00:33:34,100.1585 Mm hmm. 389 00:33:34,130.1585 --> 00:33:41,780.1585 I, you know, projectors really call that out on you because my daughter in law, she's a projector. 390 00:33:42,120.1585 --> 00:33:44,865.1585 And at, Christmas I forgot what game we're playing. 391 00:33:44,865.1585 --> 00:33:45,685.1585 We're playing this game. 392 00:33:45,695.1585 --> 00:33:55,105.1585 It had to do with like talking about planets and extraterrestrials and like they had to pick who would it be and it was me and she's a projector. 393 00:33:55,115.1585 --> 00:34:00,915.1575 And at first I was like, what? What are you talking about? Like, because I hadn't even found galactic astrology yet. 394 00:34:01,365.1575 --> 00:34:01,965.0585 And yet. 395 00:34:02,265.1585 --> 00:34:08,785.1585 She, as a projector, called that out last year, and I'm just putting that together right now. 396 00:34:09,135.1585 --> 00:34:15,915.1575 She saw that before I even saw it, which just gives the brilliance of the projectors. 397 00:34:16,255.1585 --> 00:34:34,635.1585 And what is even weird? What is like what is normal? And I was reading it was a parenting book and it was talking about left brain, right brain, and how school, especially K through like sixth, seventh grade is really set up for left brain. 398 00:34:34,845.1585 --> 00:34:42,225.1585 It's very memorizing, consecutive, it's structured, but if you're right brained, you don't do well in that environment, especially if you're very much right brained. 399 00:34:42,235.1585 --> 00:34:50,265.1585 There's kind of a spectrum from right to left, but if you're very much right brained, like you're not going to do well with memorizing. 400 00:34:50,265.1585 --> 00:34:52,285.1575 And I very much right brained. 401 00:34:52,285.2575 --> 00:34:53,545.1585 I don't memorize. 402 00:34:53,595.1585 --> 00:34:54,415.1585 I don't care. 403 00:34:55,595.1585 --> 00:35:20,430.157 I want to know how can I apply this to my life? What does it mean for my life? Give me some application like that versus just memorize these things and you're going to be smart, which is probably why I never felt like I was smart because I can't memorize, It was fascinating because she said in the book that most, 30 percent are very, very right brained. 404 00:35:20,500.157 --> 00:35:26,500.157 Another 30 percent of kids are kind of in that middle spectrum, more in the middle, but leaning on the right. 405 00:35:27,190.157 --> 00:35:39,880.156 And so that's 60 percent of the kids that are leaning on the right side, some more heavily than others, but yet our entire school system is set up for left and how much we are labeling kids. 406 00:35:40,280.157 --> 00:35:51,830.157 Because that their, their brain just works different, and I've heard that argument so many times about ADHD and autism and all these things that we're labeling them because their brain just thinks differently. 407 00:35:51,830.157 --> 00:35:58,30.158 They're not weird, they're not abnormal, it's just different, it's fascinating to me and it makes me... 408 00:35:58,200.158 --> 00:36:18,530.158 Really mindful of how I am schooling my kids as MGs and allowing them to, one, my daughter is definitely very right brained and my son is probably more in the middle, but leans towards the right, I think, but how you notice if it has to do with the Ajna. 409 00:36:20,590.158 --> 00:36:24,770.158 Let's see, my daughter's defined in the Ajna and my son and I are not. 410 00:36:25,620.158 --> 00:36:26,10.158 Okay. 411 00:36:26,620.158 --> 00:36:29,500.158 So I'm wondering if it has to do with the circuitry. 412 00:36:29,670.158 --> 00:36:37,700.158 I thought that too, that like if you are really good with numbers and putting things together that you would be defined. 413 00:36:38,120.157 --> 00:36:39,620.158 Like that was my, my theory. 414 00:36:39,860.158 --> 00:36:41,500.158 And my daughter totally threw that one out the window. 