Ep 115 - Shocking the World with Pleasure: Stepping into Authenticity as a 5/1 Manifestor With Mallory Kiersten

In today's recording, our host Miranda is joined by the inspiring guest, Mallory. As a Manifestor, Mallory is navigating the challenges of productivity and rest cycles, all while struggling to understand why people find Manifestors intimidating. Join us as Mallory opens up about defining success through pleasure and the constant battle between work and rest. Discover the importance of surrendering control, trusting in support, and the power of honoring oneself. Miranda provides valuable insights on maintaining integrity, self-love, and finding alignment in the midst of challenges. Mallory also shares her experiences of feeling inadequate and the journey towards realizing her own wisdom. So, get ready to explore the world of manifestors, authenticity, and the pursuit of pleasure. Let's dive in!

Mallory's Bio.

Mallory Kiersten (she/they) is here to help recovering people-pleasers reclaim their pleasure and be in their fullest expression; she guides her clients into the deepest levels of love and acceptance for themselves so they can create the juiciest, most delicious pleasure-filled lives they could ever have imagined. Mallory is a self-love and Unstuck Yourself™ coach, a certified Erotic Blueprint™ coach and Accelerated Evolution practitioner in training, certified in the Sacred Money Archetypes® framework and an emotional clearing practitioner of The Spiral modality. In all of her work, she helps to liberate her clients from their limitations so that they can reclaim all parts of themselves- particularly those parts they’ve been ashamed of or have been told are “too much.” As the founder of The Expression Academy, she is committed to helping heart-centered entrepreneurs find their voice, create content from their souls, and cultivate authentic connection with their audiences. When she’s not coaching, you can find Mallory reading, dancing, watching cartoons, and probably making silly faces at herself in the mirror.

 

Show Notes:

- Being a Manifestor and productivity

- Trusting in surrender and support for rest and productivity.

- The will power and Integrity with gate 26

- Inadequacy in gate 48

- The importance of starting things and having support as a Manifestor

- Pleasure being both edgy and vulnerable

 

Reflection:

1.What are the deeper secrets that can be unveiled through the human design chart?

2. How can we crack the code and explore the intricate patterns and energies within the body graph?

3. What can we discover about our authentic selves through the visual complexity of the body graph?

4. How do we decode the language of energy and unravel the mysteries within the human design chart?

5. How can we navigate our energetic makeup and unlock the hidden potential of the body graph?

6. What is the power of the evolving human design system, from chakras to centers?

7. What wisdom is encoded within our personal body graph and how can we realize our true selves?

8. What blueprint of our true nature is unveiled within the human design chart?

9. How do we harness the energies within, mastering the dance of centers, channels, and gates?

10. How can we embark on a journey of self-discovery and uncover the key insights hiding within our body graph?

 

Mallory's Information:

Website: www.mallorykiersten.com

Instagram: www.instagram.com/thejoygoddess

Facebook: facebook.com/mallory.kiersten.888

TikTok.com/@thejoygoddess

Joyful Possibilities Call: https://mallorykiersten.as.me/?appointmentType=41340710

 

Miranda's Information:

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Free Human Design Chart & Video Link:

Of a manifestor, as we dive deeper into her chart, she realizes the power that she truly has and the ability that the flow state really gives her, if she does give her permission to rest and how success truly can be through rest and through flow.

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So let's dive in.
If you're a, manifestor take notes.
Also some of this energy is even associated with a manifesting generator because the manifesting part.
Of the generator has this initiating starting action.
However you get to kind of seed things and then wait to respond.

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So if you're a manifesting generator as well, take a listen to this manifestor energy, because you do have part of this energy of initiation and just notice how it resonates for you when you are in some of that process of having an idea and starting it by either seeding it, or I like to say dipping your toe in.

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So let's dive in.
Let's look into mallory's chart Do you spend all of your time building and maintaining your business so that you achieve the success you envision? Do you feel frustrated, unfulfilled, and have a loss or disconnect from your creative flow? Are you a conscious leader that is ready for change when it comes to society's views on money, wealth, relationships, and what prosperity truly means? If so, you are in the right place.

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Welcome to the provoking prosperity podcast.
.999I am your host, Miranda Mitchell.
.999I am a two four manage end.
Who is here to empower and equip you to step out of the box of social norms, guide you into using your voice for inspiration and impact and support you in finding what prosperity means for you so that you have the business and life that fulfills you.

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So grab that cup of coffee, get comfy, and get ready to hear the heartwarming and heart wrenching personal stories, all things jinkies plus tangible practices that you can implement right now for your personal and business growth.
Hello, beautiful souls.
It is Miranda.
And we are back here with Mallory.
And now we get to dive into her chart.