415 00:36:42,640.157 --> 00:36:43,700.158 That's interesting. 416 00:36:43,800.157 --> 00:36:47,140.158 Yeah, that is because I thought that too, because my autism is totally open. 417 00:36:47,410.158 --> 00:36:47,660.158 Yeah. 418 00:36:47,700.158 --> 00:36:48,990.158 So for me, like. 419 00:36:49,245.158 --> 00:36:58,825.158 In one ear out the other basically unless I embody it if I embody if I enjoy it and I practice it in repetition over and over and I embody it, then I remember it. 420 00:36:59,25.157 --> 00:37:01,555.157 But if I don't embody it, then I don't remember. 421 00:37:04,40.158 --> 00:37:22,780.158 Mine is more, it's like, it's tied more to an emotion, which is interesting because I'm undefined in emotions too, that if I'm excited about learning about something or there's like a reason, or I don't know, there's more emotion attached to it, the more I'm apt to remember the lesson versus if it's just. 422 00:37:24,350.158 --> 00:37:26,710.158 Like a math problem and you have to figure out this problem. 423 00:37:27,750.158 --> 00:37:28,230.158 I don't care. 424 00:37:30,360.158 --> 00:37:42,85.159 I truly feel like if a person, I mean, do you really truly feel like a person that I had difficulty with a certain aspect or certain subject. 425 00:37:42,325.159 --> 00:37:50,265.159 Do you feel like they found a job in their life that they're primarily focusing on that one subject that they disliked? No. 426 00:37:53,195.159 --> 00:38:06,535.159 Unless they were conditioned to because their parents pushed them, conditioning of, oh, you want to be a doctor, you, I need you to do this rather than finding something that really lights them up. 427 00:38:06,865.159 --> 00:38:07,255.159 Yeah. 428 00:38:07,605.158 --> 00:38:21,635.159 I mean, I definitely felt that, that there were certain professions that my parents really wanted because they knew it would equal X amount of dollars, right? I loved photography and I loved drawing houses as a kid. 429 00:38:22,35.159 --> 00:38:29,845.159 And they pushed me towards architecture because that was going to make money versus being a photographer, which was artsy and you never know. 430 00:38:29,845.159 --> 00:38:32,475.159 And who knows where you would go? Let's do the architecture route. 431 00:38:32,515.159 --> 00:38:33,335.158 That's the safe route. 432 00:38:34,465.159 --> 00:38:42,475.159 Here's the thing that I've learned about MGs too, is just because you love to do something doesn't mean that you should do that thing as a profession. 433 00:38:45,390.159 --> 00:38:46,650.159 Especially MGs. 434 00:38:46,950.159 --> 00:38:47,940.159 Especially MGs. 435 00:38:48,330.159 --> 00:38:49,60.159 Especially. 436 00:38:50,260.159 --> 00:38:51,680.159 Because we love so many things. 437 00:38:52,0.159 --> 00:38:52,990.159 We love so many things. 438 00:38:52,990.259 --> 00:38:56,350.159 And we are not destined to do all of them as a career. 439 00:38:56,970.159 --> 00:38:57,550.159 Forever. 440 00:38:58,40.159 --> 00:38:58,420.159 Nope. 441 00:38:58,430.159 --> 00:38:58,690.159 Nope. 442 00:39:00,150.159 --> 00:39:10,880.058 I mean, I think that's why I've been a personal trainer, I've been a yoga teacher, I've been a pranayama teacher, I've been, a meditation teacher, Those are all in the same realm, at least. 443 00:39:10,880.058 --> 00:39:14,400.058 I went from architecture to photography to now messaging and copywriting. 444 00:39:16,500.058 --> 00:39:23,160.058 I think we get so much pressure that we, that somehow our passion is going to be the thing that. 445 00:39:23,530.058 --> 00:39:24,140.058 We do. 446 00:39:24,170.058 --> 00:39:37,250.058 And, and I totally agree with the sentiment that whatever you're doing, you should have passion for and love it because you do spend so much time doing it, but just because something is a passion doesn't mean that it's going to be the thing that you do to make money. 447 00:39:37,630.058 --> 00:39:43,460.058 And also you could just do it for a certain amount of time and then once it no longer is your passion, you can leave it. 448 00:39:43,460.058 --> 00:39:46,310.058 Whereas in society we're told, like I was a trainer. 449 00:39:46,695.058 --> 00:39:49,275.058 For 20 years, I trained a lot of people. 450 00:39:49,275.058 --> 00:39:57,435.057 I was like really known for training, then it's like, ah, it no longer fulfills me because it's just about the physical body and I want to get deeper. 451 00:39:57,965.057 --> 00:39:59,145.058 So then I went to yoga. 452 00:39:59,365.058 --> 00:40:03,125.0575 And then again, I was yoga for the, the football team and all that kind of stuff. 453 00:40:03,125.0575 --> 00:40:05,955.0575 But then I was like, okay, but now I want to ask the right question. 454 00:40:05,965.0575 --> 00:40:06,225.0575 So. 455 00:40:07,75.0575 --> 00:40:21,845.0575 It's like having the mentality of I'm going full in right now, but it doesn't mean I'm going to be there forever and not letting society or friends or family say to you, well, you spent 20 years on this and so you should stay. 456 00:40:22,210.0575 --> 00:40:23,200.0575 Even though you're miserable. 457 00:40:23,420.0575 --> 00:40:25,190.0575 That even goes with messaging, I feel like. 458 00:40:25,320.0575 --> 00:40:25,890.0575 It does. 459 00:40:26,120.0575 --> 00:40:27,10.0575 Oh my gosh. 460 00:40:27,20.0575 --> 00:40:27,440.0575 Yes. 461 00:40:27,480.0575 --> 00:40:29,170.0575 Oh, we could go down a whole rabbit hole with that. 462 00:40:29,470.0575 --> 00:40:29,910.0575 Yes. 463 00:40:29,920.0565 --> 00:40:31,390.0565 Your messaging is going to change. 464 00:40:31,670.0565 --> 00:40:33,90.0575 Hands down, it's going to change. 465 00:40:33,100.0575 --> 00:40:41,210.0575 And I think this is why I've shifted into teaching people instead of writing for them because your messaging change. 466 00:40:41,220.0575 --> 00:40:43,450.0575 You need to be able to do this on your own. 467 00:40:43,880.0575 --> 00:40:51,470.0575 In at least the basic capacity, because if you can't, you're never you're just stuck relying on other people to figure out what your voice is. 468 00:40:51,470.0575 --> 00:40:53,170.0565 And that's not always an easy thing. 469 00:40:53,180.0575 --> 00:40:54,550.0575 You got to know it for yourself. 470 00:40:54,560.0575 --> 00:40:57,490.0575 You got to know what you want to do, what you want to communicate. 471 00:40:57,540.0565 --> 00:41:03,430.0575 What is the transformation of whatever you're creating is be able to explain it to people. 472 00:41:03,910.0575 --> 00:41:08,0.0575 And know that it's going to change in six months, a year, two years. 473 00:41:08,345.0575 --> 00:41:09,185.0575 Like, that's okay. 474 00:41:10,575.0575 --> 00:41:13,735.0575 And honestly, I feel like if it doesn't change, you're not doing your work. 475 00:41:14,175.0575 --> 00:41:14,755.0575 Yeah. 476 00:41:16,355.0575 --> 00:41:20,415.0565 Because if we're growing and evolving, then we're going to change our messaging. 477 00:41:20,675.0575 --> 00:41:21,665.057 We become more bold. 478 00:41:21,665.057 --> 00:41:22,915.0575 We become whatever it is. 479 00:41:23,975.0575 --> 00:41:24,825.0575 It changes. 480 00:41:25,15.0575 --> 00:41:30,605.0575 So if it doesn't change, then that's a time for you to reflect on like, Ooh, I'm stuck because I'm not doing my work. 481 00:41:30,905.0575 --> 00:41:31,255.0575 Yeah. 482 00:41:31,755.0575 --> 00:41:39,745.0565 And I think, I think generators I've noticed can do the same messaging longer than on most of the types. 483 00:41:39,745.0575 --> 00:41:39,875.0575 Thanks. 484 00:41:40,545.0575 --> 00:41:47,785.0575 Most of us get, we're done after like one round, but generators can do it a little longer. 485 00:41:47,785.0575 --> 00:41:56,475.0575 And I find that their messaging just deepens, like it starts out a little more surface level and they'll maybe turn that thing a little more passive. 