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So I wanted to say thank you.
And I wanted to say welcome.
I would love for you to share what's coming up for you right now before we dive into your chart.
.001Oh, geez. 30 00:02:54,720.001 --> 00:02:58,580.001 So I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'm a manifester. 31 00:02:59,150.001 --> 00:03:29,950.0005 And so with that, you know, in this world I, I mean, I feel like probably so many projectors and reflectors can come out of the woodwork and say very similar things as to what I'm saying now is that, productivity, how do I be productive and give myself kind of the, the waves of the, the rest cycles, and I've also heard that for manifestors, actually our natural state is rest and then we get these bursts of energy to I'm going to do all the worky things. 32 00:03:30,630.0005 --> 00:03:40,470.0005 I Think that's been like a real challenge for me, but at the same time, I know that I'm so much more productive when I give myself that rest. 33 00:03:41,690.0005 --> 00:03:47,80.0005 And the thing that I've sort of been working with, with the Manifester Energy is... 34 00:03:48,440.0005 --> 00:03:54,510.0005 Alienation being a huge part of the attraction game because of the closed aura thing. 35 00:03:54,520.0005 --> 00:04:10,590.0015 And what I don't get for me personally is this idea of I just hear a lot of people say that they're intimidated by manifestors and I'm like, I am the most cuddly manifestor I have ever encountered. 36 00:04:11,430.0015 --> 00:04:11,780.0015 Ever. 37 00:04:13,20.0015 --> 00:04:14,920.0015 So, there's that sort of thing. 38 00:04:14,950.0015 --> 00:04:28,300.0005 I was told pretty early on in the journey because a lot of the people were giving examples of manifestos being kind of these almost really militant energies, like military war battle leader kind of things. 39 00:04:28,320.0005 --> 00:04:32,640.0015 And then someone said, well, actually Martin Luther King was a 5 1 manifesto just like you. 40 00:04:33,980.0015 --> 00:04:39,100.0015 And part of me is going like, okay, that's a lot of pressure. 41 00:04:39,640.0015 --> 00:04:43,780.0015 And the other part of that is that heretic line, that five line. 42 00:04:44,720.0015 --> 00:04:51,930.0015 If you look at history positioned him as an enemy, and he ended, his life was cut short. 43 00:04:52,660.0015 --> 00:04:53,30.0015 Yeah. 44 00:04:53,30.0015 --> 00:04:59,90.0015 It sounds like there's a lot with the manifesto aspect of this. 45 00:04:59,200.0015 --> 00:05:04,420.0015 So I want to give you a different view of manifesto. 46 00:05:05,210.0015 --> 00:05:06,170.0015 There's two aspects. 47 00:05:06,560.0015 --> 00:05:22,955.0005 I wanted to first ask you, what is the meaning of success? you because you mentioned that the resting right? You notice that when you have the rest then you find these beautiful flow states where things do happen and do occur. 48 00:05:23,215.0015 --> 00:05:48,600.0015 But what is happening for you or in your mind and your expectations of yourself when you are in that rest state? And why do you feel like you have to be in the flow state a hundred percent of the time for you to be successful? So I guess the first Answer is I, define success by how much pleasure I'm feeling in the moment. 49 00:05:50,50.0005 --> 00:05:52,650.0005 So that's actually how I define success. 50 00:05:52,650.0005 --> 00:05:57,79.9995 So your definition of success is in the now, the pleasure in the now. 51 00:05:57,480.0005 --> 00:06:06,950.0005 You mentioned something about the flow and how you have a hard time with having to rest to be able to then get into the flow. 52 00:06:06,950.0005 --> 00:06:18,425.0005 So what, what is your feeling about the rest part, I guess what's coming up for me is that, there is a certain amount, we live in a world where there's a certain amount of work that has to go in so that money comes in. 53 00:06:19,805.0005 --> 00:06:26,275.0015 For me it's, you know, disengaging that programming that's given to us when we're very, very, very, very little. 54 00:06:26,880.0015 --> 00:06:44,550.0015 That, hours in equals money in a lot of jobs out there are hourly wage or their salary, but there's contracts that say you have to be in the building from this time to this time you get this much time off and that sort of thing. 55 00:06:44,590.0015 --> 00:06:46,780.0015 And I think entering into my own business. 56 00:06:49,35.0015 --> 00:06:58,885.0015 I, we get a lot more flexibility when it's our own business, certainly to work with the rest versus work cycle. 57 00:06:59,885.0015 --> 00:07:04,955.0015 But also there's still a certain amount of work that has to go in for the money to come in. 58 00:07:05,305.0015 --> 00:07:12,785.0015 Like, I can't just sit there and be laying in my bed and expect clients to just Randomly start lining up out the door to come work with me. 59 00:07:13,935.0015 --> 00:07:15,665.0015 I still have to have a social media presence. 60 00:07:15,665.0015 --> 00:07:17,95.0015 I still have to write copy. 61 00:07:17,95.0015 --> 00:07:20,495.0015 I still come up with offers, you know, like we're still. 62 00:07:21,495.0015 --> 00:07:21,795.0015 Yeah. 63 00:07:21,795.0015 --> 00:07:25,565.0015 Well, when you were talking, you mentioned the control. 64 00:07:26,30.0015 --> 00:07:42,10.0005 Aspect of being within a regular job and having the control, when you said that word control, it stuck out to me and I think maybe because in your chart you have a lot of the 21 and the 21 in your chart, it's in your conscious son. 65 00:07:42,620.0015 --> 00:07:53,440.0015 The 21 is in the lowest expression or the expression when you're feeling like you're out of control or you want to feel safe. 66 00:07:53,910.0015 --> 00:08:01,410.0015 Or have resources, you would have to control things and that's in the lowest expression, the 21 control. 67 00:08:01,410.0015 --> 00:08:06,960.0005 And you have it in the sun, conscious sun, you have it in the conscious North node. 68 00:08:07,270.0015 --> 00:08:09,110.002 I thought I saw it somewhere else too. 69 00:08:09,870.002 --> 00:08:12,90.001 And you also have it in the unconscious moon. 70 00:08:12,580.003 --> 00:08:20,820.002 So this is a big, big aspect for you is the control, but in the highest expression of control, it's. 71 00:08:21,280.002 --> 00:08:24,480.002 Authority and surrender. 72 00:08:24,950.002 --> 00:08:26,950.002 So surrendering the control. 73 00:08:27,100.002 --> 00:08:29,350.002 Okay, so I'm gonna let you talk because you're laughing. 74 00:08:31,760.002 --> 00:08:32,660.002 This is my life. 75 00:08:32,790.002 --> 00:08:34,50.002 This is my life right here. 76 00:08:35,570.001 --> 00:09:20,20.002 Especially, you know, I do have sensual pretty high in my erotic blueprint and that, that blueprint is a lot about surrender and having, creating surroundings for myself that Allow me to surrender like I feel safe enough that I can just surrender and that's a key element for you is Trusting that you can surrender that you will be supported when you rest And you're not in the flow to trust that when the timing is right You will be in the flow and you will get done what you need to get done Faster than anyone can probably even snap their fingers because it'll be in the flow And then you get to rest again. 77 00:09:20,20.002 --> 00:09:29,610.002 You don't have to constantly be pushing, pushing, pushing, which I understand by looking at your chart, because you have the will center, the ego center defined. 78 00:09:29,820.001 --> 00:09:36,440.002 You do have that ability to push through, to make things happen, to get things done, even if. 79 00:09:36,880.002 --> 00:09:42,510.002 You really don't want to, even if you're tired, even if you're exhausted, even if it doesn't feel right, you're able to do that. 80 00:09:42,620.002 --> 00:09:46,150.002 Plus you have it connected to your throat in the money channel. 81 00:09:46,360.002 --> 00:09:54,340.002 This is about resources is about bringing all of these out to life and is connected to your spleen.. 82 00:09:54,910.002 --> 00:10:05,400.002 And it's connected to your spleen, which your splenic manifestor, which means In the now, you know, in the now, in the moment, when the timing is right. 83 00:10:05,820.002 --> 00:10:08,770.002 But the minute that you question it, it's gone. 84 00:10:09,270.002 --> 00:10:12,510.002 It doesn't mean it'll never come back, but you've missed that moment. 85 00:10:12,790.002 --> 00:10:16,170.002 So it's truly about trusting surrendering. 86 00:10:16,755.002 --> 00:10:24,185.002 Letting yourself when you're tired or what, letting yourself go for the walk without judgment, because if you're going to go for that walk and you're going to judge yourself, Oh, I should be doing this. 87 00:10:24,185.002 --> 00:10:25,165.001 I need to be making money. 88 00:10:25,205.002 --> 00:10:26,165.002 I need to be doing this. 89 00:10:26,465.001 --> 00:10:28,85.002 Then you're truly not really resting. 90 00:10:29,755.002 --> 00:10:32,275.001 Surrendering to do that rest. 91 00:10:32,765.001 --> 00:10:45,575.002 And in the now moment, Taking that action when it shows up without questioning, without wondering how, without wondering if it's going to make sense without wondering if people are going to buy it, but just doing the process. 92 00:10:46,825.002 --> 00:10:55,435.002 So do you feel like you're able to do that now, or do you get caught up in the head? Oh, I can definitely get caught up in the head for sure. 93 00:10:55,775.002 --> 00:11:05,334.903 And especially with the defined will I call that my integrity center, because usually where that shows up in my life is when I've given somebody my word. 94 00:11:05,954.903 --> 00:11:40,324.903 They're gonna have something for me by a certain time, or they're gonna, even if I'm, you know, bone tired, that's what kicks in because, oh, you know what, I said that I was gonna have this to somebody, but by such and such date, or that I was gonna be there for somebody, even though I might not feel like it in the moment, and my spleen is maybe telling me, hey, yeah, yeah, I might need to take it easy today, like, So what if you actually said, I, In the now, it feels like a yes. 95 00:11:41,444.903 --> 00:11:43,384.903 In the now, but... 96 00:11:44,644.903 --> 00:11:45,844.903 Let me get back to you. 97 00:11:47,264.903 --> 00:11:53,144.903 That way you're honoring yourself when you're not pushing through with the will all the time, because it is important for you to have the integrity. 