486 00:41:56,475.0575 --> 00:42:01,675.0575 They don't really want to be in it as much after a few rounds and they want to deepen it. 487 00:42:01,675.0575 --> 00:42:04,545.0575 And so they'll take the clients to another level deeper. 488 00:42:05,210.0575 --> 00:42:10,230.0575 Like, they're just deepening, in their mastery, which is what they're supposed to be doing. 489 00:42:11,0.0575 --> 00:42:11,350.0575 Yeah. 490 00:42:11,350.0575 --> 00:42:14,890.0575 Like deconditioning the layers, going deeper, the things. 491 00:42:15,140.0575 --> 00:42:23,420.0575 What about projectors? What have you noticed the projectors and messaging? They bounce around until they find. 492 00:42:24,460.0575 --> 00:42:32,450.0575 Their system can be, I've found their system can be like, human design is just their system and that's what they wanna dive deep on. 493 00:42:32,810.0575 --> 00:42:40,370.0575 Or it can be something that's like totally outta left field and something they've created from their own life. 494 00:42:40,400.0575 --> 00:42:46,110.0575 They pulled in yoga, they pulled in reiki, they pulled in like all these different things. 495 00:42:46,170.0575 --> 00:42:47,430.0575 A little mg ish. 496 00:42:47,580.0575 --> 00:42:51,985.0575 Right? But it's laid out in a different fashion than what an MG would do. 497 00:42:52,825.0575 --> 00:42:57,105.0575 And they, once they kind of figure out what that system is, then, then they can go all in. 498 00:42:57,195.0575 --> 00:42:58,675.0575 But sometimes it takes time to find that. 499 00:42:59,605.0575 --> 00:43:00,75.0575 Mm hmm. 500 00:43:01,485.0575 --> 00:43:10,125.0575 I do also have a question about MGs, because, you know, the, we're all different, all the MGs. 501 00:43:10,155.0575 --> 00:43:26,530.0585 I've really noticed people that have the 34, I feel like, have a lot more Hands in the pot, I guess, I feel like because I don't have the 34, but I do have the 952, the 952 is a, format channel. 502 00:43:26,830.0575 --> 00:43:28,150.0575 So this format channel. 503 00:43:28,560.0585 --> 00:43:32,720.0585 Really, it actually reflects my entire chart. 504 00:43:32,780.0585 --> 00:43:36,90.0585 Everything is through that lens of the nine 52. 505 00:43:36,940.0575 --> 00:43:41,620.0575 So for me, I, I feel like I'm sometimes not a full mg. 506 00:43:42,200.0575 --> 00:43:46,250.0595 I have a lot of activation to my throat, but I don't feel like I have that. 507 00:43:46,785.0585 --> 00:43:49,975.0585 It's that shiny object syndrome where I kind of like go all over the place. 508 00:43:49,975.0585 --> 00:43:55,515.0585 It's like, I find something, I have the 48, I go deep for years and years and focus and deep and deep. 509 00:43:55,745.0575 --> 00:43:59,475.0575 And then as soon as I'm no longer excited, it's like, okay, time to move on. 510 00:43:59,685.0585 --> 00:44:06,110.0585 So have you noticed that with different? Types of MGs. 511 00:44:06,540.0585 --> 00:44:07,460.0585 Yeah, definitely. 512 00:44:07,470.0585 --> 00:44:13,780.0585 I mean, the 34, if you have that, it's definitely a hands in the every kind of pot all over the place. 513 00:44:13,810.0585 --> 00:44:14,740.0585 I have the 34. 514 00:44:14,740.0585 --> 00:44:16,930.0585 It's not connected to my throat, but I have the 34. 515 00:44:17,870.0585 --> 00:44:19,740.0585 Both my kids have the 34 too. 516 00:44:20,740.0585 --> 00:44:35,10.0585 And they're You very much kind of all over the place too and what they like and yeah, I think the shiny object syndrome for MGs is tied very much to the 34. 517 00:44:35,650.0575 --> 00:44:38,990.0585 That's interesting that you have noticed that so much about yourself too. 518 00:44:39,530.0585 --> 00:44:48,882.859 Because I, I realized I would ask myself, I'd be working with people and they jump from one thing to the other and I'd be like, I need to focus. 