98 00:11:53,144.903 --> 00:11:54,254.903 You have integrity. 99 00:11:54,514.903 --> 00:11:56,624.903 You have the 26 in your Saturn. 100 00:11:57,4.903 --> 00:11:58,764.902 So 26 is your lesson. 101 00:11:58,774.903 --> 00:12:08,124.803 It's learning to deal with this integrity and how you can be an integrity, because as soon as you're not an integrity, then you start. 102 00:12:08,364.903 --> 00:12:09,654.903 getting upset with yourself. 103 00:12:09,654.903 --> 00:12:19,594.903 And then it's that spiral, right? Mm-Hmm, So how can you set it up in a way that you can let them know, Hey, in the now, right now I feel like a yes, but you know what? That's in two weeks. 104 00:12:19,984.903 --> 00:12:22,144.903 I truly don't know how I'm gonna feel. 105 00:12:22,434.903 --> 00:12:23,364.903 I will let you know. 106 00:12:24,714.903 --> 00:12:28,64.903 What if you were to do that? That feels really, really good actually. 107 00:12:28,484.903 --> 00:12:30,194.903 See, this is all new information for me. 108 00:12:31,294.903 --> 00:12:31,984.903 this is awesome. 109 00:12:32,944.903 --> 00:12:34,204.903 I've never been the manifester. 110 00:12:34,264.903 --> 00:12:35,674.903 You're so powerful. 111 00:12:35,824.903 --> 00:12:38,194.903 You truly are the manifester. 112 00:12:38,559.903 --> 00:12:45,39.903 And you have so much initiation in your chart, first of all, the manifesto is initiation. 113 00:12:45,69.903 --> 00:12:49,119.903 It's starting things, not always being able to follow through and finish. 114 00:12:49,119.903 --> 00:12:51,349.903 So you need to have people to support you. 115 00:12:51,619.902 --> 00:12:54,199.903 You need to have people in your business to do your social media. 116 00:12:54,199.903 --> 00:12:55,19.903 You need to have people. 117 00:12:55,19.903 --> 00:13:02,259.903 And I know in the beginning you can't do that in certain aspects, but eventually you do need that because then you can just show up in your brilliance. 118 00:13:03,44.903 --> 00:13:11,434.903 So you start things and you need to support to finish things because your ideas are brilliant and they may get lost if you're not able to finish them. 119 00:13:11,474.903 --> 00:13:12,734.903 So you need to have that support. 120 00:13:13,194.903 --> 00:13:17,204.902 Then you also have the 53 in your unconscious earth. 121 00:13:17,704.901 --> 00:13:21,594.902 The 53 is the gate of starting of starting things. 122 00:13:21,994.902 --> 00:13:23,734.902 So for you to be grounded. 123 00:13:24,54.902 --> 00:13:29,594.902 In who you are your energy of who you are, which is the 54 and the 21. 124 00:13:29,724.902 --> 00:13:31,714.902 This is the sun energies. 125 00:13:32,574.902 --> 00:13:33,744.902 For you to be. 126 00:13:34,74.903 --> 00:13:38,854.903 In the sun energy, which in human design, it's not what we do in life. 127 00:13:38,854.903 --> 00:13:39,604.903 It's who we be. 128 00:13:39,654.903 --> 00:13:58,64.903 For you, what your purpose is, is to be that surrendering to the process and your authority and having that inspiration and insight, that's who you're here to be, to be grounded in that you have to have the opportunity to let yourself start things. 129 00:13:58,644.903 --> 00:13:59,854.903 53 is starting. 130 00:14:00,384.903 --> 00:14:09,664.902 So if you don't let yourself start because you don't know if you're going to be able to follow through, you're not going to start things or you're going to start things and then it's not going to follow through and you're going to get upset with yourself. 131 00:14:09,944.903 --> 00:14:14,354.903 So setting it up in a place where you can start those things and be supported. 132 00:14:15,524.903 --> 00:14:23,819.903 And then you don't have the 48 in your conscious earth, which is The 48 is inadequacy in the lowest expression. 133 00:14:23,819.903 --> 00:14:29,699.902 It's having to prove yourself over and over, whether it's to yourself or to other people. 134 00:14:29,929.903 --> 00:14:33,889.903 I'm going to just be vulnerable here and open and transparent. 135 00:14:33,969.903 --> 00:14:35,889.904 I have the 48 in my conscious son. 136 00:14:36,799.903 --> 00:14:39,449.904 This inadequacy is my friend. 137 00:14:39,509.904 --> 00:14:41,789.904 It's something that I've definitely dealt with. 138 00:14:42,279.904 --> 00:14:45,349.904 I have always, always had to be on Dean's list. 139 00:14:45,839.904 --> 00:14:59,759.904 Always, always had to get all the certifications, prove to myself that I'm worth it, prove to myself that I know enough before I bring it out into the world, continue to learn, learn, learn, learn, learn until I'm better, until I'm fixed, until I know enough to bring it out into the world. 140 00:15:00,949.904 --> 00:15:03,279.903 You have a lot of certifications. 141 00:15:03,279.904 --> 00:15:04,929.903 You have a lot as well. 142 00:15:04,949.904 --> 00:15:06,909.904 And when I read that, I was like, 48. 143 00:15:08,699.904 --> 00:15:12,119.904 The beauty of the 48 is once you realize. 144 00:15:12,974.904 --> 00:15:16,934.904 That you already are this wisdom because in the highest expression, it's wisdom. 145 00:15:17,794.904 --> 00:15:20,364.904 You have all this wisdom from everything that you've already learned. 146 00:15:21,144.904 --> 00:15:25,514.904 You truly don't need to learn anymore unless you want to do it for yourself. 147 00:15:25,704.904 --> 00:15:30,534.904 You don't have to learn something new to bring to humanity or to support other people. 148 00:15:30,854.904 --> 00:15:33,74.904 If you want to do it for yourself, go for it. 149 00:15:33,75.004 --> 00:15:37,434.904 But if you want to do it because you feel like you need to know more, that's out of alignment. 150 00:15:38,824.904 --> 00:15:40,654.904 So for you, the 48. 151 00:15:41,259.904 --> 00:15:42,399.904 It's also in your earth. 152 00:15:42,719.904 --> 00:15:48,49.904 So it's trusting that you have the wisdom, starting things and trusting that you have the wisdom. 153 00:15:49,49.904 --> 00:15:53,899.903 What comes up when I say that anything at all, you can say, I don't believe in that or whatever you want to say. 154 00:15:54,339.904 --> 00:16:08,659.904 Yeah, no, I mean, I think when I first started getting cert, like when I first started specifically when I was learning Akashic records and emotional clearing, I felt like I needed those things in order to be able to serve people. 155 00:16:09,384.904 --> 00:16:28,554.903 I would say that it's moved a lot more in that direction of not necessarily feeling inadequate and like I need to have more, but there were, you know, there were courses and things on the table for me to teach and in order to be able to actually go out in the world and talk about erotic blueprints. 156 00:16:28,979.903 --> 00:16:35,889.903 I needed the erotic blueprint certification because that's intellectual property that's copyright or trademarked and protected. 157 00:16:36,799.903 --> 00:16:49,359.904 But I didn't feel like I needed that in order to be able to continue to serve people, I guess is what I'm saying, because I had done so much of the work for myself that I was just, then, then it was, I want to bring this work out. 158 00:16:49,679.904 --> 00:16:51,259.904 And the same thing with sacred money archetypes. 159 00:16:51,329.904 --> 00:16:53,659.904 It was, I had done this work for me. 160 00:16:54,889.904 --> 00:16:57,549.904 And saw how transformative and amazing it was for me. 161 00:16:57,579.904 --> 00:17:07,69.904 And then I wanted to cycle it back out, but again, it's registered trademarks stuff that I can't really go out there and talk about unless I had the certification. 162 00:17:08,49.903 --> 00:17:12,519.903 So it's definitely moved a lot more in that direction. 163 00:17:13,149.903 --> 00:17:16,679.9035 And, you know, to our points earlier, I can get in my head about it. 164 00:17:18,949.9035 --> 00:17:19,129.9035 Okay. 165 00:17:19,199.9035 --> 00:17:21,659.9035 We're we're all on a journey of where we're at. 166 00:17:21,659.9035 --> 00:17:24,999.9035 We're never going to be in a place where we're a hundred percent. 167 00:17:25,759.9035 --> 00:17:33,109.9035 In our highest expression, if anyone believes that you're going to be very disappointed because. 168 00:17:33,534.9035 --> 00:17:34,724.9035 We have triggers. 169 00:17:34,784.9035 --> 00:17:35,964.9035 We have bad days. 170 00:17:35,964.9035 --> 00:17:37,364.9035 We have days when we're stressed. 171 00:17:37,364.9035 --> 00:17:40,804.9035 We have days when we're tired and those are the days that things come up. 172 00:17:40,944.9035 --> 00:17:49,334.9035 It's how we move through them and how we embrace them and not, not create a belief about it being something wrong with us or I have to get out of this. 173 00:17:49,334.9035 --> 00:17:50,374.9025 I have to fix this. 174 00:17:50,384.9025 --> 00:17:52,244.9035 It's more so, Oh, I'm feeling this way. 175 00:17:52,534.9025 --> 00:17:58,14.9035 How can I support myself? And I know you talk about self love, self love coach and. 176 00:17:58,569.9035 --> 00:18:00,749.9035 Unstuck coach, right? Self love and unstuck. 177 00:18:00,749.9035 --> 00:18:09,989.9025 So how can I have the most self love for myself when I'm going through these moments and nothing's wrong with me? Absolutely. 178 00:18:11,369.9025 --> 00:18:21,799.9025 Are there any questions? Because I want to give you what you need as far as awareness, because I know you said that you have this, this feeling about being a manifester. 179 00:18:23,39.9025 --> 00:18:25,829.9025 Once you step fully into that manifestor power. 180 00:18:26,614.9025 --> 00:18:28,964.9025 And let yourself be supported in areas. 181 00:18:29,864.9025 --> 00:18:32,424.9025 I feel like you'll have a lot more fun. 182 00:18:33,264.9025 --> 00:18:33,614.9025 Totally. 183 00:18:33,734.9025 --> 00:18:34,844.9025 You'll have a lot more pleasure. 184 00:18:35,714.9025 --> 00:18:36,64.9025 Yeah. 185 00:18:36,764.9015 --> 00:18:44,234.9015 I think I heard a lot of what I needed to hear because a lot of also what I've heard from manifestors, like you have, it's so easy. 186 00:18:44,614.9015 --> 00:18:46,464.9015 You just have to initiate. 