519 00:44:48,882.859 --> 00:44:52,30.059 Like I need to sit and focus and go deep into this. 520 00:44:52,30.059 --> 00:44:52,80.059 Yeah. 521 00:44:52,80.159 --> 00:44:52,99.959 Thanks. 522 00:44:52,570.059 --> 00:45:01,505.059 For like however long I need to and then I'll move to the next maybe the next day or maybe half day Later, I can really focus on something for a couple hours. 523 00:45:01,505.059 --> 00:45:06,165.059 I can't be all over the place because it makes me feel like I'm all over the place. 524 00:45:06,305.059 --> 00:45:08,785.059 And I have, I have a defined route. 525 00:45:09,75.059 --> 00:45:10,745.058 I have the nine 52. 526 00:45:11,25.059 --> 00:45:12,955.059 I really like to go deep and focus. 527 00:45:12,985.059 --> 00:45:14,855.057 And I always wondered why, I'm an MG. 528 00:45:14,865.058 --> 00:45:25,625.058 Why am I not like that? But then I realized that it is a a format channel that the channel actually kind of is the whole lens, my entire human design body graph. 529 00:45:25,925.058 --> 00:45:26,695.058 Reflects that. 530 00:45:26,895.058 --> 00:45:27,775.058 And that's how I am. 531 00:45:27,795.058 --> 00:45:29,215.058 So I do go deep. 532 00:45:29,645.058 --> 00:45:33,15.058 And I kind of bounce back and forth between the two. 533 00:45:33,115.057 --> 00:45:41,215.057 Like I want to go deep, but I also, if I were to spend an entire day on one thing, I would feel like a failure that day. 534 00:45:42,55.057 --> 00:45:43,985.058 See for me, I feel like. 535 00:45:44,480.058 --> 00:45:52,390.058 Wow, I got like this, this amazing thing done and it's so good and it's so in depth and I'm done. 536 00:45:52,510.058 --> 00:45:55,560.058 And now I get to go to the next thing and go deep into that. 537 00:45:57,240.058 --> 00:46:02,170.057 No, I feel like I didn't even scratch the surface of the depth and I'm like, now I'm all consumed with it. 538 00:46:02,180.057 --> 00:46:03,680.057 And I'm like, versus... 539 00:46:04,405.058 --> 00:46:12,275.058 going deep for a a shorter amount of time and then I can do that with a couple different areas throughout the day. 540 00:46:12,475.057 --> 00:46:21,785.057 That feels like a win of a day where I get to do all the pots and go deep on all the pots for a short period of time. 541 00:46:22,645.058 --> 00:46:23,305.058 Yeah. 542 00:46:23,465.058 --> 00:46:24,435.057 Oh, that's so interesting. 543 00:46:24,435.057 --> 00:46:30,255.058 So that's interesting for anyone listening, you know, because even though we're both MGs. 544 00:46:30,885.058 --> 00:46:40,935.058 Yeah, it's, we do things differently because of our, our definition, so it, it just goes to show that we're all unique in our way of being that our messaging is our messaging. 545 00:46:40,945.058 --> 00:46:44,65.0575 It's not what someone tells us to do or anything like that. 546 00:46:44,65.0575 --> 00:46:48,915.058 You have to feel into it because for like me with my clients, I like to go deep. 547 00:46:49,195.058 --> 00:46:54,5.058 Like I want to go into that depth, that time, that space where we get into that heaviness. 548 00:46:54,595.058 --> 00:46:57,685.058 That's what fills me up where a lot of people are like, I don't want that. 549 00:46:57,695.058 --> 00:46:58,815.058 That is scary. 550 00:47:00,675.058 --> 00:47:01,795.058 Shadow work is scary. 551 00:47:01,845.058 --> 00:47:04,125.058 I mean, it's scary when you haven't done it. 552 00:47:04,605.058 --> 00:47:06,585.058 The more you do it, you're like, yeah, bring it on. 553 00:47:07,705.058 --> 00:47:08,215.058 Yeah. 554 00:47:08,395.057 --> 00:47:10,205.058 It's like, Ooh, there's something there. 555 00:47:10,215.058 --> 00:47:11,375.058 Let's see what that's about. 556 00:47:11,525.058 --> 00:47:17,455.059 Cause you know that on the other side, it's so much better when you release and get rid of that shadow and work and just see the shadow. 