187 00:18:46,474.9015 --> 00:18:48,94.9015 You don't have to wait for an invitation. 188 00:18:48,94.9015 --> 00:18:49,334.9015 You don't have to wait to respond. 189 00:18:49,334.9015 --> 00:18:51,164.9015 You don't have to wait for a lunar cycle. 190 00:18:51,164.9015 --> 00:18:52,224.9015 You get to just go. 191 00:18:52,634.9015 --> 00:18:55,514.9015 I'm like, yeah, but also. 192 00:18:56,539.9015 --> 00:19:01,839.9015 If I'm not doing it, aligned with who I am, I literally have no go. 193 00:19:03,119.9015 --> 00:19:04,659.9015 There's no go for me to just go. 194 00:19:06,559.9015 --> 00:19:08,639.9005 I think that's the part that people don't understand. 195 00:19:08,639.9015 --> 00:19:10,109.9015 It's like, no, I don't. 196 00:19:10,439.9015 --> 00:19:17,19.9015 And I don't think any of the energy types have it, quote unquote, easy. 197 00:19:17,139.9015 --> 00:19:18,689.9005 I think we all have our challenges. 198 00:19:18,689.9005 --> 00:19:19,319.9005 We all have. 199 00:19:19,724.9015 --> 00:19:30,564.9015 You know, and the deeper that we dive into the charts, they kind of make themselves known like the lower expression versus the higher expression. 200 00:19:30,974.9015 --> 00:19:40,154.9015 I don't know what they're called in, in like human design, but the, like the city and gene keys, like the highest possible expression you could possibly be. 201 00:19:40,654.9015 --> 00:19:54,924.9015 The whole thing with initiating and starting things you also have a 51 in the North Node in your unconscious, which the 51 is what Ra had in his son, it's to shock, shock people and initiate change. 202 00:19:55,444.9005 --> 00:19:57,744.9015 You are here to truly do that. 203 00:19:57,794.9015 --> 00:19:59,994.9015 You have a lot of the starting. 204 00:20:00,699.9015 --> 00:20:08,89.9015 Initiating energy and with the spleen being your authority, it's like initiating energy in the now. 205 00:20:08,579.9015 --> 00:20:18,659.9015 So how can you truly trust that and not have an expectation of what it's going to look like? And I am here to shock people. 206 00:20:19,679.9015 --> 00:20:20,399.9015 Exactly. 207 00:20:20,479.9005 --> 00:20:25,469.9015 I would love to shock, shock them with how much pleasure I'm able to bring into my life. 208 00:20:26,249.9015 --> 00:20:29,89.9015 Because that's kind of, edgy for a lot of people. 209 00:20:30,239.9015 --> 00:20:36,539.9015 It's edgy and it's really, It's so used to, oh, life is so hard. 210 00:20:37,369.9015 --> 00:20:42,29.9015 There tends to be that when people are like, oh, life is so hard, there's a lot of commiserating. 211 00:20:42,69.9005 --> 00:20:43,499.901 Oh, my life is so hard too. 212 00:20:43,499.901 --> 00:20:46,619.9015 And then we can get into these little bubbles of, oh my gosh, it's so hard. 213 00:20:47,109.9015 --> 00:20:52,429.9015 So how shocking would it be to be like, no, actually my life is great. 214 00:20:53,224.9015 --> 00:20:54,894.9015 I'm experiencing so much pleasure. 215 00:20:55,424.9015 --> 00:20:56,554.9015 This is amazing. 216 00:20:57,34.9015 --> 00:21:01,154.9015 When I tell people, when they ask me how I am, and I'm like, I'm amazing. 217 00:21:01,814.9015 --> 00:21:03,494.9015 How are you? And they're like, fine. 218 00:21:04,94.9015 --> 00:21:10,224.9015 And then they don't believe me that I say, when I say I'm amazing, no, I'm telling you I'm amazing because I'm feeling really amazing. 219 00:21:12,214.9005 --> 00:21:14,494.9015 So it does kind of shock people, actually. 220 00:21:15,184.9015 --> 00:21:28,839.9015 And I guess my sort of interpretation of that more shock value and shock factor meant that I had to be I don't know, Lady Gaga in the, in the meat dress, you know, like, Oh, no, it does not have to show up that way. 221 00:21:29,499.9015 --> 00:21:32,849.9015 No, it can show up in what you speak about. 222 00:21:32,899.9015 --> 00:21:36,639.901 It can show up in how you work with your clients. 223 00:21:36,639.901 --> 00:21:39,569.9015 It can show up your relate and how you be in relationships. 224 00:21:39,969.9015 --> 00:21:42,659.9015 Shock can be in any way. 225 00:21:42,699.9015 --> 00:21:45,629.9015 You have the G center defined. 226 00:21:46,149.9015 --> 00:21:52,769.9015 Would you say that you do have a, a good sense of who you are as a person? Oh, yeah. 227 00:21:53,339.9015 --> 00:21:53,969.9015 Absolutely. 228 00:21:54,579.9015 --> 00:22:02,549.9015 So, just being you, that's all that you are here to truly do, is to be you. 229 00:22:03,29.9005 --> 00:22:05,49.9015 In the right timing, shock people. 230 00:22:05,419.9015 --> 00:22:07,539.9005 In the right timing, surrender. 231 00:22:07,909.9015 --> 00:22:11,599.9015 In the right timing, initiate people, initiate things. 232 00:22:12,369.9015 --> 00:22:18,149.9015 And then life will be so much easier and so much more pleasurable for you because it will just be in the flow. 233 00:22:18,379.9015 --> 00:22:19,779.9015 There won't be any planned. 234 00:22:19,799.9015 --> 00:22:30,779.9015 It's not like you'll have to do scheduling for the post and do all that stuff, which probably makes you feel really restrictive, but it's more so flow and fun and pleasure. 235 00:22:30,789.9015 --> 00:22:32,939.9015 And that's why you do what you do with pleasure. 236 00:22:35,359.9015 --> 00:22:38,619.9015 Cause you know, innately that's you. 237 00:22:40,229.9015 --> 00:22:45,519.9005 So how can you, and I'm just going to say this, I don't care what everyone else is doing. 238 00:22:45,619.9015 --> 00:22:47,379.9015 That's why I call this provoking prosperity. 239 00:22:47,439.9015 --> 00:22:56,209.9025 I don't care if people working nine to five, I don't care if people say I remember I went to go visit my father and the first thing that he said about my cousin is like, Oh, she's a good girl. 240 00:22:56,209.9025 --> 00:22:57,189.9025 She works so hard. 241 00:22:57,189.9025 --> 00:22:58,269.9025 I'm like, well, that sucks. 242 00:22:59,269.9025 --> 00:23:04,799.9025 You know, I, I don't want to be a good girl then because that would, that sounds awful. 243 00:23:07,269.9025 --> 00:23:07,449.9025 Yeah. 244 00:23:07,449.9025 --> 00:23:27,679.9025 So it's like, let's shift what society tells us is successful, normal, what we should be doing, because that is why most of society is not happy is because they are living by expectations of someone else that told us we should be doing something. 245 00:23:28,199.9025 --> 00:23:33,54.9025 And we're the ones That we can say, well, that's not for me. 246 00:23:33,74.9025 --> 00:23:33,634.9025 Good for you. 247 00:23:33,674.9025 --> 00:23:40,404.9025 If you're happy, I'm happy, so let go of what everyone else says your business should look like. 248 00:23:40,404.9025 --> 00:23:45,124.9015 And as soon as you do that, that's when you start receiving clients. 249 00:23:45,899.9025 --> 00:23:49,769.9025 That's when you start receiving those things because you're not trying to fit yourself in a box. 250 00:23:50,349.9025 --> 00:23:51,429.9025 It's not you. 251 00:23:52,99.9025 --> 00:24:07,119.9015 So how are you going to be receiving when you're not even being your authentic self? I think step number one is to stop trying to please the social media algorithms by posting, as often as they say that, you're supposed to post every single day. 252 00:24:07,359.9015 --> 00:24:12,309.9015 Instagram prefers more frequency, so multiple times a day for that platform. 253 00:24:12,329.9015 --> 00:24:14,609.9015 TikTok also prefers more frequency. 254 00:24:14,609.9015 --> 00:24:34,419.9015 But then how do you have time to do anything else? If you're posting three times or four times or five times a day on Instagram and TikTok, it's like, how do you have time to do anything else? Have you gone into your chart at all as far as the The astrology aspects and where the gates are in your astrology. 255 00:24:35,579.9015 --> 00:24:38,279.9015 Okay, because there's other layers to that. 256 00:24:38,499.9015 --> 00:24:41,889.9025 The reason I'm bringing that up is because I felt the same way with social media. 257 00:24:42,709.9015 --> 00:24:47,329.9025 I had this real resistance and I didn't enjoy it at all. 258 00:24:47,699.9015 --> 00:24:49,269.9005 And finally, I just let it go. 259 00:24:49,269.9005 --> 00:24:58,399.8995 Like I posted whenever and I, I truly realized that I connect with people more on a one on one basis in events. 260 00:24:58,974.9015 --> 00:25:05,34.9015 And then once in a while when I feel like the timing is right and I want to post, then I post. 261 00:25:05,874.9015 --> 00:25:11,964.9015 Because I have the other avenues as far as how I get to meet people and connect with people. 262 00:25:12,254.9015 --> 00:25:26,664.9015 So depending on like what's in your 11th house, cause 11th house is like community there's different aspects that you can look into that can help support you in knowing which is the best, right way to connect with people. 263 00:25:26,844.9025 --> 00:25:28,354.9025 It might not even be social media. 264 00:25:28,364.9025 --> 00:25:35,624.9025 I know people on social media, they put something on it and they sell everything like within an hour and it's like, how do you do that? I go. 265 00:25:35,974.9025 --> 00:25:37,554.9025 And connect with people in person. 266 00:25:37,554.9025 --> 00:25:38,514.9025 I do retreats. 267 00:25:38,864.9025 --> 00:25:41,694.9025 And then we build like this relationship. 268 00:25:41,984.9025 --> 00:25:48,824.9015 And I've noticed for me, relationship is very important where they don't have a relationship with these people. 269 00:25:48,914.9025 --> 00:25:50,84.9025 They don't even know who they are. 270 00:25:50,634.9015 --> 00:25:51,654.9015 There's no connection. 271 00:25:51,974.9025 --> 00:25:53,584.9015 But with me, there's like connection. 272 00:25:54,104.9025 --> 00:26:01,529.9025 So does connection feel, important for you within your, working with someone like the intimate connection? Oh, absolutely. 273 00:26:01,769.9025 --> 00:26:02,759.9025 Absolutely. 274 00:26:02,759.9025 --> 00:26:18,589.9015 I feel like connection, true connection with someone who's completely in non judgment, that's the safest space that we can offer our clients is actually that connective piece. 