557 00:47:17,485.059 --> 00:47:18,25.059 Just see it. 558 00:47:18,155.059 --> 00:47:18,825.059 Not even get rid of it. 559 00:47:18,825.059 --> 00:47:19,345.058 Just see it. 560 00:47:21,430.059 --> 00:47:23,890.059 That even goes even more into our messaging and our voice. 561 00:47:24,340.059 --> 00:47:24,600.059 Yeah. 562 00:47:24,640.059 --> 00:47:25,20.059 Right. 563 00:47:25,50.059 --> 00:47:28,130.059 Because once you understand that about your chart. 564 00:47:28,600.059 --> 00:47:30,380.059 You understand more of your niche. 565 00:47:30,400.059 --> 00:47:32,230.059 You understand who your ideal client is. 566 00:47:32,230.059 --> 00:47:34,640.059 You understand, like for me personally, it has to go deep. 567 00:47:34,700.059 --> 00:47:35,870.059 I want to spend time. 568 00:47:35,880.059 --> 00:47:36,680.059 I want space. 569 00:47:37,90.059 --> 00:47:49,960.058 Whereas other people don't, they want many, many people or whatever touching on things and that's, that's their chart, but that's where the messaging comes in and that's where the voice comes in too. 570 00:47:49,960.058 --> 00:47:51,390.058 And how to find that aligned. 571 00:47:52,135.059 --> 00:48:05,665.059 Strategy, the containers that you're putting around your offers and how it works for you and what you really wanna do, not what makes money, or not what industry standard is, or what people think it sells or anything like that. 572 00:48:05,670.059 --> 00:48:08,995.059 It's like, no, this is how I wanna work with clients. 573 00:48:10,515.059 --> 00:48:16,785.059 Well, we're gonna be doing one of these a month and I'm so excited and I feel like I wanna tease. 574 00:48:17,600.059 --> 00:48:18,570.059 what we're making. 575 00:48:19,490.059 --> 00:48:19,710.059 Go ahead. 576 00:48:20,410.059 --> 00:48:20,600.059 Go ahead. 577 00:48:20,840.059 --> 00:48:20,950.059 Tease it. 578 00:48:21,720.059 --> 00:48:22,210.059 Tease it. 579 00:48:23,200.059 --> 00:48:30,290.058 Miranda and I are gonna put together a container where we're going deep, obviously. 580 00:48:32,340.059 --> 00:48:33,260.059 We're provoking you. 581 00:48:34,260.059 --> 00:48:39,370.059 But really, we're creating a container for people that are afraid to step out into who they truly are. 582 00:48:39,840.059 --> 00:48:49,340.059 And we're going to look at the shadow, we're going to look at why and what's holding you back and then really step forward with a message that. 583 00:48:49,690.059 --> 00:48:52,710.059 Is authentically you and feels exciting to you. 584 00:48:52,710.059 --> 00:49:05,200.058 And like, this is what I've been really wanting and craving to do, but didn't give myself permission to, we're giving the space to like, we're holding space for you to be able to do that because it's not always easy. 585 00:49:05,350.058 --> 00:49:07,240.059 There is a shadow there. 586 00:49:07,350.058 --> 00:49:07,910.058 And. 587 00:49:08,490.058 --> 00:49:09,229.859 I think. 588 00:49:09,699.959 --> 00:49:29,179.959 This collaboration between the two of us really helps people go deep in a way that I have never been able to do with clients and I'm excited about being able to heal some shadow and really look at like, why can't, why haven't I been able to do this, even though I know that I want to. 589 00:49:29,589.959 --> 00:49:31,789.959 But I just, there's something holding you back. 590 00:49:33,929.959 --> 00:49:45,789.959 What this feels like is a little bit of a container where you have the permission and opportunity to go into the things that you are always afraid of before. 591 00:49:45,789.959 --> 00:49:54,679.959 Because whether people push away, you're afraid to say it to people, you're afraid of reaction, you're afraid, like, is this truly me? These beliefs. 592 00:49:54,979.959 --> 00:49:56,659.959 So we go into like the deconditioning. 593 00:49:56,659.959 --> 00:50:00,399.959 Where are you conditioned the most? How you're expressing yourself. 