275 00:26:19,59.9025 --> 00:26:20,919.9025 So 100 percent I am with you there. 276 00:26:21,529.9015 --> 00:26:21,869.9015 Yeah. 277 00:26:22,199.9015 --> 00:26:24,169.9025 So maybe it's not about social posting. 278 00:26:24,779.9025 --> 00:26:34,859.9025 I remember when I first started, I would make it a priority to go and meet someone and have a coffee date or yoga class or something while I was out and about and talking to people every week. 279 00:26:35,139.9025 --> 00:26:39,769.9025 That's how I would connect rather than social and then I would do social once in a while, but it wasn't my. 280 00:26:40,259.9025 --> 00:26:46,549.9025 My end all because there was resistance and I got angry because of my typos and all that stuff. 281 00:26:46,649.9025 --> 00:26:54,579.9025 Yeah, I mean, and I do enjoy creating content, but there does come a point where it's like, oh my gosh, when I feel like that's all that I'm doing. 282 00:26:54,929.9015 --> 00:27:03,939.8015 When I feel confined by having to do it a certain way, then it's like, I don't want to do it anymore. 283 00:27:03,939.9015 --> 00:27:05,249.9015 And that means that. 284 00:27:06,379.9015 --> 00:27:33,89.8025 With human design, that's what we always say, if it is not lighting you up, regardless of what type you are, if it is hard and there's resistance, you don't really want it, it's not more so like, yeah, sometimes it's a learning curve, right, but you still kind of enjoy it, but if it is like, this is not lighting me up, I am not having fun, there's, it makes me angry, then it's not for you, at least in that moment, maybe later on, you know, Yeah. 285 00:27:33,639.9025 --> 00:27:42,709.9025 But right now, what lights you up? What would make you feel good? How do you want to connect with people right now? You gave me a lot to chew on. 286 00:27:42,719.9025 --> 00:27:48,429.9025 This is definitely a different set of information that I've ever been given in a chart reading. 287 00:27:48,819.9025 --> 00:27:51,29.9025 So and I think I heard what I needed to hear. 288 00:27:52,89.9025 --> 00:27:52,859.9025 Oh, good. 289 00:27:53,49.9025 --> 00:27:53,409.9025 Good. 290 00:27:54,209.9015 --> 00:27:54,599.9015 Yeah. 291 00:27:54,639.9025 --> 00:28:04,279.9025 You know, as a, Splenic in the now, when it feels good, initiating, starting things, not worrying about how they're going to finish and not to make a judgment about yourself. 292 00:28:04,459.9025 --> 00:28:08,429.9025 If you don't finish something that you've started, if you don't have that support. 293 00:28:08,859.9025 --> 00:28:14,959.9025 Asking people or letting people know, It feels good now, but I don't know how I feel in a week. 294 00:28:14,979.9025 --> 00:28:17,839.9015 Let me get back to you or let me get back to you a couple days before. 295 00:28:18,199.9015 --> 00:28:27,249.9025 Because you can push through, but then also you can get really burnt out and then angry almost like, Oh, I really don't want to do this, but I've made the commitment. 296 00:28:27,619.9025 --> 00:28:28,129.9025 Right. 297 00:28:28,789.9025 --> 00:28:40,259.9025 So giving yourself that permission and that space to be you and let people know, you know, I'm not going to make any commitments that no longer fulfill myself too. 298 00:28:40,469.9025 --> 00:28:47,729.9025 So I can say yes now, but later on, I'll get back with you really self love loving yourself first. 299 00:28:48,599.9025 --> 00:28:48,999.9025 Yep. 300 00:28:50,149.9025 --> 00:28:51,859.9025 Well, thank you, Mallory, for being here. 301 00:28:51,859.9025 --> 00:28:55,19.9025 Thank you for letting me go into your chart just a little bit. 302 00:28:55,29.9025 --> 00:28:56,39.9025 I appreciate you. 303 00:28:56,489.9025 --> 00:28:58,989.9015 And everything will be in the show notes. 304 00:28:59,899.9015 --> 00:29:10,779.9005 My hope is that you walked away with something today that has opened your mind, your heart, or both listening to new perspectives, not only help you grow and expand, but it helps humanity as a whole. 305 00:29:11,229.9015 --> 00:29:16,309.9015 So if you have someone that you feel would benefit from this podcast and you feel that you want to share. 306 00:29:16,639.9015 --> 00:29:17,409.9015 Please do. 307 00:29:17,769.9015 --> 00:29:20,579.9015 Also would love to connect with you on Instagram. 308 00:29:20,709.9015 --> 00:29:23,49.9015 So please follow me at Miranda J. 309 00:29:23,49.9015 --> 00:29:23,499.9015 Mitchell. 310 00:29:23,919.9015 --> 00:29:31,209.9015 One last thing, if this episode left you with any ahas and insights, take 30 seconds of your time and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. 311 00:29:31,849.9015 --> 00:29:35,439.9015 This is the only way I know you are loving the content and connection in this space. 312 00:29:36,629.9015 --> 00:29:42,529.9015 And if you want to know more or wondering how we can work together, please go to Miranda Mitchell. 313 00:29:42,769.9015 --> 00:29:43,159.9015 com. 314 00:29:43,419.9015 --> 00:29:45,639.9015 Click on the contact in the menu and send me a message. 315 00:29:46,354.9015 --> 00:29:47,344.9015 Sending you all love. 316 00:29:47,624.9015 --> 00:29:48,334.9015 Till next time.