594 00:50:00,409.959 --> 00:50:08,619.959 How are you not expressing yourself and why? So we go into that like going heavy into this stuff and it will be. 595 00:50:09,404.959 --> 00:50:50,899.958 It will be heavy at times, but it's in a safe space, and I've done these containers, and the magic that unfolds happens almost within the first week, because as soon as people start sharing those scary things, and you're witnessed, and you're uplifted, and you're congratulating each other, and you're, you're not Putting people down or making them feel bad for feeling a certain way you start to realize how many times you've actually suppressed Yourself, so this container is gonna give you that space and then we get to do all that work And then we get to do the messaging so that you get to bring that out into the world So I think it's gonna be really magical. 596 00:50:51,119.958 --> 00:50:59,889.958 I think so, too So that'll come out not till the first of the year after the new year, let that percolate in people's minds, I think, right now. 597 00:51:01,149.958 --> 00:51:11,369.958 We are going to be doing a monthly podcast, so, if you guys want to ask questions, definitely, send questions, either either one our way. 598 00:51:11,759.958 --> 00:51:18,849.958 We can answer them, that way we can give you a little bit more insight of what we're doing, more of what you want to hear from us. 599 00:51:19,369.958 --> 00:51:20,749.958 We're doing this in a way because... 600 00:51:21,119.958 --> 00:51:23,129.958 We're learning how to work with one another as well. 601 00:51:23,129.958 --> 00:51:26,969.958 So I love that you brought this up for us to do, because we get to know each other. 602 00:51:26,969.958 --> 00:51:30,119.958 We get to practice, we get to, to kind of be in each other's energy. 603 00:51:30,119.958 --> 00:51:33,489.958 And then we're going to get to create this container for everyone too. 604 00:51:33,849.958 --> 00:51:37,539.958 So this way, you guys will all know us together. 605 00:51:37,629.957 --> 00:51:44,139.958 You don't know us, our energies together and learn from us before we even really bring that container out into the world. 606 00:51:45,829.958 --> 00:51:46,549.957 Well, Miranda. 607 00:51:47,209.958 --> 00:51:47,739.958 I'll see you next month. 608 00:51:48,619.958 --> 00:51:49,49.958 Yes. 609 00:51:49,229.958 --> 00:51:50,309.958 Thank you so much. 610 00:51:50,349.958 --> 00:51:50,789.958 Can't wait. 611 00:51:51,229.958 --> 00:51:51,869.958 Bye guys. 612 00:51:53,663.8955 --> 00:52:04,543.8945 My hope is that you walked away with something today that has opened your mind, your heart, or both listening to new perspectives, not only help you grow and expand, but it helps humanity as a whole. 613 00:52:04,993.8955 --> 00:52:10,73.8955 So if you have someone that you feel would benefit from this podcast and you feel that you want to share. 614 00:52:10,403.8955 --> 00:52:11,173.8955 Please do. 615 00:52:11,533.8955 --> 00:52:14,343.8955 Also would love to connect with you on Instagram. 616 00:52:14,473.8955 --> 00:52:16,813.8955 So please follow me at Miranda J. 617 00:52:16,813.8955 --> 00:52:17,263.8955 Mitchell. 618 00:52:17,683.8955 --> 00:52:24,973.8955 One last thing, if this episode left you with any ahas and insights, take 30 seconds of your time and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. 619 00:52:25,613.8955 --> 00:52:29,203.8955 This is the only way I know you are loving the content and connection in this space. 620 00:52:30,393.8955 --> 00:52:36,293.8955 And if you want to know more or wondering how we can work together, please go to Miranda Mitchell. 621 00:52:36,533.8955 --> 00:52:36,923.8955 com. 622 00:52:37,183.8955 --> 00:52:39,403.8955 Click on the contact in the menu and send me a message. 623 00:52:40,118.8955 --> 00:52:41,108.8955 Sending you all love. 624 00:52:41,388.8955 --> 00:52:42,98.8955 Till next time.
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